Second marriage: The issues related to 2nd Marriage: |Prof Dr Javed Iqbal|

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Professor Dr Javed Iqbal

Professor Dr Javed Iqbal

4 жыл бұрын

Response to the question about second marriage by Prof DR Javed Iqbal. Few guidelines addressing the ideal behaviour in connection with the topic.
#secondmarriage #firstwife #stepmother
Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a surgeon with special interest in laparoscopic and cancer surgery. His professional qualifications are FCPS, FRCS, FACS, FICLS, MCPS-HPE.
He is one of the pioneers of laparoscopic surgery in the region. He has trained more than 50 surgeons formally as their supervisor and thousands more who have worked with him in various capacities during his four decades long professional journey. He is an official mentor of Royal College of Glasgow and International Course Director of American College of Surgeons for Advance Trauma Life Support (ATLS). He is a well known medical educationist and has been a part of College of Physicians and Surgeons, University of Health Sciences and Nishter Medical University as faculty of medical education.He is on the reviewers penal of various index medical journals. He has more than twenty five research publications on his credit along with a book on surgery entitled "The Operative Surgery"He is a published poet, shot story writer, critic and broadcaster. His current areas of effort are teaching and training of soft skill at various national and international fora. He is very active on social media and his team runs a very well subscribed youtube channel covering versatile topics& interests. He is regularly being invited on national & international TV shows for his intellectual contribution. He is an influential speaker. Millions of people are getting benefit from his videos on medical education, FCPS training, parenting, relationships, human wellbeing and various other social issues.

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@MrLalla2020
@MrLalla2020 3 жыл бұрын
بہت ہی اعلٰی صفت بات اور بہترین مشورہ، اللہ پاک سب کے لیے آسانیاں عطا فرمائے آمین 👍🇬🇧
@sarahusman6123
@sarahusman6123 2 жыл бұрын
Last night woke up and had a dream that my husband married another woman. I woke up crying with hiccups. I love my husband, he loves me alot too. Then, if he wills may be in future, I would allow him to marry. Reason being, I rather have him halal relation than haram.
@NizamkhanZ
@NizamkhanZ 2 жыл бұрын
Hat's off to you MashaALLAH @ Sarah usman
@sanayasid1629
@sanayasid1629 2 жыл бұрын
Second marriage is disgusting,sick people do second marriage
@sarahusman6123
@sarahusman6123 2 жыл бұрын
@@sanayasid1629 Well that is what you think.
@NizamkhanZ
@NizamkhanZ 2 жыл бұрын
@@sanayasid1629 think before you speak. Second marriage is allowed by the creator who create Men. The Creator knows what is best for his Creature. He allowed it on a condition that if you know that you can manage and make justice for both wife than you are allowed to do so... If you are doing justice Second or third Marriage is not disgusting. Disgusting is you'r thoughts for it. The disgusting thought say that Men can not feed his 2 wifes and can't bear their expenses right...!! While this one Men can feed his one wife 3 daughters 2 son and parents. Due to this disgusting mentallity many deserving and pious widowed or divorce women spend their all lives being lonely.
@NizamkhanZ
@NizamkhanZ 2 жыл бұрын
@@sarahusman6123 Salam to you on your great thoughts. Every loving wife will fell sad and cry on that occasion and it is the natural behaviour. The bitter Reality in our society is that some women's get comfortable if their husbands have affair other than Marriage but they are not comfortable if he make it in a Halal way. My wife also had a dream of seeing me getting second Marriage and she asked that am I not being a good wife to you, So I reply that you are good wife indeed. We both are happy Alhamdullilah.I wish the same to you InshaAllah.
@saimazahid4198
@saimazahid4198 3 жыл бұрын
Dill ko baag baag kar gai hen sir apki baten aur bohat hi imotional b😌😌😌 jazakAllah.
@masudsiddiqui3167
@masudsiddiqui3167 4 жыл бұрын
Lovely advice . Thank you. Remember, statistically failure rate of 2nd marriage is higher. One might get in a position of ‘ out of frying pan into fire ‘
@shehlaahmed7332
@shehlaahmed7332 4 жыл бұрын
100% correct excellent explanation Doctor Sahib
@arshadrafique2720
@arshadrafique2720 4 жыл бұрын
Jazaka Allah khair. Allah apko berkat day Aameen.
