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@parulbajpai93792 ай бұрын
Jo kuch aap leh rahe h ye maine apne pati ko shuruaat me hi bata diya tha to jo parivar pura mil k meri saas ko pratadit kr raha tha wo meri saas k sath mil k mete khilaf ek ho gaya.....dhritrashtra aaj bhi maje le raha h ladwa k sabko
@shibanighose837 Жыл бұрын
I have never heard anyone speaking so boldly and fearlessly about the dark truths of the Indian middle class family Hats off to you,Sir
@anewlife5846 Жыл бұрын
Marriage and parenthood are overrated in India. I am single and childfree for life.😇 Ratan Tata, Abdul Kalam, Vajpayee, Jayalalithaa, Lata Mangeshkar, Mayawati, Mamta Banerjee, Ekta Kapoor etc are single and childfree and some of the most successful people in India.
@rumitnanda24 Жыл бұрын
I agree I am his big admirer
@sachintyagi4386 Жыл бұрын
@@anewlife5846 नरेंद्र मोदी ऑल्सो
@anewlife5846 Жыл бұрын
@@sachintyagi4386 He is married to Jashoda but he just doesn't co-habitate with her.
@PankajKumar-eu7oy Жыл бұрын
Yhi mard prr bante h bhag jati h😂😂😂
@meenusaini2018 Жыл бұрын
बिल्कुल सच कहा आपने असली विलेन ससुर है कितना बढ़िया अनालिसिस है आपका और कितना सटीक तरीके से समझा रहे हो आपकी उम्र के लोग अंकल जी गीता और रामायण की बातें करके खुद को बहुत ज्ञानी समझने लगते हैं आपकी उम्र में आपको इतनी अच्छी समझ असली कर्मयोग यही है जौ आप समझा रहे हो
@naynalahoti8034Ай бұрын
मैं तो पहले ही बहुत अच्छी तरह से समझाचुकी हूं आज शादी को 25 साल हो गए हैं और अच्छे से समझ गई हूंअपने घर के विलेन को
@rishikeshpandey64848 ай бұрын
Guruji Pranam, I am unmarried 32 years old man. I spent 3 years of my life fixing my parent's marriage problem. I was TRYING to learn simplest skills in that time so I can join the workforce again. And I achieved nothing but depression for myself. This video is so true and relatable that I watch it over and over again. I learned this through a very bitter experience and I hope people find this video before they make mistake like I did.
@being_aspirang2 ай бұрын
You are absolutely right, and don't be in any guilt now that you have done any wrong, in that consciousness you have done what you must have done...
@komalbhansali400711 ай бұрын
My Fil died, still we live separately. We have provided everything for mil comfort. Once because of joint family we were facing divorce situation now after separation of 12 years from parent in laws our marriage has turned into a very romantic one. I simply don't remember when was the last time we fought.
@PhysioMPTАй бұрын
❤❤❤ god bless you! I hope to recover just like you
@Blessingsuh5zvАй бұрын
Mere pati ke to dur baithe hi maa baap behan dil dimag me baithe rahte hain 🙄
@poonamj6336 Жыл бұрын
100% true and relatable video.what a rational and progressive thoughts... excellent analysis, maja aa gaya. I'm from an 80's generation, almost married for 14 years. Highly educated but controlled by villains. Always submissive, obedient, cultured ... But now I feel like to rebe wasted all my life's golden years listening to them as if I don't have my liking, now I want to focus on myself and my hobbies a little bit. So that after 10 more years I won't be regretting it any more. I don't want to become a villain in my bahu's life. Thanks for sharing it n showing the mirror to society 🙏
@shauryakavishorts Жыл бұрын
Kya bat ha!! Josh aa gayo..viedos dekh kar,
@PS-oy1el Жыл бұрын
More power to u ❤
@padmini1380 Жыл бұрын
Villans not just immediate family, relative near distant...especially if you are single senior citizen every one wants to control you,relatives,neighbours,retire ke baad collegues bhi...god knows who not.
