5 Signs You're NOT a Narcissist, Just Lonely

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If you clicked on this video, chances are you have questions about you being a narcissist. Do you think you’re too self-involved or are you too attached to the idea of receiving admiration? Sometimes, these are actually not an indicator of NPD, but rather a personal call for help.
To anyone feeling lonely right now, watch this video too: • To Anyone Feeling Lonely
Friendly disclaimer: This is a disclaimer that this video is for informative purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose or treat any condition. Please reach out to a qualified healthcare provider or mental health professional if you are struggling.
Writer: Mary Li Chamae G. Quiachon
Script Editor: Vanessa Tao
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Fluffy Starlaxy
KZfaq Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
Axner, M. (n.d.). Chapter 14. Core Functions in Leadership | Section 7. Building and Sustaining Relationships | Main Section | Community Tool Box. Community Tool Box. Retrieved August 30, 2021, from ctb.ku.edu/en/table-of-contents/leadership/leadership-functions/build-sustain-relationships/main
Caprino, K. (2021, May 26). 5 Clear Signs That You Have Childhood Wounds To Heal. LinkedIn. www.linkedin.com/pulse/5-clear-signs-you-have-childhood-wounds-heal-kathy-caprino/
Nimmo, K. (2020, October 5). 7 Signs You’re Not a Narcissist - On The Couch. Medium. medium.com/on-the-couch/7-signs-youre-not-a-narcissist-2845ea1311f7
Scott, E., MS. (2021, April 1). 9 Coping Mechanisms to Try If You’re Feeling Lonely. Verywell Mind. www.verywellmind.com/how-to-cope-with-loneliness-3144939

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@alyajewellery 2 жыл бұрын

When I exchange a greeting and smile with a stranger. I feel a surge of endorphins qnd wondered if that was narcissistic supply. Actually it’s intense loneliness that is momentarily satiated by connecting with strangers for a minute.

@anonymousangelgirl 2 жыл бұрын

I relate

@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын

This is beautifully said.

@iputtenshairintheclosetdon3536 2 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go ikr

@Anticaat 2 жыл бұрын

You perfectly described me..

@kpkp7777 2 жыл бұрын

wow, this is me :(

@franktalk2585 2 жыл бұрын

6. We realise it's time to thank the person who does all the time stamps. Seriously, they should be a celebrity.

@johnalexanderaylward 2 жыл бұрын

Ya, I love that they do that.

@Sento404 2 жыл бұрын

It’s just really nice and helpful

@FugIyDuck 2 жыл бұрын

never take them for granted

@estrellaphilippi30 2 жыл бұрын

Omg I thought you said shank instead of thank and I was so confused, but yeah we really should thank them

@nigrum338 2 жыл бұрын

wait. you guys have time stamps? 😅

@LeaMah 2 жыл бұрын

1- you try to educate yourself 2-you're open to personal growth 3-your past relationship ended well 4-your emotions are genuine 5-you don't feel like you're better than others

@StrawbearXD 2 жыл бұрын

Sounds absolutely nothing like someone I know. That just reinforces everything

@butthead_eats8297 2 жыл бұрын

My past relationship did not end well, yet I’m really glad I got out of it

@enog1200 2 жыл бұрын

Four out of five . My boundaries were constantly being pushed . I honestly believe I was being manipulated .

@PsilentMusicUK 2 жыл бұрын

I am all except for 3. Loneliness makes me depressed, but it also makes me angry and spiteful sometimes.

@SIMSIM-ck1dk 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah im fucking lonely

@Sondrox 2 жыл бұрын

1. You try to educate yourself. 0:34 2. You are open to personal growth. 1:10 3. Your past relationships ended well. 1:39 4. Your emotions are geninue. 2:27 5. You don't feel like you are better than others. 3:12

@quixotic_077 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for putting this together! :)

@VanillaBean15 2 жыл бұрын

Top comment

@phatpussytingz1595 2 жыл бұрын

I'm both😦

@TheChilipepper77 2 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go you know you can do this and put it in the description...

@ashtonarmstrong9778 2 жыл бұрын

I've been so scared that I was a Narcissist because both of my parent's are narcissist... this really helped clear my mind. Thank you

@reddsmoke904 2 жыл бұрын

Mines too. Especially when she said if your relationships ended well.

