Indian education system needs to be revise and improved its high time we need that !

I left Kota like 2 months ago due to self harm. As someone who can be considered a bit privileged I can't imagine the situation of students who come from a background of financial hardships or even someone with strict parents. For me my parents were my biggest supporters and they later encouraged me to follow my passion and move towards the field of law. Now I'm in a different city preparing for CLAT and other law entrance exams. I am going to have a gap year in my record but I don't regret it at all.

Recently I have been getting suicidal thoughts and here are the main reasons- 1.Toxic parents 2. No one to cheer or support 3. No friends (have some friends but they only use me for their work not close ) 4. Concentration is fked up 5. Fear that I can't do it and will probably fail 6. No internal satisfaction And really fear to die so yeah 👍

I was forced to drop 2 yrs for neet. I dont know what did I learn from those so called institutes but in these yrs I learned how to tackle depression, anxiety and suicidal thoughts. People say think of your parents before taking wrong steps and they forget that unintentionally parents and loved ones are one of the biggest reason to the disastrous decision. Not demotivating anyone but aspirants need to talk to failures rather than glorified achievers. All the best to all those who are going for competitive exams.

Being a student of kota and Neet aspirant I can agree all points of Harsh Bhai 👍

Bhaiya i am in kota right now i scored 94% in 12th and scored well in first 2 test in kota but at 3rd test i scored very low due to sickness at that day a teacher insulted me alot in front of whole batch of 300 students from that day i am very depressed and stressed you got our point and i am proudly saying i will do something big and one day i will return back to that coaching and tell them iit jee is not everything

I remember people calling me DR . SAHAB even before I cleared neet , I can't share how traumatizing it was

As a local of Kota I can totally agree with you....coaching institutes are everywhere...the environment is so unhealthy that even if someone tries to stay positive they can't.....that situation is just so depressing ...

हमारे यहां लोग टैलेंट की इज्जत नहीं करते इसीलिए हमारे देश में अधिकतर लोग iit, neet, sarkari naukari के पीछे भाग रहे हैं

One Reason for Sucide in kota is Financial factor because it costs around 1.5 lakh in coaching and 1.5 lakh in hostel and If a student doesn't get selected he has guilt that he/she wasted the hard earned money of parents and That led them to wrong way 😔 Government should regulate the Hostel/Coaching as they pressure the student If they are late for fees submission

Did my masters from IIT and I can guarantee that most of the suicides in IIT do not not even come to the media. Also, the way some professors behave is astonishing too. From calling the students illegitimate child to sexually harassing students, everything happens in IIT. Just want to say, the grass always looks greener from the other side. Do not fall for the trap of IIT is the best Institute. This Institute is a brand and makes the students (who survive) handle any situation. 😄

There have been instantances where I felt being side lines like 1. There was one teacher who said after four mock test I will make u sit according to ur marks like the first bench for toppers and last bench for student who didn't perform well 2. Our chemistry teacher only asked questions to the toppers and motivated them ...but what about students who are not good in chemistry ? They just sit quit with their eyes on the table not feeling confident ....and if an average student asks a question to the teacher before the answer There would always be insult in some or the other way 3. Telling the toppers which extra books they should buy and providing them with extra questions and pervious years questions.....but when a n average student asks which extra book should they go for ?the teacher would reply as "aap pehle ncert complete karloo" I was in Aakash for 3 years and now I can say those 3 years were the worst years of my life.....nothing in my life has demotivated me to this level There was a point in my life when I wanted to tell my parents that I don't want to got the institute but one thing that held me back from it was that if my brother can do it then why can I? Towards the end I got a lot of suicidal thoughts I would cry everynight thinking I am such a disgrace to my family I was jealous of my real brother...I use to hate when he use to come to our house during his vacations....I always felt detached from my own family members....but I didn't gave up and scored good marks in neet...even though I am not in my dream college but somewhere I am happy and confident now....to all those student who are appearing for any competitive exam I just have one advice that don't let go ur social life and don't let anyone make u feel inferior ....u are ur best version

I did my JEE advanced prep from Kota this year. Although I cleared JEE advanced but I did not get an IIT because I had 74.8% in boards, 🤡🤡

In India everyone wants naukri but nobody wants to learn the subjects completely, most of the students lack the practical knowledge and skills. The students are treated like a product not human beings

When you are from General category and from state like UP , Bihar and Rajasthan and cutoff skyrocketing to 613 / 720 in NEET UG , Private Medical college ask around 1Cr which is not possible for all . Govt of India should focus on reducing this fees .

