It's gross but depends on the state's legal age for marriage. It's crazy.

​@@tonimcelroy9818cause the law always gets it right...

@@TheMilanW We all know they definitely don't. Lol

Nobody batted an eye then it was a normal thing and being married shielded them from judgement

And he was mad he ain’t get her virginity

A whole damn fool

😂😂 a damn fool

Half 😂

Exactly... She gave herself away when she talked about how she didn't think the other girls he's been with were good enough

Its still wrong that he never spoke to her again, that's just wrong no matter what.

She’s upset because of the principle of it all. She was friends with him for 2 years and trusted him enough to lose her virginity to him. He literally stopped contacting her after having sex with her despite their 2 year friendship which is messed up. Why would a virgin be aware of the complexities of sex and intimacy? Let’s be so fr. Most virgins don’t wanna get hit and quit.

@@tinajackson6875 even worse then wrong... it was F***** UP!

She didn’t expect her “friend ,” to ghost her . Being ghosted never ever feels good despite who it’s from . Wish she would have articulated herself better .

I thought same thing .very very wierd

She was 14 and still has guilt and hurt from Frank. She said she still has feelings for Frank in front of her husband which made me sad.

That's what I'm talking about

He was odd too. His response was bizarre 🥴

Well she's a teenager. Not much to expect out of her. That's the price of pursuing a child. He met her at 14, and married her at 16 even though he was a grown man, and here she's only 19.

@nekas5336 Tell me bout it😂. these shows are exciting though i love it

Right! When they get giddy to see the ex, I know they're about some foolishness 🤡

The husband is a cuck!

What’s wrong with them is that their society conditioned them into believing that virginity was this sacred wholesome right of passage. And that they were supposed to be “deflowered” by someone who cares about them, and that THAT would ABSOLUTELY happen. But real life stepped in, and they got taken advantage of, bc of their unrealistic expectations. They are overly devastated because of the conditioning of society, and of these principles that women are supposed to uphold as far is their value being tied to sex. Also, some of the ladies were children and should have been protected and weren’t. The 90s.

@@territerri1234 **Womansplaining Alert!!!** **Womansplaining Alert!!!**

That’s why it was designed for us to be married before you have relations. It is a known fact that the longer you aren’t married and are not a virgin, the more people you have relations with.

Yep!!!

It's not so easy for everyone. Specially back in the day, when we were "slut shamed" for breaking up an abusive relationship with the guy that promised the moon to us just to have sex with us, virgin girls (what's the bloody appeal to those degenerates?) and, in my case at least, physically, psychologically and emotionally abuse use us. And cheat on us of course. Years after I took courage and someone did a meddling and we had a face to face chat and I asked him why. He didn't had a response. He tried to blame ME for the abuse, then tried to hook up with me when his new girlfriend was pregnant. Disgusting. 20 years later, the psycho was trying to contact me through social media, through former common friends, my friends and even through my mum's socials. So yes, those psycho stalkers should move on and STOP when we the survivors finally moved on. I was young of course, only 17. He was 18 but had experience. I made the mistake of believe in him and unlike these stories, he didn't took off, he stayed to abuse me. But I'm a survivor of DV and even though I hope he have a miserable life, I don't wish him any harm, because if his kids care about him, I don't want them to suffer.

Way... I believe she was 19 then and he was 32... Living in the deep south-smoking marlboro's at 12.. rough life.

It was the early 90s babes! Not enough preservatives in the food to make people look younger and younger, longer!

@@eshablair4841I was married when I was 19 with my first husband, RIP, was 32!.. has nothing to do with living in the South, stupid! I’m from LA! Las Vegas, and Miami! I have 2 degrees but there was no way a guy the same age as me was able to give me the kind of life I wanted for myself and my family! You show your ignorance in that comment!

Lol

I've noticed how people looked so much older in the 90s😂

The clothing and the hairstyles back then kind of dated people

@treahluv I know right 😂. Funny show though 👍

She was 19… 19 years ago…

Nowadays dudes don’t want to date a virgin

@@umeka1239 geez, back in my day. Boys had a goal to take a woman’s virginity as a trophy..

