Releasing Past Trauma and Stepping Into Your Masculine Expression

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The Fearless Man

The Fearless Man

Күн бұрын

In this video Matt shares his story of going from being a nice guy, abandonment issues and becoming good with women and how he uses the practices of talking to women as a tool to deal with his trauma and abandon issues
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@mmr0221
@mmr0221 9 ай бұрын
His honesty about not reading a lot is refreshing
@ahrengroesch8774
@ahrengroesch8774 3 жыл бұрын
Matthew's energy is incredible. It's radiating out of his posture. I got back pain relief just watching him. He speaks with total confidence and turn on. This whole video I was just basking in his energy.
@ArcherBlack
@ArcherBlack 3 жыл бұрын
A part that really stuck out to me was when he spoke of being HONEST with yourself. And how it transitioned into being honest with girls
@robertoacevedo3805
@robertoacevedo3805 3 жыл бұрын
What Matt is saying is the ultimate Truth. If you're not consistent with your practice, forget about it. More knowledge isn't going to make a difference either. Establishing that base of consistent practice, and the world will open up to you. Another way I like to say it is; "Just showing up for yourself". Mind you this is not a destination to get to, forget about that. Just enjoy and be part of the journey.
@jimsalmon5158
@jimsalmon5158 3 жыл бұрын
Matthew was like the big brother I never had. Always pushing me for my own good. He will be missed.
@nicholasberson3236
@nicholasberson3236 3 жыл бұрын
That’s my best friend 😁 Killing it man 👏🏻👌🏻
@owen2002
@owen2002 3 жыл бұрын
Lucky u
@gunnbottemlr
@gunnbottemlr 3 жыл бұрын
I love when I see Matt or Anthony on the screen or their stories ❤
@alexkatsanos8475
@alexkatsanos8475 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Matthew! So good to see you coaching! You embody this work! Please keep sharing your gifts.
@solaimanshakil7118
@solaimanshakil7118 3 жыл бұрын
I lost words bro. I have been following Brian for a while. But in this video when you had mentioned ‘being angry is not okay because of not wanting to be like my father’ i am really moved. This resonates with me lots. All my life my mom kept on barraging my ear with words such as ‘don’t be like your father’
@erdalamedov1029
@erdalamedov1029 3 жыл бұрын
So solid and grounded Mathey. AMAZING example and coach embodying everything that he teaches and exudes the energy.Wow
@viktorahlqvist8849
@viktorahlqvist8849 3 жыл бұрын
Great talk, amazing value, totally loved it
@eldomi7297
@eldomi7297 3 жыл бұрын
Great video! Loved the explanations🔥
@skttazinrx3395
@skttazinrx3395 3 жыл бұрын
AWESOME VIDEO, i learned so much from this, thank you! by the way, man youre so grounded wtf i almost feel a sense of gravity of you
@andrewazouz3654
@andrewazouz3654 3 жыл бұрын
Amazing talk!
@BChown
@BChown 3 жыл бұрын
Great video 🙏
@illogikal4507
@illogikal4507 3 жыл бұрын
Great video and information as always I've been watching Brian and the rest of fearless for 2 year ish and helped me a lot. Just wondering where can I get one of them cardigans you're wearing man hard to find here in UK or one similar 🤔 keep up the decent videos :)
@prgenki9576
@prgenki9576 3 жыл бұрын
Everything about this guy smell confidence.
@HimmlicherDrecksSpion
@HimmlicherDrecksSpion 3 жыл бұрын
Good teacher
@mikaelkristian
@mikaelkristian 3 жыл бұрын
This guy Matt is awesome! Where can I find more about his stuff?
@owen2002
@owen2002 3 жыл бұрын
I think hes a coach at the fearless man. He done a video a while back with brian talking about his dating life.
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Mikael, There is another video of Matt on the channel. Link below. He is also talking about the overall principles that we work with and teach at The Fearless Man. The whole channel has similar powerful content and you can also look into other things we offer like online events and in-person seminars and workshops. - Andrew, TFM Staff 2-Day Revealing Process Masterclass - Virtual Eventthefearlessman.com/july-2021-revealing The Fearless Integrated Man Summit - Miami, FL November, 5-7thefearlessman.com/tims2021 Attraction and Seduction Gathering - Miami, March 13-14www.thefearlessman.com/GatheringMiami Matt's Video: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/odtmprOA27yoeqM.html
@owen2002
@owen2002 3 жыл бұрын
Can ye make a video on pelvic rocking to help me get better with turn on? Thanks for the great video also
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Owen, Brian doesn't usually make movement videos since it is hard to really show correctly on video. Maybe in the future though. - Andrew, TFM Staff
@footlongsubzero1128
@footlongsubzero1128 3 жыл бұрын
14:06 "..You can change your relationship to your internal state how you feel about yourself, everything in the outside world will change". Love it 👍👍. Plus I like the idea of not breaking the ice with others but breaking the ice within myself which solidifies this statement 💪. Many Thanks 🙏🙏🙏. Much love from Melbourne Australia 🤙
@rafaeltobon8112
@rafaeltobon8112 3 жыл бұрын
This is a fantastic video guys. The content here is of insane value. Thank you for that 🙏
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine the value of our workshops 😉 - Andrew, TFM Staff 2-Day Revealing Process Masterclass - Virtual Event thefearlessman.com/july-2021-revealing The Fearless Integrated Man Summit - Miami, FL November, 5-7 thefearlessman.com/tims2021 Attraction and Seduction Gathering - Miami, March 13-14 www.thefearlessman.com/GatheringMiami
@thivan233
@thivan233 3 жыл бұрын
