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HOW TO KNOW IF A MAN IS CAPABLE OF LOVING A WOMAN by RC Blakes
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How to know if a man is capable of loving a woman by RC Blakes
In this video, Bishop RC Blakes shares insights on how to know if a man is capable of loving you. He highlights that simply desiring to love someone doesn't make a person capable of loving them. He and his wife chose each other based on their internal qualities and shared vision for the future. He encourages women to think deeper and ask if a man is truly capable of loving them in the way they deserve. He emphasizes the importance of understanding not only the person's definitions of love, manhood, and womanhood but also their capacity to love and provide. He explains that a man who is capable of loving you will calm your fears and insecurities, be patient, insist on generosity, command respect through their consistent character, and exhibit sobriety and meekness. The speaker encourages women to focus on these qualities rather than superficial attributes when choosing a partner. He concludes by emphasizing the importance of healing and self-discovery in order to make better choices in relationships.
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@GlowandGrow_ 2 жыл бұрын
It’s nice to hear a man confirm my belief that a woman will willingly submit to a man who is a leader. He doesn’t need to demand submission.
@poetryinmotionbrendamathis4049 2 жыл бұрын
Truth right there...
@victorinedempsey3969 2 жыл бұрын
Truth.
@enigmaticladypisces3169 2 жыл бұрын
Yes 💙
@genxx2724 2 жыл бұрын
A man told me he doesn’t think I could be submissive. Well, there has to be something to submit TO. Lol I want be be submissive, but I wasn’t going to say that. You shouldn’t have to spell it out.
@aretha1976 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@jayleenjimenez9346 2 жыл бұрын
The healthier you get the less your going to crave toxic masculinity 😌😵
@ladyzinada5341 2 жыл бұрын
NO lies detected. I sniff it out Fast.🧐
@Carolyn100000 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@akuasalaam490 2 жыл бұрын
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯!!!!
@lynellefurbert6505 2 жыл бұрын
That is SOOO TRUE!!
@jocelynford4209 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@tib1632 2 жыл бұрын
Lord knows I need to hear this. Hard letting go of a man simply because I don’t want to start over but how am I starting over if he and I never really began. Stop holding on to potential LADIES! WE GOT THIS!
@ms.reilife2378 2 жыл бұрын
Yeeessss
@Vicki1951 2 жыл бұрын
Couldn’t agree with you more!
@vaclinciapounds8859 2 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@freedom_ATA 2 жыл бұрын
Preach!👏🏾
@mstete7411 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Sis going thru the same
@vaclinciapounds8859 2 жыл бұрын
Only choosing men that you could love but never stopping to question yourself is he capable of loving you.....that is really deep!
@cristinaroe2166 2 жыл бұрын
Pastor Blake. It is with a heavy heart that I'd like to point out, despite agreeing with everything you say, many men including brothers in Christ have adopted the secular patterns of masculinity with all the negative attitudes you describe. As a teenager and for many years after, I was the woman of substance and honesty you describe. Yet my sisters who would dress up, flirt etc were marrying all around me. I was told I was too idealistic. Yet, men seemed to expect perfection from me. I do feel quite broken, despite years of therapy. Having keen intelligence, I find many men dull and uninspiring with no conversation. I would also love a protective man as I've never had this in my life. Because I look strong and courageous, I have been told by men that they don't need to protect me. When I assure them that this is a maladaptive strategy to ward off the teasing and bullying I endured for many years, they don't seem capable of understanding. My Saviour has the right kind of love. All problems would be solved if we truly conformed to His image. May God bless your ministry.
@hs-qk9qf 2 жыл бұрын
It was like a punch to the gut. I know I'm not the only one that has done this in the past🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️😣. I know better now, and I realize why it's said, "Youth is wasted on the young." Some lessons can only be gained by wisdom/ discernment and age.
@justynak3867 2 жыл бұрын
@@cristinaroe2166 how do we conform to his image?
@aceazar2806 2 жыл бұрын
This is deep because it can be applied to the friends you choose to pursue and the people you allow to be close to you. EYE OPENER statement
@scheherazadewherry1410 2 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this!! Thank you Pastor
@marymalloy2848 2 жыл бұрын
The right person will eliminate fears, one that makes you feel safe. Beautiful.
@youmnaamir9389 2 жыл бұрын
Man who is Capable of loving you : 1. Will calm your fears and insecurities. 2. Will be Exceptionally Patient with you. 3. Will insist on his generosity towards you. 4. Is able to Command your Respect. 5. Is Sober and Meek. Another Master Piece from Pastor RC Blakes .. GOD BLESS YOU ❤️
@sarahmuthonichege9126 2 жыл бұрын
❤
@theGPS. Жыл бұрын
Valid 💯
@sweetumsDenise 15 күн бұрын
Thank you for this recap. I’m listening in 2024 and it is such a good word. I’ve got to put these in my notes 😊
@victorinedempsey3969 2 жыл бұрын
A grown man is patient with a woman. A man that loves you is exceptionally patient. He will love you for who you are, even on your worst day/version...
