Rupert's Nursery Tour // Jessie & Claud [AD] [CC]
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@impishDullahan 2 жыл бұрын
Little dude has more clothes than I do and he's only been on this earth since 2 laundry cycles ago.
@mcwjes 2 жыл бұрын
I really like the idea of measuring time by laundry cycles! Brilliant!
@anjakeller6612 2 жыл бұрын
Mine had that too because they puked everywhere every 5 seconds, their laindry cycles lasted 3 days 😂
@ms_ch 2 жыл бұрын
HAUAHUAHAHAHA THE TIME COUNT Laundry cycles for babies are like 2~3 days tops. The relativity of time!
@denisecunha7326 2 жыл бұрын
Same lol but it's Jessica's kid. I just wouldn't expect it to be different
@Luubelaar 2 жыл бұрын
@@anjakeller6612 - I remember this stage well. My kid was a puker. Every piece of his clothing and most of mine, had been puked (or pooped) on by the time he was a few weeks old.
@myahodson8742 2 жыл бұрын
“I was aiming for straight but it got gayer and gayer” - Jessica, but also me throughout my teenage years
@justk4929 2 жыл бұрын
I read all of that in Jessica’s voice!
@VintageRose_05 2 жыл бұрын
Me too.... Still getting gayer
@carameldare 2 жыл бұрын
My life story as a bisexual who didn't realize it until 22. When i was like OH.
@austenmidland7034 2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@augustviolin 2 жыл бұрын
lmaooo so true ... just @ me next time 🤦♀️
@TheItGirlQ 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like those bamboo diapers not being called “bumboo” was a missed opportunity 😂
@whyamigae9666 2 жыл бұрын
Okay, I’m a business student and I love making funny puns with products, especially when my lecturer asks us to make a business up so we can use it for a lesson or two. Is there a market for pun products like “bumboo”? If there is I will continuously find marketing things and make puns out of them. Plus I’m curious. A recent one is about juice and it said “say goodbye to juice” on the way home I turned to my mam and said “and say hello to diarrhoea” but yeh, I’m a dirty minded tramp, I’m proud, thank you.
@scofieldvictoria 2 жыл бұрын
@@whyamigae9666 There’s always room for more puns in business
@hamilcross 2 жыл бұрын
@@whyamigae9666 …. okay granny time for your nap
@jackriver8385 2 жыл бұрын
@@whyamigae9666 I usually use cloth diapers and a lot of those have puns in them, it's great!
@lxlamayw 2 жыл бұрын
bumboo is a bamboo toilet paper roll
@annaannarasumanara4444 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I'm so happy just to see a gay couple that doesn't have to hide their relationships and can have a baby together, this is such a beautiful thing that all couples in the world should be able to do. I really hope that someday my gay friends and all gay people in my country will have this right.
@elianna_ecc 2 жыл бұрын
@hamilcross 2 жыл бұрын
anna said gay rights!!!! lol but you’re right it’s very refreshing to see
@damnthatscrazy4426 2 жыл бұрын
I didn’t even know she was gay
@elianna_ecc 2 жыл бұрын
@@damnthatscrazy4426 the video is her and her wife...
@damnthatscrazy4426 2 жыл бұрын
@@elianna_ecc no shit Sherlock. I was just saying I didn’t know since I usually come and go with her content
@kaylynnsadler8783 2 жыл бұрын
Like the room is cool and all, but can we talk about how absolutely thrilled Jess is? This is so cute.
@perpetuallyconfused6608 2 жыл бұрын
Right? Her excitement was infectious and adorable
@andrea_kate_ 2 жыл бұрын
like she's usually cheery and bubbly but this is next level. I'm so happy for her and Claudia. And jealous of Rupert for having two such amazing parents.
@albuszx 2 жыл бұрын
This video is 20 minutes of Jess being "guys my dreams came true!!!!!" so lovely and uplifting
@daniellepaquin1527 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, I noticed too. She's positivity glowing and it's making my day for real! Aww I'm so happy for you both. Y'all are such great mommies already. ❤️❤️❤️
@rachaelnicholson1811 2 жыл бұрын
yesss she was like a kid in a candy shop bless her it's so cute
@ArtemisScribe 2 жыл бұрын
7:07 Yes Jessica you *do* have baby hormones! Recent studies have show that parents who don't experience pregnancy do still experience significant changes to their hormones and brain pattern activity if they are heavily involved with baby's care! This is found consistently regardless of gender or genetic relation to the child! The only thing that matters is that they are involved with baby!
@rosalielangmod6244 2 жыл бұрын
I definitely had baby hormones whenever I held a baby, both before and after I had my own bubs.
@carelsby 2 жыл бұрын
Thats one of the things I love about human biology! I also like how a lot of hospitals are allowing skin-to-skin contact with the non-birthing parent right after the birth as well as the birthing parent. I think its just amazing how connected we can be to our babies!
@rosalielangmod6244 2 жыл бұрын
@@carelsby Yeah, we had our third in a birthing center and hubby was shocked to be advised to do skin to skin with the baby. He was like, "Wait, I thought that was just for mamas." lol
@ArtemisScribe 2 жыл бұрын
@@rosalielangmod6244 I know three dads who've actually got to do skin to skin before mum this year. They're getting real hot on making sure the non-carrying parent is as involved as possible.
@SteviiLove 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! Human bodies are so remarkable!
@andie83 2 жыл бұрын
I love the floor mattress! A friend of mine didn't bother with a toddler bed, just got a full single mattress and went from cot to mattress on the floor, it was genius! Kiddo didn't hurt himself if he rolled out and it was low enough for him to get in and out himself without any struggle, plus enough room for an adult to lay with him and read at night without the adult being squished in. It was perfect!
@TheCowbiscuit 2 жыл бұрын
I'd never thought of it before but it makes so much sense, especially as the mattress can be used for when they grow up and need a bed
@andie83 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheCowbiscuit That was their thinking, not to bother with a toddler bed for a year or so and go straight to full single. He has a frame now he's older. It was a great kid party trampoline for a while though 🤣
@Sparrow-lh9qk 2 жыл бұрын
We were planning on being moved out of our 2 bedroom by now back when I got pregnant. Then Covid hit and jobs were lost, so that's reset by a couple years. So we got a bunk bed for our daughter's room. Baby's a year old now. He's sleeping in our room with us until he climbs out of the crib, then he's moving into the lower bunk (totally legal in my state for opposite sex siblings to share a room) with those protector things so he doesn't roll out. Not ideal, but best we can do until we have a savings and job history again.
@Becbullaney 2 жыл бұрын
@@Sparrow-lh9qk are there states where thats not legal???
@Sparrow-lh9qk 2 жыл бұрын
@@Becbullaney yup. It's WEIRD to me. As long as everyone has their own bed, it shouldn't matter. But in a mom group I was a part of a few years ago, if CPS was involved (say the angry ex reported them for something they KNEW was untrue just to mess with them, even), they'd make the parent(s) either get a bigger apartment that they couldn't afford because they were experiencing financial hardship, or give up their room and move their bed to the living room so each opposite sex siblings would have their own room. And these were little kids, too, not teenagers. It's reportable, too, so if the teachers at school found out the kids share a room and are of opposite sexes, they're apparently supposed to report the family. In my state, so long as each kid has their own bed and everyone is comfortable with the arrangement, there's no issue, even if you have four kids sharing a room with two bunk beds. We understand things happen and the ideal situation isn't always possible.
