Story 2: something or someone has corrupted this girl to believe that people turn into absolute monsters on their period. And she needs to be deconstructed, to be taught that this is not normal behaviour on your period. You don't hurt people and have extreme outbursts
@Yumao420Ай бұрын
I was thinking the same...
@viagraREALАй бұрын
Either that or she has a disorder
@VulxnyrieАй бұрын
Yeah that is not nearly normal behavior at all, especially when she was able to instantly shut her anger off when OP mentioned kicking them out
@xonlyxjojoxАй бұрын
I also was thinking the same because I have PCOS and I have never been/is like this and my pcos is bad….
@Wendy_O._KoopaАй бұрын
It's like, there's internalized misogyny, and then there's _this._ This is _so_ much more than that, like she was raised by a herd of obnoxious uncles or something? And instead of picking up the (still wrong) lesson to become "not like _other_ girls," she learned that she got to become an absolute monster once a month. *_Lycan't believe it!_*
@kitsuneg.d.xАй бұрын
As someone who has the worst of periods: it’s normally laying down in pain and just trying to sleep it off if anything
@bladerunner3314Ай бұрын
She probably saw some Tik Toks that told her she can use it to bully everyone into giving her what she wants.
@jordanmchighlander9365Ай бұрын
I wondered og tjere was something wrong with her hormone levels amd her emotions were way more vatile than they should be.
@TheSaxAppealАй бұрын
Yeah, of everyone with really bad period cramps I know/am friends with, all they have energy to do is eat snacks and lay on the couch with a heating pad...from the sounds of it, if I had periods, I would NOT have the energy to be violent
@mariakhan7986Ай бұрын
@@TheSaxAppealtbf, with hormonal issues this behavior is plausible. It's likely when she was told to move out that she snapped out of it. I have pcos and once I was on medication, it became so much easier to handle my emotions. I was never violent but I unfortunately really deeply hurt my friends and family with my words.
@OnyrooliverАй бұрын
Fr when youre bleeding out you just wanna bleed out in peace
@beingalittleextraАй бұрын
"She starts crying, saying she just 'wants to make me understand' " Wait until she finds out OP still gets a period
@lorilancaster5917Ай бұрын
And went through childbirth. I also hate to break it to Diane, but women have had periods long before the remedies of Midol and menstrual cups and most did not act like harpies. She should be thankful she’s not sent outside to stay in a tent or menstrual hut so to speak.
@Wendy_O._KoopaАй бұрын
Yeah, the simple solution to this is to ask your boyfriend if this means that _you_ get to act that way every month. I'm pretty sure he'd make some sort of realization... either that or he'd just say "That's different." because he's an AH.
@Texo-ul6bgАй бұрын
@@Wendy_O._Koopa the second option would probably be the more realistic option.
@lorilancaster5917Ай бұрын
@@Wendy_O._Koopaespecially considering he had the gall to say that OP doesn’t understand what Diane is going through. Only thing I would’ve done differently isn’t the story was kicked them out after she slammed the son against a wall just because he asked if she wanted to play a game.
@iyaayasАй бұрын
@@lorilancaster5917I've dreamed of doing that. I know...the grass is greener on the other side but it would be nice to be able to sit and relax while I bleed my guts out without feeling like I'm lazy. It would be expected of me to do that whereas today, when I use my period as an excuse to relax, I hear my Mom's and everyone else's voice in my head, "Why are you so lazy? Get up and find something to do or I'll find it for you. Oh....you feel pain? Quit being such a wimp and get moving before I give you something to complain about." I encourage my girls to track their cycles and never be ashamed to rest when t hey feel they it as long as they can tell me one thing they accomplished each day (above and beyond getting out of bed....this accomplishment I accept once a week without expecting more....everyone need flexibility to do this without guilt as long as it doesn'tget out of hand). I wish I could feel good about choosing to rest (I do rest but rarely feel good about it) and hope women can be given that choice to live in a hut OR work OR play every time their period comes. I suspect it won't happen because corporations want hard workers and will hire the people who don't take monthly breaks.
@gilded_ladyАй бұрын
Story 3: OP was *generous* to her daughter for offering all that free child care. Her rules were beyond fair. Daughter is delusional. 4th story: Good on OP for not putting up with it. If you feel like you have to test the partner, the relationship is already over since there clearly is no trust. 5th: I hope OP gets rid of those "friends" yeesh.
@GiordanDiodatoАй бұрын
yeah seriously. hypocrites, the lot of them.
@JamesDavy2009Ай бұрын
Re: Story 3: That is entitlement worthy of being a Karen. Re: Story 4: This right there-tests that involve mind games and/or posing certain questions where there's no right answer are a major red flag as they out the person asking as insecure.
@VulxnyrieАй бұрын
“Sometimes I wanna hold hands for everyone to see.” Rslash: “Op how kinky…” LOL
@ricardodemarco3486Ай бұрын
Extra marital handholding? They are going to hell.
@hiroshi7025Ай бұрын
@@ricardodemarco3486 God said no hand-holding before marriage. He's married, God never said only holding hands with the wife. 😏
@Raven_AkumaАй бұрын
Hand holding is kinky now? Lol
@itsyaboiChubbsАй бұрын
@@hiroshi7025holding hands with someone that isnt your wife/husband/SO is adultery, you dengenerate
@Dog_in_treeАй бұрын
Honestly, it's pretty sad that society has gotten to the point where it's normal to get to the dingaling in vageen stage before the hand holding stage.
@ficialintelligence1869Ай бұрын
(Terrible Parents) Grandparent at 35. Wow. OP, you did not kick your daughter out. She chose to move out because she refused to follow the (sane and fair) conditions that you laid out for her.
@lorilancaster5917Ай бұрын
And she deliberately got herself pregnant expecting OP to be the child’s mom essentially. It sounded like she completely ignored OP whenever she discussed her struggles being a single mom and expected her to do it again.
@ficialintelligence1869Ай бұрын
@@lorilancaster5917 The daughter is insane. I don't get it. I'm a college professor, so I'm usually the one defending Millennials and Gen Z. My students in this age bracket are so incredibly motivated, pro-social, and responsible. So, when I hear stories like this, my jaw drops.
@stevenandcarminabeedle9089Ай бұрын
@@ficialintelligence1869because she thinks it’s cute. She wants to show off what she thinks is a cute pregnancy and baby while doing none of the work. And knowing her mom raised her alone in a similar situation, you’d think she’d avoid that like the plague. I wonder if it was the boyfriend’s idea to move in with her because his parents already threatened to kick him out.
@melissaconnellyjones2622Ай бұрын
I feel so sorry for that poor baby, it hasn’t even been born yet and we know what a miserable life will be in store if its parents don’t get their heads out of their butts soon.
@miafiolekova5817Ай бұрын
@@stevenandcarminabeedle9089 So basicaly the daughter wanted a baby as an accesory, like a cute handbag or a chihuahua. Too bad kids are not something you can put away whenever you want. OPs daughter is in for a rude awakening.