Not just Kota students, even non Kota students suffer from depression and suicidal thoughts. I myself was a JEE aspirant(not from Kota) and I can confirm this.

Education system ki to lagi padi hai....but fir bi parents ka support bhot important hai.... Proud to have such parents ❤

When children are in high school, Counseling of parents should be made by management of school and teachers on one to one basis after assessing capability of students and educating parents on strengths and interests of children

to all aspirants lemme tell u I cleared JEE advanced with 7k rank and mains with approx same rank. currently I am pursuing Btech in IT from IIIT Gwalior. after spending 2 years here, I can tell u one thing , after some years it doesnt depends where u studied. I know many people from pvt clg who are doing way better than us and also some IITians and IIITians that ruined their life on drugs and smoking. SO in long term it doesnt matters whether u study in IIT/NIT/IIIT, but what matters is the hardwork u are doing in these 2 years, if u maintained this hardwork even after jee, believe me there is no limit to your success..

It's not just Kota, I went to study for jee at a very known institute of a city, studied in the top batch but the pressure given by the institute was insane, they will make you do anything for top AIRs, they pretend they care about students but they also give 100% to destroy student's mental health, they tell you to attend every lecture even if you are so sick to get out of the bed.

this video was too fine ,but as a jee aspirant i can confirm teachers are not just teachers they treat us like mentors , shout out to nkc , vj, skm, ag , alakh, gb, pankaj sir

11:26 onwards - Every student should listen this, no matter for which competitive exam you are preparing for. The words might sound harsh, but are definitely true. Listen to your gut instinct. If you having feelings like this course is not apt for me or I might be not able to do that good in it, then just drop it please. Don't think about money invested in it, money can be earned anytime but life is earned once. If you are having suicidal thoughts because of no matter what, go to a person and talk. It helps a lot. Ending your precious life is not a solution, you are not a failure or waste, you are just at a wrong place.

School is old school ~HARSH

It's not only about JEE and NEET students but it's a student problem as a whole. Students of master, PhD , medical CA, UPSC, NET , GATE, govt exam, students who are passed out and are unemployed everyone is facing this problem and it should be fixed as soon as possible

The bitter truth is lack of seats in instituitions, and difficulty level in jee advanced increses every year due to which mostly candidates join coaching instituite from 9th standard and strats preparation for 4 years till 12th standard, and one this Difficulty in exams is directly proportional to money earning by coaching instuites. And some corruotion also main cause behind studend suicide.

जब हम लोग स्कूल में थे वो समय बहुत बढ़िया था अब तो स्कूल एक धंधा बन चुका है 😢 शुक्र है कि अब हम स्कूल में नहीं है लेकिन हमारी आने वाली पीढ़ी की ही चिंता रहती है 😢

Bro, you doing a great job. You educating the youth in a perfect manner, not this specific video, all the videos. The way you structure the video, while backing it up with reliable studies is amazing. Goodluck👏🏾

Yes true now I am in kota and I feel this Reason : Backlog Parents pressure Mess harmful food Kota water High price of things High price acompudation Can't miss a single class Can't live like normal day .....and leads to high depression and anxiety but kota aaker maine rehna sekh lya and now I am a strong girl

2021 = 16 lakh students 2022 = 18 lakh 2023 = 21 lakh so what is the numbers in 2024 and seats are only 1 - 1.5 lakh so what 19.5 lakh students will do I think government should make population control law first

I was in Kota last year in 4th phase of PW , nd one year dropper and new student for jee unfortunately I got only 7 months for both attempts and didn't able to crack my jee exam and got only 88.7 percentile I really suffered a lot there due to unavailability of teachers due to which I did prepare by my self using online and I am middle class really going through a lot and from last three months taking pills to comfert my self and now going to some private college. Home some day my days will be good in sha allah and I will overcome my depression and will do good in my lyf , due to money reasons I can't drop more .

