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This week, Katie and I discuss the idea of the idealised self, the collapsed self and the authentic self - three identities that live inside us and constantly fight for our attention. Recently, Katie's drive to become her idealised self has opened the door to criticism from her inner critic, triggering her collapsed self. In this session, I guide Katie to become aware of this and embrace her authentic self.
0:00 Welcome to In Therapy
0:48 Reviewing Katie's journey
1:15 Back to old patterns
3:55 My stuff, their stuff, or our stuff?
5:42 The vicious inner critic
7:40 Idealised, collapsed, and authentic selves
10:30 Who is the real Katie?
13:15 Your true beauty
15:33 The pressure of projection
16:19 Shut down on seeing something fundamental
17:40 Building awareness on the projection dynamic
18:33 When you feel like quitting...
19:42 The pressure of time and regrets
21:33 Alex's Top Tip: Live more from the authentic self
22:52 Next time on In Therapy...
Alex Howard is a London-based Therapeutic Coach dedicated to helping break the stigma around mental health and helping people make real, positive changes in their lives. Alex is also the creator of Therapeutic Coaching and founder of The Optimum Health Clinic and Conscious Life.
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