@poddar2012 Жыл бұрын
Same with me
@manjulamuktavarapu134 Жыл бұрын
Same feeling with me. Always don't become a naukrani in front of the villians
@anjusaxena1093Ай бұрын
100% nahi, 200% nahi, 1000% true , true. Aapke video sunker bohot se log offend honge but aapki baatein seriously family problems ka solution hai. 👏👏👏👏👏
@anikabhardwaj1 Жыл бұрын
U r the saviour of all bahus of north India..nobody has ever brought this important topic that affects so many families…so relaxed to hear someone who understands problems of all ladies.. MAG
@Prachi-sha Жыл бұрын
Accidentally found uncle..he speaks truth .. people from all generation should listen from him
@nainasangwan24882 ай бұрын
I am 23 ,un married, finding these videos very useful and getting mentelly prepared
@jhalak8312 ай бұрын
Nice better to be single than facing such people saans sasoor 😂
@cb52842 ай бұрын
I am engaged and I am scared of getting married bow
@Adityasood19902 ай бұрын
Then think before you are going to be married
@myprincess7509Ай бұрын
You are absolutely right sir 💯
@kanwarmalik99983 ай бұрын
Big salute sir for talking so boldly on these topics in our country spclly 'north India ka haal'..
@mitalimayuran2854 Жыл бұрын
You are 100℅ correct. Not only in North India, same situation in South also. But this father in laws are so arrogant that they don't have any regret.
@abhishekvaish6746 Жыл бұрын
100% true
@shasankv85 Жыл бұрын
Correct, fathers and father-in-laws are super worst beings.
@athensmajnoo3661 Жыл бұрын
@@shasankv85 my father in law was super arrogant, narssissistic and would bring the house down with shouting and yelling if something went against him....... He wouldnt take a glass of water by himself..... Someone should always be ready to serve him.
@Adityasood19902 ай бұрын
South situations are more bad I feel
@bhagwantihasija2240Ай бұрын
Bilkul shi
@kritikashah9053 Жыл бұрын
Mai soch hi rhi thi ki kaise is video ko share kru.. jigar chahiye😅😅.. but last line helped.. dekho kaisi batein faila rha …😅😅 you are AMAZING…..!!!! Soo practical…
@siddharthtyagi7006 Жыл бұрын
Ha ha ha ha even I felt the same, but shared the link in family whatsapp groups 🤣🤣
@drjiwangupta Жыл бұрын
💯
@daspoulami82 Жыл бұрын
Maj....Maha maj sir 🙂
@AJAY95952 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@vikrantmakwana576 Жыл бұрын
Mag
@iam18tillidie2 ай бұрын
Bilkul sahi hai Mai pichley 22 saal se joint family Mai hu Pati jyada tar bahar hi rehti hain Do baccho aur in-laws ki take care karti hu aur sabki baatein sunti hoon Aapney karma exhaust kar rahi hu
@drneetukushwaha97837 күн бұрын
Karma exhaust karne ke kuch easy tareeke bhi hain....meditation and yoga
@godblessme-hw8qz4 ай бұрын
Maja aya. Ap ekdum sach bol rahe ho. Ek eonshabd sach hai. Sare fasad ki jad admi hai aur dosh aurat ko diya jata hai. Apke is video ne dill jeet liya sangwan ji. Jiyo mere sher
@jaikumararora9541 Жыл бұрын
Superb video. Masterpiece in itself. I am a psychologist and i agree to all of your points. I appreciate your courage of speaking the truth. Your channel is a clear mirror of north indian upper middle class society. Seriously new generation needs to change and come out of this as much change couldn't be expected from elder generation.
@dheerpandey Жыл бұрын
Truth is always bitter, you are 100% true. 95% fathers are real culprit.
@darshanc6198 ай бұрын
Guruji, aap aur aise gyan jagaye aur hamare Bharthiye parivaaro ke jeevan me clarity laaye🙏🙌
@user-vo8ug4cg2h2 ай бұрын
Very true sir. Reality hai society ki aur hamare culture ki.
@Bhaktishreelaxmi9 ай бұрын
I got tortured so much by my in-laws and always thinking on this point and many years before already decided to keep my beta bohu to leave separately once he got married.Thank you so much for bringing the true story of Indian families 🙏
@rinum5959Ай бұрын
Good thoughts
@PMcseАй бұрын
Awesome Ma'am. Proud of your thinking. 👏👏👏😇👍
@anurajagopal3579 ай бұрын
He is such a blessing to our society! God bless you sir !
@Yomistudio-668826 күн бұрын
Par kitne log is video ko dekhenge???? problem ye hai
@aniketshivsharan19577 күн бұрын
100% agree sir...firstly i was against your videos but now im totally agree ..and my marriage just some month ahead....n we took decision of court marriage after watching your video ....u doin good ...lots of love n may god bless you with more abundence
@MyCollections962 ай бұрын
Sir You are so correct. Thank you for bringing it out 🙏
@geetchoudhary8883 Жыл бұрын
How a man can understand problems of both generations! Superb Hats off Sir
@ShivKumar-sh5yr Жыл бұрын
Salute to you sir, aap ne Indian family ki asli gadbad pakad li hai. Financial independence and distribution of duties is a must for families. Show off in the wedding expenses is also ruining the financial condition of the families, which could be saved and spent in the couple's stability.
