Don't lie,you came here to find out if you yourself are secretly insecure

6 Signs someone is secretly insecure: They're a people pleaser 1:09 They turn everything into a competition 1:33 They get defensive 2:06 They degrade themselves in front of others 2:39 They put other people down 3:13 They exaggerate events and brag about their accomplishments 3:47 Time to go make breakfast :D

You is kind, you is smart, you is important 💕✨💗

The dislikes r from insecure people who dont wanna be exposed

Fun fact: everyone is insecure

Things Insecure People Do That Slowly Destroy Their Lives They live in fear of judgement. Insecure people always worry about what other people are thinking. They avoid meeting new people. ... They don't believe they're good enough. ... They're not true to themselves. ... They live in a world with denial. ... They're doomed to fail. ... They don't trust others. ... They look for the worst.

"6 signs someone is secretly insecure" Me: finds out I have all the signs Also me: pretends I didn't just watch this

What's the difference between: a people pleaser and someone who just likes to help other people?

Before seeing the video imma say I'm hella insecure, let's see how much I relate

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This make me feel better when I’m sad...

Who else here doesn't like pizza? Comment below :3

Watching this vid because I know that I have insecurities😭

Even if that person is a doctor or lawyer, they can still feel insecure. It’s quite sad.

Joke of the day: Did you hear about the doofus who got a boomerang for his birthday? *he spent the next two days trying to throw the old one away..*

"you insecure, don't know what for...." Only legend will understand 😂

I just want to say that I love the fact that the animator represents an insecure person as a cactus. It does well to capture how defensive an insecure individual can be, and as one being insecure I hate to admit that I become defensive even in the littlest things. Overall, wonderful video as always

How to overcome these traits: 1. Avoid self-comparison because everyone is unique in their own way. 2. YOU are your only competition, be better than the best you have ever been. 3. Learn to accept criticisms healthily as a way to improve yourself because YOU CAN. 4. Love yourself just as who you are, if you love yourself 20% and somebody gives you 30% that's not even half. You need to love you 100% and the rest will carry on. 5. You won't get a brighter life by blowing other people's candles. LET'S NOT GOSSIP IT'S UNHEALTHY. 6. Strive for greatness but at the same time, be humble. "Keep your head held high, but your feet glued on the ground."

legit thats a good strategy you ask someone about something, they give you critisism, and then you simply answer with no no one can one up that one, just like how no one can deflect the emerald splash

This channel continously calls me out and I don't know if I like that.

I haven't watched the video yet, but I just want to say I'm grateful I found this channel 💙

An interesting list, I really think they point that people degrade themselves in front of others is one a lot of people miss and is an important telltale sign for many

My friend is kinda insecure sometimes, and she outs it with a higher, angry (?) tone in disbelief to cover it up! She laughs a lot too after that, then I know I have to check up on her :)

I've had my share of being friends with insecure people too and it's even caused me to be insecure. They judge people, pick on people, gossip and such. I noticed that insecure people check on their flaws and then project it on others. The cycle just continues. I'm more confident. I've stopped texting those friends. If you are struggling with confidence here are some tips! -don't obsess over the mirror -if you know you're insecure don't think that is going to help you in life to be hard on yourself. I know that I used to think so but really it was just ruining my mental health -stop watching negative videos. Some videos point of every wrong and right in others. They dive into drama and that isn't healthy for you. -gEt a liFe. No seriously. Find some hobbies. Get off your phone for a day. Enjoy the outside (in your backyard ig) just remember that you're the only one who is going to travel with you through life, so be kind to yourself. -refrain from using self-deprecation jokes. Instead joke how you're an absolute queen/king and how you're beauty makes your mirror obsessed with you LOL not in a narcissistic way but in a joking manner -look on the bright side of life -allow yourself to cry. You will feel better after. Have a good day everyone! 💕🌿💙

Me who is secretly insecure: *I'm being exposed*

To who ever reads this, I want you to know that no one is perfect and everyone is beautiful in their own way and that you matter, I wish you the best in life ❤️

This is genuinely the only channel that I am sorry i can't become a member for. Your quality is so good and your advice is amazing, and videos like 5 tips to improve your life are so helpful to me personally. I am honestly sorry that I can't be a member, and hopefully one day I'll be able to. Please keep making this amazing content, and if you're reading this, have a nice day!

For some reason, my subtitles decided to auto-generate in Vietnamese.

Now I can support my friends if some of my friends have it, thanks Psych2Go!

I hope I can improve myself! thanks for showing us these signs so we can grow 🥰

*6 Signs Someone is Secretly Insecure* Intro 0:27 They're a people pleaser 1:09 They turn everything into a competition 1:33 They get defensive 2:06 They degrade themselves in front of others 2:39 They put other people down 3:13 They exaggerate events and brag about their accomplishments 3:47 Outro 4:50 Hope this was helpful in some way! :)

hey psych2go, please make more videos about childhood abandonment issues, Love your content!

