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"Can We Just Stop?" Overwhelmed Bride Asks For A Shopping Break | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta

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Say Yes to the Dress

Say Yes to the Dress

Күн бұрын

Emily has tried on over 20 different wedding dresses! Despite that, she has not genuinely loved any of them. Robyn steps in with the help of Lori and Monte to try and help this indecisive bride find her dream dress.
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@dagi72164
@dagi72164 3 жыл бұрын
This young lady has some serious anxiety - I don’t think the dress is an issue - there’s a lot of pain beneath the surface.
@mimib8032
@mimib8032 3 жыл бұрын
Agree, she was barely holding it together.
@moniquemorris1667
@moniquemorris1667 3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way she needs some help plus going to law school has her on edge
@josi4251
@josi4251 3 жыл бұрын
She does. But law school alone may be doing that to her. I spent years as a paralegal, and while I know there are superb lawyers out there, I wouldn't touch that job with a barge pole.
@lm.6625
@lm.6625 3 жыл бұрын
I agree but a huge part of it could also just be nervousness because she's not used to being the center if attention and having cameras around
@kirbyhatesincels917
@kirbyhatesincels917 3 жыл бұрын
I have BDD and I feel her in regards to how no dress is “it”. Especially what Robin said about her interpreting every compliment as something bad. I do the same. Not sure if it is BDD or something else. Either way, it is heartbreaking.
@ann-marieburke7713
@ann-marieburke7713 3 жыл бұрын
I feel that her issues are psychological...the way she fidgets and her mannerisms.. watching this almost has you on the edge like if she would lose it at any minute.
@annieroydube
@annieroydube 3 жыл бұрын
I agree... I feel bad for her
@karenhampton804
@karenhampton804 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed....she has some psychological issues it seems. Aspergers or major anxiety. Its so gutwrenching watching her struggle with her emotions.
@nebbindog6126
@nebbindog6126 3 жыл бұрын
She acted like so many lawyers and accounts I worked with in furniture and flooring sales. They look at life in the rear view mirror and can't imagine anything. Most start by trying to replace what they already have. They live in a sea of beige.
@dietotaku
@dietotaku 3 жыл бұрын
she has this expectation that she's going to burst into tears when she finds "the one," but not every bride has that. i saw the dress i liked online, i tried it on in store and was like "yeah this'll do," got married and it was fine. not once did i cry, nor did my mom (the only person who went with me to try it on), nor did anyone at the wedding, it was just kinda... "hey, you look nice, congrats on the marriage!" and that was it. nbd. weddings don't have to be one earth-shattering moment after another.
@ceceliamoreno1845
@ceceliamoreno1845 3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@Loveismyteacher
@Loveismyteacher 3 жыл бұрын
My first thought when I saw her was “wow. If anxiety was a person.” 😳 but then I thought, everyone is not comfortable being on camera and it’s a big decision she’s making. Bless her heart. I’m glad she decided to take a break. I pray she finds peace and comfort.
@catherineshields784
@catherineshields784 Жыл бұрын
I’m wondering if she has autism Or on the spectrum, I do an she has reminds me of myself when placed in very stressful situations
@synovelle
@synovelle 3 жыл бұрын
“This just doesn’t seem like what you’d wear everyday” much love to the friend, but, the guy was right, you don’t get married everyday. Everyday, I’m wearing pajamas and oversized long sleeved shirts. I wouldn’t wear that to my wedding. 😂
@christinelavoie2644
@christinelavoie2644 2 жыл бұрын
Agree, this was one of the most bone-headed comments I've heard on this show.
@swetabhanderi4232
@swetabhanderi4232 3 жыл бұрын
She looks like she is going to cry any moment
@bluestar5451
@bluestar5451 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly my thought
@sarrahocini8360
@sarrahocini8360 3 жыл бұрын
exaaactly!!!
@amaliaenache9194
@amaliaenache9194 3 жыл бұрын
Exactlyyyyyyyyyyyy
@wirantinurardiani9046
@wirantinurardiani9046 3 жыл бұрын
And very nervous all the time. Her voice sounds trembling 😁
@saramyles4750
@saramyles4750 3 жыл бұрын
She most definitely has a deeper situation where she doesn't like herself
@esraayousef5643
@esraayousef5643 3 жыл бұрын
Her friends asking if she is "capable" of feeling a strong emotion says a lot really.
@cassidykelner3520
@cassidykelner3520 3 жыл бұрын
i hated that comment. i thought it was rude and they just don’t want to acknowledge the real problem. it makes me feel sad
@cassidykelner3520
@cassidykelner3520 3 жыл бұрын
sad for her, i mean
@dinoduckychan8989
@dinoduckychan8989 3 жыл бұрын
Thought it was pritty funny actually. But it made the room so awkward.
@_shreya_9795
@_shreya_9795 3 жыл бұрын
@@cassidykelner3520 I agree it was like attacking her when they should know her problems if they are her friends
@esraayousef5643
@esraayousef5643 3 жыл бұрын
@@_shreya_9795 sometimes you need to remind people of the need to acknowledge reality instead of just pampering them, I didn't take it as a bad or inconsiderate comment actually, I just thought it affirmed what everyone, inucluding consultants, felt about her attitude, which made them quickly accept her need for a break or inability to take a decision without pushing her into one.
@charlenesearlesrod5
@charlenesearlesrod5 10 ай бұрын
Oh man, she's the type that has all emotions bottled up and will explode at any moment 🫣
@rosemarycornwall5162
@rosemarycornwall5162 3 жыл бұрын
She looked lovely and relaxed on their wedding day in a lovely simple dress and it looks like they have a daughter and son. Happy days 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
@supposedly1-2
@supposedly1-2 2 жыл бұрын
@@boojersey13 ig or fb probably
@cbisme6414
@cbisme6414 2 жыл бұрын
I got the feeling if her husband was with her she'd have been more at ease. Obviously he soothes her anxiety and she feels safe within his company. I'm glad she found her dress and married her best friend.
@molecularly_unique1707
@molecularly_unique1707 3 жыл бұрын
She needs to consider if it's the dress that she is unsure about committing to or the marriage.
