He didn’t. His wife went behind his back

Exactly

Right or get a simple ring that’s in your budget. All these options under 500.00

@@jessj953 they don’t sound like they had 500.00$. They could have made one out of string or something

@@Proverbspsalms bet they considered an onion ring.

It is crazy. Plus he said he gets paid every two weeks. Yes like most people lol 😂 🤦🏾‍♂️

AMEN!!

Exactly. You go without a ring until you can afford one. Or no rings at all!

If I heard right, they had rings in layaway somewhere else. BUT HIS WIFE, went behind his back and asked his mom for money. THEN MOM , suggested they get new rings fro KAYS on her account and pay her back. But also said NOT TO TELL HIM. Because he probably wouldn’t have went for it, and moms probably was trying to be nice. SO WHEN HE GETS HOME FROM WORK, he finds out they have new rings COMPLIMENTS OF MOM. But now , he ‘s stuck with paying a bill that he ca afford, but can’t pay on time, because of how his pay periods are scheduled. Now moms is getting taxed with late fees and bad credit ratings, which is all bad. But it could’ve all been avoided, had moms talked to HER SON first. MORAL OF THE STORY: Everybody’s not a bum, some people find them selves in bad situations. Also, THE INTERNET IS TRASH Cause y’all super judgmental. Half of y’all hurt, the other half act like y’all haven’t been in a tight situation before. oh, AND NO I AINT BROKE

@@scottrogue946 He said his mom failed to realize it. Hahahaha! Naw playa you failed to realize it doesn't matter what day you get paid and he failed to realize he could pay it early lmfao

I still wanna know 🤷

Seem like she's a manipulator

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He's stupid also

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In a perfect world you’re 100% correct but in the world we live in… 👀🤦🏽‍♂️

I ROCK my $50 Walmart ring 🤣 but I work with my hands and water so I'd be devastated if he spent thousands on something I couldn't wear or would lose. My ring still sparkles and looks amazing after a year already

the guy is too nice , he should have told that greedy wife NO .

He could’ve won but didn’t wanna do mama dirty

I agree, but I don’t understand why she and her sisters decided to become baby mamas after seeing their mother struggle as a baby mama 🤷🏿. Wtf?

I am 10 years older than my two brothers and was forced to babysit/raise my two brothers. I'm now 54 years old and this is the reason I never had children. This should not have been my responsibility

@@jilldambrosio4273You are right! It's the parents'responsibility. Then they keep having kids and after they grow up some parents expect to be taken care of. Adult children don't owe their parents financial support for raising them either.

@@carltonwomble4790 it’s not about “deciding.” If you see your mother as a young mom with no father and have no true individualized guidance, it’s not a surprise they turned to young men to confide in. 17 is still a child. It’s not their fault it’s the mothers fault. They were just “looking for love in the wrong places.”

Agreed 👍🏾

So the JM show can pay the settlement.

They (the show) will pay the dept to the plaintiff and then the defendant now owes the court.

Love the ending as well ❤

Thank you!!! Exactly!!!

a ring is a useless object. there is no reason in the world to spend good money on something so frivolous. you can absolutely support your family and not "afford" an overpriced bobble.

Couldn't afford our own spot, stayed with family, eventually becoming landlords before 30, still no expensive ring. Let's stop putting unnecessary value on rings..

@@elisapierre-procope9177 ewww landlords. Slummy, slimey, soul-suckers. Money for nothing and as heartless as they come. Only profession worse than landlord is Cop

I agree. If he doesn’t want to go to college to get a degree and free money, He should start a business. Maybe he’s not motived to do anything.

I dated a guy who had the same opportunity and he bragged about how he went to college for free and laugh about me having student loan debt. So I expressed to him you went for free and no degree!

That part! So many resources not being used.

He hasn't accomplished much with his life

He really was. The son just couldn't lie.

It seemed like that to me too

I understand we're judge Mathis was going with it. At the end of the day the wife made those arrangements without his consent or knowledge. I felt as tho the judge knew he was takin advantage of. The mom should of consulted him before doing anything like that by him not knowing till later.

He was because he wanted the mom to own up to her enabling him as men!

Judge was trying to teach momma a lesson. But judge knows his (defendant) wife was the one that should have been sued

Exactly I was thinking the same, deny your children because you want to find a man. Ridiculous

I caught that too!

That’s EXACTLY what she was about to say 😭😭😭

6 kids would get you to want to marry the first person that is down with it! That's why she was in a rush and ok with not having the money. Gotta hurry before he changes his mind 🤣😂

Good catch. Dude married a hood rat.

The "wife" is messy too 😂

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Know why, because mama’s do this thing, coddling a little longer than needed. Then complain.

I don’t think it’s that simple. I know women love to ride on this even though Females get money from dad or mom and either don’t have to repay or never repay. But his mom and girl did this deal without talking to him first. All three knew they couldn’t afford it and he went along trying to make his wife happy. Now that they are behind it’s all the dudes fault. Everybody should take some blame on this

@@biggchill8176 of course there’s always one man defending the foolishness

@@tiffyq7794 the fact that you read my post and think I’m defending any proves my point.