I can confirm that that when I got 80k rank in jee mains so got very depressed and didn't study for 1month and then got 23k rank in advance In short Never Give Up.

I remember when my father said beta I wish you best of luck for your future but when you feel like to leave your job you can leave we are not forcing you" I was so relieved to know that if someday I want to leave I can because of my parents and family 😊 ❤️

A lot of people think ki Kota bhej denge to selection ho jaega, but Aisa Bilkul Bhi nhi hai. Hostels, specially in Kota just adds unnecessary pressure on students. Preparing at home Is way better than going Kota.

As a experienced ex neet aspirants believe me neet is not everything I realised this thing only this year just live for your loved ones not for neet ❤😊

each and every word said by him is accurate and on point, this video was much needed ! and this is coming from a guy who left his corporate career to pursue youtube, he is happy and as he said, success comes with patience. If he wouldn't have moved on from his low academic marks, we wouldn't have been able to see this side of harsh, and it takes alot of guts to leave a job for yt, so im proud of him and he himself is an example! so dont worry, life will give u many opportunities...life doesn't revolved around a single exam..keep going, there's a lot still left.

2 years Ago I was suffering but my parents and one old teacher was highly supportive towards me . I am pursuing B.Pharm From Dehradun but have learned so much that even being a doctor could not have done.

Being an engineering student from tier 3 college who couldn't clear iit, I can surely say that whether you crack IIT or not ultimately your hard work and passion towards a certain field will make you successful and I mean it... Engineering sab same hai uske baad kya karoge wo socho 😊

As an aspirant, I've been facing all this currently! I completely agree with your every single point. LITERALLY EVERY POINT🙂. All this is very heartbreaking 💔🙃 no one will ever understand this unless they've been actually to this phase Don't know when all these judgments will stop

It's not only done in India It's also done in Nepal and other neighbors country on India. I'm from Nepal & Buaa's is from Delhi and her son is an IITina. when ever she call to my dad she use to tell about her son a lot only. she tells after bachelor my son is going to get 20 lakh package, 1 cr package blaa blaa blaa. My family pressure me to visit kota for Jee preparation and see I'm now in kota doing preparation of Jee. Even I'm interested in Science but due to family pressure I'm here. I don't know what next happens to me in my future but I'm sure I'm not going to do suicide at any cost.

My parents always wanted me to become a doctor but after my one refusal they never forced me ever again. I am pursuing CA now .

Everyone has talent in different fields, and people should start to respect all fields, being a doctor or an engineer is not the only way to succeed in life.

Financial burden killed me , I am no more of my older version, totally devastated 💔

Very true. I am an engineer but working as a freelance data scientist. Even though I am earning 3 times of an engineer in Google but still facing challenges in marriage because that's how society thinks. They think of getting into a good college and then a secure job. But economy has grown so much that even gig workers like me get immense work opportunities.

Well done Harsh this reality check was very much needed ... I cleared neet this year and now I can say that coaching centres are the biggest reason for parents high expectation.... They glorify their teaching but in reality they are just expanding their business These institutes make the child feel like there is nothing more important than exams ....I was in Aakash jalandhar branch and few teachers were so demotivating especially to student who were average ...they just focus on their top students and give their best facilities to the toppers only but what about students who are average ? Don't they have right for improvement or the same facilities ......

Thanks for this video. society itself is the problem. over expectations from child is very toxic, let child's live their life and let them choose their desired career and help them choosing it not forcing

Truly said.... "Hum kota se nikl jaate hain lekin kota hmse nhi niklta" ...... 4 saal ho gye but aaj bhi uska affect life pr h....

I would never say its a motivational video but close to eye opening.Parents should go through this video. They need reality check.