@Brittanni 2 жыл бұрын
"He's not in the room and I miss him" is the cutest thing
@abib6532 2 жыл бұрын
Ruperts little baby sounds filled me with pure joy, it’s the best sound ever
@nonniperkl6273 2 жыл бұрын
Same and I hate kids. Or maybe they are cool ones I get my drives licence and don’t use the bus anymore
@HOHNancy 2 жыл бұрын
Same 🙂
@seekingabsolution1907 2 жыл бұрын
Mmmmmh very good sounds, they tell me there is still learning to be done and life to be lived.
@TheRenwmn 2 жыл бұрын
After watching the video I had to go back and find when he was really vocal again. For those also searching it is 1:36 - kzfaq.info/get/bejne/fbVmZaR1uq7YmIk.html
@emilybarclay8831 2 жыл бұрын
I love when parents with a young baby make vids with the baby in it because they choose the most random points to interject with their baby opinions and I adore it
@livsterlove5681 2 жыл бұрын
Please post some of these famous Rupert facial expressions. And maybe a video about the developmental Montessori playtime. I’m really curious.
@katherinemorelle7115 2 жыл бұрын
@@livsterlove5681 I’m fairly sure they’ve decided not to put Rupert’s face on the internet. The back of his head is fine, but they’re keeping his face out of all videos and pictures.
@kathleenlajeunesse1694 2 жыл бұрын
@@katherinemorelle7115 not that they don’t want to show the world their beautiful child, but because they chose to wait until he’s old enough to actually consent to show his face
@sarakrauss2407 2 жыл бұрын
Rupert's well timed commentary is the sweetest thing I've heard. Thank you for sharing your adorable little boy with us!!
@livevikarisly 2 жыл бұрын
Nothing in my entire life has ever been as organized as that cupboard.
@theincredibleknuffibar4834 2 жыл бұрын
I feel that, painfully so
@logo9470 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh…Yes!
@missserenity1090 2 жыл бұрын
I was like “Can I have her organization skills and her motivation to actually do it?”
@conlon4332 3 ай бұрын
Yes! Exactly the same for me! I want a cupboard like that!
@noush3892 2 жыл бұрын
Petition for Jessica to make a full video about how much she likes the changing table
@denisecunha7326 2 жыл бұрын
Yess. I would definitely watch it!
@ChrisCaramia 2 жыл бұрын
£400 off?! Good gravy, how much was it to begin with?!
@HeyRowanEllis 2 жыл бұрын
the cupboard is ICONIC 😭
@graceygal2664 2 жыл бұрын
Of course rowan is here
@derkarlotto 2 жыл бұрын
KZfaq is a village...
@Jess-3 2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree! It’s Jessica written all over in there🥺 I love it😍😍
@mailyak442 2 жыл бұрын
ROWAN?! 😍
@katherinemorelle7115 2 жыл бұрын
It’s most definitely what I would call “organisation porn”. So satisfying!
@erinhowett3630 2 жыл бұрын
As an American, can confirm nursery means the same thing here. It's also a place you can buy plants!
@itme999 2 жыл бұрын
Am also American and would understand that use of "nursery" for a daycare/nursery school but would probably just say "daycare"
@Emily_J 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah same, I'm in the upper midwest and up here nursery means either your baby's room or a place to buy plants and trees. A childcare place would be a daycare.
@KikyoNiwa7 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! But I think nursery is what we call it before baby is sleeping overnight in it? I'm Latina and my husband is white. My daughter's paternal grandmother called it a nursery until we switched her to sleeping in the room. Then it was the baby's room. Someone tell me if they experienced/did this too!
@beatm6948 2 жыл бұрын
@@itme999 I'd interpret nursery as like newborns till 2 years old, and daycare as Pre-K children
@elliot4247 2 жыл бұрын
Confirmed here, from the midwest
@FarAway5319 2 жыл бұрын
Claudia “Jessica can’t move her eyebrows because they’re not real and she has Botox in her face.” Me: 😂😂😂😭😭
@bibliophilecb 2 жыл бұрын
It’s the same energy as that time Claudia did Jessica’s makeup and kept roasting her bone structure. I love their good-natured teasing so much 🥰😂
@_hunnybe 2 жыл бұрын
Someone named Pandora gave you a box?! Couldn't be more perfect
@maeikaa4427 2 жыл бұрын
Especially with Jessica obviously being a Disney Princess, whatever curse Pandora's box had would be instantly cancelled :)
@undercoverfangirl5491 Жыл бұрын
It’s be even more perfect if Pandora had given them a jar.
@fish-fingers_and_custard7685 2 жыл бұрын
Sign songs!!! I'm a Speech Therapy student and recently found out that when babies learn sign from birth, they babble in sign language!! So cute :)
@junkmalme 2 жыл бұрын
My husband and I are both hearing, but made the choice to teach our children signs from birth in hopes they could communicate before speech developed. It helped so much, and decreased some of the frustration of being a small one without language! It was especially useful with our autistic son whose speech was delayed. Also, it's the cutest to see baby babble signs.
@fish-fingers_and_custard7685 2 жыл бұрын
@@junkmalme that's so interesting! Wishing you and your family the best :)
@catdragon2584 2 жыл бұрын
@@junkmalme my brother’s family and my best friend’s family did the same thing when they had their babies! It’s both adorable and incredibly helpful for communication!
@minwellitsanicknamebegrate2531 2 жыл бұрын
My step brother’s daughter learned to sign before she started talking for a short time they were worried because she refused to speak or vocalize and preferred to sign. But she just didn’t like noise and was a quiet baby / kid.
@junkmalme 2 жыл бұрын
@@minwellitsanicknamebegrate2531 I have a friend with a toddler in a similar situation. His ST has determined he will start talking when it suits him. :)
@04a-q19 2 жыл бұрын
I want to let you know that you three are such an inspiration and as a young lesbian you really give me hope for my future and make me feel so accepted
@saragarofano6471 2 жыл бұрын
!
@iloveusomuchitsnotevenfunn8438 2 жыл бұрын
Same!!
@ufoesferico1050 2 жыл бұрын
Same💕
@teganholden9678 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@sarahmorley1031 2 жыл бұрын
❤
@paradisefound3536 2 жыл бұрын
I love that Rupert can watch this when he's all grown up and see how much his beautiful mums loved him from day 1.
@MollyWAnne 2 жыл бұрын
I love that you mentioned how noisy newborns are when they sleep. No one told me that, and I was up all the time checking on my daughter to make sure her noises were "normal." Will remember that for next time around.
@cheesecakelasagna 2 жыл бұрын
Not to the same level as human parenting because I'm too young and unprepared to be one, but I felt that thing with my family's first ever kitten in a decade+ long of just dogs. I wasn't sure about the meaning of his response so I embarrassingly stress-sleep myself and would bug about my parents to go to the vet or something.
