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Rejected

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Shan BOODY

Shan BOODY

3 жыл бұрын

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Todays video we talk about rejection and share some of our most embarrassing stories.
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Пікірлер: 114
@jademedina3908
@jademedina3908 3 жыл бұрын
I have nothing to say, just want to boost the algorithm
@shanboody
@shanboody 3 жыл бұрын
Jade 😍
@shamzgilbert
@shamzgilbert 3 жыл бұрын
rejection is redirection
@shanboody
@shanboody 3 жыл бұрын
It’s the simple, golden quotes for meeeee
@peaceloise
@peaceloise 3 жыл бұрын
Rejection is God's protection. I believe that.
@SonsOfLorgar
@SonsOfLorgar 3 жыл бұрын
How? Because religions never accept rejecting their scam?
@alexandrea3017
@alexandrea3017 3 жыл бұрын
I like that ☺️🤙🏾✨
@yltnaillirb4438
@yltnaillirb4438 3 жыл бұрын
This is a FACT!!!
@rejectionisprotection4448
@rejectionisprotection4448 2 жыл бұрын
I definitely agree.
@randimacqueen7636
@randimacqueen7636 3 жыл бұрын
Jared’s love for Shannon is so beautiful . It makes me happy to see a woman being loved the way she deserves to be loved. It’s rare.
@andremotivation6561
@andremotivation6561 Жыл бұрын
It's not that rare to be honest, alot of women reject legit good dudes who would love them for the smallest reasons.
@sabssads
@sabssads 3 жыл бұрын
i just messaged someone 10 minutes ago asking if they remember me cos i have good memories with them and they said no 😭 clearly i love rejection and pain
@AbrielDelaney
@AbrielDelaney 3 жыл бұрын
I’m fucking HOLLERING 🤣🤣🤣. Forget them, you’re unforgettabllllllle!!!! 🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣
@sabssads
@sabssads 3 жыл бұрын
@@AbrielDelaney she remembers now 😭 but i learned my lesson not to reach out to old friends
@SonsOfLorgar
@SonsOfLorgar 3 жыл бұрын
How is not beeing remembered equated to rejection?
@isa-qz8fg
@isa-qz8fg 3 жыл бұрын
I relate to the loving rejection lol, I feel like sometimes I specifically go for people I know are going to reject me/keep rejecting me
@durrday
@durrday 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with Jared!!! Highly unprofessional response from that producer! And disrespectful! There are so many other ways to say it's not the look they want...! Damn!
@asoekoa470
@asoekoa470 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with Jared, just because this type of communication is normalized in the industry doesn't make it right. Whether or not you were supposed to see it, I believe that feedback on something as subjective as beauty (even when you consider standards) or humour was unnecessary and irresponsible. Out of all the ways they could have turned you down I really don't get the need to phrase things the way they did.
@UrbanDecayLova247
@UrbanDecayLova247 3 жыл бұрын
Same, it was a rude comment flat out..and I’m sure Jared would’ve reacted the same way no matter who it happened to, but it was cute him getting so upset when it came to Shan. 😂
@nikjonestravel
@nikjonestravel 3 жыл бұрын
His girl definitely responded to that... I've gotten those kinds of responses before and then once they break up, the guys hits back like, yea that wasn't me.
@LaGataSolar
@LaGataSolar 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with Jared they didn't have to say that cause that's just an opinion... Just cause you may not be "pretty enough" for someone doesn't mean it's a fact and that you won't be for someone else.. so uncalled for
@DJ-ur9ol
@DJ-ur9ol 3 жыл бұрын
I’m seeing more and more men starting to speak openly. That’s dope
@crackasscrackle
@crackasscrackle 3 жыл бұрын
*i loved that insightful reminder that reaching out to an ex via text et al doesnt necessarily mean that they're just as receptive to it, regardless if our intentions were pure. Our own convictions, timing and healing arent always gonna be aligned with their journey.*
@Lovelyexper
@Lovelyexper 2 жыл бұрын
Definition of pathetic. I guess you came onto my comment hoping she’d finally see you. LOL
@choloscience
@choloscience 3 жыл бұрын
Shan is definitely one of the funnest people I've gotten the pleasure of working with so far. She cool and down to earth
@OyayoTheStorm
@OyayoTheStorm 3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you circled back to these stories. I still have a hard time with rejection, even with people I know like/love me. I'm very uneasy at looking imperfect, and it doesn't come out until we're in a complicated conversation. Good ol Autism... I still shrink when I'm unable to provide the best response instead of the most genuine response. So, I either reject, avoid, or put it on outside elements. Shyt hurts!
