Is Jada responsible for her husband's actions? Are we responsible for our husbands' actions? No. Did she have influence? Do we have influence? Yes.

“Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.” Proverbs 14:1

I can listen to this woman all day. So much wisdom

I made a hefty mistake with disrespecting my husband whilst we were in public in the first few months of our marriage. Seeing the way it affecting him- I knew that I'd never do that again. This can literally make or break a marriage, so I hope all who watch take this topic seriously.

Mothers of teenage girls should require them to watch all these videos before getting married!!! She is outstanding! She has a calling to teach biblical truths to women! Glory to God!!!!

The power we hold in our husband’s lives has been my latest meditation. We as women must be ultra disciplined + God-lead to uphold the integrity of our home. We frame the character of our entire family! ♥️ What an honor to be a pillar of strength for my husband 🙏🏽 I promised the Father to utilize my influence righteously! All honor to the Most High!! 🙌🏽 Thank you Bindi. Bless you!

Young Lady, You have been blessed with wisdom beyond your years. Thank you for this.

You stated this so eloquently. I appreciate the grace that you extended to both Will & Jada.

This channel is becoming some of the best content I watch on YT. Keep it up!

I'm a 54 year woman and you're describing my husband perfectly in terms of masculine pride. I'm learning so much from you and how I can support and respect my husband better.

Such wisdom for someone so young. You do a fine job of teaching God’s words for women. Thank you!

This is the most sensible and compassionate take I've seen on this incident ❤

It is critical to use our feminine influence to glorify God, then our husband & children benefit in many ways!

Love how you used this news for a way we can reflect in our own marriage!

Finally!!! Someone who is speaking the ENTIRE TRUTH🙌🏽🙌🏽! Well said!

Well said! A lot of people can’t handle the truth but don’t ever water down or sugar coat it.

I've binged all your videos over the last few days and I was staying away from this one just because I have other views on the jada/will drama, but I'm glad I ended up watching it. I knew the end of mine and my exes relationship was a lot of my own doing but I also blamed him for his part. But I'm now understanding how much of what I did caused the ultimate destruction of him and with that our relationship. If I had had a relationship with God at that point I would have understood and respected my exes choices. I truly wish I could go back and do things in a better way, through God. One of my greatest regrets will always be ruining our relationship and having my children not grow up in a single home that is lead by their father and care for by their mother.

Growing up watching my mom blatantly and purposefully belittle my dad in front of me and other people, made me hurt for him in ways I’ve never felt since. He would sit there silently and take it until he would eventually explode and my mom would use his anger and hurt against him even further. I vowed to myself as a child that I would never do that to my husband. Now as a wife I try my hardest to respect my husband in every aspect, even though I fail sometimes. Even the smallest jokes that I think are harmless can hurt him and he is not an emotional person. My dad passed away in January and I was so relieved that he was finally free from her disrespect.

I agree but the man is also the head of his household. What behavior he allowed into his household is ridiculous and ungodly. You reap what you sow. Look at the fruits of his marriage, two confused children and a dominant wife that controls his emotions by playing with his heart strings. All of this, because of what he allowed to take place in his marriage. Give the enemy a inch and he will take a mile……..

You’re a wonderful orator and I love the depth of your messages!

Apart from your connection to the Smith drama, your points are excellent and right on. We have so much influence in our marriages, and many of us do not wield it well. The drama with "the slap" is just that--theatrics. Something else for the public to talk about instead of the important things that are happening in the world. "What profit a man to gain the whole world, yet forfeit his soul." These "celebrities" gave up all kinds of things--purity, integrity, decency--to gain the wealth and same they appear to have. Watch out, church. 👀

I so wish your video was seen by all those who are so quick to throw Will Smith under the bus. Great video! Thank you for sharing your perspective

Soooo powerful!!!! Wow, thank you for this video! I got chills when you talked about impacting generations to come.

