Remove Toxic People From Your Life | Trent Shelton

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TrentShelton

TrentShelton

3 жыл бұрын

There are always people in our life that are bridges or connections that are leading you to different places in our lives. Make sure that the people that you keep in your life are bridges to positive things in your life. You need to remove toxic people from your life.
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Trent Shelton is a former NFL wide receiver and author of The Greatest You: Face Reality, Release Negativity, and Live Your Purpose. Trent has collaborated with powerful voices over the years including Tony Robbins, Rachel Hollis, Tom Bilyeu, Gerard Adams, and many more.
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@AyeZo
@AyeZo 3 жыл бұрын
“Don’t let the history keep you in the misery” 💯
@giovanniaguilar1123
@giovanniaguilar1123 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@traceylennon1204
@traceylennon1204 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN 🙏🏾💯
@traceylennon1204
@traceylennon1204 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN 🙏🏾💯
@hisdaughter5700
@hisdaughter5700 3 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🗣🗣🗣
@katiparkerjones6152
@katiparkerjones6152 3 жыл бұрын
Yes 🙌🏼 amen🙌🏼
@rosarobinson5866
@rosarobinson5866 3 жыл бұрын
"You let a broken person break you" Dayumm, I felt that on another level 😭😩
@wendyinackley
@wendyinackley 3 жыл бұрын
Right!! I felt that to my soul.
@amazinggrace2608
@amazinggrace2608 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@kennethsparks3977
@kennethsparks3977 3 жыл бұрын
Same here!!!
@bhmgmusic_nahbi
@bhmgmusic_nahbi 3 жыл бұрын
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@masonmccoy719
@masonmccoy719 3 жыл бұрын
Can I n Have a your number I need help to start my day off right
@Max_Abyss
@Max_Abyss 3 жыл бұрын
“Never feel guilty about protecting your heart” don’t let people’s judgements of you define who you are
@jojopoeticstyle1224
@jojopoeticstyle1224 3 жыл бұрын
I wish I had this kind of advice before. Glad I have it now.
@bhmgmusic_nahbi
@bhmgmusic_nahbi 3 жыл бұрын
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@ladybug6055
@ladybug6055 2 жыл бұрын
means nothing some people will judge you for walking away from a situation that is so bad and wrong for you only because they try to normalize things that they do that is wrong.
@ladybug6055
@ladybug6055 2 жыл бұрын
I was told I was cold as ice because I was being treated bad by multiple people in a past relationships and it was effecting my health on so many levels. Well the opinion of a stranger
@msdecemberloveangel8236
@msdecemberloveangel8236 3 жыл бұрын
Im an ex crack smoker years ago. So this neighbor of mine asked me if I wanted to do a line. My response back to him was, NO SIR I HAVE BEEN DELIVERED FROM DRUGS. U are ✅ right. Don't allow ur self to be entertained with people who are not going in ur direction. Im a leader not a follower. Eagles don't fly with chickens!!!!
@dawnmichele6847
@dawnmichele6847 3 жыл бұрын
MR. DECEMBER LIKE YOU I WAS AN ADDICT TO EVERYTHING. , CRACK,METH,AA, 💊, PEOPLE, YOU NAME IT I'VE PROBABLY DONE IT.😭 HAD TO LOSE IT ALL TO GAIN MY SOUL. MY IDENTITY. MY LIFE. MY HOME. MY PEACE 🕊️ . LIKE TRENT SAID. PROTECT YOUR HEART,SOUL,AND MIND LIKE YOU WOULD FIGHT FOR YOUR LIFE 🙏🙏
@msdecemberloveangel8236
@msdecemberloveangel8236 3 жыл бұрын
@@dawnmichele6847 u got that right
@LaPotraBellaca
@LaPotraBellaca 3 жыл бұрын
Happy that you're clean now!
@bhmgmusic_nahbi
@bhmgmusic_nahbi 3 жыл бұрын
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@angelaallen7049
@angelaallen7049 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing response to negative, keep soaring as an eagle, God bless you 💕
@deniselafranque4530
@deniselafranque4530 3 жыл бұрын
At 63yrs old I'm finally standing in my own truth, not feeling guilty, and especially not letting my family's abuse/toxicity hold preference in my life. Better late than never. #REHABTIME
@rosemaryoneale6694
@rosemaryoneale6694 3 жыл бұрын
Facts!!
@ghyslainestleonce1743
@ghyslainestleonce1743 3 жыл бұрын
Keep your head high up sois courageuse
@jojopoeticstyle1224
@jojopoeticstyle1224 3 жыл бұрын
I’m proud for you. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@bhmgmusic_nahbi
@bhmgmusic_nahbi 3 жыл бұрын
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@eyeleesmiley
@eyeleesmiley 3 жыл бұрын
Amen I just turned 52 & didn’t start until I was 49 getting rid of all of the toxicity. Family included
@jamesbarnhardt3333
@jamesbarnhardt3333 3 жыл бұрын
I've been cutting the cords on a lot of dead end relationships, jobs, friends, and even family... The weight that's being dropped off me is letting me fly higher
@TrentSheltonVideos
@TrentSheltonVideos 3 жыл бұрын
Hey James you are one of the winners I want to give some holiday cash to. Send an email to bookingtrent@gmail.com so I can get your info to send your money!
