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Many people seem to treat marriage like one of those bucket list challenges. Some kind of fun party thing to experience once in a lifetime, rather than having any real meaning.

Well, if youre ugly and broke, that could have a lot to do with it...or maybe some people are just destined to be single. Instead of fighting it, embrace it. Make it work for you 😊

Her voice is so soothing ❤

I said it a million times and will again. Work on Yourself and you will attract whatever women you can imagine. Work on yourself more than anything and be great. Women know greatness it’s impossible to hide.

Amazing interview. ..I left with one major truth...I have exchanged empathy for desire ... Nothing more profound nothing more true about my control of choice and how that has subconsciously steered my life in the direction lust over genuine connection ..thank you Dr Sadia Khan...

She nailed it! Well done Sadia

Thats why I am staying single. I can't be bother with all the BS. I don't give a shit about being on my own.

All what you say resonates me… thank you for being precise and the same time coming across in the simplest way. Keep it up. Thankyou.

It's an interesting point about how polarising attractive people can be for others. Ironically in dating you aim to polarise but that's a given for an attractive person. I would personally find it quite anxiety inducing to think about other people having strong intention towards me whether positive or negative. Human being are so imperfect that its scary to have any strong intention directed at you from them. Thank you for making me appreciate my unattractiveness a bit more haha.

Love listening to Sadia….so knowledgeable.

I don’t get women. I worked on myself until many tried to “get” me and then I had my pick. Men… A woman is not the first step on your journey. Don’t chase women. Be a man that they chase.

She’s so right! When people think you’re attractive they just assume you know it and you think you’re better than them. It is a very lonely place indeed. I struggle with keeping friends coz everyone wants to compete. I’ve tried being nice to people that’s even worse coz you can’t be nice as well. It’s exhausting. Someone once told me, if you’re pretty and nice and not fat then forget about friends. People always try to look for what’s bad about me or imperfections and they marginalise that to make themselves feel better

Great point Sadia!!! So glad you said that about men not even considering if the woman is attracted to them. As a middle-aged woman still on the dating scene, men keep saying, "Why is such beautiful, kind, intelligent and well-cultured woman like you still alone? There must be scores of men who want you" When I answer that well "there are almost no men who take pride in a well-groomed appearance anymore. Sorry, sloppy appearances, overweight, scraggly beards, tatoos and piercings, annoying, insensitive personalities are a no-go, but seem to be more and more the norm". To that they always answer "But it's not important for the man to be attractive..." WRONG!! DEAD WRONG, guys!! IT IS VERY IMPORTANT! We attractive women also have desire and need to be with someone who we are attracted to!! And ya know what? It's so important that we'd rather be alone than with a slob! These men who ignore improving their own appearance prefer to choose the pretty but heartless, narcissist (and often emotionally sadistic) women who use them for money and only sleep with them to keep them hooked. A bit of basic grooming, physical fitness, proper social skills and good communication skills would go further to attract kind women who truly desire you.

Great contrast with the background and your outfit.

I’m grateful for this conversation

Thank you, Sadia!

Aaaaaaaaaaannnnnddd subbed! Thank you Sadia!

I agree with Sadia on a lot of points, especially the part of jealous female rivalry as I have experienced this. The only thing that I disagree with is Sadia's advice not to get married if you're a western man. The institution of marriage has already been dismantled to a sad degree. My advice would be for men and women to grow up and choose their partners wisely. We need to realize that we need each other and should work toward coming together again. This is how society and the family can be strengthened. The advice to not get married is just the final nail in the coffin.

you're very much able to put yourself on this unbiased view and actually analyse what's going on thank you very much, for it has opened my eyes to a lot of things i wasn't paying attention to

You should read the book Saat sen mistä luovut (you will get the thing which you relinquish) written by Tommy Hellsten. Probably it is published only in Finnish. So, it is a challenge for you.

Love you sadia, you are such a great human being. All your videos are so educative

Unbeliveably wise woman. I do not know how it is but everything come to conclusions.