@alton791 2 жыл бұрын
& when they start moving around in the bed while sleeping with others (adults), it’s foot in the eye, fist in the mouth, sleeping sideways, kicking or punching the kidneys. Once they start moving in their sleep, it seems like they don’t stop.
@lisabscreativeworld9238 2 жыл бұрын
Is it even possible that Claud is more beautiful than ever?? Motherhood suits you both!
@OftenEllinor 2 жыл бұрын
I've noticed how lovely my friends and such look after having their babies. Like, motherhood just can make someone looks so beautiful! Even if they don't feel beautiful and even if they're not all made up, they're just glowing.
@Dreymasmith 2 жыл бұрын
Everyone has advice, all the time. Go with your instincts, he's your baby and it's your lives. You will know him best, if you have concerns don't let anyone brush them off, if you think he's fine don't let anyone panic you. Congratulations to you both.
@mklaebel 2 жыл бұрын
This. I always just say to trust your gut. You know yourself and your baby best.
@5Seed 2 жыл бұрын
My doctor always said that 'you' (mum or dad) spend 24 hours a day with your baby and you know your baby way more than anyone else. Trust yourself.
@xxxxblackorcidxxxx 2 жыл бұрын
This!!! As a mum the only thing i can offer advice wise is, don't listen to all the advice and suggestions of other parents. Every baby is different and you know your baby best. Go with your guts and don't let anyone brush your worries off or tell you something is off, wrong or odd about your baby if you know its not the case. Have confidence in your instincts they will always steer you true. Congratulations on your beautiful bundle of joy! 🥰
@bridgetthewench 2 жыл бұрын
For my mom, it started with the nurses in the hospital. They got impatient when she waited until I was sleeping so she could eat slowly, and they told her "you'll have to learn to eat faster than that!" She had it figured out pretty well and did not, in fact, need to learn how to eat faster.
@Nick-dx2pt 2 жыл бұрын
Heya! I read this article a long time ago and I find it really awesome and informative so if anyone here wants to know if maternal instinct is only for mother's then please read this article :) ♥️ www.nationalgeographic.com/science/article/mothers-day-2018-maternal-instinct-oxytocin-babies-science?cmpid=int_org=ngp::int_mc=website::int_src=ngp::int_cmp=amp::int_add=amp_readtherest
@nekkidnora 2 жыл бұрын
Oh gooood, the unsolicited 'help'- my sister was breastfeeding at a bus stop, years ago, and some stranger swooped in, grabbed the baby blanket from the stroller and covered them- literally just placed it over my sister and the baby like this was a normal thing to do? My sister lost her temper pretty bad. Madness. I mean, cover if you want, but don't just... touch another woman's things/body/baby! Rupert having his own little puppy- my niece had a stuffed ferret, and I had a little pet rat finger puppet for my girls, and both were incredibly useful in teaching the kids to be gentle.
@recoveringcatholic554 2 жыл бұрын
As a disabled woman who wants to be a mom someday, I was hoping to see what you might do for accommodations in places like the nursery and I am not disappointed! This looks like it would be really helpful for me too, so thank you for showing us. Also, again, congratulations on having your little one and I'm glad all seem to be recovering/adjusting well!
@Thelmageddon 2 жыл бұрын
I would add that setting up a changing area on the floor or low to the floor can be useful. I'm not disabled, but still found handling wriggly babies during nappy changing high up from the floor was sometimes alarming! My first born managed to roll off the table aged 4m while I was trying to put her nappy in the bin. Had to visit hospital to get her head checked! (She was fine.)
@recoveringcatholic554 2 жыл бұрын
@@Thelmageddon oooooo nice! Thank you!
@b2h316 2 жыл бұрын
To be fair to Jessica, if there were any Quaker parenting philosophy is they would basically be Montessori. It makes sense that it resonates with her so much because it treats children like whole humans not as inferior or incomplete
@greatmarloes 2 жыл бұрын
Preach! It always bothered me so much when adults didnt take anything I said seriously just because I was a child. No wonder I struggle with self expression
@hjmclark 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@Lillith. 2 жыл бұрын
I really liked Montessori because it's not as much an adult instructing a child on what to do as it is a child's experience with an adult guiding them to becoming adults. Dalton is another way to look at it, that's more of a problem solving approach and structure. I think both have their strengths and depending on the child one may be better than the other. Both are big on treating a child as a person instead of something less.
@OddlyElly 2 жыл бұрын
So good for growing little humans exploring the world to know they are just as much a person as an adult. I was homeschooled till I was 10yo and my family NEVER called children "children", if that makes sense?? We were always "small people" or "little humans." We were included in discussions about politics and world issues and encouraged to voice our opinions, too. Being taken seriously as a child and having my opinion valued no matter how much exposure to a topic I had was brilliant. We weren't taught to blindly listen to and believe "authority figures" like teachers without proof - which often led to my parents having to call or come into school to back us up when we called a teacher out for being wrong about something 🤣 critical thinking skills are essential life skills, not university level education
@Lisa_Flowers 2 жыл бұрын
Imagine getting a religious upbringing that values your agency and ability to critically think and sees you as a whole person instead of inferior and incomplete and wrong from birth. Cannot relate lmao. I'm glad this baby has these parents, and people raise their kids this way!
@rae6390 2 жыл бұрын
My parents neglected/abused me so I grew up with the "understanding" that children are nothing more than a burden, and not at all a source of joy. Seeing you put so much care, thought, and attention into your baby has been so healing ❤️
@mcgonagallerys 2 жыл бұрын
Same but in my case I get more depressed or jealous lol Or I think that I will never be able to have kids and take care of them well enough because of how my parents fucked me up
@kaitlynkotter1111 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry you were not treated the way you deserved to be, you were never a burden children are a beautiful gift. Every child needs parents but not every parent deserves a child. I wish you much love on your journey to healing!❤️❤️
@MissBee13 2 жыл бұрын
oh god that’s awful. I’m a stranger, but you are loved.
@gingersal8052 2 жыл бұрын
Big virtual hug coming your way
@theloneghost02 2 жыл бұрын
Same but the thought of having kids fills me with so much anxiety 😅
@CowTowniGirl 2 жыл бұрын
My goodness, to everyone who is opposed to same sex adoption ecc. I recommend this video of obviously wonderful mothers whose baby is absolutely lucky. Heartfelt congratulations and all the best for you!!
@ahhh4117 2 жыл бұрын
People always have debates about the ethics of adopting vs surrogacy, when in reality its just cool people want to have kids at all edit: just realized you may mean something different. . . Do you mean LGBT folk as parents?
@CowTowniGirl 2 жыл бұрын
@@ahhh4117 ah yes! I was unaware there is a debate, I mean LGTBQ parenthood.
@andreil1313 2 жыл бұрын
@@ahhh4117 I’m not against surrogacy per se, but I can understand the issues that comes with it on an ethical level for example. About gay parents, there’s plenty of studies that states that they perfectly suited to be parents. So I don’t really understand how people can still have a problem with it.
@alton791 2 жыл бұрын
Because it’s not a “traditional couple” of a man & a woman or husband & wife. I don’t have to agree with another person’s lifestyle or life choices to know they’re either an adult or someone else’s child. Just like a nose (word choice intended), everyone has an opinion. I’m not in a position of authority, such as judge or politician, who am I to judge others?