@paulahsimspon5523
@paulahsimspon5523 3 жыл бұрын
You are right !!
@rosarobinson5866
@rosarobinson5866 3 жыл бұрын
Amen!!!
@motivationwithlisa
@motivationwithlisa 3 жыл бұрын
Hey James, You have to let FAMILY GO!!!!
@jograves892
@jograves892 3 жыл бұрын
Don't let someone's perception of you become your reality! Straight up, it's Rehab Time!
@bhmgmusic_nahbi
@bhmgmusic_nahbi 3 жыл бұрын
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@camisnyder3460
@camisnyder3460 2 жыл бұрын
I won’t!!!! I’m done w these toxic fools….God’ll get em!!!!!
@mvxxderxnxx3078
@mvxxderxnxx3078 2 жыл бұрын
@@camisnyder3460 hard facts people swear they can g et away with anything nono nothing is working like that if someone does You wrong karma will comeback to them 10 or 20 times harder be careful own You treat people 🤭
@maryharris5384
@maryharris5384 3 жыл бұрын
You can’t change people, even if you love them you have to remove them from your life and sometimes that’s hard but you will be much better off and time will heal !
@gregflores8959
@gregflores8959 Жыл бұрын
Mary H.- At first it’s difficult, but much like driving out from under a storm- everything improves.
@cristelarocha4767
@cristelarocha4767 3 жыл бұрын
“When you keep toxic things in your life, you’re going to feel toxic!” Preach!
@872005Marissa
@872005Marissa 3 жыл бұрын
This is sooo true! I feel you 💯 on that because to stay in the toxic relationship means you automatically become toxic by accepting low standard of treatment or just plain old sad unrequited love or you guys are fighting each other often, that which in itself creates the toxicity too! You are so on point!
@gloriacasey9947
@gloriacasey9947 3 жыл бұрын
So true had a frind allways made me feal good about my self but she passed away
@872005Marissa
@872005Marissa 3 жыл бұрын
@Angela Grainger I’m sorry you are to hear you are going through this. I care about anyone going through domestic violence. Here is an anonymous hotline if you need help/resources/safe escape if you need that. You always have a choices, but also realize that it can much more difficult during quarantine. Here is a number: 1-800-799-7233 (1-800-799-SAFE) . God bless you!
@marywhite941
@marywhite941 3 жыл бұрын
@@gloriacasey9947 thank you mister Trent my name is Mary White and I just started listening to you inscribed and my son white is white always listens to you and I'm 60 years old he's 29
@bhmgmusic_nahbi
@bhmgmusic_nahbi 3 жыл бұрын
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@colleenohara6432
@colleenohara6432 3 жыл бұрын
"Don't let the history keep you in the misery." "You let a broken person break you." 🙌
@shamikae9241
@shamikae9241 3 жыл бұрын
So true
@justinnihiser8680
@justinnihiser8680 3 жыл бұрын
That line hit me hard...Don't let the history keep you in the misery...yeah, it did.
@ivonadcfl5960
@ivonadcfl5960 3 жыл бұрын
So true
@bhmgmusic_nahbi
@bhmgmusic_nahbi 3 жыл бұрын
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@alterego924
@alterego924 3 жыл бұрын
That second one smacked me in the face
@1976margie
@1976margie 3 жыл бұрын
I'm in the eye of the change. I've been verbally abused off and on for 19 years, I'm at a hotel room because I don't want to go home. He's not even home and I don't want to be there. Bad memories every time I turn my head. Searching for an apartment, very scarce but I'll continue to fight for the change!!!! I really want the change!!!! All alone with no family! Pray for me 😔🙏
@christyharrell3335
@christyharrell3335 3 жыл бұрын
"Stop letting people make you feel guilty for you choosing you"!! EVERYTHING is on point!!! I needed to hear this, especially since the one who broke me is trying to come back in.
@bhmgmusic_nahbi
@bhmgmusic_nahbi 3 жыл бұрын
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@bhmgmusic_nahbi
@bhmgmusic_nahbi 3 жыл бұрын
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@RAiNABUNz
@RAiNABUNz 3 жыл бұрын
Removing toxic people was the best decision to protect my peace. I can breathe better, have less anxiety and stress. I’m happier.
@b_cause
@b_cause Жыл бұрын
Yep, but ship people are a parasite and they need to hang on for life
@amberbrooks9730
@amberbrooks9730 3 жыл бұрын
"I REFUSE TO LOSE MYSELF IN HELPING PEOPLE"....Lord knows I needed to hear this at this moment 🙌🏾🙏🏾
@Rodogg7787
@Rodogg7787 3 жыл бұрын
Me too, I felt like he was directly speaking to me on that!
