Amen

AMEN! I just want to encourage you Alwyn, I see you sitting with several children running around in front of you...the sense is that they are yours and you are very happy. So God bless you with a lovely wife and children ! 🥰

Amen.

AMEN!

Amen 🙏♥️ totally agree with you 💯% that's why I'm single your so cute in the inside out God is everything God bless you and thank you for your message 🤗

This is so encouraging. I'm praying for a man who also serves my God and who prays with me.

Beautiful 🥹 🙏🏾

Thank you for this encouragement much needed 🙏 God is good.

That's awesome. I pray for that. Congrats

That is amazing @lulumay506! I love hearing this and it's such a testament to when done correctly what a genuine, loving relationship can be. Thank you for bringing me hope knowing that God has someone special just for me and His timing is always perfect. May God give you another forty two years of blessings together!

I have a similar story . He's been a Father, Brother and Husband.

@deborahdicembre9579 there is nothing in the Bible says we should refer to God as our spouse, they are two totally different things. Father, savior, lord, yes. I understand what you are saying though

We are literally Gods bride. We are the church, and the Church is His bride. In the new world, we all marry Him. Considering God our spouse is fine. It's obviously not in a sexual way. God was the one who has been helping her raise her child..

Praise God 🙏🏾 that's wonderful

Me too ❤

I've been in celibacy since I was born 😅🤣🤣🤣 But I'm happy for your beautiful testimony 🥰💗

8 years. That a while. Still growing.

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Same here. Saved 3 times from abusive men. I only have 1 goal now. To know Him deeply ❤

Amen! God bless you!

This message came on time I have felt isolated and lonely and I needed this. The Lord bless you.

@@reneemartin7167 Thank you Renee. God is always with you. I like reading for example Isaiah 43:1-4 and psalm 23. It’s like getting a hug from Jesus. May God bless you.✝️😊🦋🌺🙏

You need healing.

Broken but not defeated God has been good. With God in the vessel you can smile at the storm. Im learning to love all over,love God then your self. Lets do this my Brothers and sisterŕ.❤

Mathew 6:33. Be married 1st to God Always = 1st Praise!!!!

Keep on trusting in the Lord. He’ll do it for you.

While my friends and classmates were praying for a handsome and rich husband, all I ever asked God was a husband that we would serve God together. I thank God for answering my prayers. Best prayer request ever.

May God grant you the desires of your heart in accordance to His will.

Admittedly when I first started reading, I thought you were a woman. Once I realized you were a man it was very refreshing to here a man speak like this. GOD BLESS.

Im the same but 17 years old

Not for everyone.

Everything is a phase there will a time when you’re single and you’ll love it.

It’s hard but to think that God is keeping you away from others toxicity is a blessing in disguise.

It's not a gift. But sometimes it's better than a toxic relationship

@@joshlight6892 I agree although i never been in a relationship toxic friendships did give me some insight to bad relationships.

That is amazing brother! Stay strong and continue to live holy!

That's great. We have something in common. I just so happened upon this video and your comment. Are you a man? I am also a believer like you and I am a woman. Don't know if we will like each other but if you are a man and wish to chat, let me know.

@vanessamanroop710 Thank you, beautiful family, but I take no credit whatsoever. All glory be to The Almighty Ancient of Days who sits on The Throne for all Eternity, JESUS CHRIST!!! I couldn't do it without Him. He is my Rock. Our race is quickly coming to a close on this Earth. No matter your circumstance, keep your eyes on Him, and you will make it through the fire. Do it for Him! ✊️✊️❤️❤️🔥🔥🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏😇

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My son is 39 and very lonely as well. He's had girl friends but nobody "real". He prays and loves Jesus but gets down.

I'm over 40 and single, celibacy mode is the best, I'd happily go another 40 years, even 60 years.@@rcjdeanna5282

As a 27 year old man I can tell you now that's damn near impossible to find nowadays. Real traditional feminie women all disapeared in the previous generation. These modern women are frankly repulsive, no feminity left in them. You'd be very hard pressed to find a woman that hasn't slept around with at least 20+ men these days, not many of us men want to deal with all the trauma and baggage that comes with that and all the godly women get married young so a lot of men are resigning to solitude, not out of choice though. Many had dreams of a family and kids but these modern woman are just nightmares, not fit for raising kids at all at all (not through fault of their own a lot of the time, just how the cards were dealt).

