Nate’s eyes when Sutton was recounting the urgent care story…. Holy shit girl are you ok?? Nate, why on earth would you not INSIST on keeping the kids so your sick wife could get help? What’s wrong with you?

Wait, so he wanted her to have the foresight to consider that he would want a meal when he came home late at night after being on a plane but he couldn’t have the foresight and consideration to think she doesn’t want to take small children to urgent care? This is really quite sad.

So let me get this straight: she is supposed anticipate him wanting a hot meal at 10 pm when he gets home from traveling, but he isn’t supposed to understand he needed to keep the kids when she went to the dr??? Are you kidding me

Sutton your hair is SO beautiful no matter what it's doing.. you could walk through a hedge backwards and you'd still be the prettiest girl in the room 😌

Ugh, here from TikTok again. It's despicable behavior, frankly, if a husband doesn't just assume he will be watching the kids while his wife is at URGENT CARE. Good grief, I wouldn't even have to hint at it or be sarcastic. There is clearly some very toxic, narcissistic behavior on Nate's part and the fact that your two sit down to do marriage advice videos is appalling. My husband (of 19 years) and I are also conservative Christians, and we are far from perfect and marriage is very hard, but if I were headed to urgent care for any reason he'd drop everything to help me, no questions asked. It's sad to me that Sutton tolerates this gross behavior from her husband, and furthermore that you two think this kind of content sets a good example. What's worse, TikTokers looking to hate on Christianity are using Nate's toxicity as examples of why Christianity is bad. Gah. Stop giving them perfect content! 🤦🏼‍♀️

Nate, where was the *forethought for Sutton’s situation* when she had to go to urgent care? And you were mad she didn’t have a sandwich ready for you when you got home from the airport?

So you have to read his mind when it comes to dinner, but he can’t read yours when it comes to his kids? Grow up bro. Be better to your wife. You found an amazing woman. Treat her accordingly. And Sutton don’t let him treat you that way. He needs to watch the kids when you go do stuff. ESP going to urgent care. And the face he made when you were talking about it is terrifying. And why do I see her apologizing more or taking responsibility more?

Why would you think it’s okay to not take the kids so she can go to urgent care? That is the most narcissistic behavior! What a selfish terrible husband! Sutton please leave this one sided abusive relationship! I promise you will be happier with another man who treats you like the queen you are! This man does NOT!!!

“Stick to reality here” high-key gaslighting and weaponizing his incompetence. Your wife needs to go to urgent care, take care of your kids dude

“Stick to reality here” but you think it’s realistic to ask your wife to watch your kids while she needs medical attention 🤡 makes sense

What's it like being a married single mom of 4 kids?

This is why putting women in a subservient echo chamber is so abusive to them. She thinks it’s her fault he didn’t watch the kids while she went to urgent care. No sweetie, if he cared about your well being even in the slightest he would have the care and compassion to think of someone’s needs besides his own. It shouldn’t have even been a discussion or a question. It should be a given because expecting the opposite is ludicrous. Yea take my two children to a waiting room chock full of sick ppl when they’re of the age they lick everything and can’t sit still. It’s the better option then me (their father) watching them at home. Do you see how completely stupid that is? I really hope you can find a way out someday and someone who treats you and cares for you the way a husband should treat and care for his wife.

Nate is nothing but a giant red flag. Wow

The low key satisfaction in Nate’s eyes when Sutton said yes to the muscle mass question 😂 From my own perspective, I look for guys that balance out certain aspects of my personality and complement others. I’m quite introverted so I feel like I need someone to get me out of my shell to balance that, but then I also love deep intellectual conversations so I look for someone that can complement that aspect. There’s never a one size fits all personality and the same way there’s no one size fits all body type. We’re all created unique by God’s beautiful design so guys, don’t ever be discouraged! You all have wonderful personality traits that God gave you for a reason! Use it for His glory ❤️ One thing that I personally find super attractive in a guy is when he is humbly but confidently living out his faith rooted in love… when you can tell a guy loves Jesus first… YES 🙌🏼

This is toxic as hell! Who is listening to these people?!

As a girl I totally agree with Suttons answers 110%. I would also like to add as a Christian, that a guy who clearly puts the Lord first (but not in a show off type of way) not only is very attractive, but also makes me feel more secure.

Ladies, if you meet a man like this, run like hell. He's totally just into himself. He's a child. Blech.

Why does this man act like he absolutely despises this woman? He loathes her and she can’t even see it. I think he needs therapy.

