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@IKECH5452 жыл бұрын
Girl here ✌🏼just saying... guys cussing is one of my BIGGEST turn-offs. It’s so rare to find even Christians who take not cussing and watching their language in general, seriously. Thank you for saying something!
@316thewaythetruththelife52 жыл бұрын
That is so true, I don't like the cussing either and slang, I thought christians didn't cuss, and when I started meeting some I was surprise but I know now. Everyone is still learning & growing. I pray to God for my future husband not to speak that way, that's not acceptable at all.
@luikssmart77512 жыл бұрын
Swearing is a social construct. The Bible doesn’t say anything about it. Depends where and how you grow up. I personally don’t swear, and I would date someon who does swear as long as I know why they do.
@vickil48492 жыл бұрын
@@luikssmart7751 Here are a few. There are plenty more. Ephesians 4:29 Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them. Psalm 19:14 Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight, O LORD, my rock and my redeemer. Colossians 3:8-10 But now you must rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips.
@anormaldude127 Жыл бұрын
I cuss in a daily bassis, but there is a reson for it. I do it when I do somting extremely stupid or clumsy, reson for that atitude, is cuz I douth myself for my overal skill as a human being to function normaly in a home or society, and when I cuss it's like a calm sensation for me to let out my confusion of my own existens. questions like these: "why am I doing this?" "what was that now!?" "It slipt out my hand! I hade good grip, HOW!? "what is the meaning of this?" "am I not good enoth to function normaly?"
@aprilshowers12712 жыл бұрын
Body hair is a natural part of God's creation, even on females. While everyone is allowed to have their own preferences, it's nothing to be ashamed of. God make us perfect and in His image, and that includes body hair.
@achilles64452 жыл бұрын
That is some way to take it...but just as i would wanna dress and shave for my wife... my wife would do so.. that is why Solomon talks about woman spending time in the bathroom. It is about being loving and respectful
@abyortega122 жыл бұрын
@@achilles6445 interesting point! Could you reference Solomon speaking of that? I’d love to read it myself
@julesaye2 жыл бұрын
10000% agreed 💛
@davidvalle30682 жыл бұрын
It’s like saying no cutting your nails is natural and it’s gods creation. Most guys and I agree with this, wants a well groomed woman just like most women want a well groomed man
@DannyD-lr5yg2 жыл бұрын
@@davidvalle3068 Not really, it’s not. Body hair is very self-limiting. Nobody’s ever walking around with 3 ft long leg hairs, thinking about how they need to stop by SuperCuts that weekend. Nails, on the other hand, will literally grow and grow and grow until they break or you die, if you let them. So the issue people have is more about the double standard. Men & women could each allow their body hair to grow, and both could make it look equally as neat and tidy. But societally, we’re not used to seeing it on women - even though that’s a very arbitrary opinion. (I know, I know: you’re thinking “nuh uh, it’s just common sense! Women just _look_ better smooth!” In reality, societally ingrained opinions just feel like common sense.) To borrow your nail analogy, though, it’s more like saying: “Men and women should both keep their nails reasonably trimmed. But while men can do sensible straight lines, women must clip elaborate little wavy edges.”
@hiscanvasofgrace33912 жыл бұрын
I think there's a difference between mere looks, and being attractive/finding someone attractive. We all know people who are very physically good looking on the outside, but maybe have an awful personality or we don't find engaging. And then there are those people who just have such a wonderful personality and we feel drawn to them, and love spending time..and their looks become more secondary 💕🙃
@kenzz19972 жыл бұрын
Yeah! Very well put-completely agree :)
@melodyhuebschman41262 жыл бұрын
As for the burping and farting, I feel that’s a double standard. It’s natural and everyone has to do it. Now obviously don’t be obnoxious with it, but if you’re just the two of you, let it out. It’s funny for my husband and I.
@audreylane43022 жыл бұрын
Yeah! Same thing with body hair! God made males and females with it and it shouldn’t be shameful if you’re not perfectly shaved all the time.
@kamarwashington2 жыл бұрын
The questions starts out with assuming that it’s a double standard. There wasn’t any real reason for pointing this out
@isabelpalmer594128 күн бұрын
Yeah, totally agree. The problem is the man who doesn't let the woman be human enough to do so obviously is more concerned with preserving his pornographic/ objectifying imagine of her to fulfill his selfish shallow sexual needs.
@joshuatolbert2875 күн бұрын
Can't hold what's not in your hand.
