Can we just talk about how unfamiliar we are with our vaginas and how frustrating that is and how helpful this video is
@melaniequai15044 жыл бұрын
I mean..u can’t rlly look up there or see it fully. So even if u feel around it’s always like a weird dark void lmao
@himadribansal78354 жыл бұрын
Yeah we are very unfamiliar with our vaginas and this video doesn't even help a bit😂
@christinas.34614 жыл бұрын
melanie quai you can see the cervix though, you have to use a mirror
@klng12854 жыл бұрын
I just want to scream!!!!!!!
@tora16723 жыл бұрын
i feel like they should really teach about it in depth. i mean i genuinely thought i didn't have a vagina when I was struggling to put a tampon on.
@zandradocken70945 жыл бұрын
They should really teach in school about cups and how your cervix moves. This is very helpful. Thank you so much!
@Liliana-yw3zw5 жыл бұрын
Zandra Docken they didn’t even teach female anatomy in my sex ed class and didn’t even cover periods. And I graduated a month ago
@saraht18655 жыл бұрын
That sucks. We learn about periods and contraception at school in Australia
@JooIllingworth5 жыл бұрын
I completely agree! I had no idea Cups existed until last year and I jumped to buy one immediately.
@aprildagreyhound50605 жыл бұрын
R u American as my school did
@turnertwist5 жыл бұрын
Agreed. I had no idea your cervix moved.
@erikajohnson7434 жыл бұрын
I just finished my first cycle with a cup!! No learning curve. No leaks. No more other products. I'm definitely wanting all my friends to try them. Its truly life changing!!!
@pendharkaranuja3 жыл бұрын
Which brand did you use
@erikajohnson7433 жыл бұрын
@@SpitikobyAparnaReddy Are you making sure the cup is open inside? Sometimes it doesn't pop open without a little work..
@erikajohnson7433 жыл бұрын
@@SpitikobyAparnaReddy So if your leaking and your cup is fully opened, and without any creases, I would also recommend cleaning the little holes around the edges making sure they are clear as they create suction. The other things that come to mind if those aren't the issue are cup size, flow, pooping. Is your cup the right size? Even though they say I should use a size 2 or B cup, that's half true. In the beginning of my cycle our cervix is high and I need the larger cup. I still need to empty my cup every 6 hours during my few first days. (Endometriosis yay 😭) Then middle to end of period, the cervix is lower. Big cup brothers me. Need to use small. So I think we need more than one. So is your cup the correct size and are your changing it to flow versus the 12 hours all cups say 🤣🤣. And finally pooping 💩💩💩 lol. They say you dont have to take it out. But I almost push mine out, its uncomfortable and out of position. So I just take it out. Also your cup should feel comfortable when it's open and in correctly. You really shouldn't feel it. Get to know your vagina. The cup should be positioned almost tucked to your pubic bone and sitting under your cervix. I truly hope this will help. It's been almost a year now and I would go back. And the cups I get are $12 for 4 on Amazon 2 of each sizes. Haven't used or bought any pads or tampons. Lmk if theres any other way I can help. Wishing you the best!!
@erikajohnson7433 жыл бұрын
@@pendharkaranuja I buy them from Amazon. Lms if I can give you the url of the set I bought. 4 cups, 2 sizes for around 12dollars. They are perfectly in between soft and hard. Comfortable, easy to use and open up, no leaks.
@lanchitran50723 жыл бұрын
@@erikajohnson743 hey that sounds awesome! can you send the link to the cups you bought?
@halcyonlps52725 жыл бұрын
*"Feel free to ask for help"* Can anyone from the comment section insert my cup?
@gimygaming86554 жыл бұрын
I volunteer
@NibblesTheNibbler4 жыл бұрын
Negatory
@gancanagh35704 жыл бұрын
gimy gaming that’s some real friendship lmao
@gimygaming86554 жыл бұрын
@@gancanagh3570 bonding time, as I like to call it.
@brokenally59024 жыл бұрын
I would but we are probably far away from each other. Remember kids, CoNCeNt iS KeY
@courtneyulrich33745 жыл бұрын
Got my first cup today and I’ve never felt more like “I can’t female right” than today 🤣🙃😭 you’re video helped a little! Thanks girls
@Jacksonluv815 жыл бұрын
I felt the same way! Lots of tears ands felt like I was a weirdo with a vag too small to be normal. Emailing the cup company and lube helped so much..... I got you Courtney, what ever you need, I'll help.
@RealMexFoodShouldntGiveUDrrhea4 жыл бұрын
I’m femaling right now and I need an alternative to itchy pads
@nehla63093 жыл бұрын
@@Jacksonluv81 yeah the first time pulling the cup was so frightening. And that first was today. I got to know that my vag is also too small. This video helped me alot
@hiimjohnquinones29713 жыл бұрын
You'll be great! I know it's been a year, but you are a strong, beautiful woman and there's a learning curve 💗
@sia15163 жыл бұрын
How did you place it? 🥺🥺 I am so confused
@dreamcometrue1213 жыл бұрын
Does anyone else love the fact that you can just go commando now and not have period knickers on and the feeling of horrible pads that make you itch? 😂😂
@OzmaOfOzz2 жыл бұрын
Everyone 🤣 God how horrible to wear pads in the summer when it's hot as hell and you want to wear a dress and get all scared the pad is going to move or worse, make *that* sound... of a diaper
@dynamicdivinereadings65202 жыл бұрын
I hate pads 😒. I have to use pads & tamps @ the same time b/c I'm a freak of nature 🥲
@krystlemurphy85142 жыл бұрын
@@dynamicdivinereadings6520 I ran out of panty liners yesterday so I was doing tampon and pad. After a few hours, my skin was not happy.
@nehagupta84732 жыл бұрын
O that feeling is beyond anything..by the fourth day of my period I would be waddling like a duck with the rashes.. not any more...
@alicegrace132 жыл бұрын
OH MY GOD. YESS!! ITS NOT JUST ME?
@haleyh32424 жыл бұрын
I can not stress enough, DO IT IN THE SHOWER as much as you can. Its so much easier to get it in squatting in the shower. Also it makes less mess...obviously lol
@jasmine.5494 жыл бұрын
Should we measure our cervix while squatting down as well?
@Em222144 жыл бұрын
Jasmine any position that feels most comfortable. Doesn’t really matter.
@jasmine.5494 жыл бұрын
@@Em22214 thankyou so much!
@countrygirl1979064 жыл бұрын
Plus with the water it acts as a lubricant and makes it much easier to insert.
@melaniequai15044 жыл бұрын
one time I tried to insert it in the bath (my cup kept leaking so I was just sitting in the bath free bleeding out of frustration) and it just got all kinds of lost. Shower seems great. Do not insert in the bath. Do. Not.
@kwpp73 жыл бұрын
I'm one of the "cup changed my life" people because my period is so heavy the first three days that pads are a horrendously bloody disaster and tampons never open properly. Having said that, I find that it can still require some fiddling around from cycle to cycle to get it to sit comfortably without any leaks. The ability to stay clean and still exercise without feeling "the goosh" is so worth it.
@vfabila212 жыл бұрын
I agree with you on that, I feel the same!
@infinity-gn9xq5 жыл бұрын
Whoever people has developed mens cup.. Deserves a Nobel Prize.. Periods have never been same for me.. I can work long shifts, go to gym.. No stains, no worries.. Even less pain and cramps.. Yassss
@anjalihajari38763 жыл бұрын
Agreed 👍🏼
@kwpp73 жыл бұрын
SAME. The first three days of my period are incredibly heavy. Even super absorbency tampons constantly leaked and pads were disgusting. I got tired of my entire nether regions and inner thighs looking like a murder scene occurred. The ability to stay clean with a cup makes me beyond happy.
@nononsenseneenee73 жыл бұрын
....
@BlueCLupei2 жыл бұрын
That last point is something that should get brought up more. I did so much video watching and googling before I finally bought and tried my cup, and I did not understand just how much my pain from cramps would decrease! Hell, it took me a couple cycles to realize that I was barely cramping at all, unlike with tampons where I would some days be almost stuck in bed or vomiting ridiculously from it (ftr I avoided taking pain meds as much as possible for a long while, with ibuprofen I would be fine) I just assumed I was one of the unlucky ones or that my pain was normal. Never would have guessed it was tampons.
