REDDIT dating advice is absolutely useless

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Күн бұрын

yo maybe i should use these tips for my next date
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(comment "dirty 30's" if ur reading this)
0:00 post-date clarity
1:40 DON’T speak when dancing
3:44 DON’T sit weird
5:14 WEAR a bra!!!!
7:32 DON’T speak at all actually ❤️
9:31 DON’t get silly 😒
11:02 “men desire your ENTIRE attention"
12:56 when men cry, they go into shock :(
15:15 i wouldn’t last a second in 1938 i fear

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@debsmikle Жыл бұрын

here’s my 1938 thirst trap😔✊🏾: instagram.com/p/CshVDPKPY0f/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

@veenusflytrap Жыл бұрын

i have a crush on you 🙁

@anikamikim171 Жыл бұрын

Deb: at the ripe age of 29 😨 nah I thought you we’re like 19~22

@adorqss Жыл бұрын

@@veenusflytrap wtf??😭

@idkmannnnnnnn Жыл бұрын

no cause slay granny deb 😻

@KitKat07 Жыл бұрын

I suggest as your federal offence you commit arson on Tanners ranch

@debsmikle Жыл бұрын

like if u think

@soophs Жыл бұрын

what 😓

@MR.P0DC4ST Жыл бұрын

i think😕

@sifadunia435 Жыл бұрын

i don’t.

@mylefteyes Жыл бұрын

likes

@kcbbs Жыл бұрын

hiii

@justaerith Жыл бұрын

As a 136 year old granny, I can most certainly confirm that men will go into cardiac arrest if you even consider talking about your clothes, or show up to a date with slightly wrinkled stockings.

@xiroscope Жыл бұрын

Or if you trauma dump them 😍😍😍🥰😜😜👹💋❤️❤️💋🙏

@debsmikle Жыл бұрын

thank you for clearing this up. i will discard all my wrinkled stockings

@justaerith Жыл бұрын

@@debsmikle np 😉

@peachypear8765 Жыл бұрын

TYSM!! Us youngins are so lost in the dating world without this valuable info 😞

@devidocs Жыл бұрын

I was unknown to this important piece of information. I once killed a man on accident with the slightest mention of clothing

@joanna1058 Жыл бұрын

1930’s gal over here! i can confirm that my late husband left me due to my wrinkled stockings

@debsmikle Жыл бұрын

sorry to here about that joanna…if you ever need an extra brassier don’t hesitate to give me a call!

@k1ngwithw1ngs Жыл бұрын

😔

@NanaPhe Жыл бұрын

tragic times… I remember those

@khalilahd. Жыл бұрын

Damn if only this video came out before that 😪

@joanna1058 Жыл бұрын

@@khalilahd. fr maybe he wouldn’t have left me! oh well he’s dead now!

@mariamaafiya Жыл бұрын

I BELIEVED HER FOR A HOT SECOND WHEN SHE SAID SHE’S 29 I’M SO SO SORRY DEB 😭😭

@jelly_josss2403 Жыл бұрын

@Hawthorne Frederick💋 she was a senior 3 years ago tho wasn’t she?😭

@bunn.4696 Жыл бұрын

SAME I HAD TO READ COMMENTS JUST TO MAKE SURE 😭

@daymag07 11 ай бұрын

Same

@heraexp3 11 ай бұрын

@@lesbianswiftieisn't she like 21 idkk

@princesspickle2766 10 ай бұрын

@@lesbianswiftieshe’s not she’s 21

@reyahh15 Жыл бұрын

as a woman from 1938, i can attest that the reason you were not allowed to talk while dancing is because we used to have rap battles and the men didn’t want to lose.

@Strawebbie Жыл бұрын

I haven’t seen the word “attest” sense 1760 👶👍

@khalilahd. Жыл бұрын

That makes so much sense!

@moonshinershonor202 Жыл бұрын

Errmggrd 2010 was not that long ago! Right??!!?