@syedamusfirah8120
@syedamusfirah8120 3 жыл бұрын
Bht hi nazuk topic ko bht hi achy tareeqy sy explain kia..jazak Allah sir
@hamzarafaqat8928
@hamzarafaqat8928 3 жыл бұрын
Waqai , itne achhe tareeqe se aalme Deen b nhi samjate , May Allah keep them safe
@sheikhjuned1109
@sheikhjuned1109 4 жыл бұрын
Ek haqiqi deendar hamesha duniyawi cheezon se compromise krke sirf Allah ki Rehmat se Khair Talab krta h...agar wo Zindagi k har masle ko sabr Aur shukrguzaari k darmiyan rakhe...
@engrumarkhan
@engrumarkhan 2 жыл бұрын
Jo Allah ne diya hai, usse mai Khair or barkat atta karay Allah! Ameen!🙏 Ya Allah tera shukar
@memore6m803
@memore6m803 4 жыл бұрын
Great man pahli dafa suna k mard 1 shadi kary wow..live long
@hassanparacha6003
@hassanparacha6003 2 жыл бұрын
Sahi baat hai
@arjumaniqbal8181
@arjumaniqbal8181 Жыл бұрын
I have seen many videos on this subject but this really is explained in the most logical and eloquent way. Justice with balance takes alot of gutts and patience. Lastly the first wife's psychological health must be taken into consideration. Our beloved prophet's PBUH daughter bibi Fatima had emotionally expressed her dislike in Hazrath Ali's intent of a 2nd wife. Our Rasul PBUH told his son in law that of my daughter is unhappy you have made me unhappy. So Hazrath Ali never took a 2nd wife as long as his wife was alive. This means that a woman has that right and must be heard when her heart is full of grief about her husband's 2nd wife. It can't be ignored. Marriage is a bond blessed by Allah to bring you peace, to both partners. Unfortunately our current society treats women's right as if there are non. That is not true. I have a family member who took a 2nd wife but it was due to lack of children from the first. Also took 4 plus years to decide that. Again the love and understanding with his first wife made that possible. Subhanallah. Better to keep 1 wife and make a jannah for yourself.
@muhammadshafeeq6316
@muhammadshafeeq6316 Жыл бұрын
Unexperienced and see only one pic
@SyedawajihaAli
@SyedawajihaAli Ай бұрын
Apka dimgh sahi ha ya kharab no apne apni traf se BIBI FATIMA k liye k wo naraz thi YE mHAZRAT ALI ka apna decision tha k onho ne dosri shadi nai ki
@maqboolrahmatshah5034
@maqboolrahmatshah5034 4 жыл бұрын
Sir u r great. I really impressed ur ideas. I also want to take a such step but today onward finished.
@miang2573
@miang2573 2 жыл бұрын
Kya khoobsort alfaz men smjhaya hai...... MashaAllah.
@hassan-ch
@hassan-ch 4 жыл бұрын
you're such a inspiration to me and lots of other 👍👍
@rayyanadil4218
@rayyanadil4218 4 жыл бұрын
Complete topic hona chahye Respected Sir, first wife sab responsibilities puri kry zindagi day apni, husband enjoyment k lye dusri biwi lay aye, tab kya karna chahye?
@waterlilly9
@waterlilly9 3 жыл бұрын
Great words sir I appreciate As a women I give one advice to men that if you want second marriage you’re first wife must be a believer of polygamy.
@doctoronline5501
@doctoronline5501 3 жыл бұрын
Polygamy is something else madam ...stick to one is always a better option
@theenlightenedone1283
@theenlightenedone1283 2 жыл бұрын
Of course, she needs to be Muslim or the country needs to be a Muslim country ... otherwise, girlfriend system will work as the westerns r doing it
@knowledge_triumphant
@knowledge_triumphant Жыл бұрын
By being Muslim it's an onus on women to be a believer of polygamy. Why? Because Allah said so. Period
@frenzybuzz3703
@frenzybuzz3703 Жыл бұрын
​@@knowledge_triumphantit's not true, for example I'm also a muslim but I can't bear it, most women aren't polygamous and u can't force us. I wouldn't want to be in a situation where I might end up in a mental institution. Discuss these things before getting married instead of mentally harming someone.
@knowledge_triumphant
@knowledge_triumphant Жыл бұрын
@@frenzybuzz3703 what is true is not decided by humans when it comes to religious dos and donts. For reference just see Christians and Jews who tried their version of truths based on their tolerance level or what ever. They ruined themselves not only in this life but also in the hereafter. The ultimate authority on truth is Almighty.... He is right for all the times to come. Women who can't bear it needs to tell thselves the truth and submit to it. Since they are Muslims so by definition it means submission without question.