@xxxashx0 2 жыл бұрын
@@andreil1313 homophobia
@whitney3258 2 жыл бұрын
My husband says our daughter has "advanced baby moves," literally anytime she does anything lol. It's sweet 🥰
@birddogcroissant 2 жыл бұрын
omg, Claudia's little rant about being overwhelmed by the number of toys made me feel SO SEEN.
@A1exBOfficial 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! I have the exact same thing with soft toys as her. Now nearly all mine are in a box because they didn't have a place in my new home :( and I don't want my baby's toys to get out of hand and then discarded.
@minwellitsanicknamebegrate2531 2 жыл бұрын
I would feel bad when I had to make my bed I always felt bad for the two that would end up on the end of the line. I always debated who was emotionally the strongest and wouldn’t feel sad about being on the end but no matter how I thought about it I would feel bad for the two who were on the ends. Because in my mind they were going to get cold and think I didn’t like them.
@nutkja 2 жыл бұрын
SAME! I think this is a common phenomena for people our age who grew up in middle/upper-middle class families. Our parents grew up in lower class families and had very few toys as kids so getting their kids more toys was a bit of childhood wish fulfillment for them. And then the mass consumerism of the 80's-00's meant that we got lots and lots of relatively cheap toys. But we still loved all our toys and had a difficult time letting them go so we ended up hoarding them. My dad always calls us the "Toy Story Generation" because the movie made us feel guilty about getting rid of our toys.
@minwellitsanicknamebegrate2531 2 жыл бұрын
@@nutkja hehe I didn’t see those movies until I was much older and didn’t have an attachment to my toys. But I did feel bad about all the toys that had gotten destroyed by my dogs I was really glad they weren’t alive. I was really only sentimental about my stuffed animals so I put my other toys through hell.
@ankherin4360 2 жыл бұрын
I know right ! Still today as an adult I have a BIG weakness with soft toys. I feel bad that I don't have room for all of them, and so afraid that they could get sad not having as many cuddles as the others ^^' I'd wish for my child to have a few but not too many, so that they're all very special without any guilt :D And maybe once he's an adult he'll complain that he was sad because he didn't have as many as he wishes XD
@clareevans4229 2 жыл бұрын
I would be so interested to hear about how you are managing your chronic fatigue with a newborn! I am terrified that I will just be useless with a newborn and sleepless nights!
@phyllojoe5346 2 жыл бұрын
Seconded! I know you have planned to do a response to your disabled parenting fears a year out, but a smaller video on what it was like to have a newborn with chronic fatigue would also be cool! Especially since I have heard that the first 3 months is its own beast with fatigue because baby doesn't have a circadian rhythm or a bigger stomach. On that note, you're already halfway through the hardest part of having an infant, so keep it up! You got this!
@Rocklicker1991 2 жыл бұрын
Thirded! This is the thing that terrifies me the most.
@rosalyngummer6587 2 жыл бұрын
I had newborn twins with chronic fatigue (it was miserable despite my efforts) and my favorite items that helped me the most were the Snoo (senses when they’re fussy or stirring and helps them return to sleep), the Baby Brezza (it brews formula on a set timer like a coffee pot), a mini fridge for extra bottles in the bedroom so I didn’t have to get out of bed, and also the Owlet monitor for peace of mind because I kept feeling scared they weren’t okay. Also meal prepping and buying ready made meals so I didn’t have to spend time cooking was a huge plus and probably the biggest thing is not being afraid to ask for help!
@brendasnow8255 2 жыл бұрын
@@rosalyngummer6587 And you can rent a Snoo.
@rosalyngummer6587 2 жыл бұрын
@@brendasnow8255 yes that’s what we did! We rented it for 6 months and it was very clean and in great condition, which we were worried about at first because my immune system is terrible.
@kadeisstuck8802 2 жыл бұрын
I can imagine jessica panicking when Rupert gets hurts and Claudia being like *"he just bumped his elbow, he's ok."* lol Rupert has amazing mothers
@hannahkozlovic1715 2 жыл бұрын
Depending on the context, “nursery” can mean a baby’s room, a daycare type thing, or a place where you can go buy plants. English is just.... wonderful
@DawnBurn 2 жыл бұрын
I love Claudia's straight forward "BE NICE ABOUT THE NURSERY" and caretaking Jess through unsolicited advice.
@tarinacj03 2 жыл бұрын
Talking about how how the floor model is more accessible to you is so important. A lot of people think Montessori is something that is expensive and only for a certain type of family but in reality it was a parenting style developed to be accessible to low income and disabled parents!
@livemoller792 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!! Maria Montessori’s ideas came from her experience educating disabled children! It really isn’t more economically inaccessible than other ways. At is core Montessori is about not underestimating children, and making their surroundings safe and calm!
@MELLMAO 2 жыл бұрын
As soon as my parents moved everything on the floor, it was so much easier for them and for me
@cheesecakelasagna 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, in my country Montessori name drop has the reputation of being a rich kid/rich parent thing, and therefore most don't even bother to research them past their reputation because private schools basically claimed the term in their name even! We're actually barely maintaining middle class even though my sisters and I grew up in Catholic private schools from various cities (we moved a lot), my parents just was adamant about not going public. But I wish they discovered the Montessori concept, now it's too awkward to bring up discussion about my issues pertaining lack of structure or guide in life.
@tarinacj03 2 жыл бұрын
@@livemoller792 exactly! Allowing children to develop independence in a safe environment from an early age has no price tag! In fact most children in low income families or who have parents with disabilities are already learning a lot of these skills they just don't always have the ideal set up or language around it.
@tarinacj03 2 жыл бұрын
@@cheesecakelasagna Right! I'm in the US and the social double standard is wild too. If you attach the name Montessori to something not only does it increase the price but it also makes it seem more socially exceptional. Saying "We use a Montessori floor bed" is viewed way differently than "Its easier for us to just let the baby sleep on a mattress on the floor". I think Montessori methods need to be made so much more available to the people who could really benefit from it
@morgandiaz6822 2 жыл бұрын
I love how soft Jessica's voice is vs her Laugh 😂
@Jadyn_Sage 2 жыл бұрын
In Canada, "nursery" could mean one, some or all of the following things: -the room where a baby/young child sleeps and/or is cared for -a place a young child goes to be cared for by adults other than their parents (to be fair, this is generally called nursery school) -a place to buy young plants/seeds (and often other gardening accessories) Only some disposable diapers have a scent, you can get one that are unscented (I worked in a daycare for 8 years with infants & toddlers, lots of diapers lol)
@yourinnerlawyer4035 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, just like the rest of the English speaking parts of the world lol.
@Jadyn_Sage 2 жыл бұрын
@@yourinnerlawyer4035 Not necessarily. Alot of places don't use the term nursery for a place where plants are grown, that's often called a garden centre
@hannahk1306 2 жыл бұрын
In the UK, the plant nursery is typically where the plants are grown, but you buy them from the garden centre (which may have its own nursery).
