Reasons I was bullied

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spencer barbosa

spencer barbosa

2 жыл бұрын

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@comicbooknerd4114
@comicbooknerd4114 2 жыл бұрын
Usually the people that bully others are miserable with themselves
@ghost_cities
@ghost_cities 2 жыл бұрын
@@KittyCat-ny1lt Not in my experience. I have never met a bully that was doing well behind closed doors. Bullying is a coping mechanism. It’s a way to share the pain.
@odin4306
@odin4306 2 жыл бұрын
@@KittyCat-ny1lt No, confident people don't feel the need to harass others.
@odin4306
@odin4306 2 жыл бұрын
@@ghost_cities Exactly.
@formerunsecretarygeneralba9536
@formerunsecretarygeneralba9536 2 жыл бұрын
@@KittyCat-ny1lt most of the bullies (in my experience after going to 3 different primary school and 1 secondary school) are people at the last class. Extra info: my country's education system uses a system wher each grade has a 1st class, 2nd class, 3rd class, 4th class (and so on depending on the number of total students in that grade. Sometimes a school can have so few students in a grade that there's only 2 classes in that grade). The order of class of students depends on their final year exam results. So, 1st class for "smart" people and last class is for people for "dumb" people. Almost in all occasions the last class will always have 100% students whose families are poor/struggling while the upper classes will mostly have students whose family is rich and some that aren't. This is so true here that being in the last class is like a synonym for students with poor family.
@elvincitore1512
@elvincitore1512 2 жыл бұрын
@@KittyCat-ny1lt it depends on how you define success but that obviously is not true , you reap what you sow and Karma will get you at the end .
@starybars4181
@starybars4181 2 жыл бұрын
It’s usually the nicest people that go through the most. I’m glad you kept going!
@starybars4181
@starybars4181 2 жыл бұрын
@@MibbyMivvy 70 :)
@Haff2000
@Haff2000 2 жыл бұрын
@@starybars4181 108 :)
@deepwaters198
@deepwaters198 2 жыл бұрын
359 😅🤷‍♀️ talking about the Likes , ys?^^
@bell7382
@bell7382 2 жыл бұрын
@@deepwaters198 445 I guess lol
@deepwaters198
@deepwaters198 2 жыл бұрын
@@bell7382 😃 maybe we'll never know . But have a good week, everyone ☺️
@maple8021
@maple8021 2 жыл бұрын
I noticed that everyone who has been bullied have the best lives in the future
@llcooldrockindahouse4631
@llcooldrockindahouse4631 2 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of the ugly duckling story. An ugly duckling who was picked on and ostracized but he grew to be a beautiful swan that the other ducks were jealous of. How's that hahaha
@bavvaroisjoestar
@bavvaroisjoestar 2 жыл бұрын
aamiin to that
@dirtbike168
@dirtbike168 2 жыл бұрын
Hopefully
@madjfan101
@madjfan101 2 жыл бұрын
this couldnt be farther from the truth. we do not live in a movie. many bully victims kill themselves, become addicted to drugs, or otherwise dont make it out alright most of the time. there are a few that do become successful, but that has nothing to do with who was bullied and who wasnt
@m888-w5q
@m888-w5q 2 жыл бұрын
@@madjfan101 forreal lmao. Not everybody is ending up rich and famous like wtf
@ebbybadebbyslayton4114
@ebbybadebbyslayton4114 2 жыл бұрын
girl you’re literally gorgeous and who tf told your forehead is big? i literally see absolutely nothing wrong with it. everything about you is just glowy and amazing
@llcooldrockindahouse4631
@llcooldrockindahouse4631 2 жыл бұрын
U know it just means she's extremely smart and she's got a computer sized brain in there. Heck I cd store my life in her big forehead so I can become immortal 🤣🤣🤣😍😍😍
@nikkisumesh
@nikkisumesh 2 жыл бұрын
Its big but she is pretty!
@nikkisumesh
@nikkisumesh 2 жыл бұрын
@@llcooldrockindahouse4631 uh... Why u bullying her as well?
