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@RCBlakesJr. 3 ай бұрын

GOOD EVENING FAMILY

@alphaandomega1332 3 ай бұрын

Good Evening to you and First Lady.

@janettemccuien4249 3 ай бұрын

Good evening Bishop. Thank you for the invite

@quantinajones2857 3 ай бұрын

Good evening

@roseyandlillies 3 ай бұрын

Hey Bishop! I’m on time!

@scg3429 3 ай бұрын

Good evening.😊

@Dorian_Gray123 3 ай бұрын

Women please don’t try to fix these men. Just leave 😷

@shirlspark_stardust 3 ай бұрын

I ran and left the narcissist husband I married never ever again

@user-io4ut5gn5b 3 ай бұрын

We don't that's was their Mother Jobs and we know most these Women have FAILED😂😗

@yolandaburrage4848 3 ай бұрын

Don't just leave runnnnnn

@yeshuachristdrivenandinspi6998 3 ай бұрын

YES JUST and STOP WASTING PRECIOUS TIME

@LethalWeapon73 3 ай бұрын

@@user-io4ut5gn5bWas me until I woke up.

@nkeirukaanyadufu3607 3 ай бұрын

A broken man will work overtime to break the soul of a healthy woman.....Word 🔥

@deena3003 3 ай бұрын

A man who suffers from Alcoholism, controlling behavior and insecurities is bad all the way around.

@janellamurphy5665 3 ай бұрын

AMEN!!!!!🎯🎯ON POINT BISHOP

@Ronnfn360 3 ай бұрын

Sounds like my father , violent and drunk consistently.

@danilaroche1156 3 ай бұрын

These are spirits. It's warfare. If he can't recognize this & doesn't get help..leave.

@danilaroche1156 3 ай бұрын

I love RC. Love his work but this seems so contrived. God is preparing His church for end times and His return. I'm all for self worth. Everything that entails but let's focus on the CHURCH. What about a seminar for the men? They're the heads and the women can be as queenly as they want but the men need to men up.

@shanita9884 3 ай бұрын

@danilaroche1156 I definitely agree, the men need more resources and seminars out here. But the women wants the help and the change. That's why they create so much content.

@crystalgrose 3 ай бұрын

If a man has no Temperance meaning Self Control, run 🏃‍♀️

@lala5061 3 ай бұрын

Indeed u better run that don't just change!

@viviandaviss Ай бұрын

Yup, and if he can do it with you then he can do it to you. Look at the morals of the person, morals normally don't change once you get into a relationship with someone. If the relationship didn't start in a respectful God ordained fashion, don't expect the relationship to be without strife. This comment is for me haha.

@violamoore4252 3 ай бұрын

I was in an abusive marriage for 27 years. He controlled my every move. He timed me when I left the house. He treated me like a Queen around family and friends, but when we were alone, he tormented me. I was ashamed to let my family know what he was doing to me. It took a lot of prayers for me to get the courage and strength to leave him.

@energyayogafortraumabyradi1185 3 ай бұрын

My father used to time me, never again

@Lebo-Aaliyah 3 ай бұрын

Have You Read Behind Closed Doors By B A Paris.?

@godzillamanstreb524 3 ай бұрын

Congratulations…..thank god you got out alive

@jovancypress6655 3 ай бұрын

GOD is good. He gave you the courage to leave a person who clearly didn't value you. I'm sorry you went through that Queen. Peace and blessings to you.

@shirlspark_stardust 3 ай бұрын

Praise God for giving you strength to leave

@deedub6353 3 ай бұрын

Just started my process out of this same mess! Filed for divorce TODAY!!!

@kameshiam1674 3 ай бұрын

Good for you Dee! Blessings on your new life.

@godzillamanstreb524 3 ай бұрын

You deserve happiness 💯🩷

@k1s194 3 ай бұрын

Sending you love and light! Wishing you a life time of happiness. Head above the water sis, you got this!!

@jovancypress6655 3 ай бұрын

Good for you. 🎉I'm happy. GOD is good. He know what we need.

@nataliethomas9943 3 ай бұрын

Strength girlie.

