people who voices free speech , freedom, common sense the most, actually the complete and total opposite of what they're preaching

People who don't think it should be allowed are people who intend to keep their spouse captive...

and he thinks the man should be in charge so really he's just advocating to take rights away from everyone and give extra rights to himself

One too many negatives bud but, from context, I can see what you mean.

Only someone with pretty sick motives would want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't want to be in one with them anymore

that's America's entire ethos. hence coups, invasions, US friendly genocidal dictators, and the climate crisis.

Which is weird due to all the L's he takes.

Well-said

his discussion tactic is 'scorched earth'.

That’s conservatives in a nutshell. How would they know they’re superior unless they’re making everyone else miserable?

exactly, and the tone that he used while saying "watch it" being the same as many use to scold a dog really says a lot about how he views her

my ex used to FLIP and get loud and go "dont you EVER say that word to me, dont you dare EVER. you are psycho, you dont DARE say that to me."

@@depressednymph4421 yup. He probably calls her a female dog

when i am scolding my cats i wouldn’t be able to make my voice sound as dire and warning and loveless, and i wouldn’t want to, either. (and i don’t have to either, they usually respect tables and human food as out of bounds for them, the little cheeks) it’s unbelievably sick that someone can be so unfair and tantalizing with his very pregnant wife. his made up rules are so ridiculous, the point that she even tries to calm him down and tries to make a point with him instead of laughing at him and his stupid childish „rules“ goes to show how much he manipulated and frightened her to this point. no person in their right mind would take up with this, a lot must have been going on before this. the poor woman, she must have felt a lot of pressure to mask this disaster as a happy, functional marriage. 😢

I'd sue him. And take away everything.

Just think what he was upset about...She didn't want to give his dog medicine because of a very good reason. This argument was because he can't take care of his own damn dogs.

same, I wish she would have left sooner but we all know that isnt always possible

It truly is amazing what some people will accept. The 2 women I know who have been in abusive relationships are both people I would describe as strong and smart. And they both got stuck for a time in bad relationships. It was scary to see.

Naw she married a monster. She was fine with how racist and vile he always was. She deserved everything that was coming. Nobody held a gun to her head and forced her to marry Steven Coward or fuck him and bear his children. She knew how viley racist he always was and chose that as her "eternal partner".

Seeing her aggravated and frustrated from being unable to get through to him was painful

@@edvh88 manipulators have their entire life to practice. But good hearted people who havent encountered it (especially if they have anxiety) often get trapped to give those manipulators narcissistic supply. Anyone can fall prey to an abuser.

Same as the people who think men should have a legal say in whether their partner can get an abortion. It makes my skin crawl.

"She decided to divorce me, and the state of Texas allows it" AS IT SHOULD !!!

I've seen many videos talking about him every now and then for the last few years and he's cruel to everyone all the time, even on his highly manicured show he's a petulant childish bully. Poor Hillary got the worst of it because he sees her as his property.

because they don't give you permission and THEY control your every move, thought and action, total control freaks. what this is, is.........when you do not control yourself and your own actions, you seek to control everyone and everything around you, that is how projection works. a true narcissist and woman hater........................his crew talked about how he would "lay his junk" on their shoulders or somewhere on their body.......who does that? someone closeted? perhaps. he hates women and has no respect for them that's for sure.........

Case in point, onision

What comes out a man’s mouth lives in his heart. That’s in the Bible and I e never seen it not be true. Locker room talk isn’t just talk. When someone show you who they are BELIEVE THEM‼️

@@joannamonique707 I wish I could graffiti this on the streets because of how true it is

Matt Walsh. He defended a straight cis christian male child predator Josh Duggar

That made my blood run cold.

_The true culprit is Texan Law, not my children._ -Steffan Chowder, explaining why he is the victim of a legal process

@@zekayman NO DO NOT FUCKING DO THIS. I grew up with parents that tried to fake it. It is so insanely obvious that they dont like each other. I have immense trauma from the emotional outbursts and arguments my parents did because they wouldnt divorce.

