Relationship Advice | Jordan B Peterson

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What should you do when you’re upset with your partner?
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@DragoooNPvP 4 жыл бұрын

It makes me so happy seeing this man smile and laugh. These are tough times in his life.

@daedricdragon5976 4 жыл бұрын

I'm not sure what you meant cause it seemed like you thought that this is a recent video. This is an older video, actually.

@DronesConnection 4 жыл бұрын

It’s JUST GOOD TO SEE HIM SMILE 😊 PERIOD🤣😄

@daedricdragon5976 4 жыл бұрын

@@DronesConnection that is absolutely amazing, indeed :)

@xThirdOpsx 4 жыл бұрын

He is doing better as far as I know.

@user-xc7sb6tm1f 4 жыл бұрын

I've said this before but man does he look so much happier in this video than in some of his more recent lectures. He just seems more carefree in this video.

@DronesConnection 4 жыл бұрын

You have made a new man outta me: eight years ago in prison cell.....and today....I’m a productive, dependable member of my family and society AND I’m getting married!!!! Thank you doctor, from my soul.....THANK YOU BROTHER 🙏🏽

@Debrasvantasticjourney 4 жыл бұрын

That is so awesome. Thank yourself too, you are the change you want.

@DronesConnection 4 жыл бұрын

blueone black I’m humbled 🙏🏽

@DronesConnection 4 жыл бұрын

bro momento I appreciate you beloved 💙💙💙 but Jordan is the REAL inspiration here....truly: he has taught me how to talk, walk, think, observe, listen, and perhaps most important of all....WHEN TO SPEAK AND WHEN TO SHUT UP 🤐 because that’s why my Creator gave me 1 mouth 👄 but TWO ears 👂🏼 so that we MIGHT actually listen to some blessed son of a wonderful woman ACTUALLY SHOW US WHERE & HOW WE’RE F***ING UP! I HOLD MYSELF TO ACCOUNT TODAY! I owe it all to Dr Peterson 💎 He truly IS A LIGHT IN DARK AND DANGEROUS TIMES!!! Godspeed brother! Please forgive my verbosity here...but the stuff just brings me to passion cuz I BELIEVE 💙🙇🏻‍♂️💙🙏🏽

@DronesConnection 4 жыл бұрын

Karma Matters Oh brother you are far far too kind!! I ONLY [finally] DID WHAT I HAD BEEN SUPPOSED TO HAVE BEEN DOING ALL ALONG, and wow ..... imagine my surprise WHEN IT ACTUALLY STARTED FALLING INTO PLACE 🙇🏻‍♂️💎🙇🏻‍♂️ I’ll stop typing now! Lol 😂 Forgive my talkativeness, PLEASE! Stay Blessed, beloved!

@Debrasvantasticjourney 4 жыл бұрын

Dronesconnection Drone/UAV Svs yes, Jordan was the messenger but you LISTENED and changed. Without your inner strength it would not have happened. Value yourself. Your humility shows your sincerity. I’m no a bro, I am a woman. Perhaps I need to change my profile picture. 😂

@davidneyra2086 4 жыл бұрын

I imagine the comical part of Jordan trying to say "Hey honey I finally got it, we must treat us like rats". Miss you man. Waiting your update hoping everything it's better.

@lauravanvoorhees1279 4 жыл бұрын

Even with a master's degree, I don't feel like I've learned anything compared to what I learn every time I listen and re-listen to JBP's videos. What an absolute treasure trove of wisdom and knowledge he makes available for all of us! Thank you, Dr. Peterson! Hope you and your family are doing well.🤗

@DronesConnection 4 жыл бұрын

Laura Van Voorhees 💎💎💎💎💎💎

@shuangliv4633 2 жыл бұрын

A Master's degree doesn't mean anything, especially the one you have isn't psychology related. 😂

@areebsiddiqui6924 4 жыл бұрын

I want to meet this dude, once in my life time.

@elzbietabonthrone6584 4 жыл бұрын

When Mr. Peterson laughs and smiles, he looks like a small, happy little boy. That's beautiful !