@cccosplay1448 2 жыл бұрын

Mine also forever second guessing but watching this videos makes more sense now.

@ashtonarmstrong9778 2 жыл бұрын

@@cccosplay1448 Great too know i'm not alone

@Lianna_Is_Me 2 жыл бұрын

Agreed since I had kept my emotions bottled up

@ashtonarmstrong9778 2 жыл бұрын

@SSuperior Was there a reason for that?

@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын

Are narcissists generally lonelier in your opinion? What are your thoughts?

@theblackowl555 2 жыл бұрын

Yes. Narcissists always end up alone.

@DrJustininJapan 2 жыл бұрын

my friend who says she is often a narcissist talks about troubles she has connecting with other. she feels that she is often ignored by others

@charlie-yp2oq 2 жыл бұрын

I think they are very lonely on the inside, but they are also the complete opposite of lonely as well, cuz like ya know, capturing people in traps mentally which can make them stay together Tbh it's kinda sad for both ways :(

@trueabundance2062 2 жыл бұрын

Please do a lesson or video on those of us who are learning how to do the work to healing for good By LEARNING HOW TO love self OR STEPS TO LEARNING HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF & PUT YOU FIRST when you've always never understood how to or what to do... Like someone who has dealt with abuse on every level, childhood trauma and abandonment May you do that one please?

@brianedwards7142 2 жыл бұрын

A true narcissist would be satisfied with their own company but people who display learned narcissistic behaviour through familial modelling/abuse certainly would be because of toxicity.

@charlie-yp2oq 2 жыл бұрын

Me after watching this: *maybe I am a decent person* No matter what your going through, I love you guys :)

@nakshatramusic21 2 жыл бұрын

Ily 2 🥰🥺

@charlie-yp2oq 2 жыл бұрын

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@charlie-yp2oq 2 жыл бұрын

@@nakshatramusic21 :)

@ami..7414 2 жыл бұрын

@@charlie-yp2oq Aaaah...Thank you!I love you too🥺

@rosespringirl4914 2 жыл бұрын

Love you too

@margalothegreat_hams 2 жыл бұрын

I was accused of being arrogant by a close friend a couple years ago, and it's stuck to me and made me feel guilty ever since, making me fear that I actually am too arrogant/narcissistic, and have hurt people with arrogance, but this video helps me a lot. I've always known deep inside that I was not a narcissist, and just lonely, but this video helps me actually believe it. Thank you

@enigmatic2878 2 жыл бұрын

Whenever my parents keep saying that I just want to show-off (which I'l admit some are true) despite me having the lowest self-confidence in the family. I'd constantly talk to myself inside my room saying "I'm not showing off. I just like hearing someone genuinely enjoy what I do since I beat myself up every single day"

@phatpussytingz1595 2 жыл бұрын

@mont9150 2 жыл бұрын

Hi enigmatic, i enjoy u

@kathyk5589 2 жыл бұрын

Stop beating yourself up and listen to this. God has a plan for your life, please listen to him kzfaq.info/get/bejne/g62hdtWTz66UoHU.html

@Hadesrools56 2 жыл бұрын

Grew up with a narcissistic parent, and have been checking myself for such behavior to see how much of it I carry. This video tells me I'm more lonely than narcissistic. *breathes*

@anam6013 2 жыл бұрын

*pats back* It's okay you're fine

@Lianna_Is_Me 2 жыл бұрын

I'm not nassarsatic I'm just lonley and hope u have better things ahead

@createandevolve 2 жыл бұрын

Be proud of yourself. You went through every type of pain, family issues, trust issues, heartbreak, insecurities, depression, etc. You went through it all alone, but never gave up....

@spidergalva 2 жыл бұрын

This woman has such a soothing voice - Lots of love from me and Wario

@Swifly_Norman 2 жыл бұрын

@Waluigi are you offend you weren’t in smash bros?

@kathyk5589 2 жыл бұрын

Hear what is important to hear today kzfaq.info/get/bejne/g62hdtWTz66UoHU.html

@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoy the voice!