@Blank.k.k.0Ай бұрын
Second story: I understand when periods starts it hurts like hell and you don’t want to deal with anyone for a bit, but full blown slamming a damn child against a wall because you’re on your period is not an excuse 💀
@iyaayasАй бұрын
TBF, She's a child herself and was probably told all the jokes. Probably pre-planned it and doesn't understand the full consequences of her actions. Also hasn't developed enough empathy to understand why she's wrong. I don't blame OP for kicking BF and Demon out but that Demon needs a responsible Woman to put her in her place and BF needs to listen to that Woman because she knows more about periods than he does right now. OP could have been that woman but I don't blame her for not taking that roll....BF was undermining her at every turn. Also, my 2 girls haven't acted like this ever on their periods. I rarely even know they started or went through it. They get a small pass but never one for bad behavior like this.
@traciwoods-dennis6181Ай бұрын
FR FR I get symptoms so severe that I've been hospitalized, morphine drip, and all. Yet I have NEVER bodily injured someone else because of it.
@BigRed1595044Ай бұрын
I’m a woman with a working uterus and yes this is not an excuse. Feeling too sick to do anything on your period? Yes, valid excuse Craving junk food or particular foods? Yes, valid excuse Toxic controlling behavior and assault? It’s not an excuse.
@jplayzowАй бұрын
@@iyaayasHonestly if the father had just let OP stop this crap where it stands this could have been fixed and the relationship could continue. She probably wanted to help understanding the struggle, but if you're fighting the child and the good-cop parent you're in a losing battle
@radhiadeedou8286Ай бұрын
Seems like she got the idea from somewhere that being on your period gives you a free pass to act like a demon, if this isnt addressed I can only imagine what she'll do when /if she's pregnant
@XerXensАй бұрын
Story 2: I started my period in primary school, around the same age as Diane. What did my parents do? Mom told dad about it and he gave me $5 and said congratulations. That was it, I was happy and went on with life. NTA. Diane has issues, major issues. She's not only violent to op's son, she's also entitled and op's boyfriend is enabling that behaviour. My guess is she saw a video somewhere about how women act when they're on their period and she's mimicking that behaviour. It's only going to get worse, op will have to constantly fight with the boyfriend because has no backbone and Diane will try to fight her authority. I sense this relationship will not be for long if the boyfriend doesn't grow a pair and do something.
@bigjalapeno7061Ай бұрын
Hopefully she doesn't keep acting that way
@DeadDancersАй бұрын
It reads as attention-seeking to me, but definitely with a side of ‘I learned what having periods mean - in a social and behavioral context - from TikTok.’
@justanotherpotato5523Ай бұрын
I’ve swam and ran miles before while on my period. Did I complain to the gym teacher? No. Did I try to cancel a whole swim day with people? No. I also don’t go screaming and yelling at people so yeah I agree
@teslagod7221Ай бұрын
I think the bf and his daughter were trying to use such crappy tactic to dominate OP and her son, so that they would be the boss in OP's house...
@mariakhan7986Ай бұрын
It could also be a hormonal imbalance.
@JokesInBase13Ай бұрын
Story 2 is fully unhinged. It sounds like she's playing her dad like a fiddle because she figured out that anything related to puberty is a free pass from him. Dad needs to read the American Girl Bodies book to get a better idea of what should actually be normal for his daughter. If she really is experiencing this violent a mood swing, she needs medical care, not indulgence because this behavior is NOT okay.
@Dragons4DummiesАй бұрын
Exactly! Is she just going to be throwing around smaller children who dare to so much as talk to her every freaking cycle? That's not okay, and definitely needs some therapy if that's how it is.
@astrofan1993Ай бұрын
Yeah. It sounds more like PMDD (a more severe form of PMS). She could also be suffering from anxiety and depression over her father's divorce with her bio-mom. She needs medical treatment and therapy, not her father enabling her.
@wmdkittyАй бұрын
Sounds like PMDD.
@ostlandrАй бұрын
The more I read these stories, the more I realize I hit the lottery twice- once with my Lady Wife, and again with our daughter. Both SO low maintenance emotionally and financially.
@djwolfensteinАй бұрын
The second story is wild. The daughter showed OP what her life would've been like in the future so she should be thanked for showing that OP's boyfriend isn't worth the hell.
@careleoАй бұрын
If the daughter isn't purposely acting like this (cause that's what she thinks she's allowed/supposed to act like) then they need to get her into a doctor ASAP. She should be on meds to help dissuade these things. I honestly doubt that's the case and think she is being a brat, but she should probably be checked anyway.
@lorilancaster5917Ай бұрын
@@careleoI read this story yesterday on XO Stories. OP provided an edit which she talked to Diane about her behavior. When confronted, Diane basically said that she shouldn’t be held accountable for anything when on her period. Meaning she knows she’s acting horrible and is weaponizing her time of the month. I’m glad for her sake and for her son’s that she kicked them out of her life.
@Tustin2121Ай бұрын
That’s true: one has to wonder if she’s doing this on purpose as part of the whole “moving in with dad’s girlfriend” thing, if there isn’t something deeper going on about how, say, fast she thinks her dad is moving or something. OP didn’t supply any information on their family situation, did they? I could see the daughter pulling this as some sort of thing to try and get her dad back with her mom or something. It’s especially suspect with the daughter’s reaction to getting told they’re getting kicked out…
@QuayHollywoodАй бұрын
Women don't actually behave like this when we're on our period. We get moody and may yell, but most of the time, it's sarcasm or just silence. We are in too much pain to actually get full on aggressive. So this child is literally doing this simply because she wants to. I've been getting periods since I was 9, and I've never seen or know anyone to get abusive over their period starting. And the first one even with the talk happening you 9/10 think you're dying when it starts because it's so much blood and you weren't prepared in some way. Yes she's a kid but she's also a big bitch.
@RiveroftheWitherАй бұрын
@@careleoDid you miss the part when she only started acting like this when her dad came home?
@silverflight01Ай бұрын
Story 4: This reminds me of internet posts where a woman meets a guy, he's interested, she rejects him, and then she's surprised when the guy says "Ok, see ya" instead of begging for her If the ex had doubts, she could've just said that instead of pretending (?) to break-up as a "test." Not to mention that she thought that OP wanting to move in was the perfect time to pull this "commitment test," that's dumb
@lorilancaster5917Ай бұрын
I’m wondering if she was hoping by saying what she said that she expected to manipulate OP into selling his place, move on with her so she wouldn’t have to move, and get him to share proceeds of the sell with her? When he reacted as he did, only then she claimed it was a test to backpedal.
@DeadDancersАй бұрын
I think ‘commitment test’ is what people like her say because ‘I want to feel like you’d be devastated without me and/or want the ‘romance’ of you fighting for me’ reveals the less-than-flattering motivations that inevitably underpin such moves. Almost no one would sit down and rationally devise a ‘test their commitment’ plan without also reasonably considering the ways it could go wrong.
