Relapsed In Love: Benjamin Adams v Chantillae Adams

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Ай бұрын

Benjamin says everything changed when his wife, a recovering alcoholic, relapsed. He says she became mean, controlling and aggressive. If she doesn’t get help, he’ll be forced to walk away.
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@user-yy9mt6kl3h
@user-yy9mt6kl3h Ай бұрын
The idea of a flawless marriage or relationship is unrealistic. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Nevertheless, I've learned that solutions exist for every problem. Five years ago, my wife and I faced the brink of divorce due to challenges in our marriage. Fortunately, we managed to reconcile. It was a tough phase, but we made it through
@user-sk7kd8vs2w
@user-sk7kd8vs2w Ай бұрын
The wisdom in your words strikes a chord within me, and I genuinely desire that my sentiments align with yours. Despite our separation at present, I cannot conceive of my existence without her; my love for her knows no bounds. I yearn for her return, and I'm committed to doing whatever it takes to achieve reconciliation. We've pursued different avenues, including therapy, in our journey to bridge the gap.
@user-yy9mt6kl3h
@user-yy9mt6kl3h Ай бұрын
Parting ways with someone you deeply care about is never easy, but in my particular circumstance, I was aided by a spiritual mentor who averted the collapse of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
@user-sk7kd8vs2w
@user-sk7kd8vs2w Ай бұрын
Your guidance is valued. I'll immediately seek her out online. Appreciate it. I'm hopeful that implementing this method will also bring me success; I miss her dearly
@user-yy9mt6kl3h
@user-yy9mt6kl3h Ай бұрын
You definitely should
@scottsh1120
@scottsh1120 Ай бұрын
I agree, you design your own marriage
@kyki8512
@kyki8512 Ай бұрын
This lady favors the rapper " Da Brat" a little bit!
@BREEZYM6015
@BREEZYM6015 Ай бұрын
What's the name of the album? 😂
@kyki8512
@kyki8512 Ай бұрын
@@BREEZYM6015 🤷 I have no idea! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@tamekathompson1019
@tamekathompson1019 Ай бұрын
Lmao
@penelopeb1370
@penelopeb1370 Ай бұрын
Now, I'm not unseeing it...😅
@queenb2713
@queenb2713 Ай бұрын
I was just about to say that...she looks just like her
@oddchocolate964
@oddchocolate964 Ай бұрын
Trauma bonded relationships can never flourish
@nicolettemorr6588
@nicolettemorr6588 Ай бұрын
Yes if you notice how they met this exactly what it is. A trauma bond
@MsBizzyRae
@MsBizzyRae 27 күн бұрын
Yes!!
@keyeviondavis9647
@keyeviondavis9647 Ай бұрын
She has to admit she has a severe drinking issue and get back in treatment, it is destroying her 💯
@robbbietheim2096
@robbbietheim2096 Ай бұрын
55 & 33 is probably the reason they seems so incompatible 😡
@fudgybabe9127
@fudgybabe9127 Ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly. 🤔💭
@alexisjones65
@alexisjones65 Ай бұрын
33 is grown as hell
@rhunt0210
@rhunt0210 Ай бұрын
There you go. Daddy/Daughter syndrome. He's looking to be a mentor, and she's acting out because she wants to convince herself that she's unworthy.
@markydan1232
@markydan1232 Ай бұрын
33 is a grown woman. She's not compatible to be with anybody.
@allisonrojas4683
@allisonrojas4683 Ай бұрын
Age is just a number,there are teenagers who knows how to show respect and love for their partners!She is an alcoholic and walked out of treatment,because she doesn't care about,anyone her self included!They both need therapy, anger management, parenting and rehab!Else its best they go their separate ways!
@bryanbeeman5256
@bryanbeeman5256 Ай бұрын
He’s a passive/aggressive victim enabler… She’s an alcoholic passive/aggressive victim
@tonyaharper2468
@tonyaharper2468 Ай бұрын
Its safer and less stressful to b single. Im not adding none of this drama to my already complicated life.
