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@angeliquevasinathan75382 жыл бұрын
Je m’y m
@wilhouts61732 жыл бұрын
not sure if you saw my other post: Kinda reminds me of the lady who gives herself a HIGH FIVE IN THE MIRROR every morning.!
@chandranimukherjee4142 жыл бұрын
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@Vancouvernuck2 жыл бұрын
Hand gestures .. like it !!!
@Mariaodgers2 жыл бұрын
I've learned so much from you and your guests. Very informative! I am still striving to learn and grow at 57yrs old. Well Done. Thank you!!
@Dancing_Alone_wRentals2 жыл бұрын
She teaches with so much joy, it was a joy to listen to her words.
@vanessavanedwards80142 жыл бұрын
Oh this made my day -- thank you!
@Dancing_Alone_wRentals2 жыл бұрын
@@vanessavanedwards8014 will be looking forward to your next adventure...(book or talk...sounds so...well lets just say I want to live a little more Disney and a little less Library. So Whatever your next adventure turns out to be....please take us along!)
@IEVAKambarovaite2 жыл бұрын
@@Dancing_Alone_wRentals you've put it across so well.. 💕
@olguiq10132 жыл бұрын
Love this... great vibe you too. Thank you.
@connectingthesciences2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I have this catch-22 situation where I keep feeling like I'm falling for her but realizing that she is literally teaching seduction. So it's like verification that she's definitely a professional and knows what she's doing. It's like I have no idea who she really is but I keep feeling like I want to place more trust in her than I would for a normal stranger. Basically demonstrating how effective it could be used against me if someone did. The fact that she's able to verify everything she's saying while she's explaining it it's really effective. I really appreciated this topic being covered; it was a great Podcast.
@ellelorde54872 жыл бұрын
To be successful we need a mixture of competence and charisma. To be charismatic:(trustable +reliable) 1. Not standing too close to someone. 2.Use your hands to express your words (not jazz hands) 3. Gift people success words 4. Point out similarities between you and the person 5. Don’t do up talk. (Important how you say words not just what you say)
@charles9102 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@ellelorde54872 жыл бұрын
@@charles910 np 😊
@nsbr62 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this 👍🏻
@vanessavanedwards80142 жыл бұрын
Great summary here!
@ellelorde54872 жыл бұрын
@@vanessavanedwards8014 thank you ☺️
@OCFitBabe Жыл бұрын
She’s just a perfect blend of competence and warmth. She’s adorable and we are fortunate to learn from her. ❤
@Walperion_Music Жыл бұрын
Yet, if she's teaching "competence+warmth" it means she tought herself for years to present that in herself, of course she's the best at that! Makes you question if she even remembers where are her real emotions where her learned emotions are.
@BettyCollins88 Жыл бұрын
She comes off as more competent than warm, whereas he comes off as more warm than competent. I think it comes down to something in their eyes, the rapidity of their respective speech, and their body language. He's sitting back and his body is open, for example.
@karimehendrix Жыл бұрын
@@BettyCollins88yes you can tell she’s reminding herself to remain sitting straight to exude confidence
@loveisreal7766 Жыл бұрын
She is very interesting. I am curious to learn about her journey to be competent and warmth.
@fishcanon81419 ай бұрын
@@BettyCollins88I think you’re right on. It might have something to do with the pace of the speech, and how quickly they each respond to things.
@nowaybackvalorant87995 ай бұрын
She's a live example of every point she's making. Top tier content
@lewishowes5 ай бұрын
🙌
@ScienceOfPeople5 ай бұрын
💗🙌🙌
@juliejuju74192 жыл бұрын
This whole interview was absolutely AMAZING. I turned 51 yesterday and learned something new today. Wow. We are NEVER too old to learn🤩
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499
@sunnygirl9691 Жыл бұрын
Don’t be ridiculous! Of course you’re still learning! You’re still a baby!! Why do I say this … because I’m 50!! 😊
@hulamei3117 Жыл бұрын
68 and still learning...
@GirishVenkatachalam Жыл бұрын
Learning is oxygen of life and growth.
@katherine31079 ай бұрын
We never stop learning until the day Jesus comes! He is our perfector 💖
@NotReallyAEvilMorty2 жыл бұрын
This is easily your best episode Lewis. The chemistry between you two is amazing and the learning content is high quality. I'm 100% going to buy the book.
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
Appreciate you! 🙏
@PaulinaMedia2 жыл бұрын
Lewis and Vanessa have always had amazing chemistry. 👏🏽👏🏽
@vahinipillay26602 жыл бұрын
I could not agree more! I could feel myself learning from start to finish! ❤
@vanessavanedwards80142 жыл бұрын
WOW! Thank you so much. I am so honored.
