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Saas Bahu Issues | How To Deal With Them ? | 05 Factors Explained

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Sango Life Sutras

Sango Life Sutras

3 жыл бұрын

In this video Reasons for saas Bahu kalesh is discussed.
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society needs to discuss all this
#सास
#बहु
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@kittypurry7871
@kittypurry7871 Жыл бұрын
Ladka initially 'mumma's boy' ho toh chalega lekin bahu ko 1st day se hi bol diya jata hai ki apne parents se thoda kum baat kare ya fir saal ke koi bhi festival mein apne parents ke paas naa jaye. Forget about festivals kabhi agar bohot gandi wali yaad aaye apne parents ki toh bhi bus max 1 or 2 days ke liye jaye. The restrictions & hypocrisy just baffles me.
@paramjitkaur-fp3pm
@paramjitkaur-fp3pm Жыл бұрын
Aaj kal ki families me easa kuch nahi hota Bahu ne to bohut aaphat macha rakhi hai hum log bhi bahu the or hai Bahu to bas car dedo kothi dedo
@paramjitkaur-fp3pm
@paramjitkaur-fp3pm Жыл бұрын
Agar sasuraal nahi jaana to koi ghar jamai le liya karo
@kittypurry7871
@kittypurry7871 Жыл бұрын
@@paramjitkaur-fp3pm Tumhare jesi aurton ki wajah se the new gen women are suffering. Pathetic people like you should just v@nish from the face of this earth as soon as possible so that the son & daughter in law can live happily without having to worry all the time.
@kittypurry7871
@kittypurry7871 Жыл бұрын
@@paramjitkaur-fp3pmLadke ke faaltu nonsense maa baap ke paas rehne ke liye shaadi nahi karti hai koi ladki. A woman marries only the man because she loves him & only him. She does not owe a single thing to his parents & neither is she obligated to stay anywhere except with her husband. They can CHOOSE to stay anywhere they want & she can go to her parents ANYTIME she wants for however long possible as long as the couple is onboard & willing. The other pathetic unworthy valueless people have no position whatsoever to dictate her life. So keep your usele$$ nose out of their business.
@kittypurry7871
@kittypurry7871 Жыл бұрын
@@paramjitkaur-fp3pm Aaj kal BHI esa hota hai aur aage bhi hota rahega bcuz of pathetic in laws. How stupid it is of you to invalidate the problems women actually face in their marriages even today by calling them obsolete just bcuz some of them don't go through it.
@aaravkairavlogs7746
@aaravkairavlogs7746 Жыл бұрын
They expect daughter in law like a nanny for their son and maid for rest of the house. Agar mene dukh jhela hai tho ye bhi jhelegii. We are still in male dominating society. You are sharing good thoughts but ye absorb and follow nahin honge because hmaari roots bht hee alag hain.
@nalinivenkat9998
@nalinivenkat9998 Жыл бұрын
That's why nowadays boys mother's are deciding to send their sons to the girls house as Ghar jamai that will solve all the saas bahu problems.
@rajrathore7886
@rajrathore7886 Жыл бұрын
Kon expect karta hai saas na, dowry k leye kon satata hai bahu ko saas, nanad etc matlab sab female hai aur sab kuch female ki wajah se he hota hai male to victim ban jata hai aur ap keh rahai ho male dominating society ye kisne banai females ne hai transport vehicle par likha rehta hai 1 se 15 tak seats female aur handicapped k leye reserved hai females ko kiske sath joda jata hai kabhi apne socha kabhi es pay objection ki nai ki na karega koi, bachpan se ye speech sunte aya hon womens empowerment male ese vese dowry ko leke sataya, jalaya, prostitute mai dakhela leken en sab k peshay sirf aur sirf female he hoti hai aur jo b maine bola 100% fact hai jai hind jai bharat
@archana8321
@archana8321 Жыл бұрын
Bilkul sahi kaha..ladke vale sochte hain ki ladki puri tarah apne family ko bhool kr sasural Mai rach bs jaaye..sari chejen ek sath Sikh le..koi galti na karen to humanly possible ni hai..log ye sab kabhi ni samjhenge
@aaravkairavlogs7746
@aaravkairavlogs7746 Жыл бұрын
Asal mein fact ye hai ki Bahu aisi ho jo Ghar bhar de, sub Sambhaal le, Ghar ke saare kaam aate hon. Lekin beti aise ghar mein jaaye jahaan usse koi kaam naa karna pade, sirf aaram hee aaram ho.