@feliciacoleman6650
@feliciacoleman6650 Ай бұрын
Some people needs to be single FOREVER and dont go to any rescue shelter Even the dogs don't want their foolishness🤣
@t.c.5456
@t.c.5456 Ай бұрын
Right😂❤😂❤
@CWATZGOOD
@CWATZGOOD Ай бұрын
@@feliciacoleman6650I CAN’T BELIEVE YOU HATED ON ME LIKE THIS. MY MOTHER HAS TOOK IN AND FED YOUR DAUGHTER MANY NIGHTS WHILE YOU WERE HIGH ON CRACK AND SHE DID NOT WANT TO COME HOME PITIFUL HOW LOW PEOPLE CAN GO!!! BY THE WAY WE’RE STILL TOGETHER!!!! 🤡
@SuperDeddeh
@SuperDeddeh 19 күн бұрын
😂😂😂so true
@kishiabell5744
@kishiabell5744 Ай бұрын
"Im not an alcoholic." said every alcoholic ever.
@arayaklove
@arayaklove Ай бұрын
He’s is attracting women who need healing. Bless this man. I hope he can find happiness
@fudgybabe9127
@fudgybabe9127 Ай бұрын
Me 2. He appeared broken up about his 1st wife. & maybe he's trying to desperately replace her.
@kattiethomas4687
@kattiethomas4687 Ай бұрын
Maturity is the key 🔑
@kattiethomas4687
@kattiethomas4687 Ай бұрын
Alcoholic lie!!
@kattiethomas4687
@kattiethomas4687 Ай бұрын
He's played enough!
@kattiethomas4687
@kattiethomas4687 Ай бұрын
Amen I used to do the same thing pick sick people
@keara3041
@keara3041 Ай бұрын
I’m confused as to why he was getting chewed out
@fudgybabe9127
@fudgybabe9127 Ай бұрын
Me 2. What is happening here?! 😐
@anonymousreview1049
@anonymousreview1049 Ай бұрын
He’s not innocent either although he appears to be. He destroys the items that he buys for her and her son whenever he gets angry with her. That’s hurtful too. He tore out his part in the family photo that gutted her deeply. They are two very broken people that need healing.
@cheyennebarber4337
@cheyennebarber4337 Ай бұрын
… this is the 1st time he has been in love but was married for 8years 🙃
@indigochild2453
@indigochild2453 Ай бұрын
Maybe he settled for the first wife🤷🏽‍♀️
@zulu3274
@zulu3274 Ай бұрын
🙂 people get married for reasons way beyond just love at times...Many need companionship, some for financial support or gain, others because it sounds nice or to have status and lots of other reasons/etc...For many people love isn't their priority...
@bryanbeeman5256
@bryanbeeman5256 Ай бұрын
Nah…. You called it sis. I peep game when I see it. He’s not as innocent as y’all want him to be. He’s an enabler. How is he helping her? Especially to be sober when he drinking with her. His WHOLE spill is that she’s an alcoholic.. Then WHY ARE YOU DRINKING WITH HER SIR???
@TwiceSmittenOnceShy
@TwiceSmittenOnceShy Ай бұрын
Given his tragic past with addiction, as soon as he figured out she had a problem he should have dipped.. I’d bet $100 he’s feeling some serious déjà vu right now..
@bryanbeeman5256
@bryanbeeman5256 Ай бұрын
Nope.. I think he enabled his former wife. That’s why he does it sooo well with his current wife.
@outrayjust
@outrayjust Ай бұрын
I'll give u the $100. Bc I agree with you.
@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647
@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647 Ай бұрын
My thing is why is she even letting her family DISRESPECT her husband.
@bryanbeeman5256
@bryanbeeman5256 Ай бұрын
She’s too much in La La Land to know or care. She seems like a binge alcoholic
@whitneypeterson2611
@whitneypeterson2611 Ай бұрын
Trauma bonding at its finest! When u create a bond because of traumatic events and you and the other person haven't healed or at least on a healing journey it will always be dysfunctional and probably trigger you to go back to what you're healing from.