@mariapass4962 2 жыл бұрын
This is true
@koris4283 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve learned to hold men accountable for their behaviors. And well let’s just say I’m single . But through watching your content, you have given me practical advice that I can truly say has blessed me. I no longer see being single as a flaw. It’s a blessing and God willing, when it’s my time I’ll meet the right person. No rush.
@ladyzinada5341 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@Vicki1951 2 жыл бұрын
Amen. I’m right beside you with your comment.
@kwezchyn 2 жыл бұрын
You and me both. Blessings to you. 🥰
@yourroyallioness6607 2 жыл бұрын
100% in agreement with this entire statement. ✅
@vaclinciapounds8859 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@tab_b Жыл бұрын
Every woman who did not grow up with a father figure should listen to Bishop Blakes. These teachings are healing my spirit.
@aceazar2806 2 жыл бұрын
“A man that can satisfy your eye and your body, is not necessarily the best caretaker for your soul” -RC Blakes
@jeanettesanabria7972 2 жыл бұрын
As a woman, I have never asked "is he capable of loving me?" We truly get caught up on the outside not knowing if he is capable of loving us in the way we need. A powerful statement pastor Blake's!
@preciousmcfarland5265 2 жыл бұрын
Same here 🥺
@kacistushtv 2 жыл бұрын
So powerful. This man is a prophet. This video have me evaluating every guy I ever been with and every guy trying to pursue now. Thank you RC! Continuing helping us women.
@mikafishet8043 2 жыл бұрын
This Man knows his stuff
@crystalbynum4465 2 жыл бұрын
I realized the same thing!
@theGPS. Жыл бұрын
Valid 💯
@minhbuile3407 2 жыл бұрын
Summary: What is his financial philosophy? Can he lead? Can he protect me? Not only physically but emotionally? Am I safe with him? Can he be a good father? Is he patient with me? Does he insist on generosity? Is his energy consistent and his character so solid I can’t disrespect him? Is he sober and meek? Is he controlling his strength?
@travehumble1300 2 жыл бұрын
Great question to sit on
@truthlightandlife357 2 жыл бұрын
Michel Bui Le: DOES he LOVE GOD?.
@shakera02 2 жыл бұрын
This. Right. Here. Excellent considerations. Thank you for sharing, I'm going to save and commit this to thought.
@vaclinciapounds8859 2 жыл бұрын
This is the comment right here!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@ayandatshazi8469 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks! 😍
@victorinedempsey3969 2 жыл бұрын
1 Peter 3:7 A man that is capable of loving you had knowledge of God. Knowledge of himself. Knowledge of you. He is on a personal healing journey. Emotionally and sensitive to you.
@ellaedwards8247 2 жыл бұрын
Oops, I thank God everyday..
@Ang_Nicole 2 жыл бұрын
One thing I know for sure, if a man is emotionally closed off/ unavailable to himself, I know he won’t be emotionally available to me. I’m looking forward to learning more from you on this topic! ❤️ Edit: I can’t believe how on point this message is, perfect timing for where I’m at in life right 👏🏽
@ARareGEM2890 2 жыл бұрын
Amen.. Sister👍
@ladyzinada5341 2 жыл бұрын
I'm over meeting them kinds.
@brandyshaw5307 2 жыл бұрын
True
@raularmas317 2 жыл бұрын
What I as a man was unaware I needed from a woman apart from positive regard was also something called "felt security". Felt security, for those of you unfamiliar with the idea is about a person's ability to leave the sight of their care taker and begin exploring the larger world around them with a sense of self-efficacy(that no matter what obstacle I may face)on my way to a desired result I can/will figure a way through on my own. With the gift of felt security I am now confident I can not only initiate relationships, I can also sustain them by making sure I can hold space or actually be emotionally available for a relationship. Without those qualities of character I am not sure if it's possible to keep growing together as a couple?
@paradiselivinginpurpose 2 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly! This vid came for my NECK.
@victorinedempsey3969 2 жыл бұрын
If he is not generous, he is incapable. Ephesians 5:25 A man has to have the mindset to provide for his woman.
@teresathreatts4266 2 жыл бұрын
God has sent me a real man. He has a heart for God FIRST. I had to spend a lot of time alone to pray for the husband that I wanted. He is a praying man, a dedicated man & he is following the vision for his life. He's been through so much, yet he has trusted God the entire time. We are talking marriage now. I fell in love with his heart...& he wants to love me like God has commanded a husband to love his wife. I thank God for his heart...which God revealed to me.
@theGPS. Жыл бұрын
Keep praying and shut the devil out. He will fight hard to destroy the good thing that you have. So keep the faith and those prayers going. Wishing you all the very best 🙏🏾
@madelinebigio7565 Жыл бұрын
Teresa Threatts
@TheLadyJeruselemShow Жыл бұрын
God bless you 🎉❤
@paulinerussell444 Жыл бұрын
That's what I want god to send me!! I've been waiting for 8 years I know God will do this for me, I'm trusting him to do this Amen!!
@victorinedempsey3969 2 жыл бұрын
A healthy woman has fears and insecurities 🤔 When loved by the right man he illuminates all fears and insecurities. Perfect love cast out all fear.
