Haha that is AWESOME! Y’all are precious! That’s def a fun question to ask your spouse! We’re gonna post the one for guys this week so you’ll have to put on there what you think about him! 😉

I highly agree sister !

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Loveee chipotle! Haha and yeah that’s a great one!

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I would have never thought so

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@@marketa4074 Yes like it's breath taking when a petty girl is so confident she doesn't have to show off her body in an ungodly manner. It'll also attract more Godly men to you than dressing inmodest which will bring more lukewarm men to you. Also it should make you happy you're not being a stumbling block like Jesus said not to

Agreed!

Yeah that’s a good one! Gotta walk what they talk!

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Yes it's so true when I was in the world I'd see girls dress unmodest and my mind was just thinking of sexual things with them but when I'd see a girl dress modest I'd always think she's wife material. It's interesting how what's Godly can even have an impact on worldly men but now I'm born again😇

We got one for the guys coming this week! 🤩

Let me add generous to others, appreciative and driven to this beautiful list ♥️

@@annaskyfta7678 indeed!👍❤️

Ooo yeah being respectful to parents is a great one!!

What do you mean by that?

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That’s awesome!!!👍

Agreed!

That is awesome for you man! I am more shallow and if I am not physically attracted to a women I am not going to ask her out! That is great for you! 💥 boom I just never want to have to lie if my future gf/wife asks if I had any questions about her physical beauty to me. My cross to bear. Lol

@@mscottster444 it is possible to grow attraction to somebody if your compatible in other ways as long as they aren't unattractive to you. I've found most of the conventionally attractive women (especially those who aren't saved) have an air of entitlement that becomes much worse long term. Think about it this way, as a man you are always wanting to look for other women no matter how pretty they are, so beauty is only short term and doesn't matter after 3-5 years of marraige anyways. Rather be with someone I can have fun with.

@@jdkayak7868 yeah I’m not saying I’m asking out a beautiful non-Christian girl, I am just saying unless a Christian female is physically beautiful to me I will not ask her out because unless it is related to her weight their is nothing she can do to be more physically attractive to me. Like if a women’s face turns you off for me it is a no-go. Someone once said if you can’t see yourself having sex with the female (or the male for a female perspective) with the lights on, don’t pursue it. I think beauty does fade of course, but I’m not one of the guys that can just flat it ignore it. One because to me it feels unfair to the women and two the Bible talks about beauty in some many places and it isnt just the stories like Sampson and Deliah, etc. But I definitely get your perspective! You are more than likely wiser than me!

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Aw that’s sweet 😭

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Aw thank you! We believe so too! 🙌🏽

🤣 you shoulda heard him on the other intro he did! He clapped like 5 times cause he kept missing his hands. Then this one he got a solid one 🤣

Let’s Pray for him

@@makenzieadams9006 I've prayed many times for him. Hopefully, he repents and comes to the Lord. God bless you!

Yeah God really changes our heart. I was lukewarm and the thoughts of pursuing a women was a huge no I always let women come to me and I never wanted to lead. Now becoming born again it makes me happy to eventually pursue a women and get to lead her spiritually. Especially how scripture calls us both to submit to each other but specifically a man to give himself up like Christ did for the church so a sacrificial leadership where you let your wife get what she wants like going out to eat or only a little money for new clothes let her get new clothes.

Yes You were wrong

Me too 😅

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But that should be the next video!!! 😏

Even though we DO have the same name 🤪

There's nothing wrong with a girl initiating the conversation. It'll show she's friendly and easy to talk to but I agree that she shouldn't ask the guy out as it'll catch us off guard

@@vivaeuropa Thats just you. There are A LOT of shy guys. You know the famous rock climber, Alex Honnold? He was at a speaking engagement....at the end....his now wife made the first move and told him "You are cute" and invited him over to a get together that night. Guess what? They are married with a daughter. I know an ex Navy Seal who is happily married. Guess what? His beautiful wife made the first move.

Think the same haha But you know how things are !

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I can't say I've never felt that way, however what helps encourage me to dress modestly even though it might not get me the most "attention" from guys is that the guys that would just pay attention to me because of how I'm dressed, or how much skin is showing, probably aren't the guys I would want the attention from anyway. In short: dressing modestly is protection, not just getting overlooked.

@@stacysummers8882 Oooh that's a very good way of putting it. Thank you =)

I’m not concerned about being overlooked! The right guy will notice and appreciate modesty. :) I have very high standards of modesty, but just the other day had a random stranger tell me I looked very pretty. Be classy and meek and confident. 👍🏻

@@stacysummers8882 YES!!! Thank you it's so true I'm a follower of Christ and it's soooo attractive when girls dress modest it shows a different kind of confidence. Yeah when I was lukewarm I'd look at unmodest women and just think sexually while a modest women would always make me think she's wife material. Now I'll just assume they're lukewarm and fully avoid unmodest women because it's the first thing I can see about her.

Love most of those things you listed there, but what do you mean when you say “Understand why *purity culture* is against God”? Are you saying that *purity* is against God (and you don’t need to wait till marriage ect.) or are you saying that the *culture* around certain purity issues is bad? (Like saying virginity is your greatest gift which shames people who did stuff before they became Christian and survivors of sexual abuses ect.)?

@@Knighty-hr2dw Hi Sarah, Anything that causes so much unnecessary suffering is against God. Anything which provides so much cover for sexual abuse and hatred of women is against God. Anything that uses shame and judgment to control people is against God. Anything that lies is against God. Anything that supports the idea that some of us are superior to others is against God. Anytime we use our sexuality to hurt others, as purity culture does, we are going against God. People often use God's name to go against God, to serve themselves at the expense of others, to make themselves feel morally superior. This is what purity culture does and that makes it even more sinful than other forms of misusing sexuality. In general, I'm not attracted to a man who thinks being faithful means policing or judging others as opposed to cultivating his own relationship with God.

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Come on they are important.

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