I came here to protect myself from insecure people♥️ they project their insecurities onto me and I need to protect myself.

First sign : High five

I would love to see a video explaining how to gain a healthier self image & higher self worth 🥰 this channel keeps me going

I like how the insecure person has a cactus growing out of their head

Please make videos about teenage mental health and stress management tips, it would be so helpful 💛 cause school has been giving me a hard time lately 😶

I already know I am insecure so-

Insecure people often use criticism of others as a way to feel better about themselves. See, people who are insecure consistently feel bad about themselves. And often, they don't know how to feel better in a healthy or productive way. So they often resort to criticizing others👍

I have become very aware of my insecurities, I don’t like to express them because I don’t want to bring others into my big little issues, it can be draining for others to listen to or understand or help. It can also lead others to feel sad, confused or insecure too. And it can take a long time for me to remember how to handle them securely. I think when you recognize that insecurity can lead to some of these behaviours that you actually don’t like, that’s a good thing. I know to never put others down because it’s not fair and it comes from a place in you that isn’t helpful. All you’re doing is deflecting and not healing yourself. I don’t know if I put myself down in front of others to get validation, it mostly just my way of expressing not feeling great atm. Since sometimes you really can’t hear people’s kindness. In the end if you catch yourself feeling like this just know that every insecurity has its own answer of relief.

Thanks for this.........this is too helpful

Me reading the title *secretely insecure* Also me: laughing in anxiety, pls, secretely insecure? I'm public insecure

1 and 3 was me. Sometimes being nice gets to the point where others start to use your good nature against you.

Very enlightening. Now I understand instead of getting annoyed. 😊

I can’t believe that you guys follow Nux Taku! That is so awesome!

I already know I am super insecure. Just came here to hear Amanda's voice

The new art looks so cute And thanks for the information

You know you came early when there is no English subtitles😅

This video came at a perfect time, so concise and spot on. Love Psych2Go!!! ❤️

I always thought I was insecure but I guess I never knew what it really meant because I don't have one of those traits !! However, I do absolutely love this program - it's very useful. 😀😀❤❤ I'm glad I subscribed.

They may not always get angry when you give constructive criticism. They'll dismiss it entirely. My sister was writing a book and had me reading over it as her editor, since I've put a lot of study into story writing, I thought I'd be able to give her some pretty good tips. Anything I'd suggest that she rework she'd always say, "that's exactly what it is, see, I did it just fine" when it didn't convey it right or "yeah, that happens later in the story" when it needed to happen earlier. Once I told her that her plot needed some revising and she said, "oh, I already worked it out completely."even though it still needed revising. I just kinda stopped because she was refusing to listen, and it was pointless to reason with her.

Relatable at #1. Still relate to 3 and 4. The rest describe my childhood self which didn't survive my depression. Oddly enough, I think I'd still choose the depression because it burned away enough that I could start healing the rest.

i don't think my insecurities are a secret to anyone...

I encountered some of them, and I understand, but sometimes it's really annoying. I remember she tell me I look ugly wearing cap lol, but still I accept and Love her because she's my sis hehe, praying that she overcome it, and those people around her . Love YOU sis !

I don't know what to say.

Well, i don't know about anyone else but i am insecure 😑 I am more of a introvert and insecure

Omg i can literally imagine the person who has all these , gosh there's nothing wrong with feeling insecure but acting like this can just make someone hate you yk 😑😑

thank you for everything

i used to be like this. but thankfully i grew out of that toxic space and decided i should be more contented with who i am :”)

Thank you for this🥺🥺

I believe battling and curing insecurities is one of the hardest things to do and one of the easiest thing to get. This might be controversial but i think its harder to get rid of insecurity than depression. In my experience, you can find people to support you through depression but if you're insecure people will only attack those insecurities or they will avoid you or cut you out. I'll tell you why. As you said, if you're opej about your insecurities it could easily be misinterpreted as attention seeking. If you're not vocal, it may come out as toxic behaviour. People also have very negative reputation when it comes to insecurity. Insecurity is a battle you have to win alone.

I’m very insecure but I never believe in putting someone down or attempt to one up in conversation. If anything I prefer to be invisible and can’t understand why people would want to talk to me.

definitely me :)

Thanks to your fluent English pronunciation and different words, I improve my English and learn new things.

