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Holding on doesn't always make you strong. Sometimes the strength is in letting go!

Just had a breakup with a man that I dated for about 8 months I needed my peace🎉🎉🎉 When a Woman's Fed Up and I was Fed Up I might feel alone at times but I have my peace it's only been 4 days and I'm okay😊

1. Never submit your life or yourself to an unworthy man. 2. Never ignore a person’s energy (or discount your discernment). 3. Never blame yourself for a man’s failure to make you feel safe in the relationship. 4. Put a greater premium on time ( your youth). 5. If it’s not working, it’s not working!

I’m so happy I left a 6 year relationship 2 years ago. I have been on my own and doing very well. It was hard at first to leave but I depended on God to leave the situation. God was my strength! 🙏🏽🙌🏽💕

I just left a situationship with a man I was seeing for 3 months. He wanted me to perform wifely duties without making me his wife. All of the red flags were there, and God was telling me he was not my husband. I am so glad I listened to the voice of God and to you Pastor Blakes.

“Whew! Ain’t no masculine man sitting on no social media in no comments commenting about no women!” Preach Bishop!!!!

God is not in confusion. Speak! Amen!

It took me a long time to accept this message, because I thought God said he could be my husband, and I liked so much of the qualities, but today now that the emotions have subsided. I am no longer holding on and I am finally letting go. Please pray for me, for obedience.

Was in limbo, aka situationship as it’s been deemed, for 10 months, finally decided this was a waste of time. Almost 3 weeks since the breakup. I need to protect my peace and heart.

I was lying in bed at 3am listening to some good old worship music and I heard in my spirit RC Blake’s. And welll here I am 🙂

Thank you for message! I left my 9 months of this ungodly soul tie. It was demonically enforced because the situation was a waste of my time. I had no peace. He only deals with me on his terms. He was secretive and not consistent at all. Thank you Bishop for this timely word!💪🏽🙏🏾🙌🏽❤️‍🩹. I’m healing day by day with God’s help.

Some men aren't even looking for 50/50, some men are looking to see just how much they can get out of a woman. A place to stay, use your car, resources, etc. Gotta be careful out here.

I'm a 23 year old virgin and I don't care if I'm a 30 or 40 year old virgin I see the light and I'm focused so I can bring a beautiful woman in my life one day

No Time To Waste. Bishop Your Are a Godsend. God Taught me a lot of what you are saying in my 29 years as a widow.I refused to be in a relationship that was not God Honoring and I am so Blessed. GOD gave me this thought one day as I took myself out to dinner " I may be by myself But I am Not Alone". Halleujah!

I was in a limbo situationship with a guy on + off since 2022. I kept walking away then he’d say sorry and coming back.. I walked away for good in nov 23 for 10 weeks.. then he got back in touch and said sorry; he claimed he’d started therapy and wanted to address his behaviour. We met up at a neutral place and his words of love were so convincing. Only a kiss happened between us that day but I felt hopeful again… Then breadcrumbing, and now no contact again for over a week. Confusion is an understatement. Yet I trust in God. I am not engaging and am taking one step at a time as I recover from the mistreatment and the soul tie❤

Thank you dad! Great message! My dad always said it is what a man does and not what he says!

Avoid limbo relationships , if it’s not working, it’s not working, Per Bishop RC!

Men will play all kinds of games with you if allowed. A man, well of age, was pursuing me. When I asked him very directly, "What do you consider us?" This joker responded, "You are asking the wrong question. You should be asking if I'm committed to you." After I untangled my eyebrows, I was clear about what needed to be done. I picked up my my purse, looked him up and down, walked away, and never looked back. The nerve.

Waisted my 50's on a Clown with a Crown. For the younger ladies please don't make this mistake! 😢

This is some good eating. I’m 61 and Bishop Blakes your teaching makes me stand stronger on my values everytime I listen to you. I wasted so many years on unworthy men. I value my life, heart, and peace over everything now. Thank you for wisdom and nursing some of us back to life. Peace and love❤️

Bishop, I'm 3 minutes into this video, and already I have the message. I'll continue watching it now, and walk away from this situationship I'm in. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.

“You 20 today and 30 by this evening…” 💀🤣😆😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Got you! Avoid limbo relationships! If it is not working! It is not working! Gotta accept it is not working!

