To heal a wound you need to stop touching it

Let her go. There's plenty out there. Don't have a scarcity mindset!

If she pulls away, mirror her and show her that you can live without her. Thanks

A little story about a woman's logic: My friend's girlfriend dumped him after a 5 years of relationship saying to him that they are "different" and put him in the friend zone... He was fucked for the first 2 months while she was posting happy pictures, comments, and travelling all the time. 4 months after the break up he started dating new girl and guess what, his ex girlfriend is now calling him all the time crying and begging him to come back to her.. I think it's called the fear of loss :D

Let her go and if she comes back she's yours!!! Hurts to try but the only answer my friends...

It's good to understand this. I find that if you really just try to focus on you and making yourself a million times better than what you were, you'll lose all your feelings and not even care anymore. Don't dwell on that person. Just always stay busy hang out with friends find hobbys get in shape. Go to work. Work extra hours. Learn new things. Trust me you wont be feeling hurt soon enough. Dont bother feeling sad for too long just stop that and alter your mind set. Remember you can't control anyone. It's just a person. Dont ever try to make something work when they are treating you as a 2nd choice. Have self respect. And if you cant stop thinking about them when ur busy, you need to think of the negatives of that person like they broke up with you. They dont like you and it's not fair to force them into something they dont want. Love freely as I heard from a few dating coaches. If someone leaves let them because you want them to be happy.

i chased her almost 4 month , but all in vain, i would advise you all if your gf/bf says that he/she cant live with you anymore, dont think anything else just block him/her.. chasing means losing your self respect nothing else

Always remember that YOU are more important! It's not worth waiting and wasting time so MOVE ON! If it's ment to be it will happen if not than move on! You will be stronger if you do! If you waist time and obsesse you will be viewed as a pathetic looser and you WILL be one too! Fix your self and fuck that girl/guy! Kill em with success! Trust me I have LIFE experience! Good luck working on yourself!

it only works when she still have a slightest space for you in her mind, if she moved on, there is nothing will work. you pull, she walks away, you push, she walks away too. have self respect and open up for new comers

Really good advice, once you love a girl it's so god dam hard to stick to your plan. I'm fed up of my girlfriend pulling away, it's come to the point where I don't care, I just walk

The more emotionally involved the more vulnerable you become

My ex calling me back again and again after I stopped chasing her. So funny world. But I m out of ur life baby. Sorry.

this guy talks like an Hypnotist

Spot on advice from Chris. I did and now she is chasing me. Easy peacy.... :D

My girl left me and it is time for no contact rule. I told her that if she changes her mind to let me know and that is it. She has to come to me! Gotta stay strong, boiz!

I can live without her as well now. She only has the power/control if you let her have it/give it to her.

Effective buddy...ive done all your instructions. Great results!

Who the fuck keep on disliking this guy's videos? He is the real deal when it comes to relationship advise!

The most honest video on the internet

No matter what, do not rely on anyone else. Independence is the most important part of a relationship.

Your videos are so informative I'm going through a dilemma and watching your videos make so much scence thank you chris I am applying your strategies and see how I go from there.

yeah ive done all the things that this guy is saying and its really effective! your good man!

A friend of mine just had his girlfriend asked him for a “break” This idiot has been blowing up her phone begging her to not take a break.... I told him not to reach out to her AT ALL..! But obviously he didn’t listen and now he’s just chasing her like an idiot He doesn’t get it man🤦🏻‍♂️

This definitely works

Glad to see i'm kinda doing ok. Since my 1st GF (was 14 then), she was acting hot & cold and i just dumped her. Later i cried (to my self), but still didn't say a word to her. Since then with every woman which turns on me "cold" i go colder. No text, no calls, not showing a f*ing sign of neediness. If they text me i text them too, but i keep it 50:50. It sets a different kind of dynamics.

No doubt about your info and experience but bro my ex is nuts....

They always come back. Remember that!

Tbh, I never text someone a 2nd time if they don't reply, I let them come back. I won't be in no rush to get back to them tho

Your videos are always a hit and SUPER insightful. And daily help!

I wonder if this really works with women that have high body counts. If their ability to pair bond has been burned out, than any man coming or going wouldn't matter much to her

Scarcity increases value!