Kota was so depressing for me , you have to face the pressure of parents and also of teachers if you failed to score good marks in test . Teacher's mainly focus on the topper student who can get them rank and demotivate other student. Finally feeling relief after leaving kota .

Challenges and hardships are part of life , they either break you so bad you can't recover, or mold you so strong you can never be broken .

Problem isnt education system its just too much competition and population

I am a 12th grade students and can really relate to all these problems, It was really helpful bro Thanku

Being a student of Kota I can tell you, please go to Kota only if you want. Don't go to Kota by taking pressure of parents. I myself told my parents to go to Kota, I was not told by anyone and now I am in IIIT Kancheepuram

2:44 I confirm. Neet Matlab Chemistry aur bio ki pura books Ratt lo...if you thoroughly memorize each and every sentence aapke 540 marks assured hai.80%theoretical questions. JEE Is different.Very less theoretical questions,more about application.The more you know concepts and it's application,the more you score.

Government ko Baaki "Government Colleges" Ki level sudharne ki bhi jarurat hai . Agar India mai Saare Colleges ka Curriculum High class hai , Campus IIT's level ka hai toh kon ki Faltu mai IIT's ke peeche suicide krega. IIT's ko hi glorify krne se hi suicides hote hai IIT's sirf 17k seats provide krti hai .Usse kai guna jyada Government College ki seats vacant jaati .Uski Quality mai sudhar krna chahiye usse competition bhi kaaphi kmm hongi aur Job opportunities jyada honge

11:38 Is Too Relatable ❤ I Got Good Marks In IIT And AIEEE Entrances After My 12th But I Thought To Improve My Marks In Next Attempt After Coaching Which Got Worse Yes Peer Pressure Is The Main Stress To A Student's Mind

Being a student living in Kota I can confirm it eveyrthing here is messed up everyone just cares about money be it hostel owner or coaching ...

I am in kota previous year preparing for neet. Mai kota gaya tha apna sapne leke kii KGMU jaunga agli saal aur mai iss saal KGMU jaa bhi raha hu lekin admission lene nhi balki har mahine apne headache kii medicine lene joo mujhe kota me mila hai. I SUGGEST EVERY PARENTS TO DON'T SEND THEIR CHILDREN'S TO KOTA FOR ANY PREPARATION OR THEY LOST THEIR CHILDREN PHYSICALLY OR MENTALLY.

Just wanna guide my junior prep for jee .....Take competition in healthy way , it short term stress......AFTER CLEARING ADV , IIT WILL RETURN U IN 2 MONTHS THE PRIZE OF THAT STRESS ❤

I didn't wanted to take pressure that's why i left the school after 5th class. And guess what today i am earning even more than degree holders. In my early age i saw jethalal left the school after 5th class, this gave me idea and i opened Electronics shop. 🙏

BHaiya Ap ka khna Bilkul shi hai But kota me Kai ese Institute hai jo Shiksha ke sath sath Students ka pura pura dhyan rkhte hai .........kafi Acha Environment provide krwate hai ... Because I m fully satisfied with motion 💯😍😍😍

Respect button for Harsh Dhaka. 💗👍

One Reason for Sucide in kota is Financial factor because it costs around 1.5 lakh in coaching and 1.5 lakh in hostel and If a student doesn't get selected he has guilt that he/she wasted the hard earned money of parents and That led them to wrong way 😔

main root cause is parents expectations....

BEING a CA student. I relate it closely 😢

Agar ye video Mai mummy ko dikha dunga na to pahle to muze 1 ganta lecture dengi aur fir kahegi bachhe padhai he nahi karte 😶