@cantstopsimping797 2 жыл бұрын

When psych2go add a small dsmp references... My heart melted They all are so cute And thank you for this video this is the thing I need rn

@spaghettiisalie6226 2 жыл бұрын

After seeing this video, i understood once i was actually a narcissist. After doing real bad actions that ended up with bad separation, i learned how to behave; and at all, this video actually described me in every inch... For what i think this guide is truly professional, but who am i to say that? I'm not a psycologist!

@ayo8740 2 жыл бұрын

im not a paychologist either bro, but as they said, a sarcisist wouldnt have even thought about changing himself for the sike of others. I think you've never been a narcisist, maybe just egocentric but it happens, dont make of it a tragedy, you're friends can support you in this and tell you what you could do to be better. Just ask for help, and it'll be given to you bro ;)

@jamespotter-ray1968 2 жыл бұрын

you can be one tho

@ayo8740 2 жыл бұрын

@@jamespotter-ray1968 i could be one what? im sorry its 8 in the morning and im so tired i cant even understand basic things

@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your authentic story!

@cowcowmoo5201 2 жыл бұрын

Traumatized children can grow to have narcissistic traits. It doesn't mean you are a narcissist.

@milorca4412 2 жыл бұрын

THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEED RN

@DrJustininJapan 2 жыл бұрын

yes!

@samuraiboi2735 2 жыл бұрын

@@DrJustininJapan ayo ramen boi.

@johnalexanderaylward 2 жыл бұрын

Me too!

@kathyk5589 2 жыл бұрын

Here is what you need, and all you need kzfaq.info/get/bejne/g62hdtWTz66UoHU.html

@milorca4412 2 жыл бұрын

@@kathyk5589 im not christian, sorry

@christopherjared3624 2 жыл бұрын

I don't want admiration, i don't even accept it. I always think I'm not as good as i need to be. I always feel that someone else is better and it sometimes lead to overworking myself (mentally and physically)

@Nike_707 2 жыл бұрын

Same, it's like you have to perfect or you're not trying enough. And it's really stressful...

@christopherjared3624 2 жыл бұрын

@@Nike_707 completely true. Others could say it's good but i never accepted the praise nor the admiration. I feel as though I'm not worthy. I always have to be competitive with myself. Others could be telling me "oh that's great!" but I'd disagree and hate myself for not getting where i want to.

@Nike_707 2 жыл бұрын

@@christopherjared3624 Right? Putting high standards for yourself because being the average good is not good enough. But not because you want people to praise you, it's like, that's what's expected from you.Yk every time I want to start something new, I have to be good at it already or I feel like a failure. That, since I was a kid. Like in kindergarten, mom told me that on the first day of classes I started crying because I didn't know geography, and I was scared that people would make fun of me for that..

@kathyk5589 2 жыл бұрын

You are exactly how God made you, embrace it and praise him kzfaq.info/get/bejne/g62hdtWTz66UoHU.html

@joban4963 2 жыл бұрын

Going through the long and messy process of breaking contact with an abusive and narcissistic family, and this video explained some things I needed explaining.

@arkeneaux3037 2 жыл бұрын

Recently I’ve been feeling like I don’t care much about anything like I don’t have the energy to be truly happy about anything or angry or sad but I feel like I’ve had very self-centered thoughts. I wouldn’t say I am better than anyone nor do think that at all but I’ve just felt so weird recently and it feels like there’s never enough serotonin flowing through my body.

@316rasmith 2 жыл бұрын

This is great. Thank you. I've struggled with the thought of being a narcissist because of my ex-wife but I'm just lonely... I'm certain being deaf is a huge part of it because it's very difficult to connect with groups of people I can't comprehend, follow, the conversations. Thank you.

@LocalGooberGoobs 2 жыл бұрын

A few months ago, back in July, I thought I was a narcissist just because I was jealous of between like, one of my friends. I didn’t want to feel that way, I really didn’t. Few months after that, I came to the conclusion that I was just lonely. This was very comforting to watch, and this helps a lot. Thank you very much

@manelbouchenafa2262 2 жыл бұрын

You're not a narcissist, I felt the same way about my friend and I hated it and felt very guilty, I think you're an amazing person just the way you are, it happens to be jealous, but you're not a narcissist, just a human. Take care !!!

