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Real Families: Navigating Toddler Behaviors | House of Tiny Terrors

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5 жыл бұрын

It’s the third day in the house of tiny terrors and today focus is on behaviour training and a lot of work with the parents.
Children - and parents - learning the right way to do things.
The House of Tiny Terrors is a real house that doubles up as a clinic for three very different families with toddlers aged one to five years old. Each of the families is affected by a parenting problem; it could be sleeping, eating or bad behaviour. The house is rigged with cameras and over the course of the week, the families are monitored 24/7 by a presenter and child psychologist. Once problems have been witnessed, our expert gets to work - coaching the parents on how to interact with their child using ‘ear bug’ techniques and providing games, stunts and role-play exercises to help the families look at their issues in new ways. One week later we visit them back home to see if their lives have changed for the better.
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@44ronie 5 жыл бұрын

It seems like the twins dad has checked out as a supportive husband and a father.....I think he's always aware of the cameras and tries to look better than he really is....

@jaybee1248 5 жыл бұрын

veronica beck yessss exactly

@believeinyourself8895 5 жыл бұрын

I'm happy to know that there are people to help. Sometimes parenting isn't easy. So thank you to all professionals out there for being there😁

@vandythevandy 5 жыл бұрын

I wish Jo Frost was doing this show, she’s so clear and easy to understand and the kids love her too :(

@eb7446 4 жыл бұрын

Jo is a highly trained nanny, but Tanya is a psychologist so she does come from a more complex point of view. Tanya knows what she is doing, but she is an analyzer of behaviour more than Jo is.

@SweetDreams706 5 жыл бұрын

Jessica Miranda is much too dramatic......everything is a huge deal. She's loud, irritable, resentful, & somewhat immature. Her behavior is giving me a knot in my stomach, so I can just imagine how those kids feel; no wonder they are so unhappy. For example, her reaction to the paints...ridiculously stressful. She needs to take it down a few notches...& hey, deal with it privately if you have an issue with your husband...don't sit there throwing out sarcastic comments to strangers for sympathy! And if she can't cope with 2 children, then take a parenting class, it's not rocket science. IMO she's making everyone miserable with her bossy, controlling, grumpy self. JMHO

@azadalamiq 5 жыл бұрын

tbh it makes it seem like she blames him for getting her pregnant. She takes a jab at him every moment she can regardless if its in front of their kids or strangers. she has control issues.

@SweetDreams706 5 жыл бұрын

Azura Moonstar I so agree about the control issues. Based on what's been shown, I'm willing to bet she wants things done her way only & her husband's eventual reaction was to simply back off & leave most of the parenting in her hands, which has festered into her resentment toward him. Also ftr, I couldn't help but notice that when she's "busted", she giggles & makes excuses....however, when he neglects to do something according to her standard, he's either glared at or hollered at, with no regard for who's watching & listening (mainly the children). IMO she is the #1 problem.

@Investigativebean 5 жыл бұрын

Right? You would think that she wiped acid in her eyes and mouth. It’s non toxic paint.

@miarrem 5 жыл бұрын

I think the dad is full of himself and doesn't support his wife

@Investigativebean 5 жыл бұрын

I think dad is tired of his parental authority being undermined at every turn, and in front of the children. If mom wants things done in particular ways, then she should at the very least talk about it in private so her expectations are known. I don’t know why we expect our spouses to be mind readers. They need to have a united front. Even if she disagrees with something he says, she should back him up in the moment then discuss it later.

@culebralor7493 5 жыл бұрын

I have never understood WHY people use Go to your room, or put them in their bed for punishment! Then at night, the kid doesn't want to be there! I wonder why?? maybe associating the bed/bedroom with punishment???

@MmmKayHuuNay 5 жыл бұрын

I don't think it's that deep.

@Lieveheersbeestje1010 5 жыл бұрын

@@MmmKayHuuNay Me neither . It's a really effective punnishment ! 👍👍

@janeofalltrades235 5 жыл бұрын

If the child is looking for attention, presents bad behavior for attention, then the parent must disconnect the child as a form of punishment.... So whether there is or isn't toys in the room, the child doesn't want to be away from their parents attention. So they associate being bad means I spend time away from mom and dad...... If the child actually is playing with toys in their room then it's a different problem......