@AnisurRahman-lp4cu
@AnisurRahman-lp4cu 3 жыл бұрын
آپ کا مشورہ بہت مناسب انداز میں ہے
@hamzarafaqat8928
@hamzarafaqat8928 3 жыл бұрын
Allah apko salamat rakhhe bhot achii baten ki ap ne
@NaushadAli-ft4cb
@NaushadAli-ft4cb 2 жыл бұрын
Great discourse sir. Jazak Allah Khair.
@sabamehmood5413
@sabamehmood5413 2 жыл бұрын
Sir ka ek ek word is so expensive as always.....Allah apko sehat wali Zindagi dain ameen
@ridatariq7747
@ridatariq7747 2 жыл бұрын
Sir, nobody could have conveyed their views in such subtle words. I was offended at the title when I first came across it but I am genuinely impressed by your composure and eloquence.
@Zilmaz
@Zilmaz 4 жыл бұрын
A very important issue of society discussed in an interesting way 👏. Thank You
@Artoo55
@Artoo55 4 жыл бұрын
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@sidrabaloch8341
@sidrabaloch8341 4 жыл бұрын
Mhr abu na b dosari shadi ki hoe dakna k lia b hum tarasta hai hum apna abu ko.... Allah na krh kbi b kise ka abu dosari shadi krha we miss him Allah..... Ye comment krta hoa b mhr eyes mai pani aagye plz Allah.....
@edwardlawrence8448
@edwardlawrence8448 4 жыл бұрын
Esme koi galat kaam nahi kiya
@asmagul1022
@asmagul1022 9 ай бұрын
​@@edwardlawrence8448bilkul galat kaam kiya hy unhon ney .phli bivi aur bachon ko haqooq nhi dey rahay woh .toh ye insaf toh na kiya unhon ney phli aur doosri bivi mn
@DrMFarooq
@DrMFarooq 4 жыл бұрын
MashaAllah Sir, great great and great. I love the way you acknowledged your team. This action shows your greatness. May Allah bless you with more success. I am loving bara admi program. I happy to see you coming forward. God bless you :)
@maryamzain4287
@maryamzain4287 4 жыл бұрын
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@kidsmotivationalvedios7546
@kidsmotivationalvedios7546 2 жыл бұрын
👍
@pursuit_of_happiness4029
@pursuit_of_happiness4029 4 жыл бұрын
Mashallah bahut acche se samjhaya aapne sir
@romesaumar4152
@romesaumar4152 3 жыл бұрын
Thank You asir for he right direction.
@naseemkhan-dc8dq
@naseemkhan-dc8dq 3 жыл бұрын
Sir, no doubt, very very knowledgeable and informative video. Great 👍. Mashallah. Alhaj Dr Malik Naseem Ullah khan, Toronto, Ontario, Canada 🇨🇦. Sir, I am Q 6 graduate of Quadi Azam medical college, Bahawalpur in 1982. Sir, this is your great 👍 and highly appreciable effort. 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
@remediesreview7600
@remediesreview7600 4 жыл бұрын
AA Good Content and Informative.....
@julaibibmehboob2688
@julaibibmehboob2688 2 жыл бұрын
Second marriage is as important as first marriage if person is capable. Ask the women who are being left due to shortage of the good men and widespread fornication and adultery among the people. Marriage is the solution to widespread problems.
@aimenirfan8212
@aimenirfan8212 2 жыл бұрын
Agree
@julaibibmehboob2688
@julaibibmehboob2688 2 жыл бұрын
@@aimenirfan8212 Anyone who thinks oneself more knowledgeable and more compassionate than God then one is corrupt, bad and transgressor and oppressor. God's words are above all the people.
@sidratulmuntaha4050
@sidratulmuntaha4050 2 жыл бұрын
Then polyandry Must be allowed
@julaibibmehboob2688
@julaibibmehboob2688 2 жыл бұрын
@@sidratulmuntaha4050 start with your womenfolk I beg you pardon.
@sidratulmuntaha4050
@sidratulmuntaha4050 2 жыл бұрын
@@julaibibmehboob2688 Jazak Allah. huh. It hurts na? It hurts women too when there husbands are to be shared with other.... Walk inn the shoe of women.
@differentinformation3574
@differentinformation3574 2 жыл бұрын
I like his way of explanation
@amnajamil4009
@amnajamil4009 Жыл бұрын
nice and informative explaination
@bluewater3571
@bluewater3571 4 жыл бұрын
Super sensible answer!
@sufiatahseen2129
@sufiatahseen2129 4 жыл бұрын
Wooooooooow baba jani.... Apne dil jeet liya
@lifewitharoush
@lifewitharoush 2 жыл бұрын
Mashallah beautifully explained....