@coconut_carebearxo Жыл бұрын

We must respect our husbands

@pioxia777 11 ай бұрын

⁠@@moonshinershonor202Its only 2 months ago

@imshaylaaa Жыл бұрын

DEB YOU CANNOT JUST COME BACK LIKE THIS. THERE IS NO WAY YOU LEFT US LIKE THIS 😭😭😭

@dashhh2087 Жыл бұрын

yet each time ima forgive deb😰

@jaiwakeup Жыл бұрын

LITERALLY SHE LEFT US FOR SO LONG 😭😭😭

@imshaylaaa Жыл бұрын

@@jaiwakeup IK RIGHT 😭😭

@lucasrsl9190 Жыл бұрын

I SWEARR 😭

@ketaminepoptarts Жыл бұрын

i forgot she existed tbh lmao

@whoiskyrsten Жыл бұрын

deb : “at the ripe age of .. 29 “ also deb: “ published in 1938 so I was *counts fingers* 3.” 😭💀

@jujubiee8281 Жыл бұрын

always keepin 'em guessing lol

@a.person.somewhere 10 ай бұрын

she’s not even 29 😭😭

@sheepgardenfr Жыл бұрын

as a woman from the 1930s, i have to say i became so smart after drinking too much, my date became threatened by my superior intellect and he left mid-date 😔😔

@sweettea735 Жыл бұрын

As a 1930’s baby, thank you for the representation, these 21st century gyals have nothing on my girdle and revealed ankles 🤪 currently writing this on a messenger pigeon in the nursing home and my husband is taking his dementia pills.

@onthebasscleff Жыл бұрын

this isn't twitter 🙄

@marammaaroufi6093 Жыл бұрын

You’re such a darling!! Thank you for sharing my thoughts! As a 1942 baby, I’m so glad to see our generation is thriving and alive! Greetings from my messenger pigeon to yours!

@maddleine Жыл бұрын

Revealed ankles? How scandalous…

@debsmikle Жыл бұрын

so glad i was able to shed light on the golden era ☺️💕 You left your walker at my house by the way! I’ll drop it off at the nursing home when I get the chance honey

@sweettea735 Жыл бұрын

@@debsmikle us grandmas need to stay together 🥰

@shut.uploll3062 Жыл бұрын

DEB YOU HAVE NO RIGHT ALWAYS LOOKING THIS GOOD

@sleepy-_-head Жыл бұрын

IKR SHE'S GLOWING LIKE ALWAYS

@DarkLordofDetroit Жыл бұрын

RIGHT SHES GORGEOUS

@ahavahwarr Жыл бұрын

i couldn’t get over how cute she is the whole video 😭

@khalilahd. Жыл бұрын

Literally especially after a month of being gone 😭💕

@barbiedoll44 Жыл бұрын

FRR SHES SO BEAUTIFUL

@lillia3995 Жыл бұрын

I dont even like men but the “men deserve, desire your entire attention” GOT ME GOING

@devenrincon Жыл бұрын

as someone who was in fact a teenager in the 1930s, i am able to confirm that i went on quite a few dates during my time as a mischievous teen. however, my days were cut short when i went on a date and my date said, "oh my! what a marvelous tune!" while we were dancing. i was shocked. i passed out and needed to go to the hospital. i was barely alive, and had to be in the ICU for 3 years. i still remember it to this day. it gives me the chills every time i think about it. i really do hope my vulture committee delivers this soon. thank you for listening to my story.

@BestBelieveImStillBejeweled 9 ай бұрын

Wait a hot minute are you a Swiftie

@devenrincon 9 ай бұрын

yessss@@BestBelieveImStillBejeweled

@tayIorversion 8 ай бұрын

starlight easter egg i see u 🤭🤭

@elizabeth37902 Жыл бұрын

deb: leaves for a month after a date also deb: returns with dating advice (love you deb❤)

@alyabae1110 Жыл бұрын

she defo took a month to recover

@debsmikle Жыл бұрын

@@alyabae1110 how obvious is it

@chipmunkishungry5237 Жыл бұрын

@@debsmikle Not obvious at all grandma....no one has a clue, we promise.

