Whoa...that escalated.

Cassie's face is me right now

Wow, so men actually do that "testing" stuff? My ex boyfriend once told me he took a girl home just to test his feelings for me and he "couldn't sleep with her because he still loved me". I thought he was talking out of his asshole, so I told him to hit the road.

This man is a D-bag. After every date, I always follow up by saying what a great time I had, and thanking my date for the fun. He should have followed up afterwards with an apology. He deceived you, and he owed you an apology, at the very least! He chose to leave you hanging with no explanation, no excuse, Nothing! Thank Goodness you didn't have a second and third date, because he was too cowardly to be upfront with you, it would have been so much worse. You have been blessed with a clean escape from him. Now imagine if he decided he wanted to be with you, how long would it last before he would have to "test" himself again. That is where his present girlfriend is, and she isn't even aware. Don't tell me he won't do it again, why wouldn't he? He got off clean this time and next time he may have to "test" himself even more. You were the lucky one, I pity his girlfriend.

They will be broken up in 6mths don't worry about it.

Don’t tell her. He is an ass but just leave it alone. It was one date. Let it go.

This has happened to me...lots of times...I think its just men...

No!!! Don’t tell that girlfriend!!!

Sounds like you hung out with my ex.. while we were together lol

Moe, I always text on my way home

Gross. I feel bad for the girlfriend. She doesn’t know he’s with douche. Yet.

It was one date but he let her on for a whole week the least you could have done is message for the next day and explain his situation

Cassie this is the one guy you SHOULD be trashing.

Some women go on ONE date and pretrnd he asked her to marry him. Seriously chill

I'd send this vid to his girlfriend. Gf needs to be spared of this guy's BS

Nope, you don't tell the gf of this guy. If he said he didn't have a gf, then that's fine. But he didn't, and if you didn't ask then you didn't care prior. Both he and his gf have the result coming but not b/c she should say anything. It'll work out the way it does, the universe has a loooog memory, but in fact, he had no ill intent. So leave it alone. His gf"s awareness doesn't need supplementing from a source of drama. Let it be. So what's the positive? Ever heard of the 'pay it forward'? By leaving it alone, you build Merit, in context. So how does this help. Because you enabled the universe to provide for him, as requested, your intent didn't match his, so it didn't work. Now, later, when a bad thing occurs, you get to offset that b/c it's like you are owed (kinda-sorta). So there is an offset that occurs and the bad thing in the future will be reduced from your "account". How it genuinely made you feel goes toward how it's repaid. It's sort of like you didn't deserve it due to what you've done to prevent it, bring a better person. So what will be "bad" later, it will be offset in your favour. See? The trick is; can you tell when that's done for you? If not, you have more work to do to become sensitive. That's how it works in our New Golden Age. Merit is a thing.

This was pretty mean what this guy did but that's not to say that girls don't do this all the time too.