@bryanbeeman5256
@bryanbeeman5256 Ай бұрын
I agree, but it’s worse than that. He is definitely triggering her on purpose and enabling her.
@bryanbeeman5256
@bryanbeeman5256 Ай бұрын
Ok, I see how Judge Starr got to the conclusion that she did… If she doesn’t receive support WHEN AND HOW she wants it, she goes left QUICKLY!!! He is passive-aggressive low-key that throws rocks and hides his hands. If he wanted to truly help her, he would not be drinking with her, triggering her, saying and doing mean things to her. I still think Judge Starr will ALWAYS side with the sisterhood, but I see why she’s on him too. Last thing… he said he loved her and hasn’t loved anyone else before. Sir, what about your previous wife???
@nicolareid6362
@nicolareid6362 Ай бұрын
I’ve seen worse and nastier couples on this show that wasn’t treated like this on the show. Maybe the judge found something worse in her research that wasn’t mentioned 🤷🏽‍♀️because she went from 0 to 100 😂
@kerrie2116
@kerrie2116 Ай бұрын
I agree. I've seen worse as well. But she did research so she knows. They bonded during covid which was a horrible time and gave them something else to focus on. Now covid is behind us and now they focus on each other. They don't like what they see. Judge Star is right. They need to separate and move on .However the wife needs to get into treatment first before she starts another relationship.
@bandit4life575
@bandit4life575 Ай бұрын
She could have helped them if she actually wanted too I don’t think she wanted to and if there was more to the case she should have had a part 2 for us to understand. I didn’t like her attitude this episode. I have seen way worse couples and she goes above and beyond to help.
@damianaoni7717
@damianaoni7717 Ай бұрын
Ridiculous how the judge handled that case...case of having a bad day herself... embarrassing to see this episode🤦🏾‍♀️
@cocochanel2118
@cocochanel2118 Ай бұрын
Yep. The audience didn’t get to hear enough to understand how the judge came to her conclusion
@shaunrios6980
@shaunrios6980 Ай бұрын
I thought so as well. The wife obviously has some issues still dealing with addiction because I know at least one of those accidents she said wasnt alcohol related, was indeed alcohol related. I am in recovery and can clearly see she is in denial of her alcohol issues. People who dont have an alcohol problem, do not have so many issues with people, places and driving while drinking!
@isthisreallystillathing5060
@isthisreallystillathing5060 Ай бұрын
They trauma bonded at a car dealership and he said “I wanna marry her”. He had a savior complex that he has never addressed.
@catherinewhitman8333
@catherinewhitman8333 Ай бұрын
Seems like nothing is her fault!
@nadeawilliams7749
@nadeawilliams7749 Ай бұрын
She's a young drunk! He needs to wish her well, and move on!
@eternal1blue
@eternal1blue Ай бұрын
Case closed
@Reezy12333
@Reezy12333 Ай бұрын
33 is young now? Y’all so insecure with age y’all have to gaslight what young is lol
@ebonyjordan9643
@ebonyjordan9643 Ай бұрын
So 33 is old ? 😂 wtf
@Reezy12333
@Reezy12333 Ай бұрын
@@ebonyjordan9643 yes tf it is. Do you mfs ever grow up? What you gotta be 50 until you grow tf up?
@penelopeb1370
@penelopeb1370 Ай бұрын
This union makes no sense.
@bryanbeeman5256
@bryanbeeman5256 Ай бұрын
According to these comments, it’s a lot more people on here that’s traumatized and easily manipulated than I thought. If you think this man is innocent and the victim, you’re worse off than you think.
@brendajeffers2335
@brendajeffers2335 Ай бұрын
He needs to get away from her fast!! She’s in denial.
@Afrolatinalexi
@Afrolatinalexi Ай бұрын
She don't need him to go to AA, or to go to church ..SHE HAS TO DO THIS HERSELF. That is a solo project!!