@Mike-ed9kq
@Mike-ed9kq 2 жыл бұрын
Bro liike if thats a 4 head i have an 8 head XD
@ebbybadebbyslayton4114
@ebbybadebbyslayton4114 2 жыл бұрын
@@nikkisumesh its really not that big, its well proportioned with the rest of her face so its never really stood out to me
@charleymoore4358
@charleymoore4358 2 жыл бұрын
i love that she says ‘yayyyy’ after saying that she is gonna share what she was bullied for
@charlesstocksen178
@charlesstocksen178 2 жыл бұрын
'Yayyy'
@charlesstocksen178
@charlesstocksen178 2 жыл бұрын
Sit back and listen 🎶 as I catch up on my pimpin
@charlesstocksen178
@charlesstocksen178 2 жыл бұрын
After 7- Ready or not " song 🤔
@charlesstocksen178
@charlesstocksen178 2 жыл бұрын
Latto- Big Energy " song
@impulsezr4770
@impulsezr4770 2 жыл бұрын
sarcasm to hide the pain. many people do it
@chezkatherese651
@chezkatherese651 2 жыл бұрын
I was bullied bc i wore shoes for boys and the reason i wore them is bc my parents couldn't afford new shoes so i had to wear my brothers shoes
@chezkatherese651
@chezkatherese651 2 жыл бұрын
Spencer barbosa are the one that liked mah comment😩
@zyeteck3659
@zyeteck3659 2 жыл бұрын
@@chezkatherese651 idek why ppl bully like no one knows anyones story
@idkwtfishappening2243
@idkwtfishappening2243 2 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for you, hope you're doing fine, hope they can get you new shoes in the future.
@maya07_11
@maya07_11 2 жыл бұрын
omg I'm so sorry i hope you're okay now
@mehedihasan-uo5kz
@mehedihasan-uo5kz 2 жыл бұрын
@@chezkatherese651 hope ur doing better now
@thebuilder3594
@thebuilder3594 2 жыл бұрын
I was bullied a little for not being a "cool" kid and not having any fancy clothing, not speaking a lot, being shy, things you'd typically get bullied for. I didn't get bullied a lot from kids at my school, and that was actually better than what else happened in my life. But now I'm a lot less shy, I don't get bullied anymore, and sometimes even appreciated. Especially when I'm paired up with the kids that don't do any work because the teachers could count on me. Never let anybody bully you, no matter the reason. And this is coming from the same person who wouldn't do anything about it. Letting someone bully you is like seeing someone treat you like a pet. It's humiliating and degrading. Always stand up for yourself and have confidence in what you love and do.
@stanloona67
@stanloona67 2 жыл бұрын
Having a big forehead is actually a model feature ❤️
@ash8787
@ash8787 2 жыл бұрын
I get bullied for: Being short Not being athletic Not being a fast runner Being a dancer Being me.
@Acord718
@Acord718 2 жыл бұрын
I used to get bullied in middle school for my clothes , friends and other things. Now some of those girls like me now. And I got a job after middle school and started buying nice clothes. I am 28 now and those bullies in my memories still get to me
@ejmoretto17
@ejmoretto17 2 жыл бұрын
You do NOT deserve any of that. My beautiful girly you are doing so much for all of us and u have made my confidence boost 100%. MUCH LOVE TO YOU ALL❤️
@somewherefaraway3093
@somewherefaraway3093 2 жыл бұрын
Well...yes going through hardships is hard, but without them, you're not going to get stronger, and I mean mentally (and possibly physically too). Hardhips are not always about people, but also other circumstances too, so be kind to people :)
@aprilrainee
@aprilrainee 2 жыл бұрын
I never thought the picked on for “posting to much on Instagram” was a thing but when I was at my old school people would always ask why I post so much on Insta and that it was annoying soo good to know it wasn’t just me😅
@michaelspitz9151
@michaelspitz9151 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like she’s exaggerating I mean I’m on high school rn(junior) and there is legit no bullying anywhere in a school of 4000 honestly it’s more accepting and kind than my dads work environment.
@aprilrainee
@aprilrainee 2 жыл бұрын
@@michaelspitz9151 ok I’m just saying that I personally was picked on for posting to much
@hillmidget1326
@hillmidget1326 Жыл бұрын
Sad thing is that your gorgeous and had a something you were aspiring to be. They were honestly all jealous
@hazinamsewe5759
@hazinamsewe5759 2 жыл бұрын
She is so beautiful though
@lyman135
@lyman135 2 жыл бұрын
What do you mean beautiful "though"? Though what?