@brentjames2576
@brentjames2576 3 жыл бұрын
I stay in my lane 2021
@goddesskay4615
@goddesskay4615 3 жыл бұрын
I feel you
@lissholland1024
@lissholland1024 3 жыл бұрын
@@Rodogg7787 ct actYou can't help someone if they don't want to help or do different tjier own self I learned u can not change people when I was in my 20tus that don't get u any where but disappointed u can only change your self I've helped people and it's not worth even trying alll I get is the worst of the stick
@LALady1
@LALady1 3 жыл бұрын
Have wisdom we are to help people
@patricedonaldson2946
@patricedonaldson2946 3 жыл бұрын
"I'd rather be viewed as cold hearted than broken hearted".....Amen👏🏽👏🏽
@bhmgmusic_nahbi
@bhmgmusic_nahbi 3 жыл бұрын
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@Diamond88Rose
@Diamond88Rose 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! I really needed this message. My ex was trying to inch his way back and I blocked it. This message I know was not a coincidence. I truly believe the universe sent this to me. I'm on a new path and now ready to transform. Thank you. 🥰
@MsDutchess336
@MsDutchess336 3 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@bhmgmusic_nahbi
@bhmgmusic_nahbi 3 жыл бұрын
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@ajth3great679
@ajth3great679 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve had to get rid of toxic relationships so I can continue to protect my peace!
@tamarag9981
@tamarag9981 3 жыл бұрын
Me too! It is very peaceful to not have certain people in my life than to fight to maintain a relationship with a toxic or selfish person.
@idontcare1481
@idontcare1481 3 жыл бұрын
My mother is toxic and I want to run far away but I can’t because she’s elderly and I have to take care of her.
@bhmgmusic_nahbi
@bhmgmusic_nahbi 3 жыл бұрын
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@sharobb6904
@sharobb6904 3 жыл бұрын
Yes we need peace to live a good life! 100
@marcelmazarek2499
@marcelmazarek2499 2 жыл бұрын
@@idontcare1481 nice of you to still want to even help. But that doesn't mean that you need too swallow her toxic stuff. Try to talk with her, maybe with time your relationship will get better. Good luck
@karenhuss8452
@karenhuss8452 3 жыл бұрын
They take are kindness as a weakness . They take over and toxic people suck the life out of you . Need to protect my peace straight up now
@Rodogg7787
@Rodogg7787 3 жыл бұрын
Keep listening to Trent, he'll help you thru it!
@Lozie82
@Lozie82 3 жыл бұрын
Likewise sis. Choose you 🙂
@ejdavis9297
@ejdavis9297 3 жыл бұрын
Real talk ‼️ it's like you can't be nice to anyone anymore 2021 I'm not allowing people to use me no more I'm done ✅
@brentjames2576
@brentjames2576 3 жыл бұрын
Misery love company
@iyotheplug4493
@iyotheplug4493 3 жыл бұрын
👏🏿
@Double423
@Double423 3 жыл бұрын
I made the decision to remove what's causing me STRESS and any negative vibes without any regrets.
@angelat2107
@angelat2107 3 жыл бұрын
I need a shirt that says that.... “I would rather be viewed as cold hearted then live broken hearted” 🔥❤️🙏
@bhmgmusic_nahbi
@bhmgmusic_nahbi 3 жыл бұрын
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@AyeZo
@AyeZo 3 жыл бұрын
Just hanging around certain people, brings back the vibe of the old you
@traceylennon1204
@traceylennon1204 3 жыл бұрын
So true!!!
@vanessabell7154
@vanessabell7154 3 жыл бұрын
I agree those flash back Start to come back.
@AyeZo
@AyeZo 3 жыл бұрын
@@vanessabell7154 always
@sarahsparks3818
@sarahsparks3818 3 жыл бұрын
“You have to learn how to guard your heart.” You can’t control others, but you can control how you react!
@tamarawaller8390
@tamarawaller8390 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!!
@dimplesnichelle4274
@dimplesnichelle4274 3 жыл бұрын
yes!
@veronicaharrison5823
@veronicaharrison5823 3 жыл бұрын
My,my,my...Do not let a"broken person" break you..Powerful!
@diving.deep.
@diving.deep. 3 жыл бұрын
A situation happened recently with a family member, I let a broken person get to me . I cut all ties with my family because I’ve helped at least one realize who they are and basically acted as if they didn’t know what I was talking about, if their not helping me “over floweth” my cup then I don’t need them , their just some energy vampires , even if they are family.
@paperdollartzgeniuz3911
@paperdollartzgeniuz3911 2 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY! .... Just went through same thing ... I'm too old for that mess.
@shellyblomes461
@shellyblomes461 3 жыл бұрын
I'd rather be viewed as cold hearted than live broken hearted!...A philosophy I've lived by 😁
@bhmgmusic_nahbi
@bhmgmusic_nahbi 3 жыл бұрын
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@Melly16yr10
@Melly16yr10 2 жыл бұрын
Good one 😄
@freliciaharris108
@freliciaharris108 3 жыл бұрын
A mistake over and over and over again is NOW A CHOICE!”
