They might have chosen a Hello Kitty gown or a pink princess floof with fairy wings and a magic wand.

Amen!!!

AMEN to all you said!

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Right... they're at exactly the wrong age. An eight-month old can't talk and a 15-year-old would have more of a filter than a five- and eight-year-old.

The polite way to say that is to shut your face.

Only the younger one, the older was pretty chill

@@xhyokanx6555 I think the older one realized the step mom loved the dress and decided to support her.

@@alisonfraser3305 no theres polite ways you saying to some one to shut there face si rude asf

Brats

It is awesome that she included them but yeah, I wouldn't take their opinion at the ages they are.

You are right! Most of the kids wants glamour from the Disney princesses so, it is difficult to pleased them 😅 But sharing the moment explaining why the bride is the only one who can choose it's lovely.

Wow these girls are something else, the bride needs to pick her own dress hell with the brats.

i think they would've liked her favorite dress more if they could see it in a whiter color, that almost beige color wasn't really doing it for me either. white satin really brings out the sparkle in the blingy belt.

As a step daughter, it's important to include them in the process so they feel like they're wanted.

She clearly spoils the crap out of the step kids. May be one of the reasons why her future husband has choosen her lOL

i’m one of those girls! this show is all twisted & turned to make us look way different. this is actually from years ago! we hated when it was aired because of the way it made us look… still do now! and these comments…. HATEFUL! do people not realize drama tv shows are tweaked??

@@trinitymitchell2000 Hi Trinity, I can tell from your step mom's style that this was at least a decade ago which would make you about 18 or older now. SO, with that said. I can understand the frustration looking back and viewing critical comments. However, my words were not meant to be hurtful. As a viewer, I only see what they are showing us.. and I felt like your step mom truely loves ya'll and spoil you to bits... spoiled with love.. so literally my comment wasn't meant to be hurtful... It's a good thing.. Your dad choose a woman that loves his children. Going back, I do know that shows are tweaked.. but I've never been in a show.. in which way it's tweaked It's hard to tell from my window. Hope you don't take this too seriously... honestly nobody will remember it's you and I watched a ton of these videos and don't even remember any in detail until notification pops up with response. Don't take it to heart.. life is full of obstacles.. this is just a tiny scratch.. it will heal and you will move on. Happy holidays.

@@trinitymitchell2000 After watching not that many of the US version of SYTTD I realized that they love inserting drama into their shows whether there’s drama or not. The editing creates fake, tacky and tiring content. So have no fear - I at least know you and your sister weren’t as controlling and spoiled as you appeared.

@@trinitymitchell2000 Twisted or not I don’t think kids in general should have an impact on their mothers wedding dress Choice due to the fact that they’re well I don’t know children and all they want is glitter and bright poppy colors things that interested their parents when they were five you know what I mean

I agree....and would have turned out terribly if it landed on tails.

Guess we see who’s going to be running their marriage. So not healthy

bratty 5 year old too

They gonna have a problem with the little one because they are allowing her to have her way too early.

YES well said

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It wont last. She is going to hurt. These girls dont even know what fashion is Jaime is trying to hard to please them.

good point

The girls are her fiance's daughters.

totally.

Totally agree with you.. Boundaries with the children. What about decisions in the future concerning these children.. Australia

Well, she doesn't have her own children yet so she doesn't have the needed experience to deal with such situations.

@@user-wf3fz3ki8n you don’t need to have children to set boundaries or know the importance of them. I imagine she has problems setting boundaries in other areas of her life.

@@AkireMaru No kidding Sherlock! It must difficult to be in a relation with kids that are not yours... However you need to step up and be a parent. As for not having children...you have choices in life.. Some people are not equipped with these skills or analytical in their choices.

As long as they’re under 1 then it’s fine lol. Not a peep coming from their mouth

So you just throw them away while you go choose a dress that your gonna wear one time? Weird.

@@user-xe1nr6er5q daycare and babysitters exist yknow?

@@saintshrooms9424 you know they hurt those kids and dont watch them properly right?

@@user-xe1nr6er5q you do realise not all babysitters are terrible assholes only doing it for the money right?

The bride just got lucky, overall shes a wimp. The girls are going to ride her like a horsey.

@@clutchinmypearls6490 I felt that she always have to make the girls happy. Maybe that's why the dad agreed to marry her because girls approved her.

Kids are kids , bringing kids to weeding dress shopping is a dumb thing to do, you can't expect kids to behave like adults. Or if you had to bring them you needed other family members to have a talk with them in a way they'll understand, but if nobody had a talk with them about this topic you can't out of the blue expect them to not behave like kids, best option don't bring children to this.

@@clutchinmypearls6490 actually it was scripted.

@@erumakhter7358 one thing as a parent if your kids don't like your wife or husband at all. The relationship won't last. Kids will always be number 1 to a parent

Absolutely! She needs to maintain her position as their stepmother by being kind and guiding them because it's a transition for the girls as well. But she shouldn't be manipulated by them either. They will become difficult as teens otherwise.