@Trentz2
@Trentz2 Жыл бұрын
Very true and the irony is the same people do the exact same thing to their son in law too, daughter has to rest
@arthvittiwari4855
@arthvittiwari4855 Жыл бұрын
Galti yahi hai, mumma's boys hona loyalty ki guarantee nahi hai, family k liye over devoted log, apni family wife aur bachchon ko neglect karne me pride lene lagte hain.
@RR-kl5ht
@RR-kl5ht Ай бұрын
bang on!
@CreativitySimplicity
@CreativitySimplicity Жыл бұрын
In our country, we actually need pre marriage counseling to all parties concerned. Some boys are also unable to draw clear boundaries. They expect their mother and wife to be like mother and daughter. They are usually disappointed. Basically it is usually collective responsibility but in the fight between saans-bahu the main victim is the son/husband.
@gassyalways
@gassyalways Жыл бұрын
Very right
@sanamsiddiqui1749
@sanamsiddiqui1749 Жыл бұрын
True
@CreativitySimplicity
@CreativitySimplicity Жыл бұрын
@@anuragkehri3828 That's easy to say. But difficult to explain to people concerned. Even the government is supporting adult children staying with parents, specially for those adult children with govt jobs.
@kittypurry7871
@kittypurry7871 Жыл бұрын
Are you kidding ?? The son/husband is the main victim !!!!!! You clearly need to rethink the definition of victim in this case. It's the woman who loses loses loses & loses in every single situation in an Indian marriage.
@CreativitySimplicity
@CreativitySimplicity Жыл бұрын
@@kittypurry7871 woman is victim if husband supports either side exclusively. In patriarchal families husbands might support his mother exclusively but that's not in case of equal marriages. Husbands are often in dilemma "whom to support? what to say?" Saying only women are victims further victimizes the bahus. There are families where mothers-in-law support daughters-in-law fully, but still difference in opinions happens and that is when husbands are the victims because they cannot find a way to satisfy both. This can happen even when they don't stay together.
@shreyasrivastava4792
@shreyasrivastava4792 Жыл бұрын
Sango sir, with respect to keeping patience about "mumma boy's", the girl after getting married is neither a daddy's girl or mummy's girl. After vidai everything is like over. She is in a strange family. She is leaving her family and everything and her partner doesn't show that equal commitment.
@ninanani4085
@ninanani4085 6 ай бұрын
​@paramjitkaur-fp3pm बेटी को ससुराल भेजने की प्रथा ही बहुत गलत है। बेटी को घर रखो, बेटे को sasuralभेजो, तभी सुखी रहोगे। सेवा तो बेटी करती है। पर बेटे की कमाई के लालच में पेरेंट्स बेटे को रखते हैं और बेटी को भेज देते हैं। अपने बेटे को खाना बनाना, धोना, सेवा सिखाते नही, दूसरे की बेटी से expect करते हैं? क्यूं करे वो? उसपर तो कोई कर्ज नही। बेटे पर है, बेटे से कराओ, या अपनी बेटी से कराओ।
@sagarbandawadekar4384
@sagarbandawadekar4384 4 күн бұрын
Then better don't get married
@Epicurean999
@Epicurean999 11 ай бұрын
I truly find almost all families are mentally disturbed wherein DIL stays with MIL and I can't even understand the joint family concept even if I break my skull open😂
@RR-kl5ht
@RR-kl5ht 10 күн бұрын
ditto! Most flawed concept which Indians are proud of! They are happy to let the men be babies all their lives!
@RR-kl5ht
@RR-kl5ht Жыл бұрын
DO NOT STAY TOGETHER UNDER ONE ROOF!! - That is the only solution!
@ErRajat
@ErRajat Ай бұрын
We as indian society admit it or not But west countries society is way ahead than ours.
@RR-kl5ht
@RR-kl5ht Ай бұрын
@@ErRajat totally! We stick to wrong practices in the name of culture and then blame the victim for its failures!
@ErRajat
@ErRajat Ай бұрын
@@RR-kl5ht 👍
@somduttamajumder3303
@somduttamajumder3303 10 күн бұрын
But all husbands don't try to understand and stay seperated from their parents
@RR-kl5ht
@RR-kl5ht 10 күн бұрын
@@somduttamajumder3303 then don't marry them ...if u have already married, divorce them. Coz sooner or later, the MIL will make him divorce you anyway!
