2:09 that Eminem reference, I was NOT ready. XD

When I started dating my future husband, we didn't have a lot of interests in common, but whether it was by conscious effort or not, we have started sharing interests. I love trying the things that he's interested in, and sharing my interests with him. It sounds corny, but I feel like our relationship is stronger after we try new things together. We also talk pretty frankly about our feelings, how the relationship is going, what our goals are, etc. So, I hope this means we're going to have a strong and happy marriage :)

2:10 lol Never thought I would hear Eminem lyrics in a scientific study. (At least one that's not trying to bash him)

that moment when the nerdy white guy drops a Eminem line or w.e you call it

2:08 after that sentance I died. MOM'S SPAGHETTI!!

" Eminem - Lose yourself" lyrics @ 2:12

2:10 Slide in that Eminem lyric XD

2:10 DID A SCIENCE VIDEO JUST MEME ME? ....THIS IS THE BEST DAY OF MY LIFE

First the voice, then the hands and finally Eminem. I'm in love with that guy.

I liked the slim shady reference/quotation (arms spaghetti etc.)

Oh my god i'm laughing so hard at the eminem reference. You dropped that like a real man, with the perfect intonation!

I'm surprised there is such a lack of critical thought on the subjects of marriage and conventional relationship models. People assume these norms should be what we pursue, and not even question them in the first place.

Oh snap! 2:10 don't lose yourself dude xD

Moms spaghetti

Every time i see a joint facebook account, i question who was caught messaging their ex lol. Me and my partner are both open and honest. We've always got each others backs and end small arguments before they erupt. Things like that can lead to a long wonderful relationship.. When my friends are fighting with their partner over the dumbest things, hearing about all the mistrust and paranoia that comes with a sketchy relationship.. I realize just how good i have it. If you're more willing to ignore and argue over your partners requests, than to fulfil them... Then you're priorities need a revision, or that relationship won't go far.

Never Forgetti Moms spaghetti

D-News resident Eminem. Nice.

Guys if you want a long lasting relationship you must always say the following: "Yes dear, of course dear, right away dear. You are soooooo better than all the other." Then you give her a kiss.

Quoting the actual divorce statistics and Eminem in the same video? D News for the win!

To me the key to a successful relationship is much simpler - trust, compromise, and enjoyment. Trust accounts for things like honesty and loyalty. If you can't let your SO go out on his/her own without the need to check up, if you feel threatened or jealous of "potential replacements" easily, and/or if you feel the need to lie then you've got a problem. Compromise is your ability to look the other way when something doesn't go the way you want. It also accounts for accepting your losses. If you expect perfection, you'll never be happy. Enjoyment is pretty obvious - you can be the most cooperative couple ever but it won't last if you don't enjoy your time together. You don't have to share all interests, just as long as you like to be around each other. If you are missing any one of these 3 things, the relationship will at some point fail, its just a matter of when. Appearance is also important, but, you don't usually attempt to get into a relationship without some sort of physical attraction. Of course there are other things that can IMPROVE a relationship, but to me, there is nothing else needed to sustain one indefinitely.

"Half of all marriages last.. Forever" oh DNews, lovely lovely DNews x'D

On of the keys are to be forgiving to each other. Much easier to love someone that is forgiving! :)

Did he quote an Eminem song?

love how this young kid is schooling us older ones.. good on 'em; his naivette personality is certainly contagious :D

Julian, now you're my favourite DNews host.

I like this guy. Also nice Slim Shady line there!

I'm not married but it seems like having someone you can talk with is really important. Not just the easy topics but also the uncomfortable ones like: how do you want to split the bills, your spending is out of control, I don't like your mom/dad/best friend, or even "I believe or don't believe in x religion" To go along with this, being able to laugh at yourselves in conversation is important too. I imagine a lot of people focus more on laughs and having fun, and then try to skirt the serious topics for "another day"

Somewhere out there somebody was just like "hey that all rhymed..... this kid is good"

You all should do a video on what makes a person shy. I've been finding lots of cool articles on that subject, and I feel like you guys could make a really interesting video on it.

That Eminem meme made my whole life hahahah. Thank you.

3 simple rules. Trust, communication and honesty.

I want to know how long it took for him to think about how to properly incorporate that lyric, it was beautifully done.

That eminem reference was just too beautiful!!

Yo, his palms spaghetti, knees weak, arms spaghetti. There's vomit on his sweater spaghetti mom's spaghetti. He's nervous but on the surface he looks calm spaghetti.

Loved the usage of words from "Lose yourself" at 2:10

2:10 he went for it

Wow these are very useful tips for all newly wedded couples as to how to have a successful relationship. Thank you for giving us some insights.

You are awesome Julian.

Communication goes a long way, but is not always a surefire way to get a successful relationship. Communication nonetheless is fundamental and has to be a big part of it.

This is a pretty narrow margin of factors on couple bonding, but that's obvious. There are so many other factors including mental illness, financial circumstances of both partners when entering into the marriage, and sexual habits. The majority of people are mentally ill in a way that they can't control without outside help and can't afford to have treated. Eventually, one of the partners identifies this and has to choose whether or not they can deal with this. You might think you can deal with something like OCD, but could you deal with borderline personality disorder and actual psychopathy? People tend to now, and really should be, waiting to get married until they are older and have not only a clearer view of their goals, but a clearer understanding of psychology and how it relates to adult bonding. It all goes back to your childhood, and YOU may not even know how deep YOUR rabbit hole goes until you've been in enough relationships. You also have to have a clear idea of what you'll put up with, that only comes from being in several relationships, fucking up, and watching them fuck up. "Yes, I can deal with the dish on the counter." "No, I can't deal with you molesting our son." That stuff.

key to a long relationship is to not be curious.