Dude why make your wife go to urgent care with two little ones? So disrespectful

“Do girls think it’s odd if a guy prays for the meal on a first date?” Are you kidding me?! If he doesn’t, I’m walking right out of the restaurant!! 🤣

Whoa, why would it even be a back and forth to begin with about her going to the urgent care alone? She should just go! Those are his kids. He should think of her needs. And his comment at the end?? 😢

Girl, are you okay? Everytime these videos pop up, the husband is throwing how heavily toxic and somewhat scary vibes. He looks like the type to slap a woman around, and say he does it because he loves her so much.

Girl i think your husband is a narc🥴

Amen! "Don't waste your time playing games." You better PREACH Sutton! Love you guys!😁😁😁

No I think he definitely should have used his man brain to not be so obtuse and make you take the kids to a doctors appointment. Yes communication is good, but seriously. And how many videos I’ve watched and is lack of willingness to apologize to you as a Christian man is so mind blowing. PRIDE! What I find most attractive about my husband is that when I point something out, and it’s hurt me, even if he doesn’t agree he can say “I’m sorry that hurt you, that was never my intention and I’ll try and do better and find a different way” this man… I can’t. You should pray on that Nate. Humble yourself and serve your wife like she does for you. I can’t find the air port/not eating video on here right now or the working out after the baby video But look back please. Pray and reflect. Take yourself down a peg. Yes I get she didn’t “think” that as a grown man she would have to think about your needs without you actually communicating them to you, but you are also responsible for your self and your needs. Or the fact that doesn’t matter what you meant about the work out comments. You still hurt her feeling. Of course she’s still going to love you and move on, but that doesn’t mean you can’t take responsibility or that that’s such a sensitive time in a woman’s life and just saying “you know I love you no matter what you look like and God gave me you. I love you and I’m so sorry I made you feel that way, I never wanted to do that” humble yourself. What would Jesus do. We are all wrong doers. We all should be apologizing for hurting others intentional or not. Your wife is more precious that rubies. Love her as Christ loved the church. Feel sorry for hurting her. Think of her. God first, then her, then children, self LAST! You have a huge following. Be better buddy. Show the True Christ. Not this toxic man Christian image that’s giving anti Christians room to talk about on tiktok. We don’t need any more ammo to load into their weapons.

This man is so narcissistic. I cannot believe there are so many positive comments on this video. She had to go to urgent care and he couldn't pick up on the fact that he should watch their children??? And now when they are recounting this, he once again is acting like she is in the wrong?!? "Stick to reality". The reality is that you are a terrible husband and not a good Christian. A good man wouldn't even have to think about whether or not he should watch his kids while his wife goes to urgent care.

The gaslighting

Girl. YOU NEED TO RUN. For the hills.

This was a super fun video! Several of the things you guys talked about were exactly what I found so amazing about my husband. At the end of our first phone call (we met online) he asked if he could pray over us and it blew my socks off! He wears his heart on his sleeve and is never shy about saying how he feels. And the most important character trait was I wanted someone who loved God more than he loved me. I knew if he loved God more than me, he would resect and love me, and always follow Christ's lead in our lives. I knew there would be an incredible amount of safety in that. And now we're celebrating our 13th wedding anniversary next month!

If you (husband) were considering the "reality" of the situation, you would've been taking on your *responsibility as a parent* to take care of you kids while she went to the hospital. Why? Why would you not immediately want to take that on so she didn't have to watch the kids in the waiting room of the hospital while simultaneously dealing with a health issue???

The fact that that movie showed more than needed to and that was just from watching the trailer put me off the entire thing and you confirmed it. It should not matter how nice the story line is, either make a Christian movie that's a safe space to minister to people or don't bother at all. Putting all that in there would cause believers to stumble or give them an excuse to think that "it's a Christian movie so it's ok".

My god, is this woman okay? She really deserves better than this entitled prince :( hope she sees that one day

In the 3rd question Mr.Nate made a pretty good example of "when is leading a relationship too much" cause iv'e seen some friends say "lets go to here" and they will say "no no lets go here! trust me" almost every time. and that's what (sometimes) ends the relationship. also Nate, and Sutton love you guys so much! as a young and fellow christian i love this channel for the tips that i can take and use in my daily life, and i believe that god has blessed me along with every other person with you guys! thank you, and have a blessed day!

I completely agree with you Sutton! Everything you said, spot on! Love these videos!!

Sutton nobody would have noticed your hair until you mentioned it. lol I enjoyed Sutton's perspective! Tfs

Isn't Redeeming love like soft porn though? Don't you guys think it is being used to slowly incorporate some worldliness and lukewarmness to Christianity? Would anyone recommend to read the book to a girl in her twenties who has struggled with lust in the past? I would love to order it but I am quite hesitant because it seems to be getting mixed reviews.

