She shares a lot of responsibility she said he dropped out of school no she let him drop out of school.

I think it’s the father that should be more responsible for laying a foundation all though I know that’s easy to say since they divorced but you are right at some point as a grown up you need to take responsibility of your life some people take forever figuring that out also notice how he refers to his mother as his best friend that was a red flag immediate

@@tonymyers6238 So he can use that as an excuse for the rest of his life to continue to drink and put society at risk with driving under the influence?

@@scottrogue946 What you're saying it's not what i said am leave at that.

@@tonymyers6238 Yes it is, Interesting how y'all ignore these absent daddies.

Stop distracting him being cute in the comments.

@@heavyizthacrown-5842 what? Make it make sense brother. 😕

amen

love would never sue your own child . i disagree with u . she cried toward the end because her guilty conscience , she got the judgement and she knew that they NEVER actually agreed to 300 per month .

Hope SO… it’s HIS MAMA👀🤦🏿

Facts and blessings.

I agree!

That's why she let him drop out at 16

I don’t know. She’s not trying to give him any credit. Even when everyone was clapping for his sobriety, she acted like “whatever.”

This is a 12 minute edited video for a TV show you have no idea what kind of mother she is. 😂 Tik Tok and KZfaq have really warped peoples perception of reality

@@none2951 But for whatever reason (Tik Tok, KZfaq, etc.), people think they know the whole story and whole solution and the whole intentions, motivations, truth behind every person in 10 to 20 minutes of an edited video.

I’m so sorry for your loss, I cherish my parents. My heart aches for everyone who has experienced this type of loss. Much love to you, I’m sure she knew how much you loved her and she forgave you long ago. That’s what a mother’s love does ❤️❤️❤️❤️

My condolences to you

Love & Light💜 Your mom knows it. She does🙏 Peace friend

@@ericablige9449 Thanks

@@tashabr801 Thanks

Should you really pay rent at ya moms house? He lived there for a few months. She wants that rent more than a good relationship with her son.

@@heavyizthacrown-5842 when you’re a grown man you should and she was teaching him to be responsible

@@heavyizthacrown-5842 An adult should pay rent, mortgage, etc. for wherever they live or make mutually agreeable arrangements otherwise.

The pain never goes away. It remains with you, always pursuing you even during celebrations.

Lost my grandma Feb 13th as well. 😢

Sorry for your loss! ❤

@@JuleneSings So sorry

@@Arron413 This will be the very first holiday season I will have nobody to celebrate with me.

alcohol is a gateway drug to suffering and hell...💔

@@mybexchange6330 Alcohol does that all by itself. IT IS THE DRUG if a heavy drinker or alcoholic never uses anything else.

The best thing a parent can do for his/her child is to prepare them for the future.

YOUR experience and a great one.

Exactly, YOUR experience.

Same with my brother. He only wants to talk about his life and Important things while he is drunk and he gets mad when we don’t engage with him because he is drunk but can you blame us lol…you are literally going to forget everything we’re saying to you so what’s the point of even having the conversation

😂 Lol BYE! JM Cares… but we ALL Know he DGAF! And Gon tell the TRUTH

@@dreekdoe448 okay! He done treated people like pure shit 😂😂

@@ms.tasiaa I mean…🤦🏿😂

You must have not seen all the shows the last 2 years! He has been awful.

There’s definitely a weird taste to it! 😅

Truly

Yes I don’t know how people drink like that either. Maybe they become numb to it

I've seen my dad and eldest brother do that. I don't see how either. Just by seeing them do that, it definitely made me stay away from it.

It’s not the taste 👅 it’s the aftermath. I grew 🆙 with alcohol mother & so I turned to that. By exposure but after while I notice some of the things he mentioned & I had to quit. It’s not attractive at all being a drunk

Amen God Grace is amazing he saved you

You guys are being nice Lmao. He is alright lol.

Drugging & drinking will definitely do that to you

Or older she is not to bad looking. If you going to do it take care of yourself at least. Blessings.

That advice goes for raising boys and girls

Really. Lol

Lololol

😂😂😂😂

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 please

Not the niece’s glasses 👓😭🤣

Lmaooooo. Facts.

😂 😂

@@crownlethal2k187 he love that drink. 🤣🤣🤣

Lol.

😂😂😂😂😂😂 rice makes you fat though

Lmao. I love rice lol.

Alcohol does more damage than the other drugs combined (physical, mental, family, community IMO

@@sereneamani1713 Got it. Since he was heavier into alcohol than cocaine, that'swhy they skipped over it.

She deserves both. But people need there coin especially now days. Lol.