@queenr.480 2 жыл бұрын
Perfect loves drives out fear.- Only this comes from Jesus.
@theGPS. Жыл бұрын
Valid 💯
@dorrettp1339 Жыл бұрын
Eliminate not illuminate
@bhavanidymonde 2 жыл бұрын
Men will put forth the effort when they want you. When they’re not that interested in you; you will know bc their efforts will be the bare minimum.
@jeanettesanabria7972 2 жыл бұрын
I have learned so much from you. A man's perspective is what a woman needs.
@theGPS. Жыл бұрын
Valid 💯
@queenconscious2989 2 жыл бұрын
I've struggled with broken consciousness for a long time... the world tries to make a woman think that she somehow has to earn a man's love. So grateful for videos like this! A woman blossoms under the tender care of a man that is capable of loving her, not simply a man she feels that she can love.
@aceazar2806 2 жыл бұрын
I love this. One of the biggest hoaxes in the dating world today is the teaching that a woman has to earn *a* man’s love… In reality, a Loving King has to earn a Queen’s love in order for her to give hers to him.
@theGPS. Жыл бұрын
Very well said 💯
@marvavandyke1559 2 жыл бұрын
I sooo miss my hubby. Deceased 9 years ago, after 31 amazing years. He was A Real man, just like you are talking about. Love listening to you. You give great advice. Much respect to you and your Queen Lisa. Maybe one day I’ll find someone capable of loving me like I deserve to be loved. Not settling. Doing good and loving me all by myself. It will be God’s willing if it’s meant to be.
@myieshaboyd3222 2 жыл бұрын
In Jesus Name Amen ! May God continue to bless you with all of the pure desires of your heart and may your husband continue to Rest In Peace and watch over you!
@pamelaflanagan9119 2 жыл бұрын
Hello I am a widow myself I lost my husband 10 years ago we were married for 30 years he was my high-school sweetheart my first love It's hard out here trying to find the right man out here these guys are hitting their all they want is sex they just want to sleep around with you and they don't want to commit I am a wife I listen to Bishop Blake's and he has taught me a lot I am not a young woman I'm over 40 but he has taught me a lot and he continues to teach me and I appreciate and I thank God for him and his wisdom
@marvavandyke1559 2 жыл бұрын
@@pamelaflanagan9119 So sorry for your loss🙏🏾. We have similar situations. We were Blessed to experience love the way it should be. It is hard out there, they mostly have sex on their minds. Bishop RC Blakes is a Blessing to us and it all makes sense in what he advises. Be patient because we are not looking for a clown 🤡 in a crown 👑 😀. The right person will show up that GOD has for us. Take care of YOU snd your well being. We are worthy of the love that we want. May you be Blessed and happy. Much love my Sister 🤗🌷😊🙏🏾
@marvavandyke1559 2 жыл бұрын
@@myieshaboyd3222 Thank you so much. May GOD Bless snd Keep you 🙏🏾🤗😊
@ang78able 2 жыл бұрын
🤗
@d.y.h.w. 2 жыл бұрын
This was intense. One of your BEST "sermons" to date. This was heavy. Been with my husband for 16+ years and it took me awhile to realize I had a true gem of a KING on my hands. I send him tidbits of your channel often. We adore you. 🥰
@RCBlakesJr. 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Tell the KING I said hello.
@d.y.h.w. 2 жыл бұрын
@@RCBlakesJr. OMG you responded!!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 Thank you! I will!
@ajr7940 2 жыл бұрын
So good 2 hear that! Kings need recognition2. 💗
@kelleybright3113 2 жыл бұрын
Yes 2 love and respect..
@queenbee297 2 жыл бұрын
I wish. 18 yrs & I'm just realizing we shouldn't have ever been together. He has no idea how to love me properly & doesn't seem interested in trying.
@simonemichellelloyd5435 2 жыл бұрын
"If you are a woman who has been battered or traumatized and in the process of healing, you need a man who is spiritually intuned, connected to God, emotionally intelligent and sensitive to you. One who can take care of your soul. He has to be connected to your soul. This is what will endure. The mind, will and emotions. Does he possess all that will enable him to truly love you?"
@theGPS. Жыл бұрын
Extremely well said! Valid 💯
@vaclinciapounds8859 2 жыл бұрын
A man told me once that he was single for so long after many failed relationships that he was scared that he may be content with being single. This was the second day of talking to him so I did an exit stage left. 🚶🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️
@ladyzinada5341 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. You did correct. That's already a Red Flag. That conversation starting off wrong.😕
@DanaWill__ 2 жыл бұрын
Good for you.
@peyotekaiyote4312 2 жыл бұрын
At least he was honest but why on Earth is he in the dating game 🤡
@deliteful1991 2 жыл бұрын
So, why is he out there wasting a woman’s time? It’s like a sport to them.🤦🏽♀️
@btfields323 2 жыл бұрын
I must be the female version of him. Bc I'm starting to be ok with being single.🤷🏾♀️ Too many failed attempts
@MultiMichaelcarter 2 жыл бұрын
If he doesn’t fully value you, he is not capable of loving you they way your spirit desires
@maureenstephens3402 2 жыл бұрын
That is profoundly true! Loving a woman is different from being capable of loving a woman the way she desires to be loved. Wow!