@vividbakery17 3 ай бұрын

I escaped in 2017 after 3 years...thank God for saving lil ole me❤

@ministerkimberly 3 ай бұрын

Sis...I escaped in 1990. Then AGAIN in 2022. Thank God for my life. I don't take ANYTHING for granted anymore. BLESS YOU ❤️🙏🏽

@ChevronChick-717 3 ай бұрын

I escaped in 2008, after 3 years of abuse. I was only 26 at the time. I praise the Lord for saving me and letting me get out without a single physical scar. 🙏🙏🙏 God bless you both. 💫❤

@shirlspark_stardust 3 ай бұрын

I left after 31/2 years of marriage he tried to come back used his daughter dying as a excuse to lure me back in nah there is no going back to the devils advocate

@yolandaburrage4848 3 ай бұрын

It's been four years for me my sister, keep going let's keep praying and supporting one another

@lala5061 3 ай бұрын

Thank u Lord 🙌🏽 hallelujah

@BigFeelzCompany 3 ай бұрын

“Small men crave power and control.” “A broken man will work overtime to break the soul of a healthy woman.” Deeply profound. I’ve just been sitting in silence listening and reflecting.

@Tend2Rose 2 ай бұрын

Small and broken is an even worse combination. Trust me.

@HTHTNT77 3 ай бұрын

Triangulation is something I’ve experienced. They do that to try and create insecurity in you by bringing up their ex and other people to make themselves look admired and in demand. My ex would do this all the time and it got to the point where I would ask him, “Why do you do this?” In the end I told him that if he wants to speak about his ex to this extent, he needs to confide in others or a counsellor as I’m not here for that. It’s a common behaviour in narcissistic abuse. I thought I could trust him and naively told him about my father being violent and abandoning myself and my mother consistently. He then would use this tactic and threaten to leave me all the time as he knew I had abandonment trauma. After this relationship I have stayed single and working on this wound so I can heal it and it can’t be used against me again. Ladies, don’t tell any man about your trauma or things of this nature about your past until you know you can well and truly trust him. It can be used against you to control you.

@shanita9884 3 ай бұрын

Omg this is so true, everything you confide with emotionally will get thrown in your face every disagreement . Will also use it against you.

@shanita9884 3 ай бұрын

It's like you can't emotionally open up to them because they will use everything against you

@user-io4ut5gn5b 3 ай бұрын

You can't be Jealous of someone who wants to BE YOU! That's a Mental Illness...you don't have to tell them about your pass they will go around asking people and try to imitate and duplicate that Person...but could NEVER. Most these Men are in the Closet and don't know how to come out, so they use all of that Triangulation to play reverse psychology...a Lame!🤪

@natural3362 3 ай бұрын

True

@gigipeach7179 3 ай бұрын

Yes ma’am! You are 💯 percent correct!🙏🏽

@sheenalee7602 3 ай бұрын

I have never been physically abused but verbally and emotionally abused and I feel like it left me a shell of myself.

@user-io4ut5gn5b 3 ай бұрын

You shouldn't feel down on yourself...that truly is something inside of them that's lacking and you have something they don't internally which is why they try to compete but don't compete cause they don't compare

@BlackButterfly504 3 ай бұрын

You have to first forgive yourself for tolerating someone treating you less than you deserve. Allow God to build your esteem back up and restore what the enemy TRIED to rob you of.

@yokithabridges9768 3 ай бұрын

Respectfully, being verbally and emotionally abused is the worst type of abuse.

@celestialmaat9462 3 ай бұрын

I’ve been there. Stay single, go to counseling, exercise, and eat right. You will heal. Limit contact with that person

@LethalWeapon73 3 ай бұрын

@@celestialmaat9462No contact

@lakendraadams1077 3 ай бұрын

Rip to Valeria and Gerald . Gerald killed Valeria 7/19/1995. Day after my birthday we were classmates. Rip to my daughter Chantel who suffered many years from domestic violence relationships. She survived the abuse but she still died. Listen to Bishop tonight

@crystalgrose 3 ай бұрын

I’m so very sorry for your loss 🙏🏾♥️

@energyayogafortraumabyradi1185 3 ай бұрын

What did she died of ?

@terrimccartney5178 3 ай бұрын

My Deepest Condolences. Praying for your continued Strength🙏🏼

@elizabethmaguta9238 3 ай бұрын

I send you hugs dear one

@shanita9884 3 ай бұрын

Sorry for your losses

@Kaypoo3947 3 ай бұрын

No contact is the definite way to go!! I am a witness 🙌🏽

@annettehightower8741 3 ай бұрын

Queens ask Questions. 🎯

@Iiiix235 3 ай бұрын

We need Clarity

@FoodieQueenBee 3 ай бұрын

Narcissist doesn’t like questions. He told me i asked too many questions. I felt i walk on eggshells so I left

@onevenus6040 3 ай бұрын

That only Kings will answer

@roseyandlillies 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for being a second dad to us young women out here that are trying to find our way. This information is imperative to our walk with Christ.💜

@ericafulton4918 3 ай бұрын

Amen! He is the spiritual uncle that I never had!