@AihtnycCyNАй бұрын
Toxic persons or persons, who have lived in toxic environment, does not understand the thing healthy persons do. You said no? Ok, no problem. It's called boundaries. They are there for a reason.
@j.d.l._666Ай бұрын
@@AihtnycCyN Yeah. But I bet the girl goes both ways. Like, if you accept it, she is angry because "why don't you fight for me?!" but if you would keep pushing she probably would scream "why can't you accept it!? I said no!" Sometimes I get the feeling you can't win with some people, men and women alike!!
@bladerunner3314Ай бұрын
@@DeadDancers Over 20 years ago, I dealt with a woman online ... she told me a lot of crap, as I found out later, but one eye opener was, how she was furious when her ex - that she left - found a new girl. The same woman was flabbergasted when I blocked her after she asked me for a LotR ring replica, while she was screwing around, WHILE she told me she couldn't because blah blah some sickness. So no, this entitled behaviour isn't new and while I despise people like Tate, men have to stop to give the hyenas what they think they deserve.
@DaBaseBallZАй бұрын
Story 2:I have 2 sisters,They were NOWHERE near as unhinged nor as crazy as Diane when they had their period NTA at all
@Wendy_O._KoopaАй бұрын
Ironically, since my PFP, Wendy, has all brothers, I have all sisters; so like everyone in the house is female... except the cats, but y'know cats aren't particularly gendered. Anyhow, nobody, like not one of us has ever knocked another over during a period. Other times, sure, there has been roughhousing, but that actually goes _down_ when we're getting cramps because... well, why wouldn't it? When your body flat out turns against you (Wendy Corduroy), you really don't want to do _anything_ until it's over.
@sinbadwilliams7186Ай бұрын
@@Wendy_O._Koopawhat does PFP mean?
@Wendy_O._KoopaАй бұрын
@@sinbadwilliams7186 It stands for "ProFile Picture," don't ask why the acronym uses two letters from the first word, I don't come up with them, people on the internet do. Also, I would think your name would be the _most_ important (in my case they match so it doesn't matter), but the consensus is to judge people based on their PFPs... apparently?
@sinbadwilliams7186Ай бұрын
@@Wendy_O._Koopa ah. Thanks. So many acronyms nowadays that I honestly forget what means what sometimes
@Wander85942Ай бұрын
I’ve had midnight cravings and just cry a little until I can go out and get at a reasonable hour
@dracko158Ай бұрын
Story 2: Sheesh, BODY SLAMMING A KID? Man, period or not, it's NO EXCUSE. The fact your boyfriend sided with her constantly with the only excuse being "She is on her period" is BS. NTA.
@alexvalentine5091Ай бұрын
Definitely NTA
@Josh_the_jesterАй бұрын
When Dabney shouted "I'M ON MY PERIOD" it reminded me of a certain someone or other who did the same thing as a joke
@bigjalapeno7061Ай бұрын
Yea for sure
@JamesDavy2009Ай бұрын
I never thought PMS could turn a girl into Veruca Salt with the temper of Mike Teavee. 🙃
@mariakhan7986Ай бұрын
@@JamesDavy2009they do when they have a hormonal imbalance.
@DaBaseBallZАй бұрын
Story 3:What idiots,They think parenthood as a teen is easy enough since OP did it that they actually planned it,Good on you for giving your daughter that much needed reality check,OP NTA
@lorilancaster5917Ай бұрын
Anyone else wondering if there would be an update which a couple of weeks later OPs daughter changes her mind? I can’t see the bfs parents agreeing to her terms nor be as generous as OP. However I could be wrong.
@E7XEEАй бұрын
@@lorilancaster5917yeah, either that or she comes crawling back once she realizes parenthood isn’t as easy as she thinks it is
@lorilancaster5917Ай бұрын
@@E7XEEand she chose a partner who is just as lazy about parenthood as he is with everyday life. I’m curious to know how much of this was her idea or his idea?
@wingracer1614Ай бұрын
I can't help but think these are discussions they should gave had long before the daughter got pregnant. The daughter has probably loved her life up to this point and sees getting pregnant as a way to continue that and live just like her mom not realizing the massive sacrifices mom had to make to give her that life.
@hydemeАй бұрын
Based as hell mario
@wouldntyouliketoknowwesath7789Ай бұрын
The period story is wild- yes hormone imbalances is real, but if its THAT BAD, she needs to see a doctor, and NOT throw young kids into walls, and force everyone to shut their lives down for a week each month
@Tustin2121Ай бұрын
The way she just suddenly stopped when OP told them to pack up and get out kind of proves it’s not a medical issue but her just lashing out.
@lambybunny7173Ай бұрын
@@Tustin2121I mean it could still be mental tbh
@stephaniemorrigan3039Ай бұрын
Nah, sounds to me like she spent all day on google looking up how to get what you want / what you can get away with 2while on your period, lol.
@RunicSigilsАй бұрын
The hormone imbalance occurs like a week before. The women who do that are just the equivalent of someone getting sick and then taking it out on everyone else that their throat hurts from coughing. Their back and stomach hurting is not an excuse to act that way and their hormones have nothing to do with it at that time. Those who act like that and blame it on their period are just narcissists who take their pain out on everyone else.
@niyakii6205Ай бұрын
@@lambybunny7173if it were mental, it would not have stopped when op told them to get out. it still would have continued.
@AvrysatosАй бұрын
Okay, young people in relationships: I do not know which influencer told you to test your partner but do not do this. You'll end up alone. Don't ask questions like "If i was a slug would you still love me?" don't pretend to break up with them to see what they do, don't ghost them to see if they'll try to keep reaching out to you, and don't get upset if you ask if something looks good on you and they say no. (They're not saying you don't look good, they're saying the outfit isn't flattering, not the same thing.) just stop playing these stupid games. You will ONLY win stupid prizes in the end.
@mushroommagic1697Ай бұрын
Testing in relationship is dumb because it creates unwanted stress and confusion.
@AvrysatosАй бұрын
@@mushroommagic1697 The funniest thing is I'm aromantic asexual so i don't have or want romantic relationships. But no relationship i've seen around me survives this sort of childish garbage.
@TheNoobiethegreyАй бұрын
Is this a test??
@R.DeMoraАй бұрын
@@Avrysatos You're a what now? Oh, a delusional freak. Agreed on the second part tho, don't know why you think any of us care what bs thing you identity as.
@ericdugdale8585Ай бұрын
People who engage in these "tests" don't seem to realize that they're *providing* information, too, not just obtaining it. By carrying out their test, they're failing a test as well.
@Turbo_WaitressАй бұрын
I feel so bad for OP in the Terrible Parents story. It sounds like she wanted so much better for her kid and even when her daughter got pregnant so young, she was intent on being loving and supportive while also giving her structure and a future, only for daughter to throw it all back in her face.
@spydersoup8447Ай бұрын
Seems more like OP's daughter though what OP went through didn't seem all that bad and looks more fun than painful and thought she and her boyfriend could take advantage of OP like that.