@coypu2005 5 жыл бұрын

I think part of it is that the parents don't want to be around the kids, and need some adult free time. Makes sense. Kids can be extremely irritating.

@jlnioannou 5 жыл бұрын

Exactly! That's why Supernanny uses the 'naughty chair'.

@annierotberg8861 5 жыл бұрын

she said after justin cleaned up he could play outside, he did that beautifully...but then now he cant go outside he has to change his shirt. that sucks....lol they lied.

@justincarlomusto 5 жыл бұрын

Hi lol

@seeniebear3234 3 жыл бұрын

True,they should not have done that bcuz he will never believe them

@Lieveheersbeestje1010 5 жыл бұрын

I'd Just love to see the whole 6 day stay in this particular series ... And more of course ! Could you please upload them ? Not just for me , but for thousands of other families who have similar problems with their children ? This is so helpful ! As we can apply those techniques at home with our own todlers ! Thank you so much in advance , Love , Herma 👍👍⚘⚘⚘

@andtruthisnotforeveryone3021 5 жыл бұрын

If I was a child and had such incompetent parents I would also be screaming every single moment of my life.

@IONAPINKMOXIE 4 жыл бұрын

Ouch! They're trying, at least they recognize they have a problem and they've asked for help

@GoriBeringeifan332 5 жыл бұрын

The woman with the twins wants to keep the kids from developing because she's on an ego trip. She should address her narcissism before her poor husband gives up and goes to find someone who's not an egomaniacal control freak.

@crazywomanpress 9 ай бұрын

Give her a break she's a first time mum with twins and a hubby that works all day she obviously has anxiety

@brandyb2931 5 жыл бұрын

Jaggers mother needs to put the fear of God in that kid. When she fusses at him she doesn't even look angry. She needs to show him she means business. Jessica Miranda needs to let her kids just be kids. Her reaction to the paint was ridiculous and she says they aren't mature enough to paint, well I wonder why, she wouldn't even let them feed themselves when they got there.

@yooneeque1 5 жыл бұрын

It seemed like the Carlemustos (sp?) were giving Justin spur-of-the-moment directions, which can be a bit abrupt for children. I've found that it's often more effective when children know what's to come - i.e. let him play outside for a few more minutes, then say "in a few minutes - or after three more turns on the slide - we're going inside to pick up the toys and change our clothes."

@justincarlomusto 5 жыл бұрын

*Carlomusto

@ophiecat 5 жыл бұрын

I hate that Renee named her son Jagger.

@Sam-hp5nt 5 жыл бұрын

i really really feel bad for little gia )))):

@believeinyourself8895 5 жыл бұрын

It sure helps with two encouraging parents it's them that need this from the parents

@ashley2680 4 жыл бұрын

I seen the Miranda family doing that blowing exercise and I would’ve loved playing that harmonica. I love musical instruments

@leanyland8933 5 жыл бұрын

I think that that therapist is missing the part where the mom cannot show anger in the moment because of course a little boy is going to scream and cry when they think their mommy is angry at them

@ladonnarogers5297 5 жыл бұрын

The parents with the twins and even Tanya and I don't know if maybe they didn't off camera or not but they didn't give the little girl any praise or anything and she was being really good most of the time!!

@einaskbadri2262 5 жыл бұрын

Thaw background music is unsuitable to a tense video like this Narrator, the family and music all at the same time is too much.

@SolEmeralds18 5 жыл бұрын

It's the same in the British version, but I think it's because of the ownership of these episodes before it's edited for tv

@Twdsuperfan2010 5 жыл бұрын

At 7:15 Dantes like "wtf jagger." Lol

@RhondaB4thesong 5 жыл бұрын

@19:13 ...that face, hahahaha da F wrong with you, Mommm!

@5cats2kids8 5 жыл бұрын

I really feel bad for the single mom, not because she’s single, but because of the rage in her son. I wonder how much is innate? I know she’s contributed, but, he has rage, the other kids are just angry and having tantrums, which the parents are going to learn (hopefully) how to deal with. I think Jagger needs more help than just this.

@katrinaleebaldwin4660 5 жыл бұрын

It's how he was raised. He has no more rage than any other kids who are raised without boundaries and limitations. He gets rewarded for that bad behavior so he continues. Does it escalates..yes and she rewards him with giving in and letting him get away with it. The easy thing it to label him as a bad child when if fact what they should be doing is labeling the parent. All children are little sociopaths to some extent and it is up to the parent to teach them what empathy and how to consider others more or at the very least at much as themselves.