@Iiiix235 3 ай бұрын

If he's your provider, he's your controller

@user-io4ut5gn5b 3 ай бұрын

A man is suppose to be a Provider not Control you...that's a Boy in a Grown Up body. They never Matured more like the Rap Group IMMATURE🙃

@FoodieQueenBee 3 ай бұрын

Only if he doesn’t let you work

@mercynjeri8415 3 ай бұрын

I disagree, you can't control an adult forever,they must break free someday,you will have lost them.

@celestialmaat9462 3 ай бұрын

Nah fr I experienced this in real life. Never again

@LethalWeapon73 3 ай бұрын

@@celestialmaat9462Me also. 😢

@lakendraadams1077 3 ай бұрын

I survived so many crazy realtionship of abuse and domestic violence. God no more abuse no more trauma no more pain

@journeycandleco.8658 3 ай бұрын

Amen. I am praying the same thing. God hear our prayers ❤

@lakendraadams1077 2 ай бұрын

@@journeycandleco.8658 Amen 🙏🏼

@Alac-er5ne 3 ай бұрын

"He's gonna take his 6 figures and isolate you". I love when Pastor Blakes makes these punchlines. 😂💀

@user-io4ut5gn5b 3 ай бұрын

This is why I don't Idolize no one Relationship because things aren't never what they appear to be....just for the pictures and public!

@lakendraadams1077 3 ай бұрын

This was very sensitive. For anyone suffering from domestic violence abuse and other serious mental disorders God is a healer

@angelicagabrieli7169 3 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏

@dfootman3453 3 ай бұрын

1 . exhibits controlling behavior, dominate & restrict you excerting power over you 2. excessive jealousy, possessiveness 3.

@tertain 3 ай бұрын

3. Quick involvement - talks about love and commitment early on - hasn’t met your family, doesn’t know details about you to prevent you from praying, counseling, you just go with the flow… 4. Mood swings or sudden changes in behavior from loving to aggressive 5. Verbal threats - even towards himself - wants to scare you to control you 6. History of violent behavior - arrests, prior abusive relationships 7. Isolates you from everything and everyone that’s important to you

@dfootman3453 3 ай бұрын

@tertain thank you for the notes

@natural3362 2 ай бұрын

@@tertainyesss Queen! Red flags that shouldn't be ignored

@ALICEPOOLE-es1xq 3 ай бұрын

Thank You Lady Lisa Blakes for sharing your husband and Pastor with all of us 🥰❤️🙇🏾‍♀️ HE POURS OUT SO MUCH WISDOM AND KNOWLEDGE INTO US 🙌🏾🙌🏾

@janegreen191 3 ай бұрын

A narcissist would protect himself first.

@LethalWeapon73 3 ай бұрын

Yes where the lies, manipulation, smear campaign, rumors and stuff told

@michellejones8144 3 ай бұрын

I decided to leave my ex, he’s now putting me through hell non stop. He put his hands on me but went to take out a protective order against me which the judge honored. Now he’s using that protective order as an ammunition to get me locked up. I am not the only woman he has done this to, i found out late. Of all my 45 years on earth I have never been in such situation. I just spent 7 days in jail based on lies and the fact that the judge refused to look at any of my evidence; I am still shocked. I appealed this protective order. Please pray for me. I’m writing a book about the injustice in the justice system.

@energyayogafortraumabyradi1185 3 ай бұрын

But women are not granted any protective order against men !

@energyayogafortraumabyradi1185 3 ай бұрын

I agree you are a bit too old for that, how can that be U ended up there ? U dnt have your own opinions on things or what ?, I've dated and met , and worked with and for, many many abusers, I've seldom had a second conversation with them after I expressed my opinion and they show their true colours. I understand not been able to react fast, I freeze often, but to get into a relationship with someone that doesn't accept my opinion. I dnt think I can do that. That's the only reason why I haven't ended up with abusers, because I have an opinion. I suggest you develop your opinion and learn to express it. Otherwise life won't forgive you.

@its_whatever_dani_d863 3 ай бұрын

@@energyayogafortraumabyradi1185 what????????

@nataliethomas9943 3 ай бұрын

@energyayogafortraumabyradi1185 what the heck are you chatting? This woman life is crumbling and you are implying it’s her fault! Sickening

@shanita9884 3 ай бұрын

So sad, this system is so messed up

@annettehightower8741 3 ай бұрын

Yes the lure is that it starts out as protection and it’s cute at first because it feels like they care but it’s morphing into control. I agree!

