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@shmankersox9 жыл бұрын
4:44-4:49 there's an editing mistake. Loops back to earlier in the video. Great material though, thank you for your work!
@maxwillson9 жыл бұрын
That's funny! My older brother is extremely social and if he sees me with my hands in my pocket he will walk over and pull my hands out of my pocket because it's too awkward for him. Now when I think about it, I don't think I've ever seen him with his hands in his pocket.
@mundaneamazing10 жыл бұрын
These videos have been really helpful. I read an entire Body Language book, but the few videos I've watched of you on this show very well confronted the social issues I have.
@nickhughes70436 жыл бұрын
I'm a truth wizard, study me! no really though I think it has to do with me being highly sensitive. thanks for all the great vids.
@bvrasel30404 жыл бұрын
I never feel bored by watching venessa video
@dihan72178 жыл бұрын
someone is seting the source video back in the middle... please repair it. Content is very good, as always and fun to watch.
@oslokru197210 жыл бұрын
Really interesting video. Thanks for posting it. The guy (host) got on my nerves. He was trying to be funny but ended up being silly. I'm really glad I found you on KZfaq today. :-) :-)
@urbanninja43309 жыл бұрын
Theres a glitch in the Matrix :|
@user-xy7tj8yx1u5 жыл бұрын
image good
@saurabhaggarwal19504 жыл бұрын
Loved the conversation, :-) Truth wizards, hahaha...
@nickcampanella49649 жыл бұрын
Great stuff Vanessa I always liked your stuff
@Airplane_boy3126 ай бұрын
No body gonna talk about how beautiful this woman looks? Truly a person to socialize with
@stephenmcfarling10839 жыл бұрын
This video is pretty awesome, it's thought provoking
@lilabukvic69163 жыл бұрын
There is no other just reflektion of oneself.
@Silirion7 жыл бұрын
Thanks Vanessa! This is great!
@blisswkc33446 жыл бұрын
Thank You sooo much dearest sweeties 💐🙏🏼 You’re such an inspiration ❣️ Stay Blissful Eternally 😇🕉💖
@fraizie6815 Жыл бұрын
"Science of people" and this thumbnail. I would run away if someone 'smiled' at me like this, thinking they're a lunatic.
@evianmason16306 жыл бұрын
Vanessa is A Good mentor
@curtisfoster42565 жыл бұрын
Queen Midas does it again. 👑
@Huonous8 жыл бұрын
When you pause a video and someone seems to have a totally different facial expression, is that (even sometimes) a micro expression, or something else? :D
@chrishall64710 жыл бұрын
Hey Vanessa, I love your videos, I've been interested in body language, NLP, evolutionary and behavioral psychology for a while. I'm confused though, in another video, you said that men often put their hands, or fingers sans thumbs, in their pockets to show attraction and convey confidence. In this video, it seems like you said the opposite. Is this based on the situation or environment? Also, I always thought that Ekman's micro expressions referred to subtle involuntary facial expressions that only last for about 1/32nd of a second. Like when the person's internal feelings or thoughts are inconsistent with the words they are saying. Thanks, - Chris
@jopsamp9 жыл бұрын
she said man put their hands in the pocket and leave their thumbs out
@PilotVolunteer2 жыл бұрын
Super. Thank you
@nataliareis10067 жыл бұрын
Vanessa you are amazing. I love your videos amazing content .
@rickyv14396 жыл бұрын
Did he say Vanessa van patten?
@ichbinlieb712510 жыл бұрын
why is it repeated? I would have prefered it to go straight through.
@TheLoneComic9 жыл бұрын
How easily we forget the original meaning of putting your hands in your pockets was to non verbally communicate to the women in the room (if you are a man) that you are not here 'to put your hands' on any women. So, a man would put his hands in his pockets to socially intercommunicate to the entire room in the old days, "I'm keeping my hands off." It had nothing to do with meekness and everything to do with forestalling misconceptions about his intentions during social interactions in that new room of social creatures which contains usually about half full of women. An alpha male would back then almost always put his hands in his pocket when entering a room with more than two women to serve the 'husband shoppers' early notice of the boundary being established he is there for socializing and not significant relationship searching activity - something women are almost never not doing.
@wallyschroeder6157 жыл бұрын
You know what I'm doing now? I'm scratching my head and wondering-wtf is going on with this video? lol It keeps repeating
@SlNlST3R6 жыл бұрын
Great info I watched it twice!
@hakithemonkey2 жыл бұрын
"Don't slap people in the face" If only the brother Will Smith saw this video 🥺
@teriday9544 жыл бұрын
The trick is to avoid people as much as you possibly can, then avoid them some more.