@tyrone8867 2 жыл бұрын

I needed this video, can't wait to watch it. I'm always debating whether or not it's true that 98% of the people that have been in my life have treated me like garbage, or if it's me that's the problem for thinking that way, which then leads me into going for self-isolation, where it feels the most safe. But then I replay every second in my mind of each interaction I've ever had with those people, and it makes me realize that I need to have more mercy for myself. Time for a change in the energy I surround myself with.

@strawberrydaurto3366 2 жыл бұрын

In a very similar situation as you! I cut off all my friends, unintentionally but honestly maybe not. I don’t want to be lonely but I push people away. People stress me out sometimes. I don’t feel like it’s necessarily my fault though. It’s weird to explain but all I ever want is to have friends and be more social and what not but then I’m over here doing the opposite. Sometimes I’m not sure if I actually like being alone all the time or is it’s habits. So Im at the part where I’m trying to be in a new environment with different energy from different people. Hopefully I can see a better change..

@s4nZ2 2 жыл бұрын

That's exactly how I am and people think I'm a narcissist but I'm not, my family and my friends always rephrase my sentences to make me sound bad all the time and I always try to do good and do things that make me feel proud of myself but in the end people think I'm just being rude and narcissistic to them.

@brettallendunn 2 жыл бұрын

OMG U R SUCH A GUD KZfaqR!! The attention to detail is insane like I loved the dream hoodie and the constant eating if the donut along with the insanely gud artist and ur voice is so comforting and nice! Ur doing so gud, keep it up!

@euchiron 2 жыл бұрын

I can't like this one enough. I've had a couple of unpleasant breakups but they were outliers and rough situations all around. The rest of these are dead on. Thank you for this!

@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын

Happy to see that this video could help you in some way to find validation!

@baddsopaipa910 2 жыл бұрын

I have OCD and i actually have a very bad time thinking that I'm a bad person, even tho I don't think I am at the same time I'm fighting with the thought of being a narcissist. Thanks for this video, my mind is a little bit more relieved😭😭😭

@sophiap.6952 2 жыл бұрын

i saw this and immediately wanted to make sure i wasnt a crappy person. a year or so back an ex-friend i had called me a narcissist in a very indirect way and laughed at it, and before then i never thought of myself being any kind of narcissist and since then, i still make sure i’m not or i don’t try to be. so im glad this video exists to show that was a crappy friend that had their own problems and im a pretty OK gal

@mysterymachine94 2 жыл бұрын

They were quick to throw stones and laugh it off. They were just trying to get you down, cause they themselves were the narcissist.

@sophiap.6952 2 жыл бұрын

@@mysterymachine94 dang, i guess you’re right lol

@Crona_Gowther_Kanato 2 жыл бұрын

Oh boy I’m really excited to hear this insight 💯

@indridcold8433 2 жыл бұрын

I know I am lonely. But lonely is far milder an emotion than the emotions stimulated by being used, betrayed, and painfully abandoned. I will never go through that again. I rather stay lonely. I am not a narcissist. I know I am not better than anybody else. I actually believe I may be inferior when compared to the average person.

@trulyfog 2 жыл бұрын

This was very reassuring. I am well aware these videos are not to be taken as a self diagnosis, but they are really informative! I’m really happy to see that I can openly see others talk about the same issues that I thought only I had bottled up.

@Mio_Chxn 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for these videos. They give me a calming feeling I feel much more peaceful after watching you

@URM8831 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot for this video. Very harsh, unkind words, from someone very close, sometime back, were acting like thorns piereced into the heart. Now it's a great relief to know what I really am. It's just upto the person who pierced those thorns to correct themselves. Thank you.

@mrfluffybeehive 2 жыл бұрын

“I wonder what life’s going to turn me into this time, Jake? What are you doing, I just had my adonkin epiphany. “I know, I’m just coming back for fun, because it’s great being alive with you” *tears up and sniffles* “Haha, Good reason” *Fist bump* - Jake and Finn.

@edits.1077 2 жыл бұрын

Yo what adventure time?

@mrfluffybeehive 2 жыл бұрын

@@edits.1077 what do you mean

@edits.1077 2 жыл бұрын

@@mrfluffybeehive no is it adventure time?

@mrfluffybeehive 2 жыл бұрын

@@edits.1077 the 2020 one

@edits.1077 2 жыл бұрын

@@mrfluffybeehive the 2020th version of adventure time?