@ShrividyaBS2 ай бұрын
I first time came across some person talking so boldly on these topics. I found your video just today i wish i had listened to this 10 years back and i would be so happy if my father and father in law thought like you.
@NewDay842918 күн бұрын
Sahi bole aap. You r the only guy with a spine n gumption.
@ushna5569 Жыл бұрын
Accidentally found your channel, best thing I came across on KZfaq till date! I have been binge watching all your old videos and sharing them with family. I strongly feel all of your content is spot-on, need of the hour for most Indians. Thanks for making much needed content 🙏
@SangoLifeSutras Жыл бұрын
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@amitalokhande9454 Жыл бұрын
@@SangoLifeSutras very 👌best !
@uzmaatta6303 Жыл бұрын
Same
@madhavi1215 Жыл бұрын
Maz
@madhavi1215 Жыл бұрын
Very nice video
@SamSam-tp2md Жыл бұрын
100% sahi . Most of the times I feel getting married is the worst thing I did with my life. Kam Wali baii ban gyi bs. Sab ki sewa krna hi zindagi hai bs apni to koi life nhi. Sare farz hmare hai.fir bhi khush nhi hote.
@hhshs3466 Жыл бұрын
Kamati Kitna ho
@antarabasak10557 ай бұрын
Kamati bhi nahi hogi. Phir bhi job pe husbands ko appreciation, break time, appreciation aur bonus aur society mein respect milti hain. @@hhshs3466. What does a wife get? Does one ever realise why women are so distant from household chores and proudly say they are busy in office work? Because they never get appreciation and applause. When a husband gets a promotion, everyone applauds him for hard work, what about the women who ensured the good health of the man, took all mental pressure within herself and kept him majorly from ghar kalesh. And now women are blamed for why we are so aloof from household work.
@sonuakbari32035 ай бұрын
Sabko khus karhi nahi sakte to khud ko khus rakho dusre jalke mar jana he
@simmijain112 ай бұрын
In laws just crush your personality. So do whatever is required but at your own pace and your convenience. Listening to them will make the matters worse. If they don't like then they are free to do it on their own. They never will be happy whatever you do for everyone so royally ignore them.
@shashi307211 күн бұрын
@@hhshs3466 tumko nai milne kamane wali😂
@rahul_vasishthaКүн бұрын
Please make more videos like this. Really felt good someone is speaking facts
@ankitasharma72108 ай бұрын
Very well said. Grt. I hope this will make some difference to our society
@nandinimallya290 Жыл бұрын
Thank you..Sir you are 100percent correct... majority of Sasurs are Dhritarashtra and make us look like vamps..I already knew this but today your words proved it .Hats off
@paras451 Жыл бұрын
धृतराष्ट्र 😂
@wtkc1290 Жыл бұрын
Sir , kindly don't delete this video. It's a reality of our society.
@swarnguptajammu92987 ай бұрын
Yes you are 💯✅ right ,nobody ever thought in this line ,you are really great,please keep it up ,do make such videos .Thanx 🙏🙏🙏❤️
@priyasharma58174 ай бұрын
Superb Sir. Hatts off for bringing truth in society. Mazaa aa gaya sir. ❤
@amus2264 Жыл бұрын
Aap bohot intelligent and progressive hai , absolutely right sir, problem ye hai aajkal ke pati bhi sasur ko copy karte hai.
@sanathan4072 Жыл бұрын
Say no to sasur say no to pathi stay single👍
@meenakshisingh7890 Жыл бұрын
Sir, you are excellent
@neelamthakur9253 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely right sir.
@nitinnarang4609 Жыл бұрын
Kal ka Pati aaj ka sasoor Hai Aur aaj ka Pati Kal ka Sasoor Hai.
@kolardorpe3161 Жыл бұрын
Indian *Dale Carnegie*
@thefoodpriest6614 Жыл бұрын
Sir, I am a woman who is a researcher. In last one year, I have cried a lot because of my career and mental health getting affected. Honestly, I don't see my in laws as villains but unfortunately the systems they blindly believe in. If I live like them, I have to be dead inside. After a lot of thought, I had proposed my husband that if he wants me to stay near him happily, we must develop alternative arrangements for their parents and my parents too. But, he is afraid that his parents would be hurt. But, I am very firm with sticking with my idea. In my bad financial times, except for formal asking ....no one including my husband helped me out. So, I have to think for myself even if I earn the label of a bad Bahu. I watched your videos and was honestly but happily surprised how your prescribed thoughts and solutions are atleast 90% matching with me. Also, I have tried practicing 'no' politely. Still, as a woman many compromises await. Agar wo kuch useful compromises hotey phir bhi sochti but most of them are power control to satisfy insecurities of the society and regressive family systems.