@mariwanthesmoke333 Жыл бұрын

@@debsmikle very🥰

@khalilahd. Жыл бұрын

Lmfao she went on one date and needed a month to recuperate 😭

@ninappropriately Жыл бұрын

grandma deb left for so long i thought you'd turned into a raging furry don't worry ur grandchildren again deb

@debsmikle Жыл бұрын

😭😭😭

@judeiscariot Жыл бұрын

ever again ms. deborah

@keepitmia Жыл бұрын

purrr bestie you made it to the gram

@chubbyclouds855 Жыл бұрын

Does anyone else think that Deb just looks EXTRA pretty in this vid😭 like she's always stunning but this vid just did it for me🥰🥰love you debb

@coolboss999 Жыл бұрын

I literally just got my wisdom teeth pulled this Friday. This video made me laugh so hard that my stitches came out and i started bleeding. Thank you grandma Deb for the sweet taste of blood 🩸😍🤤

@Yami-po6kl Жыл бұрын

LOLLLLL😭😭😭

@arandomperson609 Жыл бұрын

Deb went missing for a month and came back to help her with dating advice😭💀

@_gHoStY_-no2df Жыл бұрын

And her last vid was abt her going on a date 😭😭

@khalilahd. Жыл бұрын

She needed that month to recover 😂

@impulsive_decision_ Жыл бұрын

the “awkward sitting positions” on google had me ROLLING💀

@MARTINBABEH Жыл бұрын

AND SHES BACK YAYYYY

@debsmikle Жыл бұрын

LOVE YOUUUUUUU WEEEEEE

@natalieeeee456 Жыл бұрын

I remember reading this article in 1938! My past husband did actually die from crying about my talking while dancing. It was tragic. The funeral was held and was a party because no other men could cry. It was a bop.

@ghasttheboy1412 Жыл бұрын

Going on reddit was your first mistake gurlll... Great video boo

@debsmikle Жыл бұрын

it really wassss AH

@chlowibee Жыл бұрын

nah bc why are people on reddit either the most chill ppl or absolutely bloody *WILD*

@-Fritzo- Жыл бұрын

As a man myself, I can confirm that when we cry we do go into cardiac arrest. That's why we can't risk crying. Please.... spreading the word..🥺😥😰😣😭 #spreadawareness #mendieiftheycry

@piggywiggy4990 Жыл бұрын

i saw Reddit and IMMEDIATELY clicked. Deb + Omegle = chaos. But Deb + Reddit… girl this gon be traumatic Edit: I was so right. It was going well until the very end when she casually mentioned that she wouldn’t have rights in the 1930s! We love a politically correct queen.

@toffee_todd Жыл бұрын

as if tanner wasnt traumatic enough..

@sandyshinigamers6068 Жыл бұрын

Deb+omegle=falling in love with a racist guy (if uk wat I'm talking abt)

@khalilahd. Жыл бұрын

Lmfaoo literally my thought process when I clicked the video 😂

@angieeena4848 Жыл бұрын

@Ayaaz Rahman LMFAOOO not the tanner incident 😞

@smgl0629 Жыл бұрын

Well look who finally decided to feed her grandchildren 🤨

@jacobgutierrez8134 Жыл бұрын

I get the psych major thing. A friend of mine’s ex boyfriend would LITERALLY try to tell her how she felt and disregard what she was saying. She promptly broke up with him after a month or two of dating.

@nichtich8706 Жыл бұрын

I am from 1910 and 85 years old. To the delight of all of us, I can confirm that these advices come from a construction in which women were supposed to be quiet and invisible housewives. Therefore, it is obvious that the tree-planting men, by virtue of their socially superior position, continue to maintain and can only hold onto it if they are admired; not otherwise annoyed. Clearly, this is also not centred on the desires of one gender image as well as being fundamentally sexist. You're right, probably some of these sentences could have come from an alpha-potcast, because in most cases they are sexist as well

@hooray32140 Жыл бұрын

wouldn't you be 113?

@pioxia777 11 ай бұрын

@@hooray32140No

@flonny1340 11 ай бұрын

@@pioxia777but you would tho? The math ain't mathing 🤨

@pioxia777 11 ай бұрын

@@flonny1340 No

@buditae1658 Жыл бұрын

so we gon ingnore the fact that deb left us....disintigrate into thin air and now just came back when a large majority of us have exams going on?