@justynak3867 2 жыл бұрын
but what if his desire is not to give that, then her desire would also not be self seeking as being self seeking is not love. For example a man who does not talk about his feelings with a wife who would want him to-she does not self seek him to. But on the other hand, him giving that to her would be love on his side. However we may never get everything we want from anyone, too.
@ed000 2 жыл бұрын
''When a man lives with a woman the right way,the natural reaction from a woman is SUBMISSION''~~RC Blakes Jr. thank you for the prayer. Amen
@15lee89 2 жыл бұрын
What exactly defines submission would you say?
@15lee89 2 жыл бұрын
@@ed000 I have and I don’t clearly understand the submit part and what that entails
@thobekamaloyi1783 2 жыл бұрын
@@15lee89 q⁰
@jeanettesanabria7972 2 жыл бұрын
Ladies, listen up! He knows what he's talking about.
@vinnieedwards9699 2 жыл бұрын
Stop choosing whom I want to love, Start choosing who will love ❤️ me. That’s a message all by itself. God Bless you🙏🙏🤗🤗Amen
@amourah3132 Жыл бұрын
That's describing my ex husband. So handsome, dresses like a gentleman, has to have the expensive cars. I was 16, and didn't know how to pick a husband. I was married to him at 19, and found out how he was selfish, arrogant, a showoff, not the best for our sons, and not a provider. (Also a narcissist) I had to find out the hard way.😢
@Cupid_ 2 жыл бұрын
I met some amazing men who loved me and cherished me so much, I was so young, was getting so much attention that blurred my sight, chasing excitement, enjoying the attention and now here I am realizing where I went wrong. As much as it hurting me to listen to this message its needed.
@Vicki1951 2 жыл бұрын
You’re not alone. Many of us are lined up along side of you. Some of us older ones enjoyed the excitement that we neglected the reason why.
@Cupid_ 2 жыл бұрын
@@Vicki1951 I turned 35 5 days ago and only now I realize I lost really good men, all the men Uncle Blake is talking about, those good men have been in my life. Even when he talks about patience. They would drive me around all day wait 1 hr in the car for me. I even had men who would pay for a dress but I would wear the dress for another guy bcos I found them boring to hung out with. Oh man! I messed up and lost all those good men. Still single 😂😂
@BeBeautifullyYou 2 жыл бұрын
You’re still very young and beautiful. You’ll be ok. Just choose for YOU.
@fluffysox6072 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for saying this. I am 24 and engaged to a pretty good guy. I also get alot of attention like you do. It’s exciting when the men that you want also want you. But it’s overwhelming when you have so many options - too many options. Sometimes I fear missing out, I fear that I’m settling. I also fear losing a good man because i was chasing excitement. With so many great options, i wonder if I’d ever be satisfied settling down for the long term - or if I’d always be looking for the next best thing. It may sound vain, but I know that you get where I’m coming from. Your feelings are valid. If you ever crack the code, please share your wisdom!
@fluffysox6072 2 жыл бұрын
My mother was extremely beautiful in her 20s & 30s. She had her three daughters and even married once. She constantly left men behind because she knew she’d have another one right around the corner. After leaving a trail of broken hearts, she’s single now at the age of 50. She’s still beautiful, still looking for love. She spends a lot of time reminiscing about her past and about the men that could’ve been good for her that she left behind. I guess we can learn from her. Once you find a good man who feeds your soul. It’s better to truly commit
@amyrenee8249 2 жыл бұрын
I have no doubt that I was divinely guided to your channel. I’m 47 and I have never had a normal relationship. I come from a broken home/family and I am an Empath and I have taken on a lot of BS that I could have avoided had I known what I have learned from this channel. Thank you for helping me grow and giving me clarity.
@kaykay9280 2 жыл бұрын
God help you dear! Any life lessons you could pass on to your younger self, balancing the brokeness and empath with love? And meeting the right person.. :) Thank you!
@theGPS. Жыл бұрын
Wishing you all the very best! You deserve the best 🙏🏾
@cloyettegrant3889 2 жыл бұрын
Pastor, you're dropping some real gems right now. Thank for walking in your purpose. Your are breaking generational curses but awakening some of us who were once silly women.
@moniquelampkin7212 2 жыл бұрын
I would suggest the woman are not silly. Yes holy scripture talks about those types too. However most especially those in the body of Christ "are destroyed for a lack of knowledge." Hosea 4:6 so many families of origin are fragmented (broken) which fosters the inability to 💘 regardless of gender. Let everybody get healed and whole is the 🔑. Good Sound teaching Sir from a holistic (spirit-soul-body) realm.
@joan6175 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@elviraceasar5989 2 жыл бұрын
Omg!! This was great!!! I had my teen daughters listening in on this with me!! I told them listen up, had my son join us and told him this how you do it
@LA-jy4sc 2 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺🥺
@wshelby83 2 жыл бұрын
This is awesome!!