@nelli.bonelli 3 жыл бұрын

Yup! :)

@gregjohnson8804 3 жыл бұрын

Hi beautiful how are you. Do you mind for a private chat

@MatthewCoast 4 жыл бұрын

"Have the courage to say no. Have the courage to face the truth. Do the right thing because it is right. These are the magic keys to living your life with integrity." - W. Clement Stone

@dancarrington4769 4 жыл бұрын

OMG..... seriously this is the first and only time that I have seen J.P looking so bright and cheery, and smiling and laughing too! It's obviously rare that he's like this, but as most of us know he has lived through a lot of tough times and he is very serious about his work and so he doesn't give too much humour because he's working his mind and opening it up for us all. Great to see a different side to him. Really glad of that

@matthewjones8798 4 жыл бұрын

Can we get an update on how you are Mr. Peterson? We’re worried. 🐣

@matthewjones8798 4 жыл бұрын

Animal Racional 2.0 damn that sux, I stay off social media, ‘cept this.

@ryancarroll7722 4 жыл бұрын

@@matthewjones8798 Mikhalia has said he's doing better and is able to exercise and do work some days but other days he has to rest. She also said it will probably be another 6 months of recovery till he doing well again. However that was a estimate based on his current condition. (From memory but I think I've got the most of it)

@TehNetherlands 4 жыл бұрын

There's a video of Jordan from a couple weeks ago where he's racing a remote controlled toy car through his garden.

@astrojeet 4 жыл бұрын

He's doing well and recovering. He's now working on his new book 12 more rules: Beyond order. He's also looking for an illustrator for his book last I checked. Every applicant has do an illustration of the Fool.

@elizdonovan5650 3 жыл бұрын

Matthew Jones you can find interviews with of Mikhalia Peterson with Jordan Peterson n you tube. ☘️🌝🌲

@rumpleforeskin9543 4 жыл бұрын

He took on demons and it takes its toll, bless him.

@alexandrarencoret5599 4 жыл бұрын

Intelligent, witty and with the right sense of humor, I love listening to him! He is just great!!

@MpPalumbo 4 жыл бұрын

Seeing jordan peterson smile put a smile on my face! Glad he is in good spirits & back doing what he loves.

@szilagyipeter6698 3 жыл бұрын

This 10 minute clip is worth more than piles of gold.

@s.s.1644 3 жыл бұрын

True

@sunshine594 4 жыл бұрын

I was hoping this was a new clip but I see that it's not. Praying that this dear man who has helped so many people is just this happy and healthy again very soon. 🙏❤🙏❤🙏

@generaltech512 3 жыл бұрын

I'm always surprised when I meet people who have been influenced by Peterson since I often think I am the only one.

@zzzeina3566 4 жыл бұрын

We wish you all health and wellness, and that you get well soon, Dr. Peterson!

@TroutOfOrder 4 жыл бұрын

Seems as though Dr. Peterson was having a good day this day he seems particularly charasmatic in this clip

@DronesConnection 4 жыл бұрын

God Bless and keep you dearest Dr Peterson

@scottbryan3362 4 жыл бұрын

Glad to see him healthy I hope this is new lastI heard he was sick. He's a 1 n a million person that comes in this world only once in a long while.

@watashin041 7 ай бұрын

Probably the best days of his lectures

@crushthebest 3 жыл бұрын

Sum-up: Point 1. FIGURE OUT what YOU need. Point 2. INFORM your partner about that. Point 3. SHOW APPRECIATION when he/she does that. 😊👍

@hora7io 4 жыл бұрын

You're smiling, Dr Peterson :) God bless you.

@ghale6632 4 жыл бұрын

everyone, this is a very old clip, his daughter is releasing stuff for him as he is recovering from some rough times. If you are reading this Ms. Peterson you better be taking good and smart care of your father, people still need him.

@brettstock3284 4 жыл бұрын

I’m sure she is doing a great job of taking care of her father.

@tomknop8675 4 жыл бұрын

@Psychonaut I don't thing that he/she meant that.

@Red_AIert 4 жыл бұрын

I love Dr. Peterson. Absolute lad. ✌🏽

@palomaramirez2360 4 жыл бұрын

As someone who is starting her first relationship ever, this is incredibly good advice, thank you very much.😄

@mandilyncartwright5697 4 жыл бұрын

We miss you.

@1AGRIPPINAONE 4 жыл бұрын

Love this and You are such an idol to me. Please know how important you are to us all.

@Mebzy 4 жыл бұрын

I love this clip so much, there's so much joy!

@DronesConnection 4 жыл бұрын

God it’s soooo good to see you smile 😃

@kmafdlmagotg8328 4 жыл бұрын

Nice to see him laugh

@olyviawagoner4071 4 жыл бұрын

Would be amazing to learn from Jordan haha he’s an awesome teacher

@ChicknNudleSoup 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for all your insights Dr. Peterson. You work so hard to improve the lives of others.