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙂
@Jenls722 жыл бұрын
Omg as an introvert I feel like this has so many answers to my questions! She's amazing! I've bought the book and I'll watch this video every week for a while since there is an abundance of treasure in here!
@ChristianaSenibo2 жыл бұрын
Really insightful conversation 🙂
@Michael-bf1dt2 жыл бұрын
Hi Jenis how are you. Greetings from Ireland ☘️. It’s a good video. I love the pictures on your channel. Best wishes for a lovely day 😊🙏 Michael
@josegcondado Жыл бұрын
Yes, same here
@irmang479010 ай бұрын
Very informative, truly enjoyed this interview and learned so much. Grateful to you both for this video. Loved it, going to buy the book. Awesome ❤
@abhijithajikumar87515 ай бұрын
This is one of the best interviews I have ever seen. 1hr 40 minutes went in a flash.
@lewishowes5 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! 🧡
@ScienceOfPeople5 ай бұрын
That's wonderful to know! Thank you! 💗
@trexanuslot95703 ай бұрын
Would have been better if he hadn't interrupted her every 2 minutes
@exponentialnetworks2 ай бұрын
As a very socially awkward person, this was very powerful and helpful.
@air_192 жыл бұрын
This talk held me until the very end. Every sentence mattered. Grateful for this. I especially learned how to be authentic with someone toxic in the work place.
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
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@jwallaby789511 ай бұрын
When was it said how to be authentic with someone at the work llace? Time stamp please?
@cutzymccall76752 жыл бұрын
It helps to be feeling good about yourself - and life. I never feel vulnerable socially because I love life and people from all walks of life. I don’t “separate” myself from others. I enjoy meeting strangers because I don’t see anyone as a stranger. I believe that we are all One, from every place, culture, race, religion and every walk of life. Everyone is my friend until they prove otherwise and if they aren’t I might feel sad or down for a few moments but then quickly accept it and walk away. Also: humor is your best friend in making friends and connecting with others. Yes, warmth and confidence - and giving.
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
👍
@funkyyyykitty2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this very interesting perspective.
@fulol Жыл бұрын
maybe that's because u haven't come across any murderers, rapists, perverts or crooks yet, i think once u do u might have a different view then about the so called "we are all one"
@piitaa108 Жыл бұрын
'We are all one', 'Everyone is my friend' is magical thinking, a fantasy.
@IB4UUB4ME Жыл бұрын
Yeah but look at you, your very sexy looking, that makes it a tan bit more easier 😉
@Soulenergy31 Жыл бұрын
5:23 when you express your vulnerability, you acknowledge then you are less afraid 21:20 use gestures
@cherishparkhurst81245 ай бұрын
When someone isn't to sure and question themselves I find that being encourageing to empower them to find their confidence in themselves is such a great thing
@vanessavanedwards80142 жыл бұрын
This was so amazing to do! Thank you for allowing me to share
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
Thank you as well🧡
@soniasinghinternational2 жыл бұрын
Vanessa you are amazing!!! Loveeeed this interview and I learned so much. Lewis you are the best interviewer ever. Your energy together is wonderful to watch.
@xjessy52802 жыл бұрын
I’m not even 10 minutes in and I’ve learned so much already! Your enthusiasm is contagious Vanessa. Thank you so so much for everything that you do. You’re a joy to listen to and I can’t wait to listen to the rest of the show ❤️🥰
@mitchharrington94272 жыл бұрын
Great research and information from this interview. Love it thank you for so much insight on the things I need to be aware of.
@hienly89562 жыл бұрын
Loved your enthusiasm in all your sharings. Of course Lewis too did an amazing job as an interviewer. So fun to wacth. You two were on fire! ❤️
@elfhririn2 жыл бұрын
I never comment... I just came to say THIS LADY IS AWESOME. Like wow! I learned a TON and I 100% agree with EVERYTHING she said! That does NOT happen often. Very grateful for her sharing her wisdom and virtues with us
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499
@ScienceOfPeople2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I'm glad you enjoyed it 😀
@ashrichman9956 Жыл бұрын
Josh, she is awesome and so are you!! Let’s practice her tips to help us develop more confidence and then we’ll be awesome and warm 💕
@freshmintsky2 жыл бұрын
I love that she is generous with acknowledgments, gives credit where it’s due, and appreciates the work people do to support her presentations
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
🙌
@relaxwithme__6 ай бұрын
She is the queen of body language education 👑
@ScienceOfPeople5 ай бұрын
Oh! Thank you! 💕💕💕
@relaxwithme__4 ай бұрын
@@ScienceOfPeople you are so welcome! 🤗
@lifecoachrosanna49342 жыл бұрын
Once I became more comfortable in my own skin and started living for me the easier it is is to engage others. I was watching this and thinking, I haven't experienced social rejection in the longest. Probably because I surround myself with others that care about self-love, self-development and are focused on being their best version. When I was blaming the world for my problems and being self-absorbed, i did experience many of the social rejection cues she mentioned.