@nalinivenkat9998
@nalinivenkat9998 Жыл бұрын
One suggestion we mother's of sons feel nowadays instead of getting the Bahu home it's better sending our son to the girls house. As the girls will be happy taking care of her parents than her husband's parents. The son has no option. He can visit his parents whenever he wants. This way " the saas bahu relationship"will be solved.
@ushakshirsagar3466
@ushakshirsagar3466 Жыл бұрын
ये तो १०० साल के बाद होगा शायद....
@mukundaprabala5486
@mukundaprabala5486 Жыл бұрын
Let the new couple live by themselves for a few years and learn to handle the challenges of life. Later they can decide where they want to go.
@promilamadhwal
@promilamadhwal Жыл бұрын
Very well said mem
@promilamadhwal
@promilamadhwal Жыл бұрын
@@mukundaprabala5486 ji well said
@jansikumar4206
@jansikumar4206 Жыл бұрын
why are you expecting the wife to take care of the husbands parents?
@vandanapahuja4231
@vandanapahuja4231 Жыл бұрын
भारतीय समाज की तथाकथित आदर्श वादी सोच और उम्मीद ने आज की आधुनिक युग में बड़ी विसंगतियां पैदा कर दी हैं। आपके बताए तरीके उसके सही हल की ओर इशारा करते हैं। अभी इस पर ऐसी ही और स्पष्टता की आवश्यकता है। आपका प्रयास सराहनीय है
@RohiniJainDoshi
@RohiniJainDoshi Жыл бұрын
Please kindly make a few more videos, just my suggestions. 1. Husband's role towards his mother and wife how he can balance the two. 2. Families must be supportive of working daughters not finding happiness in marriage and seeking seperation for their sanity and health. 3. How middle class men born in 1950s should start being less rigid and support their wives. They don't adapt to change want their wives to continue serving them even though times have changed alot. Your videos are very good and can bring about alot of changes in society. Everyone knows that the times have changed and relationships need a different approach but no-one has put things in such a structure as you have in your videos .
@tehseengokak7612
@tehseengokak7612 Жыл бұрын
I'm a senior with 2 daughter in law's Alhamdulillah all 3 r staying separate N i agree with your 5th point k parents ki jimmadari apne bacho Ki hoti hai but I'm lucky v all care for each other Plus bahu k family bhi respect us really contented With Allah
@richat8808
@richat8808 Жыл бұрын
Ladkon ki bhi ragging honi chahiye thodi, taki balance ban jae, damaad ji ko to aate hi head of department ki tarah welcome kiya jata hai aur patni junior clerk.
@ninanani4085
@ninanani4085 6 ай бұрын
​बेटी को ससुराल भेजने की प्रथा ही बहुत गलत है। बेटी को घर रखो, बेटे को sasural भेजो, तभी सुखी रहोगे। सेवा तो बेटी करती है। पर बेटे की कमाई के लालच में पेरेंट्स बेटे को रखते हैं और बेटी को भेज देते हैं। अपने बेटे को खाना बनाना, धोना, सेवा सिखाते नही, दूसरे की बेटी से expect करते हैं? क्यूं करे वो? उसपर तो कोई कर्ज नही। बेटे पर है, बेटे से कराओ, या अपनी बेटी से कराओ।
@abhi.kaushik4495
@abhi.kaushik4495 3 ай бұрын
​@ninanani4085 wo pratha sahi hai. Aj kal ki ladki ko bas riste manage Krna nahi ata short temper hoti hai. or agr ladke apne sasuraal me rehne lag gaye to sasural Wale ko hi problem hogi. Agr ladke khana banana, dhona, seva Kare or bahar se kama kar bhi laye boss ki gali bhi khaye uski wife kya Elizabeth hai😂
@abhi.kaushik4495
@abhi.kaushik4495 3 ай бұрын
Wo isliye bcz ladko ke sasuraal walo ko pata hai ye wohi admi hai jisne unke ghar ka tufaan sambhal rakha hai 😂
@manaswininayak4273
@manaswininayak4273 Жыл бұрын
Very valuable counseling..wish I could know all these factors 8 yrs before...one thing u have forgotten sir...in all these scenario the role of relatives,sis in law are also very important..
