I find my OCD floats between subject matter...harm...real life event...contamination...relationship. I find the worst subject to be the one that my mind is locked on to at the time!

Thank you for this info and encouragement

This is one of my main obsessions I deal with it alot regarding my fiance. But it doesn't stop there. It attacks my kids too that is where I struggle to accept, I love my boys with every fiber of my being, but OCD tries to convince me otherwise. This is the hard one that makes me nauseous, sad, depressed, guilty.

Great

What i dont get is by let say contaminnation ocd youre hands arent really dirty but by relationships who could tell you what is a good realtionship and then it becomes rocd?

I feel like my partner is getting exhausted because of my rocd. I also feel that I stop him from expressing himself and tell my the truth because my rocd gets triggered with specific stuff and then I feel compelled to leave the relationship.

Plz make a video on leaving your current partner and going back to ur ex even if u knoe thats not what u want.

But if I’ve accepted I don’t NEED the relationship, but I WANT the relationship- how is this still not relieving the OCD thoughts? They’re so strong of ‘I don’t want this’ but I really believe it would be terrible mistake to leave the relationship because it’s healthy, safe and caring. Is love really a choice?