@barry963 Жыл бұрын
Sad part is those filled with the most confidence are the biggest aholes ever on average.
@princessh26262 жыл бұрын
As a teacher, when I started watching you here, right away I thought “smart man!” Asking great questions to his guests…the right questions, questions I would ask, questions that make sense…bringing awareness and clarification to your audience. Thank you Lewis…YOU ARE GREATNESS!!!☀️📚💕☀️
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡
@sirensguide15311 ай бұрын
this interview was so enthralling that i actually was excited with anticipation to hear every next word from the both of their mouths. not only was it exuding such a comfortable, wonderful energy, but it was also packed full of absolute GEMS. i even feel better after watching this because the energy was just that refreshing. such a beautiful and genuine chemistry between two intellectually stimulating human beings.
@lewishowes11 ай бұрын
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.
@ScienceOfPeople10 ай бұрын
Wow, thank you so much! I'm so happy to hear this ❤
@Cynthiadiddat2 Жыл бұрын
I am so great full I stumbled across this video and just in time. My work environment is very toxic. The women I work with have given up and r very toxic. On Monday morning I go back to work and change this. I will no longer work in a toxic environment or with toxic people. I absolutely love what I do. I am filled with all this new confidence and knowledge from this inspirational and powerful video. Thank you from the tips of my toes to the palms of my hands and Thank u for reminding me that life is to short.🙏🏻💁
@elladapetrosyan9610 Жыл бұрын
Sorry you have to go through that, Cynthia. Good luck with changing it, hope it works!
@ssgundes1 Жыл бұрын
Good luck to you. Keep this attitude
@mlothiclan Жыл бұрын
I wonder how this has progressed
@Introvertedalpha2 жыл бұрын
'If you show authentic happiness, you are more likely to infect happiness.' -- love this quote!
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
🧡
@BuddyLuv2 жыл бұрын
I have a low attention span. I'm 23min in and you guys have still got me completely engaged. The topic and content are really interesting but they way you're presenting is everything. I'm learning so much - thank you!
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
Happy you enjoyed it!
@Jananicholson874 Жыл бұрын
i think that these skills are very useful in relationships though. very single expereince is useful and in my opinion you're doing great job . and also my man is doing great job :-) he's a lawyer but i mean that he's great w spanish drops
@dialaa.4001 Жыл бұрын
Around minute 11( charisma): perfect blend of competence and warmth
@MD-yp7im2 жыл бұрын
She’s incredibly likable and captivating, beyond her obvious beauty. She’s really selling her product. Great episode
@dennisrobinson80082 жыл бұрын
The personality is fun and bubbly
@2abalsys2 жыл бұрын
i think it was over the top and contrived. got annoying after 5 mins or so. couldn't finish it...
@denisedoherty49092 жыл бұрын
Not likable at all. Very annoying. Keeps overtalking him.
@dennisrobinson80082 жыл бұрын
@@denisedoherty4909 He has a habit of hard headed listening, so not giving the guest attention. Shes powerful in her area and that's what we hear.
@denisedoherty49092 жыл бұрын
@@dennisrobinson8008 Interesting. I think he is an excellent listener and interviewer. Very low key. As opposed to her over the top exuberance which seems forced and phony to me. Maybe some of the content is good but I cannot get through this because I find her extremely obnoxious. I guess perception really is everything.
@robh32672 жыл бұрын
There is so much information she is presenting it seems almost overwhelming to try and incorporate it all in daily interactions, some of the greatest liars and con artists have mastered many of these techniques, I've found that honesty, caring and true sincerity goes a long way when it comes to being charming and charismatic, Vanessa is a fascinating person and much of her charm comes from her enthusiasm of her work, she has an incredible amount of knowledge.
@vanessavanedwards80142 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I know it is a lot -- start with one cue at a time = )
@IEVAKambarovaite2 жыл бұрын
@@vanessavanedwards8014 I find it amazing how you don't just repeat same stories over and over again in different interviews. I can't even imagine how challenging this must be when you're promoting your book and have to talk about it over and over. Loved every moment of this interview 💕
@KayberMАй бұрын
Lewis you are such a gift to the entire word. You are stunning inside and out. We are blessed that you found yourself. Thank you for giving us so much. Sending you love and support ❤❤❤
@LindseyObrooke11 ай бұрын
This just helped me figure out why my senior manager is amazing, and why I look up to her so much -- she sincerely has the perfect blend of warmth and competence. I really hope I can morph into this!
