hey besties, it would mean the WORLD to me if you considered subscribing and liking this video 🫶😭 (and watching until the end!!) I appreciate all of you so much you have no ideaaaa

I really needed this video. I'm struggling with being alone since I ended up messing up a relationship that I really valued. Just so worried about the future and being without this person. Learning that all I really need is myself and God and I'll be ok. Some days I feel better than others, but really appreciate this video.

"People can change, people can leave without any reasons, people can pass away in 1,000 different ways. The only person you have in the end is yourself." Wow, I loved it when you said that. Thank you for sharing all your wonderful videos and content - I've found your videos so helpful.

I had constantly been getting jealous of everyone around me and I was unconsciously avoiding spending time alone, but today now that I finally did I understand that I was skipping on needed self-care time and your video made me realise these things

Studying abroad in Japan made me realized that I only have myself at the end of the day. It was lonely at first but I’m used to it now :) Going out alone is my favorite thing to do now!

i have social anxiety so one of my biggest struggles is being by myself in public places. i turned seventeen couple of days ago and when i say i have social anxiety people literally laugh in my face and they're like oh so you can't go to the grocery store alone grow up finally. i can go to grocery store alone, i can pay for myself and everything but with huge amount of anxiety on my back. i'm growing up in toxic and at some point abusive household so when my parents comment on my body or anything else, i think that others think the same as them. i like to be alone, you know just reading my books, listening to music, playing games and more. i don't feel lonely when i'm alone. but these days when you're focusing on yourself and you don't really hang out with people, or you don't go to parties to drink etc you're considered to be a "boring" person with no life. when i think of it all, people my age literally f*ck around and i'm stuck in my house trying to figure out myself because now i have no idea who i am or who i am supposed to be. anyways, i loved the video so much. your channel is one of my comfort things for quite a while. i love you and hope you're having a great day/night. much love. 🤍🧚‍♂

as an introverted myself, I've always appreciated my alone time, and I think this video explains one of the best thing we can do for our mental health! Now you reminded me that i have a beautiful garden so i'll go there to read :) thank u

I love this! I’m comfy spending time alone at home but not always outside of that so I could challenge myself more

It's not just a content, it makes a real difference in someone's way of thinking and feeling. I'm really grateful to be here and knowing that the feeling that have been bothering me so much is actually something I should be cherishing.

the fact that going to a restaurant by yourself was on level 3 is surprising to me lol, as someone who has super bad social anxiety and hates being perceived in public, going to restaurants is one of the few things i can convince myself to do (probably because my constant desire for food is stronger than my aversion to people but idk)

I have no friends or partner, and two years ago, by the end of the summer, my mental health was at zero. I even spent a couple of weeks in the hospital. the doctor said that everything was fine with my physical health. now, looking back at it, I understand that it was from the fact that I could not spend time alone. but now I'm working on myself, and it's much easier for me to survive the summer. thank you, Rebecca, I always enjoy watching your vids. you are awesome!!!!!

it felt so great being understood ! my mom always feel worries when i do stuff alone, when i go to museums alone, restaurants alone, i just need some honest time with myself to feel better with others

Definitely feeling lonely. My birthday is in a week and I will literally have nobody around me. BUT i will treat myself to a nice gym session followed by some skateboarding afterwards. I'll go get a nice haircut and I will give myself the day off from doing work. Ending the day with some fresh pizza and a nice movie I can watch ,':D

This has to be my favorite video from you yet!!😀. There’s a toxic family member I need to break away from, but I’m scared to do it because we’ve always been so close. But I can’t deal with the pain anymore. This video helped me to know that I’m going to be okay🥰. Thanks Becca. Love you and your videos😊💕💕

I just saw your "WHY YOU SHOULD FOCUS ON YOURSELF ♡ (how to date yourself & my self love journey)" and It inspired me, *might try something like you did as well* I felt lonely in this world, like I didn't fit with anyone when I was in grade 4-9...but in the 10th grade I started to love myself more and learn new things (music, dancing, art...) , gave me popularity and confidence in myself for the last 3 years of HS Struggled and went through a dark past Spending time alone to myself again for the last 5 months..losing my Mom to Cancer, I felt empty during the 2 months she passed away and currently on a Journey to Self-Love again. Trying to go on dates with myself and enjoying nature. God bless to everyone on their journey to love yourself, it's a important thing to keep in mind.

