Thank you so much Senator!! I’m honored.

Mann

That is so damn true

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Favour JayD it's true like my xbf we just break up 2 weeks ago..he just taking a small mistake to break me up and that is really hurt for me 😭😭😭😭

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@@emmanuelokkaka6369 Stop spamming on people's comment. I'm going to report your account.

@Suzie Smith For me no sign too. She blocked me everywhere, she took down our picture of us together in instagram instantly, and never reached in around 6 months until now. I feel hopeless, but want her back :(

@@Kampfhamster1992 😢💔. Go to the ocean- let the ocean breezes refresh your soul.. immerse yourself in God’s Word. Make your body healthy and strong . Make all the money you can. Educate yourself on something that interests you- work hard... stay out of bars and clubs. Connect with nature and fresh air. May God bless you and give you the desires of your heart . May He especially grant His most gracious mercy and strength.

I see the 5 sign 7

@@Kampfhamster1992 even try going to a rainforest, it can cleanse your soul. Mediation is great, your thoughts maybe looping over and over I know it all sucks

And this channel has helped me tremendously. Keep listening. Thank you Coach

I wish I read this on the day I was heartbroken after I break up I went through. But I'm feeling better and moved on from my ex and dating someone else now But I still wanna say thank you anyways.

After how many days of no contact he reached you?

I sure hope so!

Then you haven’t forgave them

I’m getting there! An I definitely won’t!!!

Oh I miss him and the great relationship we had. I'd reconnect with him as a good friend, but I am too afraid to feel too much again. He's lost my trust. He went over a year to start reaching out, and he did it by commenting on FB. After about five months of conversing on other people's posts, I sent him a friend request. He never accepted it, so I backed off. Not even commenting. I just don't want to be the object of a game.

My aunt and uncle split up during dating, he dumped her, she went on with her life and a year later he came back. They’ve been married over 50 years!

Dana Bacon hang in there. It took six months of no contact with my husband for him to come running back out of nowhere. It’s true if you’re sitting around waiting, they can’t come back.

@@Taran532 what do you mean by that?

@james anonymous thank you :)

He is not your best "friend" if he is your boyfriend and you are in a romantic relationship

I know

Its been 15 days since my girlfriend broke up with me. Idk what did wrong, I thought i was the best thing in her life, I worked long hrs 7 days a week, on days off or when i get half day off i lounge on the couch watch Netflix and i try to help out around the house. She used that as an excuse to break up. Something so petty. Never had a huge argument just little small differences. I cant figure out why she left me.

One more thing, im in no contact right now, how do i know if they are spying on me or if they have old pics of us if we dont have no contact?

I need to talk to someone because I feel so very lonely and depressed after breakup 🥺🥺

Be strong Nancy!!

@@somchaykethkan5352 ya I'm trying to be

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Yes.. but at 101 yrs, my mother is correct.. Leave him alone, and he'll come home ,,,,,dragging,,,,, not wagging.... his tail behind him. I'm 77 and at this age, well...not a lot of time left....love yourselves and prayer is another tool....

You're doing NC the right way.I'm happy for you & your progress. As for me,7+ months since being dumped.6+ months of NC(she blocked me just before I entered NC). Like you too,I worked on myself.Also,I didn't check her social media,etc.etc.I fully committed to100% no contact. @ 3+ months of NC her sister messaged me asking an obscure question. The next day her mom messaged me as well. I didn't reply to either.I didn't feel the need to. 5+ months into NC her best friend sent me a friend request ON MY EX's b-day. I only accepted it last week,3 weeks later. The next day,my ex finally reached out. EXACTLY 30 weeks since break up. She just messaged : How you doing? I replied 2 days later: I'm good. A few hours later she sent another message,this time more inquisitive and playful.Asking how I was so happy. That was a week ago. I haven't responded to it. I have decided to stay in no contact and continue working on myself. Thanks Coach Lee. Your videos were helpful since I started viewing them @ the time of my break up. I'm taking it one day at a time. This has been a weird and tumultuous year esp.with the ever prevalent virus and quarantine. Good luck to everyone. P.S. As I'm writing this,i have kept really busy. Started a promising home business just last month. I'm also helping/hanging out with my cousin & friends with his essential goods business. It's quite ok to grieve and process your break ups. The key is to keep busy(it works for me). Eat healthy.Sleep well.Exercise ALOT(!). Meditate(or pray). Take up hobbies. And finally,appreciate friends and family. The little things. Kids playing.The blue sky,your pets,etc.

@@benjunior1678 Nice work! Stepping back really allowed you to see the chess moves being played..very intriguing! Just curious...why are you continuing with the no contact now that she has reached out? How did your ex know you were happy?