@ScienceOfPeople10 ай бұрын
I love that!
@seamasmanly2 жыл бұрын
My biggest takeaway is smiling at the sides of my eyes. I just used that during my performance, and I experienced better connection with my audience.
And this is why Italian people are so good at expressing their thoughts! They always use their hands and colorful language
@chrismaki54567 ай бұрын
I enjoy being at the stage of my life (late twenties) where I can truly listen to discussions like this, still liking the speaker, while being actively conscious of the statements I disagree with.
@katt92082 жыл бұрын
Great reference to Dr. Ramani. She says often that she just doesn’t trust charismatic people because in her experience, they are almost always insincere and narcissistic. I’ve been told that I have good presence…and I strive for that balance of warmth and competence…but I am trying to make others comfortable and not necessarily to advance my own agenda. So respecting Dr. Ramani as I do, I’ve really been questioning this approach. Should I not be striving for charisma, but just for an appropriate level of warmth? But being a (small) woman in a logical male field, I worry about being “too warm.” I have been told, too, by other women and even warmer men, that I am too expressive and personal and “hand-gesturey.” I am concerned about being perceived as too smooth and manipulative or as “outside of my integrity.”
@littoy2 жыл бұрын
Really good. She actually advances the body language and charisma subjects.
@vanessavanedwards80142 жыл бұрын
Thank you thank you! I really wanted to deepen our knowledge of both.
@sonjaglasklar76242 жыл бұрын
Vanessa is such a lovely and competent person. I am so happy Lewis you invited her again ❤😀 I am so glad to have the opportunity to listen to your highly insightful talk. I learn so much from it. Thank you so much!!! I 'd be so happy to meet you one day insha'Allah
@vanessavanedwards80142 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Sonja! You are so kind!!!
@kangkanabora53667 ай бұрын
She is such a good charmer, Lewis was blushing the whole podcast ❤
@bigdogmack8692 Жыл бұрын
Hey Lewis your content is better than a college can ever teach. I listen to these podcasts and walk away with knowledge wisdom and an overall well-being. I'm so happy that I found this channel. I have recommended it to others and they all say the same thing. They say wow why isn't this taught in high schools why isn't this taught in colleges it's amazing I want to thank you for bringing this content to the masses. Keep doing what you are doing it is awesome.
@lewishowes Жыл бұрын
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for listening.
@Dr.JudeAEMasonMD2 жыл бұрын
I don’t know what it is Vanessa, but whenever I listen to you just resets my nervous system to calm and content. Thx Lewis for this amazing platform.🙏🏽
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
Happy to hear this :)
@ScienceOfPeople2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🥰
@VG-qu3vb2 жыл бұрын
Yesss there’s something so authentic about her
@wanasong56112 жыл бұрын
Beautiful Interview. One of the BEST 'Take Aways' for me was a WONDERFUL REMINDER. When WE receive A QUE from another... Wether it be Verbal, or subtle Body Language.... The KEY TO TRUE DIPLOMATIC COMMUNICATION is in ASKING OURSELVES: I See, Hear, and or FEEL that.... Now ' How can I HONOR IT' ? 😘💖🙏🌎✌🏼
@buddhaneosiddhananda84992 жыл бұрын
Most of society is based around supporting the negative EGO... rather than being spiritual...all kinds of selfishness... negative synergy/darkside...😰😰
@VessiTessi2 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said!❤
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@vanessavanedwards80142 жыл бұрын
Yes yes yes! You got it!
@frankG335 Жыл бұрын
When I took exams in college, I would think in terms of mastering the material and winning the top grade, rocking the class, LOVING the material, feeling like I won the prize just by being able to go to this college and study what I had ALWAYS wanted to do all my life. I saw exams as a joy. I rewarded myself instantly by first answering all the ones where I knew the answers. That got my confidence racing. Once all those were done, I did the ones I wasn't sure about. It always worked.
@user-nt8ih7qq6t9 ай бұрын
What a great podcast that was! I am an introvert and work in communication. I was literally taking notes, along. Thank you Lewis, thank you Vanessa ❤
@lewishowes9 ай бұрын
You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡
@ScienceOfPeople7 ай бұрын
You’re so welcome ❤ Thank you for watching!
@dakotablueskies2 жыл бұрын
So practical. She has a perfect balance of warmth and confidence.
@ambersnow96012 жыл бұрын
I love listening to Vanessa - she’s so charismatic,both warm and competent Thank you for this great video.
@vanessavanedwards80142 жыл бұрын
Amber you are the best!