This is so healing & therapeutic, not because I’m there now, but my heart aches for women who are.

this is for the “lets see where it goes” relationships, the exact kind i just let go of.

Just walked away a few days ago after almost 3 years ago. I let go many times and came back because I knew he had potential, but he didn't want to admit his lack of concern for me. Everytime I bring it up he got very angry and nothing was resolved. We have to know when it is time and all you have to do is leave it, just leave, you can leave you just don't want to. I am sick and I don't have the time and energy for his disregard of me. I"m not even looking for a husband, I know my worth and I'm out. I rather be miserable by myself and keep my peace and dignity. I"m good now. I have created a bucket list and I'm moving on .,,,,, it's a new day now and everyone wants to follow the crowd but as for me,,, it's so dead!!!!!!!!!!

I have had limbo relationships all my life. I knew something wasn’t right and I deserved better and I left every time. Now I do know what a real relationship and man looks like. Thank God for content like this ❤😊

I’ve been watching you for years!! You are the real deal and I love that you keep things black Or white!! Queen’s appreciate YOU!

"If your love walk is in order, your wife muscle will not respond to an unworthy man". 💯I love these talks! Thank you for your Godly advice and your fatherly love.😇🙏

“You thought that you could love him into being a husband…” oh man. Real talk.

I removed self from a 3-1/2 yr relationship 😢! After leaving God showed me the Reframing of this relationship that I believed. After yrs of praying my mind accepted an illusion of wants in a man. Now that my peace has arrived, clarity 😮😊! At this Moment 54yrs! Reality of Healing will be my Journey

I was in limbo about the relationship I’m in and after certain conversations, I felt unease in my spirit and wanted to reach out to one of my mentors, to gain more clarity because I was stuck in a messy middle, but look at God. Your message was so timely!!!!!! I now have clarity, thank you sir! May God continue to expand this great movement ♥️

R.C. what you said earlier is a whole word. God is not the author of confusion. If you're in limbo in any relationship..going back and forth, it's not of God. He is not your Boaz. 🙏

Ladies, Bishop is not being emotional. He's Serious about this subject, especially! He's slapping me, and I'm a man! 👏🏾👏🏾

Walked away in dec 23. Left a limbo situationship because it wasnt a real relationship. My spirit told me before we started. And uncertainty was always there. His words were hollow temper tantrums. He tried brainwashing. Didnt work. 😮 🏃 thank god for revealing the truth. 8 months learned lesson.

I like that Bishop! Put a premium on yourself! 2024 is my year to meet my husband. Self-love on yourself! Don’t waste your time convincing someone to be with you!

We think holding on makes us strong but the strength is in letting go❤

We have to learn to listen to our internal GPS- God protection Services! I’m finally listening to mine🙏🙏

Back and forth, back and forth. I am so tired I feel like I have literally been running back and forth. D.o.n.e!

Careful cause some will say I want you But have to know the difference between want you and want your body so I say define it what you’re talking about

Bishop came with all the Smoke🙌🏾💯🎯

This message hit home for me in so many ways. I know it was a divine intervention that I ran across this video because I just had to break off a soul tie of 28 years (off and on) to someone I thought I was in love with. It was so painful for me but truth be told, I told that person EXACTLY what you've been talking about in this video. I needed growth, stability, protection; that person never offered me any of that. I wasted so much of my youth idealizing something that would never be. Thank you so much for giving me the confirmation that I made the right choice.

Thank you for saying no masculine man sitting on social media bashing womwn...love that

Bishop, your explanation of age progression is spot on. Seems like I was 20 years-old last week now I'm mid 40's! 🤦🏾‍♀️ 😂😂😂 I really enjoyed this lesson. "Time is a precious commodity." Indeed!!

God does not take our will away THAT'S BARS‼‼‼‼‼‼❣❣❣❣❣❣

Met someone about 4 months ago and my refusal to let go because of potential or fabricated bias that you mentioned (although things didn’t quite feel right) literally almost cost me my life. Thanks for helping us save ourselves not just from others but from ourselves, 😂you are really changing lives. Thing is I’ve been listening to you so I did better. It only took 4 months for me to lose everything. I kept asking God for a sign but wasn’t that the sign. My own intuition. Can’t thank you and God enough RC Blakes you really mean a lot to me 🙏🏾

We think our strength is found in holding on but sometimes the real strength is in letting go. I love that.