@hop4ap
@hop4ap Ай бұрын
There's nothing to salvage get a divorce
@Fleefromsin
@Fleefromsin Ай бұрын
You don’t know how much it takes for people to just KEEP GOING despite what they are facing. Be gracious to people and what you possibly don’t know about them.
@tamekathompson1019
@tamekathompson1019 Ай бұрын
Im confused. What did this man do wrong?
@bryanbeeman5256
@bryanbeeman5256 Ай бұрын
He is a passive/aggressive victim enabler. I believe he is EVERYTHING she said he is…
@lakeerica7393
@lakeerica7393 Ай бұрын
He gravitated towards a woman and her child just to buy them things and take it back every time he’s mad, and he threw a TV out of the front door . They’re both toxic
@sinavaitululeupolu1455
@sinavaitululeupolu1455 Ай бұрын
They both need to talk to a counselor or therapist. Hope they can co parent for child sake.
@butteredrollz727
@butteredrollz727 Ай бұрын
She needs to take responsibility for her own actions. It's not on him to do anything regarding her sobriety.
@MsBizzyRae
@MsBizzyRae 27 күн бұрын
Her: he always runs away from problems. Me: ma’am you are the problem and he needs to keep running!!🙄
@lindadewese6754
@lindadewese6754 Ай бұрын
Don't waste your time with addicts,it's not worth it,
@ninadavis5517
@ninadavis5517 Ай бұрын
She said she's willing to do marriage counseling but didn't mention alcohol counseling. They need to go their separate ways
@yennegob.2248
@yennegob.2248 Ай бұрын
She brings the worst out of him because he seem so sweet, calm and layback. I don’t think they should continue this marriage, they got together for the wrong reasons.
@bryanbeeman5256
@bryanbeeman5256 Ай бұрын
They both bring out the worst in each other. He’s just not as innocent as everybody is saying; I just see him through a different lens.
@keyairaspivey5093
@keyairaspivey5093 Ай бұрын
​@bryanbeeman5256 Yall act like people can't provoke you.
@bryanbeeman5256
@bryanbeeman5256 Ай бұрын
@@keyairaspivey5093- What did Judge Lynn Toler state about allowing people to control you??? No one can make you act unseemly except you. You sound triggered
@scottsh1120
@scottsh1120 Ай бұрын
Damaging your own property is called the stupid tax. Judge Toler said it
@Edward_Strong1982
@Edward_Strong1982 Ай бұрын
From the gate she’s in denial and blaming everything and everybody for her drinking. And he is enabling her, which is odd being that his wife died from an addiction. And I feel like regardless she was in her “sobriety” when they met he should’ve been told about the alcohol rehab. He should’ve been able to make a choice if that was a situation he wanted to be in based on his past. Now this man is trapped with an alcoholic who’s in denial. It pays to REALLY get to know the person you’re sleeping with.
@feliciamcclendon4632
@feliciamcclendon4632 Ай бұрын
Yes!!! Judge basically said IDGAF!! Loved it!!!
@antoinbussey1744
@antoinbussey1744 Ай бұрын
He looks like he could be her father....Not to mention he is 22yrs her senior!!!
@monie2514
@monie2514 Ай бұрын
This man needs long-term counseling because he keep attracting addicted women either to drugs or alcohol😢 when you see a person with an addiction of any sort you need to leave
@ddnquestion1
@ddnquestion1 Ай бұрын
IF I had a 100 dollars for every time the condom broke, OMG
@tonyamscateyezmcmillan1417
@tonyamscateyezmcmillan1417 Ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@outrayjust
@outrayjust Ай бұрын
You'd be rich. Those darn thin condoms, maybe next time use a glad wrap 😅
@JaySunshine-gq9jh
@JaySunshine-gq9jh Ай бұрын
That woman needs help and that relationship need to be done with. They are just too dysfunctional. Poor child has to see his mom and step dad act like that😢
@shaleniramsahai5782
@shaleniramsahai5782 Ай бұрын
One of the reasons Judge was upset at him is when he's angry at the wife he even destroys stuffs he bought for the kid and rips his face off family pic. That is extremely mean the kid didn't do him anything. Judge said she did more research. I guess what she found out got her frustrated at them.