@mentehumanabr2 жыл бұрын
I love everything about this episode, but MAINLY how she expresses her gratitude and acknowledgement to Lewis. The world would be such a better place if we could simply share how appreciative we are!
@johnhalcroft72832 жыл бұрын
Thank-you Lewis & Vanessa for the great interview!! Love the quote "People don't care how much you know, until they know how much you care" Love it!!! Super Power
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡
@LizzoBlizzo2 жыл бұрын
This was lovely and powerful! Loved Vanessa’s response on handling toxic people in a work environment that response was magnificent!!! 💥💥💥
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
👍
@IB4UUB4ME Жыл бұрын
Very 👍 nice
@steveg39402 жыл бұрын
Idk about everyone else but I love this chick, I’m so fascinated with her research and expert knowledge on these topics. She’s so interesting and I love the passion you can see on her face.. 😍
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@dushisoundsmeditationmusic2 жыл бұрын
To the person reading this: THANK YOU for being here and adding value to our world 💖 Hope you have a blessed day filled with joy, happiness, health and love! 💖
@mshope1252 жыл бұрын
🙂
@danastewart92812 жыл бұрын
And, the same to you 🙏
@GS-st9ns2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your positive energy
@carisapatrahh5308 Жыл бұрын
God bless you ❤
@sanamirza7501 Жыл бұрын
Bru
@jolie115724 күн бұрын
Lewis is amazing presenter with smart mind and magnetic charisma.
@positivevibes34182 жыл бұрын
Words are Energy. Be impeccable. Great tools, and stay authentic!
@blueplanet87502 жыл бұрын
Hey Lewis (Hand wave, Full Face Smile) Lots of Gems in this interview. She says she is an introvert, but what comes through is nothing short of explosive charisma and confidence. Obviously practicing EVERYTHING that she preaches - total alignment. - Kudos Wil be reviewing the Transcript as well. Great job bringing her back to the Shark Tank Research findings, love your focus.
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🙂
@eileenwatt82832 жыл бұрын
Oprah says she too is an introvert. Go figure.
@youngraymond92932 жыл бұрын
I was a complete introvert. I learned to be an extrovert, it might be the same with Vanessa Van Edwards, she learned and adopted and practiced being more confident.
@DiscoveryWonders2 жыл бұрын
Charisma and being introvert are two separate and independent -not related things. you can be a confident and a charismatic introvert. Or an ambiverted introvert. In that sense. You can also be an insecure overwhelmed with anxiety extrovert.
@richmondballer20 Жыл бұрын
@@DiscoveryWondersthank you! It baffles me how people think introverted means you can’t be charismatic.
@priscilagonzalez3273 Жыл бұрын
She talks with so much excitement I love it
@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@themightymiracleman3 ай бұрын
Vanessa Van Edwards is AMAZING! Thank you Lewis Howes for the insightful interview!
@ScienceOfPeople2 ай бұрын
Yay! Thank you so much! That means a lot to me! 🥰 I definitely enjoyed this interview with Lewis!
@themightymiracleman2 ай бұрын
@@ScienceOfPeople of course! As a traumatic brain injury survivor, it’s crucial for me to relearn how to read people and you’re helping me do that 😇
@louisatate58792 жыл бұрын
I found this interview full of easily accessible & impactful information. Giving examples of each idea physically and verbally was so helpful and fun to watch. Thank you for shining your light to illuminate the darkness and for helping others to shine theirs.
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499
@vanessavanedwards80142 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@sqirlgirl1212 жыл бұрын
This was so helpful. I'm an introvert and always look at extroverts with envy; wishing I could be like them. I hope these tips will help me to be seen and heard differently. Thank you! Also, the point at the end of this was so important. Gratitude.
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome🧡
@eileenwatt82832 жыл бұрын
@@lewishowes I remembered when Oprah did a show on things people dont know about her. She said she was an Introvert. She would rather spend her time reading books than interacting with people . She really has one friend. Gail.
@stefannamen116Ай бұрын
The way she does the intervieuw makes me fall in love with her. She is so enthusiastic in her talking/performance. She is amazing.
@DianneOrwig3332 жыл бұрын
In all her brilliance, it’s hard to pick a favorite moment, but for me the true highlight of the interview is when Vanessa addresses the “question inflection,” something that has driven me crazy for such a long time, but I never really understood why until now. So insightful…I love this interview!
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome🧡
@Forgiveness552 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lewis. I am grateful for you and the amazing guests you bring to the masses. I learn soo much about emotional intelligence and how to be a better human being.