@kirstan 2 жыл бұрын

Honestly I just read the Komi-san can't communicate manga and when Naruse was Introduced I realized I'm like a narcissist but I keep the things I think only for myself, I honestly still think I'm a narcissist even after this video, I relate to none.

@minervatanhua2387 2 жыл бұрын

OMG KOMI-SAN CAN’T COMMUNICATE FAN TOO???

@taiyakidefresa 2 жыл бұрын

I think it may have to do with our own negative perception, I think I don't relate to none too but it's okay, it might be the brain being tricky. You don't have to adjust to what a video says you should be. I think Komi is a perfect example, because she too (at least in the beginning) used to be seen as too much for others (a goddess level), and struggled with making friends on her own (when Tadano and Najimi came to her house she was embarrassed by the books of how to make friends); she keeps most things to herself. And also I think Naruse is kinda cute but a crackhead too (maybe like Johnny Bravo) and he has sweet moments with Ase-chan (fav ship, it shows that he doesn't necessarily is a narcissist but it's more of a way to cope or something it's more like something to gain confidence he's not bad -actually seems to have heart of gold-, I like how one time he said she's cute and she should love herself), he's nice just needs to loosen up a little; Kometani is a friend that's still around even if he knows how Naruse is. About bad endings, they may happen too, not everything is perfect. And about our true feelings, it's up to us and our heart; sometimes not everyone and not every time feels safe to release our feelings. Humans are so complex and that's cool.

@Omnigrotesque 2 жыл бұрын

This video was very welcome for me! I also like the new art style of the video very much. I struggle a lot with a very ugly time I had with an ex partner of mine who treated me very badly, which gave me a lot of self-doubt. But with all the aspects discussed in the video I find a bit more self-assurance of me being not so much the problem at all. And yes: In almost all cases I come along very well with other people, while she's leaving scorched earth all over the place. I discuss my weaknesses very oftenly and read a lot about self-optimization, while she talks a lot about other peoples' faults and reads a lot of garbage. It still hurts very much oftenly, but I realised that there's no point in focusing on people who mistreated you. You can only end the contact and work on yourself. Toxic people will screw up their relationships just by their own - so there's no necessity to seek revenge. Now I feel a bit more courageous - thanks for the vid!

@brianedwards7142 2 жыл бұрын

I had a bit of an epiphany recently in understanding why Buddha preached against close attachment to individuals if you want to avoid suffering. It's like ships at dock: if the ship was nailed to the dock by rigid fixings then both boat and wharf would be damaged by tides, wave action and departures so you use ropes that can be cast off without changing the integrity of either ship or dock. The opposite is like "Brangelina" where identities are merged and change necessarily involves trauma.

@gnarthdarkanen7464 2 жыл бұрын

"The mud can make you prisoner, and the plains can make you dry. ...Snow can burn your eyes, but only people make you cry..." "I Was Born Ander A Wand'rin' Star" ~ Ben Rumson ~ "Pain Your Wagon" ;o)

@brianedwards7142 2 жыл бұрын

@@gnarthdarkanen7464 Now I'm going to have that tune stuck in my head.

@gnarthdarkanen7464 2 жыл бұрын

@@brianedwards7142 It's one of Lee Marvin's better performances... You're welcome! ;o)

@acceleration3643 4 ай бұрын

You have a very sweet voice...i feel so overwhelmed and safe here. Thankyou

@BlueOwlOracle 2 жыл бұрын

This was so healing for me! Thank you 🙏🏼💖

@somerandommadman38 2 жыл бұрын

It's hard to say Q1. I feel a want to know everything about everything. Q2. I'm far from perfect, though it often feels like I have to be. Q3. I'm quite the coward, so I'll preemptively end relations if it looks like it's going for the rocks it also doesn't help I don't really know how to articulate my thoughts properly. Q4. I've been told I can be hard to read but yes, though, my pride only allows it when I'm not extremely embarrassed, and or I know I'm wrong. Q5. I know I'm better than others only because I chose to be. A tournament of one is hard to lose.

