Jo kuch aap leh rahe h ye maine apne pati ko shuruaat me hi bata diya tha to jo parivar pura mil k meri saas ko pratadit kr raha tha wo meri saas k sath mil k mete khilaf ek ho gaya.....dhritrashtra aaj bhi maje le raha h ladwa k sabko

Marriage and parenthood are overrated in India. I am single and childfree for life.😇 Ratan Tata, Abdul Kalam, Vajpayee, Jayalalithaa, Lata Mangeshkar, Mayawati, Mamta Banerjee, Ekta Kapoor etc are single and childfree and some of the most successful people in India.

I agree I am his big admirer

@@anewlife5846 नरेंद्र मोदी ऑल्सो

@@sachintyagi4386 He is married to Jashoda but he just doesn't co-habitate with her.

Yhi mard prr bante h bhag jati h😂😂😂

You are absolutely right, and don't be in any guilt now that you have done any wrong, in that consciousness you have done what you must have done...

❤❤❤ god bless you! I hope to recover just like you

Mere pati ke to dur baithe hi maa baap behan dil dimag me baithe rahte hain 🙄

Kya bat ha!! Josh aa gayo..viedos dekh kar,

More power to u ❤

Villans not just immediate family, relative near distant...especially if you are single senior citizen every one wants to control you,relatives,neighbours,retire ke baad collegues bhi...god knows who not.

Same with me

Same feeling with me. Always don't become a naukrani in front of the villians

Nice better to be single than facing such people saans sasoor 😂

I am engaged and I am scared of getting married bow

Then think before you are going to be married

You are absolutely right sir 💯

100% true

Correct, fathers and father-in-laws are super worst beings.

​@@shasankv85 my father in law was super arrogant, narssissistic and would bring the house down with shouting and yelling if something went against him....... He wouldnt take a glass of water by himself..... Someone should always be ready to serve him.

South situations are more bad I feel

Bilkul shi

Ha ha ha ha even I felt the same, but shared the link in family whatsapp groups 🤣🤣

💯

Maj....Maha maj sir 🙂

😂😂😂

Mag

Karma exhaust karne ke kuch easy tareeke bhi hain....meditation and yoga

Good thoughts

Awesome Ma'am. Proud of your thinking. 👏👏👏😇👍

Par kitne log is video ko dekhenge???? problem ye hai

Thanks. You can also connect via whatsapp 9911702005

@@SangoLifeSutras very 👌best !

Same

Maz

Very nice video

Kamati Kitna ho

Kamati bhi nahi hogi. Phir bhi job pe husbands ko appreciation, break time, appreciation aur bonus aur society mein respect milti hain. ​@@hhshs3466. What does a wife get? Does one ever realise why women are so distant from household chores and proudly say they are busy in office work? Because they never get appreciation and applause. When a husband gets a promotion, everyone applauds him for hard work, what about the women who ensured the good health of the man, took all mental pressure within herself and kept him majorly from ghar kalesh. And now women are blamed for why we are so aloof from household work.

Sabko khus karhi nahi sakte to khud ko khus rakho dusre jalke mar jana he

In laws just crush your personality. So do whatever is required but at your own pace and your convenience. Listening to them will make the matters worse. If they don't like then they are free to do it on their own. They never will be happy whatever you do for everyone so royally ignore them.

​@@hhshs3466 tumko nai milne kamane wali😂

धृतराष्ट्र 😂

Say no to sasur say no to pathi stay single👍

Sir, you are excellent

Absolutely right sir.

Kal ka Pati aaj ka sasoor Hai Aur aaj ka Pati Kal ka Sasoor Hai.

Indian *Dale Carnegie*

Don't want to prove yourself each and every one

Same here sister. With 1 year of marriage gave inlaws grankid at risk of corporate job. Finally got maternity leave but they are bent on making me their housewife with earning, while keeping their clueless boy as useless to demand bedtea for himself while i am cater to the child as well. SIL wants to demean my choice in corporate attire of smart casuals by forcing chunni, ghoonghat and chamcham suits with village jewelry, Speaking derogatorily of my attempt upskill and switch jobs. They try to keep me bound to their house, don't allow me to mingle in the neighborhood, forbid me from buying my things from shop, insert inane 'traditions', even try to stop my mother's house visits.

@@freedom4813 I earn and I have my dreams of becoming a professor.

@@divyasinghphougat8520 Sorry Divya, I am in a better position. From beginning of my marriage, I had decided not to do anything to impress but at times do all these rituals or cultural practices out of my love. But, I can definitely understand your situation. Main na isliye apne bure financial time main jab mujhe kisine help nahi kiya tab khud hi apne savings se apne college fees etc bhara. I was planning a kid but unless certain things are solved...I am not going to bring in a kid until I am emotionally and physically ready.

@@divyasinghphougat8520 It was and is tough but I do not ask permission for staying with my father. But my fil tries to indirectly pressurize me by asking when I can stay with them. I don't mind staying with them. But my food and cultural habits are different. When they force upon their food habits on me, I get uncomfortable as it is a shocker for me at a humanitarian level. I am a good cook but my mil insists to learn cooking from her so that I cook them. On phone, she criticises my choice of recipe that I cook and instructs me what my husband should eat. I am educated regarding health and infact good at making balanced diets. Since I do not criticize her or anyone's food habits , it is difficult for me to constantly face so much discussions regarding food. My mil says o you cooked only one sabzi....my Babu can't eat with one sabzi. On the other hand my husband is extremely fond of what I make.