the issue for me is that, if, which I think for sure, have some traumas or insecurities from childhood is not an easy task to understand and find where is the origin of those traumas/insecurities, or how many etc... Because the person I am today I see just as my self, the traumas is like a foggy dream, because naturally the brain blocks them and try to put the in the forgotten department while still influencing life outside. have some tips on how to identify those traumas/insecurities?... pardon me if the question is silly, but is something easily undetected for me at this point due to the programming I have in my head from my all my previous years.
@jmjstayouttheway3855
@jmjstayouttheway3855 3 жыл бұрын
Look at this video on youtube it’s called Emotion code - Process of releasing trapped emotions, it should help.
@thivan233
@thivan233 3 жыл бұрын
@@jmjstayouttheway3855 thank you very much 🙏 will be practicing the excercises 😊
@olddirtybastiat3915
@olddirtybastiat3915 3 жыл бұрын
Inform yourself in Psychedelics, they can be a good tool to aid you bringing up repressed emotions. However, they are only a tool and best used in a therapeutic setting so I highly advise doing your own research before concidering them.
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
Hey I. O. That is the basic challenge we all face really because the mind usually pushes away the traumatic memories so they don't keep traumatizing us. They go into our subconscious and they still affect our emotions and behaviors. The revealing process that Brian teaches is a tool you can use to start to become aware again of the feelings that have been pushed down, out of conscious awareness. As we become more clear and courageous in our lives, we can handle more and more heavy emotions and memories and so the unconscious mind allows them to become conscious again so that we can feel those emotions and see that we are greater than the fear and we can let them go. This takes work and usually help and guidance. We coach men through this and there are also many other good sources. - Andrew, TFM Staff 2-Day Revealing Process Masterclass - Virtual Event thefearlessman.com/july-2021-revealing The Fearless Integrated Man Summit - Miami, FL November, 5-7 thefearlessman.com/tims2021 Attraction and Seduction Gathering - Miami, March 13-14 www.thefearlessman.com/GatheringMiami
@viktorahlqvist8849
@viktorahlqvist8849 3 жыл бұрын
Did Kinda resonate with the i dont even read books part hehe XD
@gunnbottemlr
@gunnbottemlr 3 жыл бұрын
1How do you feel your turn on in relationship with the fear? 2how do you change/build your relationship to an feeling? What exercisez do you recomend?
@NewAmor1990
@NewAmor1990 3 жыл бұрын
Doing :D
@gunnbottemlr
@gunnbottemlr 3 жыл бұрын
@@NewAmor1990 wdym?
@owen2002
@owen2002 3 жыл бұрын
@@gunnbottemlr brian did a video about a year ago its called sexual transmutation and it has some stuff on turn on
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Gunnbot, Good questions. Re: 1 - You can start to feel more turn-on with fear by spending a little time every day reflecting on how fear factors into successes. There are going to be almost no major success in anyone's life that don't bring up fear along the path to success. So you can make friends with that fear and realize it is probably teaching your something, otherwise, you can make friends with it and let it go, again, this moves your forward. Re: 2 - The above process is basically the answer here too. Spend some time everyday investigating the fear. Let yourself feel a little more of it and then a little more until you can recognize that you are ultimately greater than the fear because you are the one that is able to see the fear and make decisions about how to handle it. - Andrew, TFM Staff 2-Day Revealing Process Masterclass - Virtual Event thefearlessman.com/july-2021-revealing The Fearless Integrated Man Summit - Miami, FL November, 5-7 thefearlessman.com/tims2021 Attraction and Seduction Gathering - Miami, March 13-14 www.thefearlessman.com/GatheringMiami
@gunnbottemlr
@gunnbottemlr 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheFearlessMan the 2-Day Revealing Process Masterclass - Virtual Event,its in person?,ik its says virtual but when I click on the link it says location to be determined,and its gona be live or recorded
@vozdrasvima
@vozdrasvima 3 жыл бұрын
I have a male friend who have sexual penetrating energy toward girls...he is married and he do not think about cheating his wife but he want to feel that he can seduce other girls, somethime making friends with them, to the point when they become crazy for him and than he reject them...he told me that give him sence of validation... like huge ego booster...I am not sure this is healthy approach..
@kludgybrains3459
@kludgybrains3459 3 жыл бұрын
That does not sound healthy. You are right.
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
Definitely not healthy. He is seeking validation out of negative beliefs about himself so he is using these women as tools to try to handle his negative emotions. It will never work and he's constantly cheating on his wife in this way, even if he never fucks any of these women. All around no bueno. It's definitely going to catch up with him too because his own subconscious mind will want to get out of the situation so he will start doing things to get caught. - Andrew, TFM Staff
@ErvinMitchell
@ErvinMitchell 3 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
Hey man, Saw you on Fresh Start. How was your experience? - Andrew, TFM Staff
@ErvinMitchell
@ErvinMitchell 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheFearlessMan it was amazing. I’ve been feeling totally different since
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
@@ErvinMitchell Fuck yeah :) Really glad to hear that.
@HHHeiko69
@HHHeiko69 3 жыл бұрын
Wow. Is he good, man. "That's the real shit". That's ist.
@PunkProfess0r
@PunkProfess0r 3 жыл бұрын
I’m convinced women get into relationships to have a man to put all their crap on...especially during their menstruation cycle. Lol I’m partly joking....but seriously.
@TheFearlessMan
@TheFearlessMan 3 жыл бұрын
Some do but the issue is which ones are you attracting with your energy? - Andrew, TFM Staff
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