@unmarkit1027 2 жыл бұрын

Well, this is complicated. I'm fusing my narcissism with my loneliness. What you call narcissistic with inside thought (just imagination) and passive kind

@ikesterd8842 2 жыл бұрын

Here lies a positive affirmation to myself and others: We are not narcissists, we are imperfect and doing our best to improve even if we made mistakes that hurt ourselves and others.

@sanriosage 2 жыл бұрын

I came when this was posted in 4 minutes best feeling in the world 😌 anyway I love your videos and I hope you keep posting

@RP-ez2jm 2 жыл бұрын

I’d like you to know how kind and pleasant your voice sounds. I’m anxious and struggling, right now. This was a good reminder that I’m a good person, just lonely and imperfect. Your vocals calmed and centered me. Thanks for bringing the good energy. Much appreciated 💜

@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing! Did you relate to any of these points?

@anna27649 2 жыл бұрын

#1 - 0:36 - You try to educate yourself #2 - 1:12 - You are open to personal growth #3 - 1:43 - Your past relationships ended well #4 - 2:28 - Your emotions are genuine #5 - 3:14 - You don't fell like you are better than others

@anna27649 2 жыл бұрын

Hope this helps!

@Outerpop 2 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I needed to end my night, thanks!

@arkilia7685 2 жыл бұрын

Gosh this made me cry so much because I related to most of the point 😭 I am feeling lonely indeed even though I have supporting and loving family and friends. It just takes time to give ourselves self-love especially after an event that happened to us, like a break-up. But thank you for your videos as well. It helps to realize things about ourselves 💙

@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing :) We hope this video helped you in some way

@temitopeoketikun1379 2 жыл бұрын

🥺 needed this. There’s tears in my eyes

@IKEMENOsakaman 2 жыл бұрын

My birthday is tomorrow, but because of Covid, I can't have a party... Somebody wish me a happy birthday... :'(

@gucciversace8602 2 жыл бұрын

Happy birthday 💟

@charlie-yp2oq 2 жыл бұрын

Happy birthday love! Your the best >:3

@nakshatramusic21 2 жыл бұрын

Happy Birthday! may your wishes come true. God bless 🥺🥰💜

@theblackowl555 2 жыл бұрын

Happy birthday 🎉

@AEAG9YT_ 2 жыл бұрын

Happy birthday

@redculturedash8074 21 күн бұрын

This is something I needed to hear. Thank you so much.

@nephibisgaard1452 2 жыл бұрын

I was in a long term relationship that ended. Then was in a relationship for a 1.5 years. Point is I didn't work on my self and rebuild my self. I'm on a strong path now by not being in a relationship. I'm not looking for a relationship, I'm" dating"my self.

@Noname-jd1vp 2 жыл бұрын

Yey! Another educational video! 😊 Thank you Ma'am, your videos mean a lot to me! And it makes me happy when I learn something! 🙂

@rimausmoke3644 2 жыл бұрын

Sheesh girl..😆All videos these 2- 3 weeks hit me hard.. Btw Thank you Phyco 😊

@therealchapmo3879 2 жыл бұрын

Well I first thought I was a narcissist but maybe I am just lonely Thankyou for educating me about something I was wrong about Keep up the good work👌

@ecogreen123 2 жыл бұрын

all the references in the background, the attention to detail is stunning.

@cherylmcnutt9905 2 жыл бұрын

There is at least one narcissist in my family, possibly more, but there have been beautiful people as well. I often worry that I could have narcissistic tendencies, but this video tells me perhaps not. I’ve constantly tried to learn and improve my entire life. There is ALWAYS room for improvement! I worry that I’m not likable since I was 7, and an adult neighbor told me I was weird. Of course, she treated her boys like gods and her girls like servants, and because the girls had weight issues, she kept locks on all the kitchen cabinets and the refrigerator door. Perhaps the “weird” one wasn’t me…

@MouldyLimbs 2 жыл бұрын

I like how the doughnut is slowly being eaten ☺️

@etinarcadiaego7424 2 жыл бұрын

Apparently, I'm a narcissist but everyone deserves companionship, even narcissists. My last relationship did end okay though, the breakup was completely mutual. I also have a really good relationship with my family. I know I'm narcissistic but I take pains to shield though close to from as much as I can, I'm not a monster. #1 I'm a voracious learner. #2 I'm open to anything that makes me better than I am. #4 My emotions can be genuine but how I actually feel about someone or something doesn't always matter to me. It certainly doesn't change my actions. I try to be at least polite to everyone, even if I feel nothing toward them. I really only feel genuinely toward friends and family, everyone else just exists. #5 I know I'm better than some people but I'm worse than some others too. At the end of the day, my desires and goals occupy my mind constantly. I do try to reach my goals in the honest and humane way though but I don't want to be stuck with a bad reputation.