Omg i use to be there but god help me get out thanks you Jesus

😢please pray for me I’m in a soul tie 7 years and I’m praying 🙏 to be free I’m so broken inside pastor if I never had come across your videos I would of been clueless thank you 🙏

Bishop, you are helping us get ready for a blessing from God. We must believe even though it may be a little while before it comes to us. This is hope for tomorrow and future generations!❤

Thank you ❤yes walked away after a year and now he keeps sending me messages. His words to me when we broke up were disgusting and he tried to defame my character 😢My God would never allow that 🙏

His biblical wisdom teachings is so powerful, and wisdom never fails..👏🔥🏆pastor RCBLAKES ❤🙏🏾

He that hath EARS TO EAR LET THEM HEAR, Bishop Keep Teaching ❤❤❤❤

PASTOR SAID, " STOP PLAYING CPRAH, ON A CORPSE". I AM ROLLINGGGGGGGGGGGG

Father Blakes telling the truth aint no masculine man screaming no 50/50 and he aint in no comments talking about what a woman should do. Arguing back and forth. A man that has fully come into his identity in christ and into his identity in manhood thinks like Father Blakes. This is not only a real man but a real man of God that has come fully into his identity and his manhood. His teachings are so life changing and therapeutic in their-self.

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.

If I don’t have peace in my spirit then I move on

I walked away from a situationship of 5 years that God Beas trying to block from the beginning. Since then , my mind, body and soul has became so much better.

Bishop, I thank you for providing a safe space to learn and grow into my femininity and Queen domain. My father was absent his entire life. He ran from his responsibilities, which resulted in me being a broken woman for a long time. I found your videos a week ago, and I can not stop listening to your message. I've binge watched your videos and started the necessary healing to receive my crown.

First time I’ve ever caught you live. Been listening for about 2 years and have definitely learned many useful life skills. God and you keep me poised and grounded to always seek my purpose, operate in Queen consciousness and be in the present. Thank you for what you do and thank God for allowing me to be in a place where I know I need to heal and recognize the restorative process to be whole.

In the words of the Gap Band,”You can’t keep running in and out of my life. Keep running” ~ Yearning For Your Love 🎵

This definitely resignated with me. I have to end a marriage with a man who I have allowed to mishandle me for way too long. Doing the hard thing is sometimes necessary. Prayers and blessings 🙏🏼

Thank you for your time, what you are doing really helps us women. .on Saturday I rededicated my life to God and told the "limbo" guy my body is off the table and I am preserving my self for the man I know will be my husband and will give me some clarity of where the "relationship" is going. I always had an issue with him cause he never offered me food/drink at his home. That's what had me reevaluating my worth and my relationship with God. I told him he can date me and get to know me without sex. He said he understands but he hasn't asked me on a date and has not contacted me again. Oh well thats goes to show init

Amen!💯🙏 That's why I walked away 1 year ago! It hurt me but it was not working for me anymore ! After being disrespected for the last time, I had to walk away for good! I am at peace now! Thank You Mr. RC Blakes !💯💯🙏🙏🙏

Raising Royal consciousness one conversation at a time m❣️

Always keeping it 1000!!! Thank you, pastor! Sharing with a friend that has been busted up over a walking gargoyle. Happy she left, but it needs to stay that way. Stay encouraged, ladies!

I got a whole rc.blakes play list on here with nothing but your videos❤❤❤

My father was never in my life, and my mother did push him away, but it was still his responsibility to be around, and to make the effort which he did not do. I can blame him up to a point for not being there, not teaching me and not taking any responsibility for having me, but I have learned to take responsibility as well for myself, and realize that, as a grown-up, I have to protect my peace, myself, and stay close to God, who is my true father, and who loves me more than any earthly father ever could. I thank you, Pastor Blakes, for your knowledge and wisdom, and for your time, and your love for everyone who is struggling in this area of their life. God bless you and Lady Lisa always.