@no-gracias9863 4 жыл бұрын

I don't have a relationship, but thanks for the advice👍

@jamierenfert8358 4 жыл бұрын

After finding out about you and harboring great appreciation for your views, imagine my surprise and surge of pride when I learned that, like myself, you grew up an Alberta boy. Thank you for your example, and your willingness to not only articulate it but also releasing so much material for us to consider. Keep getting better Jordan, one day at a time.

@bevivos 4 жыл бұрын

I love to listen to everything you say. I learned a lot from you😊

@aoyama173 6 ай бұрын

1- reducing it to the bare minimal 2- 4:20 people love potential 3- arthimatic

@estebannestares2745 4 жыл бұрын

Gracias Maestro Jordan Peterson

@BdDaBOMB 4 жыл бұрын

This is actually one of the greatest piece of romantic advice. This another clip of Mr. Peterson speaking about the arrangement of muturally stepping away mid conversation and thinking about what are the set of things you've done recently that increased the probablility of ending up in this fight and then go to your partner and apologise.

@automatapast4354 4 жыл бұрын

Good clip. It helps me realize some people are too stupid to be trained even when I offer to learn simultaneously.

@yuukadesuyeo 2 жыл бұрын

Loved this! so useful

@zacharysmith4787 Жыл бұрын

The overall message here is communication, especially positive directive communication. Speak your mind. Don't always assume someone is going to know something.

@hellowaves 2 жыл бұрын

It is easier to build someone up than tear them down.

@brandomiranda6703 4 жыл бұрын

Love the arithmetic trick!

@reneeno2921 2 жыл бұрын

So informative as per usual 😊😊😊

@Xant089 4 жыл бұрын

I hope i can see you being this's inusiastic again in the future ^^ Damn i'm about to cry :')

@vintagelife5195 4 жыл бұрын

Very good.

@TheLookingGlassAU 4 жыл бұрын

I'm just going echo other comments, it's good to see you smile jordan

@aleckz13_ 4 жыл бұрын

I hope Dr. Peterson and family are in good health 🙏🏾☀️🌴🙌🏾

@patriciagottardi6909 3 жыл бұрын

Wow, great advice!

@misteroz 4 жыл бұрын

I may have to try this. I’m 40 and I’d basically resigned myself to a miserable married life forever.

@axzen 4 жыл бұрын

“How to Train Your Partner” 101. Also, how to train your partner to train you. Appreciate all 🙏❤️

@Kate98755 4 жыл бұрын

Miss your videos, take care and heal

@nelli.bonelli 3 жыл бұрын

me too

@timtremblay8601 4 жыл бұрын

give and take.

@crushthebest 3 жыл бұрын

I want to press the 'Like' button like 10 times - such a wise man 💪

@iCockaine 4 жыл бұрын

thc and thx

@miguelchippsinteligente6072 4 жыл бұрын

Fight the good fight

@DarkNinja-24 4 жыл бұрын

Same advice applies to parenting too... I think that's what my mom did, be patient and reward me when I do something meritorious

@shikharuniyal9985 4 жыл бұрын

He looks so happy 😆

@bijanshadnia3620 4 жыл бұрын

great

@rahoo4114 4 жыл бұрын

Yeahhhh the all mighty Jordan B Peterson is alive and well!

@astrojeet 4 жыл бұрын

This is from 2015. But, yeah he's doing better.

@rahoo4114 4 жыл бұрын

@@astrojeet how can you tell then?

@astrojeet 4 жыл бұрын

@@rahoo4114 His newsletters from his website. He's already started working on his next book 12 more rules: beyond order. He's also looking for an illustrator. Every applicant has to submit an illustration of the Fool. He's still recovering though.

@rahoo4114 4 жыл бұрын

@@astrojeet that's great! Thank you! I can't wait for him to get in to new paradigms. He can do even better, he got the experiencie and the theory. He is a great reference.

@pablomartinez000 3 жыл бұрын

True and funny video.

@user-ok6ef9zn4f 3 жыл бұрын

1:28 Ironically I like being left alone as soon I come home. If you start talking to me, I usually start yelling...

@luv04angels 5 ай бұрын

In my opinion ,when someone is calling you stupid, it's a form of belittling you... that is not acceptable. If it becomes repetitive, that's abuse. There's no rewarding abusive behavior.

@citizen2364 4 жыл бұрын

He looks younger here. I pray he is doing very well!