@bryanbeeman5256
@bryanbeeman5256 Ай бұрын
Everybody not seeing that part of it. They’re just blaming her for everything.
@lakiahaughton3613
@lakiahaughton3613 Ай бұрын
BOTH of their faces jus screams Unhappy tbh!!!🙄
@talethiadavison1998
@talethiadavison1998 Ай бұрын
I don't think they're going to stay married any longer. They don't even like one another. She looks like she prefers women over men, but tried to overcome it by being with him. He tried to turn her into a housewife. SMH!
@moniquem3738
@moniquem3738 Ай бұрын
Damn 😂
@indigochild2453
@indigochild2453 Ай бұрын
Exactly 😂😂😂
@rosahurd6620
@rosahurd6620 Ай бұрын
I thought she liked women also
@ebonyjordan9643
@ebonyjordan9643 Ай бұрын
Why was I thinking the same 😂
@sheilap9854
@sheilap9854 Ай бұрын
They're Not Compatible But She takes No Accountability For Anything!!!! Salvage What, it's Nothing to Salvage!!! I feel for the Little Boy.
@EMJLyfe
@EMJLyfe Ай бұрын
Run run!
@catherinecossano5263
@catherinecossano5263 Ай бұрын
What makes me sad is what they're doing to their little boy, and how SAD he must be! 😪
@melaninandaura9713
@melaninandaura9713 Ай бұрын
She has a drinking problem and he thinks he can bully her into submission. It won’t work. They are going to keep trying I promise you that but it will not work.
@alexisjones65
@alexisjones65 Ай бұрын
Thought this was da brat from The thumbnail 😂
@joe-dante9036
@joe-dante9036 Ай бұрын
That 55 year old should have no business messing around with a 33 year old. That's disgusting as hell! He needs to grow up and find women close enough to his age and stay away from women young enough to be his daughter
@fudgybabe9127
@fudgybabe9127 Ай бұрын
Yes! 👏🏿 &, that wife should not be around that pour lil boy with a drinking issue.
@ybshadyii4375
@ybshadyii4375 Ай бұрын
I was told anybody having more than 3 alcoholic drinks a week is labeled a Alcoholic. This man is still dealing with his 1st death trauma. He deserves way better than her drinking all the time. Man Please Run 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♀️🏃🏃‍♂️🏃‍♀️🏃.
@mayasilliman1465
@mayasilliman1465 Ай бұрын
I am wondering where you read that. I don't think 3 glasses of any alcoholic beverage, wine or spirits a week makes one an alcoholic. Drinking every day or binging is. In her case, yes, I think she is though.
@yemedemure414
@yemedemure414 Ай бұрын
That’s not true. You can have 3 drinks and not become drunk. An alcoholic abuses alcohol.
@ivyandzaylitty5558
@ivyandzaylitty5558 Ай бұрын
Damn what was wrong with the judge today??
@reneepaulettemarshall8000
@reneepaulettemarshall8000 Ай бұрын
Nothing is wrong with Judge Star. I saw what the Judge saw and you don't appear to understand. 1. He married a woman young enough to be his daughter with a serious alcohol addiction in denial who is destroying her young son's life. She's a danger to herself and other's. 2. He never got over his addictive first wife's drug overdose. He's as mean and aggressive by cutting up the Family pic, cussing her out, all the yelling at her, and more, 3. She doesn't face the truth, deflect's her sick behavior onto him, screwed another man, doesn't defend him against her family, and more... She's a total train wreck who married a man standing on the edge of a cliff. Marrying each other was an abysmal, unnecessary occurrence especially getting 2gether in the thick of the COVID CRISIS. I'm a jury member who viewed this case same as Judge Star. They don't care, Judge don't care, l don't care. Those two wouldn't receive help via therapy if they were threatened with gasoline drawers
@kellabillingsley5141
@kellabillingsley5141 Ай бұрын
they pissed STAR OFF BABY!