@vannesacolin2565
@vannesacolin2565 Жыл бұрын
They way her eyes light up for him ✨🤩🥰😘
@CuddleyKawaiiLuver
@CuddleyKawaiiLuver 3 жыл бұрын
Getting rejected makes it more clear to me that there is something better and that job or whatever that is for you will just elevate you to be right where you need to be!
@ChiaraSupernova
@ChiaraSupernova 3 жыл бұрын
i love how candid and honest this group of guys are 💖 I can't believe what they said about you, girl! You are gorgeous enough to be that funny
@shukriabdi4271
@shukriabdi4271 3 жыл бұрын
I love these wholesome conversations. I’m always inspired to start these with my friends in an intellectual way. LOVE THESE!!
@MultiDaisy1995
@MultiDaisy1995 3 жыл бұрын
I think that’s fascinating that the same part of your brain that experiences physical pain is affected when a person experiences rejection! Our brains are so amazing. Also, awesome video you guys! Lots of great information on utilizing rejection as a learning experience.
@dejianndean1974
@dejianndean1974 3 жыл бұрын
Lol... The girl sent that message for sure Shan.. 😂
@hvnonearth3066
@hvnonearth3066 3 жыл бұрын
Ugh, I just love this conversation so much. Thank you Shared Entertainment!
@MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps
@MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps 3 жыл бұрын
So glad I came across Shan, she’s awesome👏
@tristrisX
@tristrisX 3 жыл бұрын
I dont see a guy responding like that, I think it was the girl he was with
@vaughanmitchell4841
@vaughanmitchell4841 3 жыл бұрын
LOVE when you’re all on a podcast together 👏🏾🙌🏾
@ajohonly3721
@ajohonly3721 3 жыл бұрын
Please do this together often what a great team 👏🏾👏🏾
@danistacy919
@danistacy919 3 жыл бұрын
You guys are one of my favorite couples...& this was hilarious thanks for bringing light to all of these topics. I love that you aren’t afraid of confronting the deeper parts of relationships, love, feelings etc. Love your vids
@crystalpetal25
@crystalpetal25 3 жыл бұрын
Man I needed to hear this today
@NickiBluIs
@NickiBluIs 3 жыл бұрын
Love these conversations
@yveqeshy
@yveqeshy 3 жыл бұрын
I'm with Jared here, the comment regarding her not being funny was inappropriate irrespective of the context, there was no need to bring in her looks into it. It was just mean
@darinesnol2305
@darinesnol2305 3 жыл бұрын
Clicked and the first 30 sec of the video were already 🔥, can’t wait to listen to everything
@Rose-gv9ff
@Rose-gv9ff 3 жыл бұрын
It was definitely his girl replying that! My first instinct lol
@snehapradhan5591
@snehapradhan5591 3 жыл бұрын
Love this!
@nisa360
@nisa360 3 жыл бұрын
This feels so much like friends Talking about stuff. It made me Miss my friends more lol but I loved it 💛💛
@savhealey1296
@savhealey1296 3 жыл бұрын
I could listen to you speak all day long
@thisisdk7859
@thisisdk7859 3 жыл бұрын
Jared is in sync with my thoughts. To me that comment sounds like "you could at least have looks to compensate for your craft". And it's comedy, one of the few entertainment fields where looks won't help you in the slightest with an audience. So it's rude plus phony reasoning. Now if it was a joke cracked on Shan that just didn't land for me, I wouldn't mind.
@mayamanuel4318
@mayamanuel4318 3 жыл бұрын
Love you and love this vid
@993LD
@993LD 3 жыл бұрын
This channel and the podcast give me life and hope, no exaggeration. Thank you for this content 🙏 💜
@nkwenkwezirulumeni4444
@nkwenkwezirulumeni4444 3 жыл бұрын
Love this
@Emiiaavaal
@Emiiaavaal 3 жыл бұрын
nothing to do with the video but did anyone else know Shan was an extra/ supporting actor for mean girls?! in the opening sequence of Cady going to the school, we see Shan walk by! crazy to see how far she's come since then!
