The problem is when you become high value you already know what you should have known much earlier....

"If we dont reflect we repeat" 💯💯💯

Codependency behavior attracts narcissists. I learned it as an experience a couple of years ago. I was my first red flag, my behavior. I didn’t blame him 100%. Thank you Sadia 🙏🏽

“ I haven’t finished rejecting you; how could you have already moved on?” 😅 Some men are very capable of doing something like that. 😎

Rejection is just part of life and people better get used to it. Wether it's a relationship a job or something else. You just have to move on and accept it. I've had rejection from women and jobs . It sucks but if you dwell on it and over think it , it's going to eat you alive and using anger or violence doesn't solve anything and makes it worse. The problem is we have a generation of of kids that were never allowed to fail or deal with rejection and when they experience rejection they think they came solve it or justify it with violence or anger.

Healthy self-esteem coupled with confidence that you can handle rejection with a sense of humor is an extremely attractive trait in a person. Flipping rejection back and getting emotionally disregulated, angry, mean and rude to the person who rejected you, putting them down and threatening them is a clear sign of low self-esteem and emotional immaturity. (I understand that they are in survival mode). It's very unattractive.

Sadia speaks exactly like my mother and my lady friends. I appreciate women like this.

Can't believe it's all as shallow as this. I've been rejected by women all my life. I'm now 75. Rejection saps confidence, induces resentment, jealousy, bitterness, low self esteem - and loneliness. It affects every aspect of one's life including working life - as it did in my case. I feel worthless. For me it's been the worst thing in my life - and I've had cancer.

As someone from South America, guys there jump quickly from one to another, not because they are high value or have loads of self esteem, but because women in these countries are seeing as objects so they learned very young to treat them as such.

For the record, this is one of the most important interviews this amazing woman has given in my opinion. A beautiful blessing indeed. 💯%👌🏽

i am eastern european and i live in brazil. and it is so true about latin people. they are just always so positive and easy going. if a woman rejects a man, he does not give a damn and goes on to the next one. that easy. living here had helped me handle it with more ease, i guess.

Well, as long as the cultural behaviors are being done by members of a culture who are healthy, then you’ll see that. I haven’t handled rejection consistently in healthy ways. I have in the past, but I cannot deny that when I’m not in a good place I become something I am not, which you’ve actually elucidated for me just now. Thank you. You’ve made me keen. Bless you. This really helps and heals.

Wow..! What an insight..! Both, pretty psychologist and delivering value as well..!!! Thank you Sadia.

Oh my god. How much I would like to talk about my life with this Woman. Sadia you are great!!!

Wow so true most of the time we see the person’s true colors from the very beginning and still choose to stay cause maybe “they will change” or “I can change them”

Very instructing. Thank you very much. I like the interview style as it focuses going straight to the point of the matter.

100%. Your ex might very well be a narcissist it doesn't mean you're this innocent victim. You have choices. You are also an adult. Two actions can exist at the same time!!!

I can relate 💯% I recently approached to a girl in college with flowers 💐 in the middle of the lobby (I don't think anyone else noticed). Her reaction? She was in shock! 😳 I made the first move because I thought she might be into me; we were holding eye contact frequently whenever we passed by. She's like, 'I don't know you!' I was like 'I don't know you either, but I'm interested in getting to know you.' (Still in shock) She said No. I asked, 'Not a chance?😁' Still, No. I then said, 'Oh, it's okay,' and walked away. When I said 'it's okay,' her reaction was something else

Feeling rejected is a very egoic way to view a separation. If someone needs to go to be on their path and the relationship isn't right for them any more, that is what it is, no need to view it as rejection.

Sadia is just as wise as she's gorgeous. Great insight...keep it up & may God favor you to do more!

So well said, he needs to be so sure that his masculinity is a statement for itself. He should not be ok with misbehaviour but if he acts the same as we do, too emotional we cant rely on him in dangerous situations. Therefore we cant deeply built trust and in the long term just cant respect him...

Women with a secure attachment style don't test men like Sadia says. They know how to self soothe and don't push men's buttons to see his reactions.

She's so beautiful I can't handle it. 😍😍

Well said! Fyi, audio is super scratchy..