@maeahem 2 жыл бұрын
I’m from Nigeria, (UK English) and I’ve always understood nursery to mean all three 🤷🏾♀️ that is, room/place for young lifeforms (animal & plant) to be taken care of. And yes nursery (school) is synonymous with all preprimary education for us as well 😅
@adavid2548 2 жыл бұрын
Where I live nursey is mostly for plants. the 2nd definition is a daycare or preschool. And the first definition sounds old timey, we would just say "the baby's room" We would understand the word nursery - but we dont use it ever.
@gayliljaehyun 2 жыл бұрын
me: i don’t want children me when other lesbians have children: this is everything i’ve ever wanted
@XSemperIdem5 2 жыл бұрын
Yup. I have always known I never wanted children. I'm not even a kids type of person in general. But when I watched there journey to becoming pregnant, I literally cried when Jess did. And I'm so here for all the baby content. (Never thought I'd say that.)
@navyblue9355 2 жыл бұрын
I always thought I didn't want to get married and have kids, now I realize I just don't want to be physically pregnant or have a husband!
@GreenGiant96 2 жыл бұрын
@@navyblue9355 Same!
@gingersal8052 2 жыл бұрын
Same! I'm bi, and know for sure I wouldn't want to be pregnant. But I would absolutely consider having children in a relationship with a woman, if she'd want to carry them.
@fallwitch 2 жыл бұрын
We have three (lesbian couple) and it's been a dream. They are all off to Uni now. Just seems like yesterday they were in nappies.
@omiai 2 жыл бұрын
you know what, i'm not a child person. i've never been interested in kids, never wanted kids, but because Jess and Claud are just the most delightful, lovely couple, i've been really enjoying their journey and hearing about their little family
@xzonia1 2 жыл бұрын
Same. I'm very happy for them and appreciate them sharing their joy. :)
@sarahfjohnson542 2 жыл бұрын
Same same same! Kids are not for me, sometimes even my lil nephews stress me, but this lil fam is just sooo precious
@Nick-dx2pt 2 жыл бұрын
Heya! I read this article a long time ago and I find it really awesome and informative so if anyone here wants to know if maternal instinct is only for mother's then please read this article :) ♥️ www.nationalgeographic.com/science/article/mothers-day-2018-maternal-instinct-oxytocin-babies-science?cmpid=int_org=ngp::int_mc=website::int_src=ngp::int_cmp=amp::int_add=amp_readtherest
@MelinEvie 2 жыл бұрын
Same for me
@yukiandkanamekuran 2 жыл бұрын
The only unsolicited baby advice i have, and the only one I'd fight people on, is to be kind to your baby and treat them like a little person. Sure, they're very bad at communicating, but they're just a little person. It's really sad to see people take their anger out on children or neglect their needs because they don't see them as someone they need to treat with respect. I doubt Jessica and Claudia would ever be so evil or controlling. But as someone with childhood trauma, children need respect, they do. And adults need to be the one to give them that respect because they don't know how to tell others to. The only unsolicited advice I'll ever give. Babies are just little people, not dolls or toys or things you own.
@whytho8856 2 жыл бұрын
this is the only acceptable unsolicited advice
@yukiandkanamekuran 2 жыл бұрын
@@whytho8856 cbxhgjvnvnbncnvn thank u qwq !! Parents need to treat their children with respect aaaaa
@whytho8856 2 жыл бұрын
@@yukiandkanamekuran yes, they really do!
@yeti6601 2 жыл бұрын
wise words
@yukiandkanamekuran 2 жыл бұрын
@@yeti6601 thank u! It's important for a child's development to treat them as if they're a person that needs to be taken care of. Like no neglect, but no condescension. They are in need of unconditional love as well as parents who apologize for their mistakes and don't try to blame the child. In need of someone who lifts them up and helps them grow. It should be obvious, but there's a lot of parents out there who limit their child and try to control them. It should be the right thing to do but a lot of children grow up having to raise themselves.
@Carol-Bell 2 жыл бұрын
The nursery has a very calm, peaceful feeling about it. The tree is gorgeous. And that the changing table can become a dresser, is wonderful and actually genius.I love those drawers in the closet too. I know you have things planned out for activities and to help his development- just don’t be surprised if you need to change things as you go, and don’t feel like a failure if something you planned turns out not to work at all. We all learn as we go. The end goal is to raise him up to be a good, responsible adult with a good moral compass, is ethical, respectful of others, a good citizen, and can and does take care of himself when he grows up. But it’s one little step at a time over many years, a lot of it involving getting to know him and his needs and talents. About unsolicited advice: it happens. I was 22 and looked 17 when I had my first child, and I had SO many old ladies give me funny looks or tell me I needed to put shoes on him in summer (in Southern California). One lady was giving a very disdainful look, until I told her “I’m 22 and married”. Most of the time it’s best to just give a patronizing smile and say thank you. 😊
@jeroylenkins1745 2 жыл бұрын
It seemed a bit empty to me. Or maybe my kids were just really busy.
@Struudeli 2 жыл бұрын
Fun fact! Both parents do get a ton of good hormones when getting a baby, not just the pregnant person. So yep, Jessica is full on baby hormones!
@hi-ve1cw 2 жыл бұрын
How does that work? How does the body know you're a new parent if you haven't birthed the child yourself? I've always wondered that
@amemelia 2 жыл бұрын
@@hi-ve1cw i assume from sounds (in and out womb) and familiarity like smells and touch. Human body is fascinating
@hi-ve1cw 2 жыл бұрын
@@amemelia isn't that just for the baby though? How does Jessica's body know she's a new parent, so to give her good hormones like OP said?
@Struudeli 2 жыл бұрын
@@hi-ve1cw You _know_ you are a parent. It's the amazing thing with sentient brains, knowing something is enough for it to affect you physically. Also touch, smell, noises and interaction. Hugging anyone releases hormones that make you feel good, but being close to your own child is very important for the development of the baby so our bodies have evolved to love the babies as the outcome for babies with a lot of interaction is the best one. It's amazingly interesting and involves biology, psychology and evolution. There's a great documentary series in Netflix (at least in Finland) called "Babies" that talks about research done about this.
@nittygritty7034 2 жыл бұрын
@@hi-ve1cw men have been known to lactate when their wives are pregnant. It's rare, though.
@novelninja1843 2 жыл бұрын
Winnie the Pooh has a friend that’s called Roo right? Kinda sounds like a short version of Rupert’s name. Maybe you can get him a kangaroo toy? That would be soo cute.
@stacysimons1323 2 жыл бұрын
Kanga the Kangaroo and her child was named Roo
@novelninja1843 2 жыл бұрын
@@stacysimons1323 yeah but Roo’s a kangaroo too right?
@mydogeatspuke 2 жыл бұрын
@@novelninja1843 yes the child of the kangaroo is also a kangaroo.
@sonyafair2411 2 жыл бұрын
Well.... a baby kangaroo is actually a joey... burr they are still kangaroos. 🙂
@mydogeatspuke 2 жыл бұрын
@@sonyafair2411 a joey isn't a different kind of animal though, it's just the kangaroo equivalent of "child." Presumably you wouldn't also attempt to correct someone for referring to a human infant simply as a human with "actually, that's a child."
@yanaguadalupecarabajal6841 2 жыл бұрын
Jessica laughing hysterically like a psycho about her precious vintage finds is such a mood. I feel very represented!