Thank you so much for this content! I am a follower of Jesus and a Black woman who values modesty and homemaking. There is only one other channel I have found is on modesty and homemaking from a Black woman is the feminine fancy. No disrespect to her but I don't believe the content creator of the feminine fancy is a Christian so it's great to find your content!

Thanks for the deep insight. I pray Christian women will realize their influence and use it positively to build and protect their husbands' masculinity.

Its weird hearing your instinct, mindset and insecurities being explained so concisely. I think you are spot on about Will Smith and men in general.

Amazing amazing video. I literally caught myself covering my mouth in repentance for my conduct and words thus far being a wife. Thank you for your obedience!

I do see the point of this video but at the same time I find it confusing to hear you speak so positively about a couple committing adultery as a Christian wife, I’m not sure I’m not understanding or missing something.

I really appreciated this video. You mentioned finances/ wealth as the buffer for a broken ego, and brought the example back to regular income earners. It looks like you have a nice house and simple life in comparison to some women who are say living in poverty or living on the streets, whose characters are being tested with immense adversity as they relate to their husband's. So, I really do appreciate your wisdom to be inclusive of women who are poorer than wealthy couples, by explaining how finances can affect a pooeer man's ability to regain a sense of himself and how it affects the woman. You're one of the first women I have come across on KZfaq who lives in a nice house and thinks wholistically about the interaction of people and money as far as spiritual principles goes. In this case, reflecting on the challenges that women living in less than comparitive wealth, face when dealing with their spouses ego. God bless you.

So helpful, the best therapy for a Christian wife comes from biblical woman… I’ve never been so refreshed and well educated.

your videos are so peaceful but edifying at the same time. so glad i found your channel!

Thanks for your refreshing perspective on this topic. Many don’t give the grace that you’ve extended them, it shows the fruits of the Spirit. Yah bless and guide you and your family!

Love this message! 💖So much truth in it. As females and wives we must be more responsible with the influence we have with our husband's. Even in a dating relationship, we must not use our influence to tear down the men in our lives. If we continue to emasculated our sons or the men in our lives we will answer to God for that. I have been guilty of this in my life and have had to repent of it. Now I'm committed to teaching my daughters from my mistakes.

I didn't carry myself with discretion and dignity. I was so angry and going to sleep on that anger grew deep and rooted and produced such bitterness. Hurt from my husband I chose unrighteous behavior over comfort from Christ. My behavior brought such suspect upon my faithfulness and shame on my husband. I would do anything to go back and talk to my younger self. I would tell myself that I had to forgive my husband or I would sin against God and hurt my husband and at the end of the day I never wanted to bring shame to my husband. Ladies if you hold on to unforgivness you will dishonor your husband. You can't walk in Christ with a hard heart. My husband never repented for the things that I clung to but it doesn't matter that is between him and God. I wish I always walked in good character and I wish my husband's name was still spoken well of at the gates. His hurt ego didn't bless anyone.

Don't come into public space when you aren't discipline. When you disrespect yourself in private it will show off in a matter of time publicly for ridicule. Every division we take good or bad has repercussions.

That's a pretty spot on assessment of Will & Jada. Great lesson.

I absolutely love your channel! What a beautiful person you are inside and out. Your family and friends are certainly blessed. I wish I had a friend like you. Your channel is so needed for women and marriages. Some women are getting out of hand.

Pure wisdom from the HOLY SPIRIT 🙂🙂. GOD bless you

You are very wise young woman. I'm new to your channel, I am loving it! So glad I found this.

Wow. You really hit the 🎯 on this topic.

They were harming themselves and each other. They are reaping the wages of their sin...in their marriage, and with their children's lives. Will is the leader who has led his family in sin.

This was so powerful!! You really hit the nail on the head here!! I watched this with my husband. It was truly eye opening. Thank you again for sharing. 😊

I like how you approached the subject matter delicately. Although spiritually speaking I’ve always seen this couple as Jezebel and Ahab. Prayerfully, this incident wakes this family up and directs them toward the path of the living God.