@arealhumanbeing_2 жыл бұрын
As a man who has experienced porn addiction I would give a much different answer as to why men watch porn. It's generally just like most addictive behaviors. It's a coping mechanism for some kind of chronic emotional pain or trauma. One of the biggest helps to me was to detach the shame from it, dig into the root cause and address that rather than the behavior, which is really more of a symptom than anything.
@pineirokatherine2 жыл бұрын
That’s what I learned in counseling!
@kindnessmatters40682 жыл бұрын
Nate use to watch porn as well... before they married. He talks about it in a old video. So his answer was just from bis perspective and not necessarily a wrong one.
@Rae8Anne Жыл бұрын
@@kindnessmatters4068 "before"
@sarahblack62022 жыл бұрын
I love the way they look at each other.just melts my heart
@lukiebenit5492 жыл бұрын
18:35 I totally agree with Nate on that one. When a girl asks deeper more pressing questions my attraction for them increases tenfold because I instantly see them as more than just a pretty face, but as a pretty soul too
@-Solange-2 жыл бұрын
Same for the girls. 😄
@mackenziebarrett40912 жыл бұрын
Why was this so wholesome 😭😭
@PaulandMorgan2 жыл бұрын
Bahaha I forgot how funny you guys are❤️❤️ I lol’d multiple times!
@nateandsutton2 жыл бұрын
😂💛💛
@mollymaier8942 жыл бұрын
In terms of commitment, choose the one you love, and love the one you choose!
@eunicetsurielngatchuissi18362 жыл бұрын
That body hair issue really depends on culture. I mean I'm African (Cameroonian) and it's a problem for no one. Instead most guys say they prefer "hairy" girls. Granted underarm hair is still a no no😂
@demarwilliams64492 жыл бұрын
Sutton: in marriage, how would you want the woman to initiate sex? Nate: I like it 😂
@nateandsutton2 жыл бұрын
🤣 bless him
@nicole-wf4pe2 жыл бұрын
As a 22 yr old with so many questions this helped a lot! your guys' humor was just a bonus 😂💗 u guys r an adorable couple
@mmmmlllljohn2 жыл бұрын
I like how direct Sutton is - you never have to wonder what she is thinking and Nate appreciated that she doesn’t play games. I laughed out loud a couple of times i.e. Nate saying “You little wuss.” You both have great senses of humour. Now I have to go read the other comments!❤️🇨🇦
@GabrielMartinez-sd8pc2 жыл бұрын
About the commitment question: Men aren’t scared of marriage. Men are terrified of divorce.
@swisschalet16582 жыл бұрын
Great comment!
@melissabrewer88642 жыл бұрын
As a woman I can see why a man would feel this way. Women can be brutal during a divorce. Married twice divorced once. I didn’t even read my divorce papers I just signed them. I was so distraught I didn’t care about anything else and he wasn’t exactly fair. In the long run no regrets. I didn’t need revenge my life/marriage now is so much more fulfilling and my ex and I get along great. God can turn the bad into his glory. God is so good!
@-Solange-2 жыл бұрын
Really? Why would you assume there will be a divorce?
@arbretree54632 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being honest as always! I still think it's sad that we are being conditioned by commercials, porn, etc. to see hair as something disgusting even though there is a good reason why God created us that way and hair (especially down there) is so important and protects us from infections, irritation, etc.
@markmoore83992 жыл бұрын
Praying for a woman that comes into my mind has helped me quite a bit. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
@pineirokatherine2 жыл бұрын
I know a young male pastor that does this each time he is tempted! Instead he prays for the woman working out in tight clothing that bends down right where he is lifting at the gym 🤷🏽♀️ I think that’s GREAT! Your perspective on the person changes + they get prayed for 💓
@pineirokatherine2 жыл бұрын
I agree with the “wanting to look if someone with a good-looking body passes by”! It is definitely an instinct to look. But correct: capture those thoughts!!
@roxiereign2 жыл бұрын
I think my best friend and I are an exception to the "one has to be attracted to the other" idea. He's been my bestfriend for almost four years, and we both have been so brutally honest with each other. He's actually really is into this other girl we both know, and has for most of our friendship. I couldn't ever see myself dating or marrying him; just thinking about that made me laugh hahaha. He's my life long bestfriend, and if that's gonna bother my significant other... I'm sorry, but he isn't going anywhere. I'm willing to talk to my significant other about me having a bestfriend that is a guy and maybe set some boundaries, but I'm never going to just cut him off like that. He's my bestfriend for a *reason*.