@banaqos Жыл бұрын

do your exams then girly

@sarahking5598 Жыл бұрын

So at 8:27 I actually do know the answer lol. My grandma passed away a year ago and was 95. So she was 11 in 1938. BUT she also had a older sister who gave her advice on dating. And her sister said almost this exact thing. Talk about the things you like. Especially clothes.

@dynamicdingo1202 Жыл бұрын

Aww both your grandmother and her sister sound lovely. May they rest in peace 🕊

@catdownthestreet Жыл бұрын

The 30’s were dry asf- who did these men think they were pulling with those kinda standards 💀

@luiny.beatriz Жыл бұрын

Hi, deb! I'm Brazilian and I found your channel a few months ago. I want to thank you for being so funny and making my days happier. and I also want to thank you for helping me to speak English. I'm still learning, so I apologize if I made any mistakes in this message. I love you and I wish you the best. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

@kimaya.3563 Жыл бұрын

I don't notice a single mistake. You're doing great!!

@luiny.beatriz Жыл бұрын

@@kimaya.3563 Thank you very much! You are very kind! ☺☺☺💕💕💕

@isabelatoniolli7264 Жыл бұрын

Mais uma brasileira assistindo ela amoooo kkkkk

@luiny.beatriz Жыл бұрын

@@isabelatoniolli7264 OS REFRESCOS KKKKKKKKKKKKKKK juroooo 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

@asmozinho Жыл бұрын

Adoro ✨

@impulsive_decision_ Жыл бұрын

i’m glad researching dating advice from the 1930s on reddit, gives you a clearer perspective on your dating life right now deborah👉🚪💀

@notsweetxkiwi6109 Жыл бұрын

Bro I just found ur channel yesterday AND UR SO FUCKING PRETTY?! I ALSO LOVE UR CONTENT

@mirakondrakunta Жыл бұрын

No one: Deb: "I have bad posture" Also Deb: Sitting up straight with perfect posture during the whole video 😭😭

@may-vu2jw Жыл бұрын

deb you look gorgeous!!!!! the hair, the makeup palette, the outfit, literally everything!!!?? how do you keep getting prettier 🥴😫💗

@boiwhatdahellboi69 Жыл бұрын

Deb somehow keeps getting prettier and prettier💗

@malbriggs1451 Жыл бұрын

Hey Deb I was born in 1920 and I can confirm this it was how dating was in 1938, I went on this date and I started talking about my new clothes and this guy instantly left the table and made me pay! It was a horrible night he even stopped sending me bird messages 😓

@lillian_cash Жыл бұрын

as a proud member of the old lady community (my friends and i have a gc called old ladies gang) i can accurately confirm that i have had MULTIPLE men ghost me bc i tugged on my girdle and talked about clothes too much 😔

@TashAndStuff Жыл бұрын

One thing Deb is going to do is entertain us❤

@glitch6868 Жыл бұрын

2:00 I remember at one of my middle school dances we got the boring guy who never participates in the dances to dance and he became the life of the party, it was amazing

@user-yf3wt4tq1m Жыл бұрын

One date and now she’s giving us advice ,I’m here for it 😮‍💨🤣

@yelpforhelp Жыл бұрын

12:08 please not the colleen hoover

@jazmin.r Жыл бұрын

Deb’s editing always eats 💗

@luvwtch6831 Жыл бұрын

oh how i’ve missed you grandma deb, i hope you’re doing well 😊🫶🏾 (edit : im sorry deb but i will be majoring in psychology 😭)

@NS-fh2pz Жыл бұрын

same here , how else am i supposed to master the art of gaslighting😞

@luvwtch6831 Жыл бұрын

@@NS-fh2pz purrr love it for us

@ronnie5825 Жыл бұрын

lmaoo same, I’m going to college in the fall and I’ll be majoring in Psych 😭😭

@luvwtch6831 Жыл бұрын

@@ronnie5825 samee 😭

@AubreyDunnn Жыл бұрын

I CANT BELIEVE YOU CAME BACK LIKE THIS YOU CANT JUST LEAVE US LIKE THAT DEB.