@alexistexis721
@alexistexis721 3 жыл бұрын
👁 was removing everyone that 👁 thought was toxic and 👁 realized 👁 was going to be alone with no one. Let them remove themselves. They will but remember: God loves all. 😍😘💕
@marykinney6789
@marykinney6789 3 жыл бұрын
Toxic people don't make your life better, it only hurts your heart & soul. So we need to protect us! Especially our hearts! What do you do when it is your family members that are toxic in your life? Then what Trent? Love you! Praying 🙏for your mom too! ♥️ Peace! Have a blessed day! ♥️
@ladybug6055
@ladybug6055 2 жыл бұрын
You gotta know what you don't need. Posion look at it like that. If you must go around them say like holidays find that family member that you know isn't even close to be that way. It starts with respect first being that you need to respect yourself enough to know that anything that is harming you, disrespect you and is all and all toxic is never good for you. I had some people that I don't care to deal with on my best or bad day. Some people are so miserable that when you know you don't need the bullcrap they bring and you deserve better their own toxic and dysfunctional habits like trying to manipulate people in a way that their own unresolved issues like not being able to respect other people who don't and shouldn't have to fool with their drama and negitivity will have them doing the most toxic shady messy things. Don't keep company with Misery or unhealthy people who try to normalized toxic, disrespectful behaviors. We all have some people even people who be trying to call us friends who are not good for us on all levels and we know we need to walk away.
@mvxxderxnxx3078
@mvxxderxnxx3078 2 жыл бұрын
@@ladybug6055 bruhh biggg factsss
@mvxxderxnxx3078
@mvxxderxnxx3078 2 жыл бұрын
@@ladybug6055 bruhh biggg factsss
@charleneshelton1
@charleneshelton1 3 жыл бұрын
I lived like that for many years with an abusive husband. When I left, I left everything, a good job, friends and my home. Plus it caused financial hardship. But I made it and my life is so much better. I am 65 and I am finally happy.
@BearsNtheBigBlueHouse
@BearsNtheBigBlueHouse 3 жыл бұрын
You go girl !!!!
@simplybiking
@simplybiking 3 жыл бұрын
God bless you! 👍
@bossladyakajerisalyers4917
@bossladyakajerisalyers4917 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it takes a min but it's better late than never right? I've also been where u were, it's not easy just to leave an abusive relationship, u have to plan a lot and plan everything just right or ur taking that big chance of them finding us and hurt us or possibly kill us
@mirelladlima5278
@mirelladlima5278 3 жыл бұрын
So true - never feel guilty for protecting your heart, your integrity, your truths, your true self. We have to guard our hearts so that we are not taken advantage of, not abused, scammed, conned. Better to be cold hearted than broken hearted. Have strong boundaries. Cut off toxic people who lead you astray. God bless you 🙏
@alexandraspeek983
@alexandraspeek983 3 жыл бұрын
I am so happy for you
@GoobsTubes
@GoobsTubes 3 жыл бұрын
“You’re no living the life God created for you. You’re living the life pain gave you” wow.
@connalitastewartsplaylist4383
@connalitastewartsplaylist4383 3 жыл бұрын
This hit me because my siblings always expect me to continue to be strong about things. When I got Cancer and had to leave home they were mad at me because I choose to not getter better around them. All they wanted to do was for me to continue doing what they wanted. Now that I don't have the amenities that I had when I was working they have no use for me and are not here with me. Especially my oldest sister. Now I don't have a car that she can use. It goes on and on. It hurts too.
@zahrahyoung8259
@zahrahyoung8259 3 жыл бұрын
Why are you saying that
@Bible661
@Bible661 3 жыл бұрын
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@nlrrln6881
@nlrrln6881 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I changed my number and distanced myself from toxic family and frienemies. Life is so peaceful 😎
@chrisharris2367
@chrisharris2367 3 жыл бұрын
Yas!!!
@joe7665
@joe7665 3 жыл бұрын
The real problem is people don't know they have toxic friends or family because that is just what they know! that's all they know. It takes a person that wants to change to figure out they are in toxic relationships. I stopped hanging out with a group of friends and my life got better! i started hanging out with them again and my life started getting worse, I looked around and started looking at peoples actions and really listening to what they say. When people say snooty comments once in a while, they don't like you and they talk behind your back. when i did something positive they will say you are not better then us! I start laughing because i know i have to cut them out of my life. Life is Great if you want it to be great
@JonathanJilliana
@JonathanJilliana 3 жыл бұрын
Thats right... You can't run your race trying to carry people that don't want to go where you are going. You can love people without hanging out with them every day 🙏🏻Be blessed today family!
@davidgourdine8916
@davidgourdine8916 3 жыл бұрын
True facts
@tammywooc150
@tammywooc150 3 жыл бұрын
I so needed to hear that today. I've had to leave the toxic people from my life. I can feel every word you are saying. I need to work on burning bridges soon. 1000%
@JonathanJilliana
@JonathanJilliana 3 жыл бұрын
@@davidgourdine8916 Right? Coulda saved a few years wasted if I got it sooner.
@JonathanJilliana
@JonathanJilliana 3 жыл бұрын
@@tammywooc150 you can do it. His grace empowers it, and He says, “I want to give you something healthier.”
@sharonghoston8050
@sharonghoston8050 3 жыл бұрын
So true
@erinnhardwick6928
@erinnhardwick6928 3 жыл бұрын
Certain things aren't meant to be repaired! 🎯
@naritanorman2761
@naritanorman2761 3 жыл бұрын
Amen, sometimes people are scared to let others go due to being lonely but lonely is better when you have peace and happiness. You will attract the people you need in life by doing right and staying positive just like you attract negativity.