@DeanDraxon8752Ай бұрын
“We need to learn to navigate it- by teaching her that screaming at people and assaulting another child when she’s on her period is okay obviously”. ☠️
@bigjalapeno7061Ай бұрын
Turn her into a destructive force
@Tustin2121Ай бұрын
That last story has the most hilarious example of “Well then why don’t YOU do it?!” that I’ve ever heard. 😂
@lorilancaster5917Ай бұрын
And I love how threw in the Christian manner. Do they not care that the wife broke a freaking Commandment?
@dinlupus3196Ай бұрын
I laugh so hard when he said "gross . I don't want her" thats some SASS
@rileynailling2498Ай бұрын
@@dinlupus3196 and the offer to his friends 🤣
@jerryeubanks3177Ай бұрын
Ladies if you want to know our commitment level, just ask. About a week into dating my wife ask if she was a fling or if I was committed to more. I wanted to marry her already. (We had known each other for quite a while and were best friends before dating) But her asking that quest so boldly made me even more invested. We got married 4 months after we started dating. 1 years1 week after we met.
@d.phantomfan1216Ай бұрын
Story 4: you know what I think is funny about this, before this dumb ass test became a thing, it used to be people would tell you you should never beg for someone that doesn’t wanna be with you. That you should never gravel for someone that isn’t interested because they can’t help how they feel and you should never let someone see you in such a horrible state. Now, if you don’t act like that, you don’t really love them and never have? That’s so stupid, and your family sucks for taking her side after what she said about you just because they like her. I swear my family tried to do that to me I would go off every single one of them
@Tustin2121Ай бұрын
Yeah, groveling at someone’s feet is not how healthy relationships are made. That’s how controlling people put other people in line. OP got a taste of what she would be like later, and he got out at exactly the right time.
@wingracer1614Ай бұрын
I have always thought that if I truly loved someone but they didn't want to be with me, the most loving thing I could do is let them go. Somehow guilt tripping them into staying is not healthy.
@ajjean2720Ай бұрын
@@Tustin2121exactly. It’s just seems like a weird power play. If you’re happy and moving in together why are you playing games now? Why double down and accuse your partner for using you if you initiated the break up in the first place?
@akl2k7Ай бұрын
Yeah, it's like women who say "asking me out more than once is har@ssment" but still want to be chased. Lots of hypocrites out there.
@JamesDavy2009Ай бұрын
"It's not 'gravel', it's 'grovel'." -Timon
@Mr_Timi1Ай бұрын
I had an aunt who was 2 years older than I was and who used to literally moan all the time when she first got her period. So my grandmother made us walk on eggshells around her when it was "time of the month". Thing is she lived out in the country and there really were no other kids around so my brother just didn't hang around with her at all. We weren't being mean we just didn't want to get yelled at. It honestly didn't take her that long to get over it because she wanted to do the stuff we were doing...
@ficialintelligence1869Ай бұрын
(Testing) Drop her, OP. If she's playing mind games now, she will play mind games later. You dodged a bullet.
@lorilancaster5917Ай бұрын
And you can offer your sister in the break up since she’s siding with the ex. OP isn’t an AH for prioritizing his wellbeing and his parents need to get on board or keep their mouths shut.
@AzureKyleАй бұрын
Yeah, she probably saw some TikTok video and decided to emulate it.
@ficialintelligence1869Ай бұрын
@@AzureKyle Ugh. I know that your statement is hypothetical, but if anyone is so immature as to emulate/use TT for relationship advice, he didn't just dodge a bullet ... he dodged an elephant-gun shell.
@AzureKyleАй бұрын
@ficialintelligence1869 It's not a hypothetical, people post themselves doing these kinds of tests to their SO's and others start emulating them and posting their videos. Like the orange peel test.
@bigjalapeno7061Ай бұрын
Yea for sure
@silverflight01Ай бұрын
Story 2: I know nothing about how periods affect one's behavior, but this is straight up overboard from her. Like, straight up trying to control everything is definitely NOT how to handle it. How can anyone even possibly excuse injuring OP's son?
@AvrysatosАй бұрын
100% not normal behavior.
@kamis.9302Ай бұрын
Woman here, we don't do crap like this. She was fed BS and thinks it's okay to act like that.
@MLWJ1993Ай бұрын
It's not actually the period, but the hormone balance shifting that can cause mood swings. You however absolutely shouldn't go full on batshit crazy & should be going to see a doctor if you're feeling anywhere near that level of bad...
@fdm2155Ай бұрын
Yeah, can you imagine what the world would be like if menstruating women went around behaving like this?
@TsukiKageToraАй бұрын
The fact that she went from 0 to 100 the second her dad came home means that that wasn’t her behavior on her period, that is manipulation to see how far she can get away with something for starting her period. And her dad proved she can get away with a lot, including harming her eight-year-old brother. the second that happened she should’ve kicked both of the dad and the daughter out. There is no way the loving year-old should get away with bruising and hurting their younger sibling. I feel so sorry for that boy for having such a spineless dad that will let his daughter harm him just because she’s on her period. What utter BS
@pretzelicious4200Ай бұрын
Second story, I checked OP's post and apparently the bf's daughter has full blown slapped her across the face before and said "it's just a joke." STAY AWAY OP. A LIL PSYCHO + ENABLER DADDY DEAREST IS A MATCH MADE IN HELL.
@melissaconnellyjones2622Ай бұрын
Holy cow! That so called “dad” has created a monster. When she ends up in prison someday, maybe it will finally dawn on him that he shouldn’t have enabled her; I doubt it, but you never know.
@d.phantomfan1216Ай бұрын
Last story: I will never nor want to understand how people think the person that gets cheated on its supposed to fight for the marriage. Why do they have to put in the effort that the cheater doesn’t? You violated the vows that was taken, You were the one that didn’t give a damn about the marriage, what makes you think your “SO” has to fight for something you gave up on? Screw your friends OP, not even saying this because divorce is hard, and they don’t give a damn about how you feel that your ex cheated.
@zaneps151Ай бұрын
The teen parents story Sadly, what a lot of teenagers who plan to have kids think is that their parents will do most of the raising for them and let the teenagers still be teenagers and go out and have fun That mom is being VERY generous and gave them a deal of a lifetime
@PaladinGear15Ай бұрын
I get that periods can be seriously uncomfortable and mess with your mood, but she didn't get stressy, she turned into a full blown psycho. Who assaults a kid for asking if they could play together? Girl instantly turned into Verruca Salt.
@wingracer1614Ай бұрын
Can't fight the seether
@JamesDavy2009Ай бұрын
A person of culture, I see. Glad to know I'm not the only commenter that uses characters from _Charlie and the Chocolate Factory_ as character archetypes. While Veruca Salt astutely defines her character, I would add the anger of Mike Teavee.