@@zekayman Isn't that reasoning vulnerable to a selection bias or two? As in, the deaths of a parent would cut into the household wealth, which is tied to improved socio-economic outcomes. And also one of the leading causes of all relationships ending, including marriages, is money troubles... so like how could preventing a divorce help a household from having their wealth cut whenever money disputes were the problem to begin with? It's fine that you understand how to promote economic outcomes which lead to better socio-economic outcomes for the next generation, but the way you outlined it is just as much of an argument _discouraging marriages that don't include some amount of economic counseling to prevent an unstable economic pairing from ever enduring the conflict of divorce_ as it is an argument _promoting an delayed divorce w/o any economic counseling_ to promote marital stability.

Notice it's only when the wife is suffering and being treated bad they're are people saying she should tough it out for the kids but when it's the husband, they get all emotional say a marriage should be built on love and not disrespect blah blah blah.

​@Kevin Jacobson bro no. Maybe if you just no longer have that "spark" sure. Stick it out if you can. But put your children thru living with an abusive father? No. Don't do this. Also better outcomes could come from single parents if we supported them better with things like free childcare, allowing foodstamps to be used for diapers, etc.

People who literally, proudly take their traditions and goals from the 50s lol

"Harlotry" is another one that gets me in the mood to hear them say old gems like tomfoolery and flim-flam

Right? If someone said that to me, I would be too busy laughing to be offended

That’s one you use while doing a 1920’s gangster voice lmao

I use it all the time to describe people who have the flu.

Worse. A whiny teen who SHOULD. KNOW. BETTER.

And he was post op and couldnt walk the dogs because he had to "rest" yet he wants to go to the gym xD i have met a person like him, but I am quick at thinking and responding, pointing out the contradictions in someone's speech, and I can tell you they hate that and sound more and more ridiculous trying to win the conversation, then they get angry and refuse to speak more. He is lucky she isnt that kind of a person because people would not only see him as an abuser, but as an idiot more clearly

For real. Like, does he not know what public transport is? 😂 If two people are sharing a car at least one of them gotta use it, right?

@@mmgs1148 I’m the same way. Unfortunately some women like some of my friends, arnt so quick and only see where they could have responded after they’ve spoken to me about the argument. I think all women should learn how to defend themselves. It’s vital.

"But that won't work eeeeiiitttthhheeerrrr" whined the Big Strong Manly man to his eight months pregnant wife, as he puffed a cigar and ordered her to walk their dogs in the Texas heat. "It won't work eeeeiiiiittthhhheeerrrr!"

Bravo! Best comment.

Idk, after all this projection on his “happy marriage” and “respecting his wife, not like the other guys”, I kind of doubt he really lived up to that either

Perfectly stated. 🔥

@@KazeSango He failed at everything.

I have a hard time believing someone who flashes their co-workers is keeping it in their pants.

I love that you said this. It is rare to hear people speak positively about their significant other. Rarer still to hear them speak with admiration you seem to here. Men, especially, get reviled as a "simp" for expressing any admiration for a woman.

@@Passions5555 men that call themselves straight but get mad at other straight men for liking women and wanting to be good partners to them I can’t help but wonder if they’re just secretly gay and want to be apart of the hookup scene but will never admit it

@@Passions5555 I'll simp for my wife till the sun goes cold. It truly does blow my mind that he can act like that to a woman he took vows with in front of God and everyone

>I'll simp for my wife til the sun goes cold Hard same dude. My wife is the smartest, most responsible person I know and the best communicator I've ever met, and a goddamn saint to put up with my alexythymic ass. We run a business together and she murders it (in a good way) every single day and levels me up like crazy.

A person like that never intends to have an equal partnership. Your attitude demonstrates the enthusiasm people will hopefully take into a lasting relationship built on shared respect and regard.

I need that tattooed on me fore'ead. What a good quote for the boyz and girlz etc

And everyone else too.

Naw she married a monster. She was fine with how racist and vile he always was. She deserved everything that was coming. Nobody held a gun to her head and forced her to marry Steven Coward or fuck him and bear his children. She knew how viley racist he always was and chose that as her "eternal partner".

Wise words 👌🏾!!

​@@salyx men and women covered everyone.