@markreese49912 жыл бұрын
I agree with Nate on all of these, but want to elaborate on the ghosting. It is crappy to do. I’d only ghost someone who is bothering me or overloading my phone with text messages. Another thing in regards to texting, don’t rely on text messages to build a relationship. I don’t know about all guys, but many of the guys I know (myself included) don’t like texting and would much rather talk to women in person. Text to make plans, and do the actual talking when you’re with us.
@nateandsutton2 жыл бұрын
Love that advice! Nathanael actually did that to me! We didn’t text at all in the beginning, only to make plans which gave us a lot to talk about when we would see each other!
@gabrielles982 жыл бұрын
Love this!!!!
@VinnieVan2 жыл бұрын
Lol, “some hobo in Oregon”..you’re cracking me up Nate. You two are just awesome! Praise God for the example you are setting and presenting a Godly standard. Been a follower of Raw brahs for years and years. Glad to see you turned out to be a very authentic man of God. Love your family/this channel. God bless y’all.
@travistlock2 жыл бұрын
Wow the clap was on sync lol y’all should do every intro like that from now on!
@paulajames61492 жыл бұрын
I used to ask my husband direct questions to get to know him but he hated it. He thought it was intrusive and made him feel like he was weird.
@miaramirez72742 жыл бұрын
Nate and Sutton, you two have truly changed my life for the better! My dad passed away about 1.5 years ago and my once strong and powerful faith suffered greatly. I lost sight of God and struggled. In 2021 I slowly found my way back to God and learned that he was with me all along. I am now stronger in my faith than ever before, and your videos have helped me and answered many questions I have. The two of you are very inspiring and uplifting in so many ways, and I am blessed that this channel exists. God Bless both of you!!! ❤️
@nateandsutton2 жыл бұрын
Wow wow that is such a blessing to us! Thank you for sharing 😭 and I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. I can’t imagine that pain. I am so happy to hear you found your way back to God and you’re relationship is stronger than ever. I’m sure that makes your dad smile! 💛
@melsamantha2 жыл бұрын
My sister doesn't shave anything because she believes that's how God made her. If a guy has an issue she tells him to take it up with the man upstairs 🤷
@nateandsutton2 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@tinamcguire36602 жыл бұрын
The same is true of burping and farting. Our bodies are literally designed to do those things.
@tissabff93642 жыл бұрын
I do the same, I don't feel the need to shave. I only shave my legs and armpits once every one to two months during shorts season and that's it.
@apracity76722 жыл бұрын
@@tinamcguire3660 our bodies are meant to defecate, but that doesnt mean we should defecate in front of others. I think we can apply the same logic to burping and farting
@apracity76722 жыл бұрын
Does she also abstain from getting haircuts and from cutting her fingernails and from plucking her eyebrows?
@charisjobe88342 жыл бұрын
Lol y’all just looking at each other answering these questions and laughing is adorable 😂🥰🥲
@kylaroselucero59492 жыл бұрын
When he said “slutty”, I immediately knew you guys were gonna get hate 😂😂 even though I completely agree!!! But our culture doesn’t like getting called out like that!
@favournoya2 жыл бұрын
Agreed! I love Nate & Sutton, but it was a tad bit uncomfortable to hear them use this word instead of using terminology such as “modest”. To me, it was almost like he was implying that, we girls, MUST all dress conservatively in order to attract those certain type of guys. When in reality, it’s much more than what we wear. Don’t get me wrong, it def a factor, but not the “end-all-be-all”. To me, personally, it’s all about intentions. For instance, if I was to wear an “off-the-shoulder” top it would be considered inappropriate and not modest to some older folk, when in reality my intention was just to wear it because I thought it was cute and I was comfortable in it. Not necessarily to attract “slutty guys” OR make myself the center of attention. No hate to Nate & Sutton AT ALL, just wanted to point this out and hope they are a bit more sensitive to the words they use to convey their message(s).
@lukiebenit5492 жыл бұрын
On question one I definitely am one of those guys that do that but I wanna share my perspective. Sometimes I see a message and I will think to myself, “Okay, I’ll respond to that later after this”, then I forget and feel bad when it’s the next day. Also another reason why I don’t focus on texting is because I don’t like texting and wanna FaceTime/hangout. Then lastly and most true for guys is we just aren’t interested
@fdoctor792 жыл бұрын
I'm half female. PAUSE, WHAT?!? Nate got jokes. lol Interesting to hear a Christian male perspective. Tfs and Happy New Year!