Hey Sadia, If you see my comment I'd like to hear your opinion! I just broke up and it was my decision because i honestly lost feelings. It started decent for the first 2 months until we went long distance. I was okay with it until i started going to see her about once a month. Every time i went, she was so cool and not excited to see me while i was quite happy and expecting some energy back. We couldnt stay more than 3-4 hours together because her parents didnt let her, but they let her go travelling (?!). Over time i saw we werent on the same page so it started to feel like a one sided relationship. The last time i went, i rented an apartment and drove for 3 hours. I waited for her to get out of the damn bed for 40 minutes (having limited time to spend together), and she was so disrespectful and cold that day, with a weak apology the next day. It was a breaking point for me, and i told her everything that was on my mind. Couple days later i decided to end the relationship and it didnt quite hit me because she disappointed me many times before. One thing i know for sure is that i controlled my expectations but still got only words and not actions from her. Edit: She barely showed any signs of jealousy.

Single for life. 🎉🎉🎉🎉

One of the most truthful sessions on this topic I watched, thank you

This was such a beautiful raw conversation especially about rape, as a rape survivor.

Great video, this tuned me up very good. The reality is most men and a lot of women are addicts of something: alcohol, sex, porn, food, drugs, attention. An era of weakness that craves stimulation and or novelty. Weak men and broken women. Before blaming modern society, clean up all addictions 100 %, even nicotine. Stay sober from all these , then come back 365 days later and see if you still have the same stance on society on women and men. Addicts carry these in the subconscious, similar patterns of impulsivity and child like with emotional sensitivity. They all end up alone. Change your fait and clean up the bs.

Very interesting and very informative 👍 👌...social media is also very, very dangerous....GOD BLESS FROM IRELAND 🇮🇪 🙏

She is brilliant Thankyou for your wisdom and voice!!❤❤❤

"It seems promiscuity has advanced ever since the sexual revolution..." Well, perhaps by women, but on the whole men through history had something closer to a blank check. I'm not saying promiscuity by anyone is good, just pointing out the lopsided question/statement. Esther Perel draws a parallet between higher divorce rates and women having the financial option to leave unhappy marriages. It isn't just down to sex or narcissism.

It is so amazing how you unpacked unconditional love and also the essence of attraction that should exist for a true relationship.... Sadia your work is super wow

Sadia the West needs these types of discussions more, keep speaking your mind. Despite not believing in the same God, as I Christian in the West I highly resonate with a lot of concepts you try and teach in your videos. The thing that gets a little confusing in this video is men prioritizing attractiveness, but at the same time you talk about it being extremely important that a women is attracted to you. Wasn't that not the case for centuries because women had to marry for for safety and didn't have as much of a voice, and marriages worked? Not saying that always lead to healthy marriages, but I'm saying we have lost site of what it means to work at love and make it work. It seems to me that both men and women in the West need to stop prioritizing feelings over commitment. I'd like to hear your thoughts on a talk by Allen de Botton called "Why you will Marry the wrong person". It's a clickbaity title, but I love several of the points he makes and I think you'll largely agree with it. I'd be interested to hear your thoughts

12:00 That information alone was already worth the vid.

This is one who has the courage to accept the truth as it is rather than talking than most of the women in todays generation with the whole new movement.Its so soothing to hear her talking.Perfect combination of beaty and personality

Not been able to read a book in full is also a symptom of low attention span ...GOD BLESS FROM IRELAND 🇮🇪 🙏

Thanks Sadia

Love your insight, always rings true 🙏

What a wonderful wise woman

Sadia all the way !

Until the value system is changed nothing worthwhile will change wake up

For all of us desiring to improve ...its talks like these that shows us what the next step in self accountability and responsibility for the next generation . I am deeply thankful ...you have indeed made an indelible mark on my path to true love in marriage and for humanity...

Sadia is very beautiful but most of all highly intelligent with a great insight to we’re society sits today . Her voice is also beautiful

Great informative talk. My favourite female speaker on mens and womens issues.

Great video. I like the fact that she said unconditional love doesn't exist between a partner, and that marriage is of no benefit to men in the west.