@vikashshrivastava8005 Жыл бұрын
Don't want to prove yourself each and every one
@divyasinghphougat8520 Жыл бұрын
Same here sister. With 1 year of marriage gave inlaws grankid at risk of corporate job. Finally got maternity leave but they are bent on making me their housewife with earning, while keeping their clueless boy as useless to demand bedtea for himself while i am cater to the child as well. SIL wants to demean my choice in corporate attire of smart casuals by forcing chunni, ghoonghat and chamcham suits with village jewelry, Speaking derogatorily of my attempt upskill and switch jobs. They try to keep me bound to their house, don't allow me to mingle in the neighborhood, forbid me from buying my things from shop, insert inane 'traditions', even try to stop my mother's house visits.
@thefoodpriest6614 Жыл бұрын
@@freedom4813 I earn and I have my dreams of becoming a professor.
@thefoodpriest6614 Жыл бұрын
@@divyasinghphougat8520 Sorry Divya, I am in a better position. From beginning of my marriage, I had decided not to do anything to impress but at times do all these rituals or cultural practices out of my love. But, I can definitely understand your situation. Main na isliye apne bure financial time main jab mujhe kisine help nahi kiya tab khud hi apne savings se apne college fees etc bhara. I was planning a kid but unless certain things are solved...I am not going to bring in a kid until I am emotionally and physically ready.
@thefoodpriest6614 Жыл бұрын
@@divyasinghphougat8520 It was and is tough but I do not ask permission for staying with my father. But my fil tries to indirectly pressurize me by asking when I can stay with them. I don't mind staying with them. But my food and cultural habits are different. When they force upon their food habits on me, I get uncomfortable as it is a shocker for me at a humanitarian level. I am a good cook but my mil insists to learn cooking from her so that I cook them. On phone, she criticises my choice of recipe that I cook and instructs me what my husband should eat. I am educated regarding health and infact good at making balanced diets. Since I do not criticize her or anyone's food habits , it is difficult for me to constantly face so much discussions regarding food. My mil says o you cooked only one sabzi....my Babu can't eat with one sabzi. On the other hand my husband is extremely fond of what I make.
@ramaverma8192Ай бұрын
सही कहा आप ने असली विलन ससुर ही हैं मेरे साथ भी यही हुआ है
@subodhkureel83202 ай бұрын
Bahut badiya बिलकुल सही बात कही है अपने
@hiih2670 Жыл бұрын
I m from 80s and I thought I was the only one who could see this and was saying this. Thanks for raising this on social platform.
@amu808 Жыл бұрын
Very true, sasur ji is mostly culprit .....woh piche hote hai and saas ko aage karate hai ..... vahi hote hai kaan bharane wale saas ke ... yeh maine bahot baar (99%) times dekha hai .... its very hurtful and helpless situation for bahu........ comment..from jalandhar punjab
@GeneralInfoSystem Жыл бұрын
I figured it out early and living on rent due to his tactics 😎😎😎.
@kritikarajput18372 ай бұрын
Mag. much needed video for present and previous generation
@shivanichawla2838Ай бұрын
Awesome . Itni sahi baatein aap bata rahein hain, mere to aasoon hi nikal aaye.itni achhi tarah expalin kiya hai aapne. Mein 1980s ki model hu ,na idhar ki na udhar ki. Aajkal k baccho k liye aap ekdum sahi advice de rahein hain . Ladka ladki dono k maa baap sirf bachcho ko supresss karte hain. Mein 47 yrs ki hu aur kehna chahti hu aapne kya sahi vidoes banaye hain. Asli culprit Sasur. Eye opener hai yeh baat !! Yeh b khoob kaha ki aapas mein old husband wife lad pade agar ghar p beta bahu na ho. Kya hi baat kahi aapne . ❤
@kamyaparashar2732 Жыл бұрын
Very rational and progressive outlook towards saas bahu issue and love the clear straight forward attitude of yours !! Absolutely agree to every word !!