She so right! I knew something wasn’t right with my relationship with in a couple of mths in, my gut was saying something isn’t right fast forward 4.5yrs after yrs of anxiety and losing myself to save his feelings over my own, never again even tho he’s the one with avoidant attachment I don’t blame him at all, he only got away with what I allowed, a very hard pill to swallow but lessen learnt 😅

Thank you nadia, breakup going easier thanks to your videos

So true.. I just got rejected by this chick who is 21 and she is gorgeous, but I am moving on because there are too many fish in the sea to be depressed for one.

I love her voice and accent!❤

this is what I needed to hear . what was she like when I first met her . the last 12 months after breakup has been challenging ; but I HAVE been introspective and not moved on at all . Now that I think back to when I first met her; it stands out like a sore thumb as to why it ended the way it did for us . I think I can finally let it go now . Thanks SK . 🇦🇺🏄‍♂️💦☀️

How cute analysis!!! People would imagine anything about relationship, nowadays, Isn’t it?

THE ART OF SAYING NO.

really good posture to take here, full responsibility so you can change yourself

My ex was xyz, but I’m not focused on that. I’m focused on my growth. I know my weaknesses. Take accountability. Learn strength. Learn emotional control and resilience

"I learned not to be carless and reckless [choosing a partner]". Meaning, 'it's all her fault and I should have known better'. He didn't learn anything. He still blames her for being the problem in the relationship. But, which ways did he trigger her to treat him that way. What is it about her that confirmed his ideas about himself. Man, we can delude ourselves so much in relationships. You don't grow until you actually do take accountability for your role in the progression and outcomes of your relationships... Romantic and otherwise.

damn this content ty

Thank you, next. Words to live by.

Whoever did the subtitles for the whole video deserves a raise. Lol I can barely do 2 mins without getting annoyed

Damn Sadia, tell it all

Sadia is glowing.

So true unfortunately she speaks truth

Can this woman stop looking so damn good?

coming from the field of psychology too I have to say when in the first minute she said something like „you choose these nacistic partners, cause you like that“ that is the dangerous part. I feel like I have so mention yess you choose them but it’s not like you’re liking to be treated in that way !!!! impotant difference. We are driven by habits that formed in our parts but it’s not that we benefit from all these habits or that we secretly enjoy where our habits bring us. Important to say and not to tell people that have accepted to be treated horribly oh yeah but you decide to let that happen and actually you like it. NO they need to realize their power in walking a way and setting boundaries but they don’t always end up with narcissists cause they „like it“ !

My favourite psychologist pllllleeeeaaasee advise us low value men with no other work options how can we increase our value or should we accept our lot..

I can confirm as a Latino (Puerto Rican), I take rejection the best way possible. I just work on myself for me and improve. I remember experiencing this for the first time in high school and I took it as a champ. I got rid of my acne and changed my wardrobe a bit. I would say 2 months later, my friends were saying that I was glowing. I didn't feel like I changed much. That same girl who rejected me tried to be flirty with me and I rejected her. I have self respect and even when I rejected her she stayed around or close by to me. Self respect is key fellas.

I learnt self discipline,self awareness

I’ve gotten into the trouble calling people, narcissist, and then I’m like no it’s really bad. I was calling this dude on my birthday and her sister. He was actually really nice to me even if he was like a sex trafficker he was still super nice to me like he could’ve pushed me away he could’ve been meaner to me. He could’ve called me ugly he didn’t.

well said

I'm already having fun with this - a narcissistic society on the trail of narcissists ;)))

I don't think it's about him knowing He's Worthy it's about playing it as a numbers game and not being invested in any particular one knowing that eventually you'll hit roulette if you put enough chips on the table

My psychological problems will go away as soon as I walk to the room and she's looking like that.

Beautiful and smart.

Its not worth worring about.Just stay single.

You can't lose something that was never yours and you don't lose anything by losing something that never had value.

Please remember your hair creates static on the microphone and makes this difficult to listen to. This happened the first time on Mark’s program too.

i find it strange to condemn pornography but to look up to a man who's built an empire on it

" I chose an abusive partner?". Even if I agree with the stance of owing to your bad choice - but it i s more complicated than that - the future scoundrel lured you in by being the queen of sexappeal, the red flags were there, by they were not expressed verrbally, or even camouflaged verbally to hide the truth. I did not choose an abuser, but I still am quilty for going for it in the first place. Yoiu just extend your world - there are deceptive married people out there who are unhappy but cannot break away.