@frankwright5522 4 жыл бұрын

Lol great advice

@douglasshive9872 3 жыл бұрын

Need Help, I’ve been listening to Dr. Peterson for over 3 years, he’s clearly my number one go to guy. Who would you recommend as number two?

@nelli.bonelli 3 жыл бұрын

As of now, I have none

@maxmoseley7490 4 жыл бұрын

At 6:40 we can hear Kermit do a Mickey Mouse impression

@KC-ss3xy Жыл бұрын

Dang! JP looking fine!

@LockSteady 4 жыл бұрын

Wow. FUCK. I didn't realize how backwards and wrong I've been. Thank you. I'll try this.

@CaptainPhilosophical 4 жыл бұрын

What if I have asked my partner to stop telling me how I think and feel yet they continue to do it multiple times a day for years?

@Recraw7 4 жыл бұрын

6 people got dumped

@calebcafarelli 4 жыл бұрын

first!

@Maydenne 4 жыл бұрын

I wanna see Jordan Peterson and John Gottman have a conversation. Gottman's "bids" theory is like Peterson's "bam! That was good" M.O.

@jesussheep3457 4 жыл бұрын

What if someone just says horrible things out of anger and says sorry later?

@MrManDiller 4 жыл бұрын

When was this, he looks slightly younger and heavier

@BestForexAcademy 3 жыл бұрын

🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡

@peternagy6067 4 жыл бұрын

You changed, you look like you are happier and jounger.

@kurtispittman2103 4 жыл бұрын

This is an older clip.

@Goofy_Toons 3 жыл бұрын

Lmao junger

@MS-ns4ki 9 ай бұрын

Junger😅

@alexbrass4823 4 жыл бұрын

What do I do after my room is clean?

@AthenaTheWolf 4 жыл бұрын

Exceed Your Potential With Alex Brass fight the dragon of chaos

@alexbrass4823 4 жыл бұрын

@@AthenaTheWolf and after that?

@workinprogress0123 2 жыл бұрын

Hey good people! Have a great relationship! Cuz I am watching this video being single ... Single as hell..... Jeez

@NoName-xc6cg 2 жыл бұрын

Hey it's been 2 days had any luck yet?

@kaivirin 2 жыл бұрын

Hey it's been 6 months had any luck yet?

@chelseashamim9148 2 жыл бұрын

i dont have the paitence for this. ill die alone

@maxc7198 3 жыл бұрын

Cool. I was looking for Fat Peterson. I like him better.

@SaeedAcronia 4 жыл бұрын

Did he just say I have to manipulate my girlfriend? (If I had one)

@Laddesh 3 жыл бұрын

No??

@DronesConnection 4 жыл бұрын

Haha 😆 just demolishing any chance at confidence in the recipient! Lol 😆

@cooliipie 4 жыл бұрын

Why does he look younger

@lauravanvoorhees1279 4 жыл бұрын

A video from a previous year, most likely? 😊

@melska 4 жыл бұрын

The video is a couple of years old

@astrojeet 4 жыл бұрын

This is from 2015 I believe.

@mariskabarsi6749 4 жыл бұрын

I would compromise and get him a Dog, to greet him at the door every day. The Dog would do a more convincing job of it anyway, I'd only be faking it...

@NoName-xc6cg 2 жыл бұрын

That's sad

@GenzorX 9 ай бұрын

Utility over authenticity, not good. The chickens will come home to roost.

@__loafy__ 4 жыл бұрын

The pre-Xanax days.

@MrMasterKaio 4 жыл бұрын

these "hurr durr peterson is an addict"-comments are so shallow and annoying.

@MrMasterKaio 4 жыл бұрын

@Psychonaut oh yea? well, I very much hope that you don't allow your mother or grandmother to take any drugs. because if they take them, they're weak and they can't handle life.

@MrMasterKaio 4 жыл бұрын

@Psychonaut so everyone who takes pharmaceuticals for mental health is weak?

@MrMasterKaio 4 жыл бұрын

@Psychonaut Nice, so anyone who has had a traumatic event or a biological disadvantage is a weak person. Got it. Fuck off.

@MrMasterKaio 4 жыл бұрын

@Psychonaut oh boo fucking hoo. people are kepts alive by these drugs. you probably need to grow up some.

@MrMasterKaio 4 жыл бұрын

@Psychonaut Oh, it's you again. Lol 😂 go play somewhere else, troll. Pathetic.