@hazinamsewe5759
@hazinamsewe5759 2 жыл бұрын
@@lyman135 i mean like how she said she was bullied for having a "big forehead(which in my opinion she doesn't)", having short hair (wtf?), and her teeth. But i dont get why she would get bullied for those things, and those are what and to her beauty. BUT THAT IS JUST APPERENCE-WISE, HER PERSONALITY IS WHAT SHINES THE BRIGHTEST IN MY OPINION.
@wetworms.
@wetworms. 2 жыл бұрын
@@hazinamsewe5759 her forehead is big, but a big forehead isn't necessarily an ugly feature. Her whole face is pretty big so it fits in without looking weird.
@etherealdimple1166
@etherealdimple1166 2 жыл бұрын
"Stop victimizing yourself"😭 My bully is having a beautiful life, totally successful. while I'm here still trembling when I talk in the online class/event and rarely post because I'm too ugly. ...and always think those laughter by others are directed to me
@amersaddique4126
@amersaddique4126 2 жыл бұрын
I am sorry that is happening to u but u r beautiful and just because they seem happy on the outside doesnt mean they actually are. Bullying is a coping mechanism.
@yeayyo
@yeayyo Жыл бұрын
Girl you are beautiful, I was bullied for being overweight due to medication. Just ignore and show them that you don't care. I can promise you that their "perfect life" is just the show..
@TanishaT_xox
@TanishaT_xox 8 ай бұрын
Just to state there is actually no such thing as being ugly, the phrase “pretty” was just created by sociaty, whether your religous or not just know you were created perfectly and that is a fact, i dont even need to see you to confirm it cuz its true
@shivangi3030
@shivangi3030 2 жыл бұрын
I have never seeing someone so excited and happy while telling things they were bullied for
@melikemint6646
@melikemint6646 2 жыл бұрын
Ive never been bullied and never seen someone get bullied. I go to a pretty good school and the only mean things I ever hear are just people getting mad at eachother and maybe yelling a bit but theyre always fine later. So i cant really relate to this but i really hope people stop doing things like this, its absolutley disgusting and people need to move on from hurting others to make themselves feel better or powerful
@youraveragestranger6239
@youraveragestranger6239 2 жыл бұрын
HOW DARE YOU FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS YOU BEAUTIFUL CREATURE, DO YOU KNOW HOW GREAT YOU ARE
@luciamiranda8202
@luciamiranda8202 2 жыл бұрын
Bullying does suck. I’ve been bullied alot during elementary:( but luckily there is distant learning and it’s way better :)
@its_melodystar
@its_melodystar 2 жыл бұрын
I read that as bullying doesn't suck and i was like what? and i read it twice still confused and then i saw what it actually said
@luciamiranda8202
@luciamiranda8202 2 жыл бұрын
@@its_melodystar oh haha 😂
@SayNO2CAMEABUSE
@SayNO2CAMEABUSE 2 жыл бұрын
Bullying people results in a tougher group of people who dont take stuff so seriously. Not picking on eachother enough is just as toxic as the consistent bullying.
@bailey.blr26
@bailey.blr26 2 жыл бұрын
spencer is literally the reason i’m alive rn. i hope one day i can be myself again and gain my confidence like she does
@amiayouman1531
@amiayouman1531 2 жыл бұрын
OMG I CAN RELATE TO EVERYTHING SHE SAYS ABOUT THE FOREHEAD 😭
@liv5661
@liv5661 2 жыл бұрын
All foreheads are beautiful!
@amiayouman1531
@amiayouman1531 2 жыл бұрын
@@liv5661 fr
@futureivygirl
@futureivygirl 2 жыл бұрын
Same it still happens to me
@Universalguy-e2r
@Universalguy-e2r 2 жыл бұрын
I like facial features in general it tells a lot about the people around me, including how they are feeling, what their intentions are(sometimes) and if they might be approachable or not.
@nobody-in-spe
@nobody-in-spe 2 жыл бұрын
Large foreheads look beautiful and noble
@stephenbanfield3595
@stephenbanfield3595 2 жыл бұрын
HAVE TO IGNORE THE NEGATIVITY AND FOCUS ON A POSITIVE LIFESTYLE THAT BRINGS YOU HAPPINESS !!! 😊 BELLA MIA !!!
@ev_hunt04
@ev_hunt04 2 жыл бұрын
I am so glad you broke through! I wish people would stop bullying:( I get bullied everyday for having a big gap between my teeth and I get told “get some braces” and everytime this one guy gets a glimpse of me he yells “BIG GAP” and it is so annoying and I wish they would stop :( but good job to you!!!