The Ring camera video is disturbing (I’m so glad she has subsequently escaped the marriage even if she’s forever tied to Steven because of the children). However, Steven’s response video is equally disturbing. I’m disgusted with his delusion that he’s been victimized by his wife having the legal option of a “no fault” divorce. The reasonable inference from Steven’s response video is that he wanted to force her to remain in a marriage with him. Another speculation is that-in order to save face for his brand/audience-Steven leaned into the idea that his wife is to “blame” for the divorce that _she_ chose-not him. Both ideas can be true. He could be saving face as well as implying he wants to legally force his (now) ex-wife to remain married to him; each is monstrous. Steven’s mindset is so insanely dangerous and toxic, because he’s not just victimizing his family. He has social influence and public platforms to spread his blatant misogyny and abusive mentality.

he's out of control and probably has been for a very long time.......................I bet his past girlfriends know a thing or two....................hope his wife and the kids can move on far away and heal......

As we leftists/progressives like to say, every accusation by rightwingers, and especially their extremists, is a confession, and Chowder has so happily confessed all these many many years.

the worst part for me is how many people chose to work for him. someone who portrays themselves like that and are now acting surprised/trying to expose him.... not that they don't deserve basic human respect but like they are not that much better than him for aligning themselves with someone like that in the first place. i hate to sound like a victim blamer but my empathy runs super low for racists/hom0phobes/misogynists - so what did they expect?

@@pinguufuuuu I’ve come to find that a lot of people who fancy themselves part of a “natural” hierarchy that lazily places them near the top all too often feel like they don’t have any other source of dignity outside of being above those placed beneath. Which leads to a bizarre bargain where they accept being harmed in exchange for the worthless consolation prize of _well at least the subhumans below me have it worse, I get to harm them cuz I’m cooler!_ Which is all to say that what they expected is “that it’d be worth it somehow” & “I’ll never get it as bad as *they* get”

Personally, is how many people saw, time and time again, how awful he is, and kept feeling validated by his awfulness, and agreeing with it.

He hides behind the title of comedian just like so many other third-rate comedians these days. I've given up watching Live at the Apollo even though occasionally, there is a gem like Jack Whitehouse or at least someone with potential among a lot of dead beat comedians who use the stage to rant and rave. 'Comedy' is just their cover. I didn't like Romesh Ranganathan at first as I didn't like his sardonic delivery but he was good in a relatively straight role in King Gary as the down to earth neighbour who refuses to get involved in Gary's hare brained schemes.

I don't see how people don't do that much of a trial run first. Personally I'd wanna do a full year minimum so we can see how we do in each season too..

Nah. I'm sorry that was your experience but many couples never live together and do fine. It's all about mentality, maturity and communication. Dating taught me how to find men who were respectful and who could communicate. I didn't have to live with them to spot red flags.

@@Nicole-bg2ly I think they were talking more about compatability than red flags. Someone can be a wonderful partner, but if you don't click when it comes to your home preferences, you might not be well-suited to living together without anyone being wrong

Seriously. I was with someone for two years before moving in together and immediately it became clear that they NEVER wanted company (I loved having people over and my social life suffered because they’d have meltdowns over it), they hated the music I loved listening to and singing along with, and a few other things that tampered my general enjoyment of life. I would have just stayed in my tiny space on my own if I’d known ahead of time. Thank goodness we weren’t married!

@@salyx That's interesting...I knew my fellow long distance two years before marrying him and had no surprises. Knew him inside and out.

Anytime someone (especially a man) says “watch it” in that tone, a shiver honestly runs down my spine…nothing good is happening next

She's luckily out of the situation, that's why he's announced it. They began proceedings in 2021 I believe

​@@warlordofbritannia I cannot imagine a good man with good intentions saying that. I cannot imagine a scenario in which I would say that, for instance, unless my partner was walking inattentively on the edge of a cliff or something.