@infinity-gn9xq2 жыл бұрын
@@BlueCLupei I thought its only me who experiences less cramps with cups.. I get very bad cramps if I use pads or tampons..even now.. So I avoid those unless very urgent..
@pxmens94305 жыл бұрын
I used the cup for the first time last month and I have to say, I may not be comfortable with it now since I'm still learning, but wearing it gave me the experience of having no rashes from pads and reducing the probability to another infection of which I am very happy about.
@kaitie6485 жыл бұрын
I started using them recently, in December. It gets better the second month!
@kp_3dart5 жыл бұрын
I was a pad user with a cup my experience great by the way u also into voltage .inc game that's Scorpio profile pic so
@luciferfaust5 жыл бұрын
Try cloth pads!
@Neonravekid5 жыл бұрын
It'll take a bit of getting used to but you'll get the hang of it. :)
@miraculouslb_fan84685 жыл бұрын
I successfully got the cup in two days ago and I’m happy! It’s uncomfortable but it’s like wearing a tampon for the first time.
@hozzydaemon20214 жыл бұрын
I just tried the Diva Cup for the very first time. It took me till my fourth attempt to get it right. I now know how to use it. It’s absolutely great! It’s so much cleaner, no more wee string on a tampon😂 no more irritation from pads. I noticed something else too. NO MORE PERIOD CRAMPS! for the first time in my life, I had a completely cramp free period. That has never happened, ever. So I really think my cramps may have been caused by the chemicals in pads and tampons. I think all women should be aware of this option as it’s completely comfortable and I couldn’t even feel my period at all like you do when using pads and tampons. I do the cup process in the shower and I work ten hour days in a factory. I never had problems and my periods are very heavy. I took a shower before work and one after work. No problems👍😊
@saivanitha39503 жыл бұрын
can u help me .. i started using cup in this month but my cup is leaking and I am having heavy blood flow @Hozzy daemon
@deadlydairy76343 жыл бұрын
@@saivanitha3950 it is possible that your cup is leaking because you have a high cervix, and are using a short cup instead of a long cup that will better fit to your cervix. I recommend you watch the KZfaq video titled 'MENSTRUAL CUPS // 8 things I wish someone had told me' by Gittemary Johansen! She helped me a lot with helping me get more familiar with how to successfully use one.
@0roseable2 жыл бұрын
I definitely experienced the lack of cramps when I switched to a cup. It was amazing. But now that I have been using them for about 10 years, I do get cramps sometimes. Just much less than I used to.
@pasmetha2 жыл бұрын
I actually used to get tampon induced cramps. I realized when I would take out the tampon, and the cramps would disappear. That's what triggered me to try the cup, and now I'll never look back!
@jessicasmith34644 жыл бұрын
I've been using a menstrual cup for almost 3 years now and absolutely love it! There is definitely a learning curve and it is primarily with getting to know your body, literally. Growing up nobody tells you how to find and track your cervix but knowing your body inside and out is so satisfying!
@PutACupInIt4 жыл бұрын
YES! Knowledge is empowering! -K
@ligi1512 жыл бұрын
Hey, My menstrual cup went far in and I couldn't reach it . It was scary. Did you have any experience like that?
@shashashashrirai5942 жыл бұрын
@@ligi151 IDK, have you tried to find the stem and wiggle it out?
@isabellejonsson64705 жыл бұрын
I just recently got my first menstrual cup and I'm strangely excited for my next period to come so I can try it out 🤔
@mixedemotions81414 жыл бұрын
How did it go??
@vitorialima41154 жыл бұрын
ME
@elliepratt12453 жыл бұрын
Same
@samanthawright11833 жыл бұрын
I felt the same way! ... until I tried to put it in the first time and it wouldn’t open😒
@ishitarai62523 жыл бұрын
Same here
@adc23275 жыл бұрын
I'm an old lady and years ago there was a cup out but it was not reusable. I loved that thing and I was broken-hearted when they stop making it. Happy to see that it's back again.
@ceelp9085 жыл бұрын
the rubber tassette?
@sofialepe73805 жыл бұрын
What was it?
@claudiacuellar94884 жыл бұрын
How old? Before my grandma used pads made of fabric
@kiara1989234 жыл бұрын
How old are you? Do you still have an cycle?
@lauragraham49944 жыл бұрын
Was it called Instead??
@emilyclark55444 жыл бұрын
i’m 12, and i just now got my menstrual cup in for the first time!!!! it took me 3 days to finally get it in without any pain.
@siarramae12203 жыл бұрын
“Not going smoothly” is an understatement. I was panicked 😂
@PutACupInIt3 жыл бұрын
Awwww 💛 I hope it improved from there
@PriyankaSingh-nh8cb5 жыл бұрын
Who else is watching the video while having a cup inside😝😝
@mckenzieraynor84365 жыл бұрын
me
@MarianaBraz14 жыл бұрын
Me
@andleenjo274 жыл бұрын
Me
@cringefest78414 жыл бұрын
Me
@sukhmoonflower8664 жыл бұрын
Mehh
@rupshaghosh56075 жыл бұрын
i have been using the cup for quite some time now. ITS WORTH IT.
@biba1baba2buba35 жыл бұрын
Not that expensive tho, got mine for 20€, bought my mom one for 3€... if anyone has money troubles - try aliexpress cups, medical grade silicone and super cheap ( like 1 to 5€)
@rupshaghosh56075 жыл бұрын
@@biba1baba2buba3 mine is 299 rupees. (Almost 4 €) not at all expensive
@MsFufukuschelipuh5 жыл бұрын
i got mine 6 years ago. saved hundreds
@sappy.3xe5 жыл бұрын
Mili Dhara If you insert it correctly, you shouldn’t even be able to feel it! So no, it’s not painful, as long as you put it in right.
@milidhara82165 жыл бұрын
@@sappy.3xe Thank you!
@jesseeyoung3 жыл бұрын
Just the tip y’all 😂😂😂 I’m dying. This is the best product review ever. I’m 30, have had 2 vaginal births, and would not consider myself to be ignorant about my anatomy at all lol.....I had no idea my cervix moves during my cycle 🤦🏼♀️😂
@user-fo7bm4df7q4 жыл бұрын
I feel safe here
@madras-ponnu5 жыл бұрын
you had me at "lava lamp in the toilet" :P :P accurate AF
@taminoll5 жыл бұрын
Dude seriously though 😂😂😂
@brechtbruijs55475 жыл бұрын
Madras Ponnu lol more like some kind of battle field
@deevox65124 жыл бұрын
😂😂👍
@deevox65124 жыл бұрын
Brecht Bruijs Texas Chainsaw Massacre😳😂👍
@darkacadpresenceinblood2 жыл бұрын
i call it the murder scene but yeah lmao
@summer-zc1vg5 жыл бұрын
This was so helpful! I'm 16 and decided to switch to a cup since I'm a dancer and nothing is worse than having to rush to the bathroom during a quick change! I can't wait to start using a cup and your channel has encouraged me to make the switch^_^
@haileeheslop18195 жыл бұрын
I'm almost 16 and am also an athlete. BEST DECISION EVER! 😂
@haileeheslop18194 жыл бұрын
@@yuuki7486 I'm currently using the Lena cup size small. (28 oz) A cup takes getting used to and you have to be comfortable with being able to reach up there to get it out and to do some research because what works for me might not work for you. To put a cup in you have to fold it as well so it can be small enough to go inside then pop open. My experience has been good but I am still figuring out the odds and ends to not leak and such. But honestly it had been so nice because I have a very very heavy flow so with my cup I don't have to carry around as many tampons in my backpack and it's nice to always have with you and small enough it is not a hassle. Like I said for me it was the BEST DECISION EVER!😂
@thatdepressedqueer89854 жыл бұрын
I’m also a dancer 😁
@annah8x8064 жыл бұрын
I’m 15 and a dancer so going through the same thing and I’m wondering if this is worth it or not Hearing ur experience would be SO HELPFUL
@Jordan-nv6hb4 жыл бұрын
hey just wondering would you recommend it for a 12 year old dancer? My body really hates tampons and ive used at least 3 boxes trying :/
@RainAngel1114 жыл бұрын
It took me about 3 tries (that is, 3 periods) to get the hang of it, and the hardest part was getting the cup out. The first time I managed to get it in, I took more than an hour to get it out at the end of the day through much frustration panic and a few tears. I did not go to the ER though. One of the best pieces of advice I read online was to just give it up and try again in a few hours if you couldn't get it out. Like they say here, your cervix moves. The other thing I had to figure out was to grasp the cup by the bell, not the little plastic tip. It's not there to help you pull it out as much as to help you locate it. I use it as my main period product now, but I do still use pads or tampons occasionally. The thing I loved about switching to the cup was how familiar it made me with my body. Having to reach two fingers in on a regular basis to remove it, and needing to reach in occasionally to feel if it's in the right place has made me feel so much more aware of what's going on down there.