Yep good observation it's like I like this show but then I feel like he a working for them against us with certain imagery like he co-opted idk if that's a word 😂 but u get what I'm saying infiltrated to further push certain stereotypes I don't trust a lot skinfolk in the industry most are gatekeepers

I think he is considering what he has known to come from that area of Detroit, with no father that it could have been worse. I feel he always shows grace to those he see is trying to get their life together

@@everybodyhatesbri setting the bar low doesn’t help. That’s like applauding your partner for not cheating, when it should be the standard issue

YOU WERE THERE OBSERVING?

@@sereneamani1713 YOU OBVIOUSLY DO NOT UNDERSTAND... YOUR KIDS ARE A REPLICA OF THEIR PARENTS.... AND YOU OBVIOUSLY WASN'T PAYING ATTENTION TO WHAT THE SON SAID... WATCH THE VIDEO AGAIN...THIS TIME PAY ATTENTION!!! ANYWAY, JUST LIKE WHEN A CHILD DO GREAT THE PARENTS WANT THAT RECOGNITION BUT AS SOON AS THE CHILD DO NOT DO GREAT, THE PARENTS DO NOT WANT THAT RECOGNITION... TOO BAD,. THE PARENTS WILL RECEIVE BOTH! THE CHILD IS THAT PARENTS SEED... THE PARENTS RAISED THAT CHILD THAT WAY... PERIOD.

11:53 Is that necessary?

@@alphonserollins5308 I didn’t say anything wrong .. so ig it was since you commented.

Yep all Black mothers and on one else. What kind of mother produced YOU?

Same to you!

Right I’m crying

Lol. We all lived Lmao.

@@wildfiregirl1556 True, but she got too excited when the judge mentioned Heroin! She damn near did a back flip👵🏾🤦🏽‍♀️

@@freereign911 Let's hope not. Maybe some weed Lmaooooo. Blessings.

There are thousands of dudes who are looked out for by hood dudes. I agree it's not the best case but there are challenges to being a single impoverished mom that make you make unconventional choices.

@@amaliomar I understand. I don’t assume that all single moms are impoverished though. There are some that are not and still make the same choices.

@@tjneverdefeated4394 Agreed, If she had the means to leave a gang infested neighborhood in Detroit and chose to stay and raise her children there then he gets to blame her. And we get to judge her choices.

@@amaliomar it’s tough being a single parent. I know first hand. Unfortunately for the sake of our children we have to go above and beyond excuses and do everything in our power to make sure our children are safe and taken care of. He says she was his friend which is usually involving minimum parenting, which would make it easy to just let him run the streets. That’s what I’m going by, I can’t speak to what hasn’t been revealed. So yeah she bears some of the blame for his issues.

But what do you and your mom have to do with her or anyone else's situation?

What about him being responsible and standing on his own feet? Mama can't bail him out forever. An adult should be accountable for bad decisions. Once or twice may be overlooked but not habitual foolishness. Also sounds like he really needs his father.

There comes a time when mother's may have to save themselves,even against their grown kids.! Mother's also matter!!!

One minute people say she is coddling him, the next she is too hard on him smh 🤦🏾‍♂️

@@scottrogue946 Lmaooooo. It's a rocky road damn if you do and damned if you don't. Especially if you born after the 80's. Blessings.

@@wildfiregirl1556 I don't know if I want to charge my kids rent for under a year as an adult. I like my rules and I don't want tenants. You can't make them pay rent and then make them take out the garbage, shovel the walkway, not have over night guests etc. I'll just pay my child's way.

What's your thoughts about his mother. You might know better than some of us commenters who just think we know.

She’s a sweetheart just worried about his well being met him about 3 years ago in the colerain area of Cincinnati. He lived with his mom an her husband in a very nice house. Didn’t know the extent of his drinking problem but he showed me a lot of art and short films he created an edited. Very talented

That's why the black community is falling into ruin. We refuse to hold each other accountable.

If that were true you sueing a family member shouldn't ruin a relationship.

I wouldn't sue a family member in the first place. No way

@@adrianprince7266 Operative pronoun "I" meaning YOU

Right, that's just you. You don't know other people's circumstances or what really happened.

@@sereneamani1713 oh ok great

Detroit is not the only Detroit in this country. And you know what I mean.

@@sereneamani1713 right

You can only do so much as a parent if you work and single can you stay home or go to school daily with a child who knows right from wrong

What do you call it when troubled men and women come from two-parent families.

@@sereneamani1713 I've found that either: 1) The parents or one parent sucked to the point it damaged the kid 2) There was another significant influence in the kids life that led them astray (uncle, aunt, cousin, friend, teacher, erc.) 3) Something traumatic happened that overrides the parents influence (assault, SA, drugs, etc.) 4) Mental illness that was either genetic or brought on by a traumatic event They've done studies on criminals and have found that they have overwhelming come from single parent homes. Two parents home are far from flawless, but it's almost always better than a single parent home.