@Boy-mom3
@Boy-mom3 3 жыл бұрын
" we keep seeing people for who they don't want to be"- WOW that is deep. " I can control what I accept"- control is my main word for the year 2021!💪 " just because it looks good for your life doesn't mean it is good for your life" "Certain things are not meant to be repaired" "You let a broken person break you" Hearing this video strengthens your level of discernment if you really listen and hear God! Wow! Control what you will accept, that is big and important and NEEDED
@bhmgmusic_nahbi
@bhmgmusic_nahbi 3 жыл бұрын
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@Marschand
@Marschand 3 жыл бұрын
“Above all the things that you guard, safeguard your heart, For out of it are the sources of life” ~Proverbs 4:23
@JEVMWV1023
@JEVMWV1023 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN!! WORD OF GOD SPEAK!!
@PamelaSueMulligan5
@PamelaSueMulligan5 3 жыл бұрын
🙌🙌🙌
@rosiepartida3570
@rosiepartida3570 3 жыл бұрын
I also read that. Amen 🙏
@sell3100
@sell3100 2 жыл бұрын
Absolute truth Martin! 🙏🏻❤️
@tanias5998
@tanias5998 2 жыл бұрын
Truth
@sheilawilliams1895
@sheilawilliams1895 3 жыл бұрын
I am 50 years old and I only learned this lesson about 10 years ago. It lead me to having a Stroke before I learned. I've learned to PROTECT MY PEACE! 😃
@valarieivory1082
@valarieivory1082 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 51 and I just started to learn this message when I was 50. I had to cut people out my life to live a better life.
@dmv4701
@dmv4701 3 жыл бұрын
I feel this so much.. Sometimes it's hard when it's family.
@marciejones6873
@marciejones6873 3 жыл бұрын
Especially when it's your own mom.
@bhmgmusic_nahbi
@bhmgmusic_nahbi 3 жыл бұрын
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@AllAboutYoungJV
@AllAboutYoungJV 3 жыл бұрын
@@marciejones6873 or pops
@RealLadi228
@RealLadi228 3 жыл бұрын
Never make it hard to choose you first!
@RealLadi228
@RealLadi228 3 жыл бұрын
Family is enbarassing and humiliating even when we can't share the hurt and pain with anyone! I'm done!
@jalilchandler1270
@jalilchandler1270 3 жыл бұрын
i have a toxic friend in my life right now that i wish can change but wont. i do so much in this friendship and not getting that in return im tired of it
@bryanjoneskilove3707
@bryanjoneskilove3707 3 жыл бұрын
I can no longer keep having relationship one sided, I’m guarding my heart from this day forward. I won’t be cruel toward anyone. I have one heart and I will guard it. Put some respect on it...
@bhmgmusic_nahbi
@bhmgmusic_nahbi 3 жыл бұрын
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@jasmynestevens3814
@jasmynestevens3814 3 жыл бұрын
“Stop Making People Feel Guilty For You Choosing You.” Come On With The Fire.🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@valerieriggins3184
@valerieriggins3184 3 жыл бұрын
And That's What Was Happening!
@leeleebaby6380
@leeleebaby6380 3 жыл бұрын
Please pray for me y'all.... I could use some prayer's... For the past few years, I have been dealing with a very toxic situation.... I just pray that God gives me the strength and will power to get rid of this situation 🙏🏽
@genstaroxxs
@genstaroxxs 3 жыл бұрын
The lord is your strength. Prayers your way.
@leeleebaby6380
@leeleebaby6380 3 жыл бұрын
@@genstaroxxs Right!! Thank you so much, I really appreciate it 😊
@crystalstrong7271
@crystalstrong7271 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve learned when you let or keep messy people in your life then you get messy. You are the sum of the 5 people you hang around most!.....don’t let negative people, destructive people drag you down, hurt your spirit, influence your truth!!!! Guard your heart!!!
@hisdaughter5700
@hisdaughter5700 3 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately I walked away from what I wanted to be Love... But it was TOXICITY.. I just pray God continues to heal me..
@savedbygrace555
@savedbygrace555 3 жыл бұрын
I'm right there with you Sis...And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose - Romans 8:28
@hisdaughter5700
@hisdaughter5700 3 жыл бұрын
@@savedbygrace555 Amen Yes!!! And because I know that we didn't want the same thing.... which is GOD FIRST!!! The TOXICITY was getting worse..
@keierrareenell877
@keierrareenell877 3 жыл бұрын
He will. Love God, and yourself. You will feel better eventually.
@hisdaughter5700
@hisdaughter5700 3 жыл бұрын
@@keierrareenell877 thank you
@keierrareenell877
@keierrareenell877 3 жыл бұрын
@@hisdaughter5700 You are most welcome. Blessings to you.
@melissalove324
@melissalove324 3 жыл бұрын
I am getting rid of toxic people but it’s hard when it’s your spouse.
@angelicamorales8929
@angelicamorales8929 3 жыл бұрын
"Don't let the history keep you in the misery"... "You have to guard your heart"
@bhmgmusic_nahbi
@bhmgmusic_nahbi 3 жыл бұрын
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@amberwiese364
@amberwiese364 3 жыл бұрын
My dad used to say " if we do the same things over and over and get the same results, but EXPECT different results...that it is a sign of insanity ". I think there is truth to his words!
@rhiannonjoseph6418
@rhiannonjoseph6418 3 жыл бұрын
“Don’t keep misery because of history” That spoke to me 😊
@rosiepartida3570
@rosiepartida3570 3 жыл бұрын
Yes. I agree!