@millomweb4 жыл бұрын
"The other thing I had to figure out was to grasp the cup by the bell, not the little plastic tip. It's not there to help you pull it out as much as to help you locate it." A decent designed one would come out easily just by pulling the stem. Why haven't manufacturers realised that ?
@sarahhight52664 жыл бұрын
@@millomweb Yoou don't want to be pulling n the stem as it will increase the suction and make it even harder to remove. Might be a way to design a cup with a stem that releases the suction for you though... it's an interesting thought
@millomweb4 жыл бұрын
@@sarahhight5266 That's the point - surely the easier to use the better !
@artefinite4 жыл бұрын
@@sarahhight5266 There's one called the flex cup, and it has a pull string with a finger loop that breaks the suction when you pull it, I think! Could be wrong but it would be great if it does that
@nohandle4742 жыл бұрын
Lord. Reminds me of when i wore a tampon with the cardboard intact and it fuckinggggg HURT and I thought bolloks this shit does not work
@bettycordovi75144 жыл бұрын
I LOVE THIS! 🥺❤️ I love watching women educating women about things we should all know
@AlatarielSurion135 жыл бұрын
As a trans man. I love my cup. I don't feel it and i usually forget that im in my period. Since i just remove it twice a day (before going to sleep and beforme my morning shower) I don't need to think about my period
@meganaustin59674 жыл бұрын
How do you guys get periods??? Thf
@abbystephens97664 жыл бұрын
I can understand how having a period can be hard when you are transitioning to male because it doesn’t match your gender
@Mia-ys4se4 жыл бұрын
Rachel Coulter my brother is trans (female to male) and got a surgery to remove his womb which in turns got rid of his period.
@paolamarin16924 жыл бұрын
You all talking about his period when I'm just thinking "wow, we have the same schedule to remove and insert again our cups" 😂😂💛
@Jordan-nv6hb4 жыл бұрын
Megan Austin When someone is a trans man that means they are transitioning into a man when someone is a trans girl they are transitioning to a woman, if that makes sense 🙂
@Grace-xd7ir5 жыл бұрын
I’m 15 and just switched to the cup and it’s amazing! I’m never going back! There’s just a learning curve I recommend practicing before your period!
@emmarife66055 жыл бұрын
Grace I’m 14, I really wanna use a cup. But I swear, they look huge, and even with tampons it feels slightly awkward sometimes. I feel like it would hurt a bunch, how’d you deal with just getting up there?
@Grace-xd7ir5 жыл бұрын
Unknown Person On Earth personally I recommend getting it wet first and doing the 7 fold. All the other folds would never unfold for me. Really just relax and don’t stress about it if a tampon is uncomfortable I don’t think you are putting it in right so practice with that too. It also sometimes depends on the cup and your cervix so some cups might be better than others. My cervix isn’t too low or too high and I use the blossom cup on amazon and it’s perfect. It definitely took me a full period and prior to learn but it’s my second period using it and I feel like a pro so just take your time. The internet and googling also really helps.
@sparkle08593 жыл бұрын
@@emmarife6605 Use the OrganiCup mini size! When I was 14 I was too scared of using a cup so I used reusable pads but now I'm 18 and finally got the courage to try a cup. Using a mini size really helped, it was much less intimidating for me! Using water-based lube also really helped!
@vfabila212 жыл бұрын
@@emmarife6605 The June cup has a mini size and it's very comfortable.
@gayatrim16152 жыл бұрын
Even am 15 but I'm really scared to use it...how did u build up courage?
@kimmirandaart99094 жыл бұрын
I grew up in a household where tampons were considered a little unhealthy and invasive, so when I tried the cup at first I was really scared (ie, "omg what if it gets stuck" or "what if I injure myself trying to put it in") tips that helped me: -cut your fingernails lol (i have scratched the inside of myself and it hurt like a mf) -use water based lube if you have a harder time pushing it in -bear down like you're taking a dump to "push" it out so you can grab it when taking it out -put a 12 hour timer on your phone if your flow is heavier (so you don't have to wrack your brain for how long you've had it in if you forgot what time you inserted)
@xxxPrayxForxPlaguesx3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your tips! However, I have just read that since there is lack of regulation when it comes to menstrual cups. That being said, a common misconception is to "bear down" or push your cup out, however I've read various articles saying that doing so *may* put you at risk for vaginal prolapse. Just something to be aware of. There are some women who have been impacted negatively by that tip. I don't want to correct you but wanted to mention for anyone who reads these comments! May we all learn from each other!
@kweenjade013 жыл бұрын
@@xxxPrayxForxPlaguesx never heard that before so thanks for sharing. Definitely something to keep in mind
@sherrisheppard45993 жыл бұрын
Im dealing with vaginal prolapse at the moment. Kegels help!!!! Have never used a cup. Just dropped in to check out the video and read comments.
@sherrisheppard45993 жыл бұрын
I have daughters so im learning lol
@debbieexcell50883 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing 👍🏻
@pauliejomama53814 жыл бұрын
Ugh I so wish I had known about you guys when I was a teen and first starting. You're great role models and would have helped me with not being all embarrassed about my body. Your videos are always so empowering
@adriennelohr49325 жыл бұрын
Just a quick thing. This video puts a lot of emphasis on "click bait" videos about people not being able to remove their cups, and how those shouldn't be videos that you rely upon. While I agree that some people do just want to blow smoke out into the world and profit off of it, your cup still CAN ride up if it doesn't suction properly. This happened to me the first time I tried my cup. After spending 2 hours trying to reach the base to remove it, I ended up going to the ER to have it removed. I am not some influencer trying to make a profit. I'm just a girl who had an unfortunate experience.
@rositagargaro5 жыл бұрын
Yes! It happened the same to me, but here where I live there isn't a lot of information about menstrual cups, so the gynecologist in ER never gave me an explanation on why it happened, neither information about my cervix height, which I asked for. Moreover, it was very painful to remove, so I've never tried the menstrual cup again. What did you do instead? Did you find a solution? (sorry to disturb you, but you are the first one I found that had my same experience)
@blehblehblehdracula5 жыл бұрын
It could’ve been a situation where the suction went somewhere where it wasn’t meant to (explaining the discomfort) and it could’ve been done correctly but the shape could’ve been wrong for your body and since doctor didn’t know how to CORRECTLY remove the cup, the suction was broken improperly (that actually hurts like a b-word). Try feeling for your cervix over a few weeks, note the distance at various points in the cycle (especially throughout every day of the period), then go from there. Sounds to me like you’re relatively high up, though idk when you tried the cup. So you might try a longer cup... if this helps at all, yay. If not, hopefully someone can help! Best of luck to you both!
@Commenter8395 жыл бұрын
True that. I'll admit I'm one of the lucky ones, my cervix is somewhat easily within reach and my cups rarely ride up on their own. That said, before I even bought my Yuuki, I made sure I measured my cervix to get an idea of whether I would need a long or short cup. Preferably, you should measure towards the end-ish of your period, because the cervix tends to move higher as your cycle goes on. Many of the "cup riding out of my reach" incidents are due to the wearer having a freaky high cervix without even knowing. Of course, cups aren't for everyone. If you have something else that you're perfectly happy with, stick with it, but anyone looking to try a cup really shouldn't underestimate the importance of knowing where their cervix is.