I pray for my single 50 year old son who loves Jesus and is so lonely because he does not have a wife or any children. He so wants this but I have told him Jesus is aligning things and preparing these desires of his heart in God's own timing. I join in prayer with all of you who are praying to find a spouse that God hears you and is preparing and refining you like gold for that Godly person to come into your life! AMEN🙏

There are so many beautiful godly Christian women who are still single in their 30ies and beyond, longing for a husband and children. Me and many of my friends included. Is your son connected to the Christian singles groups like Heart of Dating podcast community on Facebook?

Amen. May God be praised! I am praying the same for myself

Bless you for this message, how did you start seeing men as only brothers in Christ, I need guidance for that.

Thank you for sharing. I never thought of praying to decrease desire. I will definitely do this as well. Thank you for that nugget of gold.

Amen! This was certainly for me. I’ve only recently brought Jesus into my life and I know that it’s my time I focus on him and my relationship with him. And I know he will give me a wife and a family at the right time because he knows my heart. I already know that I’m not ready for a family yet and I don’t have the desire for someone in my life right now besides Christ Jesus! Amen brother thank you! I accept this prayer!

Lol. Jesus. Women are ridiculous.

Amen 🙏 amen 🙏 amen 🙏!!! God does hear us when we pray! Blessed be the name of the Lord! Thank you for sharing Faith!

Your story sounds exactly like mine...

😢😢so beautiful

Just a few questions, is your ex a Christian. Has she remarried? If she is a Christian and hasn't remarried, you would be obligated to reconcile with her. Unless she left you, in that case she would be essentially a non-believer. When a Christian is abandoned by their spouse, they become unbound. But a Christian can't abandon their spouse unless it is due to infidelity, that includes non-believer spouses. I would say spousal abuse probably falls under the same justification, though it isn't specifically named in the bible. To repent of sin is not simply to ask for forgiveness. But to turn away from it. So for a Christian to repent, they must follow the guidelines in 1 Corinthians 7. That means returning to the spouse if they are the one that left and no infidelity happened.

AMEN! I just posted my thoughts and there are line with your post. I turned 50 and the expectations , as far as dating.. At this age getting married to "have children" is most likely not a reason to get married. And, the FACT that I'm not going to engage in a "sensual/sexual" relationship.. It's a tough age to be a single, God fearing, obedient Christian. I am grateful we have the Love of God the Father, Jesus and The Holy Spirit to REALLY LOVE US (with a PURE LOVE) and who will ALWAYS be there for US, CARE for us, HEAL us and PROTECT us. Stay blessed and peace be with you! ❤

MINE TOO! Stay blessed and peace be with you! @@shannoncook9915 ❤

God will use you to impact your husband's relationship with God. Just remain humble in the Lord and make the Holy spirit your friend. Amen

Prayed

Have him read “More than a Carpenter”. I’m Praying the Holy Spirit will intercede 🙏. God bless you.

I come into agreement with you You'll be a living testimony of Jesus'Love in his life Also, remember, you two are one flesh, so you can claim him back to the Lord (I hope it makes sense coz I'm a French speaking native) Blessings ❤

Prayer for your husband to be encouraged by the Holy Spirit.

Wow. You better be getting prepared. Get your “house” in order. And your mind, body, spirit and soul!

Amazing ❤

Never say never! Every time I say never, that thing ends up happening🤭It could very well happen for you one day! God loves to surprise his children!😊

Me too! I’m 71, never married, until my soul married Jesus. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

I’m widowed 33 yrs ago 8/31 I’m 58

I’m 64 and nobody compares to our Lord. He’s absolutely the best husband. No one comes close

Yes Amen!!

Jesus christ is your bridegroom. In the end, our Bridegroom is coming to his bride. I’m in 20’s but I have never had any relationship with man. Because I don’t want to be distracted. So I have rejected all men coming to me intentionally. He is faithful. Giving or not, his will be done for you anyway. I am from south Korea, sorry for my poor English. 😃😋

Me too...blessing the Lord n more!