@Whistler2379 Жыл бұрын
This ws beyond 'mjaa aa gya'...excellently said n amazingly revealed the bitter truth of middle class Indian families
@user-ht8ln3cx3v6 ай бұрын
Aapne to aankhe khol di Bilkul sahi bataya aapne👍
@sunitakadyan2832Ай бұрын
Uncle gi aap ki vedioes superb hoti h topics bhuat hi achhe or true hote h thanks banate rahiye
@gvamseepriya Жыл бұрын
Very progressive thought process! Happy and grateful that someone articulate like you is speaking about these issues. No one talks about it!
@preetipadi Жыл бұрын
Yes... I had guessed it's father in-law,i recently had argument with him, and thts when i realised after 15 yrs of marriage that my father in law was playing double game. He has messed the family, spoilt his son, spread rumours about me, n he is doing this very quietly...
@maniabapu Жыл бұрын
ur case father in law / most cases when women would reply would be husbands father😇
@shalinisrivastava913417 күн бұрын
Same here
@Shilpi22112 ай бұрын
These thoughts were all over our minds but you have the guts to put them so simply and yet so strongly 🙏🏻
@anjalimishra25016 ай бұрын
Very brilliant video..we want more n more people like u....
@trueindian8224 Жыл бұрын
My sister suffered from the same problem. Her father in law was the villain. She suffered from mental trauma after her marriage because of his rude behavior and taunts.
@Usharana4 Жыл бұрын
Accidentally found your video.. ur views and opinions are very close to middle class family and parivar and I love to watch ur videos... Before I watched motivational things or listened to music while doing my work .. but now whenever I watch tv either working on the computer or phone i start watching ur videos.. which very much admires me personally ..thank u sir.. and yes maza aa gaya... Keep motivating us with all ur experience and observations... Thank u so much...😊
@Archanakhangwal3 ай бұрын
U r raising very deep issues. Excellent job 👍
@SD-ce7jeАй бұрын
Oh My God.... Sir this is the ultimate truth, which nobody realized😢😢😢😢.
@soni131287 Жыл бұрын
Sir....pehli baar koi itni samajhdari ki baate karta nazar aa raha h....m so glad.... someone is taking this up...and someday definitely the society will also change....❤️❤️❤️❤️
@SagariRaina Жыл бұрын
Sir you are brilliant and brave ... Exposing the truth fearlessly ... Please continue ... The truth you speak is so much more helpful than fake religious and spiritual gurus who don't really help in anything ... This is the real deal ... A real social revolution ... May our unhappy society change soon
@NehaAshokАй бұрын
Beautiful! Extremely 100 per cent accurate 👏 The older generation in Indian society is my role model of what ‘NOT’ to be!
@brajeshprajapati7874Ай бұрын
जैसे किसी बीमारी का सिर्फ एक कारण नही हो सकता, इसी तरह से किसी भी समस्या का सिर्फ एक कारण नही हो सकता। घर के प्रत्येक व्यति की अपनी महत्वाकांक्षा होती है। इसी कारण प्रत्येक व्यक्ति दूसरे व्यक्ति को मोहरा बना कर अपनी महत्वाकांक्षा पूरी करता है। सबल कमजोर का शोषण करता है। ससुर सबल है तब तो आप सही है। 😂😂अन्यथा आप गलत😢😢
@alpnamittalclasses8361 Жыл бұрын
I agree.. No chemistry between adults. Whether parents or in laws.
@maniabapu Жыл бұрын
yup thats the flaw / no bonding
@rajeshphougat6939 Жыл бұрын
that's one of the flaws of arrange marriage betaji aur aisa low trust societies mein aksar aisa hota hai
@abharazdan8082 Жыл бұрын
असली culprits सास और बहू बिलकुल भी नहीं है ससुर और बेटा है । यही सबसे स्वार्थी हैं ।
@komalajwani8061 Жыл бұрын
Very true
@_curious_mind_4215 Жыл бұрын
Lol
@manojashinde47922 ай бұрын
Correct
@sudhagupta60692 ай бұрын
पुरूष बहुत कम योगदान करता है घर परिवार मे
@bholenath_26Ай бұрын
😂😂😂 funny but true
@dogsmyfriend74907 күн бұрын
बिल्कुल सही बात कही है sir आप ने 😂😂 असली विलेन तो ससुर ही होते घर में क्लेश के जिम्मेदार।
@cpchandra19836 ай бұрын
Sahi hai Sir, meri maa to gujar bhi gai abhi bhi mere baap ka wohi chal raha hai, pahle maa ko bharkaya ab bb ko bharkate hai... satya wachan hai apke, salute
@mayukhchanda5805 Жыл бұрын
Sir ji... Every word you spoke is true to the core. I've seen this playout in real life with my brother. And yes I admit my father was at fault. Please continue your work. Finally someone explaining the things that our parents should have done.
