Rebecca Lynn Pope Shares The Problem With Women’s Expectations

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4 жыл бұрын

On today's video Rebecca Lynn Pope shares the problem with women's expectations.
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@akumacode
@akumacode 4 жыл бұрын
Can y'all bring her back? Im super curious about her thoughts on dating during/post-covid. Dating during a downturn. How it effects women, especially women that are higher status. How it effects men. Whether or not things have changed since the last pod
@davester1970
@davester1970 3 жыл бұрын
I tried to physically meet up with a woman I met online. She told me no out of fear of the COVID. I told her that with HIV/AIDS and all of the bad venereal diseases out there, COVID should be the very last on her list of concerns.
@wanglee21
@wanglee21 2 жыл бұрын
lol nothing changed. Women are still unrealistic with their standards. During the lockdown women had more bedroom fun with randoms who were the top 10-20% of men and the 80% of invisible men had none. That's about it. Nothing new afterwards also.
@MrRedbone19
@MrRedbone19 3 жыл бұрын
Men don't care about what she makes or her degrees. The attitude eliminates her immediately.....
@darpur5469
@darpur5469 3 жыл бұрын
Can you explain you point?
@paolapai
@paolapai 3 жыл бұрын
The attitude of wanting to buy her own stuff and pay her bills? I know, it's awful.
@paolapai
@paolapai 3 жыл бұрын
@Andrew McCall Jr. Having a job not to starve and end up homeless = being a wanna be man bitch. Male logic 🙄
@MrMmdbeats
@MrMmdbeats 3 жыл бұрын
Every fucking time. Attitude ruins EEEEEEEEVERYTHING
@lnb252
@lnb252 3 жыл бұрын
@@darpur5469 combative, argumentative etc
@planetruther
@planetruther 3 жыл бұрын
I am a happily married woman and I have sooo many female, single friends who need to hear this!
@charlesdikenson744
@charlesdikenson744 Жыл бұрын
They shouldn't hear this since their common sense don't work. They should just keep being single
@laurivaltter
@laurivaltter Ай бұрын
it's over for them already
@planetruther
@planetruther Ай бұрын
@laurivaltter Haha you're probably right...
@Aonexia
@Aonexia 4 жыл бұрын
Thank God I’m single! Wow... men, focus on yourself and enjoy life.. it’s just that simple.
@niwreyentihw1496
@niwreyentihw1496 3 жыл бұрын
Same here! I'm a white woman and I support your message.
@SantanuPaul27891
@SantanuPaul27891 3 жыл бұрын
Same....
@paulv2394
@paulv2394 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true for me. The World is my playground. I will see as much as I can and enjoy all that I choose.
@PJ-yc6kt
@PJ-yc6kt 2 жыл бұрын
Well said
@ironjohn5914
@ironjohn5914 2 жыл бұрын
Let's do this.......
@niamoore84
@niamoore84 4 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite guest interviews on here! Rebecca Lynn Pope.
@GlobalK
@GlobalK 3 жыл бұрын
This applies to American women. Dutch man myself. American dudes have told me over and over how much they love Dutch girls cause they aren’t so superficial. I also believe that the US is the country of glitz and glamour and being seen and status and all that. I think that part also plays a part in why women are like that. Dutch people don’t want that type of attention in general.
@nathancasey7712
@nathancasey7712 3 жыл бұрын
@Canelo Murguia Probably depends on city and area though
@GlobalK
@GlobalK 3 жыл бұрын
@BruiseLeeRoy Hell yeah. Plus all those American chicks got kids and all that.
@TokyoTaisu
@TokyoTaisu 3 жыл бұрын
Agree except Amsterdam girls.
@GlobalK
@GlobalK 3 жыл бұрын
@@TokyoTaisu LOL. Never really been involved with any. American women are something else though.
@oussiel6459
@oussiel6459 3 жыл бұрын
Minder maar nog steeds 🤔
@jamesprosper1584
@jamesprosper1584 4 жыл бұрын
This is the MOST 🔥🔥🔥 5:24 mins of my life. Not one word of a lie. I'll be buying any book she writes!
@KrunchyJD
@KrunchyJD 2 жыл бұрын
As a guy, I can say this is accurate. We don't get impressed if you are a business woman, or what job you have.
@patrickbateman3146
@patrickbateman3146 2 жыл бұрын
Not only that, but when I still dated if I met a woman who had a college degree, a business, or wanted to have a career, all I heard was "I'm masculine, I'm not feminine, I won't have time nor desire to give you children, or cook for you, or even have sex."
@Really_Roby
@Really_Roby 2 жыл бұрын
@@patrickbateman3146 You heard wrong. A woman can have goals and want to make her own money but that doesn't mean she'll neglect her family. Wanting to have a job doesn't make a woman masculine. Also, if you knew the amount of personal expenses that women have (including staying attractive) you would let them make their own money.
@punk007punk9
@punk007punk9 Жыл бұрын
@@Really_Roby they are not talking about a job. According to your comment, it shows that you are not completely career focused. But there are so many woman, who are completely indulged in making making business, or getting to the top at a firm, which requires masculine traits. They can’t provide that nurturing and feminine energy which men crave for.