@kazimashraf4837
@kazimashraf4837 3 жыл бұрын
Mashallah good lakchar apki batai hui nasihat mujhe bahut pasand ati main apki new subcscriber hoo
@shakilailyas6475
@shakilailyas6475 4 жыл бұрын
Excelent sir
@MrJasimjan
@MrJasimjan 4 жыл бұрын
You are a legend sir inspirational approach Mentoring indeed
@exceptionworld8580
@exceptionworld8580 4 жыл бұрын
equality is very very important.
@minukhan3946
@minukhan3946 Ай бұрын
MashaAllah you are blessing dear sir
@maryamghias6061
@maryamghias6061 2 ай бұрын
100 percent agreed with docter sahib. r jo mard es procedure ko follow nahi kurtey un ka pehla ghur r buchey disturb hotey hn aur finally wo khud b sakun se nahi reh saktey.
@drtanveerahmed4585
@drtanveerahmed4585 4 жыл бұрын
You nailed it sir.
@mahamughal8437
@mahamughal8437 4 жыл бұрын
Aoa Sir apk liay bohattt sari dua'yn...! Kindly make a complete video on how to build confidence and self-esteem in a child at early stage. Bachon ki tarbiat..!!
@LearnWithRabbani
@LearnWithRabbani 4 жыл бұрын
اس کے لئے آپ کو میرا چینل وزٹ کرنا ہوگا۔۔۔
@abubakar.t.9830
@abubakar.t.9830 4 жыл бұрын
ماشاء اللہ گریٹ سخو کمیونیٹی کہ لئے
@untoldtales5789
@untoldtales5789 4 жыл бұрын
I sooo wanted someone to talk about this, really useful video, JazakALLAH khair.
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@davidzhang7917 4 жыл бұрын
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@catherinecoston9334
@catherinecoston9334 4 жыл бұрын
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@markussanchez6902
@markussanchez6902 4 жыл бұрын
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@untoldtales5789
@untoldtales5789 4 жыл бұрын
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@catherinecoston9334 4 жыл бұрын
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@taslimarif6692
@taslimarif6692 3 жыл бұрын
Bahut Khoob sir.
@waqasliaqat3800
@waqasliaqat3800 4 жыл бұрын
Salute to u sir.
@nomanakhtar565
@nomanakhtar565 4 жыл бұрын
Great example by molana ashraf ali thanvi.....
@muhammadbilal8928
@muhammadbilal8928 3 жыл бұрын
Great lecture sir
@drakhlaqhussain
@drakhlaqhussain 4 жыл бұрын
Actually it is preoccupation of mind which keeps anyone absolutely struck off understanding an easy and very simple matter.
@brawn1081
@brawn1081 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks to respond our question. It was memorable meeting with you.
@davidzhang7917
@davidzhang7917 4 жыл бұрын
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@saqibkhan2079
@saqibkhan2079 3 жыл бұрын
Nice advice sir
@aimensameen6532
@aimensameen6532 4 жыл бұрын
Meri exactly yehi situation Hy sir Isi silsily m AP sy counseling chahti thi Allah NY sabeb bna dia Jzaak Allah khair Apk sb maswry (for 2nd wife) bilkul drust hyn smjh b aty hyn Dil ko bhi lgty hyn Per amer bohhhhhhhhhttttt mushkil Hy Apna AP marna perta Hy her Roz bhi nhi her lamha Allah apko bht jza dyn or mujhy himmet
@edwardlawrence8448
@edwardlawrence8448 4 жыл бұрын
Sabar
@Jannatkhan-vz1nj
@Jannatkhan-vz1nj 4 жыл бұрын
abcd abcd ye sabar ki talqeen srf aurat ko hi q?? kbhi koi mard ko sabar ki talqeen q nai krta
@engrumarkhan
@engrumarkhan 2 жыл бұрын
Hope that situation is improved by now. Just a small piece of advice. This life is too temporary and we all have to go sooner or later, devote urself to get real gain that is Akhirat! Allah Dil ko sakoon se bhar dega or Zindagi mai bakrat hojayege. May Allah make it easy for u!!