@dbentleyto95 3 жыл бұрын

And she gets it on this episode that if she had started sooner it would not be a o difficult now.

@hewkoj 5 жыл бұрын

Does the shrinkette's assistant have clothes other than a trench coat?

@faith6147 5 жыл бұрын

How often is the new one loaded

@Investigativebean 5 жыл бұрын

Jagger is gonna get worse before he gets better. He isn’t accustomed to mom being firm with him. I still believe the atmosphere of the house is too busy for relearning behavior, and correcting poor behavior. It’s like sensory overload.

@lessehead 5 жыл бұрын

kathaleen jackson As an elementary teacher, this is why the open classroom concept of the 60’s and 70’s was such a failure. Five classrooms in one big room...sensory overload to the max.

@Investigativebean 5 жыл бұрын

Cherry Tree The decor too is just so busy. There are giant gummy bear statues that light up and whatnot. It’s like expecting your child to change bad habits while working on this in a theme park or play ground lol.

@believeinyourself8895 5 жыл бұрын

What was it like for both parents when they both grew up. What was it like for each of them?

@azadalamiq 5 жыл бұрын

tbh the part of 24:15-24:19 the mom instigated the reaction, she plays rough with him he don't like it and hits to get away. And due to the rough play he plays rough with other kids and then told no.

@dbentleyto95 3 жыл бұрын

A very good point...no means no and he was saying no

@ashley2680 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah I would love to play with the harmonica. Musical instrument

@user-hi5hl6ys2m 5 жыл бұрын

im a mid size terror seeing as I wanted to throw a chair at everyone because we had to work in groups at school

@ashley2680 4 жыл бұрын

So Jessica need to calm down when Dia got something in her eyes

@bdizzle5359 3 жыл бұрын

I swear that one mom/wife needs to pick her battles. I wonder if they're still married?

@myhappyspace4533 5 жыл бұрын

Will drive any child nuts if he is held like this

@myhappyspace4533 5 жыл бұрын

I personally think Jaggar's mum is distant

@LW-ep6pq 5 жыл бұрын

We need Jo Frost for this show!! A naughty spot, not their bed! Then punshment is bedtime?? All this lady talks about is confusion, ummmmm...sure.

@AK-qj7pg 4 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@carlmurray5526 4 жыл бұрын

You're Right L.W

@cherchuhaikieu4328 4 жыл бұрын

Yeah we need Super Nanny!

@Cupplestventertainment 4 жыл бұрын

Renne is a bit agressive shouting at jagar that's herific

@Scemzy 5 жыл бұрын

Mad lad

@impracticalsewing7071 5 жыл бұрын

Why doesn't Gia talk but Dante does? I thought they were twins. She seems younger than Dante.

@marybelle3516 5 жыл бұрын

Because she can’t get a word in edgewise.

@jenlfpotter3870 Жыл бұрын

Change shirt, wash hands... then go outside to play again? That will mean Justin might get the clean shirt dirty, so why couldn't he be left in the dirty shirt when he was playing outside anyway? That doesn't make sense.

@greatdanelegend7001 5 жыл бұрын

Is House of Tiny Terrors the same as House of Tiny Tearaways?

@diannedare8798 5 жыл бұрын

Yes I think so...this one is in the US and Tearways was in UK

@greatdanelegend7001 5 жыл бұрын

@@diannedare8798 thanks

@justincarlomusto 5 жыл бұрын

yes it is.

@chainunchained3221 5 жыл бұрын

I don't agree with that 'modified' time out. The last thing you do with a defiant, physical child is restrain them like that. You remove them from the situation to a quiet place so that they can learn how to calm down. And I speak from experience with my younger brother who has bipolar and ADHD.

@sarahgleason2502 5 жыл бұрын

Dont these so called child experts know you should never never hold a child down for timeout that's just gonna scare the heck out of them not teach them a lesson.

@IONAPINKMOXIE 4 жыл бұрын

This is addictive

@homeschoolmum45 4 жыл бұрын

I don’t get why the toy the jagger has is blurred.

@M.B.ChalliesNZ 3 жыл бұрын

Maker won’t allow their merc to be shown