Can Self-Love Be Harmful?

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Sadhguru looks at the popular new-age concept of self-love, and explains how it may lead down a road that has unexpected, unpleasant results.
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@sandeepmehta4497 Жыл бұрын

Today western world is teaching “First love yourself.” I never understood what people think about this. They start following such things without processing any logic or understanding. True love is to explore your heart, open it up, feel the sweetness and emit same in the world.

@princedame9534 Жыл бұрын

Love yourself in the sense that you need to take care of yourself which is pretty obvious

@sandeepmehta4497 Жыл бұрын

@@princedame9534 agreed, you need to take care of yourself but people understand it in a way that it is the only thing. The idea is to take care of yourself so you can do better for your family, society and the world and extend yourself. Self-love is driving people to be paranoid!

@martinst8764 Жыл бұрын

Yes, me too. It can be quite a confusing notion, to 'love yourself'. This whole notion is even used as a phrase to mock people who hate themselves (which is actually a huge problem in the west!). Obviously, it's preferable to love yourself rather than hate yourself but regards Truth, both are limiting. You only have to be what you are without dictating ideas about life and goodness. Sadhguru makes this very clear 👌

@franklinayala4879 Жыл бұрын

Thee Bible teaches this

@ichbin8420 Жыл бұрын

Selflove in which you care and focus only or primarily for yourself is ego. We are not here to only love ourselves but further more to love and care and serve others. This is our purpose and true nature. Only the ego mind that comes from a lacking place tells you to take care of yourself first. When you put yourself first you're not connected with the source. If you give yourself away you're free from ego and one with source and therfore with true love.

@planetmchanic6299 Жыл бұрын

You don't have to look for love when it's where your coming from.

@haridasmore7794 Жыл бұрын

Video is of 2008...... Many thinks..." it is for me & now"😁... Beauty of truth...

@lisag9493 Жыл бұрын

Just be the best person you can be ,, be generous and kind ,, we will all be someone’s memory one day,, so make it a good one ,,

@Darth_Pain Жыл бұрын

Bla bla let Sahd do the preaching we're good without your little two cents Lisa baby 😋😎 now check my bio and hmu if u have jungle fever 🥵

@naturalviewvlogs54 Жыл бұрын

Dear - Whoever is reading my comment at this time, we are all unknown to each other, yet I pray to God that if there is any tension going on in your life, then it should go away and you should always be happy!

@Delta3068 Жыл бұрын

If your prayers get answered Sadhguru will have to shut shop 😅

@mohankumar87 Жыл бұрын

Single most important talk of Sadhguru ever!

@lilyrocco1 Жыл бұрын

Sadhuru gives me real practical guidance for everyday life. The kind of messages I can apply to everyday situations. Thank you.

@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 Жыл бұрын

"There is something beyond what you think and feel" The Truth 🔥Keep moving towards it my friends ❤

@felgeota Жыл бұрын

I know something, I’m working hard in a project, tht someone put in my mind, so, my big goal is meet to Sandguru face to face to say thanks, cuz of all his advices, make this person be better!

@umoya04 Жыл бұрын

this man is so wise'......he is having nice voice of Life

@karmadolkar6454 Жыл бұрын

Thank you! I needed it. ❤️

@Naya.jankari.technepal Жыл бұрын

Great person Sadhguru Parnam 🙏

@jsk5754 Жыл бұрын

God bless sadhguru so blessed to listen his words ❤😭🌟

@kartikeypatel7426 Жыл бұрын

Satguru dev ko mera koti koti namaskar.

@Wildflowerafternoons Жыл бұрын

Hooray! Finally someone for a realist! Thank you!

@shatabdic8761 Жыл бұрын

It's not about loving yourself, it's about experiencing the love we are from within that is needed to expand and love others. Please dont get the word self love wrong.

@akshay.p4569 Жыл бұрын

@letícia · ॐ ┈ 😘

@raamtodkar140 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing 🙏🏻🌼🙏🏻

@rahulmahbubani1392 Жыл бұрын

The accuracy with which throws that bell 🥶

@famousman3714 Жыл бұрын

Physics

@prathameshpatil8155 Жыл бұрын

thanks for the wise advice!