Amen

For me 10 years.

20 years 🥺

Same

Have u met your husband?

Thank you for sharing! So encouraging to read testimonies of Christian brothers and sisters who are facing similar things!

Thank you for sharing! I am in isolation as well. It's the second season for me, but this time around much more has been removed.

Same, isolation period…

@@JavierS83 hang in there Wolf. 🐺 You shall endure. Let's encourage each other in Christ

What a beautiful testimony! What can feel like rejection can be a God’s protection. Many blessings on you!

@@valeriemott3120 so true! It’s amazing what you can see when you don’t feel sorry for yourself or sulk and just trust God. Many blessings to you as well!

Praise God and thank you for that testimony

Praise be to God. It's not always comfortable but better in the long run. I wish I had listened to God earlier in my life. May you be blessed, in God's time.

Your story could be interpreted as sad, however, I see something extremely beautiful in it. There can be no greater love than to fall in love with Jesus. This biological love we experience on earth will not carry over to heaven. Jesus will fulfill every need and desire beyond expectation. I’m saddened that you are paralyzed, but glad God used it to bring you to him. May God richly bless you with a relationship that far exceeds anything you could’ve imagined.

Yes, but God still expects us to take action. Putting our faith in Him, serving Him and being thankful for everything is wonderful, but it isn't typically going to have a spouse land on your lap if you sit idly by not engaging with the opposite gender at all. Think of work. I do believe God helps us with employment, but it isn't like God sends an employer to your door begging you to be hired. No, we still have to apply to the job, have an interview, do well in the interview, and not to mention prepping a resume for the application and proper grooming/clothing for the interview itself. If a man sits on his butt, albeit with absolute faith and love for God, and does not even initiate a conversation with a single woman, then even if God wanted that man to marry, the choice is still with the man to make it happen at the end of the day and take the opportunity God provided. For a woman, sitting with a blank stare on your face when a guy smiles at you is essentially a sign for men to stay away (this is very common for believers for some reason); so while the woman may not be the one to do most of the initiating, she can still make herself approachable and give very basic signals that she is interested in talking. Anyway, maybe I am nitpicking this a bit, but I see many people saying stuff like this and a lot of the time they seem to forget that God provides opportunities for the most part. It is up to us to discern what they might be through study and prayer, and then also make the decision to take them or not.

Aint that truth for males in 2023. Redpill yourself man. Dont trust in church or these people alone to tell you the truth in relationships nowadays.

Same reason. ❤

Jesus made Eve from Adam because he knew it wasn't good for us to be alone. He understands our hearts, and he bares our pains with us. God Bless you.

Amen

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@@edwardscissorhands6761 So its not good being alone per God, God created marrige, but God bear loliness with us. Seems not much sense? I understand, that character is built, but why not leave us single whole life for good character?

@@alexeyzhvalevskij7003 so you can be fruitful and multiply. Also because he doesnt want you to suffer out of season for suffering. Theres very few called to living a life of singleness.

Same. 🙏 so cool. He really hears us and really answers. He will guide us sister, let us never doubt Him

That exactly where I am too.🙏🏻

The same here. I’m 31 now and most of my relationships were with narcissists. The desire to be married has always been in my heart. Recently I started getting close with God in a way I never had before. He revealed to me why I haven’t been married yet, is because I didn’t pray to him and ask him about my spouse. He has given me dreams and visions for a years now of my husband, and every-time I see someone that looks like him, my heart gets this feeling that I came explain. I was writing a letter to God a few nights ago about marriage and the words flowed about my future husband. Not only want I want in a husband but what God has revealed to me who he is and how he would be. I then asked him give me a sign. I was listening to soft piano music and the next song on the list, the artist looked similar to the one he revealed to me would be my husband. The song after that, same thing. Now I feel God is preparing me. I’m trying to improve things that I didn’t before seeking God for marriage and for evening my life. Before I started to really pray, fast, and read His word. I feel content and happier, like a weight has been lifted off. I feel the healthiest I’ve ever been spiritually and mentally. I sing songs to God and worship him and I feel so happy to do so. When we belong to God and we don’t seek him when it comes to our lives, the enemy will send someone that is the opposite of what God wants for His children. The enemy will send a narcissist because we tried to lead by our own ways. We are not like those of the world and will never be happy with them. God wants us to be with someone that belongs to Him as well. We are not of the world, neither would our spouse be of the world.