I really love this woman's insights

Hi Sadia, Your content is great.

brilliant wisdom ❤

Very informative content. 👏 ❤

A good human being

She has to be one of the most beautiful woman I have ever come across. External beauty obviously. But her intelligence, intuition and common sense of her surrounding blows away her external beauty. Well done Sadia.

Did the end of the video get cut off? i noticed it ended mid-sentence

A good prima facie analysis of the issues concerned. That, however, is the problem. Since there are serious (albeit non-ubiquitous) counter-examples to the arguments expressed in this video.

Why is it so hard to treat each other mutually respectfully? How many problems would go out the window if we apply "I treat you the way I want to be treated by you."?

Emerald.

Men got to remember looks and sex are just a bonus we got to choose better mindsets and not better asses or looks excuse my French

I love you I agree with everything

dear sadia, i discovered your beautiful mind on better bachelor channel, and i would like god to bless your beautiful sould for your thoughts who went straight into my heart. i needed to hear that so much. i'm 30 and i'm considerating dating 50+ women only because they're not mindfucked by socials and dating apps. when i talk to a 50+ women, i can have any normal conversation. but even in a bus a 20 years old woman never seat next to me. she's disgusted to seat near to a man that she probably don't qualify awesome, even on a public bus. and when i'm home, i'm crying because this girl who i don't even looked once changed seat because i was disgusting to her. also, staring has turned into a crime, while non-verbal is 90% of seduction. how can you get into someone's heart if showing any emotion in public is prohibited in our society. i feel like i don't belong to this robots society. only talking with machines, ignoring humans. i love you sadia take care ❤

Love this video. ❤😊

Love the look!

I don't particularly mind being alone. I don't need a relationship to define my flourishment as a person. I do, however, need to ensure that as someone who chooses to stay single and who doesn't have children, that I have everything taken care of for myself so that as I grow older, I am not dependent on others financially speaking. So for the most part, I enjoy a simple life, I platform my thoughts on paper, I ponder on life, and have realized that the world we are in living in today is not one I want to procreate in and instead just live as peacefully and as tranquil as possible. If I were to meet someone along the way, it would be for companionship, but certaintly not a relationship or marriage. I understand that about myself perfectly. What baffles me about it is that when I say it to my friends, I'm like an alien of some sort as they cannot fathom being by themselves. I don't waste my time calling them out as all have had tremendously failing relationships, but I digress...

I have to say, out of all these channels about dating, red pill, sex, etc., she’s the best so far. An academic perspective that accounts for multiculturalism, psychology, and human nature. Very good.

All wells today but I definitely agree with this one ❤❤❤❤much love to Ms. Sadia it's really crazy how we destroy our future threw our kids we got to stop repeating history like this ❤❤❤❤ to islamic nation

Imagine trying to spit game to Sadia she would figure you all out like Sherlock Holmes right away and tell you everything about your past life like a psychic 😂

I like the work she does . We really need to undo the nonsense that is being promoted by these matrix men

answering the title: “WHY WOULD I BUY A COW IF I COULD GET MILK FOR FREE .” i heard someone say. there’s some truth to that ONLINE makes it easy for people to get a partner with no strings attached,& no emotional investment … but for those looking seriously, it’s difficult in modern times , women very demanding they ‘re building high maintenance status otherwise they are moody,& they expect the love affection every minute of the day ; nowadays human relationships are demeaned by materialism to a point of no return,& if a person is patient enough & putting up with his partner, it’s only because there are no alternatives … in the future we all will be singing ADIOS LIFE COUPLES..

Everything u say is true

Sadia appreciate all you do! Especially around marriage, relationships and dangers of pornography to our culture. Will definitely watch later. On a funny note this video was released less than 1 minute ago and already 41likes and obviously no one watched it yet 😂...

Thanks!