@Humanityaboveall
@Humanityaboveall Жыл бұрын
Yes very much in start of marriage every relative work is kan bharna of mother in law. If they don’t do or mother in laws don’t listen to such talks half of problem will be solved
@rashmisingh5723
@rashmisingh5723 Жыл бұрын
Best part beti, beti hai... Sir, aap sach bolte hain..
@ajitarajesh6771
@ajitarajesh6771 Жыл бұрын
Aisa brilliant taik 20 saal pehle sunthe toh Kitne faayde hote the
@SamanwitaAcharya
@SamanwitaAcharya Жыл бұрын
What do you think Did people of older age listen??? No They don't bcz of thier ego
@praveenkatlinge2417
@praveenkatlinge2417 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@shobhasarma8414
@shobhasarma8414 Жыл бұрын
I am 60 years old and listening . Want my daughter in law to enjoy her married life and not like me at in-laws service . मैने किया वो नही करेगी .
@SamanwitaAcharya
@SamanwitaAcharya Жыл бұрын
@@shobhasarma8414 u must be great by ❤️ n mind. Not everyone is lyk u mam🙏
@sanamsiddiqui1749
@sanamsiddiqui1749 Жыл бұрын
Same here...20 small late aya ye video
@mukulsharma2413
@mukulsharma2413 Жыл бұрын
Some mother in law's are very cunning and political example my sister's mil. Her mil keeps on checking everytime what my sister is doing, where is she going out and for what purpose. She and her son and daughters (sister's husband and sisters in law) tortured mentally to my sister so that she leave her job and sit at home. Her mil purposely use to go native places and daughters house to stay there just to avoid help in house chores. Even at the time of pregnancy and after delivery where her help was required she ran away to native. My sister is highly educated,talented and use to do good job. Mil is jealous and feels insecurity. My sister sacrifices her job. Anyway..now the time has change. My sister learned how to handle these people and her husband. Request to all mother in law to be..that don't be jealous even if you are having daughter/s. Respect dil first (as you will be older than her) and then expect love from her. Remember she married with your son and not with you then too she is ready to take care of you. Don't expect more and more. She is 'ghar ki bahu' not 'ghar ki bai'.
@JyotiTiwari-oq9jp
@JyotiTiwari-oq9jp Жыл бұрын
I have seen that people who get married and have children at early age handle their relations and emotions in immature way. They even get jealous of their own sons and daughters.
@ilamahida977
@ilamahida977 Жыл бұрын
नमस्ते सर, बहुत सही बताया एक बात मैं यहाँ कहना चाहूँगी के , सास अगर बहु को कुछ बोलेंगी या बतायेंगी के ऐसे करो , ये करो तो~ बहु को बुरा लगता है कि सास टोकतीं रहती हैं, चिढ़ती है, डाँटतीं है और अगर उसकी मम्मी कुछ बोलेंगी या अब तक इस उम्र तक कुछ तो कभी तो बोला होगा तब उसको बुरा नहीं लगता ! ये point भी समझने वाली बात है 🙏🏻
@promilamadhwal
@promilamadhwal Жыл бұрын
Sahi kaha
@minakshi7530
@minakshi7530 Жыл бұрын
Kyuki Maa maa hoti hai & Saas saas hoti hai . Saas kabhi bhi maa nhi ban sakti . Kya huabands apne father in law k taunt sun sakte hai ??? Nhi na same aise hi wives bhi nhi sun sakti Saas k taunts
@MeghaKaushik5678
@MeghaKaushik5678 Жыл бұрын
Kuki ma daat b de to beti mummy ko ulta jaeab de skti.. beti se galti hoti he to usko maa samjhati he..saas taana marti he.. dono bato me farak he. Sare parivar me failayi jati he bahu k galtiyo ko.. koi maa apni beti k galtiya jagjahir nahi krti firti. Ye hota hr farak
@simrangrover5962
@simrangrover5962 Жыл бұрын
@@MeghaKaushik5678 correct
@ninanani4085
@ninanani4085 6 ай бұрын
​@@MeghaKaushik5678 लोचा ये है 👇 ​@anuragkehri3828 ​एक बेटे के फायदे के लिए बेटी को उजाड़ कर, बेघर करके, ससुराल भेजने की प्रथा ही बहुत गलत है। बेटी को घर रखो, बेटे को sasural भेजो, तभी सुखी रहोगे। सेवा तो बेटी करती है। बेटे के लिए कष्ट करते हैं तो सेवा भी बेटे से लें, कर्जा तो बेटे पर होता है, बहु के लिए तो धेला नही किया होता। एहसान तो वो करती है जो उजाड़कर आती है। पर बेटे की कमाई के लालच में पेरेंट्स बेटे को रखते हैं और बेटी को भेज देते हैं। अपने बेटे को खाना बनाना, धोना, सेवा सिखाते नही, दूसरे की बेटी से expect करते हैं? क्यूं करे वो? उसपर तो कोई कर्ज नही। बेटे पर है, बेटे से कराओ, या अपनी बेटी से कराओ। बेटी अपना कंफर्ट जोन, अपना घर, फैमिली, पेरेंट्स, नाम, pehchaan क्यूं छोड़े, वो भी तब जब उसके इस बड़े त्याग की कोई गिनती ही नही? बेटा छोड़ कर दिखाएं।। अब बेटियों को सख्त होना चाहिए। और बेघर होकर sasural jane se मना कर देना चाहिए।
@caankitagrover4992
@caankitagrover4992 Жыл бұрын
Ladki ki Umar badhti hai yo ladke ki umar b to ghat-ti nhi. It's very important that both are approximately equal to each other in terms of education and income.