@suvendumukherjee710 Жыл бұрын
Great analysis. I had regret before of seperating myself from my family due to all the problems you mentioned .No more after your video.My parents demands my contribution even after they earn handsome govt pension and I do help them whatever possible from my side even after leaving seperately .But they want me only and not my wife or my son in their house .
@sunilnayakblogs6277 Жыл бұрын
In our family my father is a retied pension holder of state govt service in group c position when he joined in service. He has been retired in the position of group b service. Now his pension amount was 30000 . From 30000 pension loan was deducted every month 8000 . Net pension was 22000 . My salary was 23000 per month. Our whole family expenses was incured by both of us. I will spend around 15000 and my father expenditure was 10000 . In family sometimes we are also fight but we will solve the issue with in 48 hours. In financial decisions all family members involved is most important.
@sonalverma9490 Жыл бұрын
@@sunilnayakblogs6277my father get 22000 in pension and my bro have monthly income approx 4 to 5 lakhs but he never give single penny to my mother n father and when come to home eat sleep n go to his home his wife don't allow him to give 1 rs to old parents but bro himself is disgusting I wish God will see everything may karma hits them back
@MonikaSharma-eb1ug3 ай бұрын
MAG Thankyou sir Very very true Real picture of Indian society
@manyagarg660829 күн бұрын
Bhutttt bdia Aise hi mind opening videos chahiyen Mann to krta h apne saas sasur k kamre m ja k ye video chla du
@rohitchoudhari9648 Жыл бұрын
No one can explain my family situation better than this video! I knew this, came to know this last year(2021) itself and took the instant step of buying a new flat for my family... Just 2 minutes away from my parents' home. Now I hope things get sorted out smoothly! Age-31
@SangoLifeSutras Жыл бұрын
They will be smooth
@freedom4813 Жыл бұрын
@@SangoLifeSutras make a video on orphan child how to grow in life 😒 and save yourself from Bloodlust People 🐍
@Animacium13 Жыл бұрын
Congratulations
@minidubey7445 Жыл бұрын
Great Mr rohit. Here in my case, I had to move out and I m villain now for everyone. But I'm at peace now. Yes still my other half takes counseling session 4 times from his family. 👋 but I'm rock solid in my decision of not being the part of kaleshi family n living with them .
@deepikabali9199 Жыл бұрын
@@minidubey7445 congratulations!
@manuchoudhary3355 Жыл бұрын
Can't imagine ki koi mentally itna healthy h vo b is age me vrna is age group walo ko to bete bahu ka rona rote hi dekha h.Hats off to u sir .
@with_proof_factsАй бұрын
Gajab gajab Gajab Gajab Gajab Spot on 😂 Katal Kar diya.. Isko forward Kar do sab apni maa/SaaS ko.
@Yomistudio-668826 күн бұрын
Plzzzzzzzzz spread this video everywhere taki esey logon (saas-sasur) ki pol kuch to khule
@soniasingh9276 Жыл бұрын
There is tendency in Indian male members that Bahu has come in family as transcend of Mother in law role. Whatever mother in law has been doing, how she is managing has to be done by bahu in same way , no matter , which they label as 'sasural k taur tarike', 'get adjusted' . They don't accept that girl has her own way of living and doing things , she might not be interested in cooking food or being on toes daily.
@antarabasak1055 Жыл бұрын
@@FromProfessor is it not a matter of ego for boys accepting girl earning more than them? And also boys tend to be older and hence get the time to have higher income . So for a girl to have income higher than husband, will a family boy look for girls older than the boy? Boys do night job or US timing for high income. Will a family be supportive of the wife doing night shft?
@shalinisingh700 Жыл бұрын
@@FromProfessorlets see when u will be married..after almost 5years come nd update uss😅😅
@Mike-bz6pv Жыл бұрын
@@shalinisingh700yeah but yk he will not come back ever
@Anita-vh9zl Жыл бұрын
Your life lessons are so deeply connected to our lives of 80 born women. We face this truth in our household. You have correctly pointed the main villian 👌👌 Your videos help us to think about from different perspective
@ranjittyagi9354 Жыл бұрын
80 born folks are doing well. Those born around 2000 or so are always ready to 🔪 🗡 over pretty much anything. And most of them are dumb.