@blissfulpetandtravel9963 Жыл бұрын

Very inspiring

@Lakshyapur Жыл бұрын

Yeah it's absolutely right dear सद्गुरु sir

@amarendraborah6941 Жыл бұрын

"To get full value of joy, you must have someone to share it with !"

@ricardocrisostomo1385 Жыл бұрын

In reality check, one can only grow. not too many positive and not too many negative

@yashmathur8140 Жыл бұрын

AWESOMEE Sadhguru !

@varshachandra1208 Жыл бұрын

So much love to the questioner. B coz it happens with the most.

@wandfy5237 Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@aashishkothari111 Жыл бұрын

I wanted to become an Actor...was halfway there...but divine touched me..and as Sadhguru said...entertainment will make no sense.. And it became truth of my Life...now i want higher self of myself.... All with grace of Sadhguru 🙏🏻❤

@jayanthj9155 Жыл бұрын

Hi can you elaborate? Even I wanted to become an actor and regret not being one(due to my situations). Can you please guide me to get out of this acting trap?

@priyapriy12 Жыл бұрын

🙏🙏

@LightersWorld Жыл бұрын

@@jayanthj9155 Hey there, plz do listen the kya karu song at end of the song one nice msg is there from his side...Hope u grap well what he says.. Don't try to conclude anything as he do says many a times..jst go step by step and do yoga (he even said: whatever do u do carry yoga wd u) don't ever learn just to gain knowledge if u implement it well it always help us in manyways 🙏🏻 if ur trying to figure good bad its like belief n disbelief..don't do that..

@jayanthj9155 Жыл бұрын

@@LightersWorld thank you so much for replying. Can you please tell how long will it take to see results mentally and physically if i start yoga?

@shubhambarve4785 Жыл бұрын

@@jayanthj9155 Don't care about time One of the most important rule is to do it without any expectations. Just do it inclusively and you will see the results.

@the.trollgubbe2642 Жыл бұрын

Never loved myself, always kept a neutral perspective. Always thought the love my self talk to be rediciolus

@anshuldravid6532 Жыл бұрын

Overwhelmed ❤️

@faseeh661 Жыл бұрын

Sadhguru ji 🙏❤️😊💯

@BanBiofuels Жыл бұрын

Good lecture. You can never escape your small self, only incorporate it into your larger self. The contradiction of life is that we all have to work to survive, yet when we drop all work and thought we experience our bigger self, which is universal, not local. Work is local, but no-thought is universal.

@Name_Lessness Жыл бұрын

I too have been diagnosed with severe schizophrenia. When the voices were inside the head it's true I was searching for self love and we divided ourselves into 3 pieces, body mind spirit. Each explored the perfect way to be, realist, pessimist and optimist on any issue that pertained to us. As conchessnes expanded it also contracted and found balance in this process. All 3 agreed their is no right way to always be and that THAT is the right way to be and thus we became One. Now the voices are on the outside and the entities hear me, I sense their emotions, thoughts and their density/push and pull so I am diagnosed with Schitzoaffective disorder. I've learned an experienced and taught a great deal of many things and it's our understanding that when we open ourselves up to a universal possibility the universe responds to that application and what we experienced and know will become a more universal calling. Not believing in a delusion is also called a delusion. Thank you.

@alrizo1115 Жыл бұрын

I haven't paid attention to my well-being before. Only just recently. Was it self love, or was it just I becoming love? Well, in truth, I felt a lot better when I started taking care of myself. And easier for me to communicate with others.

@Enta_wana Жыл бұрын

Congrats ☺️

@mindsoulpower Жыл бұрын

in fact self love is most important.. just like rumi said

@gauravr1796 Жыл бұрын

It's easier said than done, to ignore the psychological gossip

@pritamdudhare7684 Жыл бұрын

Sadhguru 🤩

@StudioOnee Жыл бұрын

Nice ❤️

@indiancricketteam5555 Жыл бұрын

Sir you are best

@Happy-yg4eu Жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot 🙏 sadhguru now i can say i am with myself i started to follow your ideas and thoughts my experience is wonderful .. I think this 3 work is enough for my life 1- mediation ' when i feel down i started mediation 2- focus on study - 8 hours in a day 3 - yoga and exercise's which makes me mentally and physically strong 💪🙏 Jai shree ram

@Enta_wana Жыл бұрын

Glad you made it ☺️

@99_problems_band Жыл бұрын

Plea se list en my mus ic

@mahiaggarwal3902 Жыл бұрын

hey!

