Hi Geoffrey I just started watching you today and I love your content. I thought I was crazy for feeling the way I feel but this is helping me understand all my bad/toxic traits and now having identified them I can begin figuring out how to fix this and heal. I was wondering two things. Do you have a podcast? And if you could make a video about maybe boundaries? I mainly ask this because my boyfriend finds other women attractive and while I don't mind it does bug me everytime he randomly mentions how attractive Another girl is I just don't see the need to mentioning it in front of me? I've complained once and he basically just told me that I needed to stop being so insecure and that hurt. I don't really look at other men the way he looks at other women nor say the things he says when he looks. I just want to understand how I can get over these insecurities and anger because it really makes me upset

Hi Geoffrey, I tried to find a video about what I need , but I can’t . 2 days ago my gf was so drunk and hv a big fight with me , hit me , hell to me . She broke up with me when she lost control . Also she block me everywhere. The next day I thought she will contact me again to ask abt what happen . But she didn’t and keep block me until now . I can understand might be she felt shame abt what she did to me . I knew she just too drunk might be also no any mmrs. I just start no contact her , not annoying her also. And wait to celebrate her BD next week . But today our fd just got her text said she has a fd just passed away , she will not celebrate her bday. What shd I do at all . I want to care about her . But that fight still don’t have result . Please ;(

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Hi Geoffrey, many thanks for the advise in the video . I am heartbroken at the moment with whats happening in my relationship. I will stay strong and put your advise in to practise . I am in later life and still love my wife very much . Thankyou

True. I guess theres a balance to a lot of this. Gotta want it. But not enough to let you have too much hope.

so how did it go

i’m in a similar spot

Updates AJ

Omg same

I don’t have a GF but my wife said the same thing smh.

Awesome Luke! Hope it was most insightful...

Appreciate the kind words David!

Glad we are on the same wavelength! There are some bad advice out there! :)

Right on Bill! Thanks for stopping by!

I wished my wife would work on our marriage with me. 🥺

Awesome stuff. Seems like you found the balance between being too pushy & being too aloof. :) How's the rebuilding process going so far?

She monkey branched back to you because she thinks she's better off with you

How did it go

Any update?

Dude let her go. You're killing it in life. Keep leveling up and find someone who loves you for you

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Awesome! I am so glad I am able to provide clarity for you!

What happened? Has she returned?

Any update?

I too am going through the same with the wife, she spends weeks to a few months with our 2 oldest kids in another state, always in a bad mood when she decides to come back and visit for a few weeks, then it's back to the kids in another state. Hardly any communication from her and if I call, she is short with me. She's retired and I'm still working, and I get that, I'm nearing retirement and not sure what I'm going to encounter when I do with her. I'll see what works best.

been with my wife for 17 years. We are living together but she wants her space. I was angry and disappointed at first. Thought she was selfish. But, I've realized that I have been a jerk and set expectations for her in my mind and I would always get upset with everything she did. She finally had enough and wanted space. I miss her, but I have to respect her space and it has been changing my emotions for the good

@tranquilAmbiance I going through the same thing. My husband wanted the separation. I tried everything to reconcile with him even wrote a 7 page paper on how I feel. Nothing. He said he wanted his freedom and I did not please him enough. His toxic behavior what he is doing to me sucks and I am slowly starting to not see a future with him. He keeps doing these evil mind games with me and using me and gaslighting me. He think he is the shit now. 25 yrs wasted. And we also have one child together. Its about to be over. I am done pouring my energy to him and he keeps rejecting me.

@@aw4275 oh sis 💔 you're right, they don't care about long letters or anything thats in our hearts. I left my husband. I made a break for it when I had an opportunity to go back to my home country with my kids. In his country I wouldn't have survived alone, there's no social security. And I couldn't leave without him approving for me to travel with the kids. Anyway, God almighty made a way out for us, I managed to convince him to let me travel with the kids. I found out he was on heavy drugs and had been spending all the money on them. He had cheated on me several times and is even engaged to the girl I found out about just before I left. She's 18 and he's 45. What a loser. I loved him because I thought he was high value and had self respect. I've lost all love and respect after realising how badly he had been lying to me and how low he stooped. He has ten kids, all of which he does not financially support anymore. My kids haven't received a cent from him in the last two years since I travelled. Im currently seeking divorce and maintenance, set myself a lawyer back in his country. Can't stand the thought of his stupid ass.

@@aw4275 we hang on to the years we invested. But coming out of it, I guarantee you sis, your peace is worth more than anything else. I was trapped in his psychological games and his constant promises that I meant the world to him (with no action). So it took me ages to break free. And it was just seeing the depth of his lies that made me able to get away. If your punk ass husband is telling you he doesn't want to be with you anymore, dump his sorry behind. Don't for a second give him the pleasure of seeing you needy for him.

Awesome man! Thank you for noticing. Takes me a long time to edit these videos :)

Geoffrey Setiawan it pays off!

How is it going

Good to see you Jhianna! Glad this resonated with you :)

Absolutely!!