@lalalouroux 2 жыл бұрын
trying not to cry tears of happiness because of rupert's little closet with his little clothes
@erinkay7080 2 жыл бұрын
I love the wallpaper tree mural, I can't believe it's not painted. Also, the entire nursery is lovely.
@potat_ohs 2 жыл бұрын
"Having a newborn in your room is like having a farm animal with you." Omg that is an amazing quote.
@taylordawn4492 2 жыл бұрын
So the chemistry between you two (J & C) is so different from what we have witness as viewers so far! And psychologically speaking, it’s AMAZING. you ladies are THRIVING as new mums and interacting in such an amazing way, I can’t wait to see more of your lives in this new venture 🖤🖤🖤
@M00s3r 2 жыл бұрын
Can I be your kid? A magical, thoughtful childhood is in store for Rupert!
@skylarjohnson7779 2 жыл бұрын
"it got gayer and gayer" that's just Jessie's whole life. You two are literally radiating happiness and he is so cute, I want to reach through the screen and snuggle him.
@maddinar6727 2 жыл бұрын
I love how unapologetically enthusiatic you are about everything regarding Rupert. It is amazing to watch. Please don't hold back with your joy.
@maike__- 2 жыл бұрын
Right? I love seeing them be so excited 🙈 they have been waiting for this for so long 💜🌈
@IWantToRideMyBike 2 жыл бұрын
A lot of people didn’t understand why I had everything within her reach and baby proofed as an older mom with EDS. I see you get it. When it’s like that, you can just stay on the floor and not have to get up and down. As they get older, you also don’t have to chase them around because everything they have access to is a “yes space”. We just keep expanding the yes space as she gets older.
@KiraNightshade 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly I think it's a marvelous idea in general.
@danielsykes7558 2 жыл бұрын
Jessie, you do have baby hormones. There's good research that heterosexual fathers' (cis & trans) brains change after a new baby and that there's a hormone cascade triggering that transformation. Interestingly in most traditionally heteronormative heterosexual couples, new mothers and new fathers have their brains diverge as they adapt to life with a baby, but with homosexual couples and non-traditional parenting arrangements, both transformations actually happen to both parents' brains. This means that yes, both of your brains are rewiring, because both of you have new mother hormones.
@mockingjay478 2 жыл бұрын
Something about your wording of fathers in this feels off to me. I doubt that trans men were included in the study, so it would actually be research that shows cis men in a relationship with cis women. That's important. If trans folks aren't being included in the study, don't add us in when referencing it, as it adds to false information. Keep in mind that trans men can and often do carry the baby, even in a relationship with a cis woman. Your comment is worded as if they don't and it's not the greatest feeling as a trans man myself, tbh. (I'm gay.) It also totally excludes every father who is not heterosexual and still is raising a new baby. It excludes couples where two men have adopted a newborn or had a surrogate carry their baby.
@mockingjay478 2 жыл бұрын
I'd probably word it like this: Research shows that cis men in a relationship with cis women experience hormonal changes. This also happens in adoptive couples and where a surrogate has been used. (Including MLM* couples.) In general, non-birthing parents have been shown to experience hormonal changes and it's quite normal. *MLM here meaning men who love men. (MLM is much more inclusive than "gay couples" since bi/pan/poly men are erased in this assumption. Similar issues apply to assuming all relationships between women are "lesbian couples" and here WLW can be used.)
@ahhh4117 2 жыл бұрын
@@mockingjay478 I understand where you're coming from, but I'd like to see the study, because daniel might be quoting it directly, at which point its the study that needs criticism and not someone referencing it
@wisteria6656 2 жыл бұрын
I would like the study
@mockingjay478 2 жыл бұрын
@@ahhh4117 I did allow for the possibility that the study does say that in my comment. "If trans folks aren't being included in the study, don't add us in when referencing it, as it adds to false information." Please note the key word of "if" which allows for the possibility that the study does include trans men. Before then I also used careful wording. "I doubt" rather than "There's no way trans men were included" is an example of that. Even if it does include trans men, the wording of the comment is still exclusionary and could be improved.
@bricksloth6920 2 жыл бұрын
I'm not a baby person and don't usually dig on infant fashion and decor. I make an exception for your channel because your family is just so happy and wholesome it overcomes my curmudgeonly tendencies.
@janeosun 2 жыл бұрын
fellow person with curmudgeonly tendencies (i love that and i wanna steal that😂) and i agreeeeee
@beckyevans889 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for teaching me a new word!!!
@Nick-dx2pt 2 жыл бұрын
Heya! I read this article a long time ago and I find it really awesome and informative so if anyone here wants to know if maternal instinct is only for mother's then please read this article :) ♥️ www.nationalgeographic.com/science/article/mothers-day-2018-maternal-instinct-oxytocin-babies-science?cmpid=int_org=ngp::int_mc=website::int_src=ngp::int_cmp=amp::int_add=amp_readtherest
@lilianaguerrero8033 2 жыл бұрын
Me: single, 24 years old, not planning on having children anytime soon. *Please keep coming with parenting content!* I’m so glad you are all doing ok. It’s amazing all the love and care you both put in every single detail of the nursery. And I couldn’t thank you enough for sharing. It feels so special being a part of your family journey. Baby Rupert is the cutest. Saludos desde México 🇲🇽
@JD257able 2 жыл бұрын
Same actually! 😄😇
@phantombcat3243 2 жыл бұрын
Your entire world feels like a Beatrix Potter story for me so the tree only feels fitting 🥰✨
@dollsNcats 2 жыл бұрын
Ok so the sleeping in his room for naps and getting used to the room is AMAZING. My daughter is now 4 and she’s always loved her room . We moved her to her own room at 4 months because it was inches from our room (small apartment/flat) she was sleeping 12 hours at night so we felt comfortable and she did AMAZING
@kinhahazevedoh 2 жыл бұрын
I wish every child had such loving, attentive and engaged parents as you. Roo is a lucky little bunny
@dankmorgano 2 жыл бұрын
In Canada the baby's room is a Nursery, child care is daycare.
@gh0stsyndr0me40 2 жыл бұрын
yup!
@samanthab3292 2 жыл бұрын
Same in the US!
@marissakoller6548 2 жыл бұрын
Daycare and nursery mean that in America too. Nursery is also used when referring to an area where young children are watched within a place (like a church) but not commonly used to describe a business that is a child care service.
@aline8576 2 жыл бұрын
@@marissakoller6548 and we also use nursery for a place where you can get plants in america well idk if that’s the case everywhere but where I live it is
@marissakoller6548 2 жыл бұрын
@@aline8576 yes, that too!
@sophiaschult Жыл бұрын
We (people in the US) use nursery as a room for a baby, and a garden store. The place where you send a child for childcare is usually called a daycare.
@Katie-cw1hs 2 жыл бұрын
"He is also only five weeks old, darling." 😄
@missasissa 2 жыл бұрын
His little sounds make me miss when my baby girl was that little! She's 10 months now. It goes so fast, enjoy every moment! 😭
@lindseystein9676 2 жыл бұрын
Aw I love your totoro profile pic
@leahsodyssey123 2 жыл бұрын
I miss them too. My babies are 29, 21, and 18. I also have a 9 year old grandson.