@anjaliaparajey2865
@anjaliaparajey2865 Жыл бұрын
Its a merely discussed topic and also one the most important topic of every household. New girls need direct consults regarding this matter which is offered by no one and when she screws up she is judged by every person even the neighbours and results to hampering the relation of husband and wife. Great knowledge. Please continue making such videos
@manav42224
@manav42224 3 жыл бұрын
Amit भाई, बहुत ही बढिय़ा बोला आपने. इस वीडियो को मैंने अपने ग्रुप में 1600 दोस्तों में शेयर किया है. आगे और आपसे अछे subjects की आशा है
@aspirant7789
@aspirant7789 Жыл бұрын
Sir your views need to spread in society........this society really needs to adopt this thinking
@RajKumar-bd7kf
@RajKumar-bd7kf Жыл бұрын
You are right that only your son should do seva to his parents.But sometimes the bahu does not like it and prohibits your son from doing seva to his parents.
@priyambadamishra6860
@priyambadamishra6860 Жыл бұрын
बहुत सुंदर तरीके से आप अपनी सच्ची बात को समाज के सामने रखते है और सभी की गलत फहमी को दूर कर देते हैं जो समझ जाए उसका जीवन आसान और खुशहाल हो जाए । धन्यवाद सर 🙏
@AnilKumar-wu2ik
@AnilKumar-wu2ik Жыл бұрын
आप भी धन्य हैं
@pinaljakhar5228
@pinaljakhar5228 Жыл бұрын
For the first time itna sensitive topic itne funny way mein samjhaaya...😅😅😅 but baat seedhe hit hui h....
@sonalsharmaable
@sonalsharmaable Жыл бұрын
You are a genius, life me saara sukh dukh sirf apni soch ke kaaran hota hai. Soch badal lo, saara dukh gaayab ho jaayega. Bahut bahut dhanyawad 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@paramjitkaur-fp3pm
@paramjitkaur-fp3pm Жыл бұрын
Correct g Sirph soch soch ka phark hai g
@raj2016
@raj2016 5 ай бұрын
Instead listing to some baba, pay attention here, Sir has different and practical perspective.
@rgiam8794
@rgiam8794 Жыл бұрын
I too think the same way!! Relationships are so delicate,n therefore needed to be handled carefully!!