2:09 ...Awesome scientifically inspired rap right there! xD

4/10 too much spaghetti not enough water.

That 'Lose Yourself' reference has earned my eternal respect. Live long and prosper my nerdy brethren.

I think you caught me off-guard 3 times this video and got me to chuckle out loud. Thank you

2:10 - 2:16 NO YOU DIDN'T HAHA!! I love it how his expression stays the same afterwards

I've never seen the point in marriage to begin with. To me, as long as your together, what else matters? why get all the extra stuff involved?

Camping is the best, what're you talkin about

I hear you Lockon, I'll change right here, I'm gonna reform myself.

How could anyone dislike this video with a golden Eminem quote like that?! XD

Too many variables. Ideally, yeah. Realistically I don't think so. The first thing that will ruin a relationship these days will be lack of money.

Oh... I always have shown interest in others' interests - to me it's really interesting how many thinks people can get fun out of... maybe that's why so many guys liked me...

Thumbs up for the emminem verse

The Secret To A Successful Relationship - for men - have money bee a good provider listen and do what ever your "owner" - your wife/girlfriend wants, for women do whatever you want.

That is just like the book "An Abundance of Katherines" by John Green!

Those "bids of interest/support" is totally legit. Basically just listen to each other.

Easy, don't get married. Couples that don't get married tend to last longer or might get back together easier... Because there is no divorce in between.

ok where is the statistic 20-25% divorce rate coming from. The first thing that pops up on google search is "However, about 40 to 50 percent of married couples in the United States divorce. The divorce rate for subsequent marriages is even higher." - (American psychology association, which is qouted from Encyclopedia of Psychology: 8 Volume Set Alan E. Kazdin, PhD, Editor-in-Chief ) And i cant find the other number anywhere. btw just because you stay married doesnt mean you are happily married or even together anymore. You can live away from your spouse and still be married.

The Eminem bit was crazy awesome..

U iz my favourite host on DNews. Keep it up, mang

I wish Julian is this cute everyday xD

Thumbs up for the reference, nice one!

Gomez from the Adam's Family is just the perfect example that comes to mind! He's excessively supportive to Morticia and they've got their marriage to the next level... if you know what I mean... ;)

Best delivery of data ever!

Sometime you just Loose Your Self in the relationship.

not getting married seems to be one less stressful thing to not worry about going wrong. :)

Now I have to listen to the song!

Aww he's from soul pancake !

where do the photos come from?

mad he pulled out the enimem verse so calmly in the middle of his dialogue

Secret to a happy relationship? Learn to love without expectation.

I can't b believe you quoted eminem! I loved watching you before .. Now you're that much better!

The key to happiness is to not be in a relationship with someone with a cluster b personality disorder-which is waaay more common than the statistics let on because of some serious fundamental flaws in the method of data collection and criteria for diagnosis.

That partial Eminem Lose yourself reference I love it! 2:09

The first and only step of living happily ever after is finding the right dealer.

Always say yes

Very well presented.

I hit it off with a girl about a week ago, and she's got me all figured out by now, she told me today... "you're kind of cold, aren't you?" She's right, I am. I don't have a problem with the initial stages of getting a woman, but keeping this woman is a whole different thing, one I fail at. My need for emotional connection is low, therefore I tend to mind my own business. I honestly wish I didn't, would love to be more touchy feely and all that kinda stuff.

In other word, people who are independent divorce more because they don't need others but people who are dependent don't divorce because they cannot be alone. I prefer my independence.

Hahaha! that "Lose Yourself" line at 2:10 though! Anyways, yea I agree if someone is generally not supportive and uneasy being with that person in stressful situations, then it probably isn't a good idea to marry them. Also, the affectionate feelings despite those factors don't constitute as love in my opinion.

Liked the 8 mile reference

Clever reference for 8 Mile.

I see you Julian with your little Eminem reference at 2:10. I see you. DNews

Liked it because of that clever m&m verse

2:16 - TO DROP BOMBS!!!!

Nice way to sneak in that Lose Yourself lyric :)

I believe you can find more answers from the comments than in the video

that eminem reference

There is a special place in he'll for spellcheck.

Yooooo 2:08 - 2:16 Made this whoooolee video!! LOL Loved this!

oh ahaha I get the Mom's spaghetti comment now...@2:09 there's vomit of the sweater already, mom's spaghetti...

I think some of these studies should look at gender roles and how when we break from them if that will spell chaos for their relationship. From what I see, it does.

2:10 to 2:16 is great

What was never explained is that the reason why "50% of all marriages fail" is false. The people came up with this never took into account the people who divorced that year that were married from previous years (seeing as this statistic was taken only within a years range of how many marriages happen in the year : how many people get divorced in the year).

How is this on the internet and the top comment isn`t Mom`s spaghetti?!?!

Lol, sweet joke at the start😂. You got me!

love the eminem reference

jajaja eminem lyrics lose yourself 2:10

I once heard, think it was Charlie Sheen who said in Two and a half men, when his girlfriend at the time naggd' on him to go out running all the time and eat certain foods, to which he said (in the restaurant) : 'Why can't women be with someone for who they are, instead of who they can turn them into.' I think it's the same here. The 'get to know'-progress should be pretty much done before you get married. And for all those thinking-- Then what is left of the relationship if they know everything? To that I say-- The real adventure is experiencing things together, following eachothers passion (if you have it in common) setting up your life, family etc.etc Don't get married to someone you don't fully know and can accept, or better yet, Enjoy.

Did you just quote Eminem? Alright, I need something else to give you more support cuz you're awesome