@Pancake-dm8pk Жыл бұрын

asking Reddit for dating advice is like asking a guy in a wheelchair how to walk 💀

@v-i-c-k-y Жыл бұрын

Dear deb, I am currently a grandmother of 38 and a mother of 1. I was born in 1933 and all of these “tips and tricks” as the kids call it 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂😂😂🤣🤣😂😂😄are accurate. In fact, I agree that back in our day, men would drop it quite low.😅😅 (IM DYING THE EMOJIS..💀💀💀)

@kyujinz Жыл бұрын

omg deb you're glowinggg we missed you and another cupid reference yeah knew i could trust you

@lpshorselover1949 Жыл бұрын

As a history major, this video is hilarious to me!! Thank you Deb for this wonderful history related content

@alphaminaj Жыл бұрын

girl the makeup u used in this vid made u look so different?????? it really gave me rihanna vibes PERIODT slay with ur new look queen 💗💗💗💗💗

@hannahofosu3137 Жыл бұрын

deb hasnt posted in like a MONTH and js appears outta nowhere 😭💕

@elizabeth37902 Жыл бұрын

Deb’s british accent never fails to make me laugh lmao

@adoremei Жыл бұрын

GIRL YOU ARE DROP-DEAD GORGEOUS

@celine9250 Жыл бұрын

the hair, the makeup, the skin, you are SO BEAUTIFUL LIKE OMFG. you're actually stunning and perfect in every way

@whoisvaee Жыл бұрын

At this point debby should make another channel dedicated to her dating life

@marlee.scobey Жыл бұрын

I love you Deb! When I found your videos, it helped me through stuff because your hilarious. BUT ANYWAYS, Deb + Reddit = double chaos.

@puppysnort_piglets3047 Жыл бұрын

didnt know 88 year old ladies could be this good looking ✨

@leoniemelodie7 Жыл бұрын

You truly feel like a friend, it's so nice having you back 🙏🏼 You're amazing and Deb, of course it was a fun video.

@MinervaLopez-yq6uv Жыл бұрын

I admit it, I was curious, but I learned some things about Deb, and that made me change my way of thinking. In my own profile "about" section, it's better explained, but even so, I still admire her because Deb strives every day to give us the best content.

@kkii729 Жыл бұрын

I also saw that, you're right

@flonny1340 Жыл бұрын

OK miss scammer scammington 🙄 Nice try

@essenceweebkittyx3 Жыл бұрын

🫵yOu ArE A ScAmmEr..😡☝😤flayminyung🔥🎶ashividibudibudum😌ashivavashibbetebedumdumtee🌚✨lebesozeeeeeee😢🎶fiflayminyung!😩💃🔥 (iykyk)

@zoewest1247 Жыл бұрын

yall whats the link im too scared to click it

@flonny1340 10 ай бұрын

@@zoewest1247 don't bother

@Royalty05 Жыл бұрын

“Every time a man cries he dies”😔🤌 truer words have never been spoken

@ynhitran308 Жыл бұрын

Deb was gone because she got kidnapped by Tanner. (From Tennessee)

@debsmikle Жыл бұрын

PLEASE ENUF

@destineekirabo7 Жыл бұрын

i love how much effort u put into ur editing❤

@jasminekeith5477 Жыл бұрын

As a certified 1930sian I can confirm we didn’t talk at all in dates in the 1930s. We looked at the guys face and they read our mind, if only guys were like that now 😔

@mxchelle6795 Жыл бұрын

I love how Deb leaves us for a month and then comes back with dating advice :)

@moiluminals Жыл бұрын

Grandma rlly be going through the trenches of the internet, we love u

@ayeshashaikh4433 Жыл бұрын

girl you look amazing and i am currently pulling an all-nighter in the library writing a 3000 word essay. i watched your video in the break and girl you had me LAUGHING, i was suppressing it so hard haha love you

@mahdisoo13 Жыл бұрын

AAAAA UR MAKEUP AND HAIR IS GIVING ALSO LOVE UR VIDS

@ignmqtzz Жыл бұрын

GIRLLLLL I’m so happy ur back I missed you grandma 💞

@Moonwalker2923 Жыл бұрын

Your makeup is so beautiful! Oh my gosh, I love your lipgloss.