@P1NK827
@P1NK827 Жыл бұрын
Girl same… I’m bullied by tons of people every day at school, online, and even people I don’t even know.. for the content I make. They make rumors and they’ll do ANYTHING to try to embarrass me and make my life miserable. I’ve finally gotten to my “idc” and “kill them with kindness” era because giving them a reaction will just wanna make them harass me more.
@thevinyldragon6255
@thevinyldragon6255 2 жыл бұрын
It’s unbelievable anyone bullied you, you are extremely beautiful, and anyone whom has you in a relationship with them should be great full for it. 🤗
@mullaqueens3129
@mullaqueens3129 2 жыл бұрын
This girl really makes me happy bc I would cry when I was walking home from school bc of getting bullied with my forehead and it is one of my biggest insecurities and is one of the reasons ky cofindence is low so I'd like to say thanks 😊
@sufia1365
@sufia1365 2 жыл бұрын
NOOO big foreheads are literally so cute what? Like literally all the prettiest girls such as madison beer, Megan fox etc have really big round foreheads! It's such a flex I promise what
@mullaqueens3129
@mullaqueens3129 2 жыл бұрын
@@sufia1365 ik I'm way better now and and not that insecure as back then
@humblejo130
@humblejo130 2 жыл бұрын
Bro... And look how strong you became... You are both conscious AND beautiful (confident in it)... Just a beautiful person man...
@moneyrrees
@moneyrrees 2 жыл бұрын
After watching this at school I feel grateful for having supportive friends and no bullies
@idk-uo7or
@idk-uo7or 2 жыл бұрын
Bro ur gorgeous, talented self confident, and inspire ppl every day. Dont let anyone shut you down. But we can see that all that bullying helped you be the strong confident woman you are now! And to all the haters Stop, your jealous of all these amazing ppl making a difference in this world. And its a shame you can't be like Spencer
@brittanyo5182
@brittanyo5182 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like everyone gets made fun of at first for making online videos. At least until the followers increase then that’s when the bullies start getting outnumbered. They never really go away unfortunately 😕
@llcooldrockindahouse4631
@llcooldrockindahouse4631 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Look at the damelio sisters if anyone can use them as good examples they still found a way to live a beautiful life and rose was above the hate. And addison rae succeeded in that too. The way I look at it is if Charli, dixie and addison rae can do it then you, Spencer and everyone else can do it too. It takes courage, energy but if you focus on ur end goal, it's like a work out at the gym, use it to help you grow and gain muscle and power so you can force your way thru it. U got this. Look at this as atest to see how *STRONG* you are.
@Frosty_McFrost05
@Frosty_McFrost05 2 жыл бұрын
Usually bullies are jealous or just insecure about themselves
@emma-leighcampbell9115
@emma-leighcampbell9115 2 жыл бұрын
Being bullied sucks I used to get bullied bad but if you stay positive and don’t react a lot of times they are just trying to get a reaction and if they don’t stop you should seek help there is nothing embarrassing about asking for help bc you are worth it and you are amazing
@Philtheminion
@Philtheminion 2 жыл бұрын
Your videos aren’t cringe- they help me with my social anxiety,body insecurities, and just helping me through life. If you weren’t here idk what is be doing at this point-
@sephiroth4345
@sephiroth4345 2 жыл бұрын
I was bullied for having a "shitty face" I was like "bro i have the shitty face, why are u worried about it? I have to live with it" 😂
@Cherry-gu7iw
@Cherry-gu7iw 2 жыл бұрын
People underestimate what bullying does. They think it doesn't matter but then the victim of bullying takes their own life or changes schools and the bully realises the impact and that ends up hurting the bully.
@ryananthony4840
@ryananthony4840 2 жыл бұрын
You're gorgeous, I tell my teenage son if ppl talk sh#t they are probably actually jealous....