@theGPS. Жыл бұрын
Valid 💯 Listen up son 😄 Good that you're training your daughters too ✊🏾 All the very best to y'all 🙏🏾
@LC-cg7bs 2 жыл бұрын
If I could have a meal with 3 individuals it would be Jesus, Maya Angelou and Pastor Blakes. Like Seriously!!! Pastor Blake’s if the networks or Oprah call you to be syndicated as I pray that this will happen 1 day, but be prayerful that they never let you dummy down message and the reading of the Gospel when you interject scripture, love how the Holy Spirit empowers you with such profound wisdom, close to a King Solomon spirit. You and Mrs Blake’s are an inspiration to me. I’ve been healed through these teachings and they get more profound each and every time. May God continue to bless the hearers of his word through the Holy Spirit and wisdom of your teachings and be receptive to a changed life. Amen 🙏
@clarae80 2 жыл бұрын
I am Always choosing men that are incapable of loving me, a painful cycle that slowly destroys you
@Beebeetaylor15 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, Bishop this was a MESSAGE ! Because of your words and my prayer life increasing, I’ve been able to let go of the men of my life who left me confused and unsettled from my soul to my body. I’m in transition to bettering my mindset as a young lady . I’m so excited that I started in my early 20s, I can’t imagine the woman I’ll be a year from now.
@theGPS. Жыл бұрын
Wishing you all the very best! You deserve nothing but the best 🙏🏾
@teresabrown8224 2 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏽. I have dealt with a man for a few months and I felt like I was dealing with a drill Sargent and then he started asking me about my bank account and telling me how I needed to change my home and myself. 😱 I just couldn’t do anymore.
@ladyzinada5341 2 жыл бұрын
🤨🤔😵🧐 you'll never be perfect enough Run!!👏🙌🏃♀️
@tainachapman9486 2 жыл бұрын
That sounded like control ...he probably was a narcissist!!!
@teresabrown8224 2 жыл бұрын
@@ladyzinada5341 ikr 🤷🏾♂️
@quoteme.goddess6957 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a scammer, moocher, a user, manipulator, narcissist, an egoist, to me.
@teresabrown8224 2 жыл бұрын
@@tainachapman9486 I totally agree 💯. And the First Lady said that he needed anger management classes. Wow 😮
@vale.m15 2 жыл бұрын
Pastor, when you said 'men are patient with the women they love' I remembered my guy friend who once tell me the same - that he's patient with me because he likes me a lot. I'm still friends with him and he's a great guy. He accepts me for who I am and motivates me to become better. We've been friends for 2 years now and he's been asking for a date with me countless times. But the thing is he's non-christian which makes it difficult for me to be in a relationship with him if we ever started one.
@jcfreedom7289 2 жыл бұрын
Are you going to give him a chance?
@worshiprose3932 Жыл бұрын
@vale My elders always Say a patient man will ride a donkey just to get to a good woman. I would not lower my standards for a non Christian man, that would be unequally yoked. May start beautiful in the beginning but bound to be problematic
@yanne7sereine751 2 жыл бұрын
Best life coach here on KZfaq i swear...knowing that he is a Pastor is like the Rolls Royce of teachers and adviser.
@Tinaspirits 2 жыл бұрын
I ALMOST let go. Thank You for reminding me that the man God has kept for me will be the one who will stimulate more than my mind and body, but spirit. According to knowledge of God, self and me, he is healing himself and therefore, will be capable of spiritually covering me. He is emotionally sensitive to me and the soul is what will help us endure.
@psychicladyg9415 2 жыл бұрын
I wish they taught this stuff in church. These are the real sermons!
@arbidayoung1308 2 жыл бұрын
When a woman has the right tools a man can't play with her.♥️🔥❤ Thank you Sir Good Stuff!
@theGPS. Жыл бұрын
Valid 💯
@rhondawalker2020 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I was a people pleaser and had a very low self esteem! I married 2 narcissists and I divorced them. Spot on! You've taught me so much, so I say never again! No more selfish, needy clowns 🤡. Learned this much too late. God Bless you and Lisa 🌞
@noirefit5954 2 жыл бұрын
Same!! Now I’m just sitting back, taking a time out and taking notes
@theGPS. Жыл бұрын
Just remember one thing please Rhonda...what turned out to be bad/evil for you, God can always turn it to be good for you. It's never too late to better oneself and to achieve what you deserve and desire as long as you're alive. When you have a moment please watch one of my videos titled 'Age Ain't Nothing But A Number! Forever Young!' Be encouraged 🙏🏾
@bonitacarlisle6081 Жыл бұрын
This is Awesome ❤ Yes (after the fact😢 )God will SEND the Right MAN for US. Men see us before we see them. God Bless You All
@MsVee7 2 жыл бұрын
"when you're being loved right by the right man, he'll eliminate your fears and insecurities...brings a calm"....WOW
@raularmas317 2 жыл бұрын
The last time I fell in love, I fell in love like most people usually and healthily fall asleep-- a little at a time and then all at once. At 63 years of age, this was the way(15-20 years ago) that young women fell in love. It was a lot less about the physical or carnal characteristics that a man brought to the relationship "negotiation table" and more about his ability to be honest (matching words to reality) and his level of integrity (matching reality to his words) or promise-keeping. I sincerely hope humans return to this style of courtship because it will likely mean a child can benefit from having both Parents living under the same roof. That's extremely emotionally stabilizing to a child who might otherwise feel an underlying anxiety/insecurity for most or all of their life.