🙏🏽Is it you is you Nefertiti???👑

The marriages I see don't seem happy once you take a start look at them. They fight often and put on a face to the public. I am all for healthy relationships, but I have yet to find very many that reflect that. I know one and they had to really work at it and they are in their 80s now.

thanks!❤

And there are men who are marrying promiscuous pretty high maintenance girls knowing that she is not into him. She is in it for money and better lifestyle. and they are absolutely willing to pay for it. They will pursue and again repeat the same cycle with another similar type of girl. Its their choice. Just like women are valued for their beauty, men are valued for their ability to provide. In what century this was not the case? But here we are, listening to this and saying hw right she is. Whereas I find many of the things she says coming from her own trauma of being cornered by other girls. And also projecting her thoughts as other women's. This is very one sided, and doesn't give the full picture.

Great content. Just one remark: the sound is not good. There is some kind of noise that distracted me.

Enrico - your concerns are very legitimate - the world can be a very lonely place, when left up to your own devices - however , there are better solutions rather than ending up a victim of your own circumstances - but - it will take some finances : - Arrange a trip in a singles group - Rent a lady for the evening - Seek out a support group catering to singles May god bless 🙏 to give you the strength to help yourself..

Attraction is a fundamental building block and I think it is often misunderstood. We get instagram “attracted” to beauty, wealth, power, status…without always identifying what is attraction vs. ego dopamine rush. Look for the oxytocin rather than the cortisol. I know many clients who married someone they were attracted to in their daydream fantasy about what they have to offer in the future. Some women are attracted to nerdy dad bods but they chase after the men their friends are chasing after instead of being with their actual type.

How to watch the full video?

I still want to be married. I understand generational wealth and seek solitude create the curses we want to break. A Family is power.

Where is full version of this?

sighhhhhhhh she is the perfect example of my dream woman

Super Sadia K !!!! ⭐🌟✨🥇💯

Thanks to that

Any man gets easy to triger a scariesity mindset in man. Ellites does it on massess but does not seem to have any mass problems. Wach Ted Bandy, it was last and honest intake on this.

Hey! It cut off at the most important part. I wanna know if my wife is a gold digger and Sadia was going to list up all the signs but then the video abruptly finished

Pornography does not lead to violence and rape .Pornography is to men what jobs are to women - A mechanism that frees them from dependence on the other sex. Sadia and women in general oppose pornography because men no longer need pursue them. The onus of finding relationships is now on women. You'll find me in my basement with my laptop.

Rollo said you're not a psychologist.

Her opinion on prostitution is off too, professional women have turned to prostitution like nurses and teachers ( Bunny Ranch) in Nevada ,NYC streets.... why because the work is less stressful and "can" pay much more money than a job and they like having unattached sex....

On point

I would say to Sadia to not discourage marriage, even if the odds are against us. Society will rapidly diminish if we don't have the institution of marriage. Since it is now conditional love and transactional relationships, we have to become better lifelong negotiators to save our relationships. There are bulletproof prenuptials. Men marry a woman that looks up to you and women marry a man that you look up to. We are back to the class (cast) system. Stand for something, commit, be an example for your children. CREATE a good marriage, it's healthier, more sex, you will be happier in the long run, and live a more fulfilled life.

I love to hear your voice

Your chameleon-green outfit is pure elegance, giving off superhero vibes. It's so chic that even capes are feeling jealous, fashion-forward and ready to save the day, one stylish stride at a time! :P

In my opinion most men lose when dealing with women stay single fella’s! you’ll get further in life.

Oh, no it's not right, wise women like you dear will never hit the wall. Intelligence is always the sexiest. Bless you sister, as a man I enjoy your Chanel so much. Thank you

Sadia totally gets it, she is very smart

I agree 100% with everything she says. Also , she is beautiful with such a soothing voice. I have a girl crush on her.

Yes there are so many people who get married? Have children and then dump their partner because it's all about their bucket list.Then they go on to someone else who has more wealth.Its disgusting.

In college we had sparknotes. 😁

Women have too many choices, and they are like kids in a candy store. I'm glad I'm not looking for love these days.

You are incredible

I'm not surprised with all of the negative comments in the comment section from women towards this woman in the video....people today(not all but most) especially women today, REFUSE to take accountability and responsibility for their actions/choices/words and ALWAYS blame someone and or something else for their bad choices.