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REUPLOAD: The Pathological Jealousy of Narcissistic Workplace Bullies | Claire Hunt

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Claire Hunt

Claire Hunt

Күн бұрын

A community-organizing forum where targets of workplace bullying can share experiences in a support group so you can know
1. You’re not crazy. Workplace bullying is real, and your feelings are valid.
2. You’re not alone. Unfortunately, others have experienced the same thing.
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Read my 117-page essay in five parts on workplace bullying on my website.
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@jasmintorino6129
@jasmintorino6129 3 ай бұрын
Jealousy means you are held to a higher standard. So true!
@weddletina777
@weddletina777 9 ай бұрын
“You have to be weak so they can be strong.”
@weddletina777
@weddletina777 8 ай бұрын
@@clairehuntonline A psychotic delusion. When in reality How can I rob an empty bank?
@ZetaCancri
@ZetaCancri 2 жыл бұрын
They're so creepy
@Anthonyag42
@Anthonyag42 Жыл бұрын
Bahahahaha “even Stevie Wonder could see it” fucking dead 😂😂😂😂
@Antstrumentals
@Antstrumentals 10 ай бұрын
I’m a mixed (black/white) male living in and working in Minneapolis,,every job I’ve worked here I have been the target of malicious and relentless bullying …these people literally hate me no matter what I do or how nice and helpful I try to be …just tryna provide for my children man 😢
@clairehuntonline
@clairehuntonline 10 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear that. Workplace bullying truly cuts all across the board. It's everywhere, and it affects everyone. You're not alone. I hope my videos can help in some way.
@zion367
@zion367 2 ай бұрын
Its not you they hate. Its your light that irritates their demons. Stop being overly nice. Just be respectful, keep it real and do your job. These people are not gonna be sincerely kind to us, ever and thats okay. Also, we need to be assertive when they are trying to humiliate us in public. Just ask them to repeat themselves so it gets highlighted what kind of a jerk they are.
@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht
@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht 18 күн бұрын
We dont bother anyone and stay to ourselves and yet somehow that bothers them terribly. They harass constantly and its quite sad and pathetic.
@Rasheens-Story
@Rasheens-Story 3 ай бұрын
Ma’am I’m so glad I came across your page because I’ve been dealing with this for years and I’m honestly sick of it, because what is wrong with these people making problems with me when I’m just trying to live my life. Me smiling and being bubbly doesn’t equate to immaturity ugh and everything you describe is real. Literally everything I do is a problem even when I’m doing absolutely nothing out of the ordinary. I literally mind my own business I don’t even pay attention to them or care what they are doing but they nitpick at everything I do. I guess it’s a problem when the new person joining the team is actually good at their job, like they love to say never outshine the master. Well screw the master I’m not dimming my light for others to shine. If they minded their own business they wouldn’t notice I’m shining same way I don’t notice when they do because I don’t care enough to pay attention to them.
@clairehuntonline
@clairehuntonline 3 ай бұрын
Good for you for not dimming your light! I can't stress that one enough on this channel. Playing small DOES. NOT. WORK. It's a waste of time and energy, and all it does is make you sick and exhausted. If you have an inner light, you have an obligation to shine. You never know who you are supposed to inspire. The fact that you don't pay attention to them may be the problem. Everything narcissists do is for attention. It's their supply. The more you ignore them, the more aggressive they get.
@lovelydoll1477
@lovelydoll1477 10 ай бұрын
Hey Claire! You what’s interesting? I watched a 9/11 survivor story from a man that escaped the tower after it was hit. There was a woman who bullied this man and tried to get him fired . They had serious issues and he said he never knew why. She hated EVERYONE and was so mean and nasty. She was a menace. They were both stuck in the building with others. He said on that day he crawled in an area of ruins within the office and hears a woman screaming for help buried under wreckage. He said he pulled her out and it was the bully. They embraced each other and went to find other trapped employees. The worked together. They saved about a few more people and by the grace of God ended up escaping the burning tower. He said all that tension between them was gone . The focus was helping each other and helping others. He said she thanked him for saving her life. And hugged and cried while outside watching the madness go on. It’s crazy how it took something so tragic for her to wake up. Sometimes I want to believe that it takes something so traumatic and terrifying for these people to get over themselves. I’m not sure how she treated others after the attacks but I’m hoping that was a spiritual wake up call for the bully.
@clairehuntonline
@clairehuntonline 10 ай бұрын
That's a nice story and very rare. I remember hearing about an article the day after 9/11 about all these people who were supposed to go to work in the towers that day but didn't for various reasons. When it's not your time, it's not your time. Sure would be nice if these people could have a come-to-Jesus moment, but that's never going to happen. Even an NDE can't wake these people up. They've got a good thing going and neither the motivation nor the incentive to change. On an overcrowded planet, there's always another source of supply. There may not be a reckoning for them until after death.
@lovelydoll1477
@lovelydoll1477 10 ай бұрын
@@clairehuntonline well said!
@mikejones9906
@mikejones9906 4 ай бұрын
They can't change because they don't view people as human. You're either an adversary or someone they can manipulate. She hugged him and cried with him because she survived not because he saved her.
@ebonywilson5646
@ebonywilson5646 8 ай бұрын
Stevie can definitely see the bull that go on in these workplaces of people being targeted and bullied for being a good human being with true integrity and humility 😊
@aroguereptilian
@aroguereptilian 3 ай бұрын
this was freaking GOLD. this being seen clearly could change society so much. u r doing "the great work".
@MzImperfectCrys
@MzImperfectCrys Жыл бұрын
I’ve experience every singles example in my last two jobs. Never thought of some of these examples as jealously. Thank you for the insight 😊