@@granite99 thanks for your kind words. It's weird. For the month prior to her reaching out(@ her bday too to which I stayed silent)...I got really BUSY with multiple business ventures. Sold a lot of different products. There is opportunity despite this pandemic. I digress. Anyway,my buddies set me up to chat with/hang out with 2 different girls. Just across the street from my house & business,lol. Then her best friend spied on my account 1 1/2 weeks ago. And I'm really ON MY PURPOSE NOWADAYS. There's a saying: " You will always lose money chasing women but never lose women chasing money". Her 2 brief messages didn't move my heart and mind. It didn't warrant a reply imho. I'm using my brain this time. Not my heart. We had a toxic relationship at times tbh. I supported her and was good to her. Yet,I acknowledge my mistakes now too. I was willing to work things out during BU but she chose to leave. During no contact,I did a lot of self reflection. Trying my best to change/improve for the better. Hindsight is 20/20 and I now see the several things that my ex did, to hurt me. Out of anger or unresolved issues from her past or frustration with her career? Who knows. To answer your question, self improvement is a process. I chose to remain in NC to continue that process. I'm just stepping back and being careful. She can approach the centerline a little bit more then maybe I'll respond. If not,I'll stay in no contact. I was feeling great just before she reached out. Her messages kind of threw me off balance a little bit,LOL. But I'm remaining stoic and chill.

Miss him terribly ,but he never replies

You dodged a bullet. Better she leaves now than after wasting years and years more of your life.

I hope yall back together ❤️ good luck.

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Me too😂 So full of wisdom and patiente

I absolutely love this man.

.... Or 👀👀

Yes...I'm an old lady....and i still love him,,,,his wisdom,,,i am going through all this,,,,its not just for the young...77 yrs old. I feel so foolish....

Currently binging myself 😂😂😂

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Probably should of said something different, but it's all good ,we learn from our mistakes, Good luck to you,🙏

That’s so amazing!!! I’m on this journey!!!

So happy for you! Can I ask what you said when you reached out? I’ve been in NC for almost 6 months and I’m struggling on what to say when I reach out to him. (Or can anyone give me ideas on first texts after NC) 🙏

@@GooodGirlAsh I called him and I was nervous but I did it... I said I have invested so much time in this relationship.. I would really love to meet with you and discuss our relationship.. because I have strategies to make this work .. I have worked on myself and I fully understand why this relationship had to end and I have worked on myself and have the patience and the time.. So would you be willing to meet with me so we can discuss how we can make this work..His exact words verbatim .. were it’s Possible.. Then I said what time would work for you? It happened but time went by ..his medical problems got in the way because at that time he had Covid.. So it was a month later.. then he came sat down and I said would you like to try again? He said Yes .. Just give me time and don’t pressure me.. I kept in contact with texting 3 to 4 times a week and waited .. He called and as time went on he called more .. But it took Patience lots of it .. it wasn’t until 7 months and half all together.. since the day we broke up..

@@GooodGirlAsh I hope that helped you because it worked for me.. and when I texted and he didn’t text back right away , I couldn’t take it personally.. then I would wait and try again 3 days later.. Remember your Ex has feelings too .. He even admitted he was petrified .. Because he was hurt so deeply by his Ex’s .. He let his walls down but I had to wait patiently

Awh!! That's amazing! Congratulations! Mine is also a success story as well! I 1000% AGREE!!! Coach Lee KNOWS what he is talking about. He is Jesus when it comes to relationships 😂

Did she ??

@@m1ll1on4r3 no she didn't. I really worked on myself and got myself right. I don't need her. Focus on yourself and your emery ✨️.

@@ituachristopher5292 that's not very right spelling a "cast" on someone that's just morally wrong but thank you for the suggestion.

@@florencepasca1569 thank you but I am happy how I am do not want them anymore

Thank u

What if it's two breakups... I think it's less likely for them to come back😢

@@angelalawrencee6207 omg stfu

@@SAMEntalhealth lmaoo😂😂😂

@@Ali_Sky_Violin these damn spam messages are like 3 months long!!!

@@SAMEntalhealth ikr, so annoying. Do you have a NC story?

Day 1 of no contact, I actually decided to block him because he never stopped contacting me after he moved out but I realize he’s just keeping tabs to see what I’m doing.

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@Suzie Smith yes I did as Lee advises this, especially as I'd not heard from him in 4 months! I was friendly, light and playful but kept it short so 3 messages as it was quite late at night too. Lee says they should reach out again in 2-5 days but it's been two weeks but it's a step in the right direction. My ex jumped into a rebound relationship less than 2 weeks after we split...keep watching Lee's videos on no contact to keep your resolve strong! 😘

@Suzie Smith I've subscribed to most of the relationship coaches but Lee is the cream of the crop 👌 His experience and expertise is second to none and I trust it. Stay strong and build your confidence and life to a place that you'll know your ex would be lucky to be part of it again! If it's meant to be, the universe will give you the lessons then deliver what is best for you! Xx

Wow. What a coincidence. I guess love was in the air at the time because my ex reached out to me for the first time 2 weeks ago also, after 4 months of silence. However, he hasn’t contacted me again since. We need to be strong, it’s hard but I think it’s worth it. And we have Coach Lee to help us! ❤️ we need to follow his expert advice. It’s the best thing we can do. Good luck with your ex. Hope he realizes soon that what you two had was better than his current rebound. You seem like a nice person. All the best! 💝💝💝

@@Crazybcrazyb888 Wow! Thanks so much for your fantastic reply and wonderful support! I'm kinda excited for us both in being strong for 4 months and it paying off with a reach out! I'm a optimistic person but can't help but think one reach out could literally be them checking in on us but a second would really enable me to think they may be rethinking their decision 🤔 We may not hear anything else so close to Christmas but if he's reached out whilst having a new girlfriend, that's not good as she wouldn't be happy about that. Time will tell but let's stay strong and Lee's videos will keep us determined 💪 I value his guidance so much!