@bnadira212
@bnadira212 3 жыл бұрын
I said the same thing
@samyb78
@samyb78 3 жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing. the problem is not the dress
@YT4Me57
@YT4Me57 3 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly. How do I know? I've been there and decided against the marriage.
@Brembelia
@Brembelia 3 жыл бұрын
If she can't think fast on her feet, law will be a tough choice of career.
@mlight6845
@mlight6845 3 жыл бұрын
The photos of the groom indicate that is the issue.
@sakshipakhide3635
@sakshipakhide3635 3 жыл бұрын
Her body language is so distressed. I think she is suffering from anxiety and should consider see a psychologist. She definitely needs help.
@fairybabe
@fairybabe 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@kimmybee8741
@kimmybee8741 3 жыл бұрын
She’s a hardcore pessimist. She sees the negative in everything.
@mayatuzzeo
@mayatuzzeo 3 жыл бұрын
I’m sure she already knows that
@mara2624
@mara2624 3 жыл бұрын
I thought the same ever since I saw this girl . She's nervous . Need a psychologist asap .
@gabrielapinho
@gabrielapinho 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, she is not enjoying the moment and is definitely struggling. I hope she gets what she wants.
@MissH2333
@MissH2333 2 жыл бұрын
I totally relate to this bride I can get very overwhelmed and emotional when I’m overstimulated. Not to mention she is being recorded that can be scary.
@greenshp
@greenshp 2 жыл бұрын
She had to sign off on being filmed. They don't do that without permission, by law. So if that made her so nervous, she should have said so.
@MissH2333
@MissH2333 2 жыл бұрын
@@greenshp I never said they illegally recorded her. Just because you signed off on the cameras doesn’t mean you can’t be nervous.
@subratadey8533
@subratadey8533 2 жыл бұрын
what's to be scared about being recorded?
@MissH2333
@MissH2333 2 жыл бұрын
@@subratadey8533 There are many reasons someone might be nervous being recorded. Maybe they are afraid they will say or do something embarrassing or maybe they are worried about what people watching the recording will think of them. Stage fright is a very common occurrence.
@EH23831
@EH23831 Жыл бұрын
I suspect she has ADHD- my daughter is similar
@jillnelson8746
@jillnelson8746 3 жыл бұрын
As a former law student myself “as close to love as I could get” says it all-she seems so overwhelmed she can’t make a decision . I’m hoping she could wait until the pressures of law school are over so she can enjoy the moment of marriage. Law school for females is rigorous and challenging and can be dehumanizing and ego crushing. I know because I did it. It can crush self-confidence. Professors toy with students-pushing for a right answer when whatever you answer they will argue for the opposite side-people who thrive on conflict enjoy this. Gentler souls wilt.
@peacelovejayhawk
@peacelovejayhawk 2 жыл бұрын
I came here to say this. She's under the pressure of law school and she's a wreck. She needs to shop and plan this wedding AFTER graduating and taking the bar. Not a single student is in their right mind during law school - no one should be making big decisions until after they've passed the bar and have had time to become a normal human again.
@lindaleelaw5277
@lindaleelaw5277 2 жыл бұрын
Then the mature thing is to do one thing or the other. Maybe not both .. sadly women and life and career .. 50 yrs after feminism they still are hustling to have it all.
@wb5408
@wb5408 2 жыл бұрын
If only I could get my 17 year-old son to be a law professor!
@maltal8352
@maltal8352 Жыл бұрын
@@lindaleelaw5277what is it that women don’t have still ?
@dannhorne9782
@dannhorne9782 3 жыл бұрын
What this sweet child needs is a clip for her hair so she doesn’t have to keep messing with it
@skyesilver705
@skyesilver705 3 жыл бұрын
Messing with your hair can be an anxiety relief thing for many people, me included :)
@bethanydenney6006
@bethanydenney6006 3 жыл бұрын
I commented the same thing. Heck, I don't let my bangs get that length for just that reason. She already acts so nerved up and stressed out, the hair in her face just adds to it. Cut them or grow them out, but yeah, for now clip those suckers back.
@ingridmckernan5102
@ingridmckernan5102 3 жыл бұрын
I know right, she looks very anxious!! 😬😬
@hallohf8kv
@hallohf8kv 3 жыл бұрын
I came through the comments to find a comment like this.so glad I’m not the only one who feels this way
@cassidykelner3520
@cassidykelner3520 3 жыл бұрын
i think she could be trying to hide her eye(s) too. its a manipulator as well, basically what skye said
@jenromano19
@jenromano19 3 жыл бұрын
Robin has never met a bride with a wide shoulder complex? That's the first thing that I would be looking at, because I feel like I look like a female linebacker.
@ashleigh9255
@ashleigh9255 3 жыл бұрын
Same here, my shoulders are really broad so I wouldn't want to look top heavy
@shelley-annbrown1577
@shelley-annbrown1577 3 жыл бұрын
Same!
@flyingchappal916
@flyingchappal916 3 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly I'm inverted triangle
@jenromano19
@jenromano19 3 жыл бұрын
So good to hear that I am not the only one who feels like that! I don't know if I could pull off a strapless dress, because of my shoulders. I do like halter dresses though, because having even that little bit of fabric at the top can minimize. Depends on the dress though. For a weddings dress, I think I would want straps or sleeves.
@ashleigh9255
@ashleigh9255 3 жыл бұрын
@@jenromano19 Honestly for some reason strapless really suits me, which is weird because my shoulders are the widest part of my body. But I use to hate my shoulders until my mum said "you may have broad shoulders but they actually make your waist look smaller because it gives the illusion that you go in at the waist" and since then I dont mind them. I've just learnt to live with it and managed to style it so I dont look top heavy. (I just wear tight jeans to bring out my hips or wear fit and flare trousers but I can look top heavy sometimes) It's so annoying when I go to try on clothes and they don't fit over my shoulders so I have to go for a size bigger but then it doesn't flatter my body 😫
@oldageisdumb
@oldageisdumb 2 жыл бұрын
For all you folks talking about “something strange with the relationship” or “her fiancée must not be good” or “she seems severely anxious/stressed”, I don’t think that’s fair. I think she could very well be on the spectrum based on her behavior and is behaving absolutely within normal parameters for that.