Even in a relationship, pill away a little once in awhile and allow each other to have your own space

Ive just tried this, my girlfriend was being difficult and vague when I was trying to see her so I delayed my message for about 6 or 7 hours and then hit her with the one word text. I havn't heard from her for a couple of days but that's the idea. She wants to be alone enjoy, in the meantime Im just chilling.

You are too good!!! Very soothing to hear your advise crisis. God bless you!!!

It doesn't hurt. It's a relief...

I love your words Chris!

Solution - don’t ever fall in love a woman Be with her but don’t open your heart to her

Push everyone away .!

In 90% of cases if her attraction level is above 50 - 60% she will come back if you properly implement No Contact Rule.

My ex gf broke it off with me almost 7 months ago . At first she didn't like me contacting her when we just broke it off which is why i waited every few weeks and she started to seem responsive . fast forward into the months still the same she responds responds short and sometimes when i don't reach out she does but its always some small text like what are you doing ?. Everytime I trying flirting with her she shuts me down and When i bring up liking her she still shuts me down. Its been going on for 7 months I just snap , I told her if she can't be nice and not let me banter with her what is the whole point in texting each other ? I told her to stop texting me and she did. Its been almost 3 weeks since than . My ex is very proud and stubborn and I guess I should just move on .

What do you do if acting too cold, distant, and pushing her away is what made her lose attraction in the first place...? (I fucked up, I know)

Thirteen years ago my ex said she didn't want me anymore. Haven't spoken to her at all ever since. I'm pretty sure she's been silently desiring me every day since. 🤦🏼‍♂️

*This works out everytime* #Powerful

How long should you push away? How long to go no contact? I will never reach out to my ex. If she cares, she will get into contact with me. I am not going to be a fool.

Need to make a video of what to do when she comes back

In the last year two women pulled out of my life 1 had too much crap on her plate the other one was insecure and jealous, so very little or no contact and not chasing didn’t seem to work, answer that one Chris!?

Men but it's hard to resist emotional needs. How can I ignore her when I miss her like crazy. Even if I want to resist it.... It's kinda hard to be strong enough to handle it.

I have seen this first hand! I have a girl as a friend and she backed away from her BF because he was too needy. I was on a night out with her and she was complaining that he hadn’t messaged her in two days, she also kept checking her phone to see if he had messaged. This works.

All y’all kings up in these comments really makes me feel overwhelmingly optimistic. I’d buy you all a lager and challenge you to an arm wrestling match if I could. Man sh*t, my dudes!

You drop her. And go find another lady. period.

All this info is true! It works! Although I have violated all the attraction rules.

this works, I always want them when they push me away,smh.or pull away..lol..is it an ego thing??

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My ex just said it was cool for we could talk and shit. Just tried to call her after 3 days off this and she just sent me to voicemail lmao. Welp Im over it lol

My ex came back to me once, my no-contact was really successful everything was perfect until now she has left me again. I don’t even know if I want to repeat the process again.

After a few weeks of no contact we ended up talking on the phone for a couple hours. A good conversation with laughter. When talk of our relationship came up she explained she didn't feel it was a good idea to get back together and would likely see other people. I followed up with a text saying I'm going to start dating other people too and that being friends wasn't an option. Was this the right approach? Is it back to no contact... maybe for good this time?

Men must understand that the girl that returns back, is not the one that had walked away from you. Chances are that she has tried the whole block on her way back to you.

Awesome video, Chris!

How people treat you has nothing to do with you. It all has to do with what's going on inside them. So move on and assume you dodged a bullet.

She was distant, i became distant on purpose and she sent a text being mad because i did that to her.She blamed me that i hurt her and that she is unsure now.I said ok call me when you re sure.She replied we have to talk some other time because i dont know what i want now.Ok i said, we'll talk soon.I think she wants to punish me and take control.I have gone no contact.

My ex used to do this 2me n I loved him so much...😐 nw I know he's got a teacher.

When she left me I didn’t call her not once. Been 4 days so far

Really great vid. Thanks Chris

How can I push my ex away when she is with someone else that makes her happy now and we only talk when it’s about my son

I became desperate and start chasing her she is way further than me now ..but she didn't close the communication door ...what should i do??

I am facing this situation now This days I was chasing her like anything but after I watch this videos and comments I have learned so many lessons and experience so what am I going to do now is I should be cool myself without her and let her come back

I recently picked up your guide and got to the part where you showed the right way to go no contact. My ex recently told me that she's talking to someone new and that she feels happier without me and all that other good stuff a scorned woman says. After 6 days of chasing her, texting calling and seeing her in person I pulled away and haven't initiated contact since. I've been very active on social media and know she's watching. Is it necessary to initiate the "No contact text message" or should I let it be?