@nateandsutton2 жыл бұрын
🤣 happy new year!
@sincerelynouran3802 Жыл бұрын
Said that on an another video of yours , and saying it again “you both are soothing”. Indeed 🤍 Calm, wise, mature, and beautiful inside out❤️
@janellee2502 жыл бұрын
While I absolutely adore Nate & Sutton, Nate is not the norm when it comes to these questions.
@IisusLyubitMenya2 жыл бұрын
He is just very honest , which is very valuable. I truly appreciate his honesty in all questions 😇
@vanessar51242 жыл бұрын
For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16
@incognito80822 жыл бұрын
Interesting. Part 2? About guys hesitating to commit to relashionships, I'm not a guy so I'm rlly not an expert, but I think another reason they are hesitant to commit is the fact that once they get married they r the sole provider and support for their future family. That is a huge responsibility to take on. I admire men who do. It takes a lot to be responsible for the welfare of those he loves. I would never want that responsiblity and guys r amazing to take on that challenge. This is just one reason. I'm sure there r many others
@raylenenielsen59432 жыл бұрын
I would agree that marriage is most likely a bigger step for men than women, but I also feel like the man who will take that step and responsibility is really far more the man.
@MrsMuffin112 жыл бұрын
yep this is the biggest hurdle my fiance is overcoming with the thought of having children in the future and the emotional and financial support that comes with that. he knows he can support me and that he wants to be with me for the rest of his life, but handling parenting, making the right choices for children and finding a job that allows him to provide abundantly is the mental hurdle right now (for both of us a little if I'm being honest lol)
@corinnefolks59962 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same. Many men don't want to have the responsibility of leading and providing for a family. They just wanna mess around - which is why it ends up so many times that they get the girl pregnant and walk away.
@raylenenielsen59432 жыл бұрын
@@corinnefolks5996 Yes. Possibly. But a girl getting pregnant is just as much the girl’s fault as the man.
@vivaeuropa Жыл бұрын
@@MrsMuffin11 That's why it's important to lean on God's will for our lives. Everyone thinks they need to make so much money but what if God just wants a basic small family and you guys bringing in a combined 60k a year is enough. Not saying this is for you forsure but it's a thought
@caredfor391Ай бұрын
This was 100% more helpful than most dialogue out there. Thank you
@sophieghaffari90062 жыл бұрын
Yes l love these types of videos and l love that’s it is a respectable, faith-based guy answering the questions.
@jacobedwards91612 жыл бұрын
To give y’all another persons insight these are just my opinions from what I’ve seen and about myself and if y’all have other questions y’all can reply and ask them and I’ll try and answer - Why do men ghost? They don’t have the back bone to cut it off - size of body parts? Depends on the dude honestly. Most don’t care - fear of commitment? Nate hit the nail on the head. “What if” bugs us - what girls wear? It matters, you can be fully clothed and still be gorgeous - we think about seggs a lot ngl - girls starting convos? Initiate the first interaction. After that let him pursue you. - guy best friends? For me no. Period. We can have couple friends but not individual friends - natural beauty or make up? Nate said it pretty well, we like natural beauty with a little make up. - looks matter but they’re not everything, I want to be attracted to my wife but I’m not looking for a Victoria secret model. Most guys like ig you could say “simple pretty” - I don’t mind hearing girls talk just don’t fuss, for lack of a better word. I’m sure most girls know but guys cannot multitask at all so make sure you have his full attention or it likely won’t register - initiating seggy time? Just ask. It’s literally that simple. No tricks, no magic formula, just ask - I try not to compare current girls to my ex honestly. If I’m dating someone new I want to focus on them and leave the past in the past - Why do some guys watch P? It honestly gets to the point where it’s an addiction you can look it up there’s science behind it they know it’s wrong but they continue to do it - hard working or feminine? Prefer feminine and delicate but i’m not gonna turn down a great girl just because she’s not 100% feminine. Hardworking is always good - Think about other women? I don’t. But I know that some guys do some guys dont. Honestly a majority of guys will never admit to it but once they find that one girl they’re down for they tend to stay pretty locked in on her from what I’ve seen. I know because of stereotypes that’s hard to believe but most good guys and once they found the one they love they stay locked down
@emilyahlbaum34172 жыл бұрын
Glad I got more info from a guy's perspective.