@rachelmaddowswife8713
@rachelmaddowswife8713 8 ай бұрын
Yeah, I think people are just cluing into the fact that she isn't quite typical in some way, but obviously none of us can diagnose her from here. As an introvert with an anxiety disorder, going on this show would be a nightmare for me, so she's brave to try. Maybe it's not generalized anxiety, could be OCD, ADHD, autism spectrum as you say. It's none of our business really, but I don't think people are making fun of her, they feel for her.
@marinastrez
@marinastrez 4 ай бұрын
Insightful idea about being on the spectrum. But one can be anxious as well.
@barlowwe
@barlowwe 2 жыл бұрын
I love this girl!!! She is a bundle of nerves because she’s a perfectionist. She’s in law school so she’s obviously a high achiever. It’s just hard for her to make decisions because she’s afraid of making a mistake. Fortunately, because she’s so deliberate in making decisions, she doesn’t make mistakes too often. She was just born this way and I think she’s darling! Best of luck to you, Emily!
@catherineshields784
@catherineshields784 Жыл бұрын
I’m wondering if she has autism Or on the spectrum, I do an she has reminds me of myself when placed in very stressful situations
@razz4taz
@razz4taz 3 жыл бұрын
She doesn't want to get married. There's a hidden issue she's avoiding I bet.
@laurendavis4193
@laurendavis4193 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I was thinking.
@countrygal854
@countrygal854 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@alguemaleatorio8713
@alguemaleatorio8713 3 жыл бұрын
I think she wants, but she have anxiety or idk, she's looking like shes almost loosing her shit at any moment. Maybe too much pressure? Insecurities... Etc.
@paddlefoot5692
@paddlefoot5692 3 жыл бұрын
Got that same vibe...more to this than simply a dress
@kt-xz6xw
@kt-xz6xw 3 жыл бұрын
I think she doesn't want to pay the outrageous price for the dress. I went to that store 17 years ago and it was pretty expensive.
@lamar9331
@lamar9331 3 жыл бұрын
As she entered the store, she looks like she'd been crying and stressed already. Honey, you don't need a break from dresses, you need to rethink about getting married. You look very sad and unhappy.
@TheJuiceor
@TheJuiceor 3 жыл бұрын
how do you know what she has been crying about?
@MsMourningstar
@MsMourningstar 3 жыл бұрын
That’s a far leap. She could easily be stressed because of the dress shopping. She clearly isn’t having a good time and could’ve had a lot of anxiety about it beforehand because of her previous experiences.
@haileyfields5190
@haileyfields5190 3 жыл бұрын
I think the answer is she needs to elope. The problem is not her intended, her fiance. She said he makes her a better person. It's social anxiety that's being projected onto the dress.
@lillaanafortier8525
@lillaanafortier8525 3 жыл бұрын
Very unhappy
@carolinegrova8707
@carolinegrova8707 3 жыл бұрын
I think that's too far a leap to reasonably make. You can be sad, anxious, even seriously depressed and still love your partner.
@Opinionakadatruth
@Opinionakadatruth 3 жыл бұрын
She’s so unsure of herself. I felt like I was getting anxiety myself watching this. Dress #3 looked stunning on her figure but she honestly looked great in all those dresses!
@justvibin7883
@justvibin7883 2 жыл бұрын
Dress 3 should’ve been the one fs
@LightworkBeacon
@LightworkBeacon 3 жыл бұрын
Perfect example of Analysis Paralysis. She corrected Robin in saying the word ‘pretty’ but then used the word pretty to describe how she felt, to Lori. My heart goes out to this bride. This has more to do with her confidence; I hope she ended up finding something that made her feel lovely on her day.
@Lelaminator
@Lelaminator 3 жыл бұрын
her movements are unnerving. she looks like shes about to cry at every second.
@UjoWadjet
@UjoWadjet 3 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly. I had so much anxiety watching her fidgeting.
@confusedclarinetgirl
@confusedclarinetgirl 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe she has ADHD, perhaps show some compassion.
@mayakiara
@mayakiara 3 жыл бұрын
@@confusedclarinetgirl i have severe ADHD and these arent signs. These are signs of severe anxiety and a bride who feels pressured to get married
@confusedclarinetgirl
@confusedclarinetgirl 3 жыл бұрын
@@mayakiara people with ADHD very often have GAD as you will know then. I am just talking about the bizarre way people are spectating on her issues.
@mayakiara
@mayakiara 3 жыл бұрын
@@confusedclarinetgirl oh yes i understand
@Toomuchlaffing
@Toomuchlaffing 3 жыл бұрын
almost the entire time she looked as if someone had backed her into a corner and she was trapped. her eyes were darting everywhere and she kept taking deep breaths and looked as if she was about to cry in distress at any moment. idk if it was the dress shopping or the wedding or what, but she does need help of some kind. she's way stressed out
@kyliepechler
@kyliepechler 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, everything about her body language, from head to toe, indicates that she is being pressured into a marriage that she doesn't seem ready for.
@jimthecactus7425
@jimthecactus7425 2 жыл бұрын
@@kyliepechler That or she's insecure and the cameras gave her anxiety
@peachygal4153
@peachygal4153 2 жыл бұрын
@@jimthecactus7425 I hope she does not become a courtroom lawyer than. How will she ever cope with that?
@Hgood1
@Hgood1 2 жыл бұрын
The last dress hands down was the most special and most flattering. I do feel for her anxiety. I feel for her.
@idk.939
@idk.939 3 жыл бұрын
I wanna give her a hug. She seems like she having a really tough time I kinda feel bad
@Ozarklakelife
@Ozarklakelife 3 жыл бұрын
I’m not a doctor, but I think this girl should see one.
@sandisteinberg1579
@sandisteinberg1579 3 жыл бұрын
I think she may suffer from depression or an anxiety disorder. It's a shame. Also, she looked wonderful in several dresses but couldn't seem to see that.