@hassanparacha6003
@hassanparacha6003 2 жыл бұрын
@@Jannatkhan-vz1nj true
@minukhan3946
@minukhan3946 Ай бұрын
MashaAllah great 👍🏻 ❤
@saniyahkashif2224
@saniyahkashif2224 2 жыл бұрын
Very well said Sir✌🏻 You are lit👍🏻
@gousiyashaikh1500
@gousiyashaikh1500 Жыл бұрын
Jazakallah khair un kasira
@sumayiaamir3504
@sumayiaamir3504 4 жыл бұрын
Do dushmanon ka akela dost hona.... hahahaha 😂😂😂😂😂
@hassanparacha6003
@hassanparacha6003 2 жыл бұрын
True
@shaheenshahid2127
@shaheenshahid2127 2 жыл бұрын
Yes right,
@cammenzia9565
@cammenzia9565 2 жыл бұрын
Mere shohar n bina ittla diye doosri shaadi kr li aur Ma'Sha'Allah 3 bachhe mere paas h. Allah rabbul izzat ka shukr h ki govt job thi teacher hon to maali dikkat n hui mager zehni tour p BAHUT ZYADA disturb hon . Mujhe samjhayein jazakallah
@DaniyalKhan-gh2nz
@DaniyalKhan-gh2nz 4 жыл бұрын
Wow sir 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
@saminanaz4915
@saminanaz4915 4 жыл бұрын
V.nice video
@zshankhan
@zshankhan 4 жыл бұрын
You are a true inspiration for us sir❤
@fashion.ai1604
@fashion.ai1604 4 жыл бұрын
Agree
@sabeenahmed5327
@sabeenahmed5327 4 жыл бұрын
Aur agar pehle bv ko dosre ke sath rehna hi na ho dono ko alag ghar alag cities ma rehna ho phir bhi ja ker pehle bv sa ku milay
@samreenfatima7849
@samreenfatima7849 3 жыл бұрын
Step children k bad behavior k baray me b btaye. Koi step mom acha salook b krna chahy to agy se negative behavior ka kese muqabla kry?
@saharatif8170
@saharatif8170 4 жыл бұрын
Our Holdings of Our Authentic & Beautiful Islamic teachings must be Superior over our desires. A true Muslimah who holds the true knowledge of Deen knows the importance and needs of more than one marriages.... May Allah SWT bless The Believers (Men & Women) of Current times around the Globe, and especially in the Sub-Continent of India with Guidance and Understanding of this issue with wisdom. Ameen🤲
@asmashamim9878
@asmashamim9878 3 жыл бұрын
💯 agree 👍
@goldenshots1988
@goldenshots1988 2 жыл бұрын
نعت رسول مقبولﷺ یری خوشبو، میری چادر تیرے تیور، میرا زیور تیرا شیوہ، میرا مسلک وَرَفَعنا لَکَ ذِکرَک میری منزل، تیری آہٹ میرا سدرہ، تیری چوکھٹ تیری گاگر، میرا ساگر تیرا صحرا ، میرا پنگھٹ میں ازل سے ترا پیاسا نہ ہو خالی میرا کاسہ تیرے واری ترا بالک وَرَفَعنا لَکَ ذِکرَک تیری مدحت، میری بولی تُو خزانہ، میں ہوں جھولی تیرا سایہ، میری کایا تیرا جھونکا، میری ڈولی تیرا رستہ، میرا ہادی تیری یادیں، میری وادی تیرے ذرّے، میرے دیپک وَرَفَعنا لَکَ ذِکرَک تیرے دم سے دلِ بینا کبھی فاراں، کبھی سینا نہ ہو کیوں پھر تیری خاطر میرا مرنا میرا جینا یہ زمیں بھی ہو فلک سی نظر آئے جو دھنک سی تیرے در سے میری جاں تک وَرَفَعنا لَکَ ذِکرَک میں ہوں قطرہ، تُو سمندر میری دنیا تیرے اندر سگِ داتا میرا ناتا نہ ولی ہوں، نہ قلندر تیرے سائے میں کھڑے ہیں میرے جیسے تو بڑے ہیں کوئی تجھ سا نہیں بے شک وَرَفَعنا لَکَ ذِکرَک میں ادھورا، تو مکمل میں شکستہ، تو مسلسل میں سخنور، تو پیمبر میرا مکتب، ترا ایک پل تیری جنبش، میرا خامہ تیرا نقطہ، میرا نامہ کیا تُو نے مجھے زیرک وَرَفَعنا لَکَ ذِکرَک میری سوچیں ہیں سوالی میرا لہجہ ہو بلالی شبِ تیرہ، کرے خیرہ میرے دن بھی ہوں مثالی تیرا مظہر ہو میرا فن رہے اُجلا میرا دامن نہ ہو مجھ میں کوئی کالک وَرَفَعنا لَکَ ذِکرَک
@adnanrana5161
@adnanrana5161 3 жыл бұрын
Very nice
@asraqureshi6044
@asraqureshi6044 4 жыл бұрын
Dusri shadi kerte howay ziyda mehnat pheli wali per kerna chahiya q k usne hi apna haq chorna hota hai uska hi denay wala waqt, tawajha ,khyal ehsaas bati hai us se liya jata hai
@edwardlawrence8448
@edwardlawrence8448 4 жыл бұрын