@sljames1979 3 ай бұрын

It's truly a pimp/ prostitute or slave/slave master relationship. It's just under the disguise of marriage. Satan knows that women desire to be married.

@ytaylor8734 3 ай бұрын

Been through the Controlling/insecure scenarios.. I was gone in no time… Now, My patience is VERY short. The FIRST sign, I’m OUT… Never again….I just can’t deal….

@mrsropaxo 2 ай бұрын

I dated a man like this in 2022, very controlling, asked me to leave my apartment and move in with him, leave my job, he will provide etc. he never wanted me going out with my friends or anywhere without him - he would get verbally abusive. I later found that his ex wife she had dropped out of law school because of him. And I also later found out that he ended up being “violent & abusive” with her… 😢😢😢 He was a wealthy man, very controlling, possessive and domineering . Thank God I dodged the bullet… had I stayed any longer I would’ve ended up like his ex wife that’s for sure

@charisseward138 3 ай бұрын

I wish I had this teaching when I was going through my ordeal. I am a Dv survivor and i got out of my situation in 2016, To God be the glory that I made it out wiser and stronger! But thank you pastor for sharing. You are appreciated..

@user-dj2tp2qn5d 3 ай бұрын

Listening to my therapist and RC Blake’s has taught me a lot. I finally am free from a controlling marriage. It’s been a couple of years now 😊

@user-bn8tw1tn6h 3 ай бұрын

Good evening Pastor Blakes, thank you for your ministry to women. As a single woman without a father or father figure, I have learned so many practical, invaluable truths from you. May God continue to richly bless you, your wife, your family and your ministries!

@TheThrivingLady 3 ай бұрын

Good evening, Bishop. I am so glad you're discussing this tonight. My heart has been heavy in light of recent events.

@gheath7636 3 ай бұрын

Behavior speaks volumes for me. Women need to learn you can’t change a person. It’s up to that individual to unlearn and relearn how to change their behavior.

@ruthwells3990 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for this information, we NEED it!!! But realize we ENABLE/ EMPOWER these abusers by being passive, respecting $$, and out of FEAR. If you leave a toxic relationship and do not get help mentally, this scenario will repeat with different characters but same outcome. Our belief system, clothing attire, and not doing “shadow work” contributes to our desperate choices and poor outcomes. Let’s take accountability, and not live in victim mode and learn who we are and why we make bad choices, love GOD and self 1st, and enjoy life, STOP believing we NEED to be “coupled” to be happy. BE BLESSED!!!

@nathifablanchfield8925 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Bishop for touching on this subject. There are so many women beaten down mentally and Physically by the abusive hands of a man that said they would protect them. I pray to God that they no longer feel isolated and speak up and get the assistance they need to exit ❤️🙏🏾

@shoedecour7510 3 ай бұрын

I Thank God For This Platform.🙌🏽🙌🏽 God Bless You Bishop.✨

@shanita9884 3 ай бұрын

RIP to my mom, Maria Sample, beautiful person inside and out. She was killed by the hands of her boyfriend, who was an MA boxer. They were away for the weekend for one of his fights. He left her for dead in the hotel room and tried to get away but got caught in 2006. Her life was taken too soon. He took a big part from our family, and it still hurts to write this, but I know that she is in a better place. We miss her so much🕊🕊🕊🕊💖💖💖 . Please pay attention to the red flags.🚫🚫

@tarshagreene4661 2 ай бұрын

I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing.😢🙏

@shanita9884 2 ай бұрын

@@tarshagreene4661 ❤️Thanks

@queenc8280 2 ай бұрын

🤍🙏🏾🥺 omggggg I'm so sorry

@shanita9884 2 ай бұрын

@@queenc8280 Thanks🙏🏽

@shanita9884 2 ай бұрын

@@tarshagreene4661 Thanks🙏🏽

@bestillandknow46101 3 ай бұрын

Blessings all!

@lindaharrell1871 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for teaching us women what some of us were never taught by our biological Fathers. You are appreciated.

@SacredEarthEssentials 3 ай бұрын

Love this man of God. 🙏🏼

@SacredEarthEssentials 3 ай бұрын

Also, really appreciate your shirt!

@terrimccartney5178 3 ай бұрын

Yes! Pastor Blake's has taught me things I never was taught by my single Mother

@shirlspark_stardust 3 ай бұрын

Yes me too I learned so much since finding his channel years ago

@kjbkjhkjhjk7775 Күн бұрын

Thank you Sir

@user-gn8to4wj9q 3 ай бұрын

I waisted time with a man listening to church mothers. Man I tell you all the signs were there right in my face but for some strange odd reasons the church mothers encouraging me to get with the guy could not see it. Then when I got with him, they started siding with him on our issues. I had to literally leave the church and him to get away from the situation. The red flags were there and instead of listening to what the spirit was showing me, i listened to the church mothers who didn't like me at all because they wouldn't have tried to purposely put me in harms way. Now I am in a loving church taking my time and trusting God 😊

@Eraseyourmemory1 3 ай бұрын

Church mothers/women are male orientated due to the brainwashing from pastors and their sermons.