@LovelyAngel.
@LovelyAngel. 3 жыл бұрын
@@sandisteinberg1579 I'm feeling like she's having something more complicated than depression
@lamar9331
@lamar9331 3 жыл бұрын
@@sandisteinberg1579 I feel like she may be bring abused, or she just doesn't want to marry him.
@priscillavelazquezs
@priscillavelazquezs 3 жыл бұрын
I would, after seeing all these comments about myself :/
@AnniCarlsson
@AnniCarlsson 2 жыл бұрын
@@priscillavelazquezs yeah. I really hope she never read this. The comments are terrible to read. Wonder if people that comment know it's a real person they write about?
@chamilajla
@chamilajla 3 жыл бұрын
Ok guys, we better not judge her. She definitely is in stress enough.
@mariposavioleta9007
@mariposavioleta9007 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!
@AMI_inLOVE
@AMI_inLOVE 3 жыл бұрын
True.
@nikkipoveda4174
@nikkipoveda4174 3 жыл бұрын
Shes definitely not in stress right now, this video looks really old and she’s probably already married maybe kids and happy
@reneebyler5546
@reneebyler5546 3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@donnamarino2017
@donnamarino2017 Жыл бұрын
I have anxiety it's torture it's not a joke for her
@maddiewhatever441
@maddiewhatever441 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly I can relate. Whenever I feel overwhelmed I kinda shut down. If she has what I have, she probably needs to just try another day, or set up several appointments. It's not easy.
@cookingwiththehaitiantwist
@cookingwiththehaitiantwist 2 жыл бұрын
Same.
@annieb6602
@annieb6602 3 жыл бұрын
Bless this girl's heart! I have diagnosed anxiety and I could see how anxious she was a mile away. I think planning the wedding is really overwhelming her. I hope she has a good support system with her fiance, family, friends, etc. She might want to consider seeing a professional. I think it would do her some good
@Jessica_Adams
@Jessica_Adams 3 жыл бұрын
“Its everything i ever asked for in a ball gown” girl you didn’t ask for anything, you said you didn’t know what you wanted! 🙄 😂
@shanettapryce4029
@shanettapryce4029 3 жыл бұрын
She needed people there who knows how to help her relax. Her friends were saying she looks nice but were no real support. She should have brought home with her (family)
@skitty449
@skitty449 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe the dress finally awakened the mental image she’s wanted to have of herself for a while. She wants to feel pretty and comfortable in her own skin. The right dress does that.
@jamietrombley6966
@jamietrombley6966 3 жыл бұрын
SHE ALSO SAID SHE DOESNT WANT A BALL GOwn or PRINCESS DREss at the start what the fuck this chick probably doesn’t wanna get married is why she’s got mad cold feet
@zzz7408
@zzz7408 3 жыл бұрын
Nooo 🤣
@beagledog2001
@beagledog2001 3 жыл бұрын
@@shanettapryce4029 I think they were a little hesitant to offer any comments. They looked a little afraid to say anything.
@passionfruitfruit
@passionfruitfruit 3 жыл бұрын
I've never seen a bride on this show with so much utter fear in her eyes. She seems lost, horrified, shaky, uncertain, as if she was running away from something☹️. I don't think a dress is the issue here.
@reemalalyani7087
@reemalalyani7087 3 жыл бұрын
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
@beagledog2001
@beagledog2001 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Like she was about to come apart!
@kimberlypreston6204
@kimberlypreston6204 2 жыл бұрын
she didn't have family there to support her. Just people from her college. I think she didn't have the right support system for a stressful moment like this.
@Gwaycee
@Gwaycee 2 жыл бұрын
Looks like she's lacking self-confidence.
@jamieroseski8432
@jamieroseski8432 2 жыл бұрын
Can i just say i love how she said “shoulder complex” instead of insecurity. When calling something an insecurity is like saying they have it and they don’t like it. Complex is like telling them their body is perfect no matter what your body looks like
@lmlowe9100
@lmlowe9100 2 жыл бұрын
It's amazing she was able to make a decision and commitment to her fiance.
@Leona000
@Leona000 3 жыл бұрын
All these comments diagnosing her and her marriage are uncalled for. It could be just as simple as the cameras make her nervous. I wish her much happiness in her marriage.
@mMsbeezer
@mMsbeezer 3 жыл бұрын
I have no doubt that she could have opted out of filming.
@a.y.8591
@a.y.8591 3 жыл бұрын
There's nothing uncalled for here. People are not being negative or judgy. They're recognizing signs of extreme stress that are so obvious they can see it on a youtube screen or they're able to identify those sings based on their personal experiences. She applied to be on the show so she knew there would be cameras. She said she felt like she was gonna have a heart attack. It's not normal to be this anxious about being filmed or picking a dress.
@ishwaaq191
@ishwaaq191 3 жыл бұрын
@@a.y.8591 She does look anxious and stressed but there are people in the comments trying to diagnose her with autism and Aspergers, when they are not psychologists or medical professionals
@LPnerd
@LPnerd 2 жыл бұрын
so, do you think she cameras on with the other 20 dresses???
@carmenmiranda2288
@carmenmiranda2288 2 жыл бұрын
That last dress was stunning on her! Softens her. I hope she came back for it . . .
@jaymeemangang9506
@jaymeemangang9506 3 жыл бұрын
*She hasn't started crying but I have a feeling we might start crying!*
@daniellefroio1620
@daniellefroio1620 3 жыл бұрын
Emily, You can do this. You're just overwhelmed with expectations from yourself and others. Women often think we should have the same idealized experiences in life as the stories we hear about since childhood. Please try not to diminish your experiences by comparing them to other peoples stories of perfection. People will edit out the little imperfections from their stories because they just don't dwell on those things. Give yourself permission to enjoy the process if you can. If you can't enjoy the process then the process is not for you. Permit yourself to integrate new life expectations into your way of thinking when needed. I wish you a happy life with your fiance'.