@indriadrayton1132 2 жыл бұрын
I love when he pays for things and I know it is a struggle for him. I tell him, thank you for being a man.
@shebutter3195 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this a woman’s natural response is submission to the right man with the right character.
@kambajatarr9090 2 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say thank you for the time you take to make these videos. After I left my home in Africa in search of a better life in the US I spent most of my time in survival mode trying to figure life out by getting a useful education. Graduated with my masters and then I felt ready to start dating and realized how naive I was in that department and how I started lowering my standards thinking they were too high just to blend in. Watching your videos has helped me realize my standards weren't too high and I realized my worth based on the type of woman I am. That has really changed the game for me. I had no idea I was walking around asleep. I literally felt like I was slapped in the face so I could wake up. It has also been great and empowering to hear from Lisa, she definitely is such an incredible woman. I am blessed to have found your channel🙏🏾
@simplycarolyn777 2 жыл бұрын
There is 1228 people watching and 289 likes. Ya'll this is good teaching let's get these likes up and share this video to your other social media accounts. There are so many people that this needs to reach. Thank you pastor for your great wisdom and teaching. I appreciate you and your ministry! Thank you pastor God has sent me a man with all of your key points you duscussed this evening and I almost passed him up until I started listening to you. I took notes from several of your videos and he has all of those qualities. I really thank God for you!💝
@Vicki1951 2 жыл бұрын
I did before it started.
@simplycarolyn777 2 жыл бұрын
@@Vicki1951 that's great he is a God sent man. I have learned so much!💝
@revwesleyrenescajoseph9801 2 жыл бұрын
Praise God 🙏🙏🙏
@kimdavis3259 2 жыл бұрын
Wow it’s 9.2K likes now!! 🤩😍
@theundergroundcancersociety 2 жыл бұрын
I started my journey of celibacy this month, I feel so ready and so excited to focus on ME, my energy, God, and my healing. Amen.
@DC73092 2 жыл бұрын
"You aint got no man, you got a son" 🔥🔥🔥🤣🤣🤣
@cw8365 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Bishop🙏🏾🙏🏾 You and Lady Blakes are such a Blessing. You are truly helping. Last September the day I was separated after a 15 year marriage/ now divorced, your channel literally popped up on my YT feed.. it was God. I watch you daily and many I’ve watched over and over. Taking time to heal as I work towards opening my heart. Most importantly at my single state healing and learning who I am through the eyes and heart of Christ. Your daughter in Christ. Peace and Blessings.
@anaymousjohn5227 Жыл бұрын
He will show it by actions that speaks louder then words he wont hide from you he wont ignore you he will be open up front he will treat you with respect protect you from harm
@mechiabrowne2889 2 жыл бұрын
A man can talk a good talk, but it’s his walk- his actions and behaviors-that demonstrate his true values and definitions of love, women, etc. Listen to what men DO, not what they say.
@victorinedempsey3969 2 жыл бұрын
The man that is capable of loving you is sober and meek. Sober: Level headed Meek: A man under control - not boring. He asks questions that average men don't ask.
@jr9941 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Bishop! I continue to grow from you. This message was a God sent. The main takeaway, "is this man capable of loving you the right way". 'Stop choosing men that you can love but choose a man who can love you". ♥️
@reginahutchinson4057 2 жыл бұрын
Uncle R you broke this thing all the way down. I have been digesting this video starting it and stooping it for about 3 hours or more. I could not believe what I was hearing. I had no teaching in this area coming up.
@HALFPINTSHAWTY 2 жыл бұрын
Masculine energy is so consistent and character is so solid that you can't disrespect!!!! ON ME !!!!!!! COMMAND IT 👶 👨🍼 🚼
@miriampowell3108 2 жыл бұрын
You are a gift to us women ,from I listened the father daughter talk, my life has been changed, thanks for opening my eyes, I'm on a new page
@hymnodyhands 2 жыл бұрын
This was really helpful ... the man who was the most capable of loving me DIED suddenly, but he was so different that I kept that idea in my heart not knowing why it was so important ... in the next decade, I found myself looking more at not only whether a man was good, but whether he had the capability, given everything else going on with him, to love me the way I needed. Now, in the future, I can have the question in the back of my mind OUT FRONT. I have never dated "bad men" or "thugs" ... but now I realize that "good" is not enough. A man may be good in every area of his life but one: how to love a woman. As the elders say, "ninety-nine-and-a-half" just won't do...