They always do all that to try and win the judge over.😂

Same thing I ask

BECAUSE THE JUDGE ASKS FOR BACKGROUND.

Nothing🤦🏾🤦🏾

Exactly Judge Mathis is nosey & chatty!!!

She seems like even in her big age she never thought about it and was caught off guard by the question.

"It's not generational cycle it's called lack of /or bad parenting!!." I like how you are reversing it up to make it sound better!.

He blew my mind with that question.

I wonder this all the time. Some people just can't learn lessons through other ppls mistakes and go thru it the hard way smh.

Cajones, N0T quinoas-- but if that's the word ya mean, 0kay.

What's that?

@@missbradicahLol

@@missbradicah what's that or those?

Cus clearly they are IRRESPONSIBLE mothers that shouldnt have birth yet to begin

Sounds like he just stopped by for a few mins every year

That doesn’t really mean anything for back then. A lot of people got married early and had kids early when his Grandmother was a teen

Yeah....they didn't need $5,000. Our first wedding bands were under $500 altogether and we had a small wedding. We upgraded our rings years later when we had the money. :)

Yessssssss👊🏾

I just said the case was very delayed.

As a soon to be wife you don't go borrow money from others to finance your life.

@@Drayonis that was his mom, he should’ve told her no

@@Price8903 why are you letting the wife off the hook ?? It's both of them

@@Drayonis exactly

A lot of men hun no idea what it is to be a man

I wish JM would stop interrupting the litigants.

I swear he is so nerve wracking!

It's SPIRITUAL😇 FAMILIAR SPIRITS AND GENERATIONAL CURSES TRUST ME IT'S REAL 🙏🏽 AND THAT'S IN THEIR BLOODLINE SO WHAT WAS ON THE MOTHER FOLLOWED THE CHILDREN SO READ YOUR BIBLE 🥺

It happens everyday everywhere…

Not accountability for bad destructive behavior 🤷🏾‍♂️

@@maronaprophecy597 exactly! It’s a generational curse

Ignorance and wanting to be grown... Women are sooo much more mature yet always wit the constant ridiculous ways

Facts

Guarantee his wife is horrendous thats why she desperate to get married and cant show her face on tv

The only man that wanted her with her 6 kids.

Sounds like the mom was about to say the wife has 6 kids before judge cut her off. Woman was probably desperate for ANY kind of help she could get. Its not every day you find a sucker willing to marry a woman with 6 kids that aren't his.

My thoughts exactly!

He didn’t even ask for the rings, smh.

I heard it too😳😳

That part threw me off too because did she think a man wasn’t going to find out she has several children if/when they get serious

It is a cycle. You would have to understand generational curses and the time of the mother's young life.

Thank you, I suspect she wants to remain relevant because this mess could’ve been avoided.

It was a deal made with her before she was his wife so it was just her debt unless he agreed to pay as well which he was nice enough to admit to doing.

What she can't. u dont automatically assume responsibility on all your spouse's debts once you're married. If he would've said that he didn't agree to the deal his fiancee and his mom made, he wouldn't have had to pay.

@@FukcAUsername True. However, once you are married your assets are joint. Unfortunately.

Aint no generational curse nothing yall literally use ANY and EVERY excuse yall can to not take accountability generations and lineage does not change the fact that you are an individual consciously in charge of ya own actions 17 isnt a damn baby you literally bout to go to college but not smart enough to know what happens opening ya legs wit no concern for pregnancy especially when you seen it from parents sibling and society??? Stop making excuses for the dumb things most women do... Yea a mistakes a mistake so just be accountable and move forward but dont act like yall are victims of some sort for being fast ass girls wh3n u shoulda been worry bout being a child

Not everyone believes in magic. But listening to the mom, it seems like she may be a bit touched in the head.

It's not a generational curse,it's a choice, stop using the term to justify it's a curse. In actuality it is lack of/or bad parenting!!. The mother and the wife are deceiver's because they did it behind his back without him nowing. I don't know why you are blaming the judge because he ask questions.

Exactly

He was buying her a ring. She traded it for a more expensive e one behind his back

The wife is at home with her 6 kids the Defendant was about to speak on before Judge Mathis cut her off!

She was probably at work. He didn’t have the money for the rings and now he’s unemployed.

@@sweetasmangosss I noticed the mom was ab to say she has six children and she was interrupted. She’s at work so she can take care of those children and her irresponsible son.. I mean husband!

Yes this is true. You can't afford a ring you shouldn't be getting married. And I your that afraid of success to trick it off on women, you need therapy or coaching. That why you see so many 50 60 70 year old unsuccessful men in life, tricking their time off on women, when they should have been learning.

​@@Sheherhis rings are useless. a waste of thousands of dollars and doesn't prove your love or improve your life. marriage does. you just want a pretty shiny bobble

It’s not marital debt when the deal was made before the marriage. Honestly it’s her debt. Without his truths he wouldn’t have had to pay it back Hence their paying for the wedding rings.

@@thestoryofjr9928 that much is true, the debt was made before they actually entered into matrimony. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾 Had they not crossed the threshold, she would be solely responsible....🤔. If she's doing that now, he's in for a long marriage!

He lacked knowledge of his materialistic wife.