@samalmonte8060
@samalmonte8060 2 жыл бұрын
The dress is not the problem. Her anxiety is getting the best of her. As a person who has anxiety myself I can relate and I can only wish that she seeks the help she needs. Bless her heart!.
@darsigrunewald592
@darsigrunewald592 3 жыл бұрын
Poor girl, she’s an anxiety filled mess. Maybe she really doesn’t want to get married. Hope she can find happiness.
@dawnochs2018
@dawnochs2018 2 жыл бұрын
When she said the dress was itchy…that’s how I feel right before I have a panic attack.
@sharcrum
@sharcrum 5 ай бұрын
I feel for the man that's gonna take her on. I wonder if he knows what he's in for ?
@sklumb1
@sklumb1 3 жыл бұрын
Monte: "But they don't call me the Nutcracker for nothing." 😂😂😂
@tatianagranger2427
@tatianagranger2427 Жыл бұрын
Wow! That dress on her was absolutely stunning! I wish she could see herself the way most of us see her, as a truly beautiful woman who deserves to love bd give love.
@luv4mybffl
@luv4mybffl 3 жыл бұрын
When she said "its about as close to love as I can get" sounds like she meant the fiancee too
@clwbchbabycakes
@clwbchbabycakes 3 жыл бұрын
Dress #1 was gorgeous on her. It's not the dress she's so indecisive about - it's getting married that has her unnerved.
@jennifermurdock945
@jennifermurdock945 3 жыл бұрын
I agree. Someone who is that unsure about every dress she’s tried is very unsure of marriage. I think she really needs to evaluate her real feelings towards her relationship. I think she’s very insecure about it and she might have gotten swept up in the proposal.
@MsJubjubbird
@MsJubjubbird 3 жыл бұрын
You mean the polka dot one? I loved it. the one she tried on before but didn't show looked a bit cheap
@jimthecactus7425
@jimthecactus7425 2 жыл бұрын
I don't see how people are getting this. From comments she's making I think she just has really bad selfesteem issues and was anxious. Also wedding planning can be extremely stressful so she's probably just worn out. I don't think there's enough in the video for people to be making judgements on the relationship.
@christinelavoie2644
@christinelavoie2644 2 жыл бұрын
@@jimthecactus7425 I completely agree. It's not the marriage that's causing her anxiety, unless she's afraid he groom will discover that she is as unworthy as she believes herself to be. That to me was the blaringly obvious issue: how much she doesn't like herself.
@cyflym11
@cyflym11 2 жыл бұрын
@@jennifermurdock945 It's not the MARRIAGE she's afraid of, it's the WEDDING. Not everyone is a party loving social butterfly, some have crippling anxiety at the thought of attending any kind of event, let alone when they are the centre of attention for the whole day. I know, been there done that, but have just celebrated my silver wedding anniversary and am still very happy with my husband!
@josephinemiller4780
@josephinemiller4780 3 жыл бұрын
Is she even ready to get married? Her teary eyes say otherwise. Maybe she needs to wait until she finishes law school!
@onepanwonders3579
@onepanwonders3579 2 жыл бұрын
That last dress was perfect for her. She looked beautiful, classy and comfortable. I hope she bought it!
@the_simran_sahu
@the_simran_sahu 3 жыл бұрын
She's suffering from anxiety and NO not everyone gets THIS anxious about a dress, either she's suffering from something in her life, or it's PTSD or she's doubtful of her marriage.
@josieloveyou2624
@josieloveyou2624 3 жыл бұрын
She needs to alope. She doesn’t seem excited to have a wedding. If you’re that nervous and stressed about it just go to the J P
@stephanieyee9784
@stephanieyee9784 3 жыл бұрын
^ Elope.
@lamar9331
@lamar9331 3 жыл бұрын
I don't think it's the wedding, I think it's the man.
@josieloveyou2624
@josieloveyou2624 3 жыл бұрын
@@stephanieyee9784 Thank you. I knew it didn’t look right. My brain is not connecting the dots today. I tried auto correct and it didn’t give me that option
@shelbymanners6729
@shelbymanners6729 3 жыл бұрын
@@josieloveyou2624 We all have those days 😉
@brideykloti4690
@brideykloti4690 3 жыл бұрын
I agree, or scale it all down. I don't see a reason to believe she doesn't want to get married, or to commit to her fiance. I see a girl overwhelmed by the pressure of a 'big day' and all the decisions and expectations that come with it. Poor girl. I hope she finds some peace and assurance.
@swisschoco25
@swisschoco25 3 жыл бұрын
I think....a dress for her is not as important to her. When people are indecisive and they are pretty much forced to answer a question or is put on the spot...it shows how uncomfortable they are with actually making decisions.
@AuntStina
@AuntStina 3 жыл бұрын
You’re probably right. Maybe she should just go Somewhere she can purchase something off the rack without pressure from a consultant. I know typical bridal gown appointments, the brides are limited to 3-4 dresses & an hour to an hour & half to try on & decide. That’s a lot of pressure even if her budget were $500 instead of $5,000.
@cyflym11
@cyflym11 2 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same. Not everyone has dreamed about buying a wedding dress since they were tiny. Sometimes it's just another chore to tick off the list.
@christinelavoie2644
@christinelavoie2644 2 жыл бұрын
I used to be a theatre costumer. Some actresses never liked their costume and never thought they looked good, no matter how gorgeous they themselves were, or how much the costume flattered them. The problem was that they did not love THEMSELVES. This is this young woman's problem. She has an enviable figure, the dresses she tried on all made her look good, but the only thing she sees in the mirror is that woman she can't abide, her own self. It's a shame. I hope her groom has a lot of patience.
@TheMusicPinkLover91
@TheMusicPinkLover91 3 жыл бұрын
As a GAD sufferer myself, I think she suffers from some sort of anxiety. When she sat down at almost the end of the video, it could've been an anxiety attack or panic attack at that moment. I really feel for her and I wish I could've gave her a hug and tell her "Everything's gonna be all right. I know how hard it is to find a dress that you will like. But remember that you are beautiful inside and out and whatever you choose, you should feel comfortable in." 💕💕💕
@katieantique7525
@katieantique7525 3 жыл бұрын
I really think it is the entire wedding, and fiancé she really doesn’t want.