@patriciabrammer9177 Жыл бұрын
Pastor Blake's. Everything you have shared is what I had when I was married until my husband passed away. I will never settle for less. Even if zi remain a widow, that is fine with me until I meet a man like you described here. I am almost 70. And have no desire for a clown. God bless you for being so straightforward
@teresabrown8224 2 жыл бұрын
I so enjoy listening to you talk on this topic, because I have been through so much and I’m learning more about a man loving me and wanting me and not just for sex!!! Ughhhh
@Cristina_43 2 жыл бұрын
You are worth so much more! Keep your standards high. The next man that passes your new standard will make those others seem so insignificant :)
@teresabrown8224 2 жыл бұрын
@@Cristina_43 Thank You 🙏🏽
@teresathreatts4266 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, Teresa. You and I share some commonalities: We share the same name. My name is Teresa Ann Brown. My married name is Threatts. I've been divorced for almost 10 years now. The other commonality that we have is we both like Bishop RC Blakes! Bless you, sister! 🙏🏾
@teresabrown8224 2 жыл бұрын
@@teresathreatts4266 Amen 🙏🏽 , and Blessings to you also my sister.
@TrinekaClayton 2 жыл бұрын
I have experienced a man asking me to go 50/50 and it didn't feel good. It never felt right internally, but I thought it made sense. Now, I understand that it fundamentally goes against my femininity. Wow, God created every aspect of the woman for a purpose. God gave us a barometer that lets us know who and who not to choose 🙌🏿🙏🏿🙌🏿
@SunShyne-of3xj 2 жыл бұрын
Bishoppp!! Teach!! I discovered your ministry over a year or more ago and I took to heart your messages! I read Father Daughter Talk and even though I have met a man who you describe to a "T" I still listen to your messages... I absolutely LOVE your ministry! EVERY WORD you preached! I SEE daily! I just want to thank you! The most important piece is that the man who is capable of loving you is that MAKES YOU FEEL SAFE!! he is not about drama or confusion!! He's CONSISTENT and he SHOWS UP!
@judywade3124 2 жыл бұрын
I like that: A capable man should command a woman's respect. Love it.💜
@stellamonu3110 2 жыл бұрын
You are simply the father I never had! Thank you so much for all your messages,I listen to all and take notes.Your teachings are transforming me from the inside out.I am work in progress and I cannot thank you enough.
@kayemess382 2 жыл бұрын
This is going to save me so much time, effort and emotional pain. Thank you!
@ninapresto6824 2 жыл бұрын
WOW! Mr RC Blakes is right! This is how good my man is to me. a good man that loves a woman will demonstrate all these character. God Bless you more everyday Mr RC Blakes
@biblequeen4sure823 2 жыл бұрын
Some men come to destroy, a real man of God comes to restore. Until God sends me a real man of God I'll happily remain single, and I mean it.
@audreymickens4390 Жыл бұрын
Pastor Blakes. You are preaching better than we're shouting. Amen.
@purplelily6950 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 57 years old, and I have never asked myself this question. Thank you, RC
@lanarose2460 2 жыл бұрын
My heart and mind are always ready to hear from Pastor RC Blakes. And I just exited stage left from a gentleman who claims to be capable of loving multiple women at one time. He tried to convince me that I should accept his polygamy need because it’s apparently the new wave anyway. I didn’t buy it, but hoping to hear more about this “new wave” from Pastor soon.
@KellyCartney 2 жыл бұрын
I would like to hear more about it too💯
@raularmas317 2 жыл бұрын
Have you checked out the Bible? There are many kinds of love that a person is capable of expressing. They are not necessarily as deep as spousal love, but they are a kind of love nonetheless. That said, once both parties have agreed to exclusivity, then I agree that a boundary has been violated if the other person is carrying on another relationship without getting your O.K.
@CeeceeH1819 2 жыл бұрын
Men wanting multiple wives are just pure greedy and selfish. What other reason is there to justify this new wave? Plus, can they afford this 'new wave' lifestyle?
@GlobalResonanceDance Жыл бұрын
I am the most blessed of women - to be loved by a man who is both my type and is also loving me as a King loves his Queen. I have been living with and spending a lot of time, through hard times, with him and not once did he lose my respect. I still can't believe this is for real!
@victorinedempsey3969 2 жыл бұрын
When living the right way, submission is natural.
@melissalindo3019 2 жыл бұрын
Women are made to love but men have to be taught. Men feel love by being respected and honored women with words and actions
@Kee316 2 жыл бұрын
Putting this on repeat. You say things I don't want to hear sometimes but I need it. Please keep it coming!
@Rodrasroom 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve come to realize that men should model the characteristics of Jesus. Jesus was keenly focused on his purpose, a fierce leader who led with kindness, patience and love, but blunt in teaching the truth. He realized that humans were slow LOL and had to hear things in parables. His morals were IRON CLAD. He was so meek and cool. He spoke to each woman he encountered with such grace and power. I love how in the Bible, he saves one woman emotionally, another physically, and another spiritually, and one quite literally from death. You want a man who returns peace and stability to your life like he did! God bless RC Blakes for the loving teaching to us, and to Jesus for setting an example.
@victorinedempsey3969 2 жыл бұрын
He must be patient by nature.