I'd say that horse has bolted unfortunately Gillian. It seems like they really rule the roost.

Why can't she be like a real mom to them? She can behave the same as she would have behaved with their own children? Why does she have to SET A BOUNDARY AS A STEPMOTHER?A five years old child's demand can't be described as "dictating the home"😒😒😒. It's ridiculous and disgusting to even think like that 🙄🙄🙄

@@sultanajinnia9821 true

Your poor stepchildren I pity them

That coin flip was definitely fate

Couldn’t agree more. There is a difference between a child being independent and a child being a brat!

giving a kid too many privileges is the cause of karen-ism.

6:47 😂🤣

A growing Karen waiting to happen 😂😂😂😂

Thats why the invention of the belt was created 😂

Those flowers were a mess though.

It's about wanting her step-daughters to feel important and that they were part of the wedding.

Bring them to the fitting so they see the dress before anyone else, then let them choose in smaller items. If you the bride have two things you like equally, say your wedding shoes let them pick. Give them a choice between a couple of princess type flower girl dresses you've chosen. Lots of ways to involve without them being boss.

I do agree with you, however she is just kissing up to those grown children that do not know their place. The only thing they can pick is the flowers on the cake.

yeah i thought the coin flip was a great idea, i'm surprised the staff were so hard on her about it. i tell my kids coin flips are a good way to gauge how you really feel about something - if it comes up one way and you're happy with that result, that's what you go with but if it comes up and you feel disappointed or still unsure ("well... let's do 2 out of 3") then what you really want is the other one.

good ol' coin toss served me well in giving the kids "a voice" in decisions that ----weren't "life changing..." and it gave them the sense of being included and allowed them to be part of making choices----you know---for those later in life times when i may not be around right then and there. peace.

The coin toss was ridiculous. She would have given up her choice for the flip of a coin? SMH

@@paddlefoot5692 Exactly.

lol

Whose fault is it? If you give her space and don't limit her, you have to live with it. I would never have taken her to a fitting. Actually, I wouldn't marry a family like that.

@@reginakniprode246 oh agreed, I wouldn’t have brought them. They’re not wearing the dress and they’re her stepkids, like, I get that she was going for a beautiful moment but she knew how opinionated they are so she shouldn’t have been surprised

Ikr. So annoying

Guys the girl is only five years old. She was being honest. She didn’t yell, cry or throw a tantrum and from what was shown both girls patiently waited while their stepmother was being dressed. If you had kids you would know that’s hard for little kids to do. They were both very well behaved.

@@ES-ku3oe I get that, I just probably would have brought them to the fitting or something instead of the initial appointment

agree!

The five year old is more likely a product of surviving her biologic parents dysfunction resulting in divorce and subsequent co-parenting. Hopefully her stepmom will step in with emotional maturity and help lead this young one to understand life without manipulation.

she's 5.. she's probably acting up cause she misses her mom

Very well said!

@@ok-sj1xm it was actually scripted and they lied about her age.

So true, because I would have the mind of a 5 or 8 year old.

That's what I'm saying to

About 4 years worth, at least.

Wrong choice of man

Right on target. That little one said no with her chest.SMMFH.

I absolutely agree. Neither one of those girls need to have an opinion on her choices. She should be kind to them obviously, by including them in being there which that's all it should have been, because she's marrying their Dad, but also needs to have some control and authority as well.

they run the household, no doubt!

Me also, the ta tas were tastefully covered....

I thought the second dress was a better fit up top for her. The other looked off like the boson was hanging low to me but to each their own.

@@camelabell3140 I think its partially because the sample dress doesn’t fit her chest properly.. since it’s clipped on, I imagine it probably pulls down a bit (as some strapless dresses tend to do). But that’s what alterations are for… 🤷‍♀️ they can alter it to perfectly fit and support her figure… and will “stay put” when worn..

The second dress flattered her the most, but her personality is key to selecting a dress. She's absolutely beautiful.

Hi Gaila How are you doing today?

Absolutely

@@faithmoore7520 So where are you from?

@@robertgreen8131 dude. You are being a creep and a half!

Yassss you couldnt have said it any better. The only thing those grown little girls should pick, is the flowers that go on the cake.

100% definitely would have left them at home

That would not have been an option for me. I would never let a 🪙 coin, nor a child 👧decide something so special as my Wedding dress 👰👗. I would definitely let the little girls have their say, but the only decision would be mine.

What a lovely way of handling kids around important yet not major decisions! I guess my mom did the same with us for some events. She let my sis and I handle the invitation cards for my dad's 40th birthday party for instance, or would always let us choose the entree for family reunions, among different choices :D Never came to my mind she was being inclusive without letting us be mini tyrans XD

They obviously get their way with her. It was clear the whole way through the programme. Ridiculous!