I figured it out early and living on rent due to his tactics 😎😎😎.

ur case father in law / most cases when women would reply would be husbands father😇

Same here

yup thats the flaw / no bonding

that's one of the flaws of arrange marriage betaji aur aisa low trust societies mein aksar aisa hota hai

Very true

Lol

Correct

पुरूष बहुत कम योगदान करता है घर परिवार मे

😂😂😂 funny but true

In our family my father is a retied pension holder of state govt service in group c position when he joined in service. He has been retired in the position of group b service. Now his pension amount was 30000 . From 30000 pension loan was deducted every month 8000 . Net pension was 22000 . My salary was 23000 per month. Our whole family expenses was incured by both of us. I will spend around 15000 and my father expenditure was 10000 . In family sometimes we are also fight but we will solve the issue with in 48 hours. In financial decisions all family members involved is most important.

​@@sunilnayakblogs6277my father get 22000 in pension and my bro have monthly income approx 4 to 5 lakhs but he never give single penny to my mother n father and when come to home eat sleep n go to his home his wife don't allow him to give 1 rs to old parents but bro himself is disgusting I wish God will see everything may karma hits them back

They will be smooth

@@SangoLifeSutras make a video on orphan child how to grow in life 😒 and save yourself from Bloodlust People 🐍

Congratulations

Great Mr rohit. Here in my case, I had to move out and I m villain now for everyone. But I'm at peace now. Yes still my other half takes counseling session 4 times from his family. 👋 but I'm rock solid in my decision of not being the part of kaleshi family n living with them .

@@minidubey7445 congratulations!

​​@@FromProfessor is it not a matter of ego for boys accepting girl earning more than them? And also boys tend to be older and hence get the time to have higher income . So for a girl to have income higher than husband, will a family boy look for girls older than the boy? Boys do night job or US timing for high income. Will a family be supportive of the wife doing night shft?

​@@FromProfessorlets see when u will be married..after almost 5years come nd update uss😅😅

​@@shalinisingh700yeah but yk he will not come back ever

80 born folks are doing well. Those born around 2000 or so are always ready to 🔪 🗡 over pretty much anything. And most of them are dumb.

Same 80sborn

Please share your own family's details. How are they behaving and how is your advice having results in your in family. Hope you will have courage to do so.

👏👌👍

True

Thnx god u saved ur marriage…i saw my cousin brother could not see ds nd got divorce nd now living along nd regretting his decision

Thanks

MAJ

I just want to forward this to my sasuraal group offend ho jayenge bas 😅

MAJ

Bhout Badhiya this is reallty of life

Àctully family make sasur god, all say that sasur ji ko insan se bhagwan banate hai Bahu ke samne,bahu se bhi yahi expect Kiya jata hai,jabki ladki apne papa ko itne sar pe nahi leti

Mujhe to shuru me hi samajh aa gya tha ki meri zindgi to narak banne hi wali hai kyunki sasur ji is sitting at home simply doing nothing but noting down his bahu's each and every little and big mistakes and provoking his wife and daughter and then later at night when me and husband go to sleep. Then SIL before going to sleep goes to her parents room and they start gossiping about their Bahu, in this way they were all filled with toxicity and whenever they got a chance they make Bahu villain in front of their son. This is all because of insecurity of losing their son that if the Bahu becomes successful in creating a strong bond with the son then ladka to hath se gayo, ban jayega "Joru ka Ghulam". Achha Sone pe suhaga aur lijiye ki even after destroying their own son's and bahu's emotional and sexual life they ask very shamefully that "is there any good news?" "are you expecting?" SHARM bhi ni aati aisa puchhte huye. Jab pati patni ke beech me man-mutaav create kar liya to bachcha kya rape karwa ke paida karwaoge. Shadi se pehle mujhe bataya gya tha ki Sasur buisness karte hain to mujhe laga tha apni shop me baithte honge kya pata tha ghar me baithenge to us ghar kabhi shadi na karti kyunki aise sasur zindgi ko aur narak se bhi upar level ka narak bana dete hain. Socha tha Saas ke sath Ghar pe maa beti ki tarah enjoy karungi milkar sab kiya karenge unse sab seekh lungi fir unhe nahi karne dungi. Lekin shadi ke baad ka pehla saal bhi sukh se jeene nahi Mila do baar to gande gande suicidal thoughts aaye dusri baar to kadam uthane bhi chali thi lekin pati aur sasural aur mayeke walo ki zindgi tabah ho jayegi mere aisa karne se to khud ko rok liya. Lekin ab sochti hu mai kyun apni zindgi kurbaan karu unlogo ki wajah se jinhe ghanta faraq ni padta mere hone na hone se ye to mere Marne ke baad dusri le aayenge mere baare me samaaj ko kahenge ye mentally disturbed thi to aisa kadam utha liya.

Maaf karna kuch zyada hi lamba ho gya

​@@amandeepkoursaini9832jyada ki baat nahi hai didi chlo kum se kum apne apna gussa to pura niqala

God bless u sister.

North east me konsa part?? What about Nagaland? Because I though they are modern because they were not corrupted by typical Indian societal thought process.. That's what i think please let me know ke waha kya hora he.. Mujhe jyada idea nahi he waha ka