@bollid4151 2 жыл бұрын
Pastor Rc Blakes, I have no words to thank you for changing and influencing my life the way you have. I thank God every day, because I know he put you in my path to change my life from the first day I started listening and following you. I’ve come from being as broken as can be, to being a queen and let me tell you, my life is beautiful today. It’s taken a lot of work, lot of therapy and a lot of hours listening to you, but it’s been so worth it. I have finally tapped into the feminine queen God created me to be and let me tell you, there is nothing better than that. My actions, my demeanor, my character all align with that of a queen today and your teachings got me here. Thank you for teaching everything and love my father didn’t have the wisdom or discernment to do. God bless you every day, and please continue the work you do, there are so many broken women who do not know their worth and need you. I need you every day, sometimes when things get dark, I say, let’s see what pastor Blakes has to say. You words of wisdom always, give me clarity and direction Thank you and Hod bless you.
@woolenwebsofbeauty6206 2 жыл бұрын
"No Sweetheart, You continue to GO and Choose from a polluted pool because you are operating from a place of broken consciousness....."
@kemilolafadeyi5483 2 жыл бұрын
A man can love you but he has no capacity to love me the way I need to be loved . Let this marinate first . You preaching sir ! Toxic masculinity confused love with sex . This is so deep here . Every woman has to be loved uniquely tailored to her need whatever that is . Is a woman a slave or a utensil to be used ?
@sibongilemtsweni5155 2 жыл бұрын
Wow I'm blown away by your teaching Pastor and Im literally crying right now because that's what happens to me thinking that my ex husband was capable of loving me but in the long run he was totally different, he can't even hold a job and not supportive😥😥I've learned it in a hard way. Thanks now I know what to look for in a man.
@jhandavis3314 2 жыл бұрын
I've been in the same boat! May God give us discernment! Prayers for you.
@lashscouts8145 2 жыл бұрын
Love your content. Never had a male role model and you truly help me out a bunch
@julieelliott943 2 жыл бұрын
This was a wonderful and very important talk. Peoples' priorities have become really skewed regarding relationships. Thank you so much.
@amy44499 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the valuable wisdom you've shared with God's daughters. And thank you especially for praying for us. May every blessing be yours, RC Blakes. ♥️🙏🏼 Be encouraged ladies!
@michaeldande 11 ай бұрын
Proverbs 16:25 2nd Timothy 3 6:7 1).He will calm your fears n insecurities There is no fear in love When a man loves a woman he is exceptionally patient with you 3 Insist on Generousity Ephisians 5:25 a provide for him delf b provide for you 1ST Timothy 5:8 Command Your Respect Titus 1 7:8 Sober n meek
@tumukundediane8771 2 жыл бұрын
Also I have seen that the woman becomes the best version of herself because of that man. She feels safe and never regrets to have ever dated that man because she knows that he was loyal.
@SheliaRBrown-oq1bu 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my... For all the days that I've been on earth, I've never thought about whether or not a man was capable of loving me. What??? I would always think about "him" but not me. Then like Bishop said, you give it all to this man but then you end up with nothing. You're drained because you emptied your tank on a man who wasn't capable, didn't want to try to figure out and had no intention of wanting to know how to love ME. Oh my! I'm still in shock. I look back over the years and the men I dated and none of them were able to love me back because all of them were simply not capable of being able to do it. What? Have I been living under a rock or was this simply because growing up I didn't feel valued enough to think of myself as being lovable? I will listen to this message a few more times because I'm still at I never thought about is this man that I'm about to date capable of loving me? I have to meditate on this some more because the shock of never thinking about that concept still stings.
@patriciataylor2661 2 жыл бұрын
Looking good and smelling good is NOT the cake - it’s just the icing.
@jenniferreedcoachjrose4301 2 жыл бұрын
This is true when I loved more than he loved me it Never Worked!!
@luvvaluvva 2 жыл бұрын
I listen with tears flowing..this sermon is a blessing to my life..I needed this, right time..God bless you Pastor..
@cherrY28201 2 жыл бұрын
Every morning I listen to you, with my coffee in the hand and a smile Thanks! 😍 Greetings from germany
@ladyzinada5341 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️. I'm Running through the Screen Sir....😂👏 When he looked at Us with a stern look saying," IT AIN'T GONNA WORK bae!" 😆
@trutalk12 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I could like this five times, please continue these type lessons, you are making me stronger day by day.💖
@mg9475 2 жыл бұрын
This hit home for me tremendously. I needed to hear this to get a better understanding. Thank you ❤️
@truthlightandlife357 2 жыл бұрын
If he truly loves GOD!
@charlieorian220 Жыл бұрын
😲OMG Pastor RC Blake's Jr. you are the 1st pastor I've seen refer people to real live professionals in mental health in Christianity. Thank you for doing the right thing towards humanity. And not pretending to know everything. Thank you for staying in your own God called lane and that is teaching the word of God.
@mobe494 2 жыл бұрын
The ones that cut off before the end were the ones who needed it most but just aren’t ready to receive! Keep planting & watering those seeds Mr Blake’s…it is the Lord that give the increase!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🤗
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