@Sims8705
@Sims8705 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent clip and message. Rebecca is one of the best roommates on the podcast. Thanks for sharing
@joannadziokan3267
@joannadziokan3267 4 жыл бұрын
I think any 'powerful' person is more happy with someone less challenging and who will be more emotionally supportive instead. When you get someone as powerful as you are you will clash.
@captainsisko7629
@captainsisko7629 3 жыл бұрын
No women are not like this, in general that was the point of this video. You are lying to yourself.
@joannadziokan3267
@joannadziokan3267 3 жыл бұрын
@@captainsisko7629 that's just how I see it. relax bro :)
@ryannello
@ryannello 3 жыл бұрын
That’s true for men probably but women will generally not accept a less ‘powerful’ man.
@justincase4792
@justincase4792 3 жыл бұрын
@@joannadziokan3267 Disagree. Women want someone on there education and success level. Successful men for the most part don't care as long as she looks good.
@JohnSmith-cz3us
@JohnSmith-cz3us 3 жыл бұрын
It’s not “any powerful person” it’s any powerful MAN
@21nitsua
@21nitsua 4 жыл бұрын
That was nice 👌. Hope you fellas come out of this pandemic in good health physically, emotionally, financially.
@GBGOLC
@GBGOLC 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly, women over analyse. We men are so simple. Nice looking (everyone has their own taste) , a beautiful personality and intellectually stimulating.
@MCjaspers
@MCjaspers 4 жыл бұрын
Is social media driving this trend? Women see what other people have and they get the "grass is greener" effect? Like "i know theres something better out there now, therefore I'm not going to settle?"
@RunAndGunVisuals
@RunAndGunVisuals 4 жыл бұрын
That’s exactly it
@Northphilly-wu4oq
@Northphilly-wu4oq 4 жыл бұрын
Awwww man brother very true
@andrew24534
@andrew24534 3 жыл бұрын
Social media has farked the mind of the average women and man for that matter. Your a sucker if you chase girls whom openly flaunt themselves on social media. Attention seeking heathens is what they are. It's a recipe for disaster.
@K.H1914
@K.H1914 3 жыл бұрын
I mean the grass can be greener on the other side technically, but if you’re a brown half dead patch of grass yourself looking for a grass that’s green, you will get nowhere. For men (not saying all but some) a girls loving, femininity, and affectionate side is what makes a her a “green grass”. for a man it’s what we can provide physically, and financially. This is for actual long term relationships, physical attraction will get you halfway there for dudes, if your attitude is trash then it will just be sex. Women put a lot of emphasis being independent on their career, financial stability, etc. which is something to be proud of, however those traits are just like extra things that are nice to have but werent even in a man’s equation to date her in the first place. This is where women start to act like men where men will sit here and say “I make all this money, financially stable, independent etc. women should flock to me, i deserve it.” And she says literally the exact same things but dudes don’t like that shit at all b/c she sounds like a stereotypical man that a lot of women hate hearing. When a man says he DESERVES to be with said woman based off of financial stability, looks, etc. he sounds like he’s entitled to her, and sounds conceded asf. Same thing applies for women who talk the same, that attitude sound like entitlement to anyone you want based off of your accolades, no man wants that either.
@WPFreeinternet
@WPFreeinternet 3 жыл бұрын
No, she said why it is happening. It is because the status of women has risen over the decades. With women being more educated, making more money, and attaining higher status their requirements for a man that suits them shoots up. It goes from a man just needs a job so he can actually provide to men needing to make six figures minimum. I believe there was a study in which women are attracted to men that are about 20% more educated than they are and make 50% more than what they make. So if a woman makes 70k a year she will shoot for that six figure man.
@Mthurgood
@Mthurgood 3 жыл бұрын
This lady speaks serious truth. Womens egos in America is totally out of control. That is why they are alone.
@bbdass4598
@bbdass4598 3 жыл бұрын
Not just America. It's happened in England, Aus, India due to social media and youtube. Spreading an agenda
@iurhviusdfavhi
@iurhviusdfavhi 2 жыл бұрын
She beautifully explains what I have been saying, but I say it all in such a harsh way the point never gets through. Definately learned something from her phrasing here.
@johnstrawb3521
@johnstrawb3521 Жыл бұрын
@iurhviusdfavhi As for saying women are "complicated," though, she's missing the fundamental point, which is that women _with these laundry lists_ are greedy and delusional. She needs to be harsh, b/c that's not "complicated," that's "destructive, entitled, ignorant, greedy, and delusional." If she's not going to tell the truth, she's not helping anyone.
@idrisade5242
@idrisade5242 4 жыл бұрын
This video clip is in my top 3 of all-time favorites. The game that was given here was so rich, I almost caught diabetes listening. Salute to the Roomates and Lynn Pop for this one.