I'd pay to see my ex and if she had a new bf..id shake his hand and say thank you with a giant smile and say take care and walk away lol

And then they never saw eachother again...

WHAT IF YOU ARE MARRIED AND LIVING TOGETHER , HOW TO DO PLAY IT ?

Word of advice don't go drink while in a emotional state. Lol I had thus working in my favor 1 night of drinking made the whole process difficult. Plus living with someone is way harder to get her back. So patients and time. No contact is important!

Guys.... Whatever this guy is saying is 100 % true... Just listen him and follow his advice. You will get a lot than you are expecting now in dewasted state of broken relationship.

What to do when we have a break up and she contacts me after 2 days of break up

It works that’s what imma jus say

This comment section is really underrated.

Thank you

Ya I had been experienced right now.Since last week

The problem I had was with texting she would messege me every morning and get shitty when I didn't text back in X amount of time but by texting all day it fucked up the attraction level

Super cool video

Does this work if you have tried for months of getting her back.

I pushed her away and now it’s been 2 years and she living happily ever after and I am living in hell 😂😂

Shouldve found this video before she’d found someone else

Develops Attraction.. question.. but what uf you live with your x and she is helping you out until you get on your feet will this still work

Let her go away she will come with regret.

What if she finds someone else... what if during no contact she moves on and finds someone else?

You are awesome !! Man..

i will try all of your advise all about when she pull away and other related to this lets see how its works for me she told that she will be broke up - today i agree let see

Thanks for saving.

Hey! I broke up with my ex before 2 months. But between that I begged her so much. And I shouted at her and I hurt her so much. I went to her and asked are you in relationship with someone else like that. So she got so angry. And I didn't relaized that. She told you won't change your character . But ri8 now I realized everything without her. I felt so bad what I did to her. So I went to her I told her that I am so sorry for everything. I don't have trust on you. I believe In others words. Not yours. I am so sorry. She told me I can understand your situation. And she told me don't wait for me I don't care you changed your character or not. I don't want any relation now I want to be happy with myself. I told her u r angry on me and my negative thoughts are making you to speak like this. But she told whatever, I am speaking normally with you . Don't wait and waste your time. I won't come back to you anymore. Is she will come back to me or not? We have to study till 4 more years in same class. What to do? She told I am not even Caring abt you. And she cried because of you I lost my Friends . But I can't understand her mind now is she is crying for them or for me. What to do now ?

If I did all the bad things, calling her, texting her... are my chances done of her coming back ? I stopped messaging her and contacting her in any way. But I don’t know if it’s over over because I didn’t handle things right. How am I looking ?

Should I avoid hanging out with our common friends to avoid her?

nice video buddy

I cheated on my x and we broke up do you think this would work in my situation ??

I see Men keep saying if she pulls away etc leave her find better. If you said that sadly u are one of the needy men these videos are referring too. It’s your needyness that is driving her to pull away. Remember 85% of men are needy and over pursue. Therefore 85 out of 100 relationships are woman who are needing space from your insecurities. U men in here still refuse to accept your needyness.

Really it’s true Honestly...

I just told her it was over she said ok then like it was nothing I think I mess up she is gone for reals.

I was so upset with her behavior...for past two months after joining a new job she not seen to be interested in me she rarely called ...i asked explanations for her behavior and she refused to give any....finally i told her i am breaking up with u and see. Seemed okay ....i been two weeks already since no contact....what should i do ?

hey chris I broke up wit my girl some months ago and now I want her back but not now she seems like she's happy being single and she keeps giving me the hot and cold treatment and finally I jus told her do watever she wants and I told her im sick of her games and it's been 30 days since then do you think shell be back to me?

I did this, and she got infuriated. She ended it because she says she doesn't feel there's enough romantic chemistry. Yet she shows she's openly jealous and doesn't want me talking to anyone, but says she isn't sure what to do. I try to respond as little as possible, she actually wanted me to come over to "cuddle" .....i declined knowing there was no opportunity for sex due to that time of the month, and felt like she was only using me for a emotional blanket. She contacts me daily, but rarely about us. Idk what to do anymore