@jemmaj2919
@jemmaj2919 3 жыл бұрын
she looks anxious, doesn't mean she's not happy with the guy
@lilmizeezee8350
@lilmizeezee8350 3 жыл бұрын
Literally said finsce makes her life better....dont assume...its about herself and maybe she got bullied in past
@L.Spencer
@L.Spencer 3 жыл бұрын
She seems to still be married.
@simren7286
@simren7286 3 жыл бұрын
I think it's probably self-image issues, she was so particular about what words she used and which words she would let others use to describe herself.
@SandraStar66
@SandraStar66 3 жыл бұрын
This comment section is so judgmental. Like leave her alone, she’s clearly struggling but we don’t know with what. That doesn’t mean that she shouldn’t be an attorney, that she necessarily has cold feet, or necessarily needs to see a doctor. Suddenly everyone’s an expert on strangers on the internet.
@nahbruh2613
@nahbruh2613 3 жыл бұрын
You’re so dramatic. She subjected herself to the internet. Get over it.
@SandraStar66
@SandraStar66 3 жыл бұрын
@@nahbruh2613 by your logic everyone saying these things are subjecting themselves to criticism over their comments. Get over it.
@chelseaarbuckle3665
@chelseaarbuckle3665 3 жыл бұрын
Doesn't mean she has the right to be as rude as she was to the consultants, correcting her all the time etc, your anxiety doesn't give you the right to treat people poorly and she was SO rude.
@SandraStar66
@SandraStar66 3 жыл бұрын
@@chelseaarbuckle3665 how is saying “you’re saying I feel x when I actually feel y” rude? That is not rude. She may be more difficult to handle for a consultant because she’s having a lot of hard to understand, negative emotions, but that is not rude.
@peggyprovost8028
@peggyprovost8028 2 жыл бұрын
She will never be my lawyer lol -- can't imagine her in front of a jury.
@mMsbeezer
@mMsbeezer 3 жыл бұрын
I walked into the bridal shop. Everyone there had their mother’s,friends and /or entourage with them. No one offered to help me. I was with my future sister in law. I looked through the racks, picked a dress, tried it on and bought it . There was no great emotional moment. I have been married 41 years. I still have that dress. I still love it. Every bride does not necessarily get all emotional over a dress. She may never get “that moment”. I wonder if her hesitation isn’t so much about the dress and maybe about cold feet over the wedding.
@laurelflint1866
@laurelflint1866 3 жыл бұрын
Hmm...She honestly looked beautiful in every gown!! She's extremely fidgety & I feel like she's dealing with anxiety & something else too. Perhaps having second thoughts about getting married at this time? The gown she felt sexy in, was gorgeous on her!!! So was the last gown with pockets!!! I would encourage her to talk to a therapist, to help her during this time.
@lamar9331
@lamar9331 3 жыл бұрын
I would also encourage her to cancel the wedding.
@daniahamdan8861
@daniahamdan8861 2 жыл бұрын
Or she’s on drugs!
@disha8773
@disha8773 3 жыл бұрын
Not sure what was more anxiety-inducing, her constant fidgeting or that effing fringe/bang that she constantly had to shrug out of her eyes?!
@jenettemerlini6035
@jenettemerlini6035 3 жыл бұрын
YES!!!!!!! That constant swiping was so annoying!!!!!
@emeliaquist4304
@emeliaquist4304 3 жыл бұрын
Soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo annoying!
@vickicrisler6360
@vickicrisler6360 3 жыл бұрын
I could help her out a little if someone would hand me a pair of scissors. A little bitty trim of her pver-long bangs (just my opinion) would take a little stress out of her life, don't you think. Plus, she is such a beautiful girl. Would love to see an unobstructed view of her face.
@SuzanneU
@SuzanneU 2 жыл бұрын
The fidgeting made me feel really sorry for her. As to the hair, it looked as if she uses it to hide behind. She's clearly very stressed. That man's comment about whether she has the emotional capacity for a wow moment was really cruel - the pain in her face went to my heart.
@pialyn109
@pialyn109 3 жыл бұрын
"She doesn't get married on a daily basis" that was 👌
@shellipost6063
@shellipost6063 2 жыл бұрын
Her anxiety is not just about dress shopping; there is clearly something else going on with her. I just wonder why she chose to be on a TV show considering how anxious she is.
@SandraLuz3
@SandraLuz3 3 жыл бұрын
The wedding dress "moment" is different for everyone. You don't need to cry , I knew my wedding dress was the one because I felt good in it. Out of everything I tried on it complimented my body the best it was in my budget. And I wasn't feeling pushed to like it. However I wasn't expecting to cry but when I felt confident in the dress there was no question about it. I think it also has to do with self confidence to some level.
@joannacrickenberger7627
@joannacrickenberger7627 3 жыл бұрын
I didn't cry when I found my dress. I was too busy smiling!!! My Mom and cousin cried though.
@PinkieJoJo
@PinkieJoJo 2 жыл бұрын
I didn’t cry when I got my dress. My mom was buying and she said she’d go one time to pick something. She refused to go to more than one store. I was told to pick a dress that day or buy my own. I was told she was picking the dress or I could buy my own. I couldn’t afford my own. My dress was 400. The one I wanted was 600. Now that I’m older and wiser I would have honestly just been fine going to a resale shop to get one because it’s just a damn dress to wear for one day. People spending so much time, effort, and money on these dresses seems ridiculous to me.
@Myokuju
@Myokuju 3 жыл бұрын
"On a daily basis you dont wear stuff like this You also dont get married on a daily basis" Bingo! Thats the right answer
@Nancy-rx8ph
@Nancy-rx8ph Жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t want her as a lawyer 🙄
@BasedSockHead007
@BasedSockHead007 2 жыл бұрын
This is one of them brides they needed to hype up and shower with compliments! She’s beautiful, she has a beautiful figure! Make her feel confident!