@innerblackbeauty8815
@innerblackbeauty8815 4 жыл бұрын
First of all, this is a clip of an old video. Although I adore Rebecca Lynn Pope, what she said is a NOT attack on women. All she spoke were facts and that what she’s about! Unlike a lot folks on KZfaq, she’s one of the few who speak on the psychology behind compatibility, sexual market value (applies to BOTH men & women) and healthy romantic relationship. Check out Rebecca Lynn Pope KZfaq channel she’s fair and goes in BOTH sexes and their unrealistic expectations. That said, I don’t believe any woman she date down, but she does need to be realistic about what kind of guy she can pull, when walking into a room! No man wants needy- unattractive-bimbo on his arm and no woman wants a broke-insecure-complacent man child.
@ricorogers9319
@ricorogers9319 3 жыл бұрын
Right....but women are so upset at this....its mind blowing
@simplyamih9861
@simplyamih9861 4 жыл бұрын
Great insights from RL
@bxofficial5413
@bxofficial5413 2 жыл бұрын
Wow this is mind blowing. Thank god for her ❤️🔥🔥
@michaelfreesoul5636
@michaelfreesoul5636 3 жыл бұрын
She's spitting FIREEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
@bbjj2867
@bbjj2867 3 жыл бұрын
Now she right about the fact that women can career themselves out of relationships. Because women's hypergamous nature will not allow her to pair with a man that she doesn't deem to be above her level.
@tysonzhang8110
@tysonzhang8110 3 жыл бұрын
rebecca one of the few women out there who understands whatsup
@johnstrawb3521
@johnstrawb3521 Жыл бұрын
She doesn't, though. She calls 'laundry list' women "complicated." They're not. They're greedy and delusional. She's kind to the point of being deceptive, yet she's often treated as if she's being cruel---that's how lost women are. They think delusional kindness towards them is cruelty. Incredible, really.
@Rob-fp3xq
@Rob-fp3xq 4 жыл бұрын
*Mic drop* , its really simple as that. Get in the gym, be feminine, have some household skills and be pleasant. Get your degrees and money for yourself, not men.
@jasminealexia
@jasminealexia 4 жыл бұрын
Yess!
@paolapai
@paolapai 3 жыл бұрын
So be a maid for the husband and also have a job outside home?
@WPFreeinternet
@WPFreeinternet 3 жыл бұрын
You're being combative and unpleasant while not getting what he is saying. He is saying your job isn't going to attract a man, get a job that fulfills you, not what you think will impress a man. Nor can you think you can use that job as leverage in finding the men you want. You are out there for yourself, you aren't thinking about how to appease your partner in the relationship. Maybe relationships aren't for you. You can cook and clean for yourself, by yourself, and provide for yourself. If you aren't willing to alter some part of your life to bring someone else into it then you either aren't ready for a relationship or they don't fit you.
@llClassifiedll
@llClassifiedll 3 жыл бұрын
@@paolapai no lml how about find a man that contributes and helps with cleaning and cooking and washing clothes etc. I may not say I ALWAYS cook or help but most often i try.
@kwamegaman
@kwamegaman 3 жыл бұрын
@@paolapai enjoy being contentious and alone
@fishingdude8393
@fishingdude8393 4 жыл бұрын
As long as she is good looking and not a feminist..... I’M WINNING, I’M WINNING
@primordialtitan2874
@primordialtitan2874 3 жыл бұрын
@Toby English DEEPEST statement on here
@bigtittiedsaint
@bigtittiedsaint 3 жыл бұрын
Feminism is about gender equality though... we should all be feminists!
@tigerboy7585
@tigerboy7585 3 жыл бұрын
@@bigtittiedsaint girl please
@jasmineali5699
@jasmineali5699 3 жыл бұрын
Go work and put $$$ in my account 💅🏽
@tigerboy7585
@tigerboy7585 3 жыл бұрын
@@jasmineali5699 TF you mean ?
@southpawhammer8644
@southpawhammer8644 3 жыл бұрын
Men want family, not drama. Family makes drama, but it's not that kind of drama. It's drama that builds a life, not drama from a selfish woman child.
@alexisagginie4574
@alexisagginie4574 3 жыл бұрын
I have always wondered when a female puts forward what THEY want. I, would listen and ask myself and what are THEY bringing?
@TILLEYJS
@TILLEYJS 3 жыл бұрын
Oh no. You want a better chance at banging them. Challenge them. Cool you want this and this. I'm not seeing what you're bringing to the table. It'll work because they're not used to men challenging their bullshit. Won't work every time. But more times than not, you'll be intriguing that way.
@Jude13able
@Jude13able Жыл бұрын
Damn this woman just assassinated all women's outrageous expectations. 🎤
@novelenterprise
@novelenterprise 2 жыл бұрын
The irony of an education preference with an income preference is that most millionaires are not college grads, theyre dropouts
@dsetgetatme
@dsetgetatme 3 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Lynn was saying nothing but straight facts!
@maclove8135
@maclove8135 3 жыл бұрын
She's dope with the advice
@senju31
@senju31 4 жыл бұрын
This is embodied perfectly by the lawyer character on the HBO show Insecure. She couldn't accept dating someone who was in a lower tac bracket despite everything else about him being great.