As a citizen of Kota .....I can verify his news and points are all accurate

You couldn't have said it any better bro. I am currently a 12th class student (pcm) and this how my journey went: I joined an institute in 11th class hoping to crack jee and study well. I joined a coaching institute because a friend of mine whom I looked up to at that time told me that cracking the exam without coaching is almost impossible and stuff like that. The coaching centre was around 45 km away from my home and I went there daily by public bus. At first, the things were going fine but slowly I was feeling tired and exhausted everyday due to daily 90 km travel ( through busses, auto rickshaws) . Because of this exhaustion my focus started to get a bit bad and my eyes also started to hurt due to the lack of sleep. ( i was only getting 5 hours of sleep). Due to this my percentile in the tests in that coaching became low and my rank started to fall. Around 1.5 month after joining they started changing batches based on ranks. Somehow because of my performance in the early tests I was chosen for the 2nd top batch. This is where my downfall started. Students from my batch who joined the 2nd top batch couldn't fit in. Syllabus in our previous batch was going a bit slow and comfortably and the new batch teachers didn't slow their syllabus, which made us unable to cope with the syllabus. Around this time, the maths teacher in the new batch started picking on me out of nowhere. There were plenty of students who scored way worse than me but he would intentionally target only me every time from a class of 65 students. He then started insulting me every other day in front of the class. My confidence (which I was very proud of) fell to the lowest point. I felt miserable everyday and my grades fell even lower due to this. My dad at this point started to tell my mother that he is wasting his money on me yet he would try to act kind in front of me. When I got to know about this, I broke. I was scared to go to the coaching, I was scared of the teacher, I was scared of everything. I decided to leave the coaching because I couldn't take it anymore. My confidence was gone, my faith in myself was lost, I was literally traumatized and I tried to end myself a few times. Every time I walked by the stairs I felt like jumping from that floor. I am currently healing myself and slowly regaining my own self. Though, I am still not studying well. ( I don't know if I mentioned this above but I used to be a topper) . Atleast, the way I am going now is better than me killing myself earlier. Joining a coaching institute was the worst mistake I ever made in this life and I still despise that piece of shit maths teacher. I am healing from my depression and slowly making my mind strong again ( I didn't even have anyone to talk to about my mental health) . Thanks for reading this story. Hope you guys don't have to go through the stuff I went through.

the similar situation is in some north indian communities with regards to visa approval. the stigma is the same it’s just instead of IITs and NITs its Canada america Australia

Born and brought up in Kota, I've always seen all these in air. That too in an area where most students live. My house itself is let out to 15 students. My mother makes sure that they are doing good and treats them like their own child. Not advertising my house, just telling how owners of rooms/pg can also contribute to improving Kota's environment as responsible citizens.

Being an aspirant is really tough. I was also a medical aspirant (not an indian, so i dont know much about kota.. But i had also suffered alot.. Its a very big buisness.. and manipulation happens a lot to take money from students.. after working hard for 4 years (1 drop year and 1 year lost for covid in our country ) i quit everything and joined arts.. A lot of my beliefs were changed after that.. The suicidal feeling is not unusual.. the whole damn preparation phase isolates you from the entire world.. so you start getting delusional and start feeling like nothing exists beyond medical college..

" Chote City ke medical clg me Jake kya kroge Jana hai to metro City jao"🙂👍🏻 so called motivation

I lost my friend & now I’m suffering from mental health issues 🙂 ( neet )

a jee student in kota ,all you said in this video is 100 percent true ..but on other side kota tells us about hardwork in life

Ye parents ke pressure ke wajah se..hota hai jisko emotional blackmail kehte hai...jaise ki apke mother father apko baar baar apni pareshani batate rahenge...jisse aap frustrate ho jayenge..aur aap ki pareshani bhi aise jo aap kisi ko bata nahi ...sakte..tab apke paas ek solution bachta hai suicide...

One of the best video by Harsh , it is really helpful and convening ❤

Finally someone talk about this topic.

Aur tvf walo ka to pura career hi upsc, iit pe tika hua hai

Yes, You are absolutely right bhaiya I am also in kota if someone is listening to me then please don't send your child,brother or friend to kota . Keep them in front of yourself.

The problem is we as lower-income families have little and dreams of having more and for that when we get into the streets of competition with very little knowledge and patience and then we get frustrated with failures because we chose the right path but didn't get the right guidance and right support to walk on that path and then that path either leads to death and if we get lucky, we change the path and get some hope to live but now with different dreams but same old frustrations of having little.