@RabiaSammy
@RabiaSammy 20 күн бұрын
i dealt with workplace bullies like this when i was working my first job at mcdonalds
@mr.jackson-nl2yw
@mr.jackson-nl2yw 2 ай бұрын
I know this video old but your video help me write a 15 page document detailing my coworker behavior. 5 years of passive agressive to full on hostile behavior towards me.
@Job.Well.Done_01
@Job.Well.Done_01 2 жыл бұрын
This is everything that I’ve noticed and lived with, but never found a way to verbalize it. When I have raised an issue regarding this, I’ve been gaslighted to death.
@paraaapara
@paraaapara 9 ай бұрын
How is this so spot ON. Wow.
@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht
@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht 18 күн бұрын
I dont tell them anything. I mainly just stay to myself. I mean i talk a little but not about my personal details or life.
@CraftingMom64
@CraftingMom64 Жыл бұрын
This is soooo spot on!!! Thank you for creating and posting this important content!!!
@Zodibear
@Zodibear Жыл бұрын
This was great, thanks for this! (:
@rjformation9038
@rjformation9038 Жыл бұрын
So if the target of workplace bully leaves, will then the bully move on and pick on the bystander?
@yumyumkitty2104
@yumyumkitty2104 2 жыл бұрын
That 3rd eyelash comment tho🤣🤣🤣🤣
@tjdeadly1999
@tjdeadly1999 3 жыл бұрын
spot on
@MelanieYanklowski
@MelanieYanklowski Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for taking the time to reply. It was so helpful. I posted a review on Indeed to start. I deleted their numbers from my phone. It is true they would have taken any email, text or letter to start another smear campaign. Also, you never know who may pop into your future. At my job interview for my new job, one of the interviewers said,”You worked at such and such, so did I . Do you know so and so?” I wanted to say, “Yes, he was part of my mobbing group. How do he effect you?” I just hope my new job goes well, and I remember what I learned from this. And I must continue to work on myself to change being a repeat target.
@clairehuntonline
@clairehuntonline Жыл бұрын
You're welcome. Happy to help. I've learned not to mention bullying in interviews: no one understands it, and the knee-jerk, autopilot reaction is one of defensive gaslighting because most people have unhealed trauma that is triggered when other victims come forward. Yes, ultimately, change starts within. We have no control over other people. Bullies are everywhere, and, while we may not be able to stop the bullying, we can change our reaction to it. I wish you all the best in your new job!
@narcisticinjury629
@narcisticinjury629 Жыл бұрын
Okay so like you are literally narrating my life at every job I've had since becoming Muslim. It sucks because I'm already a minority and then I'm even hated by my black coworkers for being Muslim even though I'm black. It didn't help that I believe in a different God and it definitely doesn't help that I always keep moving at work and never play around on my phone like other people. I've been told I'm my bosses favorite yet he doesn't care about me just how good my pizza is. When I went to the office to express to him how I feel about the way my coworkers treat me he just told me to put my head down and keep making good pizzas. When I quit he kept calling my phone over and over begging me to come back. The harassment got worse one people found out he begged me back.
@clairehuntonline
@clairehuntonline Жыл бұрын
What you are experiencing is very classic workplace bullying: it's nothing but a bunch of pathological jealousy. Often, you are bullied because you are a member of the protected class, and I have a video on that entitled, "The Prejudice of Narcissistic Workplace Bullies." It's fear of the unknown: they are afraid of people who are different because they don't understand them. Also, when you are well-liked, especially by the higherups, that makes the jealousy worse. Your boss's failure to address the problem is classic, too. Another point I make about workplace bullying is that it is the result of weak leadership, and I have a video on that entitled, Workplace Bullying Is a Failure of Leadership." If your boss had any integrity at all, he would confront the bullies, shut them down, and protect his employee.
@mikejones9906
@mikejones9906 4 ай бұрын
​@@clairehuntonlineYea I feel like the higher ups know they've lost all control and in order to avoid a lawsuit and actually have to do work themselves, they just keep feeding the beast because there will always be someone else willing to take the job. The higher ups themselves are narcs and have huge egos, so they think doing any actual work is beneath them. So instead of firing the problematic employee/employees and filling the role until someone else comes in, they sit back and do nothing. It's nothing but a numbers game to them. You quit and 5 more people will be applying for your job.
@coreyanderson7424
@coreyanderson7424 Жыл бұрын
Jealousy is from people who are feeling a bit insecure about why someone else is a much better person than they are. Think about it, would we be jealous if we met someone who was superior to us, not just as a worker but as a person? Perhaps.
@clairehuntonline
@clairehuntonline Жыл бұрын
I agree that jealousy stems from insecurity. Only people who are insecure about themselves experience jealousy. I disagree that it is universal. Based on what I've experienced in my life, I have come to the conclusion that jealousy is an incurable disease and spiritual cancer. It is the spiritual equivalent of smoking ten packs a day every day for 30 years. It's also a lack of gratitude. Jealous people are so hyper-focused on what other people have that they don't express gratitude for what they have. I also believe jealousy is an actual demon. These people appear straight-up Satanically or demonically possessed. For that reason I do not allow myself to experience jealousy. I have had several very high-level, high-vibrational whitelighters and lightworkers in my life, and I just admire, try to emulate them without any creepy stalking behavior, and feel grateful and blessed to be in their presence. I feel honored if they like me and want to be friends with me or have me in their life. I know myself well enough at this point to be aware of my own blessings, grateful for them, and OK just being OK. Instead of comparing myself to other people, I focus on daily self-improvement. I compete only with myself. I don't allow the vibration of jealousy in my experience.
@worldsyoursent.1635
@worldsyoursent.1635 2 ай бұрын
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