True and all will change but it takes courage sometimes we give up too quickly

Hallelujah, sister! I was with the wrong man because I entered into it without consulting the Lord, and continued in that relationship without taking my directions from the Lord! A year and a half ago I was engaged to that man but broke it off because I knew I needed to listen and obey the Holy Spirit and the Spirit was instructing me that this relationship was not right! I broke up with that boy and never looked back or regretted the decision! God brought another man into my life this summer who I thought was perfect for me, but God has now taken him away. I do not know if God took him away forever or only for a season. But I know that God has a perfect match chosen for me. In the right timing God will send that man after me to pursue me and love me in Jesus name. For now, I am growing in the Lord and seeking Him as my first love!! Praise be to God that He helps us grow and He draws us into deeper love with Him! We can surely trust Him!!! We wait on the Lord!

The Lord will send him someone, I'm sure of it!! I pray he is able to leave this in God's hands.

Amenn that’s great🙌🏽

Amen and Amen 🙏 🙌 👏 ❤️ ♥️

Exactly, I'm over being single but I don't want anything to get in the way as there is no time left to play games. It's his plan or nothing 👍

Me too will be 40 in 2 years

So true sister, stay strong in Him

Wow I Read and posted that scripture this week, GOD'S Word is True and Very much Alive..Thx you bro in christ, GOD Bless Everyone Here Also😊

10 plus, so income with Jesus now more than ever

Same. 60 and 1 of 8. It took me a long time, over a decade ago now, to just trust in His plan and timing for my life. I have long enjoyed that scripture in Song of Solomon. It speaks to me.

Amen 🎉

I hear you, me 49, same. God bless you

Yep and you know what I’m glad I didn’t marry them. People who are of the world get married easier and fast. They don’t belong to God and when you are in relationship with tares, the abuse use, leave you, but never abuse the next person after and before you. In fact they end up married and with kids. Then Satan would try to make you feel like you’re the problem or something is wrong with you. The fact is we who truly belong to Him, to God, are few. And once we start to allow God to be apart of our lives, to lead and guide, and not live in our ways is when he would prepare us for a spouse that’s apart of His church. God, our heavenly Abba, will not allow us to marry someone that he doesn’t approve of. And if we do it’ll be an unhappy and abusive marriage. Until we trust and have a strong relationship with him, is when all these things and desires of our heart will be received. Amen

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Lol. Amen!!!

Perfect, God is pleased, you are unique in a world full of confusion and lust, your story will be one of beauty and holiness and righteousness, He will send you someone so special ❤

@@IgivemylifetoChrist ❤thank you

You can't be single as a baby and child. Children dont take part in romantic relationships. You've been single for a few years if you're only 19.

Prevent Fornication it remains a sin. Ou are still young make right decision who you marry. Sex is only for marriage. Holy

wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do I reach her?.

Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked her up now online. impressive

@jaypritchett3414Jesus is the only one healer

@jaypritchett3414 you are misleading a child of God

Witchcraft is never the answer

Amen. Exactly!

Sometimes the loneliness truly makes us sad but we have the confidence in Christ that He is with us and He will never forsake us. Anytime you feel sad, kindly listen to some spiritual gospel song to lift up your spirit. You are loved. Stay blessed 🙏

AMEN!!!!

Love this ❤ thanks for sharing

Same with me.

So encouraging to hear of your faith and trust in the Lord in this season, my sister. 🙏❤️ I am so sorry for your loss, and for the difficulties you have been through and are going through. I pray that the Lord provides rich Christian community around you, and sustains you and gives you peace. I pray He holds you in hope, love, tenderness, and grace. I pray you will be aware of His presence and His goodness. Press on, dear sister. 🙏 it will not be easy... But His yoke is easy and His burden is light because He just asks you to strap into the yoke with Him and learn to walk next to Him, but He carries the weight of it, while you just stick with Him. Cling to His promises. 🙏

I’m so sorry for your pain! I, too, recently lost the love of my life and I’m devastated trying to come to grips with the senselessness of all of it ❤