@Pois0nIvyy
@Pois0nIvyy 3 жыл бұрын
Gosh. Watching her being fidgety is making me itch. 😅
@jemmaj2919
@jemmaj2919 3 жыл бұрын
she looked in distress, nothing to make fun off
@Pois0nIvyy
@Pois0nIvyy 3 жыл бұрын
@@jemmaj2919 She is in distress. I don't see anyone making fun of her. I think people are genuinely concerned and her presentation is really making people feel nervous. I truly feel bad for her. 💔
@californiagumbo8702
@californiagumbo8702 3 жыл бұрын
Lol!
@mayakiara
@mayakiara 3 жыл бұрын
@@californiagumbo8702 shut up
@jaymeemangang9506
@jaymeemangang9506 3 жыл бұрын
Why would she cut her front hair in that length only to be that uncomfortable the entire time! ???
@frickmom
@frickmom 3 жыл бұрын
I agree. Makes you want to grab a pair of scissors!!
@svdapop
@svdapop 3 жыл бұрын
It doesn't seem like the hair length is the problem, it looks more like severe anxiety with her constant fidgeting and pink nose. Telling her she needs a different hairstyle when she's already having a crisis over a dress is the last thing you should do, whether she would ever happen to see the comments or not.
@kray4857
@kray4857 3 жыл бұрын
I’m going insane watching her try to tuck bangs that are too short to go behind her ear. Cut the bangs shorter or pin them back!!
@purplepixie274
@purplepixie274 3 жыл бұрын
Have none of you ever been really flustered before? She's feeling anxious, overwhelmed and hot by the looks of it, her fringe is getting on her nerves because of that probably. Or maybe it's a new haircut for TV, who knows?
@lyndastreet7344
@lyndastreet7344 3 жыл бұрын
Perhaps she’s growing it out
@Kimmy_1928
@Kimmy_1928 3 жыл бұрын
Robin needs a whole big raise and medal after this. Like for real.
@teprakp
@teprakp 2 жыл бұрын
No mention of love. Soulmates. Shared sense of humour . She’s a very unhappy person.
@prakisharma
@prakisharma 3 жыл бұрын
Somebody just pin up her hair!
@johnnabuzby6103
@johnnabuzby6103 3 жыл бұрын
Do something about those bangs in her eyes.
@nancyvidyasagar5369
@nancyvidyasagar5369 3 жыл бұрын
Yeeeesss pl!
@ChristineAustralia74
@ChristineAustralia74 3 жыл бұрын
Omg right!!
@sandyhumissouri5131
@sandyhumissouri5131 3 жыл бұрын
How. Many. Times did she mess with those bangs?!
@Msstarrgirl1
@Msstarrgirl1 3 жыл бұрын
After trying to tuck them away 100 times, when will she realize they are not going to stay out of her eyes. I don’t understand why she thought she would get a different outcome. I felt sorry for her. She made my anxiety go on high alert.
@deirdredraginoff3760
@deirdredraginoff3760 3 жыл бұрын
We shouldn't judge her physicality. That could be several issues like ASD, ADHD, turrets syndrome, etc. The child is nervous and scared of something. Could be the wedding itself. My husband was scared of a wedding. We went to the courthouse with our parents and his brother. I wore a gown from my closet. It was easy and the right decision for us. It could be that simple.
@Leona000
@Leona000 3 жыл бұрын
Could be the cameras. I don't think I could do it without being nervous.
@greenshp
@greenshp 2 жыл бұрын
I agree there could be a psychological issue. Also, it could be a big fight with a parent, or as others have said, being unsure about the wedding. I also gave in to my husband and did the backyard wedding with no religion. That was 35 years ago. I divorced him a few decades later - because he never cared about what was important to me (or anyone but himself) and was a coward about taking any risk on anything in life. I should have known!
@southshields21
@southshields21 4 ай бұрын
She’s a perfectionist!! She is a people pleaser & I hope she starts ignoring others and forming her own opinions:)
@SD-ck3ev
@SD-ck3ev 2 жыл бұрын
Sweet girl, that last dress looked perfect. Not all of us cry or have that “moment”- I loved my dress but I didn’t cry. I’m just not an overly emotional person.
@skitty449
@skitty449 3 жыл бұрын
Why is everyone staring at her like she’s insane? Her friends are basically silent, they’re not hugging her or offering any kind of compassion, why are they there? No wonder she’s anxious, she’s probably bearing all the nerves herself. And then the staff treated her like she was a ticking time bomb. They needed to sit with her for a while and do what Gok does: draw the dress, talk about the parts of her body she likes and doesn’t like, talk about her vision. Make her feel comfortable, not like she’s a basket case. She’s in law school, of course she’s nervous. This is the one time she’s got to feel good about herself and this is one of the most tense episodes of SYTTD I’ve watched in a while. Really disappointed in everyone involved. This girl deserves better.
@justicefoster955
@justicefoster955 3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree. I love Gok. Lori and Monte are hilarious but it's situations like these I wish they would cut the sarcasm and really sit down with the bride and understand where she's coming from. Lancanshire and curvy brides boutique are my favorites because they really sit down with the brides and make them feel safe and important. Not treat them like a tiking time bomb, or make it obvious that they want her to buy a dress already.
@jenettemerlini6035
@jenettemerlini6035 3 жыл бұрын
Because they've probably been to 10 shops already and they're over it.....it's quite obvious 🙄
@skitty449
@skitty449 3 жыл бұрын
There have been other instances of supportive friends in such situations on SYTTD. The focus on everyone just staring at this obviously strung-out bride is really creepy and odd, and it doesn’t help her stress I imagine.
@cheryla9834
@cheryla9834 2 жыл бұрын
do remember this is a short clip of a longer version and it too has been edited
@L.Spencer
@L.Spencer 3 жыл бұрын
Too bad she feels she has to have a "bridal moment" with buying a dress. The moment is when you realize you're marrying your love, nothing else is as important.
@talk9552
@talk9552 Жыл бұрын
"They don't call me the nutcracker for nothing" LMAOOO MONTE I LOVE YOU
@careya
@careya 2 жыл бұрын
I want to give her a hug and tell her everything will be ok.