@anthonybush6488
@anthonybush6488 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree.
@aminah761
@aminah761 3 жыл бұрын
She is dead on .. All facts 👍👍👍🤩
@innerblackbeauty8815
@innerblackbeauty8815 4 жыл бұрын
First of all, this is a clip of an old video. Although I adore Rebecca Lynn Pope, what she said is NOT attack on women. All she spoke were facts and that what she’s about! Unlike a lot folks on KZfaq, she’s one of the few who speak on the psychology behind compatibility, sexual market value (applies to BOTH men & women) and healthy romantic relationship. Check out Rebecca Lynn Pope KZfaq channel she’s fair and goes in, BOTH sexes and their unrealistic expectations. That said, I don’t believe any woman she should date down, but she does need to be realistic about what kind of guy she can pull, when walking into a room! No man wants needy- unattractive-bimbo on his arm and no woman wants a broke-insecure-complacent man child.
@Marks_life
@Marks_life 4 жыл бұрын
This is exactly why Men Go Their Own Way. Not worth the hassle.
@captainsisko7629
@captainsisko7629 3 жыл бұрын
@n cw doesn't work as well, women need men more than men need women
@paolapai
@paolapai 3 жыл бұрын
@@captainsisko7629 lmao. Single women live the longest while single men die sooner. Look it up.
@tumalditamadresita
@tumalditamadresita 3 жыл бұрын
@@paolapai who cares about that .. a lion in captivity lives longer than one in the wild .. which scenario would I lion prefer ?
@kwamegaman
@kwamegaman 3 жыл бұрын
@@paolapai that might change soon, considering how morbidly obese so many modern women are 🤷🏾
@carriewhitmore
@carriewhitmore 3 жыл бұрын
@@kwamegaman 🙄🙄🙄 obesity is a problem across both genera
@chrissalley9468
@chrissalley9468 3 жыл бұрын
Ladies please listen to this woman. She is preaching the gospel
@Northphilly-wu4oq
@Northphilly-wu4oq 4 жыл бұрын
She spitting fire
@Jude13able
@Jude13able Жыл бұрын
Where did this woman come from? She makes so much sense! Why can't all women be understanding like her? One in a million. When you see a smart woman that understands guys.... all of the other women are annoying and mediocre. Women can really learn from her.
@gregorylatta8159
@gregorylatta8159 Жыл бұрын
Yes but that mindset is exceedingly rare.
@proggerjohn
@proggerjohn Жыл бұрын
"Women can really learn from her." But they won't. And by that I mean that they are UNWILLING to learn. They don't want to hear the truth. They would prefer to live with their delusion.
@stevemiller1517
@stevemiller1517 4 ай бұрын
But they will not learn from her.
@xzavieredwards5824
@xzavieredwards5824 3 жыл бұрын
Boom 🤯, 3:00 hit the nail on the head
@andremotivation6561
@andremotivation6561 3 жыл бұрын
I see nothing wrong with wanting a well educated man. Problem comes with things like height and swag" men cant grow 5, 10 inches taller or have "unconventional street swag" those things can't be made up.
@Really_Roby
@Really_Roby 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Education and growth are choices.
@keundrefresh
@keundrefresh 3 жыл бұрын
Low end women have those same unrealistic expectations also
@070911021302
@070911021302 2 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Lynne Pope is talking absolute sense here.....men in general are not complicated in what they want from the women.... and they have not changed over the years.,....
@leekato2722
@leekato2722 2 жыл бұрын
I have a masters degree, make six-figures and barely stand at 6'0 at exactly 6'0. Any woman who claims these as a requirement is automatically off my list of women I'd date
@kenmorgan316
@kenmorgan316 2 жыл бұрын
Truth!
@marcussims8834
@marcussims8834 7 күн бұрын
The number question is what do you do for a living lol the answer determines the respect your about to receive
@sunnyballin1
@sunnyballin1 3 жыл бұрын
Facts.
@Chery869
@Chery869 3 жыл бұрын
That's it. Men set their expectations too low for women and will date the local cashier as long as she brings him peace. Women on the other hand wants to date Superman while ignoring Clark Kent every day because he doesn't look like her expectations.
@ricorogers9319
@ricorogers9319 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@kwamegaman
@kwamegaman 3 жыл бұрын
Damn. This comment just touched my soul, brother. 💪🏾👍🏾
@lovingtheagapeway5554
@lovingtheagapeway5554 2 жыл бұрын
I’m listening Mr. Rich .. I’m listening to what ur saying.. and it’s got me thinkn. Some of us sista’s may not want to hear this, but we gota admit that it’s tight .. but it’s right.
@terencemayers6568
@terencemayers6568 3 жыл бұрын
Well said, finally a woman that said it.💯✊🏿
@darthrevan2081
@darthrevan2081 2 жыл бұрын
Tbh means top three: be kind, be dtf and be appreciative. If a women can do all this and hold you accountable most men are set. Add attractiveness to that its a good life.