@poojanandan1072
@poojanandan1072 Жыл бұрын
Aapane bahut acchi baat Kahi sar I am highly impressed Kash Koi Mere pati aur SAS sasur ko yah baten Samjha pata
@milisingh3155
@milisingh3155 Жыл бұрын
Aapne jo 5th solution h usko me bhi kai media platform ke comment me likha tha to bahut criticism mila tha mere comment ko. Per i personally believe same. Ye vichar pahle se hi mere man me tha aur Express bhi ki hu lekin hypocrisy iti jada h hamare samaj me to khule aankho se bhi sachai nhi dekhti. Bhartiya papivar ki sundarya aur stri ki mahnta aur kartaya ke naam per sadiyo se ladies logo ka shashan ladies logo dwara unhi ke parivar me hota aa raha h. Bahu ki aazadi alag personally alag soch alag ambitions h to vo kharab h selfish. Agar vo saas sasur ki seva nhi karti to vo buri h. Agar vo saas ki galiyo ka jawab deti h to nich h. Agar vo apne maa baap ki bejati apne sasural me bardast nhi karti to usko gurur h. Bahuye hamare samaj me dehej le kar aai vo naukrani h jo sabki seva ke liye 24 h uplabhd honi chahiye. Aur ye seva vo sirf khana aur kapado ke badle me de tab vo mahan mahila hogi. Thank you sir aap purush hokar parivar ke mamle ki inti samj rahkte h. Ita to mere pati 20 saal ki shadi me nhi samj paye ya samjne ko tayar nhi. Me to kahti hu jish tarah ka vavhar bahu ke sath uske sasural me saalo hota h same tarah ka vavhar damad ke sath sirf 1 month uske sasural me ho jaye fir usse pucha jaye ki kya vo us parivar me rahna chahega. Sabhi purush Vichar kare is bat per
@learningisunderstanding
@learningisunderstanding Жыл бұрын
How thoughtful decision to share this issue, on a public platform. The sense of humour is great 👍
@payalgupta4953
@payalgupta4953 Жыл бұрын
Bahut badhiya ati sunder thought process gazab hats off to u
@abhishekshukla2745
@abhishekshukla2745 3 жыл бұрын
Totally practical advice. Please keep sharing your thoughts. 👍👍
@anshueducationalpoint323
@anshueducationalpoint323 Жыл бұрын
Mai aap ki baato se 100% agree hu jub aap bolte hai to mujhe lagta hai jese aap mairi hi soch ko apne shabdo mai bol rahe hai mai bhi bahut saalo se apne aas pass ke logo ko yahi samjhane ki koshish karti hu pr ye duniya ageeb se rule follow karti hai unhe sirf apne fayede ki baat samajh aati hai.
@rojalinaroy3580
@rojalinaroy3580 Жыл бұрын
I am waiting patiently since last 17 years.
@Clarityinlife335
@Clarityinlife335 3 ай бұрын
For what ❓
@hariarora8083
@hariarora8083 3 жыл бұрын
An excellent well meaning and practical video
@user-cx3vh5wi6c
@user-cx3vh5wi6c Жыл бұрын
But sir no matter how much a girl's parents need her...,..inlaws and society never allow a girl to do anything for her parents..
@prashodinidacha
@prashodinidacha Жыл бұрын
If you are earning, you have the right to take care of your parents!
@mahimakatyal7436
@mahimakatyal7436 2 жыл бұрын
Great sir whatever u have have told is the ground reality today but it is very difficult to change other person thinking
@soniasingh5397
@soniasingh5397 Жыл бұрын
Aap life ko easy simple bana dete ho😊😊😊🙏
@damselrawat
@damselrawat 3 жыл бұрын
Many people who are very ‘liberal’ in their thoughts might not agree to your views but invariably all points told does apply in life. And only those can improve who first accept these flaws to further make amendments and to experience the changes in household environment.
@corinneteron9637
@corinneteron9637 Жыл бұрын
Another gem......insightful and humorous.....great combo.
@rajenderrana8563
@rajenderrana8563 3 жыл бұрын
Nice video maja aa gaya bhai sunkar 🙏🙏
@vinitanepal283
@vinitanepal283 Жыл бұрын
नमस्कार सर, बहुत अच्छे सुझाव हैं । सर, अगर सास अपनी और अपने बड़े बेटे या बेटी के सम्पति या सुविधाओ के साथ छोटे बेटे की तुलना करे तो ऐसी स्थिति मे क्या करें ?
@Rahul-or9hr
@Rahul-or9hr 3 жыл бұрын
Very nice video . Every saas and bahu should watch this !
@speacialkids2817
@speacialkids2817 Жыл бұрын
Aapke jaise in laws chahiye life me indian women's ko
@rahulrajbhoj
@rahulrajbhoj Ай бұрын
So many families suffer because of this drama. Wish all families listen to this and make their lives better.
@always4frndz
@always4frndz Жыл бұрын
Bahut daring ki hai sir ne...hats off 👏👏
@dekho5
@dekho5 2 ай бұрын
Sir your videos are good the problem is that only those people are watching it who need changes not the one who can really change. Thanks for making such videos
@SGSMUMBAICHANNEL
@SGSMUMBAICHANNEL 3 жыл бұрын
Very explained ... This video should be viral ... Share it at the max.
@vandanarajput1670
@vandanarajput1670 Жыл бұрын
Very practical and absolute point.