Thank you so much for being real, Rebecca. It's easy to assume that a college age and attractive looking girl like yourself would be "living it up", having parties and being surrounded by people 24/7. But as you've mentioned, it isn't the case for many people, yourself included. And we should all learn to detox from social media and be comfortable with ourselves every once in awhile! Sending you hugs from Singapore :) - Just another recent college grad who chanced upon and fell in love with your style of vlogs!

i know that i’m a year late but this really helped me. after being in a 4 year relationship that ended in a traumatic way, i realised i never did things for myself. During the sudden breakup and extreme exam stress, i had also pretty much lost all my friends. at first i was afraid of being alone but it has allowed me to have time to heal and better myself. sometimes its hard to feel good about it but seeing how much i’ve grown and how much happier i’ve been really makes it feel worth it. i’m 18 in less than 2 months, have no friends and don’t go out every weekend partying but i’m ok with that! as long as i’m happy, why does it matter to other people?

I used to wait for my friends to be available so that I could go out with them. but many times, I ended up being pissed at myself that I wasted my off days waiting for someone to be available. that's when I started going out on my own. to the mall, to the movies (multiple times), to a restaurant. I would advise listening to music/podcast, watching KZfaq, anything that can sorta distract you a little bit during your first few times going out alone so that you don't get so overwhelmed with the thought whether everyone's staring at you or judging you, especially for those with social anxiety/awkwardness. I wanna try the beach/picnic/cycling idea soon. all the best! we can do it!! ❤

I found out my bf of 5 years cheated on me last year, leading to the past events we shared out together turning into one huge lie. Like you said, I kept him around despite issues we’ve had cause I didn’t want to be alone until this moment. This video really helped me realize I can be single and free again, thinking of going to a restaurant by myself now

Thank you for posting this video! I feel like I need time alone, because I sometimes still feel insecure about my height because my friends are like way taller than me, even I think you're taller than me and I'm a boy lol. Your channel helped me accept who I am, and thank you for that.

Thank you for this video. In high school I had held onto a friend who was really hurting me because I was afraid to be alone. When I finally let her go, it was so hard to be alone. I’m learning now that it’s okay! I took myself out one day. I was scared but I did it and it was so relaxing. And you are so right. I wanted to grow but felt like I was going in circles. I asked my cousin for some advice and she said that you need that time by yourself to really grow just as much as you need to be surrounded by good people! Your videos are so amazing! Keep up the good work! 💖

I love Rebecca’s self-care vlog so much!!!

Your content is everything I needed in my life right now! Thank you for supporting me through my own journey to loving being alone!

I don't have too many friends so it's time to be with myself finally. You're inspire me, thank you

Your videos and your voice bring me so much peace and I just start feeling better immediately 🥰 A great source of useful information and motivation, thank you so much for making these videos

I love this video it gives me so much comfort and I am so excited for summer myself! I am from Germany and in 6 days my summer break begins, after my vacation in Croatia I am finally starting my bulk and I am just so excited for the time I get to spent with myself going book shopping, to the gym and some meet up with friends! Thank you for this video it just made me more excited 🤍🤍

All your videos are so well made, they make me think about things in a different (and more positive) way and they’re sooo relaxing

Dear Rebecca, thank u so much for this video!! Every summer since middle school I spend mostly alone. That's why I always feel uncomfortable and stay at home nearly all day long. But this vid trully motivated me to do something New alone💗

i really love your videos because they make me feel validated and accepted in how i feel, but they also help me understand those feelings better with science which is so cool. i love learning new things, so every time you mention a quote, person, book or a study i literally screenshot it for later so i can learn more. love you

Hi Rebecca! This video was so beautiful and well done! It brought a smile to my face. This is definitely something that does not get talked about enough, and becoming my own best friend has changed my life. Even though I’m only 15 and I can’t really take myself anywhere, just being ok with being alone is the perfect start.

TYSM . YOU HAVE OPENED MY MIND!

Well I tried this experience, of having a picnic by myself and I must say… It was completely awesome ❤️ Thank you so much for the inspiration Rebecca ❤️

im trying to improve throughout the summer & this video really inspired me

This video helped me a lot as I struggle to focus on myself and constantly want to be around others. I always feel like I need to have someone with me to keep myself entertained and it leads to an unrealistic mindset. I've been told that I need to care and love myself more and this video definitely made me think about what I can do to change my unhealthy lifestyle.