@mahiaggarwal3902 Жыл бұрын

How do u focus in studies?

@ro27hit Жыл бұрын

Namaskaram Sadhguru. :)

@samanthajwright6865 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Indian Uncle big love from London 🇬🇧 xxx

@ignouhelp2001 Жыл бұрын

Sadhguru 🙏🤗🙌

@Manu-hc8ff Жыл бұрын

Sadhguru 🙏🔱💐🌹😇💖

@HO-mg2yl Жыл бұрын

One should love self first . That is step to become self less .. and self will realise everything in self and self in every thing ..

@seansmith1725 Жыл бұрын

Right, if u love urself, u automatically love everything no?

@peontravalley Жыл бұрын

Shiv 🕉

@thepartha1000 Жыл бұрын

My love n hate relationship with this beyond is working. Try it, may help others. Har Har Mahadev.

@edwardpark6487 Жыл бұрын

Hard to hear such truth

@RajuVijayanpalazhy Жыл бұрын

that is determined by your followers who are sensible to test their mind

@srikrishnakoduri2926 Жыл бұрын

Sadhguru 🙏

@powerhouselyvie4249 Жыл бұрын

I can't get this non self-love yet. What if i'm just fascinated by this life energy that i truly am?

@weirdestgaming53 Жыл бұрын

Love from bihar❤️

@brandonsilva940 Жыл бұрын

Sahdguru: I'm always wondering: am I practicing self-love, or humility? Self-confidence, or egotism?

@ingegerdtheresesorrell338 Жыл бұрын

Loving all others what makes me really happy. When saying I love myself, I get down. I think I am a good person, so therefore I like myself enough. Is love for others ( all beings) I feel peace love compassion, a sweetness about life. Not sure this make sense, hope it does and somebody understand🙂🙃😄

@GreenBean4U Жыл бұрын

Yes

@Message_for_Mankind Жыл бұрын

Namaskar Sadhguru ji🙏. I stay in Goa, I wanted to meet you and tell you about Ramkrishna Paramahamsa‘s projectile that he was shooting with Swami Vivekananda, You’re visiting goa, can u please give me 5mins, please let Sadhgurji knows about this msg., it will help us for soil save mission.

@pinaykhant3151 Жыл бұрын

SAVE SOIL... 🙏🙏🙏

@b.d.1379 Жыл бұрын

Stay grounded in realism. Psychological is not everything... existential is. Bad thoughts are self gossip. Gossip is entertainment only. Enjoy it if you like it but there's more.

@dannycassinellibarac9993 Жыл бұрын

Problem comes when believing. No believes. Love is not emotion or thought. Need to do. Just do. Amar/ hacer.

@salliemae9284 Жыл бұрын

Self love means accepting your flaws and imperfections loving who you are and giving yourself love and affections. I believe that in order for me to love others I shall love myself first. If you obsessed with self love too much that it impedes your functioning then it becomes a disease therefore you have to balance your life . 20 percent pursuit of happiness and self love 20 percent for wealth 20 percent taking care of love ones your wife husband family 20percent rest and relaxation 20 percent spirituality /higher self.

@Enta_wana Жыл бұрын

Well written 🥰

@varshaagarwal1695 Жыл бұрын

I like the thought

@CrazyKidsKesha3 Жыл бұрын

SadGuru you are my perspiration! Thank you for always bean there when I need stimulation ;)

@SpyGyan Жыл бұрын

❤️

@imbharat02 Жыл бұрын

🙏🏼

@eversunnyguy Жыл бұрын

Looks like Sadhguru has studied psychology well and a great communicator and a story teller.

@untouched5131 Жыл бұрын

🙏

@garymorrison9179 Жыл бұрын

It’s probably too late for me. I’ve developed into three.

@subhramanyamsharma3682 Жыл бұрын

What he meant by "taste of divine" Is it love? Can anyone tell me?