​@@CJMGalaxy lol hey that plane over there's landing in the river watch it hey the trash cans keep getting knocked over can u watch it its not a bad saying it's like the British saying init which just means its gonna happen just like this video hey this chicken made a new video watch it lol but to u thats a terrible saying we should instead say her that new video can u perhaps take a gander at it

Or saying I dont love you to his wife lol hes a tyrant. Mike is right! Redbar!!!

gaslighting 101

That tendency is obvious even in the old articles he wrote. All those vague allusions to how he's allegedly being oppressed for his abstinence. He's so eager to judge and ridicule everyone else, to tell strangers all about what their private lives should be like, but he wants to pretend he's the victim while he's doing it. He wants to pretend he's just trying to live his life and mind his own business while *you* accost *him* as he lectures and ridicules total strangers.

Well Gabbie Hanna exists.

She was finished with her pregnancy of her twins prior to the divorce he didn’t attend the birth of his children and prior to her leaving the hospital he moved out of the home and cut her off financially.

WAIT NO WAY?

What the hell

he didn’t lol that was max friedman cole

@@rachelsummers4311 seasons 5-6 google it

​@@gayghostprince yes. I firmly believe it's one of the reasons he thinks he's not racist. "How can I be racist when I voiced a black coded character decades ago?"

ikr?? What a monster

yeah I'm glad she left

Setting boundaries only hurts those who want to abuse them

@@richelleeasley6492 facts

​@@Tiny_Toast 😂😂😂😂

Conservative logic doesn't match actual reality. At best, people believe this shit out of ignorance, and at worst it's just a smokescreen for control.

So many young kids don’t even realize that what they’re doing is sex! Or how they could become pregnant. It’s so sad and there’s no excuse for it.

For some reason in The Netherlands there's now a substream of people who are also getting riled up over "sexual education at to early an age will make children commit acts of sex earlier than we would want to!!!" and I continue to try and point out that even if that would be the case (which as research has indeed shown, is not the case), if those people would not rather want those children to at least have some sense of what they are doing... I use the same argument by the way when it comes to sexual education for children aged 5-8, which tends to limit itself to things like: knowing the right names for body parts, learning that there will be situations in which someone will have to touch some of them (like in a doctor's appointment) and that there are also moments at which this is not appropriate, age-related peers or not, and that it's good to teach them something about bodily autonomy. These people never seem to understand that the risks of not educating children about their bodies at a young age risks them being unable to voice the possibility of sexual abuse happening to them because they literally don't know or are not using the right words against an adult that they might trust and tell about what happens. (Those same people are also unfortunately the same kind who are now believing the trans-panic thing in my country as well, and have reasoned that all trans people are pedophiles, and trying to point out to them that this is dangerous because it not only risks more harm being caused to transpeople, it also causes a huuuuge risk that if they indeed teach their children that kind of moral, these children might focus so heavily on "who looks a bit different" that the person with actual wrong intentions who "doesn't look like a trans" is capable of doing actual damage. This unfortunately is a viewpoint that rarely ever comes across.)

It has always seemed fairly intuitive to me that this should be the case. An obviously dishonest, Mean Girls style "You *will* get pregnant, and you *will* die" is simply not something that deserves much consideration or thought. A best effort realistic assessment of risks and ways to mitigate them is, for lack of a better term... just... scarier.

​@@Dutch3DMaster There is a part of me that thinks it makes sense that the far right would be opposed to children and young people being able to recognize and report sexual abuse.

All the best for your marriage and your life.

It’s a lot of work, being in a partnership. But on the good days, it’s rewarding and on the bad days, hopefully knowing you have all the time to work it out helps.

@@edvh88 doesn’t sound fun

@Bexstarartist Well, I'm doing it anyway. Please don't poo on my party.

@@the_shiny_new_mrs_harwood just my opinion.

yeah ive seen way too many conservatives express a very similar sentiment recently I'm honestly so terrified makes me not want to get married even more then I already do

Cuz he knows how hard it would be to find another woman who can tolerate him long enough to get married, they all do, deep down, and it's one of the biggest reasons they're fighting tooth and nail to change that law. It'd be one of the things they focus on if they get their way with abortion. It's sickening and dystopian imo. Handmaid's tale levels of tragic

Implying you say

​@@mullujullu I'm pretty sure it's like that in EVERY state now, anyways.