Mera pehli wali ne jina haram kar rakha hekyakaru
@hammadali3457
@hammadali3457 4 жыл бұрын
abcd abcd tu app alehda ho jao q sath reh rahay hooo
@iJagraho
@iJagraho 4 жыл бұрын
ہماری قوم میں آکڑ بہت زیادہ ہے - یہ کسی سے معافی نہیں مانگ سکتے
@ayesha7766
@ayesha7766 2 жыл бұрын
Well said
@muhammadjamil1597
@muhammadjamil1597 2 жыл бұрын
واقعی آپ کی بات درست ھے ھم انا پرست متکبر گھمنڈی لوگ ھیں اور اس وجہ سے ھم ساری زندگی اذیت میں گزار دیتے ھیں۔
@TaimoorAzadTv
@TaimoorAzadTv 4 жыл бұрын
Nice Sir
@user-fn1jk4yn5w
@user-fn1jk4yn5w Жыл бұрын
جزاك الله خير كثيره
@tagaming4995
@tagaming4995 Жыл бұрын
Girls go get yourself a man who never look to another girl accept you no matter what happens ! And kindly avoid your eyes on the guys who are already married ! May Allah blessed every girl with a guy who never look on another girl accept her Aa'Meen ❤️ & protect from such girls who have eye on other's husbands Aa'Meen ❤️
@kishwarsaneem3783
@kishwarsaneem3783 Жыл бұрын
Ameen
@Shinebright121
@Shinebright121 Жыл бұрын
Ameeen
@aneekasaifullah4359
@aneekasaifullah4359 3 жыл бұрын
If 2nd wife is love of husband then what will a girl do??? Girl is young but boy is elder than her like 10 years
@jugnukhanum5433
@jugnukhanum5433 2 жыл бұрын
Sir suit per kaam kharab ho janay ka khatra hai.your advice is excellent.
@flightofficer4259
@flightofficer4259 4 жыл бұрын
میں نے بھی دو شادیاں کیں ہیں دونوں بیویاں الگ الگ گھروں میں رکھی ہوئی ہیں پہلی بیوی سے ہمارے 3 بچے ہیں دوسری بیوی ڈائیورسڈ تھیں ان کے پہلے سے 3 بچے تھے وہ بھی ان کے ساتھ ہیں۔۔دونوں خوش اخلاق ہیں میں نے پہلی بیوی کو اعتماد میں لیا تھا ان کی چند جائز شرائط بھی قبول کیں تھیں تب ہی انہوں نے خود جا کر اپنی ہونے والی سوتن اور ان کے والدین سے ملاقات کی تھی تب ہی دوسری بیوی کے والدین نے رشتہ قبول کیا تھا چھپ کر شادی نہیں کی تھی مسجد میں نکاح پڑھا تھا الحمدللہ دونوں بیویوں کے بچے آپس میں ملتے ہنستے کھیلتے ہیں بڑی امی چھوٹی امی کہ کر بلاتے ہیں
@rubabbukhari937
@rubabbukhari937 4 жыл бұрын
Ap ne sahara dia unko specially along her kids.. Allah pak apko iski jaza de
@flightofficer4259
@flightofficer4259 4 жыл бұрын
@@rubabbukhari937 جی بہت بہت شکریہ آمین
@Easehealthibs
@Easehealthibs 4 жыл бұрын
plz contact me or give me your no. 03471416933
@flightofficer4259
@flightofficer4259 4 жыл бұрын
@@Easehealthibs my cell number is confidential i appologize..please contact through email Umming98@yahoo.com
@Easehealthibs
@Easehealthibs 4 жыл бұрын
me khud dosri shadi krna chahta ho meri pehli bivi b bohat achi he mery 3 bachay hain, me ne kai martba apni bivi se dosri shadi ka izhaar bi kia he wo ziada dfa ni manti kbi han krti he kbi ni... lihaza mje kya krna chaye meri is wqt umar 27 saal he. me ne sir ki guftago mukamal suni he plz guide me my whats app no. 03471416933
@muhammadshahid8223
@muhammadshahid8223 4 жыл бұрын
zabardast
@asifumar9006
@asifumar9006 2 жыл бұрын
No reason required to 2nd... But equally is required ... According to law
@AhsanUlHaq007
@AhsanUlHaq007 4 жыл бұрын
One of the best solution for now a days situations ... Agree? Hit like
@fashion.ai1604
@fashion.ai1604 4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@flightofficer4259
@flightofficer4259 4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@waqarahmed6296
@waqarahmed6296 3 жыл бұрын
Very nice g
@Asifbhai0
@Asifbhai0 3 жыл бұрын
ما شآء اللہ سبحان اللہ
@azaz-oq5ie
@azaz-oq5ie 4 жыл бұрын
کس کس کو سدھارو گے۔بہتر ہے ایک پر ہی اکتفا کرو
@nighatyasmin5851
@nighatyasmin5851 2 жыл бұрын
Equality is very very difficult