@rochisaurabh5326
@rochisaurabh5326 Ай бұрын
True, really appreciate it
@snehalatakambagi9601
@snehalatakambagi9601 Жыл бұрын
Sir aap sahi bol rahe hai.we are of the same opinion.Hum apne dono beto ke liye. yahi Sutra implement Kiya hai.Dono Bahu bahut ijjat dete hai.By God's grace we have madhura relation with each other.bahuo se jyaada hamne pariksha di hai!! 😊
@minakshi7530
@minakshi7530 Жыл бұрын
Waah aap jaisi saas sabko nhi milti . Meri saas nanad to mujhe bahut sunati hai , kitna v acha khana bana lu un dono ko pasand hi nhi aata . Saal me ek baar hi jate hai inlaws k yahan but fir v depression & tension wapas le kar aate hai . Unki baatein mujhe chubhti hai .. meri shadi ko 8 years ho chuke hai but aaj v wo dono mujhe pasand nhi karte .
@ruchisaxena6136
@ruchisaxena6136 Жыл бұрын
Hamare yahan bhi same he meri bahut bhi bahut izzat deti he kyonki men bhi bahut pyar karti hun usko dono side se hota he par ye bat or he meri bahu hamare calchar ki nahi he
@rajenderkumar2696
@rajenderkumar2696 10 ай бұрын
आभार आप का, मेरे तो दिल क़ो अंदर से झकोर दिया 🙏🙏
@priyamohanty3835
@priyamohanty3835 Жыл бұрын
I agree with all the points. Relationship obligations should not be imposed solely on the other partner. In- law parents also have the obligations for the new member who comes to that family . Think logically then only things will work. Thank u for uploading such videos and bring such subjects to this platform.
@ushakshirsagar3466
@ushakshirsagar3466 Жыл бұрын
पति और पत्नी दोस्त हैं। एक दुसरे की help करें । सर, बिल्कुल सही कहा आपने..... ऐसा ही होता है इसको अच्छे से समझ लिया तो शांति और सुकून मिलेगा। और इस को समझने में गलती कर गए तो सुख चैन खो जायेगा। पता नही लोग ज्यादा फिल्मी क्यों हो जाते हैं....?
@varalakshmipasupathi4459
@varalakshmipasupathi4459 Жыл бұрын
Very true which is hard to understand by both wife and mother..its a bitter pill.this relationship.
@niluferwajeeh4352
@niluferwajeeh4352 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you totally. Excellent advice. God bless you.
@bharatideore3101
@bharatideore3101 Жыл бұрын
Impressive solution ....saas aur bahu ki joint property.....
@poojagurjar9430
@poojagurjar9430 Жыл бұрын
How true sir,,,,love from all daughter in law,,,,
@p.c.8509
@p.c.8509 Жыл бұрын
Sir , ,👏👏👏👏apki videos dekhi , meri bilkul aisi hi sooch hai jaisi aapki hai, aur sach batau to sasural mae batamiz kehlati hu 😂 . Saas sasur batamiz kehtey hai mujhey
@asar969
@asar969 3 ай бұрын
I agree daughter in law doesn't have any duty towards her in laws ,pata nahi there is a wrong message prevailing in our society that it's duty of d in law to take care of saas and sasur that isn't right .
@happylife7616
@happylife7616 Жыл бұрын
😂🤣🤣🤭 aap bhi risk m h 😂👍bahut badiya
@abc12xyz
@abc12xyz Жыл бұрын
Well said. So practical. Now i am feeling that i am not wrong. My thinking is matching with you
@sheetalsharma2943
@sheetalsharma2943 Жыл бұрын
Apki trha samjdaar bhagwan kre SBI ho jaye
@saneshkumar7827
@saneshkumar7827 3 жыл бұрын
Sir good Sir aapki video me maza aata h
@endlessjoychannel71
@endlessjoychannel71 Жыл бұрын
point no. 3 aise to fir bahu ko bhi hamesha apne papa ki pari rahena chaiye
@manjular3678
@manjular3678 Жыл бұрын
What you spoke is absolutely true. Thank you 🙏
@Sanju-Sir1000
@Sanju-Sir1000 3 жыл бұрын
Sir ye video se aapne galatfahmi se parda utha diya 1000% Nice video
@mousonasarkar1037
@mousonasarkar1037 Жыл бұрын
Dear Sir Hope the thought of our Indian society may change with your beauuutiful videos..May God bless u...🙏
@urmilamarandi5790
@urmilamarandi5790 Жыл бұрын
Agr saas bahu se koi umeed na rkhe to bahu ko bhi future me apni bahu se koi umeed nhi rkhni chahye
@saumyapunekar8625
@saumyapunekar8625 Жыл бұрын
Awesome, very inspiring 100% agree with all points discussed . Keep up the good work ❤️👌😇🙏💐
@ranibajpai7978
@ranibajpai7978 Жыл бұрын
Meaningful video u r so great sir salute u
@parvinjain8255
@parvinjain8255 3 жыл бұрын
Very nice and true. I personally agree. This is practically application
@vk7875
@vk7875 11 ай бұрын
Bhai ji maza a gaya.... Bahut badia...