Really this topic needs discussion. Very nice video ❤

Though i cracked IIT back in 2022, without going to kota just prepared from youtube and self study since my finacial situation was not good it took a lot of hardwork,dedication i also was getting depressed sometime but my desire to get into IIT was so strong that i stood against all odds and made it so never give up on your dream your time will come 👍

A neet aspirant especially a dropper can relate with it, well researched harsh bhai

As I'm an Allenite and a jee aspirant, agree with all points Harsh told us, after these activities students done so far, now these institutes planning fun days every week and student teacher meetings, which is too good decision and yaa, by these steps by institutes really giving satisfaction and I'm literally feeling relaxed

The real number suicides ain't even close to the stats shown. Trust me I have been in kota.

I am preparing for JEE 2024 and tbh I am proud of myself because I don't share same mindset as of my classmates and competitors...they only care about "rank" and "percentile" whereas I only and only care about depth knowledge of physics and math as I wanna pursue them as main subjects....maybe it's just my self endurance because I am just used to be depressed and hyped up most of the time as I am a bipolar...I hope students will soon realize that rank and IITian's tag doesnot decided their future at all...

As a neet aspirant I'm sure about my Career,,,, If anything happens with me I'm pretty sure about changing path . I'm not that fake aspirant who will take 8 drops just to get into mbbs

Absolutely true. Even I almost became a Dr. My parents thankfully, always encouraged me to follow my passion and to do what I actually enjoy. Even our school was different. The founder of the school personally new Rabindranath Tagore and was inspired by his teachings. The Principal always encouraged us to do what we love and not follow the herd. I am so blessed to have grown up in such an environment. Now I have my own 3D animation studio, which I always wanted. Still, some relatives and people around me always say directly or indirectly that I could have done much better as a Dr. Its true that I don't earn nearly as much as I would have if I went to IITs but at the end of the day, I love what I do and slowly and surely I am confident that my venture will grow bigger.

As an aspiring teacher, I will focus on the mental health of my students. 💯

My parents are not toxic actually they never forced me to prepare for jee it was my sole decision and so was coming to kota but after coming here i have lost my interest in studies it's been one month only but i can't focus much my mother tells me to study everytime and not make much friends and even restricts me from going anywhere but she still says if the pressure is too much come back. But this actually hurts knowing that you chose this career option yourself and not having any interest in it. Sometimes i just cry and cry but can't share it with my parents because my mom is very emotional she'll ask me to come back instead of motivating

Brother your yt channel is growing rapidly. Congratulations 🎉 & best of luck .

If India had built 300 IITs with annual enrolment of 2000+ in each IIT, then Kota like institutes will be dead! The problem is with limited IIT/AIIMS/IIM seats!

I'm from nit, i think government ko companies pe restriction lgani chahiye ki wo on campus placement pe na jaye, on campus placement band kar seni chahiye aur companies ko ek comman platform bnana chahiye placement ke liye jha par sabhi college ke students apply kar sak. Aise karne se sabhi students iit jee ka picha shoad denge aur sirf research oriented students hi iit/nit jayegnge

I just failed my 12th board exam and my repeater to I thought it's the end but I regained my confidence and I am getting my addmission in polytechnic After this video I am more confident Thanks harsh ❤❤❤

Why only educational pattern is being blamed,instead why can't we have more government colleges of equal importance and low cutoffs . It's like state government colleges

I'm also preparing for NEET and now I feel that I really needed this video thank you so much bhaiya❤

I'm really happy that I've never been to Kota and neither my parents forced me to go.

Proud for having a great father ❤

As a student in kota I really appreciate your work ... Thank you for making such a video on such major issue 😔😔 Thank you once again

❤❤thank you brother. I was preparing for neet for mbbs. And I thought that there is mbbs only for a successful life . Even right now some where I feel lost . Right not I'm giving cat and then I will do my mba . From a good college hope so I get out of that zone soon enough 😅

Facts 💯 Being a CA student i can somehow relate.