@lilinectar29
@lilinectar29 3 жыл бұрын
Yep, I felt strange watching that opening.
@CamilaSaurus
@CamilaSaurus 2 жыл бұрын
Whaaat? No, but I’ll have to look now!
@missjaygh
@missjaygh 3 жыл бұрын
This was a fun episode :)
@leggs4113
@leggs4113 2 жыл бұрын
Jared that shirt is 🔥🔥🔥
@themandinkafamily
@themandinkafamily 3 жыл бұрын
Great video as always
@jessicacastro4346
@jessicacastro4346 3 жыл бұрын
Always 🔥 content
@monicagullotta2108
@monicagullotta2108 3 жыл бұрын
I love you guys. Shan and Jared #relationshipgoals 💕
@kclee5549
@kclee5549 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Shan, first of all I absolutely love you. I'm curious, in the past you've told us you've never been to therapy. Have you tried better health first hand?
@kclee5549
@kclee5549 3 жыл бұрын
🥴 Shan plz, the people need to know.
@Youknowwhat101
@Youknowwhat101 3 жыл бұрын
I need to know where you got that jacket/sweater from it’s so cute I love baggy clothes !
@phe7156
@phe7156 3 жыл бұрын
not me getting so emotional at jareds reaction . i agree!!! crazy overtones in that i hate it
@MsEss02
@MsEss02 3 жыл бұрын
Ive heard many industry rejections. One in particular, that my style (via my skin color) was not trending. Or my fav, I pull too much attention from the main character. Its wasn't worth staying in the biz with all that confusion. My passion is science anyway. Shan is right, get a good agent thats honest with you and looks out for you.
@doxxed4796
@doxxed4796 3 жыл бұрын
Wow 😩
@kasandramaxine
@kasandramaxine 3 жыл бұрын
Shan where are your pants from? They look amazing on you!
@MrAllysonn
@MrAllysonn 3 жыл бұрын
She is beautiful ash.
@nerdychick14
@nerdychick14 3 жыл бұрын
I got the same job rejection situation even when I thought the interview was okay. My recruiter forwarded the email the guy sent her that I wasn't good enough for the role and will probably be better in an intern role. It really hurt my feelings because the recruiter didn't even try and it was lazy. I would've expected the standard rejection email over his personal email to her.
@daveiba26
@daveiba26 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Shan! the attahment style quiz doesnt work :(
@moonkoral1009
@moonkoral1009 3 жыл бұрын
Better help link isn’t working
@tamiwatts6354
@tamiwatts6354 3 жыл бұрын
The sponsorship link doesn't work :(
@Kamel301
@Kamel301 3 жыл бұрын
This girl I was recently with I really dont know if it was me or her... but I know from my end I was really trying right. she would always give me the reassurance but she did have me chasing in the end ngl... but so towards the downfall of the situation she was basically done with everything (I didnt cheat but there was a whole situation that went down. I stood up for her friend that got cheated on and the boyfriend got salty so I went off and in the heat of the moment everyone got the worst of me, it was stupid) my girl was taking it like im disrespectful and all this extra shit -_- but me simping and shit, I mean I really liked her. I made her the crazy ass care package ( make up brushes, treat for her puppy, candy, some 🍃, flowers, and an apology letter.... THE SUPER SIMPBOX basically. She hits me with the shes tryna focus on herself & start getting to her career. then blocks me after that
@Kamel301
@Kamel301 3 жыл бұрын
@Mr Sandra appreciate you!
@botlhaleklassen4091
@botlhaleklassen4091 3 жыл бұрын
oh gosh 😭❤ how do people get guys who will buy them "THE SUPER SIMPBOX"?? honestly it sounds so sweet!!
@nietzsches01
@nietzsches01 3 жыл бұрын
How can Shan not know t-pain - bartender Missed out on great 2000’s music
@nolsova1140
@nolsova1140 3 жыл бұрын
I was listening to Dear Franny podcast and she said “Rejection isn’t real” and that really stuck with me.
@antithesis5555
@antithesis5555 3 жыл бұрын
It was my girl
@sancheze3046
@sancheze3046 3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@brittneyscott8041
@brittneyscott8041 3 жыл бұрын
Ughhh. I hate that you partnered with Better Help. They are awful for therapist 😭 (I'm a therapist!)