I wish I knew when I started dating back in 2017. 7 years later, I finally think I have all the wisedom and strength to let go. My 20s are gone but my 30s will be even better . Thank god for his revelation and strength. ❤

6:55.....24:23……..33:27……….37:45……….”39:17”……45:49!!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 “You cannot get a date with your destiny as long as you maintain your marriage with your history.”~ RCBlakes

Amen ❤ God bless all of the hurting, yet beautiful women listening to this. You are all amazing

Bishop we really have been so programmed to be human and give people a break and those of us that are ahead of the game get ridiculed as too perfect and not understanding that others dont experience everything the same way... And now learning its nothing but -L.E.T.! But once we AWAKE, God is miracle worker!

Left a guy recently I felt he was not treating me the way I should be treated. I’m not going train or beg a guy to treat me good.

The Most High God will give you the desires of your heart ❤️ I’ve always wanted wisdom . I was led to you . I’m also dealing with a soul tie for 6 years. The struggle is real . I’ve lost my father since I was a little girl. For you are a spiritual father to many . I want to say thank you for letting the Most High use you . I’m definitely purchasing your books.

Dear pastor, thank you for your dedication. I myself found out the root of this issue is deeper than what it looks on the surface. We all learn how to relate starting at the time we got conceived. It’s difficult to see unhealthy / dysfunctional way of relating to the opposite sex when our perspective has been muddy and muddled with from the start. Your perseverance and not giving up on us helps!! Many thanks to you and Lisa. Thank you for raising a standard for us, telling us the truth and teaching us, showing us the better way, the healthy way, and the Godly way. ❤ much love ❤❤to both of you

It's a man game and we need to learn his game so that we, women can protect ourselves.

You are in no trouble. Take your time RC. You walking in your purpose. We need to hear the truth. Thank you.

Be smart choose wisely

Good evening Bishop R C &Lady Lisa Blakes and family.

I’m so glad to have you online it has helped me so much And I’m always talking to you during your segments it’s funny especially when say I better be quiet I’m about get in Trouble. Keep this up ❤

Thank you for speaking strong Truth and giving us the wisdom of King Solomon...that we NEED. Thank you & appreciate you, Pastor Blakes. 🙌❤️✝️🕊

All things relational and family start with the condition of the man. That right there will preach!

I wish you were around 20 years ago!! Every single word you uttered resonated with me and I will cherish them and carry them with me into all potential relationships in the future-feeling so blessed, thank you very much.

Hello Pastor Blakes your father prophesied to me way back in the day when my former church came to visit in LA. I love listening to your podcasts.

Bishop, I just thank and honor you for being here for so many of us and being a father. We love you Bishop and have so much appreciation for you! ❤️🙏

Did we just get hypnotized😂 that music had me zoned out lol

OMG! Pastor RC Blakes Jr, you have touched everything that I'm feeling in this moment about losing my dad and aunt. My soul is getting replenished, it was definitely quenching the thirst of the spirit....Thank you for this word. HALLELUJAH!

I'm here.....ready and waiting 😊

Very timely! Thanks God! Thank you Bishop. God bless your life

This was definitely needed. Thank you for the words of wisdom RC, and thank you to the social media influenced that sparked this conversation. God bless you both 🙏🏽

@22:40 - 22:51 “well let me leave that alone” 😂😂😂😂😂 I really need to hear this. Ladies you have no idea how much the man I was seeing persuaded me into 50/50 and I’ve always felt off with that. Please dear God let this seep into me on a cellular level, soulful/spirit level everything. Amen.

Just got home not to long ago ready with opening heart. Everyone click the likes he give needed message for yourself or someone you know.

Bishop you always come with a much needed word. I hope this message blesses others like it has blessed me. I will definitely share.

I am crying because you are right.

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Facts!!! That’s an idol. Unholy fake counterfeit…Ladies free urself from lust that is not love. You’re doing to much. Go to God cool off.

I learned so much from you sir Pastor Blakes. Thank you so much.. You like a father figure to me. 👍🙂 God Bless. ♥️🙏

Bishop you walking heavy 🔥 so many need to hear this and I will be sharing

I’m doing a 90 day vegan diet and decided to get some healing and retouch up on my fathers and daughter talks

My husband said he loves the messages he wants more messages for the men