Spot on! It was sad to see what happened. Great insight. Prayers for Jada and Will. Everyone has some brokenness. Praying for them.

I will be editing my comment as I listen, and think you're right about his pride being broken. Unfortunately, it was Jada who introduced the idea of sexual openness within the marriage. Will wasn't for an open marriage. He was more traditional, but Jada wanted access to other people outside of the relationship, so she convinced him to participate in it. Will is humongously sensitive to the point of being controlling concerning the image his family portrays.

Your new to me, I love watching homemaking videos especially Christian ones. I just so appreciate how the Lord has used you. Keep seeking his face, it shows. I'm always chasing wisdom, your channel has blessed me. Thank you xo

Wow. Well delivered. And I am thankful to have your content to learn from, as a soon to be Christian wife. Thank you and God bless you and your family

I think about Eve with Adam, Sarah with Abraham and Ishmael situation, both of Samson’s wives, all that Rebecca did to secure Jacob getting blessings from Isaac, how Jacob was involved in the competition of his two wives (it was Racheal and Leah’s world, Jacob was just living in it) Jezebel is another example

I love your style, home and simplicity ❤

Your wisdom and how you deliver it to the public is so straight up I cannot ignore it, you have impacted me in a positive way, thank you for the work that you do

Much insight and wisdom here. Thank you. I hope you acquire many subscribers. Young women need to hear you.

You're wise beyond your years, continue to let God use you.

Wow! This.... such good words of wisdom!! Well said...

Fantastic commentary on this whole situation. Your channel blesses me. Thank you for sharing. 💗

You bought that out perfectly… influence by woman started in the garden. Good content

It started in the garden... genesis 3. We saw the consequences of the influence of the woman being led by satan, on her husband. Women, we should always be led by the Most High and be righteous influences to men.

Incredibly blessed by this video to GOD BE THE GLORY 💝👑

Amen, this is so true! We have great influence as women, as the youtuber Tony Gaskins mentions as well❤

this blessed me and my marriage. Thank you so much Bindi. Incredible take biblically on the Jada/Will situation. I personally did not have all the context; you painted a visually clear picture of the steps that led to the slap incident. So much to take from this, thank you!

Retrouvaille may help this couple. Love is a Decision. Until deep wounds are cleaned out they will continue festering into all aspects of ones life/relationship/family. The Living Water is a start to healing. + We are all on this journey trying to figure The Way and keep forging our own paths when there is a well established path just waiting for us to take. It's very easy to fall for the detours put in front of us. We were made for communion to help with discernment while on The journey Home.

Well say. Thank you for blessing us with the gift God has given you, thank you for wisdom.

I have so much to learn. Let the Holy Spirit continue to lead me into all truth.

Every video you drop gets better and better 🥰

I just love your videos. This (and many topics you illuminate in your videos) is something very powerful that I have learned on my own. I thank God and my husband for teaching me. I am humbled by the beauty of these truths and the responsibility within me to understand all of this so as to learn to love my husband in ways I never realized were possible ❤️

So profound! Thank you for sharing. There’s much to learn from this situation.

This video shows just how important Ephesians 5:33 in the amplified version is: However, let each man of you [without exception] love his wife as [being in a sense] his very own self; and let the wife see that she respects and reverences her husband [[a]that she notices him, regards him, honors him, prefers him, venerates, and esteems him; and [b]that she defers to him, praises him, and loves and admires him exceedingly].

I bought the book and essentially I bought myself a challenge!

I think you’ve got this absolutely right ⭐️

The biggest mistake was them getting married just because she got pregnant .They could have just co parented .Jada never ever actually loved smith and the ghost of Tupac visited their homes ecer so often .She never let go of Tupac

I agree with everything you have said.

May our Almighty bless you for sharing the wisdom with us!