That face you make Sutton at 14:00 (after you guys made the cut) speaks volumes. The fear, confusion, and hurt you’re expressing is typical when being gaslit and mentally abused over time. It’s an insidious sin that can wreck havoc on everything the Lord calls for you as His Daughter. Bring it all to the light and model for your children God’s truth. I recommend individual therapy to find your voice and learn to take up room in this relationship. You are partners and not made to worship at the alter of a man’s ego.

Imagine a 16 year old boy whos a Christian and has stayed away from the temptation of pornograohy and goes and sees this movie.... he might see what he is missing and go down a very dangerous road... I am so passionate about this because pornograhpy has hurt my relationship with my husband tremendously.. bottom line is that a "Christian" movie should never have scenes where you have to turn and look away.... thats ridiculous and I'm so disappointed that you guys are promoting it..

I didn't even notice the hair falling until she mentioned it in the last clip.😅You look amazing Sutton (as always😊)

I just read a really detailed review about the movie and am honestly shocked that you guys are promoting it. It sounds terrible especially for couples dealing with or previously dealt with pornography addictions...

I can’t believe Sutton is saying that all girls do these things…. HAHAH just kidding 🤣🤣😉

I love the ending!! Def worth watching for that!😂😂

my husband is a few inches shorter than me. i always invisioned a guy who was taller than me cuz i am tall but God sent me the best guy and he has never been worried about being shorter than me cuz he just loved me for me! been together 14 years and married 8 years. its natural for woman to like a guy taller as we see them as protectors and comforters, luckily my husband fills that for ne regardlesa of our height difference.

I like how Sutton prefers men that are masculine and have masculine qualities. Yes girl!!

I love your content so much!! One thing I just wanted to note. I've heard mixed reviews on Redeeming Love, and I want to encourage everyone to look at the criticisms, and decide if it really is of benefit or not. I look forward to seeing more of your content.

I love your sweater Sutton!!

I didn’t even notice the hair till after Sutton said something lol

That ending though 😂😂😂

Sutton you look so pretty!!🌷

Yes l love the perspective y’all offer on these videos! I love them!

So funny the whole time I've watched the video I thought about how beautiful you look Sutton and how great the hairstyle is, so no reason to be worried!

Please watch Alisa Childers video called "Here's Why I am NOT going to See Redeeming Love". Read the comments also before you make the decision to watch it. I haven't seen it myself, I've just been hearing different reviews both good and bad. But her take on it made me 100% make up my mind to not watch it.

I'd say it's kinda hot if the guy prays before the meal lol.

Reading the review on Focus on the Family, that movie is more than concerning...

Love Sutton, she is the most sincere person in KZfaq!

Muscle mass doesn’t matter to me at all. I prefer intelligence and sense of humor the most.

Omg I feel like the passive aggressive, not saying what you mean thing is completely flipped for me and my husband!😂😂 I do NOT pick up on hints or sarcasm AT ALL so I’m always just like say what you mean and mean what you say lol

The last minute was super! I was thinking about the 1 or 2 hairs in front...that would tickle me and I'd have to blow them out of the way. I thought that Nate hurt Sutton's feelings after the sarcasm question.

The ending of Sutton about her hair is Me😅😅

Best part… “oh my gosh my hair” 😂😂😂😂 I don’t think anyone was paying attention on that Sutton but that was a funny ending to the video. You guys are great 🙏🏻

REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK

You should listen to the most recent podcast on Verity by Phylicia Masonheimer, about Redeeming Love. I love you guys but I strongly encourage you to reconsider your endorsement of this movie!

I’m not touchy so when I flirt I get kinda scared about that 🤷🏻‍♀️😂 I also ask random questions and sometimes tend to be a little bit more shy.

Sutton that cracked me up 😂😂😂 you’re beautiful!

Love that u both are so openly vain!!

I actually thought the hair was meant to be like that. It looked great 👍

Ok kinda shocked you guys watched Redeeming love especially since there’s sexual content that really should be rated R.

Really agree on the passive aggression for me😁

I think we are passive-aggressive because we think that guys’ gestures/kindness/etc. towards us are more genuine if it was their idea, rather than something we just came out and told them to do?

On dates before being married I think it was always well received if I prayed before the meal. If they didn’t like it, it would make me wonder what was the reason behind it? Now being married it’s just our normal routine to pray before our meals. God provides, the least we could do is thank him!

Sutton seems to want everything : humor, height, muscle, introvert, extrovert, humility, confidence, drive, great teeth/smile, etc. Glad you found him. Just don’t want guys to feel discouraged. I think everyone has strengths and weaknesses. Just find someone you care about that you are willing to commit to for the rest of your life.

Can somebody please tell Sutton...."Ain't nobody noticed your hair was down gurl". It looked so lovely.

Your weaponized incompetence is showing bud.