@adriennelohr49325 жыл бұрын
For sure. For me, it definitely could have been as simple as using the wrong size of cup without any real guidance. I used the Luna sensitive small cup because that's the cup the brand recommends for beginner cup wearers. However, I have had a kid, and although I knew it's common practice to use larger cups if you've given birth, I went with the Brand's general recommendation. This actually happened with my last cycle, so I haven't tried any other brands or attempted to put in my cup again. Honestly, I just don't want to have to go to the ER and explain it a second time. 😂😂😂 I do eventually want to try again, though. So if anyone has any advice or favorite Brand's, I'm all ears.
@LadyBugger245 жыл бұрын
Girls, you have no idea how good it feel to know that others have this problem too! You read only so positive experiences, I did not know what to do! It happened to me TWO times that my mestrual cup went almost out of reach and I had to really twist my wirst and stretch my fingers to get it! Plus, every single cicle, on the night between the first and the second day, so when there is a lot of stuff happening, my cup rides up while lying in bed and when I get up blood is leaking out because the suction seal has broken. I got used to the cup by now (2 years using it) and it never leaks except for this occasion. I guess I am one of those with a high cervix then. At least now I know!
@panner095 жыл бұрын
You forgot to mention that if you have an intense period flow, you will have to worry about taking it off and on too often during the day, which can be very annoying, since it's not that simple and also can be messy.
@ItsSavannaCarter5 жыл бұрын
There are some cups that come in multiple sizes. I have a heavier flow. I got to Diva cup. The silicone isnt as soft but it has size options and functions pretty well for me.
@Cheers.-5 жыл бұрын
YES. People don't believe me about how much blood I lose. I never get to experience the "you can keep your cup in for 8 hours" because all the blood makes it overflow and breaks the seal after 2h
@panner095 жыл бұрын
@@Cheers.- same here! At least on my firsts days it is impossible to last more than 3 hours without overflow... I have to wait until my ~3rd period day to use it for 8h straight and really enjoy the cup
@kawaty5 жыл бұрын
I have a cup with a valve (I hope I use the right word, I'm not a native speaker). You just squeeze the tip and everything would come out, you release it - cup sealed again. So I don't have to remove the cup during the day. Pretty handy.
@Gatahada5 жыл бұрын
@@kawaty woa, I've never heard of those. What brand is it?
@jinnkgobiloba4 жыл бұрын
I live in Italy and I’m 17, today I went to the pharmacy and I was so nervous. The man who was working there said that only a few people bought it, but it’s really worthy
@apriltaylor10032 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for making these informative videos. I switched over to using cups at the tender young age of 47, and am still going strong as a card-carrying member of the “Cup Cult” at 51. By the time I had even heard of cups and was ready to take the plunge, none of my contemporaries were using them (and in fact, many were no longer in need of menstrual products at all,) so videos like this were extremely helpful. To all my bleeding sisters out there, using a cup really can be life-changing, once you get the hang of it. It took me several months of trial and error and 3 different types of cup before finding one that really worked for me, but once I did I never looked back, so if you are considering switching over, I send you all the love and support I felt from others who guided me through it. (Pro tip: the first time you try using a cup, you may want to pick a not-too-busy day when you can be comfortable and close to home. Don’t be like me and spend the entire day walking around an amusement park on vacation with your family while wearing an ill-fitting cup that you then gave to check on and/or adjust in public restrooms every half hour!) Also, a big THANK YOU to these straight-talking women for acknowledging that the cervix moves to different positions during the course of your cycle. I figured out years ago that mine does this, and when I tried to explain it to my gynecologist, she said she’d never heard of this phenomenon - MY GYNECOLOGIST!!! I knew I could not be the only one, but it is still nice to hear it confirmed. :)
@sweetcanada175 жыл бұрын
I’ve actually “pooped” my cup out one time. Thankfully it happened at home, and I was able to sterilize it with hydrogen peroxide and boiling hot water before reinserting it. I always take the cup out now before I start pooping. :)
@taradonnelly29745 жыл бұрын
sweetcanada17 lmaooooooo
@Maryrockson5 жыл бұрын
I’ve done that with a tampon before so now I remove it before I poop. Soon I’ll switch to the cup.
@PigeonCarriere5 жыл бұрын
Learned to pull it out and reinsert after evacuation haha
@mollyhoux24705 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I was super not sure what to do if mine falls into the toilet
@sweetcanada175 жыл бұрын
Molly Houx - sometimes I also pop it into the dishwasher with the dog toys when I wash them when I know that the rinse agent compartment is empty because you don’t want to have it coated in rinse agent. I also use vinegar and baking soda instead of dishwasher detergent at these instances. :)
@Thisworldisagoner5 жыл бұрын
I started using the cup last month and oh my god was it hell!! Like literally *BLOODY* hell!!! I tried wearing it on my second day of flow and oh, I couldn't wear it probably for three times and there was blood everywhere and then at last I just put it in anf hoped for the best. I went for class by cycling and while I was in class I couldn't feel the cup anymore. I even felt a *pop* and lo! When I returned home the cup hasnt leaked and I was dry on the outside!!! From the next day after I put it in, I try doing some leg maneuvers like stretching and squating to let the cup settle in and it works for me! So I would say that it needs some trials and errors but ultimately you may find a way that works for you :)
@kbeetison78315 жыл бұрын
As gross as it may seem, I always stick a finger up there to make sure the rim of the cup is around the cervix and not squished between cervix and vag wall (mine doesn't always 'pop' open). Not great if you are in public unless it is a single stall with a sink but better than bleeding everywhere!
@Thisworldisagoner5 жыл бұрын
@@kbeetison7831 oh yeah, I did that too. Th.at was my first time, I am waiting for how my second time will be.
@kp_3dart5 жыл бұрын
Keeping cup hot warm water for few minutes before wearing its make easy to wear
@Thisworldisagoner5 жыл бұрын
@@kp_3dart oooo! Thanks! I will try that this time 😃😃
@kp_3dart5 жыл бұрын
@@Thisworldisagoner I hope it's works for u. for me its working great
@katl16994 жыл бұрын
I love how straightforward this video is !! Honestly I had a pretty horrible first experience with cups, even after doing tons of research on them, but trying a different brand on my second cycle to become more familiar with them has converted me fully. Truly I think the biggest thing is to just get to know your body, learn your cup before your cycle, and just don't be afraid of either of these things. They really don't teach people with vaginas about their anatomy or their cervix or anything like that in a lot of detail, and it's so encouraging to see levelheaded, accurate information that's readily available. So thank you for this video and all the useful information you provide !!
@dani39352 жыл бұрын
A menstrual cup is the best thing ever invented. I do giveaways every month and always buy one to put in my giveaway basket. Yes, its an expense at first but savings in the long run. I love that you guys are being informative. Not to mention how much it saves from the environmental waste per year from just menstrual products.
@PutACupInIt2 жыл бұрын
That's so awesome! And thank you
@rheam39205 жыл бұрын
Shes so right about it turning into a hobby n all of a sudden you want to tell everyone about it 😂😂 n collect different coloured n shaped cups. Edit - Don't worry people I only have one cup. I don't have enough money for it to become a hobby, I just like to browse and obsess over them online
@blehblehblehdracula5 жыл бұрын
Rhea M YES!! It’s a problem. But also not. Lol
@Commenter8395 жыл бұрын
This. I have 7 cups: a small and large Lunette, a size 1 and size 0 Diva, an Alicia cup, a Yuuki, and a Femmecup. Out of these, I only ever use the Yuuki, and the rest have been collecting dust for years. I've stopped checking out different cups to avoid the temptation of getting another one, but now I have literally no idea what to do with the rest of them, lol.
@AuDHobby5 жыл бұрын
That kinda defeats the purpose of it being cheaper and more environmentally friendly and all...