@WdnUlik2no
@WdnUlik2no 3 жыл бұрын
If you're not 6 feet she won't give you the time of day. 5'10", 5'11", 5'11.5" isn't tall enough for most women. *Today's women* : I'm 5'3" so I need the guy to be at least 6'4"
@andersonjean4965
@andersonjean4965 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@kwamegaman
@kwamegaman 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@NigeloWalker
@NigeloWalker 3 жыл бұрын
sad but true...
@TheGreatSerafim
@TheGreatSerafim 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 6'1" and i still hear sometimes on a date that i'm not tall enough...
@ramenwithaliens5431
@ramenwithaliens5431 3 жыл бұрын
Below 6 men are fine doe 😣💖
@WPFreeinternet
@WPFreeinternet 3 жыл бұрын
The genders stayed the same, the circumstances just changed. As she said women are being more educated with various careers thus have that as their baseline. That baseline has gone up. Surprisingly men don't want to go home and have a constant power struggle.
@retiredby3570
@retiredby3570 3 жыл бұрын
They dont want to go to a dude.
@Really_Roby
@Really_Roby 2 жыл бұрын
@@retiredby3570 A woman who works hard and makes money is not a "dude."
@Really_Roby
@Really_Roby 2 жыл бұрын
There is no power struggle. Just set goals, work hard and be the best. If seeing your partner succeed makes you unhappy you have a problem.
@bxcutie4life2007
@bxcutie4life2007 3 жыл бұрын
Since we reducing women to rating scales i wonder what Rebecca rates herself....
@TheSupremeDunk
@TheSupremeDunk 3 жыл бұрын
She’s probably realistic....she seems very practical and honest.....i would rate her a super solid 7.....can adjust to a mid 7 if she wants to. She’s definitely on the cute/pretty side of the scale. She’s feminine and has a natural sexiness about her. A 6 figure earning professional man would DEFINITELY date her seriously
@TILLEYJS
@TILLEYJS 3 жыл бұрын
She's a 5
@kwamegaman
@kwamegaman 3 жыл бұрын
She's a 6-7 at this point. But her feminine demeanor and balanced outlook make her even more attractive
@kimyarde4362
@kimyarde4362 3 жыл бұрын
I find it ridiculous to reduce another human being to a number. Where did this nonsense come from? How can another flawed human being get to decide if another person is a 10 or a 2 just by looking at them or their profession?
@TILLEYJS
@TILLEYJS 3 жыл бұрын
@@kimyarde4362 with their eyes.... That's how.
@ALTheFreeMan
@ALTheFreeMan 4 жыл бұрын
Today’s women have been given ALL ACCESS passes to the roads of success, however, there was no other roads paved that would keep men ahead of the game. For most of history, men have been in the driver’s seat, now men are being told to be the passengers, and sometimes, to even get in the backseat.
@jookbj
@jookbj 3 жыл бұрын
Somebody should do a before an after picture of her she looks completely different now.
@JohnSmith-pl4sf
@JohnSmith-pl4sf Жыл бұрын
It's good that men are so simple, that what they want is so simple, but its women who are complicated, and what women want is so complicated
@krose5965
@krose5965 3 жыл бұрын
Thank Jesus for your content... this helped me remove the spanks from my cranium. Preciate yall
@LawAbidingCitizenHelloOfficer
@LawAbidingCitizenHelloOfficer 6 ай бұрын
😭😭😭😭 I needed to hear this
@stevenfenley9359
@stevenfenley9359 3 жыл бұрын
This is why I gave up on Western women... Have been happily married for years with a beautiful, smart, and REAL family girl...from Thailand! Best move ever...
@TokyoTaisu
@TokyoTaisu 3 жыл бұрын
The day women find out we delete them from social media Facebook insta everything as soon as she hits 30.
@MrHakubi
@MrHakubi 3 жыл бұрын
27🤣
@sidneyboyd8296
@sidneyboyd8296 2 жыл бұрын
Huh, im just seeing this after an interview she did with a lady named Kendra G. She is on one end, one month and the other a few months after that.?????
@blsd1up
@blsd1up 3 жыл бұрын
🤷🏾‍♂️ she right
@damonadams3853
@damonadams3853 4 жыл бұрын
LOVE HER!!![999]
@mr.chipwhitley8770
@mr.chipwhitley8770 3 жыл бұрын
When Rebecca said that men like women who are pretty, pleasant to be around, and have a little “spice,” what did she mean by “spice” ? What’s a “spicy” woman? Foreigner asking.
@H41030v3rki110ny0u
@H41030v3rki110ny0u 3 жыл бұрын
spice could be interpreted as "positive chaos" in this sense, I think... not necessarily bad, but a dash of chaos to challenge you, to make you want to become better, and to keep things interesting... but anything more than just a "hint of spice" pushes thing in to a danger zone
@MrNgueyong
@MrNgueyong 3 жыл бұрын
My naija bro ... You are looking thirsty out there .... I see your eyes wondering... 😂😂😂😂😂
@USER_S4V4NT
@USER_S4V4NT Жыл бұрын
I don't take any offence from being called simple, as an aspiring engineer and also aspiring game dev and programmer as a small side carrier simplicity is efficiency and efficiency is beauty, especially when you get dat efficiency V pick 👌.