@shelz4346
@shelz4346 Ай бұрын
Hurt people, hurt people!
@yvettewilliams5967
@yvettewilliams5967 Ай бұрын
She is lethargic now. Slurred speech. They need to divorce. She should be in Alcohics Anonymous for treatment and support!
@yvettewilliams5967
@yvettewilliams5967 Ай бұрын
Alcoholics Anonymous!
@bryanbeeman5256
@bryanbeeman5256 Ай бұрын
That’s the way alcoholics look. She probably has some type of altered personality by now due to the excessive amount of drinking in the loss of brain cells. But you can tell she’s been to AAA because she’s brutally honest.
@tresoba3975
@tresoba3975 Ай бұрын
She can be his daughter!!! 22 years different. Her family thinks he should treat her like his child
@bethanyphillips3869
@bethanyphillips3869 27 күн бұрын
She must of been so mad today, never seen Judge Star go off like that.
@sailormoon091
@sailormoon091 Ай бұрын
Idk why these old men be putting themselves with these younger women and then be surprised when the younger women mess up in the relationship.
@margaretnewsome3147
@margaretnewsome3147 Ай бұрын
He old enough to be her dad and that's how he treats her. She needs some rehab for her drinking habits.
@user-ns4gs7sr2h
@user-ns4gs7sr2h Ай бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Benediction! No sparks in that marriage and NO love lost. 😢
@parrishsampson5187
@parrishsampson5187 Ай бұрын
She does not take accountability for anything. This will never work
@TheM1220yh
@TheM1220yh Күн бұрын
There is no way this isn’t a whole fake situation
@TootieTootie
@TootieTootie Ай бұрын
They trauma bonded & that never goes well. I wish them both the best.
@mumcy100
@mumcy100 Ай бұрын
Mixed emotions, you connected through pain, hurt, trauma and confused that with love. You both are broken and need to heal. Beautiful people
@bellabelnavis4002
@bellabelnavis4002 Ай бұрын
The energy is so OFF between them! Almost like they’re complete strangers wow 😢
@KouriPrays
@KouriPrays Ай бұрын
19:36 what’s crazy is this is the first time I heard judge say that about anyone ….i was hoping they could get help
@rhunt0210
@rhunt0210 Ай бұрын
Starr says that he's mean and nasty to her, but I didn't see it. This is what I saw. I saw a man who lost his first wife because of drug addiction and jumped into a relationship without with addict. That was the only thing that he did wrong. If my wife or girlfriend climbs under another guy, the relative is over. There's not enough love in the world to overcome intentional or unintentional cheating. He couldn't help her. She won't even admit that she has an addiction.
@rbabb19
@rbabb19 Ай бұрын
Denial! I only drink on weekends… she is pretending to be stupid.. she knows that they are all kinds of alcoholics..get real for her son before he hates her.
@zulu3274
@zulu3274 Ай бұрын
🤨 She is the cheating alcoholic with a bad temper but SOMEHOW he's the one at fault for standing up for himself during her combative episodes?... Judge Starr dress nice but damn she be tripping ...Ive seen her give grace to women who did way more than this guy...smh I wish them both the best ...💯
@CrazieRichie1
@CrazieRichie1 Ай бұрын
Judge Starr was wrong with this one. She attached the guy when he has been the one enduring the heartache. He came for help and was just bashed.
@fudgybabe9127
@fudgybabe9127 Ай бұрын
CrazieRichie ? I strongly agree with you. The Judge immediately came out from left field & jumped on both of them. I felt for the husband. He needed help or some kind of direction, & the Judge didn't deliver it. She must have had her mind on something or somebody else & needed to hurry up and leave. Something wasn't right. 🧐
@SC20256
@SC20256 Ай бұрын
Lately, she’s been off.