@evie7914
@evie7914 2 жыл бұрын
Spencer, how do I tell my mom I don’t want to be in therapy anymore? I had my 3rd session today and I hated it. The only problem is, is that I feel bad telling my mom because she says she’s 99% sure I have depression cause she can see clear signs of depression and she had it went she was my age and she spent months looking for a therapist
@alissac6407
@alissac6407 2 жыл бұрын
Just tell her you don’t think this therapist isn’t quite working for you, but don’t quit yet! It took me over a year, going through about 5 therapists before I found the right one. Don’t give up, trust me, they help a lot
@evie7914
@evie7914 2 жыл бұрын
@@alissac6407 I hate talking about my feelings. And I need urgent help. So I’m kinda in a fucking pickle rn😅😃
@alissac6407
@alissac6407 2 жыл бұрын
@@evie7914 oof yeah Idk how to help on that one that’s tough 😅
@evie7914
@evie7914 2 жыл бұрын
@@alissac6407 that’s why I asked spencer
@alissac6407
@alissac6407 2 жыл бұрын
@@evie7914 sorry lol I was trying to help
@Brielle_Loves_Goats
@Brielle_Loves_Goats 2 жыл бұрын
Spencer: “I have a big forehead” Me: girl stop pretending to be Sakura,ur too bootiful to say that
@pinkatasoto6836
@pinkatasoto6836 Жыл бұрын
I was bullied too 😢 it hurts but I learned to be stronger 🎉🎉🎉
@heyitsbilliemyogaccgotdele1370
@heyitsbilliemyogaccgotdele1370 2 жыл бұрын
literally people just make fun of people just to make their sad selves feel happier abt themselves when rlly ur makes them less of a person.
@YepImDaniel
@YepImDaniel 2 жыл бұрын
Hello so I think people judge me alot bc my toenails look weird and now I feel insecure and have to hide my feet at the beach do u have advice
@YepImDaniel
@YepImDaniel 2 жыл бұрын
@@aliciadack3997 thanx
@YepImDaniel
@YepImDaniel 2 жыл бұрын
@@betsyboof2910 I can’t change it people judge me by my unusual looking toenails
@betsyboof2910
@betsyboof2910 2 жыл бұрын
@@YepImDaniel I'm sorry sweetheart, that's so unfair of them. Listen, there's a lot of people you'll encounter throughout this life that are hurting inside and they say some pretty mean thing's because of it. You tell them, I feel sorry for you that you're so miserable that you have to worry about other people's toes and that you hope they find peace... and you hold your head high and allow yourself to forgive them. And your toes. I'm sure your toes are just fine. I happen to prefer people who are a little bit different anyways and there's a lot of those people in the world too! Nobody's perfect, especially the people caring so much about your feet.
@YepImDaniel
@YepImDaniel 2 жыл бұрын
@@betsyboof2910 I guess I am different to other kids and people thanks for u being so sweet I really hope u have a great life and please stop worrying about me I will be fine
@betsyboof2910
@betsyboof2910 2 жыл бұрын
@@YepImDaniel I know you will be ☺️ you seem like a very good hearted kid. And I like that you're different from them. Thank you for being a sweet human and you have yourself an excellent life too young one!!
@brianlong2334
@brianlong2334 2 жыл бұрын
Everyone thinks they were bullied it's crazy to me... Let me tell you there is a big difference between real bullying and shit stirring, some people do it to help you get thicker skin, other think it will help you by changing yourself, literally there are real reasons for it but we act like every little thing is hate and unacceptable now.... Most of the things people talk about are just kids doing kid shit, as someone who had simply things like this said to them all thru high school there is a difference between what people did to you and real bullying, getting pushed over, hit, spat on, and social isolated are what I consider real bullying and I lived thru that in primary school... So sorry if I consider what 99% of people went through as not bullying it's part of growing up so we are ready for the real world....
@StaaaaNzHD
@StaaaaNzHD 2 жыл бұрын
Your right this shits banter. I don’t know many people who’ve been bullied but Ik this ain’t it
@eloisejordan
@eloisejordan 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I’ve been bullied. Kids called me fat and used to slap and hit me saying it would “show me what I’m worth.” If that’s not bullying, idk what is. What happened to spencer wasn’t nice but it was just insults and teasing.
@ameliad4182
@ameliad4182 2 жыл бұрын
girl don’t worry about them. they’re just trying to bring down ur entire day by being insecure themselves 😌 you’re beautiful so don’t let anyone ruin ur day, ly spencer ❤️
@darkma1ice
@darkma1ice 2 жыл бұрын
Best way I dealt with bullies, over my weight, was to say “fatty? Oh well I can’t deny the truth” and it completely disarmed them
@Jr-Forastiere
@Jr-Forastiere 2 жыл бұрын
Whoever asked about you paying property taxes on your forehead is not a bully; they're a comedian.