Can y’all be more understanding?!?!?! Stop hating! Marriages have their share of mistakes and it’s for the benefit of both. Just because they were transparent about a past situation doesn’t give you the right to anyone to lash out like that!!! First take out the log from your own eye 👁️ Plz show love and Biblical advice! Thank you

Almost every single one of these, o was thinking "I would say the same thing." Except I would take it farther and say I would be disappointed if the guy didn't pray on the first date, and I don't think shorter girls care about height very much as long as the guy is still taller than us

Loved your hair Sutton! 💕

Sutton, hahahahahaha, the end with the hair catastrophe.... 😂 I did think something looked different about you, I didn't know it was that bad to you!!😂 We love you anyway!!

I love the book Redeeming Love and happy that the movie is true to the book. I am from Europe and just watched the movie recently. There was apparently so much debate going on in the Christian US about nudity and intimate scenes (it is covered) in the movie, and some youtubers basically telling Christians not to go. I find your positive short review refreshing and at the same time letting people know to be cautious of some scenes. I understand that for some people who are struggling with lust it might not be good idea to watch, but let it be their own conviction. Sometimes US christianity is standing so much for what they are against of and not what they are pro of, that they are turning non-Christians away. So thank you for your positive review! ❤

A new video… my day is now complete :-) Thanks, y’all! I took notes too.

The flirting thing was on point! Lol touching is totally the tell!

Hmm I don't think Sutton is aware that Nate left that last part of the video in there. Nate is being sneaky! Although, I mean, Sutton you did say you have to watch that...lol

Loved both videos, and I saw Redeeming Love yesterday and it was AMAZING!! Also Sutton, I being a woman thought your hair was totally fine. I noticed it while watching but honestly thought you were going for a look similar to how some wear a side bun type thing. I thought it was cute like I wish my hair was that long haha, but I get how it feels when you know what you're going for only to find out that it tried to do it's own thing yet others are like oh I thought that's what you meant to do lol. #girlprobs

Sutton- “Oh shoot my hair. Did it look like this? Oh my gosh, you gotta watch that!” Lol this was great! Sutton you’re too funny and I thought your hair looked cute!

Ohhh I can’t wait to watch Redeeming love too it was also my fav novel but I have noooo idea when it’ll come to Australia 😭😭 … hopefully sometime soon 🤞🏼

Hello Nate, I’d like to address you with a question, “what do you think of Sutton’s favorite surprise phrase [ oh my gosh]?” I don’t expect you to reply . But if you do take a moment to comment on this phrase , that’ll be greatly appropriated!

Could you guys maybe do a review or talk about the book & movie Redeeming Love? The new Christian movie based off the Hosea in the Bible. ❤️ there are Christians on both sides and I just went through another believer trying to convict me almost that I shouldn’t have read the book etc.

isn't it so ironic you say it is not okay to watch movies with porn scenes but when it comes to money you'll promote it in a second. Even with a disclaimer, but you said in another video even skipping the scenes is not enough. interesting.

Your hair is totally fine! I would watch your videos no matter how your hair is because of the content:)

Just to add, about flirting, I had a guy who every now and then when talking he used to touch a girl and I really got bored and we broke up. Honestly I think its wise to know when to stop touching anyhow

Like the Kelly Clarkson song says, pick the weeds but keep the flowers. When I met my ex he prayed for the food because we went out to eat when we met.

I also liked taller guys until i fell in love with my best friend who was shorter. Was with him for years and i never thought man i wish he was shorter. I thought man i wish he was nicer and thats y we broke up 🤣 maybe its better to do a poll of many women people change their minds when they fall in love so really none of this stuff matters in the end. We fall for the heart.

So glad the hair piece was in there.

James 3:15 “This wisdom decendeth not from above, But is earthly, sensual, devilish.” What is sensual? Redeeming Love movie is devilish. When is it ok for Christians to promote sensuality? Never. It’s not of God. Nate and Sutton, where is your fear of God? Don’t sell out for a brand deal. God will not be mocked. God chastises His own. Galatians 6:7

I love you and your videos you really inspire me!

I didn't even notice your hair was falling until you mentioned it lol don't worry about it. Love the vid!

It's so cute that Natan still blushing after hearing your affirmations/compliments about what u like in him and why. Just love you guys💙🙏🏽🙌🏽

I just bought Redeeming Love and am getting ready to start it! Francine Rivers is an incredible author.

With the being straight toward thing I think it definitely depends on the girl. Growing up in church I feel like it’s a taboo thing for girls to make it known that they like someone because guys are supposed to be the pursuer. I don’t think it’s wrong for a girl to pursue also.

I don't get girls who do not like guys who are polite, respectful, and considerate. Maybe they just don't think we are out there so they settle for everything less. I am waiting for a gal who likes this and is attracted to it.

As shallow as it is, I agree about the height q 100% with Sutton! 😅