@reneepaulettemarshall8000
@reneepaulettemarshall8000 Ай бұрын
What episode are you watching? Judge Star stated she's angry at them both. Husband traumatized by 1st wife's overdose death . She's an alcoholic in denial. He's old enough to be her father. No fool like an old fool standing before Judge Star as an innocent victim.
@michelleroyall351
@michelleroyall351 Ай бұрын
She's gotten quite a few of them wrong lately
@Kneeyah
@Kneeyah Ай бұрын
This is tragic all round 😢
@SB-tc2jr
@SB-tc2jr Ай бұрын
I saw the potential for nastiness in their attitudes, but I didn't really see/hear it displayed. Send my bus, the short one! 🚌 I do agree - that this wasn't exactly a match made in heaven. There were so many lies, back and forth from both of them. I am an alcoholic, I'm not an alcoholic. I drink, but I don't drink. Only woman I've ever loved, so I guess he didn't love his first wife. They're going to need a lot of tools to fix this - glad I won't be dealing with them. Sheeeze!
@queshebalittle6023
@queshebalittle6023 Ай бұрын
The judge was way out of line on this. I don't think or feel that man did anything wrong
@fudgybabe9127
@fudgybabe9127 Ай бұрын
Me 2. 🤔
@joycebooker9201
@joycebooker9201 Ай бұрын
Me either
@sandylane5498
@sandylane5498 Ай бұрын
Why is Judge Star hollering at this man? Did they edit out something i'm not seeing? I'm just not feeling Judge Star.
@peterparker4342
@peterparker4342 Ай бұрын
She only do that to black men watch how she treat Spanish guys
@zulu3274
@zulu3274 Ай бұрын
🤨 She is the cheating alcoholic with a bad temper but SOMEHOW he's the one at fault for standing up for himself during her combative episodes?... Judge Star be dressed nice but damn she tripping ...Ive seen her give grace to women who did way more than this guy...smh I wish them both the best ...💯
@user-xg7cw8ny9y
@user-xg7cw8ny9y Ай бұрын
didn’t understand judge starr at all today?
@bryanbeeman5256
@bryanbeeman5256 Ай бұрын
The sisterhood is strong with Starr
@Afrolatinalexi
@Afrolatinalexi Ай бұрын
Did u miss he take whatever he buys and destroys it! He cut himself out a family picture??SMH...for his age that is childish..they BOTH need to run away from each other ASAP
@MsAlvin1990
@MsAlvin1990 Ай бұрын
Da Brat is that you 👀 lol😊
@LippPoraShowcase
@LippPoraShowcase Ай бұрын
Bottom Line: In order to be in a relationship or marriage both parties must have self awareness and must be wanting to be in love, receive love and learn how to give love…. Bottom Line!
@abimoreno4323
@abimoreno4323 Ай бұрын
I like your video
@moniquem3738
@moniquem3738 Ай бұрын
They both need help
@fudgybabe9127
@fudgybabe9127 Ай бұрын
I'll didn't see where the husband was talking mean to the wife. Maybe I missed it. 🤷🏿
@highlander666
@highlander666 Ай бұрын
Awww, "bestest" friend🙄 their relationship sounds ridiculous & tumultuous
@gailsmith836
@gailsmith836 Ай бұрын
He doesn’t let her talk.
@agadonk
@agadonk 26 күн бұрын
Why get in the car when she's driving drunk?
@CaMaCDeM
@CaMaCDeM Ай бұрын
Damn “I am not the bad guy here” this woman needs to be alone in rehabilitation. This is a toxic relationship. Also why is this man coming back to her. I hope they find themselves. God bless us all ❤
@tinalee4818
@tinalee4818 Ай бұрын
You are so beautiful and pretty. You have a beautiful soul. You will be okay.
@benjaminadams8066
@benjaminadams8066 28 күн бұрын
I don’t bully I’m laid back don’t like drama
@jeanitaellington238
@jeanitaellington238 28 күн бұрын
This judge doesn’t give good sound advice. These people have done no more than any other couple on here yet she gives them the nastiest attune could muster up. This judge 🤦🏽‍♀️
@gracillemillington3368
@gracillemillington3368 Ай бұрын
Cheating = divorce...