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499
@teenguyen4124 Жыл бұрын
I have listened to many videos of all kinds of things and I hv to say this is the most important and powerful video I hv ever seen/listened to. I hv forwarded this video to so many people. Everything about this video is amazing. Just hearing Vanessa’s voice is a joy. You can feel in her voice that she’s upbeat and happy since u feel ever cue we send out. Body language does not lie. The only thing about this video I don’t agree on is it’s very easy to detect a narcissist bc the truth will always come out. There are many signs coming out from a liar…no one can keep up with lies long term.
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Amazing ♥ Thank you for your kind words!
@carolgates52972 жыл бұрын
The slightest opportunity to go into anger and then the quickness with which they intend to apologize indicates all I need to know. An opportunity to see their ability to exercise responsibility and respect for their effects on others.
@debbieknight12242 жыл бұрын
I loved Vanessa and Lewis' interaction! They have a lot of chemistry and can really delve into the topics with examples. Great job!
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499
@tanixatanixa Жыл бұрын
Oh yeeeah! I was looking for this comment, the chemistry creates a different kind of synergy here, so beautiful
@paradisecolors2 жыл бұрын
Lewis Howes, I find your vides really really helpful. I have studied psychology, and I always learn so much new and interesting content from watching your interviews :) Thank you
@mecsonreuben2 жыл бұрын
FALL ASLEEP in a minute like baby after eating this get a nice sleeping and mind relaxation 👉kzfaq.info/get/bejne/bt2IZbRlucmqko0.html
@alvinlandin7484 Жыл бұрын
I watched the entire show and I was all smiles afterwards. What have you done to me.
@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын
Love that :)
@summersimonton34402 жыл бұрын
Fantastic information. I have taught the power of words for over 30 years. New words changed my life. I am grateful for this information you shared.
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
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@brieocea2 жыл бұрын
so excited for our kids to start learning this stuff in school 🙌🏼
@teenguyen4124 Жыл бұрын
Yes!!!!
@sherryripepi60242 жыл бұрын
Knowledge is power, understanding is wisdom. This is an educational video on the different cues of charisma. People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care. Charismatic leaders utilize a wide range of nonverbal warmth and likeability cues. They display genuine smiles, maintain positive eye contact, use a variety of gestures, orient their torsos toward those with whom they are engaging, touch others during conversations, and so forth.
@rafaelcarmany46310 ай бұрын
What an Amazing Person!! She is incredibly intelligent and a fantastic teacher. A wonderful presentation.
@ScienceOfPeople10 ай бұрын
Wow, thank you so much!! I'm honored.
@nature-lj4sj16 күн бұрын
Waow waow. Incredible talk. Thanks Lewis for hosting Vanessa. I have been interviewing for the past 3 months. I cleared all interviews with the communication i acquired over the years but this is next level. There is so much to improve. Thank you both so so much. I am sure i will do much better in future communications, team collaboration, video talks and interviews. ❤👏👏👌👌
@rebeccarossi40122 жыл бұрын
Awesome interview. This is the first time I ever heard Vanessa Van Edwards speak!! I just bought her book thank you!!!
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@vanessavanedwards80142 жыл бұрын
I am so honored! Thank you so much!
@rebeccarossi40122 жыл бұрын
@@lewishowesI soak this stuff up like a sponge. Every day learning more. If you ever want to do a show on viewers who's lives have been changed due to YOUR SCHOOL - count me in!
@DanaFreakingInspires2 жыл бұрын
❤️💕💜 Vanessa, you are amazing and I absolutely love your energy!! 😀 Vanessa , you even acknowledged your team! How awesome is that! Spread that energy everywhere!! We need more people like Vanessa and Lewis in the world 🌎!!! #LewisHowesForPresident !! 🙏 😁
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️
@josuecastrog8456 Жыл бұрын
Vannesa is so energetic, I am really want to know more
@davidknickerbocker513411 ай бұрын
It was perfect timing for me to come across such an informative and inspiring video. I’m gathering a new group of creatives who I picked based on their positive moral character. Your insight and research on effective communication will be extremely helpful in my goals with this group. Thank you!
@ScienceOfPeople10 ай бұрын
Yay! I'm so happy to hear that ❤
@Maxhindle2 жыл бұрын
Confidence is saying I am amazing… but not better than another, I recommend looking in the mirror daily until you can truly say you are amazing without ego 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️
@buddhaneosiddhananda84992 жыл бұрын
Don't be afraid of being honest about who and what you are...🥳🥳
@Laivinski2 жыл бұрын
@@buddhaneosiddhananda8499 So true.