@user-el1xv2qy1k
@user-el1xv2qy1k 3 жыл бұрын
I think it’s because nature selects! Women are the ones who carry the baby, they’re a pivotal role in the evolution of the human race and so they are naturally going to be more picky because subconsciously they are aware that they’re part of nature itself that is constantly striving to evolve beyond what is in the now.
@asaashara2592
@asaashara2592 2 жыл бұрын
I don't get upset that im a simple kinda man. She hit the nail on the head with this though lol
@dtogo4286
@dtogo4286 3 жыл бұрын
I got afriend :38 years old, inherited his dad's business, makes $700,000/year, lives near a college campus, only sleeps with smoking hot college students early 20s. There's no way in hell a 35 year old woman rich/poor whatever is getting near him
@FaithK.29
@FaithK.29 4 жыл бұрын
Not all women. I used to look at material things in men but once you give God your HEART and he transforms YOU, Your desires go with it. You begin to look at character, wisdom, humility etc. a man with wisdom is richer than a man who has millions but has no sense of who he is! Yes women literally NEED security it’s in our DNA just like men NEED respect. But it’s not just about money. I need to know that I can be secure in your decision making, secure in knowing that because you LOVE Jesus then you’ll know how to properly love me. The problem is there are so many women AND men looking for someone that’s gonna look cute and match the culture’s “relationship goals” but they have no real sense of identity because the relationship was cultivated and based off of what they do, what they drive and how much money they make. That’s not a solid foundation. And we out here deceived thinking “ain’t no such thing as real love” but the truth is your preference may just not be in alignment with the truth and that’s why you keep getting stuck with counterfeits.
@FaithK.29
@FaithK.29 4 жыл бұрын
And women, we can’t be out here looking for a man with these qualities but don’t have the character to match what we expect.
@captainsisko7629
@captainsisko7629 3 жыл бұрын
"You used to look at material things in men" and how long did take for you to figure this out. I noticed most women don't figure out their list is ridiculous until they are about 35 to 40. Yes women a biological atracted to men with resources and men at almost any age are attracted to women in prime child baring years 18 -30. How old are you ????
@tangoalpha94
@tangoalpha94 Жыл бұрын
@@captainsisko7629 exactly. I don’t buy this God stuff when they get older
@babykosh5415
@babykosh5415 3 жыл бұрын
Dear Tomi Larhen ...
@TokyoTaisu
@TokyoTaisu 3 жыл бұрын
Haha
@liljothan
@liljothan 3 жыл бұрын
This woman is what modern feminist call a "pick me"....but she is stating so much facts.
@liptongtr
@liptongtr 2 жыл бұрын
This hasn't been my experience all, for me the high expectation has been being really good looking as a guy. If it just came down to height, income level, and college degrees I'd be living on easy street, but this has not been the case in my experience.
@VibrantBeauty1212
@VibrantBeauty1212 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t need a man (a BM) to make 6 figures and drive a Porsche. How about just finding one who tells the truth, who doesn’t want to sleep with everything that moves just cause they can get it, who works hard on achieving his dreams and is kind to others and genuinely loving to me. Money aside... that’s what I’m looking for. Good character. And most women I know, especially Black women... that’s what they care about most... not money. Especially if they’re not a broke woman... money is not the main thing women look at. BW are WELL aware of the wealth gap and options we have... painfully aware. Many of us end up dating average men even if they make less than us! But BW want to make money because we want to certain lifestyle, and we don’t want to HAVE to depend on finding a man who can do it for us, because we more than likely won’t find one! SAD but true. But most of the time that scenario tends not to work with women making more than men. Because the woman gets tired of being put in the breadwinner position and wants to chill and CANT unless they lifestyle levels down. Or the man begins to resent the woman he’s with because just based on the sheer fact he being taken care of makes him feel emasculated. SMH....
@Victhemighty
@Victhemighty 3 жыл бұрын
glad i took the red pill no women draining my resources here
@VibrantBeauty1212
@VibrantBeauty1212 3 жыл бұрын
Young Victor yeah you gotta watch out for people in general. People in general can be a drain, male, female, black, white... doesn’t matter. You gotta look out for yourself, there are some major users and opportunists out there.
@Victhemighty
@Victhemighty 3 жыл бұрын
@@VibrantBeauty1212 people in general? no, women in general
@VibrantBeauty1212
@VibrantBeauty1212 3 жыл бұрын
Young Victor Well, I don’t date women, I date men. So, when l personally look for a mate I have to make sure the man I’m dating doesn’t have the wrong intentions (which many of them have). Users come in all colors shapes and sizes.
@Victhemighty
@Victhemighty 3 жыл бұрын
@@VibrantBeauty1212 nah women are hypergamous men are not. The only ones who say the opposite are women trying to shift the blame and make women look better
@SamBWinning
@SamBWinning 4 жыл бұрын
Read relationship goals by pastor Mike Todd gives an awesome perspective.