Love this ❤️this is exactly what my summer has been like and it’s definitely healing ,difficult but really good for myself. I like how you did research about certain facts too .

as always the perfect timing of your video uploads is what really makes me feel really connected to you I guess. I was struggling with the fact of being alone for last 2-3 months a lot. The fear of being lonely at life became so crrippling in my life all of a sudden! Your video just led me to be at ease with the fact. Thank you Rebecca!🤍

I love this video sm, thank you for posting it! Often times I used to find myself feeling alone bc I the majority of the time I wasn’t accompanied by people where I’d go but lately I’ve adapted to the feeling of being alone with myself and no longer feel bad about it. This video truly shows that you don’t need the company of other to have a good time and being alone isn’t a bad thing

Thank you so much, I love these kinds of video’s. They always motivate me to be better. You’re an idol❤️

Thanks for posting this! I really needed this video with that message. I always forget that I should not hold people in my life even though I do not feel good with them or was hurt by them. Just so I am not alone. But also what's my reminder to everyone else here: Even if you feel alone, like nobody is there for you, I believe (and maybe you can too) that there is someone out there (doesn't matter, if it's god, a loved person that isn't near you right now or someone who has passed away) who really cares for you and will always be with you and watch over you. I really like to picture myself being watched and cared by my grandma, who passed away over 10 years ago. I like to believe that she is so proud of me for getting through this and that she will always be there to guide me. I really wish you all the best!

i’m alone this summer and this video helps a lot!!! love you rebecca 💗💗💗

Loved this! Alone time is so important. There’s 💯a difference between being alone and being lonely!

I was just searching how to "take yourself on a date and this video appeared. Tomorrow I'm gonna go to library then have a picnic outside, thanks for the video :))

thank you so much for this. this video helped me so much and taught me so much💕

So much wisdom packed in 10 minutes! Thank u

You’re so cuteee 🥺 btw thanks for this video I really needed it . you’re an angel !

Me watching this video.. in the mind of it I’m literally saying “ omg I love this girl, I love her “ cuz she’s really amazing! and I love watching her💗

Cute and i‘m pretty sure a much needed video!! Thank you

Thanks I really needed this ♡︎ I’m always alone in high school, and I have social anxiety, thank you for comforting me, hope one day I can overcome myself and step out of comfort zone to stop worried too much and being sacred, thank you 💕

Gorgeous shots! Also, the message is so true. I never thought to just have a picnic by myself. Makes sense to enjoy yourself in your own company than try and demand attention from those who might be toxic. And it's healthy to have boundaries put into place for yourself

Thank you for this! This summer has been hard because it’s the first time I’ve really ever been alone

You're right thanks for giving me more ideas about loving myself and trying to create a better version of me. You're video is so inspirational indeed it gave me more strength to face a better me 💗😊

Can we mention how absolutely adorable is that she's trying to respond to every single one comment? It means a lot

Thank you very much. I've been in need for this kind of content in this phase of my life. 🥰

I love you 'Becca thank you for making us feel a lot better with just literally your voice! ❤🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

Needed this ❤

Your videos help me so much !! Keep up the great work ❤️

rebecca posting two videos in a week feels illegal but way to exicted to watch it

I enjoyed this video alot and I literally searched for it ! It was a time when i needed it the most ❤

I really needed this video thank you 😊

Thank you for subtitles!

Actually I'm a year late but that fact couldn't keep me from commenting and showing my respect towards you. As an introvert myself I LOVE to spend time alone and even if I spend time with some rare people, that are my family and my classmates at school I still like to spend my time alone and even if I don't get judged and others understand I feel kind off bad for saying no to others when they ask me to go somewhere like parties and stuff but I just don't like loud stuff and things, I just like some piece, calm and nature while I'm alone while doing my favourite things. Thanks for the words of not being afraid of these things since I really needed someone to explain it calmly and without a rush to me this. Thank you very much for your time in making these videos and even reading comments even if they might be early or late. Again thanks for these videos it can help others much more than you expect

Thank youu ilyysmmm your videos make me feel so much better!!💗💗💗

thank you for this video. recently I've been feeling lonely and your video helped me find a different perspective. I'm gonna work on myself for a bit and see where I'll end up on the other side :)