@go-goakins14896 жыл бұрын
Vanessa is intelligent beautiful and funny
@vernaharris47002 жыл бұрын
I agree with you. She seems very likeable.😊
@REBELMISFIT9 жыл бұрын
Wow the automatic close captions is wild lol
@ashay766 жыл бұрын
I love Vanessa. Anytime the guy is in videos he is annoying. Very disrespectful to Vanessa and the other lady. Always interrupts and has to be the center of attention and loud.
@pradelelien32672 жыл бұрын
Dear!!😍
@kevinalmiron86935 жыл бұрын
How many times did you go to this same program? Its about 90 percent of your videos
@phyllislogie5 жыл бұрын
This video repeats itself halfway through.
@amelmatt56414 жыл бұрын
Venessa: smart, cute, knowledgeable in human relations. Interviewers: annoying af and painful to listen to.
@ericalexanderson34422 жыл бұрын
ty for reminding me to stay away from crying drunks lol!
@concepcionladion64818 жыл бұрын
thank you.
@imjihan13199 жыл бұрын
U are awesome
@exellentedecorations94546 жыл бұрын
True video
@pradelelien18585 жыл бұрын
Where are from originally?
@caatabatic2 жыл бұрын
my secfet so that SO's think I am faithful is to be faithful.
@mrbigbear075 жыл бұрын
You remind me of my friend Carrie RIP
@alcudiababe16 жыл бұрын
I found if you constantly talk with your hands it defeats the object of what you are trying to say because people are more focused on what you are doing with your hands, rather than the message you are trying to convey
@CB-bl8sp6 жыл бұрын
Did he say van patten?
@shellducker70783 жыл бұрын
Some guys put hands in pockets near their groin as a prowess to direct attention there as well.
@Rosannasfriend6 жыл бұрын
stop the video at about 5:15. It repeats everything from there.
@BeOutstanding4 жыл бұрын
Great Content Thank You Vanessa Hand is the window Pra Open bod Smi fully
@imjihan13199 жыл бұрын
I love u venesa
@nascentnaomie3 жыл бұрын
✨📝📝
@analozada94759 жыл бұрын
Your comment said it all... Is not a "small box" it is reality and reality hurts. You probably love that show and that's why you are crying about cuz I hurt your ego. Lol
@grapiken776610 жыл бұрын
The video is doubled over.
@brucewayne29555 жыл бұрын
Deja vu
@natalieernst79489 жыл бұрын
Can I comment
@rabiul9106 жыл бұрын
What does it mean about your sitting position,you collapsed your legs entire video
@Gogoma685 жыл бұрын
You’ll be Natural when u born again.
@JoaquinKamaBeltran8 жыл бұрын
🤔
@Himesua7 жыл бұрын
truth wizards.... you mean empaths???
@Adilharp8 жыл бұрын
she might be good with reading facial expression but really bad at imitating them
@mjs28s8 жыл бұрын
+Adil Sami it is hard to imitate a micro expression. Those happen in 1/10 of a second and are natural. Faking them is pretty tough when they normally occur subconsciously.
@vickeyindian10637 жыл бұрын
how to know if a girl likes you
@mutegabriel48126 жыл бұрын
😹😹😹
@suziestar77787 жыл бұрын
why dont you just call every one of these podcasts...con!!! con!!!! con!!!!
@ContactSusTee6 жыл бұрын
Man host is annoyingly loud and interrupts too much. He should listen to your advice instead of talk over it.
@daviddeharty26568 жыл бұрын
deaf community
@analozada94759 жыл бұрын
The fact that she watches the "Bachelor" made me doubt her credibility. A truly deep, smart person wouldn't b able to watch such a moronic show unless they do it for scientific research.
@billfill48079 жыл бұрын
agree... I'm just watching this because I get off on how stupid some people are.....
@analozada94759 жыл бұрын
lmao
@nicholasrumiansev73749 жыл бұрын
I disagree. It's a popular show (which can give you all sorts of insight into other people as well as your own guilty pleasures) and it's about relationships developing and all the body language that goes with it. How much of it is acting? How much is real? Can she guess who is going to hook up before it happens based on body language? What is it that they say or do to create attraction? Can she guess who he'll pick? Actually, I wrote all that before seeing the part of the video where The Bachelor is mentioned and sure enough that's exactly what she does. Seems like a pretty smart way to watch a show like that. Besides, from watching several of her videos and reading a handful of articles she seems plenty intelligent to me so I think you're only discrediting yourself for jumping to such a conclusion based on the fact that she watches a particular TV show. After all, are you going to pretend that all the TV shows you watch are high-minded and enlightening? Do you watch sports? Do you watch violent action movies? C'mon.
@teresalynnhasan-kerr93739 жыл бұрын
Ana Lozada I don't think she claimed to be truly deep. Also a truly deep, smart person wouldn't put others into such a small box.
@amandamorse6948 жыл бұрын
+bill fill That's nasty. You get off on that? That's stupid.