@stefanyoung44602 жыл бұрын
How does Sutton know a guy’s mind more than most girls do? 😂😂😂😂😂 it’s scary!
@meganelise21862 жыл бұрын
…. Girls burp and fart because we literally can’t help it because it’s human?? Lol what you want us to do, explode?
@Sharpman762 жыл бұрын
Well how else are you gonna keep your breasts from deflating? /s 😅
@justinmulkey30432 жыл бұрын
I agree 😂😂
@-Solange-2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I was like... umm what? 😅
@SophieMelissa2 жыл бұрын
Yes! I am pregnant and have IBS, I am sorry for my husband at times but I can’t stop my body from functioning 🤣
@luizac13292 жыл бұрын
Happy New Year Nate & Sutton!! God bless your beautiful family and help you to continue this small ‘big’ ministry on KZfaq 🤗🙏🏼
@randomdude123702 жыл бұрын
I think having to train your mind to look away from someone attractive is pointless and almost "toxic." People are attractive. There's nothing wrong with looking at someone attractive, the difference is if you want to take it further with that person, or if you do it while with your S/O. I've been with my girlfriend for several years. If my girlfriend were to see an attractive guy in her day to day, that's fine, it's part of life. If she talks to him is a different story. If she stares him down is also different. But if she just looks at him and then keep it moving, nothing wrong with that. You shouldn't have to train yourself to look away, just don't have lustful thoughts or engage with the person.
@Vessel_ofCHRIST72 жыл бұрын
Praise the Lord for bringing up the relationship advice at the end. It’s something I do and it felt like I was interrogating or putting a guy through the test all the time. I have to examine everything in the Spirit. Some would see it as if I’m being a detective lol. You guys are amazing! Not to forget hilarious also. So Thank you for addressing these questions for us. Blessings to you beyond measure!🕊🙌🏾💕
@tissabff93642 жыл бұрын
Wait, I'm a girl and I thought breast always have milk. I guess I learned something today
@sebahat482 жыл бұрын
I like how respectful you guys talk in general. I know you are Christians but the way you speak or respond to questions sounded a lot like Muslim people to me💓
@NM-gg3hs2 жыл бұрын
me too, I'm muslim, may ALLAH give us heavens. AMEEN
@hananm292 жыл бұрын
Please do another one where Sutton answers questions guys are too afraid to ask
@anitaprudnikow20882 жыл бұрын
Haha my husband when I txt him before we dated, didn't answer much either just because he wanted to get gods answer first for his opinion about the 2 of us. Ones he god confirmed he could not stop texting and calling lol
@Rae8Anne Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad this guy doesn't have a daughter.
@brookestrickland64212 жыл бұрын
This video made me thankful for my husband.
@lexigray4732 жыл бұрын
Yes same. I am very glad my man doesn’t get grossed out when I need to burp🙄
@brookestrickland64212 жыл бұрын
@@lexigray473 yes!! Or me having a little body hair every now and then when life gets hectic God forbid. Lol
@tammiel38122 жыл бұрын
Sutton has a beautiful glow! Happy wife, mother and Godly woman. I hope you are feeling good with your little one growing. Happy New Beginnings in 2022! Love your family!
@nateandsutton2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Yes, feeling good so far thank God! Aside from normal aches and pains that come with a growing belly!
@goose60112 жыл бұрын
So glad to see y’all back!!! Would Love a Q and A about the baby and your pregnancy🤰🤍
@nateandsutton2 жыл бұрын
Yeah that would be fun!
@balletfitwithtalisha2 жыл бұрын
Does anyone else get quite a a misogynistic/patriarchal vibe from Nate? Not specifically calling out this video, just in general from a couple of videos I've seen (& liked!). Not hating, just makes me uncomfortable! Am I the only one??
@cascadianapplications71242 жыл бұрын
Lol muh patriarchy
@courtneywells81672 жыл бұрын
You’re not the only one.
@ExistentialIzzy2 жыл бұрын
Another thing to point out: she's always pregnant. Because, with their religion, she can only be a "godly woman" if she's popping out kids. Expect her to have 4+ kids.
@cascadianapplications71242 жыл бұрын
@@ExistentialIzzy You don't have a grasp on what you're talking about.
@nateandsutton2 жыл бұрын
@@ExistentialIzzy huh??
@braydendukes66332 жыл бұрын
Do a guys ask girls questions!!