@rheam39205 жыл бұрын
@@Commenter839 you could give them to someone. Put a cup in it has a swap group for this. Check that out
@prufrockrocks795 жыл бұрын
@@rheam3920 wtf? share them? *pukes*
@theofficialbes5 жыл бұрын
I always thought I had a heavy flow. Turns out I don't when I started using a cup. I love it really. At first I hated it, but now I find it amazing😍
@gurplepanda36565 жыл бұрын
Same here always had a leak unless I used the extra absorbance switched to a cup and was surprised how little I bled and even more surprised by no longer needing to make the stain remover my close friend.
@annaellemay85904 жыл бұрын
Switching to a cup taught me so many things about downstairs that school didn’t teach me. I have gained the wisdom 😌
@FaQBuddEh2 жыл бұрын
I WISH someone told me about the cup forever ago! I discovered this magical thing about 8 years ago and have literally saved thousands! I have tried to convert anyone that would listen basically lol but I can appreciate that it isn't for everyone- or they just didn't give enough time to get the hang of it or find the one that fits and works best for them. To think of all the unnecessary awkward accidents, and all the money I could have saved as a teenager..... I wish I had someone to tell me about this thing way back then lol You ladies rock! Thank you for doing what our school systems failed to do 🖤💜🖤
@isoldebesseling-dijkman5 жыл бұрын
Another thing you should be aware of: we are all build differently down there. Some cups wil work for others but not for you. Most people who had bad experiences with cups, simply had the wrong tipe or size cup for them. The specialized websites who sell those cups can often help you when you consult them with your problems. For example: I can only wear cups for teenagers or low servix, eventhough im 32 years old. I use my cup for two years now and it gives me so much more comfort! Best buy ever!
@ideljenny5 жыл бұрын
At 20-30$ a pop they are a bit too expensive to trail and error myself through.
@HelloMsAnny5 жыл бұрын
@@ideljenny I agree, at this point I've given up. I've used the smallest ones on the market, like the ones that are specifically made for sporty teenagers (so they're both more rigid and small). After having tried probably 8-10 different ones I just can't justify wasting more money.
@VioletEmerald5 жыл бұрын
What brand cup do you have for this really low cervix cup? I might need to try that. I have used a cup that isn't perfect for me for like 8 years
@kirasmom62175 жыл бұрын
Go on eBay you can find them on there cheaper. Diva cup has a model 0 that is smaller than the model 1 if that helps.
@FrolleinMiez5 жыл бұрын
Exactly! So often info says to pick a size by height and weight which is bs. I found the best explanation for me on the Selena cup site and therefore bought it. And it fits perfectly. They also have a great Insta account and seem to be good people so to speak. That was a seller for me too. I'm so excited cause I feel much better with the cup than the last 17 years with tampons and pads. 😀
@Sophie.Punter5 жыл бұрын
So glad you mentioned the cervix moving!!! I was worried that I was alone and that I had a tiny coochie but I feel relieved that it's a normal thing!
@mollyhoux24705 жыл бұрын
Shoot. I just had no idea that it moved! (Shows how well I pay attention)
@bethmichael40915 жыл бұрын
Same here
@laraagius55045 жыл бұрын
Same! My organicup is now completely stemless because it used to hurt
@GillianVariosss4 жыл бұрын
I love being a girl...I love wearing skirts...but this, this isn't a part of the deal....:/
@Brya_baby3 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo, We didn't sign Up for this
@yvetteblack68813 жыл бұрын
Same but have y’all tried putting ice pack on your stomach and it works by it did for me
@bbrriaaanna2 жыл бұрын
@@yvetteblack6881 an ice pack? oh no i put a hot water on me
@yvetteblack68812 жыл бұрын
@@bbrriaaanna LMAFOOO they don’t work for me anymore which is sad when I get cramps
@ZombieGravitation12 жыл бұрын
Currently trying my first cup after getting rashes after my period regardless if I was using tampons or pads. I'm really digging it so far even if it can be tricky to use rn. Im glad you wonderful people are making these videos they're so much help and the comment section is god send.
@PuddingCat1015 жыл бұрын
I have endometriosis and started using a cup 7 years ago now! I bled a lot, so every time I pinched the cup it was messy... I love the cup, I just developed a love for skin friendly cup wipes to tidy up haha. I used the cup to measure my flow, and that's what made doctors take me seriously enough to get a diagnosis of endo.
@padminip94825 жыл бұрын
Does it hurt to use the cup with Endo ?? I'm way too scared it'll aggravate the cramps
@PuddingCat1015 жыл бұрын
@@padminip9482 I won't lie, it can do for some people and I found firmer cups like the Lena cup could do that. Out of the 4 I've tried, the Sckoon Cup and the Ruby Cup have been the best for not aggravating cramps. Though, if you're a beginner I think the Ruby cup is so much easier to use and the grips are good to help you get it out! I didn't use it on my worst days unless I put it in for the night expecting my period may come :)
@kaylashipley20175 жыл бұрын
i love this girl! i just got diagnosed with endo and i know how bad it can be. i was so tired of buying tampons and wasting money and now that i bought a cup i swear it feels like i bleed so much less and i don’t hate when i get my period anymore because i don’t have to worry about have a 16 pack of tampons for a day trip. i just wanna spread the word to everyone i know haha
@PuddingCat1015 жыл бұрын
@@kaylashipley2017 I found the exact same thing! It's awesome, I loved using the cup so much and my flow ended up halving in volume over 3 years?! I don't know if it was down to the cup, but I've never turned back
@kaylashipley20175 жыл бұрын
i’m sorry i just saw this but yes i have been using for 3 cycles now and when i used tampons i was constantly bleeding thru and on my heaviest days i can go 2-3 hours without changing it whereas a super plus tampon was 45 mins. i swear it decreased my flow or just makes it seem like less!
@hi291895 жыл бұрын
I LOVE my diva cup. But I’m also confused now about the absorbency of pads and tampons, they’re fraudulent! It’s very little blood in the cup yet I have to change my tampon constantly🤔🤔 they’re not actually absorbent at all yet prices are sky high. INTERESTING
@tyrrany_reigns14 жыл бұрын
I just purchased one to try my next cycle. I'm watching the hell out of these videos so I'll not have so much of a terrible time the first time I try to use it. I just hope that I don't have cramps as bad as I normally do. I'm anemic so my first day I'm pretty tired and feel like I spend most of my day in the restroom changing tampons.
@ataleoftwomeows80864 жыл бұрын
Tampons hold a tiny amount of blood compared to a cup which to me isn't surprising I mean tampons are fricking tiny.
@ambergray66694 жыл бұрын
Most of the fluid that tampons absorb is that stuff that your vagina needs not your blood hence why it always seams so chunky ahaha
@wyntermoondesigns39364 жыл бұрын
Tampons absorb more than blood. They suck up all your vaginal fluids, which will dry you out and make the tampon very uncomfortable to remove. I stopped using the foul things years ago.
@10Raccoon3 жыл бұрын
I believe that tampon absorbancy is actually FDA regulated now a days because there was a super absorbent tampon in the 70s that was responsible for a HUGE spike of TSS
@greca590321 күн бұрын
Honestly, thank you both. It feels good to know that there are people like you two who will push through the tabu discomfort and offer women tmi, which honestly to me feels like just the right amount of information to *finally* start to figure out this aspect of my body ❤❤❤
@notebookluvr4 жыл бұрын
I've been having periods for just over 30 years and I only recently realized my cervix moves! I realized it on one of my recent periods when I was trying to get a tampon in and my cervix was way low and blocking the tampon from going in correctly. The tampon before that was fine, so i realized it changes during your period. This had happened before, but I never really knew why. One time a few years ago, I shoved the tampon in even though my cervix didn't like that, it was blocking the tampon. After I removed the tampon, and changed it, I had the most excruciating cramps ever! for about 8 hours! it was like being in labor... literally. I had one child witthout any drugs or epidural and it was absolutely 100% comparable! But I was only in hard labor with him for about 4 hours and then I felt great. This video just confirmed the thoughts I had about it. I am wondering if it has to do with clots or how much flow. I have very heavy periods with lots of huge clots and I wonder if the cervix is working hard to expel the clots. And maybe it extends when it does that.