@snakecodm7249
@snakecodm7249 2 жыл бұрын
Lollll omfg thats gold
@zeearts9484
@zeearts9484 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I feel bad for laughing but it was a creative one-
@repent.
@repent. 2 жыл бұрын
STOP I FEEL TERRIBLE FOR LAUGHING AT THIS LMAOOO
@scarce3336
@scarce3336 2 жыл бұрын
That was so funny lol, I feel bad but if I heard someone say that to her I would burst out laughing, I have had people do these roast to me like that they aren't really funny at the moment and I realize how funny they are later. So, I have a pretty big nose so in middle school some guy said that if my nose was the titanic the titanic wouldn't have killed so much people because the people would have enough time to pack up and get on rafts because of how long it will take to sink
@zeearts9484
@zeearts9484 2 жыл бұрын
@@scarce3336 Omg 💀
@ryandorio5935
@ryandorio5935 2 жыл бұрын
first
@jj6006
@jj6006 2 жыл бұрын
I got bullied in 8th grade for being healthy and not following those diets that girls my age did at that time . It was not extreme though as I had amazing friends who supported and protected me . Some of these girls actually got ED and it came to school's notice after 3 months after school started . The School then started arranging sessions with parents discussing about this issue , the bullys got called out and suspended for a week and had to apologise to those whom they bullied in school assembly and all of us students were educated on pros and cons of extreme diets . Everything went back to normal in about a month after this .
@alexiecierra
@alexiecierra 2 жыл бұрын
Bullying sucks and some teachers abused their authority in high school. I endured, survived, and was hurt mentally and emotionally by the end of high school. Never switch school. All the bullies, rejections, skipping all Senior events (including prom and graduation), and never could get a date. Hopefully someday I get to see my own kids go to prom and high school graduation.
@leah-yl5mw
@leah-yl5mw 2 жыл бұрын
just stop bullying people honestly 😭. i was bullied for 3 years in elementary and my mental health and self confidence hasn’t come back since so don’t bully it has a major impact on their health
@lookformeinthesmiles
@lookformeinthesmiles 2 жыл бұрын
You know what sucks even more if you stand up for a friend who is being bullied and then because you stood up for someone being beaten up every single day. (Personal experience)
@spttnk
@spttnk 2 жыл бұрын
People do that since they are jealous they know if you follow your dreams with full focus you can succeed, so they try to stop you to be on the same level as you to fill up their empty void of ego.
@marendueck3704
@marendueck3704 2 жыл бұрын
You are such a great person. Bullying is such a big problem to the world
@_Peridot_
@_Peridot_ 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry that they bullied you. And for such stupid reasons, too. I don’t know why they would- you’re so pretty
@colleenkyle7741
@colleenkyle7741 2 жыл бұрын
People don’t know how horrible it is being bullied. And when you do get older and your still around the people that bullied you they tend to forget why you hate being around them once you’ve got thicker skin from BEING bullied. They don’t realize the damage they’ve done and they never will see how it hurt us so much. To this day I still have somewhat of anger problems when I say something and I get laughed at I completely snap and people are like”it’s not even that serious” After being bullied I’ve always been on a defense mechanism. Please don’t bully it damages us
@sienna3603
@sienna3603 Жыл бұрын
As someone who got bullied in high school for basically all these reasons you are so amazing for just posting a video about it. Sometimes all someone needs is to know someone else is going through the same things as them.THANK YOU SPENCER
@jensterly8091
@jensterly8091 2 жыл бұрын
Omg I’m so happy I’ve found someone who also got bullied for their forehead. I cried myself to sleep every night wishing I could change it.
@alexandrapop9025
@alexandrapop9025 2 жыл бұрын
Bully’s are just people that take out there own problems and insecurities on others to make them selfs feel better for what there going through
@anirex3919
@anirex3919 2 жыл бұрын
I was bullied a lot in my early high-school days, specifically I had to face a ton of rejection from the animation fan community for being aromantic. I was called a lot of things, including “not f*cking human,” “lying to myself and making excuses,” etc. My whole time in that part of the community was just plain traumatic and had a severe negative effect on my mental health. In my ongoing recovery, I’ve found that the best way to deal with hate is to surround yourself with people who accept you for who you are instead of people who make you feel bad about yourself.