@AaronFromGuildford Жыл бұрын
2:20: Men can "just change the channel" and ignore a text and never think about it again. 3:23: Yes 3:55: Because men end up paying for the divorce. It can end at anytime, and the man will have to pay alimony and perhaps even child support. 4:50: Yes. It matters to them so it matters to us. Good answer by Nate on this one. 5:40: Once in the morning / afternoon / evening. Good answer by Nate. 7:17: Love it when women initiated the conversation. It's a rare thing though. 8:08: Yes 8:27: No 8:55: Both. It's the variety that's needed. (Nate's on point). Agreed on all answers and then.. 11:39: How? Often. Blatant. Scandalous..
@tamaramuller60052 жыл бұрын
I think also that clothes tells a lot about a person ! Loves from Germany 🇩🇪 :)
@carinel.1333 Жыл бұрын
Grüße zurück! Auch aus germany
@lottevandenheuvel13452 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much! This video came right on time for me. I surely have received seeds of truth, love and inspiration from your videos!😁
@rixygutierrez2 жыл бұрын
The first question I believe was about the guy ghosting us. Well I had met someone that literally had almost every potential I was looking for in a guy. Even on our few dates he seemed so interested but after a couple of days of texting he never replied. I felt pretty sad and disappointed for like 2 weeks almost 3 (I even cried a lil) lol I wondered if it was something I did or said or simply him just not being interested enough. I then began to think well if he wanted to he would. He has his phone he can text me if he wanted to but he didn’t. I guess now I’ve accepted it and just trying to move on, I like to be pursued and not pursue a guy. Anyways that resonated and answered my own question! Thank you guys 🥰🥰
@jessimitchell20512 жыл бұрын
Same thing happened to me! But looking back, I see that God had a much better guy out there for me. We are getting married in a few months! Getting ghosted sucks but trusting in the Lord and His plan is the only things to get past it peacefully.
@rixygutierrez2 жыл бұрын
@@jessimitchell2051 thank you!! It definitely sucks to just be ghosted but Yes, I trust God has that person for me and in it’s own time it will happen and they won’t do that to me :( Yay! Congrats 🥳💜👏 I’m glad it all worked out in the end for you 🎉
@jdkayak78682 жыл бұрын
If a guy doesn't respond or provide closure while dating (girls too) then they're not ready for the direct communication needed in a real relationship. If your old enough and still struggling in dating I highly recommend eharmony, especially if your one who doesn't like to pursue. It'll match you up with people you'll like and they'll mostly be as serious about their faith as you.
@babiryepriscilla22872 жыл бұрын
My same experience,3 guys at that but learning to let it go
@rixygutierrez2 жыл бұрын
@@jdkayak7868 yep, that’s what I took it as, perhaps he’s not ready to be in a committed relationship which I respect. While I may have said I don’t like to pursue a guy, I mean that in the sense of I don’t like to be the only one hitting him up, or wanting to plan something for the both of us, or doing all the work. Yes I put effort but it’s nice to be pursued.. if that makes sense. And oh cool haven’t heard of it. Will check it out 👍🏼
@Anne-rj4bk Жыл бұрын
You answered all the questions exactly as my husband would answer.
@evansmosomi68922 жыл бұрын
the last tip he gave is a winnnn!!!
@hannahwilliams49072 жыл бұрын
The camera quality is Devine
@Etigress2 жыл бұрын
Lucky...guys don't have to shave if they don't want to. But girls have to shave their entire bodies all the time. It's exhausting.
@Monk77912 жыл бұрын
Of course they don't have to. Their entire bodies?? Because of cultural norms? If one has very sensitive skin, it may not even be possible. No fun being covered in red pimples all the time
@mariacharach67362 жыл бұрын
Nate sure put on the honestly hat! 😂
@skaterman81802 жыл бұрын
Nate would have a killer Matthew Mcconaughey impression 😂
@nateandsutton2 жыл бұрын
🤣 I (sutton) would like to see that!
@peacefuldoves2 жыл бұрын
@@nateandsutton Allright.. Allright....Allright! ^chuckles^. Please do a clip. Sutton is asking after all!
@michellephillips4552 жыл бұрын
Yesss! I was so happy someone brought this up. I was literally thinking Nate sounded/looked like him in this video. And Nate doing an impression would be epic 😂😂
@danieldouglas81062 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I’m 18 and waiting for God to place the right woman into my life. I feel like looks play a big part in it though.