Especially when she only started the divorce proceedings when she found out *he'd hired a divorce lawyer.*

Like most of these guys like this. There are never sermons guiding men in their concept of leadership, just lots of damning sermons to women

Exactly!!! It isn't about being "pure" it's about control and ego. It always has been.

Clearly this wasn’t the first confrontation they had had about it

Honestly she learned that even in the short clip. She was like the abuse is insane and he immediately responds with watch it not even questioning it lmao

yeah she had a defensive pose and kept her distance from him and the way he spoke sounded like he was threatening to hit her (like he'd done it before)

I mean... Im seeing a Guy who complains about Not being able to visit his parents if His wife buys groceries. And somehow buying groceries violates her wifely duties. As If they couldnt agree on a time for her to get Back so He can See His parents. Or that she could drop him off at His parents and then go on to buy groceries. And yes, im aware that the parents Thing is a strawman. He doesnt Look Like He Had any Plans, it sounds like he Just wants the OPTION to have a plan. Using Logic on that man didnt enter my head for even one second because... Whats the Point of using Logic on someone who clearly isnt interested in practical solutions AT ALL.

not only that but the meds for the dog could harm the babies because she is pregnant. so he says he wants to protect children, yet he is trying to force his wife into a dangerous situation for his unborn twins. disgusting. he tells her to just put on gloves. he doesnt care about his wife or kids

Same here. While watching this, I suddenly felt like I was 10 years old again and fighting my dad with all the anger I could muster. I just want to come through the screen and dish out crowder’s shit right back to him.

hubby and i had sex on the first date. we lived together for five years before we married. our relationship lasted 40 years until death did us part (his, not mine). we win.

​@@margaretjohnson6259 yes Steven is just an idiot.

Imho finding out sexual compatibility is an important part for a long term relationship.

@@margaretjohnson6259 That was an amazingly long relationship.

@@page8301 it definitely is important because I'm like what Christians try to pretend were talking about we're not talking about something that you can learn to do because you don't really learn to have a sexuality

Don't forget that this is summer - so he wanted his wife, heavily pregnant with a high risk pregnancy, to walk two large dogs, in the Texas summer. Did he WANT her to go into labour??

Could be that way the kids would have survived but she wouldnt have. Our glorious church leaders told us that dying in pregnancy is glorious and a way to serve both husband and God. Dying is glorifing Christs sacrifice on the cross and being forgiven for the eternal sins of eve with blood atonement. If something goes wrong you may not be able to serve your husband as before and your better off dying. So with that in mind........what do you think?

Growing up in the mormon church pregnant women got no extra rest. It was considered a natural and easy thing to be pregnant so why would the woman need rest? They didn't even want you to rest between pregnancies so you could have a better survival chance and healthier child. One child a year was heavily praised.

@@amberinthemist7912 While the grandma of my dad's side was not a member of the Mormon church, she used to be religious up until the beginning of the 1980's (in the Netherlands by the way). When her daughter suffered 2 miscarriages a pastor one day knocked on their door with the question/remark about increasing the amount of family, and "why it's taking so long for there to be babies in this home" (there was a housing crisis here so her daughter was living at home). My grandma was a very easy-going person, but that day she felt a boiling rage inside, slammed the door in his face and immediately made sure afterwards to cancel her membership from said church forever. She was furious that he even dared to ask such a question and not be a bit more cautious about the subject at hand (especially because of the fact that it was known things were not going well for her daughter, pregnancy-wise).

The idea that there are people actively surprised he is a nasty person off-camera was also really disgusting. I mostly felt like "This is not coming from somewhere, this is not just someone pretending to be an awful person. If you are surprised now you clearly were under the impression that it's much better if someone is a blatant racist, misogynist and transphobe on camera, but that having that same behavior off-camera is the real crime..." I was mostly also really appalled about how "concerned" he is for the safety of his children which next to the fact he didn't care about the toxin he wanted his wife to handle is also pretty apparent from the fact that if it is his children, it's really important, but if it's other people's transchildren, they need to be taught a lesson (bomb threating a hospital that obviously doesn't treat just transchildren alone, threatening parents, teachers, doctors with jailtime and fines and removal from medical care by revoking the license of doctors and teachers). It's just so pathetic that his children deserve "safety", but no other child that does something or has parents that allow it to do something that does not align with his world view is allowed the same thing. Underneath some video's, I've previously (before this came to light) been trying to point out to people that someone who as the adult man he is is so venomously hating transchildren, stops being a bully, and is actively a monster. It turns out that could not be further from the truth. Again, not surprised, but I'm afraid there will be people defending him regardless...