@anupradeep3888
@anupradeep3888 2 жыл бұрын
I was bullied for having a thick south indian accent as I had just moved abroad after being in my home country until 2nd grade, it wasn't severe & didn't last for long as I learnt better pronounciation naturally, but it did effect my self esteem & hurt me a lot as a child, nowadays I still see the remnants of that wenever I catch myself overly monitoring my speech & grammar or wen I automatically imitate the people I interact with cus that's my internal defence mechanism trying to protect myself from being criticised for speaking the wrong way again, I can't stop myself from doing it, sometimes I don't even realise that I'm doing it, the only good thing that came out of it is that I can easily learn languages & local slangs cus I naturally tend to focus very hard on those....
@daydayjk874
@daydayjk874 7 ай бұрын
I hate bully’s they make other people feel sad and that’s just not ok. You’re amazing and don’t listen to what the bully’s say🩷
@Chalyse
@Chalyse 10 ай бұрын
I'm just so grateful to go to a high school where the majority of everyone is pretty nice, and the people who aren't just want you to stay out of their way. I would say outward bullying just isn't cool here, so people resort to gossip, drama, and backstabbing usually within their own friend groups. It's not perfect, but if you stay with your own clique, It's easy to feel like you fit right in it.
@pickledata7926
@pickledata7926 Жыл бұрын
The best solution to bullying is not to attempt to change people’s behavior, but to change your own behavior by ignoring, not caring, or just not giving them attention. With enough practice, you will do it subconsciously and wont even have to try.
@mbuzard46
@mbuzard46 2 жыл бұрын
I got bullied for having severe social anxiety. Naturally, this only contributed to my problems. I was in my early thirties when I was finally able to attend a social function and not feel nauseated. Thanks bullies.
@brootal4234
@brootal4234 2 жыл бұрын
Glad you overcame those a-holes. You’re already beautiful but your spirit makes you even more so. Only problem is that this vid cuts off early
@codysears2497
@codysears2497 2 жыл бұрын
I am sorry for your experiences no one should have to experience bullying I am also sorry that I laughed about “do you have to pay property taxes”
@jt_rooster3228
@jt_rooster3228 Жыл бұрын
It’s all about that mindset. Currently a 25 year old dude watching this. Congrats for making it. Now, it’s your attitude and mindset that bring you to heights you can’t imagine.
@boygirlish
@boygirlish 2 жыл бұрын
When I was in 4th I got bullied for my smile and my dimples so this made me so self conscious that I rarely smiled at school.
@colddrops4856
@colddrops4856 2 жыл бұрын
There is no excuse for bullying. If someone bullies you. It's their problem.. YOU ARE RIGHT. Dont think low of yourself...
@TheLambSauce659
@TheLambSauce659 9 ай бұрын
Something I been told was that bullies bully you because they can’t take the fact that they see potential in you
@SilentDeath.
@SilentDeath. Жыл бұрын
Ngl this video give me nostalgia. I honestly wouldn’t call them bully’s I would just call them Karen’s because from what I’m understanding they act like it’s not normal to follow your dreams.
@Vismaya-xf5pm
@Vismaya-xf5pm 2 жыл бұрын
You make me confident and want me to start doing what i love
@KelsieSchweizer-hq7bm
@KelsieSchweizer-hq7bm Жыл бұрын
I got mocked for my big forehead too glad to know there’s someone out there that went through the same thing
@Luvxcali2
@Luvxcali2 Жыл бұрын
Your literally drop dead gorgeous girly stay awesome
@user-sb8rc5fm8f
@user-sb8rc5fm8f 2 жыл бұрын
I went to your oldest video and you can see how confidence can make you so much happier
@redditpotter6297
@redditpotter6297 2 жыл бұрын
You are so amazing and beautiful!!! All the people that bullied you should just see where you are now. You go girl!!!
@laurenodonnell2413
@laurenodonnell2413 2 жыл бұрын
I hope those bullies look back on this video and your channel and see what you have become and how successful you have become! I bet they regret there high school Decision ❤️
@user-xo3lt3ux8h
@user-xo3lt3ux8h 6 ай бұрын
She is literally so beautiful. Bullys suck.
@urfavvkylar
@urfavvkylar 2 жыл бұрын
You know that is rude. And girlie, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. You are so inspiring too!!