@octavius9685
@octavius9685 3 жыл бұрын
Ill take a 7/10 with a great attitude over a 10/10 with a degree and shit attitude, ALL FUCKING DAY!!!
@Really_Roby
@Really_Roby 2 жыл бұрын
We're not products.
@thomashenshallhydraxis
@thomashenshallhydraxis 3 жыл бұрын
I will never take a women on a dinner date ever again. I just buy stock with the money saved, now women step over each other just to cook dinner with me. I guess when they know how much stock you have; it means.... 💵 Then I still don’t do anything, and they want me more. It’s amazing. I do nothing and get more tail then when I used to care for a women’s feelings.
@sxyteesa0890
@sxyteesa0890 3 жыл бұрын
you sound like a prize to have. -_-
@thomashenshallhydraxis
@thomashenshallhydraxis 3 жыл бұрын
@@sxyteesa0890 I am a amazing prize; one of the best catches in the sea, thats why i have standards. I am no longer a ATM for american white women. It amazes me that men can not see what women want in a man. It is money. That is why so many low 20's talk to me. They want the clout of a business man. they want the money of a business man. Beta fish need no nibble on this bait. I bet your the beta male that the girl comes to after i am done; plowing the harvest? "There was a jerk and he was like not giving me money; so i F'ed him so hard, and still didn't give me any money." lol Can always tell the simps with the passive aggressive language. Son....One day; you will reach a age; to see women only use men as stepping stones. I see what women do and what women are. Weird; how a vagina resembles a wallet... wake up before your Ho takes all your Dough.
@Dimz30
@Dimz30 3 жыл бұрын
Got the formula
@sxyteesa0890
@sxyteesa0890 3 жыл бұрын
@@thomashenshallhydraxis LMFAO 😂 alright
@dommaybe
@dommaybe 3 жыл бұрын
I always say most women are so self aware that's they're not aware! 😂
@debbysilence4495
@debbysilence4495 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah but I know a lot of men who are willing to put up with being cheated on and lied to and used for money. All the power to them if they're willing to take all that along with a beautiful body but I'm not willing to deal with that much drama ever.
@mdtapilatu
@mdtapilatu 3 жыл бұрын
men changed too..mgtow (mens guiding their own wealth) freedom atlast
@bbjj2867
@bbjj2867 3 жыл бұрын
If she is a 4 on the scale of 1to 10. She wants a guy that is at least a 6. Very rarely do men actually date or marry a woman on his level.
@snitchieboysnitch5420
@snitchieboysnitch5420 2 жыл бұрын
Its all good and dandy but since she is a marchmaker wouldn't it mean that people who use her services failed at finding a partner on their own (i.e. unrralistic expectatios) and thus the rrsulting thesis cant be extrapolated on the general population because the sample was biased?
@ravendronesolutions
@ravendronesolutions 5 ай бұрын
One thing I've seen is that women say one thing and then respond to something else. Plus, they say they want a certain lifestyle yet when you ask them how much it costs they dont have the slightest clue, or they dont know that most men don't make nearly enough to cover that. Women by in large are coddled and sheltered compared to men so they dont experience consequences the way men do. Plus, a woman can taker a year off of work and say that she needs to "find herself" or "needs to heal" yet us men don't get that luxury. If we dont produce, we are useless. Men and women live completely different realities.
@nannoxdesign
@nannoxdesign 3 жыл бұрын
🙏💪👌
@stephenbrown2054
@stephenbrown2054 Жыл бұрын
Men will even be happy with so so attractive women if they are feminine, virtuous, easy to live with, and build up the man as much as they do themselves.
@Bob-mn7ob
@Bob-mn7ob 2 жыл бұрын
Seems Rebecca’s a solid 10.
@patrickchosen1brobbey
@patrickchosen1brobbey Жыл бұрын
I Am NOT Dealing with ANY of these Single Man 12 years NOW Since My EX Woman and I haven't SLEPT Around 12 years NOW and that WON'T be CHANGING Anytime SOON As I don't SLEEP AROUND and I am NOT interested in Any RELATIONSHIP Right NOW My MINDSET is SINGLE 1000% more IMPORTANTLY is GOD is My WITNESS UPDATED by MYSELF @ 7 as ALWAYS As GOD is My WITNESS
@victorylapp
@victorylapp 3 жыл бұрын
A woman's degrees, bank account etc counts for nothing in a man's mind, regardless of his status, except if he is trying to use her. here are the essentials regardless of a mans status: 1) Non Feminist (Far from it), 2) attractive, 3) feminine - wifey material, 4) great personality. Nice to have's sweet smile, intelligent , great conversationalist ! that should cut it
@paolapai
@paolapai 3 жыл бұрын
Male logic: 1. Use money to attract underemployed women. 2. Complain because she only cares about his money and got divorce raped.