@mariakhan7986Ай бұрын
Well in all fairness it could be a hormonal imbalance. It happened to me and I was similar but I wasn't violent (but man did I have to restrain myself). Anyway I'm on medication now and I just get the normal symptoms. Or she could just be faking. 😂
@LLandS18Ай бұрын
I have to agree. The first story is actually super sweet. Way to find the silver lining . And you know what? It might be a better relationship anyway.
@BersealiaDreamheartАй бұрын
Exactly, because if the new girlfriend went out of her way to tell OP all about their ex-spouses’ affair, divorce her husband for it, and support OP through the painful betrayal of his ex, it shows that she’s trustworthy, compassionate, and respectful. Everything that makes an excellent friend or partner. Whether the romance works out or not, I still don’t know, but either way, OP found a great friend/girlfriend for life. All I can say is, the best type of revenge is to do nothing but move on and live the best life you can with the people that matter.
@olivergregory5093Ай бұрын
My periods had me lying on the bathroom floor, barely able to move/think from the pain. I NEVER screamed at anyone, much less body slammed a child.
@mariakhan7986Ай бұрын
OK but were not all the same, she may have a hormonal imbalance and need medication not your judgment.
@DarkEinherjarАй бұрын
Story 1: as long as it's genuine affection and not just a revenge affair, it's fine. It'd be complicated to pursue anything before finalizing the divorces, though.
@Bleg94Ай бұрын
even revenge affair is fine, as long as both want it
@dinlupus3196Ай бұрын
@@Bleg94 my thoughts exactly, Its not like their ex-partners cared about how much this would hurt them
@Sorchia56Ай бұрын
Look at how much easier Holidays will be! The kids all get to see their parents. I’m a “glass half full” sort with a wee bit of evil in me. 😂😂
@wingracer1614Ай бұрын
@@Bleg94 It's fine for what it is but deciding to go further with it if it is just a revenge affair would be a really bad idea. Fortunately it doesn't sound like that is the case here.
@breezy3392Ай бұрын
Story 2: Makes you wonder what the mom was like... But seriously, what's wrong with the dad? What does he think a period is? Does he think she's terminally ill?
@lorilancaster5917Ай бұрын
Since this is her first period, I’m thinking she’s seeing what she can get away with from her dad since she thinks this won’t fly with her mom. No clue but I’m thinking of how she wasn’t bad around OP, yeah annoying and not cool with boundaries, but her scheme showed most around her dad and OPs son.
@breezy3392Ай бұрын
@@lorilancaster5917 I'm wondering, since the dad has full custody, how bad was the mom to lose all custody? Did the daughter pick up this deranged behaviour from mom?
@lorilancaster5917Ай бұрын
@@breezy3392also valid point. It wasn’t mentioned if she lived far away or much details for that matter.
@Xerdar36Ай бұрын
So a wife swap… sounds fair.
@teslagod7221Ай бұрын
Lol, 2 brokenhearted and loyal people becoming a couple, then the other 2 is both unfaithful, liars, deceitful and massive POS. Yah, fair trade... Just like trading a pure diamond stone for a pure plastic stone...
@carenasmith7Ай бұрын
I am the only child for my mother. When I got pregnant at 19 with my now 14 years old son, my mother gave me two option: stay in college and get my degree or get out her house. I’m 34. Staying in college was the best decision I made because my mother is such a great support for both my son and I. The choice was easy to make! I stayed my ass in college, now I have 2 degrees with a very supportive mother. The 3 op is right for not enabling her daughter and giving her daughter tough love.
@uniraffesaurАй бұрын
“OP, how kinky” made me laugh harder than it had any business to 😂
@IsYitzachАй бұрын
Story 3: OP is an amazing mother. The daughter and boyfriend were IDT10Ts.
@ruthannwoodrick8764Ай бұрын
Agreed I would not put up with that shit
@ladysolluaАй бұрын
Second story: A period is not a free pass to commit assault. Also, if she was fine the whole day, I’m willing to bet that she planned this out and knew Daddy would side with her. I bet she was going to use her period as an excuse to beat up OP’s son for five days.
@hiroshi7025Ай бұрын
1:20 R/ be hitting that inspiration to write the greatest hand-holding AO3 fiction. Story 2 : That daughter might be a dragon heiress because I know a Fus Ro Dah when I read one.
@justaperson4656Ай бұрын
Enemies to nsfw to getting flustered at a kiss
@hiroshi7025Ай бұрын
@@justaperson4656 Enemies to NSFW is a WILD trope name 😭
@justaperson4656Ай бұрын
@@hiroshi7025 I couldn't think of anything else to call "you were my enemy, now run me through like a freight train"
@JamesDavy2009Ай бұрын
@@justaperson4656 They're the same people trying to keep Puritanism alive when it died in the late 1600's.
@justaperson4656Ай бұрын
@@JamesDavy2009 what?
@DaBaseBallZАй бұрын
Story 4:Smart people fight for things that are worth it,That "child of a woman" isn't even worth a trash can,NTA
@Caffeinated_FireflyАй бұрын
He did try tell her he could compromise and backtrack a bit, AKA trying to address a problem like a mature adult. And then when she said she didn't want to compromise he respected her decision. The idea that someone SHOULD try to beg or emotionally manipulate you into staying in a relationship you don't want to be in is so creepy to me
@shod1Ай бұрын
“Op how kinky” 😭shit threw me off lmfaoo 1:24
@ShanghaimartinАй бұрын
Story 4: Anyone that 'tests you' after so long and thinks that mind games are the best way to judge a person, my man, you dodged a bullet. Stick to your guns and find the RIGHT person
@ajjean2720Ай бұрын
The fact that she doubled down and accused OP of using her all this time. Like yeah, no, this wasn’t a mistake, she’s just crazy.
@JamesDavy2009Ай бұрын
It shows the tester is insecure or distrustful.
@janputz4157Ай бұрын
Testing your partner line that is just plain dumb and cruel. Actively playing with someone's emotions like that is toxic and if she wants to play that she can do it outside. So so many stories where the exact same thing happened.
@OrdinariusEvadereАй бұрын
ive started my period when i was ten years old (i come from a family of early bloomers) and ive never acted like that in my life, even under childhood immaturity and teenage hormones. i felt bad asking my mom to buy tampons, let alone 9 pm ice cream. i wonder what was going through that girls mind
@mariakhan7986Ай бұрын
Maybe it's a hormonal imbalance? I have pcos (started period at 8) and was similar to this till I was on medication. My family also just accepted my behavior and I had to get it sorted by my self at 23.
@williambragg6171Ай бұрын
For story 3 it sounds like they planned to just get the college fund and then leave the baby with OP and then take off. I mean it seems obvious they would use the baby to get money and then hightail it out of there.
@YuumiMa1nАй бұрын
Damn, that last story had Dabny in twist! He wasn’t having it lol
@MrsShocoTacoАй бұрын
Story2 No, everyone else does not need to "learn to navigate" the daughter's menstrual cycle. The daughter needs to learn how to deal with it. Having a menstrual cycle and pms does NOT give one permission to treat others like trash.