@mashaallahmashaallah653
@mashaallahmashaallah653 4 жыл бұрын
U r best
@muhammadishaq7112
@muhammadishaq7112 4 жыл бұрын
Nice
@ziauddin3725
@ziauddin3725 4 жыл бұрын
زبردست سر
@MuhammadAwais-zc7dd
@MuhammadAwais-zc7dd 2 жыл бұрын
Good sir
@leebreviews9217
@leebreviews9217 2 жыл бұрын
agree with you that rishtey sharafat sey banaey chalaney aur agar khattam karney parein tu bhi uzzat sey
@ghanirehman9930
@ghanirehman9930 2 жыл бұрын
What ever it may be , please respect our ladies , they too have a heart and a soul, and are the storehouse of civilisation. A wounded female is a curse for the society , as a witness to the silent torture, feel like reaching out to and comforting the souls suffering in extreme sorrow, desolation, anguish, regret and despair. Therefore, no societies can be at peace if the weaker sex is treated as a commodity. I feel , eating habits is one of the cause, eating wild, acting wild ! In this playground of marriages , no one can do justice to the family , to the society and to their conscience.
@swarndev3538
@swarndev3538 2 жыл бұрын
Javed sb You are such an enlightened person. Today, I found you a bit apologetic regarding plural marriage. You are guarded in your opinion. You advocate single marriage but...... Javed sir, we need to educate masses to come out of jhalia. Regards
@maliksajidawan7625
@maliksajidawan7625 4 жыл бұрын
Assalam u Alaikum Sir kindly Athra ke Bemari aur us k solution k Reladed b ek Interview record kerwa dain Plz
@subtainkhan7328
@subtainkhan7328 2 жыл бұрын
U r right sir
@Factszz
@Factszz 4 жыл бұрын
Beautifully explained. Very scholarly talk indeed. *Wise talk that weighs millions time more than all Sermons of Fasaadi Sectarian Mullahs.* However instead of seeking Guidance from Book of Allah, our Mullahs and Imams seek guidance from Oldi Mullahs like Abu Hanifa etc. but Allah has told us to use reason and follow his Book; not Mullahs blindly 9:31, 2:170, 7:179. When we see Quran's internal context, up to four Wives were permitted in that situation which existed after Battle of Ohid, when many Muslim Women and Children became orphans. Now Quran ordained to support that Orphans. But during such activities, one have to contact/meet widow too, and people can start to talk bad things; why does this man meet this and that widow!. So in this situation, Quran has told: you can marry them up to 4 but main purpose behind that marriages is not mere sex pleasure but to support Orphans. As you have already explained beautifully: Quran tells: Better to have just one wife because Quran justifies this point by saying: It is not possible to keep balance between wives. So indirectly; Quran is supporting just one wife. It was much better not to refer Mullah Ashraf Ali Thanwi. Seem: you have not read all his works in Full. He was one of the biggest disciples of Iblis and used to write/tell: how to do Jadoo from Sura Yasin and Sura R'ad. For example: Stay naked and recite Sura Ra'ad on a Leg of Goat and cook it and say against your enemy; he will be have disease on his skin. Read Sura Yasin as naked and do this and that and Person whom you love will come to your feet. For references, you can read this page wp.me/p4GOwI-lk
@canvaapplessons1224
@canvaapplessons1224 3 жыл бұрын
Where does Qur'an say it's impossible to keep justice between wives? Don't lie about Allah's words.
@canvaapplessons1224
@canvaapplessons1224 3 жыл бұрын
You seem like a fasaadi. Speaking utter non sense about Ulama.