@RuMadddd 11 ай бұрын

Deb u r GORGEOUS like oml.😭

@DraftedRedd Жыл бұрын

DEB’S BACK!! OML- The way I’ve been checking up on her channel EVERY • SINGLE • DAY

@thatstheonlyLyd Жыл бұрын

DEBBIE YOU POSTED AND MADE MY DAY 🧚‍♀️💞

@mikenzyerayne Жыл бұрын

WHEN I SAW THE NOTIFICATION POP UP SAYING DEB MADE A NEW VID, MY DAY BRIGHTENED 💗💗💗💗

@prenimystic 6 ай бұрын

I was around during the 30s, and I can confirm that if you talked about your clothes, the dude would throw up and cry cus he would be jelly

@nakynie463 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for coming back- the scare was HARD

@Hoaxstan4life Жыл бұрын

AHHH DEB WEVE MISSED YOU SM!!!I AM JUST SO GLAD YOUR BACK! And i love that you leave for a date and then a month later you have dating advice lol

@ariannaarrieta8658 Жыл бұрын

The way I LAUGHED watching this video, you’re the best girl! Love you 😊

@star_child.520 Жыл бұрын

your makeup is always so gorgeous! plsss do a tutorial, im begging! 😩🙏💓

@mitchelllism Жыл бұрын

the black hair looks so good!

@DamiDreamcatcherFan Жыл бұрын

Lol, love your videos Deb! And yes, I think the way she was sitting was awkward. Then again, I am really serious about having good posture 😅

@tearfulangel Жыл бұрын

THE QUEEN HAS POSTED.

@cherryblossom5528 Жыл бұрын

deb looks so cozyy i love that she's blending in with her pillows and laptop

@maeumiraeee2637 Жыл бұрын

DEB YOURE GLOWING!! 🫰🏼

@Ana-qr8ew Жыл бұрын

8:14 AS A HUMAN BEING FROM THE 1930’S I CAN CONFIRM THIS WAS A THING 😘😘🥰😍🤗🤗🤕❤️❤️

@mikelows1988 2 ай бұрын

😅😂

@pl4netoflove Жыл бұрын

Deb! you're absolutely shining, very pretty

@lendsi2062 Жыл бұрын

YOURE GLOWING IN THIS VIDEO!!!!! BEAUTIFUL

@Vixaltain Жыл бұрын

Oml deb I LOVE the new look and makeup

@andrew-ww4bu Жыл бұрын

literally was just thinking of you yesterday

@debsmikle Жыл бұрын

was thinking of u too

@andrew-ww4bu Жыл бұрын

@@debsmikle OMG ILY

@no-mz7nz Жыл бұрын

she will not let that 29 yr old women persona go😭

@eviecov3rs Жыл бұрын

dirty 30’s! Missed you grandma deb!

@veenusflytrap Жыл бұрын

WAIT U LOOK SO GOOD THO- I FORGIVE U BAE

@Felloff10 Жыл бұрын

i cannot be the only one who thinks her style is GORGOUS!!!!💗💗💗💗

@spencer3699 Жыл бұрын

bayonetta in her corporate era: 4:37

@gennabrook-qb9fu 3 ай бұрын

deb thx for cheering me up pookie i was sad but then ur gorgeous loveable face just brightened my day 😔☺️☺️

@Foffgoogleistg Жыл бұрын

The ending 😭😭 MISSED YOUUUU

@leokempe2967 Жыл бұрын

deb makes me feel okay about not having any romance in my life at 20 yrs old❤️

@GG-ug5yf Жыл бұрын

I never clicked so fast

@GG-ug5yf Жыл бұрын

Debs makeup and hair are eating

@idkman5877 Жыл бұрын

the edits have me on the floor

@kufod Жыл бұрын

Hey deb I'm a man from 1832 and yeah, we gathered up in the 1930's and brainstormed ideas for what we HATE about women during dates. We weren't allowed to cry during it, but it was o hard because we heard a woman outside talking about her CLOTHES.