@MochiiieeАй бұрын
as an average period haver, no, no way, that is no excuse to body slam a kid. periods are extremely painful and draining and make me depressed as hell but i do not assault people and be a nuisance! nobody i know does!
@Blue2x2xАй бұрын
I love that OP from the last story call out his peers' hypocrisy. 10/5 BadAss Principled "Shame on you for not trying to save your marriage" "Would you forgive your wife/girlfriend if me and her F' around behind your back?" "N-no"
@Fallenfromgrace1990Ай бұрын
Second story: I have Endometriosis and my periods can be horrible but I would never throw a kid against the wall or even act like that. If she is acting like that, she needs to see a doctor because that is not normal.
@HeyxtreАй бұрын
The second story’s girl NEEDS to go see gyno to get her period on check. I’ve struggled so badly with painful and very ill ridden periods and once I got to a gyno, its solved my problems. She needs to see one asap to get her hormones sorted out before she gets misdiagnosed with a mental illness and goes untreated
@1986babАй бұрын
I remember my first period, many, many moons ago. I was 11 too. The first day? I just laid on the couch and cried all day because I'd never felt such pain. I do remember being sooo angry months later when a friend's mom offered me pain killers for the cramps while on a mall trip. And I was like...I can take something for the pain? She said, "Yes sweetie, that's normal." When Mom picked me up later I demanded to know why she didn't tell me why I could take something for the cramps. Her response was "Oops." The 90s were a different more chill time I guess. x_x
@myfriendcowАй бұрын
The second story: There is a disorder called PMDD (premenstrual dysphoric disorder). In short, it causes an extremt of what is usual moodswings/anger/sandness during/before ones period. It can cause someone to go from being their happy normal self to wanting to (and trying to) off themselves over night. It can cause extreme anger, sadness and exhaustion. Some people withthis disorder have to be hospitalised in a psychiatric unit because it gets so bad. However, if this was the case in this story, it would probably have started before the period. It's usually actuve from 1-2 weeks before the period until a couple of days in. I'm also unsure if PMDD is developed over time or if it can be present at the first period. I just wanted to mention all this because I think it's important to spread awareness of this, not so unusual, disorder. About 5-8% of menstruating women experience PMDD (in varying severity). I'm sceptical to if this girl actually has it.
@tailsofchaosАй бұрын
Well even if she did had that condition, there was nothing done. He just let her do whenever she feels or whatever. Not to mention she is actually weaponizing it as she is aware.
@myfriendcowАй бұрын
@tailsofchaos Yes obviosly you shouldn't enable the behaviour, one should go see a doctor.
@tailsofchaosАй бұрын
@@myfriendcow Knowing her, she would just throw a tantrum to not go to the doctor 😅
@madeline6951Ай бұрын
Story 1: The gloves were taken off by the cheating wife. OP is totally in the clear imo. Story 2: As a regular period haver, this BF and his kid sound unhinged. You know how my first period went? I got a pad from my mom and went about my day. I don't know what's going on with this girl, but this is not "period behaviour", this is "extreme attention seeking behaviour" and it needs to be addressed and corrected, not encouraged. Story 3: What did they think was going to happen? It's unfortunate that OP's daughter didn't learn a single lesson from her childhood :| Story 4: Lol. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. I thought these kinds of mind games were in the purview of highschool at most, not in real relationships. Story 5: It never fails to astonish me when society punishes the person that DIDN'T cheat. Just.. why?
@TitaniumSteph_Ай бұрын
For story 2 it feels like shes watched or read stuff about how people handle periods and that always plays up the emotions, cravings etc. So that's what shes playing out. I'm sure she has cramps and feels emotional to some extent but the rest is so obviously her just acting up. The dad doesn't know this isnt usual behaviour but he should listen to his gf and they should have sat her down and explained the emotions and what to expect but also that everyone is different so she might feel all, none, or some of these things.
@sayadiva123Ай бұрын
Same with story 2. Once I started developing, mom got me the "My Body & Me" book (which I've now passed down to my cousins) and once my periods officially started, mom took me pad shopping and I got painkillers from grandma (she was working in a nursing house back then, may she rest in peace). And the only time I stayed home from school was if my cramps were too severe or if I looked physically ill. My mood swings were no excuse for me to act out cuz my parents shut that down
@Tustin2121Ай бұрын
Story 2: I think you’re on to something with “extreme attention seeking behavior”. I’m almost positive she’s using this as an excuse to lash out at her dad for choosing to move in with his girlfriend instead of, like, getting back together with her mom (if she’s still in the picture, OP didn’t say) or something similar related to the step-mom situation.
@IkajoАй бұрын
If a kid at 11 acting out for attention, there is usually something else going on. I would hesitate to call her a brat or treat her poorly.
@madeline6951Ай бұрын
@@Ikajo yep, which is why I said her behaviour needs attention
@Caffeinated_FireflyАй бұрын
About the Second story, I imagine this is either some media shit this girl's been watching or maybe his mom did this, but she figured she could use it to manipulate her dad especially, and tried to test the boundaries. The problem is that it seems like the father will not stop her, lol.
@shadowmewfred09Ай бұрын
Story 1: they sometimes say the best revenge is a life well lived and if this relationship makes you both happy then forget everyone else (especially your ex's) and go for it. Story 2: to play devil's advocate periods can be awful and the pain is madding (so my partner said) however what diane did is inexcusable especially body slamming your son and if your bf can't have your back then he'll quickly become your ex bf op you're nta. Story 4: nta op this isn't just "a test" this is emotional and mental control and I don't want to be with anyone who's so willing to play games like this as If we're little more then an xbox with a wallet attachment.
@Hope_this_is_just_a_dream1994Ай бұрын
I have endometriosis........with all the pain that comes along with my periods, I have never physically or verbally abused anybody. That brat saw an opportunity that let her get away with anything she wanted and ran with it. Her dad honestly seems fearful of her reactions and she sensed that too. Good on you for getting them out of your home, Op.
@paranoiarpincessАй бұрын
The second last story is the epitome of “play stupid games, win stupid prizes.”
@Rj-ij6koАй бұрын
Last Story: WTF kinda mental gymnastics does it take to blame the VICTIM of cheating instead of the cheater. Op’s wife clearly never takes accountability and the friends are morons…
@doodlethealien8889Ай бұрын
St2 when I got my first period, ofc I was a little emotional. But I didn’t and have never used it as an excuse to be outright terrible and selfish to everyone around me. All I did was cry bc my cramps were so bad and lament to my mom that I wished I was a boy bc they don’t get bloody and crampy once a month.
@AveryGreen03Ай бұрын
First story just sounds like an unlikely sitcom love movie. The other partners cheated, they're just finding love in the fallout!