@Bible661
@Bible661 3 жыл бұрын
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@jasmynestevens3814
@jasmynestevens3814 3 жыл бұрын
“You Have To Learn How To Guard Your Heart.”‼️
@rosiepartida3570
@rosiepartida3570 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes we learn the hard way 😒
@queenabby4844
@queenabby4844 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, always guard your heart.
@paulahsimspon5523
@paulahsimspon5523 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with you !!
@paulahsimspon5523
@paulahsimspon5523 3 жыл бұрын
@@rosiepartida3570 I agree with you !!
@francisjackson1677
@francisjackson1677 3 жыл бұрын
Protect what you accept.....never feel guilty for protecting your ❤
@healthreviewsplus
@healthreviewsplus 2 жыл бұрын
They say 'hurt people hurt people," but it's immature people who perpetuate this cycle of hurt. Im'a say NO, more. Thank you!
@CourtneyBonner5818
@CourtneyBonner5818 3 жыл бұрын
I felt that.” We keep seeing a person for what they don’t want to become”
@jackierobinson9861
@jackierobinson9861 3 жыл бұрын
When history repeats its self hopefully you'll remember the first lesson
@Reabible
@Reabible 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! You can't get caught up in the history of friendships. Best friend blocked very toxic.
@JOHN-ht6zc
@JOHN-ht6zc 3 жыл бұрын
I was HOMELESS and nooooo one cared not even my FAMILY...straight UP
@brendamike5130
@brendamike5130 3 жыл бұрын
I want to say “no regrets”, when ive lived my best life! Progression over perfection. ❤️
@susangendreau3151
@susangendreau3151 3 жыл бұрын
This hits home so much. Thank you for this message. Sharing.
@sounaksinha8926
@sounaksinha8926 3 жыл бұрын
You’re right man, I wanna have no regrets
@jeanniequinn7758
@jeanniequinn7758 3 жыл бұрын
Much love and respect Trent❤
@daynesmith5281
@daynesmith5281 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah and not to be used manipulated controlled and discarded or lied to trait of the devil!?
@kristyraisor2923
@kristyraisor2923 3 жыл бұрын
Over, Over, over and over again is called 'Insanity'. If ppl can be with you on your highs, and a true friend will be there for our lows. Some people 'bring us down', bcuz we are at a good high place so they have only will bring you down bcuz that's where they are. Some people are only around for whatever ANGLE they have for the purpose of keeping you around, it's for what they can get from you...anything from money to just flat out taking your energy and happiness. Bcuz misery loves company! Choose wisely my friends and have a great day and make good choices 😊
@dawnseitter6227
@dawnseitter6227 3 жыл бұрын
I’m almost 46 yrs old and lived this my whole life! I’ve been emotionally, mentally and physically abused starting at a very young age. I’m not only an sympathetic person; I’m an empathetic person. My two highest spiritual gifts are discernment and mercy so it’s like hello I can see the bad and toxic in you but it’s okay my light can fix you. It’s nearly destroyed me. I’ve been following Rehabtime and Trent for a decade and have always been inspired but I wasn’t done learning life lessons. Now I am realizing I cannot save the world and toxic people not only drain me; they hinder my growth spiritually. Protect your peace was amazing and totally inspiring!! Thank you ♥️
@sunshinesunflowerz1647
@sunshinesunflowerz1647 3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@deborafleischmann
@deborafleischmann 3 жыл бұрын
I totally Feel u!! Much love from Nuremberg, Germany
@uniquelove1322
@uniquelove1322 3 жыл бұрын
I once lived that way, it's about me life can be short, 🤗😊💃💃💃💃💃Live you BEST LIFE
@connielittle7214
@connielittle7214 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you I'm empathy also I feel your information thanks for sharing
@ambassadorblack6095
@ambassadorblack6095 3 жыл бұрын
Facts 🤨
@ejdavis9297
@ejdavis9297 3 жыл бұрын
Bless you my brother so true 2021 I may be cold hearted but not broken hearted. cause I'm guarding my heart and not allowing drugs and alcohol to control me and I'm not allowing toxic people in my life nor take my kindness for weakness ever again....
@bhmgmusic_nahbi
@bhmgmusic_nahbi 3 жыл бұрын
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@maddski11yvizion
@maddski11yvizion 3 жыл бұрын
My cousin had a toxic father. He died last year and his father didnt even call me. I cried like a baby to finally learn the truth in the end. I realized how painful his life was.
@cindyparham2806
@cindyparham2806 3 жыл бұрын
It’s hard to get rid of these people when they’re family....I am 52 but finally learning to love them while letting them go....
@user-fk5jk9cn1c
@user-fk5jk9cn1c 3 жыл бұрын
So hard
@moriahjurgonski3934
@moriahjurgonski3934 3 жыл бұрын
I believe this has been the hardest year in my 54 years on this Earth. I pray for all if us to have the personal strength we need 🙏
@deevisionary3139
@deevisionary3139 3 жыл бұрын
16 mins of ALL FACTS . Not one myth or lie was told . All truth and energy to match . Well needed and will be took into consideration VERY POWERFUL - LETS BE GREAT 💪🏿💯🙏🏾✨
@amystanczyk4775
@amystanczyk4775 3 жыл бұрын
Here's to cleansing the toxic energy...be the change that u wanna see in the world..ur an inspiration trent I am over losing myself and wearing my heart on my sleeve!!