@emilyahlbaum34172 жыл бұрын
God is taking a while to send me the right guy.
@danieldouglas81062 жыл бұрын
@@emilyahlbaum3417 what’s your IG? I don’t know why, I’m just curious.
@snengelman2 жыл бұрын
Being married to Nate truly seems miserable.
@ttownsupreme21832 жыл бұрын
Why?Im curious?
@andyireland25992 жыл бұрын
😂I love the honesty!! Cracking up the whole video but I loved this type of video good job
@JonDoe-dt9uz2 жыл бұрын
Nate = Great Value Billy Currington
@spiritsavage Жыл бұрын
I don't necessarily ghost, but I give space. Sometimes it's interpreted as ghosting. Not to play games, but because I think being too obsessive can be unhealthy in a relationship. So I like that talk on the phone and try to not worry about feeling like I need to text right away.
@kaylagreenstien90692 жыл бұрын
Goodness, this does not sound like a man walking in the word of the Lord
@melissabrewer88642 жыл бұрын
This sounds like religion not relationship. He is being honest, what else could you want from a man? I’m so happy mine is honest and walks with the word of the Lord
@aandg34792 жыл бұрын
I noticed you guys try to stay healthy and eat well. Would you consider doing what you eat in a week vlog? I'd love to know what you eat for breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
@arbretree54632 жыл бұрын
Same!
@DelinaBK4 ай бұрын
You guys are so funny! I was laughing throughout the whole video🤣🤣🤣
@andreamireles20572 жыл бұрын
“There’s a guy out there for every size.” 😅😅😅
@swaycoward54382 жыл бұрын
Love how he said farting 😂😂 I literally have to make sure the guy knows because if not them he is in for one heck of a surprise 😂😂
@sierrabrock2 жыл бұрын
It is interesting that Nate would say that guys don't like it when girls make the first move because most videos I watch with this title say that guys love it when girls make the first move.
@Sharpman762 жыл бұрын
Well, they probably ought not to lol, imo guys need to have courage to ask a girl out, cuz if they can't muster the courage for even that, you can hardly trust them to have courage in other situations. Speaking as a guy lol, do correct me
@nateandsutton2 жыл бұрын
Oh really?? That’s interesting! Welcome to 2022 I guess 🤣
@mscottster4442 жыл бұрын
Nate is completely right. If a man isn’t willing to lead and start the relationship who’s to say he will start leading once they get married and more stressful things happen.
@raylenenielsen59432 жыл бұрын
@@Sharpman76 As a girlie, I think men should lead out. For the most part women have taken over the men, but it’s the men’s fault. Stand tall, take the reins and be manly men. We’ll probably fight it, but we’ll get over it😀! It really is what we need.
@sierrabrock2 жыл бұрын
@@Sharpman76 Interesting point of view. I don't see it as a lack of courage. Sometimes the girl just gets to it first. To me, it seems like the opposite of a lack of courage. If a girl making the first move makes a guy so insecure that he is turned off by that, then he may not be emotionally stable.
@GodlyDating1012 жыл бұрын
I nearly died at the comment about hair and a Oregon guy liking it 😂😂😂😩
@KawanoMino212 жыл бұрын
I’m usually very encouraged by your videos but this one was in poor taste. Not ever having a boyfriend or dating is a big insecurity of mine. I was born with a digestive disorder that do make gastrointestinal issues worse for me than the average female. I don’t have a very typical feminine personality, and I’ve endured years of having guy friends “treat me like a bro” while my more feminine friends are asked out and flirted on left and right. Luckily, God has brought me to a point where I’m happy with my current state of singleness, but that doesn’t mean my insecurities have gone away. For any young, insecure female out there watching this video and feeling like “oh guys could never be attracted to me”, please know that God cherishes you. You were beautifully and wonderfully made by Him. You do not have to be stereotypically feminine to be beautiful. What does make you beautiful is a heart that pursues Christ and trusts him in all things, and I’m sad that this video did not address more of that.
@courtneywells81672 жыл бұрын
Try to ignore basically all of this video - it was garbage.