@candiceberg52322 жыл бұрын
Perfectly worded
@sonnylisten81312 жыл бұрын
But I am BETTER than you all😀😀
@sonnylisten81312 жыл бұрын
@Brittany Carnes Then you must not be that good at it😀✌
@able57772 жыл бұрын
What fantastic, easy-to-understand, clearly communicated insights. She is amazing. And Lewis I love how, in your interviews in general, you always make sure to ask questions to make sure that you - and the audience at the same time - understand what the guest is saying. It's rare that I watch a video and really feel like I'm easily going to implement the lessons in my daily life, but that's how I feel with this one. I am only a fraction of the way through and am already amazed. Thank you!
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
Happy to hear this :)
@alan2a1l Жыл бұрын
Some great stuff. As far as hand gestures, yeah, I do audiobook narration and while reading to a mic all alone in a booth, using your hands is essential. It keeps it alive and communicative.
@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын
Yes absolutely!
@imanivee6897 ай бұрын
This was a great and informative interview! I learned a lot that will help me improve my nonverbal communication with others and pick up on cues they give me.
@ScienceOfPeople6 ай бұрын
So happy to hear that! 🙏🏻
@lauriecolon24142 жыл бұрын
I’m a realtor and not a salesperson or extroverted by nature. I will definitely be implementing these. Thank you for sharing!
@johnames64302 жыл бұрын
I was a lot like you, we are similar. It takes a strong and friendly type of person to make it in realty.
@vanessavanedwards80142 жыл бұрын
Woohoo! I am so so thrilled! And happy to help = )
@johnames64302 жыл бұрын
@@vanessavanedwards8014 Were there any presentations that were bad but the sharks ended up giving them a deal anyway?
@Nina-hk7ub2 жыл бұрын
I'm an extrovert LO & long to leave my home office! Been awful.
@ladyinmauve2 жыл бұрын
I didn't finish the interview; however, this has to be my favourite yet!. Thank you Lewis and Vanessa💛💛
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499
@vanessavanedwards80142 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@lauraaqui Жыл бұрын
What i love about you Lewis is you always ask the great questions, which leads to a much more intriguing talk. the questions are just as interesting as the answers. Laura in uk
@KimGonzalez-kt8uh Жыл бұрын
Is it just me or am I sensing some good chemistry between these two?!
@nadiavance3777 Жыл бұрын
Hahah his gaze!! Definitely! Seems really into her
@rovalq1 Жыл бұрын
@Nadia Vance and obviously she is noting his mesmerised 👀
@nadiavance3777 Жыл бұрын
@@rovalq1 maybe this is how charismatic people look like? Mesmerized, both haha
@XxDarkRaverxX Жыл бұрын
She is married
@vanessajones3041 Жыл бұрын
off the charts
@nicolelyon25302 жыл бұрын
Listening to two of my favorite people geek out over this with such enthusiasm really makes my day. 😁 So much power and inspiration in this talk!! 💙
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@tinaclayson47912 жыл бұрын
So so powerful 💗 I absolutely love Vanessa’s enthusiasm. Lewis, you are the best person to interview her, you have fantastic nonverbal cues and are a great example of charisma and power. I’m excited to read this new book. Thank you both for what you are putting into the world.
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@ciao23158 ай бұрын
I could listen to Vanessa all day! She’s such an inspiration! Thanks for this conversation Lewis ❤
@lewishowes8 ай бұрын
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@ScienceOfPeople7 ай бұрын
Thank you for your kind words! ❤
@jeannettearmendariz982410 ай бұрын
As a women working around men 1 out of 50..i have learned the nodding. I never realized i did it until someone pointed it out.
@ScienceOfPeople9 ай бұрын
Interesting!
@davids33882 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this podcast. I found the things you and Ms Van Edwards were discussing to be so interesting that I hopped on an online bookseller and purchased her cues book during the video. As a fellow introvert (an oblivious INTJ), many of the things she said resonated with me. I also saw myself in a few of the negative phrases and cues she was describing. I can't wait to read the book.
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
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@christianpayaalonso12642 жыл бұрын
I think the way she's describing labeling emotions to disengage is a way of bypassing/numbing the pain. I personally find it's healthier to allow the discomfort to move through you without trying to get rid of it so quickly. It depends on the situation of course: if I'm in an emergency where I need to keep a clear head, doing what she describes can be really helpful.
@yowein8787 Жыл бұрын
wow! thank you both. to call that mandatory viewing would be an understatement of extraordinary magnitude. one of the best ways you can spend an hour fourth. unless you have no desire to see the rest of your life and the relationships within it benift. I'll be watching that a few more time . my humble thanks.