@eringantz4508Ай бұрын
Story 2: it sounds like the daughter has heard stories of how hormones can sometimes effect a PREGNANT woman and has decided having a period and being pregnant are the same thing 😂
@DaBaseBallZАй бұрын
Story 5:Again,Smart people fight for things that are worth it,That cheater isn't worth the previous woman which isn't even worth a trash can,NTA at all
@lorilancaster5917Ай бұрын
If anyone should fight for it, it needs to be the person who ruined it isn’t the first place. Why aren’t they harping on her to “fix things”?
@kstriclАй бұрын
When my oldest daughter showed signs she would be starting her period, we had a bit of a talk explaining what was going on, made sure we had product available for her and left it alone. When it came, it was "I need the product." And that was about it. This story was manipulation.
@sophdog2564Ай бұрын
Or it was PMDD. It's a mental health issue that basically turns your period into a psychiatric emergency. I have it and I acted like that all through puberty and even info adulthood until I got on medications that helped. I did have more self awareness afterwards and took accountability, but I can give some grace to an 11 year old experiencing the hell that is PMDD for the first time
@kstriclАй бұрын
@@sophdog2564 I won't argue that. I know how fortunate that it is that my daughter basically only gets inconvenienced and really no other symptoms. In either case, the dad didn't handle it right. Edit: Went on Reddit and read some more. The girl assaulted OP before with no consequences. She also watches a lot of TikTok and KZfaq without any supervision. Combined with the Dad giving her a free pass on the rest of her behavior, I think he's just (barely) raising an entitled manipulator.
@DarkEinherjarАй бұрын
Story 3: NTA. The rules were quite reasonable.
@DaBaseBallZАй бұрын
Story 1:Wait until divorce,Then go for it And may all cheaters step on legos with bare feet
@lorilancaster5917Ай бұрын
Or have the center of their cinnamon rolls snatched and throw away before the can eat them.
@coppercornАй бұрын
@@lorilancaster5917 As a parent, I dare say this is much worse than stepping on legos with bare feet. That's really not as bad as it seems. But steal my cinnamon roll center? We're going to war!
@TheAnnyParkerАй бұрын
The last story: he already did ask her, by marrying her. Cheaters are a whole other breed of stupid
@auberginebearАй бұрын
Story 3: NTA; OP is being so lenient and the world will be so harsh to them if they keep that up. Here’s hoping it doesn’t get bad enough that the baby is legally taken away from the parents without OP knowing about it and possibly taking in their grandbaby.
@GamerGeekGirl651Ай бұрын
Story 2: hi girl here…when I had my first period I was a bit weepy, tired and yes crampy. I was not a temper tantrum throwing little brat. This behavior has nothing to do with her period. It has to do with not getting what she wants. She is using her hormones as an excuse to do what she wants. Dad needs to wake up and realize that.
@Rose_Petals12Ай бұрын
The second story is so wild, and even though it's the little girl was being an asshole, the image of a fuckin 11 year old little shit throwing someone and screaming "I'M ON MY PERIOD" is fucking hilarious to me 😂
@ScorpiusZA.Ай бұрын
Story 4: I am so completely on OP's side. Testing, like cheating, is an automatic breakup condition, no negotiation.
@tawnyacosta9091Ай бұрын
Story 2: NTA. Like, dude, what the hey?! I get being a bit cranky while on periods, trust me, I know. I can get kinda cranky whenever my periods start up, and it's obviously a bit painful, but I would NEVER treat ANYONE like what the daughter did! Someone needs to tell this girl off. And OP's BF needs to step up better! What a sorry excuse of a father. Good on OP for getting out of what could have, most definitely, been a terrible relationship.
@cecileomnes586Ай бұрын
I feel like the girl is story 2 is mostly a sad little girl wanting to be close to her new "mom", yet be spoiled by dad. She is all fine as long as she is with OP alone, thought being super clingy, like "yeay we share a girl thing together", and as soon as the dad AND the step brother are there, she turns into a monster. It's a call for attention, the dad is enabler probably because he feels bad for the girl to not have her real mom, it's rather common in solo parental famillies. They both need therapy because obviously neither of them healed from the past. But it doesn't mean she can hurt anyone and being a total freak, OP is not a AH, it's totally normal to protect her own son and refuse to take someone else burden on her. I'm mostly sad for the little girl, because often behind little monsters are hiding lonely children. I saw it with someone I knew and the bf children, one of them was exactly like that little girl, without the excuses of the periods.
@bbo7002Ай бұрын
That's what I thought too, I think the 11yo is having a really hard time rn and she's lashing out bc she doesn't know how to ask for help. OP is right to protect her 8yo son, no doubt about that, but that doesn't mean the 11yo is an a-hole or a bad person. She's a kid, she's going thru a lot of big life changes. It can't be easy for her. Ofc she's going to leverage what little power she has. It's all she CAN do, at this point in her life. Idk if OP should continue her relationship with her bf, but I do hope the bf will get his kid some help. It rly sounds like she's struggling 😒
@justkibby5959Ай бұрын
The way that having a period is portrayed in the media, movies, sitcoms etc. She's behaving the way she THINKS she's supposed to act. Hates men, unreasonable, thinks the world stops for her. She just needs a woman to help her navigate the truth of it.
@yabe-kfptentacultistАй бұрын
Story 2: Diane is definitely dramatising her first period. Sometimes you get hormonal imbalances during periods but not to this extent (i.e shouting at your sibling to the point of abuse, honestly pathetic tantrums etc.). I was definitely not like this on my first period. Eta: forgot to mention, but OP's hopefully soon-to-be-ex boyfriend is such a doormat dad. I hope OP breaks up with him.
@AvrysatosАй бұрын
If she IS having hormonal imbalances this big, she needs a doctor.
@DisneyFanatic2364Ай бұрын
Story 2: I'm questioning why OP let the girl stay home from school, and then didn't set boundaries during working hours. That might've signaled to her it's OK to butt out of things and interrupt important events just because of a period. I still went to school during my first period, and exercise actually reduces menstrual cramps. I'm not sure if this justifies the 11-year-old's behavior, but I do think OP mishandled the situation from the beginning. Also, you CAN swim on your period. The boyfriend definitely handled it worse than OP.
@ericacatty3528Ай бұрын
@rslash THAT TOOK ME OUT "OP how kinky" 😂😂😂😅💀
@Dog_in_treeАй бұрын
Story 4, yeah, i saw that coming. No relationship is going to be a healthy one when you start it out with sex and THEN decide to "be exclusive" If you actually want a healthy committed relationship, then don't have sex until you're in one.
@d.phantomfan1216Ай бұрын
Story 1: I don’t think either of you are in the wrong for falling for each other, when you boil it down your two single consenting adults and that’s all there is to it. Plus, you don’t owe your exs anything, what are they gonna do be upset that the two people they cheated on found happiness in each other? I will say maybe you two should slow down a bit, I’m not trying to invalidate your feelings, just the two of you were cheated on and this might be a rebound thing. That’s not the say it’s impossible. The two of you aren’t falling for each other or anything like that just that you’re moving pretty fast for people that aren’t even divorced yet.