@@Dutch3DMaster Right! Because the people that watch him are probably the same in their beliefs and harmful attitudes and don’t want to admit who they truly are themselves. Or they are in some serious denial and ignorance!! People will excuse things he says are jokes and not a big deal when really they are incredibly harmful and even applied in worse ways off camera, which you’re right…should be no surprise. He is absolutely not concerned with his own children which is apparent through his actions and frankly he is only concerned with his own ego and public image. He clearly doesn’t even view women and his own former wife as a real person, along with anyone who isn’t a cis white male like himself. What horrified me the most was his statement following the divorce where he summed up the situation as “him choosing wrong” the complete lack of awareness and accountability for his own wrong doing and shifting the blame to his ex wife that she was simply the wrong choice just shows how much of a disgusting narcissist he is. I guess the right choice for him would be someone who isn’t able to hold him accountable and is entirely submissive and removed from his horrible personality, character, and abuse. I feel awful for his children and frankly anyone he has abused throughout his life, as I’m sure it’s not exclusive to his former wife and kids. Absolutely revolting.

Apples to oranges comparison

Literary nobody says that

@@billymitchell655 except he's literally bitching about his fundie beliefs not mattering in a legal arena. Stfu

​@@billymitchell655 cap

There's room for both, enjoy your little treat being extra right

Actually it's because he only uses slurs from the 1880's ish, you have to extremely hateful to do this. Either purposefully taught or researched. Imagine the most hateful a person can be. Crowder is worse. Imagine a pre-American civil war slave baron, but they have to pretend to be a normal person today.

Those things and just using it to further degrade women and call them whorish for existing

Its probably what his father called women

Why did your mother stay? I could never

I wish my father would get help. I told both my parents in the calmest and most respectful way possible that everyone can benefit from therapy. But my father is too prideful to do it.

My mother stayed because he manipulated her and she didn’t know anything else. Divorce was never an option because me and my mother were deep in Christianity as a coping mechanism- the kind of Christianity that makes you see your struggles as necessary and even indicative of blessing from God for being strong enough.

@@justas3rv3r30 I'm sorry your mother was trapped in her marriage and religion.

Their marriage is happy now and my father is working hard being the husband he never was. While I am no longer religious, my mother still holds religious beliefs, though her exposure to my secularism and my father’s more secular religiosity moderates her vulnerability to the extremities of the environment she teaches in. (She is a teacher at my old Christian school.)

And yet she still stands by him even after everything. I wish she would wake up already, but I understand it's hard to when that's how she's been raised her whole life.

I'm afraid she was so calm because it happend to her loads of times :(

@@marloeslovestea You're probably not far from the truth. A part of me wants to ask her, you are clearly a better, mature person than he is, why do you put up with his venom and danger? And the answer is probably that damnable toxic religion holding people together through the pithy "for better or worse" claptrap.

She sounded afraid for her life.

Thank you so much!! :)

I was not ready to perceive

I chose celibacy as a non religious person and had to dump sooooo many friends because they outright bullied me for my choice. I'm now happily married for over 4 years. We are very happy and waited for sex so boo on those who bullied me to make THEIR choices and not my own

Not trying to judge but I don't even talk to my cat that way. It's her apartment she's just letting me stay here.

He doesn't love her just because she didn't want to give his dog medicine that could harm a developing baby or walk 2 large pit bulls. Dude should marry his dogs. 😂

@@kristinfrostlazerbeams He doesn't love his dogs either or he'd be the person insiting on giving them their medicine. He would want to be the one that knew they got it for sure. The dogs are just another possession to him just like she is. He doesn't see either of them as living things deserving of empathy because he's an abusive narcissistic piece of shit.