@Ann3Ric3 2 жыл бұрын
as a teenage lesbian i feel so happy watching your family videos :") i live in poland and it's so nice to see how lgbt people in different parts of the world are able to live such normal and good lives, it makes me more hopeful for my own future
@livemoller792 2 жыл бұрын
It’s also important to note, that it’s not necessarily based on country! They live in Brighton, the lgbt capital of England. I love the reminder that happy pocket communities are everywhere!
@MelanaC 2 жыл бұрын
What wonderful parents you two are ! I co-slept with both my kids. In the late 1990’s it was called ‘cot-side-down’ - so you take one side off the cot, put the mattress at the same level as your own bed and wrap a sheet over your bed into the cot so there is NO GAP! That is vital! The smoosh the baby in the cot beside you! Woot! Feeding - easy! Sleeping - simple! Baby is with you, near you and we decided it was right for us 🥰
@Rainbopagn 2 жыл бұрын
You can tell that you two are well researched in baby development. You’re such lovely parents!! Little Rupert is going to be such a spoiled little boy.
@emmajwilkins 2 жыл бұрын
When I was a kid my Uncle's girlfriend was an artist and she painted my whole bedroom in a forest theme and I had an OWL OVER MY DOOR and I swear it looks *exactly* like this one!
@manifestationsofasort 2 жыл бұрын
Oh god the unsolicited advice. My mom has so many stories of random people giving her unsolicited advice. My favorite was when a random lady my mom didn't know got mad at my mom for feeding me formula because I wouldn't latch, so this woman grabbed me and tried to show my mom, on herself, how to make me latch. That didn't go over well.
@marymac3572 2 жыл бұрын
It starts as soon as people know you're pregnant and it never ends.
@mockingjay478 2 жыл бұрын
I used to wrap my youngest on my back as she got older, using a similar wrap to Claudia's (but not a stretchy one as stretchy wraps are not safe to be worn on the back) and people who'd never seen a wrap before would come running up to try to help and actually make it harder and more dangerous because they messed with my routine and would grab the wrap and move it and just AAAAA. People suck - ask before offering a parent advice or support and it's almost always better to just *not*
@maelooper9487 2 жыл бұрын
ahh i remember this one youtuber i used to watch being told off for swaddling her baby and the commenter saying that it crushed the babies bones. like??????
@marymac3572 2 жыл бұрын
@@maelooper9487 in the hospital the nurses told me that swaddling improperly (too tight, especially around the hips) can cause problems, but a proper swaddle can keep them from scratching their faces.
@logo9470 2 жыл бұрын
@Satan’s Butthole 🤣😂🤣
@chrismoss9060 Жыл бұрын
I love how happy and giggly Jessica is
@oliveoil6251 2 жыл бұрын
i just want a wife a child and an adorable nursery now
@emilysmith2965 2 жыл бұрын
Despite how difficult it is to date in this century, we’re in it together. If you’re determined to find the right person, it’ll happen. ❤️
@nathaniel3102 2 жыл бұрын
I had thrown in the towel before I found mine. I didn’t even realize they made that model. I recognized that I had been just dating “betas” that whole time when I randomly found a “nextgen” I didn’t even know existed *after* I had given up. It seems like you don’t even realize what you were looking for until you find someone who is more than anything you could have imagined. I’m not suggesting you stop looking, but it just seems that when you are just being you, and just living your life, the natural you ends up impressing the right person 😊
@TheSuzberry 2 жыл бұрын
All the child rearing advice I have for new parents: Your family will be unique. Rupert will not conform to anyone else’s expectations, he’s born with his personality. Your job as parents is not to mess him up.
@samanthab3292 2 жыл бұрын
Least amount of trauma possible 😅
@LS-sg8rb 2 жыл бұрын
A parent's job is to protect and delight in their child as as they reveal themself, and to slowly back off as they grow more independent.
@applepeachbirdduckmaster801 2 жыл бұрын
The goal is a functioning adult who can work with people, understands boundaries, and can do basic things. Like cook, do laundry, and pull their weight in future parts of life, whether at work or in a relationship.
@hi-ve1cw 2 жыл бұрын
@@samanthab3292 lmao reminds me of that Phillip Larkin poem: "They fuck you up, your mum and dad. They may not mean to, but they do. They fill you with the faults they had And add some extra, just for you."
@Reicha 2 жыл бұрын
I'd settle for just happy, enjoying life and preferably never considering not sticking around anymore. Selfishly, that would be my main goal. Even if for society they'd end up a menace or "net loss". Even if hopefully loving parenting would counteract the former of the two
@pastelslash4608 2 жыл бұрын
Why yes I did get misty eye’d at the idea of him wearing Claudia’s little sweater 🥺
@helpmemyspaghettiistryingt959 2 жыл бұрын
That baby is so lucky to have you as parents 💚 He’s also gonna be “talking” before everyone else, learning BSL
@paxardens3505 2 жыл бұрын
Yay Montessori! I went to a Montessori school from age 2 through 13 (I'm in the states, so that was pre-k through 8th grade) and I came out of it with a firm belief in that educational philosophy, so I'm always happy when I see new parents going that direction!
@dbeiler5525 2 жыл бұрын
FACT: Babies do actually bring out baby hormones in BOTH parents, regardless of sex or gender.
@LadyAhro 2 жыл бұрын
Me, extremely childfree: 'damn that’s a pretty room'
@cheesecakelasagna 2 жыл бұрын
Relatable, have a nice day.
@dandylionsloth446 2 жыл бұрын
Same, don't plan on having kids of my own but content like this gives me all the happy brain chemicals.
@mariabrigati2150 2 жыл бұрын
I normally hate to see parents sharing their babies life, but these woman are so lovely 😭 I think part of it is because of how much they respect little Rupert
@weewooweewoo906 2 жыл бұрын
it makes me so happy to see a couple who really prepared immensely to give their baby the most loving, healthy upbringing possible. i’m childfree myself too, but gosh it brings me such joy to see a healthy happy little family ❤️ just knowing that child will be in good hands is so nice ❤️
@frostyskeletons8950 2 жыл бұрын
Them and Rosie&Rose are the only parents I have enjoyed family content from ever as a very child free person. They’re just so kind and refreshing!
@emilyforeman2646 2 жыл бұрын
You're enthusiasm for little Rupert is so contagious. Love watching you guys smile while you talk about him!
@shaaba 2 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺
@Name-bm1to 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@zooh8017 2 жыл бұрын
I never thought about the floor nursery being a more accessible option I love to sit on the floor I’ll have to tuck this idea away
@CLEVERstageNAMES 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I have to keep that in mind as well I hate standing and sitting in chairs
@anarchyvixyn 2 жыл бұрын
Claudia, you should check out Mumsie. They have overalls that are rated baby carriers that will hold Rupert from now until he's like 2. I saw them and thought of you but was waiting until you guys came back. 💖
@Crowcifixx 2 жыл бұрын
YES!!!