@sarahbrown7958Ай бұрын
RSLASH- We just moved from Coeur d’Alene, Idaho to Springfield, Illinois. My mom came to visit us on Christmas and unexpectedly passed away. It’s been terrible but we didn’t to move into her home, since it was so much a part of her( she’s had it for 43 years). It took 26 hours and every single minute of the drive, I had RSLASH videos playing, thanks so much for keeping us entertained ❤
@ceilinh6004Ай бұрын
Story 2: The fact that the daughter was fine while she was alone with OP shows that her behaviour was performative, which IMO, makes it worse. Her dad catering to that nonsense is only going to encourage it. That's how you raise a terrible human.
@d.phantomfan1216Ай бұрын
Story 2: OP you been having a period longer then her, have you or any woman you know have ever acted like that, even for your first time? I know I didn’t and I don’t know anyone who has. Yeah you can be more sensitive or get more easily irritated, but that girl was clearly milking it, and your ex is just being a stupid pushover. At my experience, my mom showed me how to use a pad and my dad gave me ice cream but that was it. ( I don’t know why my dad thought you’re supposed to get ice cream for your first period but I wasn’t complaining.)
@maieen2665Ай бұрын
*First OP:* LOL at "Ooh, how kinky!" OP's stbx and her boss cheated on their spouses, so if they feel uncomfortable with OP being seen with the boss' ex, oh well! It wouldn't have happened if they didn't cheat. OP is NTA. *Second OP:* Why am I imagining an 11-year-old Angelica Pickles while reading this story? OP is NTA. Someone had to have a backbone. *Third OP:* They _planned_ the pregnancy and have no source of income? Oh, dear. OP is NTA. Best of luck to everyone involved. *Fourth OP:* This feels like an example of "don't ask questions you don't want to know the answer to." And FAFO. OP is NTA. Anyone who would test their partner like that is not mature enough to be in a relationship. *Fifth OP:* That was a great way to shut down the critics. Also, OP's stbx already chose her affair partner over OP when she cheated. OP is NTA.
@GiordanDiodatoАй бұрын
second OP: We did get to see a 12 year old Angelica Pickles in All Grown Up (yes I know it's polarizing, shut up) and she didn't act like this. A bit sneaky and spoiled, sure, but not that unhinged.
@buddyburrowsАй бұрын
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@yadfud363Ай бұрын
Story 3 is basically OP speedrunning her daughter never speaking to her again, just like OP's parents did.
@MusicalsfangirlАй бұрын
Story 2: I think I know why the mom didn’t want custody. It would be hell to have your kid be like that, and have the dad constantly enable this insane behaviour. Parents, please don’t be like the playdough in the hands of your child. They are soooooo capable of manipulation, and their parents are soooo dang blind to it.
@gramolapietro2491Ай бұрын
Holding hands?! Disgusting
@iyaayasАй бұрын
How DARE they! True Story: My then Boyfriend and I were hounded by people at our church for holding hands in public (we suspect....that and a hug here or there is all we did and we were accused of too much PDA but only the leaders talked to us....not our accusers.....the leaders wven told us they don't know what were specifically doing that was inappropriate to cause others to complain). It was getting so ridiculous that I wrote my now husband a note and said, "Let's just get married and shut these people up." He said said he was thinking the same thing. Roughly 6-7 months after meeting, we held a ceremony in front of the entire congregation. The next service afterwards, we didn't care and upped our antics to wrapping our arms around each other's backs in public. Maybe a kiss here or there. We got even more complaints. Lucky for then, I had to leave hubby behind for a few months for my job. Been married for 20+ years now. I still love holding his hand when I can.
@DrCrab-vp2vcАй бұрын
UWU It's break time. Time for some Rslash and dig dug.
@VulxnyrieАй бұрын
Dig dug is fire
@alansartrignotАй бұрын
I usually prefer mappy but dig dug is great
@SpiderRiderKyaАй бұрын
Story 2: I can't believe no one's bringing this up but, if food was in the slow cooker for dinner, that means it WASN'T COOKED YET when it was eaten. So the daughter ate uncooked/half cooked chili. Ew. That's gross and potentially unhealthy if there was meat in it. Like, wtf?
@auberginebearАй бұрын
Story 5: NTA; that was literally the GF trying to pressure OP into proposing and I bet she had a shocked Pikachu face when it didn’t work.
@Adair.StewartАй бұрын
4:44 The daughter knows more about having a period than she is letting on. Every bit of her behaviour during her FIRST period shows that she is well aware what it is, what it does, and what happens. Problem is, she has focused too much on the behavioural changes and patterns that are NOT common for every person. She is not only going through the motions to get attention, but she is also weaponizing it with her dad, who is obviously weak where she is concerned. She is acting as if she is pregnant, not just on her period. Your BF wants to buy it, OP? Fine. But you don’t have to, and you also don’t have to watch your son be abused. It’s your home. It’s his home. She can use her passive daddy as a verbal, emotional, and physical punching bag who always has to have her way when she’s on her cycle when they live on their own.
@VulxnyrieАй бұрын
Good morning everyone!
@uh_rohАй бұрын
Morning
@gelitangАй бұрын
Good morning 🎉
@artkiddolАй бұрын
wow. hearing rslash say “sex” instead of “passionate hugging” gave me whiplash
@PuzzleME.Ай бұрын
LoL, last story OP'S anwser to the wife is really funny, and great comeback to the "friends" remarks priceless.
@rivvypАй бұрын
Story 2: I have to wonder if something else is going on with the kid. Because I have exceptional awful periods myself, bed ridden with pain, bloated, extremely emotional etc but I've never -or ever wanted to- body slam someone over it. I've gotten angry and shouted when I shouldn't have, I'll admit, but this feels like something else is also going on and the hormones are only making it worse. The boyfriend is doing that little girl no favors by not helping her handle her feelings properly.
@hazybubblegumАй бұрын
Guess nobody expected that op in the first story was equiped with a uno reverse card.
@ireneaquarius3256Ай бұрын
First story: Bro pulled the uno reverse card
@HelloImEntАй бұрын
The thought of someone slamming a door on someone and the person just goes flying is to much 😭 😭 😭 😂
@auberginebearАй бұрын
Story 6: NTA; no one is required to forgive a person who cheats on them.
@veethebee5455Ай бұрын
I got my period at 10, right before my bday. Normally for my bday we'd go to the falls and swim and bbq all day, but that year we stayed home and grilled and hung out in the backyard. I was in pain for sure but I wouldn't even dream of being physically and verbally abusive to my family just for being in pain. That girl needs to learn as soon as humanly possible that the monthly bleed isn't an excuse to be an absolutely horrible disgusting excuse of a human to everyone in her life.
@rubybishop8749Ай бұрын
1:28 "Op, how kinky 😉" my guy you spring such comedy like that 😆
@LazyBunnyKieraАй бұрын
The first story... it's not unheard of for couples to switch partners like that. Where they just decide they're happier with the other's partners and all 4 people are happier and often still get along.