Hubs and I got together at 16. Married at 19. 41 years old now with two boys. We were told by almost everyone that we wouldn't last. I wish you many years of happiness! ❤

“Don’t blame the kids” -Man who almost certainly blames his own kids

No yeah I was like oh my gods finally he's admitting he's a little nevermind..... typical Steven being lame

Yeah :D He's completely disregarding women are people, so he picked the one that he thought would bring him the most status, doesn't have any real feelings, treats her like an accessory and abuses her and then is surprised she leaves. The audacity of this idiot 🤦‍♀

💯

He's scared he'll die alone. And it looks like he might 😌

like that alone is a valid reason to leave your partner

This got me thinking about men who complain about divorces and/or child support which tells me everything I need to know about them as a person. If you complain about those kind of things, then you’re just an immature brat who doesn’t want to take responsibility and face the consequences of your actions. These kind of men deserve everything that comes at them

@@starstorm1267 I agree… My father was one of them. After we ran away from him due to domestic violence, my mom had no way to prove that he earned a lot of money because he was getting paid cash. The judge assigned him the minimum child support which he rarely paid on time to punish my mom. When we began to communicate when I was older, he would tactlessly complain to me that these payments were a headache…All while he gave his new family everything.

Idk if the vid mentions it but the dog medicine is also very toxic to women that are pregnant and can harm unborn babies He would rather see his wife get very ill, miscarriage, her twins have health issues at birth, and anything else that could happen from it than just .. * checks notes * not being a literal asshole child mentally and just medicating his own pets himself

But yeah I agree he’s a total dick so who’s surprised he’s a horrible husband and I’m surprised she even let him plan to have kids when he can’t even raise an animal, if you can’t take care of houseplants or a pet Steven why should we believe you can take care of and nurture a growing human being? smh

@@Bootystank99659 it’s so easy to act out masculinity by being aggressive and overly sexual, but it’s equally masculine to be chivalrous and selfless. It’s just not as much fun so it’s less popular.

Oh no no, HE wants something from the grocery store (grilling stuff), but she hasn't done the dangerous chores, so he's making sure she knows that she doesn't get the PRIVILEGE of going to the grocery store FOR him. She has to earn the right to do anything and prove she loves him through mounting impossible, dangerous or unpleasant tasks. In his head, of course. 🤢 She handled the situation like a pro, and I'm so glad, like me, she's out safely. I always knew he was a piece of shit, but I used to have a higher tolerance, obviously.

When I was in my 20s I had an old friend from my childhood church mention out of no where that he and his fiancee were waiting for marriage. I made a totally crazy face and laughed nervously. Because that's really strange information to share without prompting. I'm sure it was something like that, not that people were laughing at the principles themselves.

He probably did that as another power move, well well well how the tables have turned

All his type does this: women bad, men GENUINE & HAVE ALL RIGHTS. Delilusional. Biased. Ego-inflated. Gox-complex. Blind. Double standard. ILOGICAL. OVERREACTING. This type is so gross...

To whoever commented just to let you know no one can see your comment good job.

I think that invisible commenter deserves a medal for their unsung valor 🎖

​@@chaosvii or they said something stupid

It's called misogyny, they always blame women solely for when things for wrong. Women are suddenly responsible now and have autonomy but when it comes to choices and marriage, women are men's servants. They pick and choose.

Thank you so much ♥️

I love the bumper they made out of his words, “Oh my god, it’s Sam Seder, what a fucking nightmare!”

Sam Seder got AIDS 🤷

He is a hypocrite, though. He's told blatant lies about his wife. Claimed he would never bad mouth her.

This is the takeaway to have, IMO. Like, people like it when he preaches those values, but seeing them in practice on that video looks pretty fuckin bad, doesn't it? That is logically and ideologically consistent with his stated worldview and values.

@@CJMGalaxy no its not. "I will never badmouth my wife" "I don't love you" "watch it (or ill fuck you up)" This is hypocritical. He abused his wife while swearing hed never.

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I think you're right.

Nah, unlikely. Christian culture made him wait. But, yes, he might be bitter about it.