@domwirth1894
@domwirth1894 3 жыл бұрын
I will GUARD MY HEART ❤ I choose cold-hearted over Broken hearted 💔
@rosiepartida3570
@rosiepartida3570 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@jarrettthe20-yearrecoverin35
@jarrettthe20-yearrecoverin35 3 жыл бұрын
💯
@samanthashontz5873
@samanthashontz5873 3 жыл бұрын
This couldn't be more true. I kept someone that was toxic in my life for too long because I loved him. I felt like a new person when I finally decided I had enough.
@denisebay5800
@denisebay5800 3 жыл бұрын
I help people but I refuse to lose myself...AMEN AMEN 💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 God bless you
@ricanqueen3417
@ricanqueen3417 3 жыл бұрын
I've had to remove alot of people that I thought would stay in my life forever, it's healthier and more peaceful for me and my kids . Protecting me and my kids peace is tough but I am strong 💪💪 Thank you for your wonderful advice !
@isamaria3861
@isamaria3861 3 жыл бұрын
This message was needed today. It’s scary cutting people off and feeling alone. It’s worse having the wrong people surrounding you. Thank you for the reminder.
@Rodogg7787
@Rodogg7787 3 жыл бұрын
I have cut ties with "friends" who I thought would always be here for me, but I found out quick that I was the only loyal one!
@gloriacasey9947
@gloriacasey9947 3 жыл бұрын
Agree
@rajhynez
@rajhynez 3 жыл бұрын
In this situation now, the lonely feelings are coming but have to keep reminding myself why I didi it
@jennymcgee689
@jennymcgee689 3 жыл бұрын
I've just recently left a toxic abusive relationship and I definitely needed to hear this today.
@rosiepartida3570
@rosiepartida3570 3 жыл бұрын
Good for you! I wish you the best
@Rodogg7787
@Rodogg7787 3 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@umohofonime4791
@umohofonime4791 3 жыл бұрын
Is very true
@laurenmartinez9755
@laurenmartinez9755 3 жыл бұрын
You are very brave and im proud of you. 💪❤⭐🔥
@MM-rc6rp
@MM-rc6rp 2 жыл бұрын
I let a a broken person break me I felt that. I wasted my time thinking love would change him. "Guard your heart"love that.
@karenmasters830
@karenmasters830 3 жыл бұрын
I listened to this while working out last night and today went through and blocked and deleted the people that have been causing me so much heartache and drama. I allowed myself to be free of all of that for the first time in over a year.
@latrice5489
@latrice5489 3 жыл бұрын
“We keep seeing a person for who they don’t want to become” and “ I would rather be viewed as cold hearted than broken-hearted” 🔥🔥🔥those touched me right there. We as people always carry high hopes and high expectations for those we love. But when you go into things with those expectations we are setting ourselves up to be hurt, let down, to cause us to have trust issues and we tend to take those same problems into every type of relationship we get in because you haven’t moved on and forgave yourself for having a big heart. We have to love ourselves first to know how to love another individual but to also know what you will not accept. It’s not that we may have low self esteem or are insecure it’s just that we love love and we love hard. So having a big heart sometimes can be a gift and a curse all at the same time. But know yourself and love yourself to avoid allowing anything and anyone whose toxic in your life. Don’t be afraid to remove toxicity out of your lives, people will try to make you feel guilty for choosing you but take your life back! Hug yourselves❤️love you rehab family🤗🤗🤗
@rajhynez
@rajhynez 3 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@kristinakellogg1732
@kristinakellogg1732 3 жыл бұрын
So very true !!
@swaingeorge8380
@swaingeorge8380 3 жыл бұрын
. Njnm
@bhmgmusic_nahbi
@bhmgmusic_nahbi 3 жыл бұрын
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@jasminegreen2875
@jasminegreen2875 3 жыл бұрын
“Don’t let the history keep you in the misery” ‼️ SAY THAT🗣👏🏾 that’s my favorite phrase to live by!
@cynthiacordova5769
@cynthiacordova5769 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly ! it has to be reciprocated PERIODT
@victoriabeltran921
@victoriabeltran921 3 жыл бұрын
Its so hard feeling broken. Im so broken and im trying i really am. Over 20 years being married to a man who i see now never loved me. Just makes you wonder what is wrong with me you know. Im trying
@JohnaFactsDontCare...
@JohnaFactsDontCare... 3 жыл бұрын
I lived the same life, married 25 years to a perpetual cheater, who left me when he turned 50 for a 22 year old CHILD. Believe me, I know broken! 4 years later I'm ALMOST through the fog of low self worth. You'll be proud of yourself when you get through the grieving stages. Stay strong and remember, you always deserved better than him. Time for you to be loved by someone worthy of you!
@robinshearer1875
@robinshearer1875 3 жыл бұрын
I just got a toxic person out of my life last night!