@Rose-jz6sx 2 жыл бұрын
Omg those sound amazing! I'd nearly get them just for carrying friends babies haha
@caressalayne3104 2 жыл бұрын
Seeing your family is an absolute joy. Little Rupert’s noises were the cutest little “farm animal noises” I’ve ever heard. Congratulations, you two. Beautiful baby and beautiful mothers. ❤️
@alliyahanderson3243 2 жыл бұрын
I’m not a doctor or a specialist on hormones but I know you’ll have that influx of oxytocin going on. He’s your son and you are in love with him. (Not that way, in a mom way. It’s how I describe the moment that I had that bond with my daughter, I fell in love with her.) You two make beautiful mummies. Nursery in US- where plants grow, a kind of school (for like 3-4 year olds), and we do recognize it as a baby’s room but that’s more upper class or older semi out of date usage. Place where children are watched is generally a daycare. You can also have a baby sitter watch them so you’d say your child is at the sitter’s.
@Cmallon81 2 жыл бұрын
Jessica, if you know you like that style of furniture and that is what you really want don’t feel bad about buying the bed early. You never know if they might discontinue it in the future if you wait.
@maike__- 2 жыл бұрын
My parents bought a "changing table", matching dresser and wardrobe, all with the excuse that the changing table was adaptable, so you could theoretically turn it into a desk. Not that any of their three kids ever used this "desk" as a desk 😂
@alisonjane7068 2 жыл бұрын
my diapers are still in a landfill somewhere. what a sobering realization.
@reyskywalker3125 2 жыл бұрын
to think that they'll still be there 400yrs after we die
@gaylordsupreme8824 2 жыл бұрын
"same shit, different century" is what went through my head when I read that
@mariahartisch9514 2 жыл бұрын
I dont get this landfill thing. Arn't waste incineration plants a thing around the world? Our waste being burned gives us warm water in return and the exhaust air is being filtered. The ecological balance for diapers is not so clear here in Germany. Especially if you buy new ones and wash them in a hot setting... Where in the world are your experiences from?
@098bren 2 жыл бұрын
@Lee TV well that is not always the best of options either, i mean maybe ambientally but not for the babies, i was the last one on my family to use those type of diapers and it went horrible since it deformed my hip /: apparently that's a commun thing to happend with those 😞
@daylightbright7675 2 жыл бұрын
So are mine 😔
@TiffanyAllen1784 2 жыл бұрын
Pandora sent you a box and you opened it? 😱
@abcxyz3606 2 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful setup! My interest in having children is about as low as it can get, but here I am glued to the screen. You might eat want to put something under the mattress! Mattresses on the floor can trap moisture and cause issues with the flooring.
@TheWavePixie 2 жыл бұрын
Jessica gushing over getting the changing table on sale is big mom energy
@BrownAutumnSeal 2 жыл бұрын
Is it normal to be incredibly jelous of a baby’s room……….. it’s beautiful I want it to be mine
@walk_with_me_23 2 жыл бұрын
The nursery feature wall is gorgeous, very whimsical.
@May-pl6je 2 жыл бұрын
You mentioned your plan was to baby proof the nursery when he is old enough to sleep in there by himself unsupervised - when you do that remember to leave the plugs as they are (don't use plug covers/blockers)! UK plugs consist of an earthing socket and live contacts. The earthing plug is the long bit of a plug, and unless this is in the plug, there is no electricity coming through the live contacts. This means when a plug is empty - (even if it's on!) baby can't hurt himself. However a plug blocker pushes the safety pin within the earthing socket, and so if baby gets his fingers round the edge he could shock himself! Tom Scott has a really good video on this!
@Philosopanda 2 жыл бұрын
Claudia's idea about the owl and the bird is sooooo cute! I think it'll be one of those things he'll think about when he's older and feel the love. Also you two are just so adorable in this video I can't stand it, so happy to see all three of you doing well! 💗
@gigidodson 2 жыл бұрын
How you raise your child is your business. People love to give advice. Take the pieces you find valuable. Leave the rest. Oh! Welcome back. We missed you. Welcome to the world Rupert!
@damedeviant1388 2 жыл бұрын
Babywearing is a literal lifesaver! My firstborn was allergic to being more than an inch away from me 🤣
@knittingwithlisa 2 жыл бұрын
It is so adorable that little Rupert has two mama bears. I also have to mama bears
@nathaniel3102 2 жыл бұрын
You just gave me a scary thought… 💢🐻🐻💢 …I could see J politely telling someone to go to hell in such a way they’d actually look forward to the trip, and C just waiting like a bouncer in the background waiting for it to escalate so she can get a turn ⛔️Don’t poke the bear(s)⛔️
@MDev1997 2 жыл бұрын
When Jessica was showing the closet, she sounded like a woman acting in advertisements in the like 1950's 🤣👏🏻
@anna_banana7019 2 жыл бұрын
4:47 The cloud is so cute! How thoughtful of Jamie and Shabaa, Iove them!
@RaineyLatte 2 жыл бұрын
This child is going to have the most wonderful loving life. You two are great mothers 💜💜💜
@amyhull754 2 жыл бұрын
I'm American, and we've ALWAYS called it a nursery--the room where baby sleeps, the room at a church where the little babies can go, and "nursery school" is before kindergarten, and the place of caring for babies at hospitals. I can't get over how amazing Claudia looks as a mum: GLOWING. That IS the PERFECT TREE. It's exactly what you said: a bit fairy tale, a bit realistic... stunning. And Claudia's Moby wrap WEARING baby! BEST thing about babies was WEARING them!
@angeliquejoy1 2 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only person distressed by my stuffed animals being in any order except where I put them. I cried on a regular basis when my brother’s dog jumped on my bed or stole my stuffed duck.
@marynadias4391 2 жыл бұрын
Might be international fans getting confused, I learned “nursery” as the word for “place babies stay at in the hospital” much earlier than “the baby’s room” so I see how it could be confusing
@franny5156 2 жыл бұрын
Yep, i didn't know the word nursery so I just assumed it was his room
@mashab.234 2 жыл бұрын
I think the main issue is the word “nurse” as “medical worker” (for me at least that was it:)
@sillygoosegoose 2 жыл бұрын
there isn't a name for 'place babies stay at the hospital' in the UK, as babies don't really stay away from their parents. whatever room the mother is in, the baby is just in a little hospital bassinet thing next to them. i was always very confused watching US programmes where there's a big room with lots of babies in it, as i've never seen anything like that here aside from special units for babies who need extra support.
@sillygoosegoose 2 жыл бұрын
@@mashab.234 'nurse' used to also mean like a kind of nanny, common among upper classes in the UK pre-twentieth century. you hear that kind of language quite a lot if you read older books. i would imagine that's where the link is there.
@DieAlteistwiederda 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a confused bilingual with having English learned in school and from media and nursery to me is the room the baby sleeps in, then don't forget the plant nursery where you can buy new plants and as another word for daycare. Don't really know about the hospital thing that to me is just the maternity ward and I know I knew the specific name of the room for babies but as babies are usually in the same room as their parents now my brain just deleted that word.
@sara.1492 2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy to see that you enjoy parenthood and spend memorable time together. Can't wait to hear more from you!
@ciaraand...951 Жыл бұрын
Regarding the changing table - though it is gorgeous, the ones that don't have railing on the side can be quite dangerous (especially once a child starts moving around more) as it's easy to fall off them. So, where its available, getting some sort of railing or protective measure on the edge is normally a good shout. The room is absolutely lovely though.
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