@raetony74285 жыл бұрын
Love how you girls are straight up with the facts. That’s all we ask for at the end of the day are facts & info that will help all women that decide to use a cup. I have been using a cup for 4+ months & wish I had of been using it years ago.
@MiaJustine5 жыл бұрын
I’ve used a menstrual cup for about 3 years now. Changed my life, never going back
@ginniekinz54015 жыл бұрын
Mia Justine same. I don’t have to worry about leaking in the night. WOOHOO
@isoldebesseling-dijkman5 жыл бұрын
Same here!
@yeru7375 жыл бұрын
I've been using cups for 2.5 years but in recent months i just can't stand it anymore. I don't know why but it's not comfortable anymore. Sometimes it doesn't even go all the way in! I don't know what changed but I'm back to tampons ☹ Any advice? Thanks
@shelbyclark37335 жыл бұрын
@@yeru737 have you tried buying a new cup?
@yeru7375 жыл бұрын
@@shelbyclark3733 i wouldn't know which one to get. And I don't want to keep buying different ones for ~$30 each. I think my cervix is shorter now than before?
@alyssaom36244 жыл бұрын
That Dr. Who clip is EVERYTHING. #biggerontheinside
@xTogepi3 жыл бұрын
Love the education PACII gives! Like you mentioned in this video, many of us were never taught about menstrual cups or our anatomy to this extent. Like yes, I had sex Ed in school, but the things I have learned now that I have started using a cup, were not taught. I also have never had anyone around me use one before, so there was no one for me to ask questions. I had to experiment and get familiar with my body. I honestly feel more proud of myself & my body now.
@KirstenSuhr5 жыл бұрын
I worked for a reproductive rights group for a decade and took graduate-level anatomy and physiology classes, but I just learned new things about my ladyparts from this video!
@mndyD95 жыл бұрын
Had the cup for almost a year, totally worth it!! It’s more comfortable than tampons, I way cheaper and I can leave it in for hours with no worries. Definitely recommend 👍🏻
@katiemolloy90732 жыл бұрын
Omg I just got one and I was so confused bc they didn’t even teach us basic sex ed in school much less anything more specific like this, it helped so much thank you!!!
@deevox65124 жыл бұрын
I really love your channel. I appreciate your sense of humor, your honesty and openness, and your very informative. I am a new cup user and your channel introduced me to the idea. I thank you as during my first period using Diva Cup, my cramps got soooo much better, and my ovarian cysts STOPPED! I truly think now that those chemicals that are in pads and tampons are what caused my cysts and extreme period cramps. These cups may prevent ovarian cancers if your no longer even developing cysts to worry about a cyst becoming cancerous. I’m not a doctor, but I do wonder if there could be some truth to that. I also think menstrual cups are a great thing for all the homeless women out there who can’t afford to constantly buy disposable products. It also cuts costs and environmental waste.
@WantedVisual5 жыл бұрын
Things I wish more internet sources mentioned: lubricant can be a huge help in getting a cup to unfold and/or get where it needs to be. The kinds that do mention it usually don't go in depth enough to mention you don't want any that is effective. You want water based and safe, yes, but you also want something that is downright disappointing in it's longevity when used in an erotic context. That way, your cup will get where it needs to be early, but it doesn't turn into a slip-n-slide scenario.
@justinaoke91855 жыл бұрын
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@providencegreene81305 жыл бұрын
Like coconut oil!
@bandbporter5 жыл бұрын
OtakuLory Yes! Came here to say that.
@55karly5 жыл бұрын
@@providencegreene8130 That is safe to use?
@providencegreene81305 жыл бұрын
55karly Yes it is! And second plus is that it removes makeup better than makeup wipes. I also use it as a moisturizer. Coconut oil is basically a 3 in one for me xD
@allienoble39215 жыл бұрын
Sooo I just bought my first cup. I’ve thought about it a lot but your channel helped v v much
@MySeasideRendezvous5 жыл бұрын
Allie Noble check out their Facebook group Putacupunit. It is the most supportive bunch of menstruators out there.
@haileeheslop18195 жыл бұрын
Hey me too!!
@nthecardsllc78393 жыл бұрын
So... my husband is awesome lol. I just bought my first cup and doing a bunch of research to be ready when my next cycle comes. I'm literally sitting here telling this man all I've learned and he's patiently listening and comprehending as much as a man can what im saying. He's excited for me because he knows how God awful my periods are for me. I'm a lucky woman. Thanks for the video ladies, extremely helpful and thank you to the ladies in the comments with further helpful hints 🖤
@froufroudeluxe4 жыл бұрын
Something I didn’t expect about using a menstrual cup is that it would help me with my vaginismus
@Cpre11115 жыл бұрын
If you watch enough tutorials on insertion, your learning curve won't be so steep. What truly takes time is finding the right cup for your flow type and a cup for each cervix height position that will occur throughout your period so that you're comfortable and not leaking.
@afreenasif6815 жыл бұрын
Im stuck at insertion! Help!
@rachaelb81875 жыл бұрын
Agreed! I researched extensively before I switched and had no problem. You can feel when it's not inserted correctly.
@rachaelb81875 жыл бұрын
@@afreenasif681 try practicing in the shower off of your period.
@Cpre11115 жыл бұрын
@@afreenasif681 ok, what kind of cup are you using? Is it that the cup is painful during and after insertion? Try a different fold. There's all kinds of videos on KZfaq showing these folds. If the fold doesn't help or isn't the problem, are you relaxed upon insertion or tense? Relaxing is the key! Also, try putting lube around the outside and the top of the cup. People don't recommend it due to cleanliness & potential risk of bad bacteria, but as long as you're focused on keeping the process clean from start to finish, you should be ok. If it's painful before, during and AFTER insertion, and you've done all these things, maybe you need a new cup fit for your cervix height. Measure your cervix height. Try consulting a menstrual cup specialist or a OBGYN. There are other alternative methods available for you. Good luck.
@Qinglin8885 жыл бұрын
Yes, I had a bigger cup for my heavy days and a smaller one for the rest of the not so heavy flow days.
@QuinnCJ5 жыл бұрын
Very real video ladies. Thoroughly enjoyed. I'm one of the " I cant believe I lived without the cup" women 😊
@moonlightmangle2 жыл бұрын
This video was very educational! And I'm kinda pleased to state the school I went to had a PPEP talk for the senior girls, this talk went threw all period products and allowed us to ask questions freely, which was a very weird and wild experience
@deemah36023 жыл бұрын
a tip: use cloth pads as a protection, so you feel the most comfortable, as if you wear non-cloth pads, it will create the glasshouse effect even though there's no(t much) blood
@xxcararacxx5 жыл бұрын
I just got my first cup and I'm obsessed. You really do start telling everyone how awesome it is 😂
@MissBlueEyeliner5 жыл бұрын
Having sex with a cup in? No thanks. Earn those red wings guys.
@bstmeg52375 жыл бұрын
I didn't even like having sex with nuva ring I can feel my iud. I've always had cervix issues
@MissBlueEyeliner5 жыл бұрын
teamdamien Stephan uhhhh the IUD 🤢 rank fucking thing. It’s great for some people but I curse the stupid piece of plastic. I had it in under local anaesthetic, out 2 weeks later, in under general anaesthetic and out again like a year later!
@mariahgutierrez44815 жыл бұрын
Exactly lol
@joycetaylor80575 жыл бұрын
@@bstmeg5237 okay...I'm stupid. What is a lud?
@suus-arido3935 жыл бұрын
A real sailor crosses the Red Sea
@JooIllingworth5 жыл бұрын
And about “telling everyone about it”, you are totally right! I’ve gotten like seven friends of mine to try it out, and I’m currently clarifying any questions and doubts that another friend, that is interested but kind of scared of the cup, has so she can decide whether she’ll give it a go or not.
@babydollmaloof2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying it took courage to switch to the cup. I’m 45 years old and had no one to talk to when I was questioning and ultimately bought my cup. I tried my for the first time yesterday and today I tried to talk to 4 other women about the cup today.. and all 4 conversations were shocking bad. 1st woman thought I was joking… she still doesn’t believe that the cup is a real thing. 2nd and 3rd women were just mortified and # 4 .. she told me “ OH No !! I don’t talk about things like this” … That actually happened today… a few days before 2022… I got those reactions. We need to do better.