It was scripted, the girls were 8 and 10, ans there over 18 now

Also that wouldn't have gone over well with her relationship with the girls hence ending the marriage.

Was it patience though? Or was she afraid to upset them in case they went running to their dad?

Your reaction/answer would have been the better one. How can she expect the girls to respect her decisions after she's married to their dad if they get to have a say in everything? When they can't understand how to deal with not getting their way/ people not interested in their opinions etc. they'll have an unpleasant awakening somewhere down the line. Not great.

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Ya right!!!! She should off that bratty kids and that man as well... Once n for all

i couldn't help but project to all the other areas where this mini-karen will be making decisions in this family. poor bride.

She is in for step mom hell. Poor lady

Marian Crow. Mini Karen describes the younger girl perfectly.

Agree. She just showed the TV world she is a doormat. Luck??? She is going to need it

Yasss, these kids were about to PUNK her out of her decision. I wish I had a spineless jellyfish for a parent. They would do the chores and my homework while I dropped them off a work. I would ride the like a mule.

At five years old you usually do not picking your own clothes let alone someone's wedding gown.

Exactly. A lot of people don’t understand that either, calling her a brat. She’s a freaking kid. We all had to learn empathy and to put others first etc. At 5 years old you don’t understand the concept of a wedding and how important it is in life and how the wedding dress should reflect you. The little girl just wanted her step mom to look pretty like a princess.

11 years later and they didn’t 🥰🥰

Yep so true. She needs to have some authority with them and they need to be reminded they aren't allowed to dictate what she chooses to do, she's the adult. Otherwise they won't learn how to be respectful when they are grown.

bc the show is heavily edited and puts clips in out of context making the kids look bratty, this isn’t actually what happened

YES

You are aware that the bride ASKED the 5yr old to come with her, and to tell her what she likes and what looks good? Like, that 5yr old is not like one of the mean adults you see on the show - she is 5 and legitimately believes that if her new mummy asks her to tell her what dresses look good, she wants an honest answer. The bride told her before that her opinion really matters to her. 5yr olds are not good at prosocial lying - saying something nice if they don't mean it to spare other people's feelings. That's why you don't take them wedding dress shopping. She was also obviously bored. The mom is clearly the one who made the mistake here - trying way too hard to be popular with the girls and kinda exposing them in front of a tv audience while doing it.

She said they’ve been off and on so I’m guessing that’s where the girls come in

I was also wondering about the same thing.

it looks like it's not really about a dress

Hi Amelia How are you doing today?

@@robertgreen8131 why are you such a creep?

@@ellieburton6208 stalker-troll. saw him in other comments too.

She wore the dress.

You were brats. You should never have been taken to this grown up appointment. You can decide for yourself when you get married. Children should sometimes not be seen or heard. Your father is lucky she lives him. Because he as proven that he is not to be trusted. If he cant stay in a relationship for very long. On and off is not very reliable

Tbh TLC I known for their shady behaviour on these types of shows

@@eileenmcdonald1599 Good Lord you have issues. You know all this from a clip off an episode of TLC? Get help.

@@eileenmcdonald1599 wtf..

Eileen McDonald wow, someone must have hurt you bad for you to be that nasty and bitter.

She set the wrong tone, I guess the girls decide when step mommy can have alone time with daddy. SMH

Translated by google idk because they want the girls to be happy she is going to be there mom

I also loved the 1st dress, she looked beautiful in it

agreed and calling them brats

Shes not the parent. She is a step parent.

@@emmalynn5877 they are brats

Sorry you can't shut us as you don't have an authority to do so. Looks like either you are one of those rude spoiled pathetic PATHETIC rotten kids on the show or in real life somewhere in some family making the step mother's life totally miserable ....

No, because they are focused on tearing down a couple of little women who are not even tall enough to get in the rides yet! This whole society is sick. Everything the kids said is accurate. Her budget is less than 2000, so no need to kiss up, just insult her kids.

IKR and the kids don’t want her to marry their dad it has nothing to do with the dress

Alison Fraser insult the kids? Seriously she is marrying their dad so they are probably a bit insecure

Yep, they had to much of the tatas showing.

Just what I think.

It is possible she is far more mature than you and will avoid the pitfalls you describe so vividly.

Mistake #1--being told marrying someone with kids is a mistake.

@@alisonfraser3305 did you watch the show? Clearly she isn't. She was soooooooo worried about what the brats thought and let them veto her choices.

@@evelynwitt2529 especially one that seems to have a problem really committing . On and off since high school with this female. Plus the childrens mother or mothers. Plus no telling how many others in between. Dies not bode well.

Humans 🤔🤔🤔🤔

Nah Atlanta is where it’s at

This clearly shows her choice of man sucks .. she is setting herself for abuse, misery and heartache

YESSSSSS well said.. now YOU are an AMAZING step mom