@joanie-threefeathersspirit4478
@joanie-threefeathersspirit4478 3 жыл бұрын
She had a pained look on her face during the entire appointment. I think they should have a long engagement.
@bellaendale2765
@bellaendale2765 3 жыл бұрын
Sending you love Emily...hope you found your dress and it made you feel as wonderful as you needed it to ❤❤
@abioakley401
@abioakley401 3 жыл бұрын
For all those saying she doesn't want to get married - a little internet digging shows that they got married in October 2012 and now have 2 children. Maybe her anxiety and indecision were because of something else.
@RunningThroughFire93
@RunningThroughFire93 2 жыл бұрын
Bless this girl, definitely underlying anxiety problems and I bet the cameras weren't helping but that silk fit and flare on number 3 looked AMAZING on her...
@MysteriousDrella
@MysteriousDrella 3 жыл бұрын
I just think she has psychological issues with her body. So, she won't ever have the wow-feeling, especially not on a sample dress that doesn't fit perfectly. She does like the dresses, but she doesn't like herself in the dresses. Maybe it's also the color, some brides hate white/off-white, champaign, if they don't wear it ever in summer or any season.
@skitty449
@skitty449 3 жыл бұрын
A powder-blue or gold dress would be stunning on her.
@zainabimad3299
@zainabimad3299 3 жыл бұрын
@@skitty449 exactly my thoughts!
@christinelavoie2644
@christinelavoie2644 2 жыл бұрын
If she does not like herself, which I believe is the problem she won't like any dress because she does not like the person wearing them.
@TotallyAwesomeMcknz
@TotallyAwesomeMcknz 3 жыл бұрын
Her bangs are stressing me out. Like someone get this girl a clip or something!
@maryclaremayo6157
@maryclaremayo6157 7 ай бұрын
That last dress was gorgeous on her.
@carlyyjack9211
@carlyyjack9211 3 жыл бұрын
Poor things she needs a big mum hug and told how gorgeous she looks
@caseyharp9948
@caseyharp9948 3 жыл бұрын
And now we are all going to need to see an update on this lady.
@KerKhent
@KerKhent 3 жыл бұрын
Poor bride. She's been conditioned that she should cry when she finds the dress she wants to wear to her wedding. And that's the root of her not "loving" any of the dresses.
@Msstarrgirl1
@Msstarrgirl1 3 жыл бұрын
I loved my dress, knew right away it was the one and never shed a tear. It was the 2nd one I tried on. Still hanging in my closet 50 years later.
@Garland67
@Garland67 2 жыл бұрын
I have never seen a bride this nervous. That kind of crippling indecision and insecurity is a big problem. Hope she gets some help.
@MisBunnypics
@MisBunnypics 2 жыл бұрын
An indecisive lawyer that's just what you want! lol
@aafsterlife9647
@aafsterlife9647 3 жыл бұрын
Phew! I need to watch another episode to recover from the tension of this one!
@kaliwindx7287
@kaliwindx7287 3 жыл бұрын
I would never hire this woman as an attorney. God help her clients
@kaylahshaylene1617
@kaylahshaylene1617 3 жыл бұрын
There’s a huge difference tho between making a personal decision and a professional decision
@schreingeiss
@schreingeiss 3 жыл бұрын
Worrying is actually a major part of being a good lawyer. But not to the point of debilitation.
@jscho8674
@jscho8674 2 жыл бұрын
I really loved her in that last dress. I was so sad that she didn't seem happy.
@shelleymeyer9413
@shelleymeyer9413 3 жыл бұрын
I actually feel so bad for her. You can see the absolute exhaustion and anxiety. I pray this poor girl finds her dream dress.
@eianlis
@eianlis 3 жыл бұрын
She gives me anxiety 😟
@ammumohandas1298
@ammumohandas1298 3 жыл бұрын
Something is seriously wrong with the bride. She shud see a therapist before getting married or finally the husband or the groom will land up in a psychiatry ward.
@simren7286
@simren7286 3 жыл бұрын
Well that's a bit harsh :/
@mayakiara
@mayakiara 3 жыл бұрын
Shut up
@tonyaosier1678
@tonyaosier1678 Жыл бұрын
I think she doesnt want to get married. Her being a Lawyer is not gonna work for her, the judge will step in & tell her to make some kinda decision or choose a different profession. As a Lawyer, you have to make decisions sometimes on the fly.
@kristinmoreno9203
@kristinmoreno9203 Жыл бұрын
The Bride looks fantastic in Everything that she tried on. She will look Beautiful in whichever Dress she finally chooses🌹🌹🌹
@angiesanchez238
@angiesanchez238 3 жыл бұрын
I am hesitant to believe that she is ready for marriage. I think this wedding is not going to happen. I mean, where’s her mom or at least one family member? I hope she gets it together because she came across as being uncomfortable for the whole experience.✌🏽
@marandaatnip6173
@marandaatnip6173 3 жыл бұрын
Watching this is starting to stress me out lol
@bbtmac3453
@bbtmac3453 3 жыл бұрын
She maybe the worst lawyer to ever take the bar.Lady stay out of the court room. Stay behind a desk where you feel safe. Wonder what is in her past that makes her so sad?
@XXthelivingdead
@XXthelivingdead 3 жыл бұрын
Man i feel for her on a huge level. The rebuttales to the compliments,the nervousness and whatnot. I would feel insecure and nervous and stressed aswell in that position
@allisonarmentrout3303
@allisonarmentrout3303 3 жыл бұрын
Emily obviously isn't ready for marriage, yet. Body language reveals intense anxiety... adhd or getting cold-feet.
@norarodela8909
@norarodela8909 3 жыл бұрын
Gee I wonder how long it took her to say yes or no to the gentleman who asked her hand in marriage cuz that's a bigger decision than a wedding dress
@janetkeen8280
@janetkeen8280 2 жыл бұрын
Never seen all 3 consultants looking exhausted at the same time!
@lucyneerings4030
@lucyneerings4030 3 жыл бұрын
Her bangs are just in the way and driving me insane lol 😂
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