❤️😁 your beautiful and always delivering value thank you 😃😃

@sadiapsychology I use to be very very attractive in my 20’s & 30’s and use to have very to little Tolerance for stupid behavior from men now in my early 40’s, single no kids I’m too oblivious to the red flags.. I was told all my life I’m too hard on men, and now I make excuses to the red flags, like “Cindy u gotta be more patient with him”.. It’s like I have no happy medium In relationships. I have an anxious attachment style but Have done a lot of growth the 6months. It has definitely helped me significantly but I still struggle With the red flags im too nice or too harsh.. I seen one of your videos u said red flags are not all bad, meaning , as long as you Don’t see your deal breakers being one of them. I guess this can probably help calm my anxious attachment. Any feed back ?

NO IS NO . SIMPLE

Thanks girl 💕❤️🇩🇿🇩🇿

I agree with a lot of what she says but there is no way in hell I liked the abuse. I grew up in a loving and healthy home and she fooled me by pretending she was someone she wasn't. If I saw signs of cheating, stealing, walking out on her kids to sleep with a stranger, I wouldn't have chosen her

Right🎉

she begs you, she cries, she needs you, sje implores - ok, I can help, why not, I knew she was married, but she needs it so bad, and you are so flattered...

What do you do when the woman often looks around at other men during a conversation?

The audio in this is awful and I wanted to watch it and I tried , but it's too much scratching.😢

Hi Sadia its up to Humor already life love say something funny and explain how why when etc to be humorous correctly. Because after a tiring day of upholding the HIGH VALUE you so value, its not the easiest thing to be pleasent to others. Thanks.

Beautiful woman that she is much insight

Did u know ur Instagram link doesn’t work ?

Is everyone blind? This woman is beautiful. Any man who has a woman like her is lucky.

True Men in the Caribbean can handle it. Im from the Caribbean i don't date outside my ethnicity. American men are nothing like that.

Who is the interviewer of this episodes

There shop signs - like, yeah, like advertisements, like signals, and you do not know before you try out. There are people like that - they signal, they catch like those prey fish with different relishers. You cut out the very fact of being lured into.

8:25 I'm getting rejection just like that for 2-3 years now, but my success is still close to the 0✌️😄

Great Video but please fix the Audio!!!! 😢🎧

This is not entirely true. The environment is also not necessarily chosen. Country, authority, etc.

A lot of her philosophy is supported by her own generalities and assumptions about people.

...I'm a thin woman and I get rejected all the time LMAO

She's such a beautiful woman

❤❤❤❤

Honest question, what't the equivalent of overweight women when it comes to men?

Beautiful thanks for sharing, but something were uncomfortable in your TOP miss khan

Please, place the mic somewhere else.

Difficult to get through this video because of the microphone background noise.

lots of mike disturbance. audio was scratchy all the time.

😊😊😊

Well, boys, I think Sadia is engaged. It was bound to happen sooner than later.

The counselling is good, but what is the neeed to dress that way? Why do women want to show their bodies 24/7?

The video have highly got sound interrupted because of live recorded? With the sponge it is far more better cover the mic. (movement sound interrupted) I've learn from experiences with a little knowledge on music which is written as a begginging of what? G? Personal trainer are the professional of the profession not the businessman or businesswoman.

The audio needs some improvement. Good video nonetheless.

Sadia Khan fine

I miss her on Instagram 😢

Most of the time people prefer to see themselves as victims to not engage their responsibility. It is easier

8-9 times?

09:29 isnt that a clear sign of being a shallow personality? Or are you suggesting that men should treat ALL and ANY woman like its not a big deal to lose her because you should move on to the next best thing because all this dating staff is not being of a deal anyway - there's no Love, there's no Commitment, nothing to hold on to and to cherish, etc.?

🤍💙✊🏽🇺🇸💥

How do you teach confidence? Because i just tell my not so attractive guy friends to picture the cutest gal at the bar on the loo, the potty sweets, in the most nastiest of moments till they think, ewww! BUT it changes their perception of that person and makes it less "scary". Picture living life with that person? The fear dissapears in some disgusting kind of round-about way. No fear man! love the skin youre in. Be confident! whip it out and if she's interested she'll still touch the wee petter. 🙂 Me to friends lol

I feel like it was recorded on a trashbag😅

Sadia, just describe black men the best. I hate when women give me their number for no reason. Tell me no. I am giving you a compliment by approaching you and you are just going to insult me in a condescending manner but then ghosting after. Pointless.

Patrice O’Neal was right

When you use clip-on sensitive microphones, you need to wear less jewellery and tie up your hair. Cheers