New follower and I’m loving your content and what you stand for. Your take on this is spot on and through it I have gained grace for Will Smith. Before watching this video I was really disappointed with his actions but never gave thought as to what would lead a man who appears to have it all, to such reckless and self-sabotaging behavior. This has definitely shed light on other factors at play. Im purchasing both books that you’ve referenced in this video. Wishing you ever good and perfect gift. ❤️❤️❤️

I understand what your saying and I agree with some of it, I also think that a unhealthy ego and pride is something that needs to be worked on and an external individual cannot blamed for that. I also believe this works both ways a husband and a wife can have influence on each other’s growth and lack there of. Us as wife definitely need to be more sensitive to our husbands pride and how he feels about himself however when it is something unhealthy that would need to be addressed because many men do unquestionable things because of there ego and pride some married and some are very much single.

I concur with your assessment. I didn't know all of the background dynamics.

I love your words so much! You have a gift for speaking.

Proverbs 31:11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. He clearly can not safely trust in Jada and their secular marriage is taking a beating because of their openness to outside interests. Thx for the video and example of your Christian walk.

Girl, Speak!💖

You know this is really true because when someone is great a common compliment is whoever their partner is or whoever will become their partner is lucky but when someone is not great an insult can be I feel bad for whoever their partner is or whoever will become their partner

I have just discovered you and am really enjoying the views you are sharing. Thank you very much. I am eager to keep on listening to you. Colleen

I totally agree with you, but in a related issue, I wish to point out something that took me years to figure out and I was blaming myself. A wife can do everything right and a husband who does not have a Christian outlook will only see her as a pushover. I have seen women struggle to be a Godly wife for years only to be treated with disdain. Only a Christian husband is won over by feminine traits like submission, modesty, generosity and hospitality. Of course, we must 'do everything as to the Lord' for this reason.

Truth beautifully and respectfully put. Well done! 🥰👌

Proverbs 14v1 The wise build her house….. thank you for the teaching

I needed to hear this so much, thank you❤

And no matter how much money they Will and Jada Smith have, no matter the millions of dollars they have because they sold their soul and they don't have Christ none of it matters.

You are so full of wisdom. Thank you.

Thank you for mentioning about our influence on the husband. I think of king Herod and Herodias his wife.

It's 10am where Iam and watching you cut those potatoes is so oddly calming and satisfying

This was a such a great video! I couldn't stop nodding along in agreement😊

I believe God brought me to your channel, thank you for all your videos, may the Lord bless you.

A man's pride is sensitive in terms of his awareness of it. Not sensitive in begin fragile.

I would put this on Jada if Will Smith had not condoned the open marriage. But he did. So this principle of wives reflecting their husband is moot. Because she did reflect her husband accurately if he also agreed to this sort of marriage. Jada understood she wasn’t breaking their agreed upon arrangement, so she wasn’t taking him down, she was doing what they both agreed to. If he knew he would be embarrassed should this come out, they should have both had a talk about if they should even be doing it to begin with, but you can’t put it on Jada If she was operating out of a mutual agreement.

Well, said! Very wise.

I've been writing about modesty for years. I'd love to be one of your first customers. I'm having some issues with the man I was supposed to marry. We both made huge mistakes and broke up a year ago. I STILL love him and I know he feels the same. We are both getting excellent Godly counsel. Our Pastor thinks we should marry. I want to reconcile and I reached out to him. No reply. I definitely emasculated him but it wasn't intentional. He was insensitive to me but it wasn't intentional. Pray for us!

Spot on! You speak truth.

I need this lesson today, thank you!!

And i don't know you but i feel like i love you! Thank you so much for this content on feminity. Please don't stop! :)

Such an interesting study thank You ❤️

Wow this analysis is deep!!!!!

This is an extreme example, I understand the topic is pride, but if they lose money that is the least of their issues..... Where is their soul going?

Beautifully said ❤️🙏🏾