@jessicaledyard85985 жыл бұрын
Cups have changed my life! I've been using mine for about 2 years now and I can say I have never felt better! Pads and tampons use to give me a rash and now I dont have to worry about that anymore! I do want to try other cups but I love my Lena cup so much! You are totally right about once you start using one you just want to talk about it and spread the word lol, I will talk about it whenever period talk is brought up. Thanks for making a great informative video!
@Thisworldisagoner5 жыл бұрын
Me too!! Even if others are ickked out my the blood talk but like, look at the positive side!! Just use a soap and wash your hands after and forget you are even having your periods!!!
@Rachel-uj7kl5 жыл бұрын
Me too im like bish im already not in a good mood now i have a vag rash
@zuzannanils5 жыл бұрын
Love the cup and I can really recommend it to everyone. It changed my life FOR REAL. I always felt so uncomfortable when I was on my period (It was literally the worst time each month) after I discovered the cup I felt amazing and comfortable on my period-time. CUPS ARE LIFE CHANGING!
@chloem65065 жыл бұрын
Zuzanna yes! i used to use disposable pads, and i was uncomfortable the entire time while on my period. now that i use a cup paired with a cloth pad to catch any leaks, it’s a million times more comfortable. it also helped my mental state during that time of the month. i’m still moody and generally upset during my period, but now that i’m not physically uncomfortable anymore i feel better about being on my period
@rimikapanesar083 жыл бұрын
I tried the cup the first time yesterday and I have to admit I got the hang of it in the first go. Lucky me I guess? Ofcourse insertion and removal can be tricky but I did my research on both and tried a mix of what everyone suggested!
@elsiehoney56784 жыл бұрын
I am 34 and I just bought my 1st diva cup yesterday. I could not take my normal routine and I work 12 hr in a hospital and I was so done. After work I went to my local drugstore. I did my 1st time during sleep. It was so blissful. No waking up from leaks. It was a little challenging to remove but I was able to after a few minutes. I was so surprised to see the amount on my heavy day that was in the cup. Before this experience I was on the verge of going to my doctor because I thought I was bleeding to much for a heavy cycle. Now, I feel like I was just using my product wrong. Now I am not even worried about it there was so little in there over night. Thanks so much for this education! I so happy to toss my tampons out! I feel more healthy inside my self! Every woman should at least give it a try, you might be like me and so very surprised!!!
@anevilstripper60955 жыл бұрын
When I saw that tomato soup I was pretty confused I love tomato soup, it looked delicious But what it represented..
@sofifi035 жыл бұрын
An Evil Stripper period blood honey
@BR-jt6ny5 жыл бұрын
period blood is a LOT darker than tomato soup (at least in my experience)
@tiarizky72265 жыл бұрын
Texture of the period blood
@luciekapurova15014 жыл бұрын
No kidding I once knew a woman who baked cookies with her menstrual blood in them. I did not eat one
@chloed.70475 жыл бұрын
Cramps!! I didn't expect my cup to give me unbearable cramps until I got used to it. I also didn't know it would take so long to get used to (about 6 months before I could wear it comfortably, and about 9 months before I really got the hang of it and wore it exclusively my whole cycle). My advice is don't freak out! Try to wear it for as long and often as you can each cycle, while you're at home and can change it out for a pad if/when you get unconfortable. One day you'll realise you've had your cup in for the whole day and felt totally comfortable 😊
@crystalolson17435 жыл бұрын
Switch brands ..... It shouldn't give you cramps ...
@dominikag.24815 жыл бұрын
I had terrible cramps while wearing a cup that was too long for my cervix. Try changing your cup as it shouldn't be painful. I have a very short meluna now and even now I don't wear a cup for my first day of the period because my cervix is too low and it hurts and I get terrible cramps. When you measure how high is your cervix, remember that it is way lover during your period, especially for at the beginning of it
@espositolne5 жыл бұрын
Interesting mine stopped with cups
@isoldebesseling-dijkman5 жыл бұрын
They should not cramp that much. Might need a smaller size to be more comfterble.
@its.albert.5105 жыл бұрын
Uh, you probably got cramps because you had a period. Cups aren't going anywhere near the place where the cramps happen...
@eyereekuta673 Жыл бұрын
Happy to be part of the cup cult, I just tried my first cup and it's amazing, I couldn't stop talking about, worst part no one knew about it or understood what I was talking about but am still spreading the gospel and can't wait to buy more cups including the disc..
@confusedlesbianthing4 жыл бұрын
I'm thinking about purchasing a cup since I want to have lower plastic waste and I'm kind of scared of buying one since I heard horror stories like "I didn't get my cup out" or "it constantly hurt wearing it". So having informative videos like this is really helpful for me
@roor68465 жыл бұрын
Mine went too far to reach once, but I just pushed it down, like kegel excercises but instead of pulling up, pushing down. No problem. Also one of my first cycles using it I got very drunk one evening and somehow it ended up sideways overnight, I didn't notice until I tried getting it out the next morning. No spills but it was awkward and uncomfortable to take out. That's never happened since, but it's a funny story to recall.
@cyrodilicbrandy5 жыл бұрын
I also recommend a long, hot bath! The first time I used mine I had a similar situation and didn’t think about used my pelvic floor muscles 😂 now I’m used to it I can use em but a hot bath always helps me :-)
@fuzzywuzzythebackyardigans22835 жыл бұрын
How did you push it out? I tried that and it didn’t move, I would pull and it would go right back up.
@roor68465 жыл бұрын
@@fuzzywuzzythebackyardigans2283 I had to get a good grip and not let go, try working from side to side as you pull it down, it'll help ease the suction.
@jackystar50995 жыл бұрын
Maybe you need a longer cup because you might have a higher cervix
@fuzzywuzzythebackyardigans22835 жыл бұрын
Jacky Star I don’t think I do because when I used to use tampons I couldn’t push them all the way up as far as it should have gone because it would push up against something which from watching this video I guess was my cervix. At the time I thought something was wrong with me because of that and I felt in there and I could feel this ball like thing which I assume now is my cervix. I think I am just not meant to be putting things inside of my body. So I am using pads now again. I could feel it always and pinch it but every time I would pull, it would either not move or once I got it coming down it would go back in making me start from the beginning. Besides it was too painful to put in as well as trying to get it out and it made my cramps feel even more painful when I used it. I think it just wasn’t meant for me. I thought it would get easier over time but it didn’t. It felt like the same pain each time to me.
@plainjane92365 жыл бұрын
I am so mad at myself that I thought the diva cup was so gross and didn't start using it a long time ago. I just started using it last month. I was lucky enough to get it right on the 1st try & now I'm hooked. I'll never use or buy another tampon again.
@LaChocolatScorpio2 жыл бұрын
I started using a cup because my periods are heavy and Kotex discontinued the only tampons that worked for me 😭….I LOVE it! The biggest pro for me has been very light cramps if any! I use to have cramps from hell for the first 3 days! I have to say the first few times was kinda gross because I didn’t realize how thick period blood is like u said in the video 🤣…one reason I used tampons is because I hate the sight of blood…and the advice to have a second cup is great advice! When ur out u may use the restroom and need to empty it. It’s best to have a clean one to insert.
@cindysvibes9895 Жыл бұрын
Do you sleep with it? If you do does it ever leak? I use one but I’m scared if it leaks at night so I use a pad at night
@LaChocolatScorpio Жыл бұрын
@@cindysvibes9895 Yes, I sleep with mine. My first heavy night i saw it leaked a little when I woke up. Now on heavy nights I make sure to empty right before bed and it’s fine. No leaks at all. I don’t even buy pads for backup…these cups have saved me so much money lol
@1derwoman874 жыл бұрын
I just ordered two cups. After seeing this video im very excited and optimistic. Fingers crossed!