@SophieMelissa2 жыл бұрын
I’m 27, recently married with IBS, and possible chrohns being investigated. I am also pregnant which doesn’t help matters in that department - my husband even when dating has always been very supportive and never once ‘grossed out’ by any of this! We talk very openly. Also, we are all human beings, who have to function, please try not to put yourself down or tell yourself you’re less attractive because of this ❤️
@nateandsutton2 жыл бұрын
We of course agree with this. No where did we say that people aren’t cherished or beautiful or not feminine by what they do or don’t do. All the answer to that question was was a personal preference. Yes, they are normal body functions, does it mean we want them done intentionally in front of each other? No (a personal preference that no one else has to have). Does it happen sometimes by accident? Yes. Does it make us less attracted to each other? No. Obviously that answer came off in a way we didn’t intend for it to to you and for that we’re sorry!
@meolahresseh50312 жыл бұрын
@@SophieMelissa in Jesus name, be healed.❤
@meolahresseh50312 жыл бұрын
Jesus paid for our healing already, so may he get what he paid for. In Jesus name, be healed❤. Also, receive grace and peace in Jesus name.
@AM-up2nu2 жыл бұрын
Being grossed out by body hair and burping? Are you 12? Grow up.
@jollygoodgordon55802 жыл бұрын
*happy new year Nate and Sutton and God bless you*
@averykettlewell19432 жыл бұрын
I laughed out loud during this video quite a few times 😂
@kenamo6492 жыл бұрын
I love you guys ❤️🔥. May God richly bless you all
@claranagy95642 жыл бұрын
Thank you for answering my question! Your advice was very helpful :)
@moyradorzab50762 жыл бұрын
When Nate said “some hobo in Oregon” I laughed because I’m from Oregon and that’s kind of true!
@nateandsutton2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@jessimitchell20512 жыл бұрын
I also laughed out loud because I’m from the PNW and we make those kind of jokes.
@klaytonwasson46742 жыл бұрын
Same
@shawnee.2 жыл бұрын
I was fascinated to hear what people think of Oregon 🤣😆
@linoca.alencar2 жыл бұрын
Very good questions, and Nate was pretty nice answering them 😊 thank you for the tips, Nate ❤️
@valeriacardonapizarro3812 жыл бұрын
Hi from Colombia, love you guys!❤️🇨🇴
@briannenicoleerman2 жыл бұрын
"If you have underarm hair, you may be able to find some hobo but that's it" 😂 😂 😂
@danielnilson61152 жыл бұрын
I'm a guy and everything Nate said I agree with 👍
@angelalumia33942 жыл бұрын
Love y'all so much! Thanks posting all these amazing videos:)
@evavanniekerk59132 жыл бұрын
Part 2 please.
@kylajeanmusic5 ай бұрын
Sutton is so beautiful, you guys are such a sweet couple!
@demarwilliams64492 жыл бұрын
1:35 I usually answer all texts but if I leave you on read it’s probably because theres a dead end in the convo or did it by accident. Some guys do it to be Hollywood and never open any of there messages have like 100 unopened messages
@demarwilliams64492 жыл бұрын
Guys best friends are definitely a no for me. Y’all can’t be best friends and not have though about being attracted to each other which then could lead from one thing to another and now y’all are broken up
@mecmec84022 жыл бұрын
Thanks again guys for honesty & transparency...Nate too funny- there's a person for every size :)..& Sutton luv your fearless & smart questioning..Miss you guys- pray the kids are well. Happy & Blessed 2022...
@rozapefsara56252 жыл бұрын
Part two. God bless you!
@leah385212 жыл бұрын
I love how Nate keeps it 100!
@carinel.1333 Жыл бұрын
One man I Dated turned away after He Noticed I was too interested...
@uniquelybird2 жыл бұрын
You guys are soo funny. You make me so excited for marriage. For real yall are so funny i cant even express
@abigailruthmina2 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video of what are a few examples of bold questions please?
@jrios1092 жыл бұрын
I can’t wait for the opposite version of this video :)
@sylvianolan21852 жыл бұрын
You,LL be waiting!!
@lyublyuisusa2 жыл бұрын
Great video! Thank you guys God bless
@KCoda12482 жыл бұрын
Haven’t watched for a while. Boy! You guys have really opened up! Lol!
@nateandsutton2 жыл бұрын
😂
@sarahsabry49582 жыл бұрын
I love this!! Really good answers Nate, and the both of you are so funny 😂
@isabelpalmer594128 күн бұрын
What man in the Bible didn't pursue his wife and the wife pursued him? If a man doesn't initiate moves I would not say for the women to do so, I'd say foe the woman to find a man man enough to take the lead.
@ttownsupreme21832 жыл бұрын
Nate has some HATERS!! I love Nick thank you for the content