@chikuuCH 2 жыл бұрын

Well I already knew that I'm lonely and have anxiety problems, but I also put up an act so people don't have to pity me and if I talk about my problems at all, it's just me joking about it. Because everytime I tried reaching out it either only got worse, or nothing changed at all. It's not always easy to reach out to someone when there's noone who could help. I've been to one therapist and one psychiatrist and they either didn't help with anything or made it way worse. After my trip to the psychiatry I've developed even worse trust issues and kenophobia. I know my flaws though and don't need "help". Instead I'll try and see how life helps me. There are other things that happened to me, but I don't need to write my whole life story here. Nonetheless, thanks Psych2Go, now I can't insult myself as being a narcissist. And all your other videos the past 5+ months that I've been subscribed!

@lilacc7612 2 жыл бұрын

I really needed this. Thank you.

@GottesKrieger 2 жыл бұрын

Your voice is very relaxing I could listen to you talk all day. I get tired of most voices very quickly. Also I know I’m just lonely because I’ve been alone since she 17.

@lemonj798 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this wonderful video. Just what I need at the moment :)

@chirag.r 2 жыл бұрын

Nicely explained!!

@likitadevi 2 жыл бұрын

I was confused of whether I was the narcissist in my friendship and this has made it clear that it wasn't me. Thank you so much for this.

@red_nullhugo4045 2 жыл бұрын

You came in clutch, thanks

@theschemerj3s 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the great video. I'm currently going through depression & I was labeled as being narcissistic... this perfectly explains wat in go through. Finding this current was my saving grace

@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын

NP! :) Did you resonate with any of these points?

@jjanimation995 2 жыл бұрын

Wow ur video always bright up my day .Thank you for all the people behind this! You are truly amazing 😍

@nakshatramusic21 2 жыл бұрын

@Jordi Moriko▶️jj👍 NO ONE IS INTERESTED

@DemiLeFlame 7 ай бұрын

I feel so much better after watching this. Knowing you're definitely lonely before watching helps too 😂

@fusselboss3249 2 жыл бұрын

I NEEDED THIS

@sammiemagoo2 2 жыл бұрын

I love how calming your voice is. Oh and I'm definitely just very very lonely.

@OmarRashad 2 жыл бұрын

You guys should do more videos about lonely people it actually helped one of my friends who recently had trouble knowing if he's lonely or just an awful person I showed him this video and it helped him

@MikesterMF 2 жыл бұрын

I've been definitely dealing with loneliness, and as it's said in the video, it's nice to have validation that I'm not isolated because I'm a toxic person, such as a narcissist. But, what are good ways to meet new people in this day and age? I hate the bar scene, and so many places are still closed or limited with the whole covid situation.

@manelbouchenafa2262 2 жыл бұрын

We can be friends if you want to !!

@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын

Find people who share the same hobbies or likes as you do :)

@FA3WILDES 2 жыл бұрын

This is probably my new favorite animation style on this channel! Another very helpful video Psy

@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын

Glad you like it! Is this your favorite animation so far? :)

@FA3WILDES 2 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go I'd say yes! Of course, I still love all the animations on here ^^

@DeeviousDon 2 жыл бұрын

this is exactly what I needed to hear right now.

@Moood007 2 жыл бұрын

The animation is just the prettiest, wish there was a show or movie with this art style

@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын

Aww, thanks!! Would you like to see more of this art style?

@trueabundance2062 2 жыл бұрын

Please do a lesson or video on those of us who are learning how to do the work to healing for good By LEARNING HOW TO love self OR STEPS TO LEARNING HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF & PUT YOU FIRST when you've always never understood gow to or what to do... Like someone who has dealt with abuse on every level, childhood trauma and abandonment May you do that one please?