@Bigfoss1977
@Bigfoss1977 3 жыл бұрын
🤘🏻💯DONT LIVE IN PERFECTION LIVE IN PROGRESSION💯🤘🏻
@traceylennon1204
@traceylennon1204 3 жыл бұрын
I like that!! 🙌🏾💯
@djsherrard8904
@djsherrard8904 10 ай бұрын
I saved this in 2022 and it was already 2 years old. But, thank you because it still stands today
@nicolebakoussis6852
@nicolebakoussis6852 3 жыл бұрын
I stay away from negative people
@susanjones2527
@susanjones2527 3 жыл бұрын
Yessss I get tired of being used but it's my own fault because I fail to speak up. Thank you Trent
@lifewithdesaelise
@lifewithdesaelise 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I’m going through in this season praying that God keeps revealing and removing 🙏🏽
@kingdugas7784
@kingdugas7784 3 жыл бұрын
Removing makes room for restore
@Rodogg7787
@Rodogg7787 3 жыл бұрын
This is definitely the time of exposure! We will see this on a much larger platform b4 it's over!
@detectiveshonburras1268
@detectiveshonburras1268 3 жыл бұрын
People's perception of you....is not your reality ! Never allow anyone to define you ! ❣❣❣❣❣❣❣❣
@moonsummersong
@moonsummersong 3 жыл бұрын
You let a broken person, break you. Truth. 🔥
@laurawilson5399
@laurawilson5399 3 жыл бұрын
When I got divorced, I lost a lot of bridges. A lot of unworthy people left all at once. I have grown a lot since then. Thank you for clearing my eyes while on this journey.
@emmaharper860
@emmaharper860 2 жыл бұрын
They were not your friends if you think about it its there so call friends WHO believe his or her lies.
@traceylennon1204
@traceylennon1204 3 жыл бұрын
That's right Trent we don't have to accept toxicity!!
@williesmith3466
@williesmith3466 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! I have removed toxic people from my life and new people, adventure and experiences are coming into my life. I have new plans for myself and a big smile on my face. And, I refuse to go back and want go back to that toxic life. I deserve better!!!
@awallfrmitall8703
@awallfrmitall8703 2 жыл бұрын
This man will be blessed 4ever!❤ If you're reading this then so will you if you're not already there then you're on your way. Keep striving for the better and positive you. ✨ You're worth it and deserve it! Much love! ❤
@curvybeauty879
@curvybeauty879 3 жыл бұрын
I was just talking about this with my girlfriend I needed this cause I can no longer let toxic ruin my mental health and let it break me down thank you trent I'm protecting my peace and my heart #textcommunity
@JEVMWV1023
@JEVMWV1023 3 жыл бұрын
"It's what you're choosing to accept..." BOOM!!
@misstwiththetea7970
@misstwiththetea7970 2 жыл бұрын
You let a broken person break you 🤧 so true
@michellebocan2012
@michellebocan2012 3 жыл бұрын
I will tell you this video was needed today! "DON'T LET HISTORY KEEP YOU IN THE MISERY!" 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 I have recently learned this lesson the hard way. I had a person who used me for years and I let her and I never wanted to let her go bc our friendship was so important to me. I finally realized she was only around for money and to talk about me behind my back. I cut her put bc of you. I see that there is not as much drama in my life now. My family is more important than her supposed friendship. You have helped me some much with finding my peace. Thank you Trent 🙌🥰 Thank you for helping me grow into a better me!
@therealnikrich
@therealnikrich 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve rather be viewed as cold hearted I felt that
@amritadhatt5252
@amritadhatt5252 3 жыл бұрын
I am setting my boundaries more & more. Some "friends" aren't understanding the change in me. You have to get rid of negativity to feel better about yourself. I have learnt the hard way. "Enough is enough" is what I have decided!!
@pinkrose4322
@pinkrose4322 3 жыл бұрын
You are correct. Those so called friends and some family members can't handle it.
@elfunko8998
@elfunko8998 3 жыл бұрын
This is what I needed to boot my sister. My family is my friends at this point and I am blessed to have an amazing group of friends who truly love each other and support each other
@newchapter540
@newchapter540 3 жыл бұрын
When you down on life ain't nobody checking for you 💯
@djsinamin9869
@djsinamin9869 3 жыл бұрын
Your words always hit. 🙏🏻 “don’t let the history keep you in your misery”
@bethvaughn5115
@bethvaughn5115 3 жыл бұрын
This is the perfect message for the holidays when so many people feel obligated to spend time with toxic family members who hurt them. Thank you so much Trent for coaching me on how to protect my peace. Its been a challenge, but with your support I am finally making progress.
@ginjilla
@ginjilla 3 жыл бұрын
Cold hearted over broken hearted. Facts.
@Trace2071
@Trace2071 3 жыл бұрын
Amén! I'm completely in guard mode and I WILL create change. My health was affected severely from not protecting my myself and my heart, and I did lose myself. So I am sitting beside the rock I was buried under now and I will become stronger and I will get back on my feet and I will climb so high that the rock won't even be visible anymore. BADASS here I come! And I am so thankful for you doing the things you do to remind us that we do have a choice every day. We can choose to get out of bed ... even to just sit in a chair. Sometimes the smallest things can be huge successes. The next day we can open the shades and feel the sunshine. It takes effort but it will be worth it. And when we rebuild ourselves, we will learn how to make different choices and we WILL find happiness and it will find us. Merry Christmas everybody.
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