You can say that again 😢

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My wife separated from me 4 weeks ago. We still text and talk. We have 7 kids oldest is 11 twins are the youngest they're 4. She now says she is not interested in getting back with me and wants to move on. But I ask her is there still hope she says idk she doesn't want it and again not interested. When I pick her up from her moms house she lets me hug her kiss her on the cheek and hold her hand all day but odk if she's just doing that for me. If she's with me everything is good its when she isn't with me its bad. Her sisters I believe are maybe influencing her but I'm not sure. Today was the 1st day her going out with her sister for lunch and I dont tryst that sister. Do you believe there's still hope for us? She believes I'll go back to my old self and lie about helping with the kids and not letting her go out with her sisters. (I know that's wrong but anyone who tries to split up a family i believe they shouldn't be around them, maybe im wring thats why I'm here.) I have changed within these 4 weeks of separation. She sees i have just says its fake and she doesn't believe i love her. She feels im pressuring her to get back with me. Idk what to do I prayed and asked God for help 🥺😔

Hi Jae, happy this video has helped. Really appreciate your kind words.🙂

@@GeoffreySetiawan what would really help me is a one on one with you

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Hi Dustin, Thank you for your compliment. I'm glad you found my video useful. What part of the video did you find to be most helpful in your situation?

Keep watching my videos on managing emotions and anxiety.

any updates?

Yes, I agree. Which is why I specialize in marriages and long term relationships.

Consider yourself lucky you didn't get married!! After 17 years of marriage I'm now separating from my wife. It's costly financially and emotionally. My advice to you is move on, and when you're ready find someone way better looking, and younger than your ex. Living well is the best revenge!!

Awesome Yas! Right on -- no cheap tricks :)

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Love it Tom, so glad you are finding them helpful.

Hey man - This is great, because you actually did not do the classic "no contact" as explained in the video :)

@@GeoffreySetiawan oh wow, you replied! Probably true, regardless, your videos are the first I saw when being in the dark and it motivated me to look inside to turn things around! You're a true inspiration to me. Keep it up!

@@GeoffreySetiawan sadly, she flipped a week later and asked for divorce.

@@eugencristianudrea oof

@@onsetaugust all good, it worked out in the end. We are happily back together.

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So glad to hear this buddy!

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I'm in a really similar situation with my girlfriend. Any updates Jerry? Hope you're doing good man.

@@MGPiano619 give her the space she needs man but I did initiate a conversation with her in person after two months and we are currently at our best point.

Definitely! The whole premise here is that the more history you have, the more you need to change yourself & show her how much you’ve changed to let her know that the past does not equal the future. If you are facing the possibility of a divorce, then that's all the more reason you MUST show these insane and massive transformation.

@@GeoffreySetiawan that is where I am at. I want us back so much but the closer I get the further she moves away and the bigger my anxiety grows I am in a bad circle i can't find the way out even if I know which way I want to go.

Without the full context, do take my advice with a grain of salt. First thing - how do you know it’s time to give up or if there is hope? I always say that the opposite of love is not hate, but indifference. If your partner is still angry & upset at you, then ironically, that still means you have lots of hope. It becomes hopeless only when she is completely indifferent to you. But of course, this is not black and white, but should give you an idea on where you fall in that spectrum. If you think there is hope, then yes this definitely still applies. The whole premise here is that the more history you have, the more you need to change yourself & show her how much you’ve changed to let her know that the past does not equal the future.

@@GeoffreySetiawan thank you geoffrey. Yes i know there is a big hope and she is not upset but so pissed off right now thats why she does'bt want to have any contact with me. She needs space so badly that sge even unfollowed me on insta because sge was seeing me all over her timeline and ok if she needs space then i am giving her best from my side but also i m working on improving myself for the future...

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@@christopheraldrich7773 wow! awesome, thanks.

What was the outcome?

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Love it! Thank you.

Haha what? No thanks

@@4640280 how is it going

Usually if a guy doesn’t make an effort there’s no going back. I pretty much am going through this now where I want to leave my husband.

@@1014perry thx for the reply.

How do it end up mate?

Damn bro, did she leave and was gone for 30 days then come back? Or did y'all communicate while she was gone for 30 days?

You that said this is basically a no contact with her,and that she will reach out when she's ready? Is a narrow minded statement. Mate listen you might learn something..

@@chrishart1728 lol did he or did he not give the same advice as the no contact rule?

Love it! Thank you for your support.

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We’re all just sharing experiences on here not trying to undermine your advice @geoffrey. It seems Dyn had the same experience I had where before called we should’ve let more time pass so our partner had more time to cool off. I called too early (day 4) to leave my door open for conversation, and now she completely shut me out. I’m going to respect her space, but sadly depending on the situation, a separation is just what you’d expect. No contact. Whether you want it or not.

@@Yakixx2012 so how did it go? I am in the same situation. I honestly believe that I cannot run away from the idea that I must be better. Not just in my relationship but in every aspects of life. The ability to listen and converse is such a great skill to have.