@jenn1545
@jenn1545 3 жыл бұрын
Could you elaborate on that ? I've been wondering if I should try them out
@mark101cool
@mark101cool 3 жыл бұрын
While it sucks that it might take away jobs from in person therapists, a lot of people need therapy and to take care of their emotional health and don’t have access
@brittneyscott8041
@brittneyscott8041 3 жыл бұрын
@@mark101cool it's not about taking away in person. It's about the pay. They pay the therapist a terrible rate and make therapy unrealistic.
@brittneyscott8041
@brittneyscott8041 3 жыл бұрын
@@jenn1545 try them out, I would never tell anyone not to pursue therapy!! It's just that therapist aren't compensated well for the work. So you have an over worked therapist with too many clients and you get less than what you deserve from them. & It makes therapy unrealistic.
@gypsierose3611
@gypsierose3611 3 жыл бұрын
I am not a therapist but they are awful
@frankie9387
@frankie9387 3 жыл бұрын
How did I learn so much in the first 1:20...
@Przepoczwarzenie
@Przepoczwarzenie 3 жыл бұрын
I have no idea, what to learn from my rejections.
@durrday
@durrday 3 жыл бұрын
Is this Deja Vu or...has Shan shared that rejection story before...? And Los had the same response before....and Jared had the same response to Los...and Shan had the same response to Jared...? ("Is that because you can't imagine a man rejecting me...?") I swear I've seen this very exchange before...! Reguardless - great video, solid crew - love all of your content!! 💖 Thank you thank you!
@deannasalazar9903
@deannasalazar9903 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I think this was included on their Enjoy the podcast episode with Shan
@dodaprettygirlrock
@dodaprettygirlrock 3 жыл бұрын
I was just think this!
@itsmartinarobledo
@itsmartinarobledo 3 жыл бұрын
Want this video already released?!
@leahwarner3096
@leahwarner3096 3 жыл бұрын
Okay thank you for saying this because yes we have definitely seen this already, I felt crazy for a second feeling like I remembered this but, nope, you verified it.
@NannyDiaries23
@NannyDiaries23 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, on Enjoy
@gypsierose3611
@gypsierose3611 3 жыл бұрын
Better help was a waste of money
@wooc0017
@wooc0017 3 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't reject Los. I would date Los. I don't stay in Cali though 🥺
@coral12016
@coral12016 3 жыл бұрын
"who likes pain?" Context.....
@mellys9620
@mellys9620 3 жыл бұрын
Heyo LFC, YNWA
@los5407
@los5407 3 жыл бұрын
🚶🏽‍♂️🚶🏽‍♂️🚶🏽‍♂️ 😉
@deficator750
@deficator750 3 жыл бұрын
shes getting paid to promote better help. better help is shit, the person on the side acts like a bot.
@botlhaleklassen4091
@botlhaleklassen4091 3 жыл бұрын
is that the case with all therapists? i've been to a few so far and honestly, they don't seem like they care. they just have automated answers & don't seem to be trying to understand
@deficator750
@deficator750 3 жыл бұрын
@@botlhaleklassen4091 im talkin about better help, the text a therapist app. i have wasted so much money on it.
@april.r.t
@april.r.t 3 жыл бұрын
I got excited but this is an old video
@Haniefah1
@Haniefah1 3 жыл бұрын
SO HAPPY YOU SAID this because I was like I swear I’ve seen this before but wasn’t sure
@Mane.ci_look
@Mane.ci_look 3 жыл бұрын
Did anybody else go to Google that show to figure out who they chose over Shan? Just me? Lol k
@zitigraffiti3889
@zitigraffiti3889 3 жыл бұрын
What did you find?
@shanboody
@shanboody 3 жыл бұрын
Someone I actually ADORE and is my friend to this day, Amberia Allen
@iamnykira
@iamnykira 3 жыл бұрын
Los is a cutie
@notpenda
@notpenda 3 жыл бұрын
notification gang 🤍⚡️
@vlazarus124
@vlazarus124 3 жыл бұрын
Haha
@kiaraditmasa
@kiaraditmasa 3 жыл бұрын
Love listening to narcissists, can we do a report back in 10 years?
@KnightOwlization
@KnightOwlization 3 жыл бұрын
Betterhelp sucks
@annashafie6996
@annashafie6996 3 жыл бұрын
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