@poddar2012 Жыл бұрын
Same 80sborn
@mahesh21772 ай бұрын
Bulls eye: Villain is only the sasur always. Being a son I don't hesitate to say it.
@amnv597949 минут бұрын
😂😂😂amazing sir👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 sir vo jo silence treatment dete hain in laws please usse bhi analysis dijiye bohot saare log guilt me jee rahe hain😢
@beautifulsoul7318 Жыл бұрын
Greetings sir ji.. After listening your videos I must say you have observed, studied, analyzed everything in so details.. I must say you must be a great daddy for your children and definitely creating awareness and spreading knowledge in the society which is beneficial for us.. Keep going..
@sksharma8369 Жыл бұрын
Please share your own family's details. How are they behaving and how is your advice having results in your in family. Hope you will have courage to do so.
@mad_in_2020 Жыл бұрын
Very very true. The head of the family is utterly lazy, irresponsible but wants all the power.
@aaravjaiswal7634 Жыл бұрын
👏👌👍
@manojashinde47922 ай бұрын
True
@manishashah85092 ай бұрын
Correct.. Salute sir.. Samaj ki kadvi sachai.. Bahut achha vedio banaya.. Hope sabhi ye dekh ke apna believe system change kare aut family me khushali banaye..
@oursoulfultravel3 ай бұрын
Very good advised sir, thankfully my husband understood this quite early and he was the one who decided to have our own house.But in India majority of people don’t understand this and they look down upon couple who do not live with their parents.
@pragnaparmar9588 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you. The moment you said, jis ghar mai women dukhi hai, woh ghar kabhi sukhi, happy nahi ho sakta. This was my thought which came on in this video. Must appreciate your thoughts. Thanks for your videos.
@rohanverma5318 Жыл бұрын
Meri shadi ko 7 years honne walle hai. And initially I used to think ki meri gf (of 14 years) ko jyada dikkat hai. Then with time I realised ki nai meri mom Ko Bina baat ki fight krni hotti, as I witnessed a few. But in Covid, i figured out that my father has to be blamed. Jab maine apni observation wife ko boli she didn't agree, and said your mom is the culprit not your dad. But today after watching this video, I am now 100% sure whose fault it is.
@Antimgupta1610 ай бұрын
Thnx god u saved ur marriage…i saw my cousin brother could not see ds nd got divorce nd now living along nd regretting his decision
@user-pb4hq7lj4hАй бұрын
Sir ....Charan kaha h apke ....I want to touch your feet ....mtlb itnaa khul k aaj tak koi insaan nhi Bola h ....ap great ho sir ....ye bat logo ko smjh aa jaye bas tb bat bne
@bhoomimakadia70393 ай бұрын
Wah..... 💯% true uncle......Sadi se pahle hi rutine discuss karle to thode Bahu kalesh kam ho jayenge....jitna hobby discuss karte ho utna rutine discuss karlo ke Bahu ko Sadi ke bad actually kya kam karna hai aur kaise rehna hai with home financial condition
@MeenaJuneja Жыл бұрын
Love your life lessons..I happened to watch one episode..and I was hooked to your channel...watched all your episodes..almost.. Itne sateek..progressive vichaar..much needed for the society..Bahut achha kaam Kar Rahe ho aap..kitna khul ke bolte ho..wahwahwah..:):) Have forwarded to many in my circle.. !! Thanks for coming up with such unique stuff.. 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏
@SangoLifeSutras Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@drarchanaawasthipandey4193 Жыл бұрын
MAJ
@beyond-the-sky Жыл бұрын
I just want to forward this to my sasuraal group offend ho jayenge bas 😅
@chandabhatia5472 Жыл бұрын
MAJ
@sunitasharma4623 Жыл бұрын
Bhout Badhiya this is reallty of life
@priyasimon1140 Жыл бұрын
Perfect points said today. This must be shared to all in India.
@ishanipatel757517 күн бұрын
Roots of Patriarchal society. True Message. Role of Woman is Changing. Now she has started to understand. 👍
@Motivationvideowithpriya12 күн бұрын
Uncle ji aapane To Mere Dil Ki baten Bata Di bahut bahut dhanyvad aap log hi Hain Jo Bahu Ka Dukh samajh sakte hain
@innovator786 Жыл бұрын
I completely agree with your every sentence. I used to say same things to my husband whatever you've said. My mother in law became a source for my father in law. She did every thing wrong with me but with the consent of my father in law.
@keertimathur5288 Жыл бұрын
Sir you are a gem of a person who is highlighting these issues which nobody talks about . I hope if people could just become mature and not take their wife for granted.