@drweb3
@drweb3 Жыл бұрын
I will recommend for multiple marriage as really healthy habits,, financial support and social security. Thanks
@naeemalhussaini1174
@naeemalhussaini1174 4 жыл бұрын
Oxm
@yasmeenadar4535
@yasmeenadar4535 2 жыл бұрын
Nice dr
@sarahmuhammad9193
@sarahmuhammad9193 3 жыл бұрын
ماشااللہ بہت زبردست میسیج دیا ہے حقیقت کے بارےسہی کہا ہے اس برداشت صبر انصاف شچ کی بہت ضرورت ہے اس میں بہت سی پیچیدگیاں ہوتی ہیں آپ کی ہر ویڈیو بہت اچھی سبق آ موز پیغام ہوتا ہے اللہ تعالی سے دعا ہے کہ اللہ تعالی آپکو آپکے اہل و عیال کو سلامت رکھےاور خوشیوں سے نوازے اللہ تعالی کے بعد بہت سے گھرانے آپکی ویڈیو کلیپ دیکھ کر اپنے مسائل کو حل کرلیتے ہیں میں آپ کی میسیج والی کلیپ دی🌟💯✍کھتی ہوں اللہ تعالی آپ کو جزاے خیر عطاء فرمائے آمین یا رب العالمین 😇👉💐🤲😇👉
@AudiobooksPlatform
@AudiobooksPlatform 4 жыл бұрын
مضمون : تقدیر بدل جائے تو ! مصنف : واصف علی واصف رحہ kzfaq.info/get/bejne/admkmJdyutfMiIE.html
@sarahqamar6377
@sarahqamar6377 4 жыл бұрын
Super
@waqarahmed6296
@waqarahmed6296 3 жыл бұрын
I like it
@pakistanibrownwomanvloginu1576
@pakistanibrownwomanvloginu1576 4 жыл бұрын
Nice 👍 good topic . We all should come out of hindu influences ❤️❤️❤️ Love from England ❤️❤️🇬🇧🇬🇧🇵🇰🇵🇰🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿
@noaholiver4379
@noaholiver4379 4 жыл бұрын
Desi Girl In UK Official good approach
@nabeelkhan2632
@nabeelkhan2632 4 жыл бұрын
@Desi Girl In Uk Official Will you be my 2nd wife?
@pakistanibrownwomanvloginu1576
@pakistanibrownwomanvloginu1576 4 жыл бұрын
Nabeel Khan hahaaa sorry m already taken brother
@deebakapadia
@deebakapadia 3 жыл бұрын
@@pakistanibrownwomanvloginu1576 That's wholesome you replied simply coz I expected a "simp" aka "tharki" shout-out lol
@pakistanibrownwomanvloginu1576
@pakistanibrownwomanvloginu1576 3 жыл бұрын
@@deebakapadia sorry if i hurt u, I should not have written hindu. With time we all learn.
@imamasiddiqui6909
@imamasiddiqui6909 4 жыл бұрын
You r saying 100%right but MostOfPakistanies husband r not performing perfect duties with first wife n childrens so how can he able to merrige second
@engrumarkhan
@engrumarkhan 2 жыл бұрын
I think before going into second marriage, couple should talk it out as explained by Dr SB. Both should contribute to sort things out. For example try to find out the reason why man have lost interest, what can be improved to make the things work? And vice versa
@Muslimah-Pakistani
@Muslimah-Pakistani 4 жыл бұрын
JazakALLAH! Sir mjhy apse aik bht imp matter mn opinion leni hai....mn chahti hun ap os topic pe bhi video bnyn..i need guidance...how may i contact you for my query?
@ChotiPhupho
@ChotiPhupho 4 жыл бұрын
Bilkul Sir, Aap ney theek kha
@syedazara7061
@syedazara7061 3 жыл бұрын
My best opinion single his best about married life tensn .depression I think singel life best happy life.
@newpakistan4821
@newpakistan4821 3 жыл бұрын
Asslamo alikum mujhe apny liye rishta chiye he koi Talaq yafta ya bewah ka bacho wali ka ya single ho Whats app 03182069077.
@MuhammadAli-gd7rc
@MuhammadAli-gd7rc 4 жыл бұрын
Dr sab young generation ka sochain.old generation Umar guzaar chuki hy.youngster k msail py video bnain.Waldain ko doosri shadi ki targheeb Matt dain balkay aulaad ki jald Shaadi ka kahain mean Matt dain shukriya.
@humaraanjum2466
@humaraanjum2466 4 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha i was much stressed but ur comment force me to smile
@hustleandgrow6482
@hustleandgrow6482 4 жыл бұрын
hahahaha
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