@caleblawther1854 2 жыл бұрын

I didn't quite know what to aspect when clicking on this video, but now it's official... I'm lonely, the first 4 out of 5 where spot on, though I'm still thinking about the last sign and I know how your always reminding the ordinance that your video's are for educational purposes, so I wont think too hard on it 😅

@tobyjohnson2556 2 жыл бұрын

Anyone else watching this to learn but also relax. This is so calming 😌

@Rodelaporte 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this

@imikfunartsproductions7444 2 жыл бұрын

To those who see this, remember that you are always beautiful and there's no one there to judge you on your appearance❤️ ~just an artist

@Ashdwt 2 жыл бұрын

I love the little hint in this video :3. Anyway, hope you have a nice day.

@--s.s.c-- 2 жыл бұрын

Something I needed at the right time

@uniqueeonee 2 жыл бұрын

I think i'm lonenly but strong enough to be lonely and enjoy my own company and been just me and not copy others. People often mistake that i'm attention seeker or narcissist with big ego. But actually i'm just reserved and have avoidant attached style. And acually i have low self esteem and sometimes i feel like I'm worthless. I reject pll and i'm not friendly becouse in past people harassing me really badly. These people are narcissists not me. How i suppose to beleave there are geniune people that exist ? And been truly nice not hypocrite to me when most of time people i met are rude to me and judge me becouse i'm been myself. Or been nice only becouse used you. It is extreamly hard for me to beleave that some person are geniune good. Even if he is geniune and smiling to me i still will not beleave it. I'm really amazed when i see super friendly people and show love to strangers and not afraid when is possibility danger that other person may not feel same way. I know i should be more vulnerable becouse if i'm always reserved i always will be alone. But is so HARD to be vulnerable.

@sango8755 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for being my supportive friend😊❤️

@Mr.Midnight322 2 жыл бұрын

JUST THE VIDEO I NEEDED

@dominicwilson3 3 ай бұрын

Phew! I cleared ha - thanks for the video!

@mikekoupriyanov7487 2 жыл бұрын

I needed this

@dreamtoonfamily 2 жыл бұрын

Praying that everyone falls asleep quickly and has a peaceful sleep. Hope you all wake up happy and well rested 🥰🥰🎄🎄🎄🎄

@kplumpoetry9050 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this video ❤️

@Psych2go 2 жыл бұрын

NP! Did you relate to these signs?

@KaddelIsLimited 2 жыл бұрын

I always enjoy your videos (I'm just not huge on commenting) - I just wanted to note here that I love your little Heart Pirates feature

@carson8530 2 жыл бұрын

Needed this lowkey

@wannabe2038 2 жыл бұрын

I... needed this

@uemirainbow2170 Жыл бұрын

I relate to this and I'm glad to know that I'm doing the right things to cope with loneliness.

@iamleoooo 2 жыл бұрын

This channel is super good

@devonhedinger4132 2 жыл бұрын

Man sometimes I wondered. But its good to acknowledge it.

@baguette5678 2 жыл бұрын

Happy late Thanksgiving everyone! And Pysch2Go team!

@ishandas1551 2 жыл бұрын

I feel it when finally I have someone to listen me I usually overshare my problems and later regret it.🙂

@DjangobeatTV Жыл бұрын

I've been undergoing brainspotting and TRE for over a year now after a very toxic relationship ended abruptly. Over this time I have often considered that it was all my fault, however, in exploring literally any perspective to help me heal, I have realised that we ALL, without exception, carry narcissism. I believe it's actually a kind of protector part (IFS) that comes into being to protect self-worth. I don't believe that narcissists exist anymore, just traumatised humans who have these protector parts so developed that they have become synonymous and therefore conflated with identity. Through studying NVC (non-violent communication) I see this even more now. I believe my ex to have VERY strong narcissitic protector parts and in them that they are basically "self-like" parts and so easily perceived by her and others as both positive and also just her identity. I have hints of narcissism therefore of course too, as does anyone who actually has self-worth. We all guard our self-worth to some extent but I believe that some people are in a state of constant self worth, over-compensation that this manifests outwardly in various destructive forms some self-destructive and some destructive to others. I'm feeling so much more peace now but I now I have a way to go. However, now, I can see the way ahead and I just have to keep healing and hopefully the work will continue to bear enough fruit that one day, I won't need therapy anymore.