@jooliet62973 жыл бұрын
Hello a year later! How has it been working for you? :)
@suziequzie5 жыл бұрын
My regret - 3 years after buying my cup, I had to have surgery that resulted in no more periods. I never got to get the full 10 years' worth of use out of it. Still, it was worth every penny and helped me determine - with numbers - how irregular my flow was getting as I aged. My gyno appreciated that information.
@ebmccready89735 жыл бұрын
My biggest struggle was/is learning how to remove the cup. It's never been about "losing" it, but I struggle with getting it to un-suction.
@suze1445 жыл бұрын
Gently slide a finger (index/middle finger) up the side of the cup and press it away from the vaginal wall. Then hold it between thumb and index and twist it out. Let me know if this works!
@danielakordula57524 жыл бұрын
I’m 15 and I switched, because the environment! I’m still learning but I am determined to make it work ❤️❤️
@jennalacaria39242 жыл бұрын
You are so fortunate to have discovered the cup at such a young age. I've had my period for 27 years and just learned about it. Life changing! Like I said you're so lucky.
@francescabotticini84244 жыл бұрын
I just got mine yesterday and I love it! It took me a couple of times to get the hang of it but it’s sooo useful I can’t believe I didn’t get one earlier
@kimthejunglist5 жыл бұрын
I HIGHLY recommend having 2 cups. The clean one waiting in the wings is super helpful and allows for proper disinfecting and drying of the freshly removed one.
@millomweb4 жыл бұрын
Freshly removed one can be used again immediately without sterilising.
@kimthejunglist4 жыл бұрын
pmailkeey :: Wouldn’t a freshly removed one be covered in blood and should therefore be cleaned or do you not clean yours between uses? Do think gynaecologists would recommend inserting unsterilised objects that will be in your vagina for nearly 12 hours?
@millomweb4 жыл бұрын
@@kimthejunglist Rinsing in cold water, then maybe warm/hot is fine - and I agree with that. Being a bloke, I don't have any.
@kimthejunglist4 жыл бұрын
pmailkeey :: If you don’t use a cup, what makes you qualified to tell women what is appropriate to put in their vaginas?
@helensanderson67894 жыл бұрын
@@kimthejunglist I'm not sure... my husband's penis isn't sterilized.
@Dra9ontail25 жыл бұрын
What do you mean "new weird hobby" I only have 7 cups! XD
@PutACupInIt5 жыл бұрын
😂
@IMOO18963 жыл бұрын
Why on earth am I watching this? My menopause started so long ago, I don’t even remember. Very well presented.
@PutACupInIt3 жыл бұрын
You'll get a good idea for how long you can wear it after a cycle or two. With an average flow you can go the full 12 hours, but what average means to each person may skew that. The first cycle or two with a cup it's best to check it every few hours to get an idea of how long you can go between emptying. If you need to empty at school, you can dump it in the toilet, wipe the rim with some tissue and reinsert. Wash when you get home.
@Br3Bre4 жыл бұрын
Cups literally changed my life, it is a learning curve though !! Don’t give up
@rachelk.29245 жыл бұрын
I started using one yesterday and got it right on my first try!
@truptikulkarni95033 жыл бұрын
Bravo!
@SweetyPrincessMarghe5 жыл бұрын
you should mention that because of the pressure, it can cause urinary problems.
@97AshleyRose5 жыл бұрын
Akane Tendo I’ve herd of that
@meegy25 жыл бұрын
That happened to me and this channel told me about softer cups, so I went from a lunnette to a lily cup compact and now I'm good
@SweetyPrincessMarghe5 жыл бұрын
@@meegy2 yes but sometimes if the urethra is really sensitive or prone to cystitis, the cup it's just not the best option (even a soft one). Not everyone has this problem but they should have at least mention it.
@meegy25 жыл бұрын
@@SweetyPrincessMarghe ohh
@jaclyn40985 жыл бұрын
I used to use Softcups, and theyre fucking huge and always pushed against me and made me feel like i had to pee constantly. I used them off an on for about 2 years before i gave up.
@ForcaPortugas2 жыл бұрын
Just wanted to thank you for this REALLY INFORMATIVE CHANNEL that has changed my life almost 3 years ago!! Love you and I'm glad you have updated the quiz in so many languages!!!
@Rebel_Angel4205 ай бұрын
As 38 yr old trying this for the first time..I was a lil intimidated... You guys made me feel much much better. Thank you so much🎉
@wickeddance935 жыл бұрын
I bought the lily cup as my first cup and love it! It did take at least 3 cycles to get the hang of it but now I have no issues. I don’t think I’d go as far as saying it changed my life, but it has made my periods more manageable and I love that all I need is this cute colourful thing (and a few cloth pads), saving a few bucks while also being environmentally conscious!
@monkey150219995 жыл бұрын
Okay but one really good thing about this video is that not once did you specify that cups are only for women. Some men have periods too and it's so inclusive just to say "people with vaginas." Well done 👏👏
@bandbporter5 жыл бұрын
Men have periods??!
@monkey150219995 жыл бұрын
@@bandbporter Some men do yes. Some transgender men still have periods and it's a totally normal thing and shouldn't be taboo :)
@bandbporter5 жыл бұрын
Oh, I get what you were saying: Some people with female bodies [many, I’m sure], who identify as male, still get their periods.
@an-enby-panda78405 жыл бұрын
Also some nonbinary people!
@monkey150219995 жыл бұрын
@@an-enby-panda7840 Hell yeah!!! (Tbh the only reason i didn't put nb in the first comment is because it's 'hard enough' for cis ppl to get their heads around trans men/women in the first place 😅😅
@megk25274 жыл бұрын
This was very helpful. I bought the Saalt cup, and I couldn’t get it out of my body, which made me panic. So that part where you explained your cervix moves, now I know...
@llddau4 жыл бұрын
I bought one in a deal where a second, smaller one came for free as well! Really good for the figuring out which is good for you stuff. It certainly took more than once to learn to do it properly, trying many different styles of fold, how high, how to position, how to remove, sterilise etc. But now I love it, plus if you forget and leave it in too long no TSS, or things stop and you hardly fill it at all, you’re all good unlike a tampon.
@burcian5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making a realistic, informative video about menstrual cups and how people's experiences differ from each other! I tried my first about three years ago and the first type I bought magically fit my anatomy after some modifications (yay), but I am far off from the average where my cervix is extremely low, and I basically have to trim the complete end of the cup to make it fit, there is absolutely no space below it for any of your suggestions. :) That said, using it it feels much less like you have a period and I knew from the first time that I used it that after the learning curve I would never even consider going back to any other products. Cheers!
@nr08025 жыл бұрын
I've read in a fb group (menstrual cups worldwide I think it's called, it was my go-to for help at the beginning, 3+ years ago) trick to make cup bit shorter by turning it inside out (if it's not some odd shaped type) It's a small difference if you already trimmed the stem, so probably not helpful to you, but it helped few times my cervix, usually quite high, decided to make a trip... So I thought I should share....
@burcian5 жыл бұрын
@@nr0802 thanks for the useful tip! trimming the complete stem actually worked for me, but I just wanted to add it since many reviews I read before starting out was from people with different anatomy than mine.
@ShikinHambali5 жыл бұрын
This video is what I’ve been waiting for! I haven’t made the switch and this helps a lot ❤️
@JessHughes4 жыл бұрын
My mum has used a menstrual cup for as long as I can remember and she introduced them to me last year and they have changed my life ... NO MORE LEAKING
@leesks99084 жыл бұрын
here’s a little story: this happened to me today lol. When I used the cup for the first (and last time) it got really really stuck. I spent forever trying to get it out myself but it was no use. I ended up going to the doctors to have them remove it. Took over 15 minutes. Extremely uncomfortable and painful at times. Bawled my eyes out🙃 however that was my first time. The cup got suctioned to my cervix. Just please be careful first time users. But never be embarrassed if it gets stuck and you gotta have a doctor remove it😂
@leanna1072 жыл бұрын
Oh wow
@Ra1nb0wPuff2 жыл бұрын
this is what scares me the most 😓 I know you commented 2 years ago, but do you remember if you squatted/ beared down and tried breaking the seal before deciding to go to the doctor? or were you just trying to feel and find it to get it out?