@_the_nobody_
@_the_nobody_ 2 жыл бұрын
No one deserves to be bullied, especially not you because you are one of the best roll models ever but of course you never let that stop you
@kailie4037
@kailie4037 2 жыл бұрын
omg bullying does suck like rlly bad. i remember moving a school in 6th grade and the new school that i went to i was there for abt 3 or 4 months and i got cyber bullied. it was so bad. and it is true carma does come back and also the people bullying probably are either jealous or insecure. so i guess what im trying to say is... dont let others bring you down. its pointless. you have 1 life to live and you shouldnt be living it feeling doubtful abt yourself. just remember that. luv ya spencer and thx
@cherylmclaverty2182
@cherylmclaverty2182 2 жыл бұрын
People say too much they need to keep it to themselves and u r an amazing beautiful young lady keep it up and tell the hater’s to shut the hell up u go girl
@baileyscharmxo754
@baileyscharmxo754 2 жыл бұрын
Girl you are pretty everywhere’s you just be you luv you
@Yourlocalgirlypop123
@Yourlocalgirlypop123 Жыл бұрын
“Do you have to pay property tax” bro crossed the line real quick💀 also we love you Spencer your so pretty and I love your channel keep posting!❤
@ttjooseptt1125
@ttjooseptt1125 Жыл бұрын
As a guy, I suffered a 2-year depression due to being bullied. I had terrible humor those days and everyone hated me for it. I was also the smallest guy and they blocked me completely from being the person I REALLY am😢
@Wubbit_Reacts
@Wubbit_Reacts 9 ай бұрын
Ngl, the property taxes line got me 😅
@remy8920
@remy8920 2 жыл бұрын
Girl you are like gorgeous don’t listen to the haters you go girl
@ilovemyseLf345
@ilovemyseLf345 2 жыл бұрын
i know people say it a lot but bullies usually aren’t doing well with themselves because happy confident people don’t need to put other people down
@sugarcrane7982
@sugarcrane7982 Жыл бұрын
Oof im so sorry gurlie :( im sure there was atleast one person who wanted to be by your side :(( bullies suck and teachers are crapot as always, they never know how to deak with bullies :(
@Clumzy_soldier.4Christ
@Clumzy_soldier.4Christ 7 ай бұрын
I’ve never met anyone else who’s been teased for having a larger forehead. I’m glad sometimes that I am homeschooled for that reason. ❤️ Thank you Spencer.
@StewartFletcher
@StewartFletcher 2 жыл бұрын
That "property taxes" actually made me laugh
@cdsarecool
@cdsarecool 2 жыл бұрын
I also got bullied in elementary school and switched schools. I am so happy for you that you got through that no one should ever be bullied it's like the worst feeling EVER
@user-by3is2hl6v
@user-by3is2hl6v 10 ай бұрын
it really does, i got bullied for having short hair and being a girl and for the guy i was dating, but i love you spencer xxxxx you are so gorgous and amazing
@bruvbruv5457
@bruvbruv5457 2 жыл бұрын
I was bullied in school then I moved schools and well here I am love your videos that’s for being so positive it helps a lot
@coleasari3437
@coleasari3437 2 жыл бұрын
Is it just me or those who are called ugly growing up are actually always the best looking people, everyone who called me ugly growing up I believed them then got older and realized they were the ones who were actually ugly and just projected to those who are actually good looking
@taylorgreene7043
@taylorgreene7043 2 жыл бұрын
You are so beautiful and smart so don't let anyone ever take that away from you.
@Cassi._.17.
@Cassi._.17. 2 жыл бұрын
I’m in elementary school and still being bullied but watching your vids help a lot and got me the courage to stand up to my self
@EVILalwaysDIES
@EVILalwaysDIES 2 жыл бұрын
There r 2 types of people, people that get bullied and then get depressed because they listen to those bullies opinions, and there r people like her that brushes it off and is still happy. People need to brush it off.
@nataliesyap717
@nataliesyap717 2 жыл бұрын
You’re so successful now these bullies can rot in their room
@bangchans.big.nose__
@bangchans.big.nose__ 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate to the second one so muchhhh and the funny thing is the person who bullys me litteraly has bigger eyebags than my 6head. But ive just learnt to accept the hate and ignore it and im glad you have too☺️💖
@thecalisthenicsroom
@thecalisthenicsroom 2 жыл бұрын
Respect! To her! Mad respect! To the ppl that bullied her, you’re all cowards!
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