​@@umeka1239actually it's the other way around if a men has no sexual experience it's a turn off for women I know quite a few times where at 1st a woman will chase until they know it won't be easy to get a the man pants and they actually let the virgin guy catch them with another man or as I said before if the man has no experience it ain't worth it to them.

@@umeka1239Some will and they only need one special guy not 100.

I will say it was more virgins back then than now, but A LOT of women were promiscuous.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 He will be glad you did..😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Been there done that dont do it lol

Been there when I was 16 and had no idea till after

What else is new lol no different from today

Exactly!!! I'm surprised this has been a thing this long... Ridiculous

Er...Yes...they're WOMEN!!

It happens dang

​@@tinajackson6875But it shouldn't 😂😂😂

@@tinajackson6875 What!!!! Hood is in da house clearly. Lol.

As opposed to half a husband??

She looks like a young Monique on the show wanting to talk about her “Daddy” Sidney

Probably old looking now

It's been at least 20 yrs if not more so she's older than you now!

@@eshablair4841probably 28 years ago

@queaponte4819 19 is an adult. She made that conscious decision plus she doesnt even deserve a good man whether he is older than her or same age. Be blessed babe 😘

Yep, but don’t expect for the core women audience to believe even half of what you’re saying…

LOL he told his Dad he was going deer hunting🤣

She's from the West Coast. Black folks from Oregon and Washington all remind me of California Black folks when speaking.

Which is what I did. Until I met a good man, who adores me, and I him. We have a marriage based on love, trust, respect and humour. We waited until we were engaged to be married. I'm not saying that everyone else must do that. It was our decision, and absolutely the right thing for us. I wasn't giving myself to just anybody, As the men I'd dated, before I met him, soon found out. Self respect is essential, if we want others to respect us, too

The 90s for you 😊🥴

😂

And dumped 😂

@@waodaaaaa 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Ricki was not being Judgmental but that's your opinion

I think she wanting them to see the part they played in the situation.

😂🤣😂

She wasn’t confronting him for taking her virginity…. That’s just the excuse she got to use the show for trying to meet back up with him, to get back with him again…. She’s deceitful… and her husband is stupid for tolerating it

Absolutely💯💯💯

@kiaunasmith6141 I know right 😁

@ToniJFreeIndeed I know right 😁

@@champion4lyfe You gotta kind of admire the lady for NOT rushing into a 3rd marriage but dude put it out there like if she don’t want me, ‘you can get a ring, and you can get a ring…Lol🤣

@ToniJFreeIndeed He wanted it baddd😂

@@champion4lyfeI hope he finally found someone.

@ ToniJFreeIndeed Me too I really do. 😊 Its a pleasure to chat with you about this.

Yeah it’s really weird… they act like these guys r@ped them or something…. Ridiculous… they need to learn how to take responsibility for their own actions… it takes two to tango…. Plus it’s time to move on… they’re going on about something many years prior

In some of those cases (like the woman with the cabin in the snow story) it's most likely called grooming. Some guys groom girls since they're underage, date them and offer them marriage (or whatever) just to have their way with a virgin woman who loves them. Then, they left. Some guys do this with even 3 girls at the same time. It's just disgusting, because they pick those girls who were raised with virginity as a "high value" instead of what an audience member said, sex being about love, always. So they trick them to "stole" what those girls were told is what's their most priced "valuable" and then left them broken and hurt, with psychological trauma even.

God. Bless. Us. All

Fully agree. Self respect is a thing of the past, sadly

I read this exactly at the part it was showing 😂

She in her 40s now

@@subzfit LMaaaaooooo

​@@subzfitThat's what happens when you don't die, you age 😂

It's cute in Alabama, Mississippi and Louisiana- they can even marry minors w/ a parents permission.

The same thing the OF’s and IG models want with the new NFL draft picks and new, fresh out of HS/college NBA draft picks when they get pregnant by them…

@@eshablair4841 That's not ok, period. That's disgusting

Yep… no responsibility for their actions…. They were not r@ped….. it takes two to tango