@shesocute9613
@shesocute9613 26 күн бұрын
Serious question if this is divorce court isn’t she supposed to to grant them a divorce and they sign the papers or is this just staged
@bhuddalocs4406
@bhuddalocs4406 Ай бұрын
I feel like I’ve seen worse situations on this show. She was having a bad day lol.
@JerishaGlenn
@JerishaGlenn 21 күн бұрын
He's experienced betrayal trauma. Your wife died in front of your child and you couldn't process this while also grieving her. Now they're dealing with more addiction and turmoil. They both need to reset with family counseling. I hate to see decent people and people's relationships fail when there's so much to help. The anger issues will continue to mount
@reneepaulettemarshall8000
@reneepaulettemarshall8000 Ай бұрын
He saw her alcoholic toxicity from jump street, yet decided to be Captain Save A Love Interest. The extreme generational age difference is an issue at well. Two addict wives, back to back. He need's therapy, too.
@JerishaGlenn
@JerishaGlenn 21 күн бұрын
This man needs Al-Anon. Him and his child are being retraumatized
@cadillacdeville5828
@cadillacdeville5828 Ай бұрын
To each their own, but I respect a person's religious beliefs. However I don't believe church or prayer will help someone with alcohol addiction.
@BREEZYM6015
@BREEZYM6015 Ай бұрын
I had to lose a lot in order for me to realize that I had a drinking problem. I've been sober for 8 years. No one can force a person to seek help for an addiction. You have to want to change.
@moniquem3738
@moniquem3738 Ай бұрын
You're entitled to your opinion
@bryanbeeman5256
@bryanbeeman5256 Ай бұрын
Jesus helps more but church helps as long as the church has groups and departments that give people a healthy Avenue to discover talents and abilities.
@nflglo
@nflglo Ай бұрын
I'm confused! They're just not compatible she's still a kid he's playing the father role thinking he can change everything.... especially when she has family involved very delusional
@kimberlysawyer6993
@kimberlysawyer6993 Ай бұрын
Damn!!
@godwina1349
@godwina1349 Ай бұрын
They should not be together.
@alfredthomas4006
@alfredthomas4006 Ай бұрын
The judge mad she can’t find nothing on the man, she had to include him , she has a bias against men because of her past!!!!
@zulu3274
@zulu3274 Ай бұрын
🤨 She is the cheating alcoholic with a bad temper but SOMEHOW he's the one at fault for standing up for himself during her combative episodes?... Judge Starr be dressed nice but damn she tripping ...Ive seen her give grace to women who did way more than this guy...smh I wish them both the best ...💯
@bryanbeeman5256
@bryanbeeman5256 Ай бұрын
Nah… he not clean peeps. He is purposefully triggering her. Look at the excuses he coming up with. This girl (as bad as she is) has been truthful to me… he’s the one where all of his tales are not adding up.
@lakeerica7393
@lakeerica7393 Ай бұрын
I think she just caught wind of him being mean too because he threw that TV out the front door and tried to word it as if they both threw it out😅 and he’s giving “I am your pappy”vibes and she’s an alcoholic G……… she don’t play that lmaoooooo they’re both toxic people
@konige-tochteru.9295
@konige-tochteru.9295 Ай бұрын
Something triggered the judge that we didn’t hear because she really roughed them up and I’ve seen worse toxic couples on this show she didn’t carry on so with
@thomasinasykes
@thomasinasykes Ай бұрын
Daaaaaaamn
@riicababy
@riicababy Ай бұрын
I don’t like what Judge Star did. She didn’t even offer them help. No AAA no counselling just threw them away. They are rude yes but atleast help them! Judge Toler would never
@kattiethomas4687
@kattiethomas4687 Ай бұрын
3 generations ahead
@charleslee1644
@charleslee1644 Ай бұрын
SO SAD KID HAS TO SEE HIS FATHER BE A SIMP
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