@RAJ_R Жыл бұрын

👏👏👏

@criptik5208 Жыл бұрын

Isnt loving the self one? Or is it that you love yourself that is not one with you and and one it becomes one then you love no more ? Lets say one somebody get its , is it equal expansion or one sided?

@shyamalagowri9992 Жыл бұрын

we are just souls.. your body doesnt belong to you..when you love your body, you mean to eat responsibly to nourish it and maintain it.. you need to take care of your mind and give the much needed love by reading/listening/singing etc.. with your passion.. self love is harmful only when you live as animal , not as a human who knows that we are part of universe, we born on karma , and we are to love and nourish the earth we belong to.. self love to be expanded as big as earth

@ritaragunath871 Жыл бұрын

🙏🧡🌷

@mandarjangam7667 Жыл бұрын

🕉️🌸🙏

@deepakshinde9255 Жыл бұрын

💓🙏

@hriddhisinha8937 Жыл бұрын

Sadhguru please tell me how to cure psoriasis permanently.plz help me

@mcmacshalfilya Жыл бұрын

Highland High Schooi

@sunilsindhu4103 Жыл бұрын

Shri Sadguru ji you know my every possition .l know about me but everymoment happen with you.pls.out me in this distrebution.Only you are my love.Ilove you ..................000000000000000.

@rvind000 Жыл бұрын

You can become love, it isn't an act, unfortunately world is far from understanding this.

@ashwindas6814 Жыл бұрын

🙏🙏🙏🙏

@prabhagupta5015 Жыл бұрын

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

@Vivek-mq1gf Жыл бұрын

❤️🙏🏼🙇🏻🌺

@swayamcurrentaffairs9601 Жыл бұрын

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@bellatheband Жыл бұрын

I believe Self Love also translates to the self that we all are, AhamBrahmasmi! If we live in love, the world will be a more loving place as we all inhabit the same energy and are one with it, even if we feel separated.. I think this is the true meaning of self love, when you are loving towards yourself you become a vessel for love instead of hate, disturbance, aggression, jealousy, confusion and so on.... "The Self is below, above, behind, in front, to the right, to the left. The self is everything. The personal self is the same as the impersonal self. Atma and Brahman are equal." (From ´The science of the Rishis`by Vanamali)

@nithinsadasivan4470 Жыл бұрын

Love all. Self love in modern world mostly translates to selfishness or limited mind.

@roginebacani8669 Жыл бұрын

Help sadhguru... 🙏

@hitarthsheth3524 Жыл бұрын

Master!!🙏🙏

@nancyrode9781 Жыл бұрын

🙏💛🌱🌈

@InsightfulIndiaoffical Жыл бұрын

3:40

@jacksonlyons7144 Жыл бұрын

0:59 I want to say this before I might hear it, but I don’t think you can always stay balanced. Like driving a car you have swerve a little left or right before you can remember to stay focused on driving straight, but you can never be perfect balance. I think you can only decrease how unbalanced and for how long you become unbalanced before you balance yourself out again.

@jacksonlyons7144 Жыл бұрын

Also sorry if you’re not Christian I’m not either but I often try to understand it since I grew up on it first. I think balance is the reason why God(s) create evil. You could also argue that there ego and needing to be praised is also the reason they create evil, but that might be their nature like eating is too us. And in order for someone to praise and worship something there has to be a side in a pendulum they side with to feel the need to praise and worship. Making it a necessity for us too.

@dr.gorkheyyt674 Жыл бұрын

🥰🥰

@rafimohd5 11 ай бұрын

I want to share a story from Greek mythology about a person who saw his own reflection in the river continuously he did self love since he didn't get an opportunity to love the opposite gender he became mad and died near that river..............

@hemabhemab6293 Жыл бұрын

🕉💐💐🙏🙏🙏

@relaxhere4191 Жыл бұрын

@TX_gaming972 Жыл бұрын

Hey grind baa I think I don't english languages

@relaxhere4191 Жыл бұрын

@crimsonitacilunarnebula Жыл бұрын

i love me me love i its mutual

@bliss5205 Жыл бұрын

Ppl say i hate myself ....are they two???.. it's mean...no ..if they hate themself they can love themselves tooo.....and how u treat yiurself ...u treat others