@victorylapp
@victorylapp 3 жыл бұрын
@sweetpea congratulations to your creativity for making up crap
@paolapai
@paolapai 3 жыл бұрын
@@victorylapp you know it's real. All the men who complain about women using them for money or getting divorce raped are men who got into relationships with women who earned much less than them.
@Really_Roby
@Really_Roby 2 жыл бұрын
It's fine not to be impressed by the degrees or career, but it's not okay to look down on or minimize it. Success takes a lot of hard work. No person with a brain would dismiss that.
@victorylapp
@victorylapp 2 жыл бұрын
@@paolapai not true
@cozmikmindz7937
@cozmikmindz7937 2 жыл бұрын
Men are Practical... In there Simplicity
@jermainerucker2027
@jermainerucker2027 2 жыл бұрын
True u get a guy like Henry Cavil who can get any woman he wants Married to a girl who works at Starbucks
@Smarty2able
@Smarty2able Жыл бұрын
"if a man is sexually attracted to a woman, he'll do anything for her." Guess that wasn't my ex then. Boy, I felt like what I'm doing wrong to attract men who want to waste my time. I didn't even have sex with them. I just don't get it.
@dmvnative6102
@dmvnative6102 2 жыл бұрын
Are men allowed to have standards? Specifically, black men?
@Timoteo4
@Timoteo4 3 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, people selectively choose to interpret language literally. When you say men are "simple," that isn't a judgment of intelligence. It just means that in some areas, men simplify processes. They break issues down to the most important elements to them.
@dandaman9009
@dandaman9009 8 ай бұрын
Can we admit that the list, demoralizes and cucks us. Let’s be real, some men are just like ok I have been humbled at work, and in the gym, and I gotta go work to get my respect I humble myself to this work. We don’t want to be beaten up and humbled by our partners the one place I don’t wanna be humble and relax is at home. Right now there’s no woman at home and I have peace.
@LawAbidingCitizenHelloOfficer
@LawAbidingCitizenHelloOfficer 6 ай бұрын
Just focus on self brah 😂 learn to love things more than love/sex
@dandaman9009
@dandaman9009 6 ай бұрын
@@LawAbidingCitizenHelloOfficer Well I did that. Now I want sex and love after going to work and going to the gym, and playing music, and focusing on other hobbies. Iv done other things when does this happen for me? Wait another month? 6? A year?
@dreaminginnoother
@dreaminginnoother 3 жыл бұрын
She laid it out exactly as it is. It's a sad reality of women who try to climb that corporate ladder. I am not a traditionalist at all, but trying to make more women ceo's and business leaders is going to mean more unsatisfied women, since they are actually attracted to a man they can look up to. They are shrinking their own dating pool. Meanwhile, millionaire dudes be pickin' up cute waitresses and baristas.
@gaguy1967
@gaguy1967 2 жыл бұрын
blame it on Sex and the City
@catchmeintherye2102
@catchmeintherye2102 3 жыл бұрын
The message is : men level up, women level down. There are women that are not only highly successful but also incredibly good looking and sexy and good persons. Those are the women that should not level down. It boils down to being realistic about what you can offer and receive, which 90% of both genders are not.
@petis1976
@petis1976 2 жыл бұрын
As she stated before, most women will not date a man who isn't on their level, and unfortunately for them, most men don't care. The pool your example of women are looking for is extremely tiny, and those super successful men can date a doctor, a lawyer, a stripper, a nurse, a cashier or the girl who works produce at a grocery store, it doesn't matter. Successful, beautiful women usually end up old and alone because their standards can't be met and that is the new era woman's problem. Men have sex with who the can, women have sex with who they want, but men marry who they want while women marry who they can.
@mikebutler7121
@mikebutler7121 3 жыл бұрын
The real women are taking or staying single the others have 5 kids 5 dads 1 dad around ghetto but high maintenance ill stay single too
@503redbull
@503redbull 3 жыл бұрын
Kevin Samuels brought me here
@Foxie635
@Foxie635 Жыл бұрын
We are not complicated, we were played by Disney and Hollywood (romantic comedies).
@seanmichael6844
@seanmichael6844 Жыл бұрын
Getting education is fine. Well from education that doesn’t mean you’re educated fully there’s only far so far in education you can go unless you just get your quantum physics degree. And as far as Money is concerned, the way the world is now money is going to change the dollar is even going to lose its value so you’ll have these degrees and AI will replace majority of these degreed positions and the only way that you can make money is if you’re selling something that people want, so after that, all we’re going to have us as human beings to deal with each other and then what. I went real deep on this is because there’s been emphasis put on all these things and if you’re not looking at that it is looking at OK we have a freedom now we can get any degree that we want. We can make a little bit more money than we’ve been making in the past for the next 10 to 20 years all that’s going to make a major shift again so degrees and money they’re not going to be a thing as there was before it’s gonna be mostly just a maintaining society so maybe I’m going to deep but it is real
@raidendwayne21
@raidendwayne21 3 жыл бұрын
Tomi larhrn should listen to this woman,she lay it down perfectly ,we men are more simple,and shallow when we look at a partner
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