@@lisaofthelodge hi. Any updates? Would love to know☺️

Hey man I had a similar thing happen. September was last contact unfortunately we were engaged and we were supposed to be married in December 2020. She made it very clear that she was done with us and me. Long story short I wish you luck with your relationship. Just play it cool and time

Bro drop her, she doesn’t deserve you, your to good for her.

Don't do it man. Think about it, if her rebound hadn't cheated on her she would still be in bed with him. You deserve better, man.

She's just trying to keep you as her backup option who she can cry to when its not working with main guy.

UPDATE! After my latest post she texted on three separate occasions asking for advice, one of which was through an unknown number flirting with me. I kept my cool and did not initiate any contact. Today she texted and called me again and asked me to meet her. I did and she vented and cried and cried and I let her do 80% of the talking. I was playful, charming and showed her my exciting new expanding business, which by the way, is skyrocketing! Apparently her rebound guy is a cheater and does drugs, which she almost fell into doing with him. And so while we were talking, I put my foot down and in a playful manner told her she could get lost if she’s expecting me to be her friend and told her I would never be her gay male girlfriend! She was wearing the ring I bought her on our very first date and told me how her mom said I was much better for her. She also told me how she recognizes her co-dependency issue and she even brought up the old happy memories. But in the end, I put my hand on her neck (she likes dominant behavior) and went straight for her lips and started making out with her (she reciprocated) - I backed off and told her I should get going and am now realizing I have a decision to make. P.S. let them do 100% of the pursuing and let them chase you! They will crumble and fall eventually and just know that you really will get another chance. Just be careful and don’t let them deceive you.

petrufova, I recommend Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit which is fantastic. It has a in it including strategies for every situation. myexbackcoach.com/ebk

@@jannlewandowski5540 yeah I know you already replied to another of my comments but I can't afford this..

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Hey, I know this is a horrible situation, but believe this. She has NOT forgotten you. If someone was a big part of your life, you can’t just forget them. I still remember people from elementary school, so memory is not short. Maybe she just needs a breather right now, but there is still hope. Also, how do you know she’s happy? I have anxiety, so I do things like this all the time in my mind, but let’s think logically for a second. Sure, maybe she seems happy, but was it just a brief moment that you saw her in person or on an Instagram post? Maybe it was just a moment of happiness. However, that doesn’t mean that she’s happy. She’s still going to experience those nights alone without, thinking about the relationship and you! We can have happy moments and not be happy as a collective. We can try to guess and read our exes’ minds, but that will only be allowing ourselves to spiral down further. Let her get out of relief so that she has the ability to miss you. I believe in you, you got this! Most people begin to miss you at around the 45-75 day mark five or take, so take these months to really hone in on yourself. The 30 day no contact usually isn’t enough time, so she most likely hadn’t had enough time by then to really begin to miss you. Wait until she reaches out, then you know for sure that she misses you, even if it just seems small like asking how you are. All hope is not lost, just stick to no contact. Based on pattern recognition inside the human brain, it will be weird that she’s not hearing from you, and she will begin to think about you even if it’s subconsciously. I know these words might fall on deaf ears or might not help much, but try to focus on you. People always told me that, and it would just annoy me. But think about who you were in the relationship, were you happy (for the most part) and amazing? Think about what she loved about you and who she fell in love with in the first place. Become that person and more by being the best you, she will notice that and begin to miss you. You are worth being missed. You are worth it. Have hope and faith because you’ve got this!!!

@@destinygamergirlrock thank you for taking time to reply While i agree with you on the mindset But in this day and age social media ruined relationships .. i don’t think she will be able to sit alone and miss me while there is always more creeps to simp just waiting for you to get out of the picture .. while battling with depression i was still the best man that she could ever find I worked so hard on myself the last 6 years just so i don’t end up killing myself .. from gyms to mindset to whatever thought you think of while imagining what a perfect boyfriend would be ( yet i know no one could be perfect but i tried my best ) All girls wants this badboy guy that falls in love with them and disconnect himself from other girls and give them all the time and attention they need 24/7 While you love spending all the time with her from playing games to solving problems helping her with exams and anxiety etc Now i start to realize it was wrong Sadly .. when you show this much emotions to people .. you will kind of lose value in their eyes and stop feeling like you are a prize that they have to chase And i think the day she realizes her old relation wasn’t “ Toxic “ She will regret her decision and wants to come back By that time id either killed myself or filled my heart with hate .. because thats the only way i could get over her sadly . I wish she would be here everyday .. but no my friend Its funny all the girls i treated badly wanted to get in a relation with me and i still found a way to push them off While the only person i cared about in this world and gave all my heart and soul into choose to leave me behind .

she maybe reading this comment with your profile picture

@@themoonbleu627 she doesn't know English 😅

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