Its one thing to have a insecure moment… Its another thing to be permanently insecure

There is one more insecurity I noticed 'cause of my friend. I noticed that my friend, althought she doesn't like crowds and is not going to big events often and don't have that many friends and is shy... when she is in a new situation with people she doesn't know then she gets a "feature" and then she is like cheerful, chipper and "full of beans" and jabbers a lot, even in a conversation she has no traffic with it and no idea about it and even says some things where I'm like "omg, no" in my head when she suddendly exaggerates with conjectures, prejudgments and other things, which aren't that necessary. So this was one situation back in the last year. But I noticed it generally at her that she can be really extremly communicative with people she doesn't know, even though she isn't that confident in front of new people. So really the opposite.

This is so me. I keep trying to improve but people shun me for being needy... none of my associates even try to understand, they just laugh and tell me not to be needy and gloomy. No wonder i decided that 2021 was time for a fresh start where I cut out everyone who did that (meaning I’m now alone 😟. It’s just less painful but does mean I can start to rebuild without their negative drag). A lifetime of being “the nice one” while being abused and used all with no reward other than being allowed to be in their company.... it’s taken me a while but I now see what they are doing and have had enough.

I love the art style its like the one in the last video (which is my fave style) bit with no outlines

I know it's me

This was a great video. Subscribed!👍🏾❤️

Please bring up with the solutions of these mental problems. The way you bring these will help a lot💜💜

About degrading oneself in front of others. Instead of being attention seeking or elaborate defense mechanisms, an insecure person can simply be sharing how they feel about themselves.

me: *sees the title* *secretly checks self - esteem: hmmm, okay good👌

I'm not insecure I just know that I'm not perfect but I still love myself and no one is perfect anyways 💜💜

People known for being habitual liars or the fake it until you make it are the most inscure of them all.

My traits: Everything is a competition, I will degrade myself everytime. How do I solve this?

I have them all, except for the last 2 I'd think. I hate being mean to people, but if someone rubs me the wrong way I have a harder time being nice to them.

I’m not insecure secretly 😅 I can’t even imagine putting other people down that’s just awful I know how it feels so I’d never want anyone else to feel that way

Thanks so much for this. Narcissistic Listening is what I’ve endured from a few key people in my life. It’s great finally knowing that it actually has a NAME!!! Thanks Psych2Go!!!!

#7. When they get into arguments in forums or social media and they write down an entire term paper just to prove their point.

So I relate to all of these points... never thought it was insecurity, I always believed I just have a horrible personality

Out of all of these, the one and only sign that I show is degrading myself and I don't even do it because I seek other people's compliments. I shit on myself in the form of jokes simply because that's where my taste in humour lies. When you try to make jokes about other people there's always the chance that they're hurt by it rather than actually laughing at the joke which is understandable. So by making yourself the butt of the joke, not only are you getting humour out of it but there will never be the chance of hurting anyone else which is great.

I'm openly insecure. Yay... Atleast I'm assertive. People pleasing is too much harder than saying no.

Very eye-opening, thanks for the video!

At different days or weeks, the insecurity may cause them to repeat what was already said even as soon as yesterday. Or they might feel insecure and say their sentence again because they want you to thought process it

This is my birthday video. :3 Thanks to psych2to for being here and sharing all these useful informations about Psychologie. Keep up the your good work and thank you for doing what you're doing :)

I’m definitely insecure about some things but I clicked on this video because of a really toxic ex-friend. I had a feeling they were actually lashing out because of insecurity and now I think that’s the truth. I feel bad for them but I don’t think I could be friends again after what they put me through. It’s emotionally exhausting to deal with someone who exhibits all of the behaviors listed in this video. I just wish I could have helped them better, but they wouldn’t listen. I wish them the best.

Insecurity is a struggle that people either avoid dealing with or they ignore the fact that they even have and not only causing harm to their mental health but also to other people.

You will meet people like this in your life. Just listen and move on after the conversation.

1. they insult you

The only thing is that i consider myself a people pleaser. But I feel like my self esteem is better than I thought and I don't really show any of those signs

I used to be deeply insecure, but I had a very confident outer shell. It’s a horrible feeling- like you are a fraud. Confronting my flaws and strengths, and being radically honest with myself has helped so much.

You ever just not have an insecurity until someone points it out

This makes it easier to understand causes of other people's behaviour

Hello! Good to see you, yes you reading this comment! Thank you for existing, you are amazing even if you think you aren’t

Watching this video and thinking how much others might dislike me because I'm showing many signs of insecurity.. 😖

I thought I'm never insecure until I saw life is not fair. Right amount of hardwork is not equivalent to right amount of success. Like MONEY !!!

What’s worse is that they don’t come back and apologise for making you insecure because of their insecurities they just move on if they came back and apologised I wouldn’t have so much hatred over it and I’d have more sympathy but it’s not all insecure people who are like that I wonder if insecure people become secure then come back but i doubt it

I really would like to see a video called "10 Signs that you are a Macabre/Melancholic Person"

unrelated, but I can srsly listen to her voice all night 'til I fall asleep. it's so calming and soothing.