@shwetamall205023 күн бұрын
Sir. App ka bahut bahut dhanyavad ye video banane ke liye
@sulabhamalaj22952 ай бұрын
Very much true Sir. Thanks for bringing up this. But for our Beta , Father, son in law and Father in law to improve, it will take another decade I feel or more maybe. This video should reach each and every house hold of India
@divyakaushal3056 Жыл бұрын
Uncle thanks a lot you are creating videos which is very valuable for generation like us from 20 -40 age gap . Keep it up uncle lots of love and blessings to you.❤❤❤
@ishandave9584 Жыл бұрын
When you revealed that sasurji is the villain, it was truly like a murder mystery where the person who seemed to be the most distant from the crime came out to be the criminal. Jurm aise Karo ki koi shak na kar paye
@agrimata2467 Жыл бұрын
Àctully family make sasur god, all say that sasur ji ko insan se bhagwan banate hai Bahu ke samne,bahu se bhi yahi expect Kiya jata hai,jabki ladki apne papa ko itne sar pe nahi leti
@amandeepkoursaini9832 Жыл бұрын
Mujhe to shuru me hi samajh aa gya tha ki meri zindgi to narak banne hi wali hai kyunki sasur ji is sitting at home simply doing nothing but noting down his bahu's each and every little and big mistakes and provoking his wife and daughter and then later at night when me and husband go to sleep. Then SIL before going to sleep goes to her parents room and they start gossiping about their Bahu, in this way they were all filled with toxicity and whenever they got a chance they make Bahu villain in front of their son. This is all because of insecurity of losing their son that if the Bahu becomes successful in creating a strong bond with the son then ladka to hath se gayo, ban jayega "Joru ka Ghulam". Achha Sone pe suhaga aur lijiye ki even after destroying their own son's and bahu's emotional and sexual life they ask very shamefully that "is there any good news?" "are you expecting?" SHARM bhi ni aati aisa puchhte huye. Jab pati patni ke beech me man-mutaav create kar liya to bachcha kya rape karwa ke paida karwaoge. Shadi se pehle mujhe bataya gya tha ki Sasur buisness karte hain to mujhe laga tha apni shop me baithte honge kya pata tha ghar me baithenge to us ghar kabhi shadi na karti kyunki aise sasur zindgi ko aur narak se bhi upar level ka narak bana dete hain. Socha tha Saas ke sath Ghar pe maa beti ki tarah enjoy karungi milkar sab kiya karenge unse sab seekh lungi fir unhe nahi karne dungi. Lekin shadi ke baad ka pehla saal bhi sukh se jeene nahi Mila do baar to gande gande suicidal thoughts aaye dusri baar to kadam uthane bhi chali thi lekin pati aur sasural aur mayeke walo ki zindgi tabah ho jayegi mere aisa karne se to khud ko rok liya. Lekin ab sochti hu mai kyun apni zindgi kurbaan karu unlogo ki wajah se jinhe ghanta faraq ni padta mere hone na hone se ye to mere Marne ke baad dusri le aayenge mere baare me samaaj ko kahenge ye mentally disturbed thi to aisa kadam utha liya.
@amandeepkoursaini9832 Жыл бұрын
Maaf karna kuch zyada hi lamba ho gya
@Leothefighter1 Жыл бұрын
@@amandeepkoursaini9832jyada ki baat nahi hai didi chlo kum se kum apne apna gussa to pura niqala
@ShwetaSingh-rp7oj10 ай бұрын
God bless u sister.
@koyalsaini815816 күн бұрын
I knew it. But never want yo say the name.U r awesome sir ghar ke kalesh karnewala bhi sasur aur rokna chahe to rok bhi sakta hai sasur. Lekin kalesh ki aag me rotiua bhi to sekni hai
@uchatila105321 күн бұрын
Great Sangwan sir!!!
@pollytheparrot8929 Жыл бұрын
Sooo right.. 😀😀😂😂👌👌 I can see and feel the toxicity in my family between my parents.. They are narcissistic 😞 my father kind of controls everything..I'm divorced, my in-laws were like u said exactly.. Great content ..maja aa gaya😊❤
@sivankasmemoir9770 Жыл бұрын
Jinka sasur nahi hain, unka kaun hoga but nevertheless, what you mentioned is 100 % accurate even in northeast India.
@prasadbhadane608 Жыл бұрын
North east me konsa part?? What about Nagaland? Because I though they are modern because they were not corrupted by typical Indian societal thought process.. That's what i think please let me know ke waha kya hora he.. Mujhe jyada idea nahi he waha ka