@Marymar116 ай бұрын
Such a well-prepared lady
@daryl53792 жыл бұрын
I am 77yrs old. take no meds, played rugby for 20 yrs, worked in construction since I was 15yrs old, have no arthritis, sleep at least 8hrs a nite and sex at least 2 times a week. I never smoked, stopped drinking alcohol 40 yrs ago, have not had a coke, hamburger, mexican food or that type of rubbish in 50yrs.I go for my annual physical with these expensive doctors here in NB and they say, amazing, keep doing what you doing. But when I point out its all about diet and exercise they actually turn away, don't want to hear it. My contemporaries actually get very angry at me when i point out diet will help them but they would rather be sick and overweight with all their medications than be skinny and active like me. People say all the time, no way you almost 80, My apple watch said I walked 53 miles last month. Hope I don't sound egotistical, just want to point out diet and exercise are the answer at any age.
@DELERY2.0 Жыл бұрын
A year ago. Oops. I just replied to you and my reply didn't even post connected to your comment lol Hope you're still out there! Keep walking! We're going to run into each other eventually LOL teehee cuz I'm a walker too . Gnite! Stay safe out there
@IB4UUB4ME Жыл бұрын
No matter what we do, we still die. However that is not normal and very soon now death will be no more and we will live like what our original purpose was from our Creator! What a great time that will be!!
@caspermoes67624 ай бұрын
@@IB4UUB4MEmby
@shanashawl10243 ай бұрын
You inspired me sir! 😮 Great things in life like your health is really a product of discipline and consistency. Not that complicated .. but very hard to sustain. I guess it's never too late to regain and give honor to what's given to us as a gift. Our one life and one body. 😊 Man! I wanna be like you too.. Seems cool! Keep doing what you're doing ~
@johnmcfetridge39742 жыл бұрын
She is an absolute genius. Always so inspired by her. She was my first motivational speaker I followed. First choice . Best choice. She will make things fall in line just by listening to what she has to say. Her natural no nonsense is it...
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
👍
@Jeh06 Жыл бұрын
Vanessa teaches actually useful tips we can put into practice to achieve charisma. She opens up a door for us and makes our goals tangible. It was a pleasure watching this video.
@habibanazeera Жыл бұрын
The chemistry between two of you is awesome. And Vanessa you are soooo intelligent and sooo likeable. Thank you
@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын
You are so kind! Thank you ❤
@animefigurejunkie2 жыл бұрын
This is phenomenal. I have severe trauma and OCD, and I think this may be a tiny step in getting my life back. I am OBSESSED with social cues. They can destroy me.
@connectingthesciences2 жыл бұрын
The balance of warmth and competence makes perfect sense considering we have two hemispheres. Objective rational thought is only half your brain(logic, language, arithmetic ) the other deals in recognizing emotions, faces and melody. Basically our culture teaches to use half our brain to ignore the other and we wonder why people are depressed and anxious. Only thinking objectively is how you end up living a life of regrets.
@vanessavanedwards80142 жыл бұрын
Very interesting! I had not thought about that aspect.
@connectingthesciences2 жыл бұрын
@@vanessavanedwards8014 There is a lot on this subject that might interest you. I think I will make a video for you covering the science behind the things you have said, I think you might like it.
@rebekahbek10652 жыл бұрын
Thank you for bringing up the topic of statements that sound like a question. I didn’t know why this was annoying and now know! Thanks! ♥️
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡
@DawnofFab Жыл бұрын
I use my hands so much that I feel self-conscious when I notice people looking at my hands. Good thing to learn that it's a positive way to communicate my point!
@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын
It really is!
@irina.mio.2 жыл бұрын
You guys made me cry by the end! Gratitude is powerful! ❤️ Great interview, thank you so much, I appreciate you! 🙏🏼
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@daytripper36012 жыл бұрын
I just got done saying the same thing!! That was an Awesome way to wrap it up! Nice to see you thought so too!!
@VessiTessi2 жыл бұрын
I've learned so much from you all in this video! Thank you so much for sharing!❤
@radientproductions97992 жыл бұрын
same, SO MANY gems dropped in this episode
@VessiTessi2 жыл бұрын
@@radientproductions9799 right! I especially loved the part where she talked about personal space and the energy that selfies project. I view them in a completely different way now!
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
Thank you🙂
@VessiTessi2 жыл бұрын
@Lewis Howes no, thank you for putting such high positive energy in every single video you put out. Your energy is felt through the screen and is highly infectious. Watching on of your videos first thing in the morning always get my day to start off on the right foot😁
@mabelsto.domingo1824 Жыл бұрын
I learned a lot esp for an introvert like me. We have the best intentions but it does not come across. Probably one of your best episode. So authentic. So grateful and appreciative for what you do.
@lewishowes Жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking the time out of your day to check out the interview! 🧡
@ScienceOfPeople Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I appreciate you ❤
@tabone888 Жыл бұрын
Confidence is the belief in yourself and preparation. The more you practice the more confident you become.