You always make the most relatable vids! Love your every video!🥺❤️

Dealing with a long distance relationship where my bf is in the military has really forced me to spend time with myself and I’ve come to enjoy my time alone. I don’t have a ton of friends, either. This last year has been a growing and learning experience for me, and this video made me feel validated ❤

Your the best subscribed before watching the whole video!💖

I love this video ! It helped me 💕

thank you soooo much ! Your vids are so helpfull for me, especially this one that really reflects how i tried to spend my time these last months and it help me figure out what i haven't done well and how i can process better from now on. Thank you again ;))

Your words made me feel deeply happy

Having beach days on my own was one of the best decisions I've made. I used to think it was super weird to just do stuff alone, like everyone would judge me for it. The truth is that absolutely nobody cares (in a good way).

This is the first video of yours I watched and then watched your more recent ones and you are absolutely becoming one of my favorite youtubers. I enjoyed your videos so much and they are truly inspiring and helpful to me, I am going to try to create a routine for myself and maybe even go out by myself this week. I want to watch all of your other videos bc most of them have something I have needed help with or needed to hear or needed the motivation or reassurance for. Can't wait to see what other videos you make in the future!!! 😊🥰❤

watching your videos bring me sm joy, i love them sm !!! 💗💗

Definitely love being alone at home and excited to go out alone when I learn to drive 😊

I needed this video! SUBSCRIBED

I love love love this video! The message is exactly very much needed and inspiring. I also love that you are spreading light on this stigma that I hate and that I just realized I tend to have effect my life. This video I found super helpful and just am obsessed with all the amazing facts and tips that you have put on this video. Again, inspiring! Thanks

I love you, you inspired me

its good to learn how to like being alone. obviously, its also good to have social reactions every once and a while, but its good to learn to be independent and spend time with yourself :)

I really needed this vd thank u

Hey sister!! This video is so amazing, it made me realise that I have been wasting my life by seeking external validation and totally forgot to enjoy my own company. Now that I have realised it I will only focus on myself and do what is important for me.

You literally motivated me to come out of a really bad depression episode, thank you so much for all of your hard work into your videos!! it really really does mean a lot to all of us 🥰🥹

This video is so much beatiful , i apreciate the amount of research and information you put in , you letearly described what iam being throguh , and yeah i used to be upset and sad when iam by my self , but whith time i start to enjoy my company and to stay out of negativity and toxic people or people who doesn't preciate you, it very beatiful especialy in your 20's you can do what you love and focus on your self and solve your problems and heal from your truamas and better undertand who you are and plan for your future , peacful meaningful life .

Thank you so much Rebecca this is the video that I needed the most 🥰🥰

To be honest, this video made me become productive today. I finally did some things that I couldn't get myself to do today. Thank you so much!

Wow! your life is sooooo aesthetic!! I love to watch your videos.

te amo, gracias por esto! 😭💕

Love this video! Just subscribed 💕

I just found your channel and honestly, you're an interesting individual. I find it fascinating that we are very alike so I can relate on many levels. I love the positive messages you deliver - you're the type of people I would consider role models so I'm subscribing 😇 Don't ever change, people like you are rare. Btw you're super pretty! I'm looking forward to your next video. Stay safe ☺️

really needed this right now, thank u

i love your videos, they make me feel whole! They make me want to strive for a better life & i will. I want to be happy alone without needing others. Thank you!!

Thankyou for made this beautiful video❤❤❤❤❤

thanks for this 💌💋

wow ur videos are so helpful and they make me feel more comfortable around myslef

TYSM FOR THISS. This video made me realise so many things ilyyy Rebeccaa~~

This could not have been a better time for this video. Thank you so much!

thank you for posting this!!! I’m so happyyyy 🥰♥️

You are an angel for me rn !!! Badly needed this video !!! Thank you so much dear !!! 🥺❤️ God bless you 🥺✨

Much needed video. 🥺❤ so healing 🧡

I normally watch your videos at like 5pm because I’m bored of sitting around and watching tv and they give me motivation so I’m going to try and watch some in the morning so I a can be motivated to do stuff. You are my favourite youtuber btw x

Really enjoyed this video! Love spending some time alone 💕 really appreciate the tips and ideas ☺️

I watch this video everytime I need a pick me up and it really helps everything you say is helping me mentally even told my therapist about you 💜💜