@ashokr28
@ashokr28 3 жыл бұрын
At last someone said all the points.
@user-dv5rh7ku9k
@user-dv5rh7ku9k 2 жыл бұрын
Mostly near to reality.. good content..thank you for your way of thinking
@RekhaSharma-ye3ut
@RekhaSharma-ye3ut Жыл бұрын
adabhut gyan sir ji🙏
@vaijoyantakundu9670
@vaijoyantakundu9670 3 жыл бұрын
Seemingly Very light with heavy dose of wisdom..wish u cud dwell upon a little more on ur tip...joint property of saas bahu...☺
@endlessjoychannel71
@endlessjoychannel71 Жыл бұрын
bilkul sahi beti apne production house ki sewa karegi khud ke ma baap ki . i agree
@saritadadwal3620
@saritadadwal3620 3 жыл бұрын
Very interesting 👍😀
@rajeevkhokhar4363
@rajeevkhokhar4363 3 жыл бұрын
Very nice. Sir knowledgeable and practical guidance, thanks.
@nri18
@nri18 3 жыл бұрын
Great stuff... I guess next video will be on Husband Wife relationship...
@meenukumar2664
@meenukumar2664 Жыл бұрын
Amazing session 👏 👌 🙌 😍 ✨️
@Bhairavi456
@Bhairavi456 Жыл бұрын
Acchi baate batae aapne Amal karni chahiye sabhi Ney.
@Bollywood_duniya07
@Bollywood_duniya07 6 ай бұрын
Thankyou sir aapne bahut achhi advice di thankyou ❤❤❤❤❤ so muchhhhh👏👏
@lakshmidagar6733
@lakshmidagar6733 2 жыл бұрын
Very well said.... issues are put very decently and clear....salam sir🙏
@shalubhalla430
@shalubhalla430 Жыл бұрын
Bahut acha ha video ha sahi ha life ka sach
@amithaprabhu1266
@amithaprabhu1266 Жыл бұрын
Awesome
@padmaiyer9693
@padmaiyer9693 Жыл бұрын
sir aap bahut sundar trike se batata hai.Thanku.
@princychhabra8059
@princychhabra8059 10 ай бұрын
Very much practical thought process🎉
@ritujindal7473
@ritujindal7473 Жыл бұрын
Bahut badhiya sir. 🙏🙏🙏. Shared in all my groups. Listening your videos gives me a feeling of taking with my father.
@ShashiSharma-pb9jv
@ShashiSharma-pb9jv Жыл бұрын
Very true.. wonderful video.. very thoughtful..
@RajeshAllem8256
@RajeshAllem8256 Жыл бұрын
Awesome content and pointers and solution
@seema9146
@seema9146 Жыл бұрын
I really salute you sir for taking this extreme step in making people understand the basic essence of our life. Please do make more videos on this.
@s.arvindpandey2942
@s.arvindpandey2942 2 жыл бұрын
Very informative and usefull.
@ektaupadhyay903
@ektaupadhyay903 Жыл бұрын
Thought provoking and practical suggestions.
@roshankarna1954
@roshankarna1954 6 ай бұрын
God Shiva bless you for making such videos
@maitreyikarn1412
@maitreyikarn1412 Жыл бұрын
Logically well explained
@stella-gf6jl
@stella-gf6jl Жыл бұрын
Really helpful sir.. I am newly married thank you
@arthvittiwari4855
@arthvittiwari4855 Жыл бұрын
Ek friend har samay help karne taiyar rahta, dusra help lene me khush rahta hai, par apni bari aati hai, to kanni kaat leta hai, yahi dosti bigad jati hai..
@manjupanwar8480
@manjupanwar8480 Жыл бұрын
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