@kidchocolate9253 3 ай бұрын

Misery loves company. Those church mothers were miserable and wanted you to be also. They were going to use your drama as their entertainment and gossip.

@onevenus6040 3 ай бұрын

So sorry that happened to you, I know that you're telling the truth. Wouldn't surprise me if they're Pentecostal

@Erica-cf1xb 2 ай бұрын

Them whores be with the abuse too. They fed you to him. It's trafficking.

@natural3362 2 ай бұрын

They want you to feel miserable just like them so they purposely give you to the viper so he can torture you for their own satisfaction

@PrissyP__ 3 ай бұрын

You are PREACHING tonight Bishop!!!!🔥🫵🏽🔥

@d_free5816 3 ай бұрын

These conversations are so important to have. 💜

@ALICEPOOLE-es1xq 3 ай бұрын

Thank You Pastor Blakes for always pouring wisdom and knowledge into us ‼️

@khalilahanderson 3 ай бұрын

This was good! Rushing into a relationship is definitely one of the abusers most effective tactics. You don’t have time to really access and by the time you know who they are they have robbed you of your peace and anything else they could get their hands on.

@Kaypoo3947 3 ай бұрын

Hello Pastor RC Blakes and everyone on the chat!!!

@tamara-vm2mb 3 ай бұрын

Good Evening Everyone Blessings Very Thankful to be among you all, Thanks Much Pastor R.C and Lisa Blakes . Another opportunity to learn and Grow ❤

@ministerkimberly 3 ай бұрын

We should expect NOTHING LESS, from the Blessing sent by God in the person of Bishop RC Blakes! ❤

@Kaypoo3947 3 ай бұрын

Yes, God’s protection be your portion always🙏🏽.

@lwarfield52 3 ай бұрын

Greetings Everyone! 🌿

@esthermaloney1108 3 ай бұрын

Wow pastor i thank God for watching over me .And protecting me, this world is wicked

@LesPears 2 ай бұрын

I am thankful for the time and energy you have put towards helping many ladies and gentlemen. I love how you discuss topics about healing and seeking the right types of relationships. Best, Les’🍃

@StephenMagett 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Bishop for speaking on this in light of recent events. HOPE and PRAY many will recognize the signs (Red Flags) for what it is and get out

@KKP20111 3 ай бұрын

As much as I watch R.C.'s videos, as much I feel that I will stay single forever. 😁🙃

@Kaypoo3947 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Pastor RC Blakes for praying 🙏🏽. Everyone have a blessed night, week and safe holiday 🙏🏽!!

@jennifernelson3911 3 ай бұрын

Queen Annette Thank you 💖

@oluyemisiolugbile5204 3 ай бұрын

Thank you very much for this frank talk. I always appreciate your words of caution and advice.

@davinareed3983 3 ай бұрын

There was a man on a plane with his woman. A woman in the row in front of them lost her phone. She blamed the man and then hit him. After she didn't apologize---the man fired on her with a closed fist. The girlfriend back him up for that. I did not understand why she encouraged her man before and after a striking blow to the head. It was disturbing

@energyayogafortraumabyradi1185 3 ай бұрын

And the steward? What happened there ?

@darncash2056 3 ай бұрын

She didn't let her man do anything. She probably knew what was going to happen when she hit him. She might have been scared herself. I'm not condoning the men but I never argue with strangers in public. That guy could have done worse to her before they stopped him.

@davinareed3983 3 ай бұрын

OK, you got me there: she encouraged her man of his actions before he imhit her and after. It's was still disturbing!

@Erica-cf1xb 2 ай бұрын

@@darncash2056 that wasn't her first time striking a man. She KNEW he was gonna let her get away with it. He retaliated and because he is stronger the whole scenario is his fault. He should of had better self control. This is a mess. The partner probably was used to this. Everyone has a keep your hands to yourself problem.

@Erica-cf1xb 2 ай бұрын

@@energyayogafortraumabyradi1185they hire prostitutes. They KNOW that's apart of the lifestyle.

@esthermaloney1108 3 ай бұрын

Thank you God for the Blessing of this pastor & family bringing knowledge to your People.

@idacampbell206 3 ай бұрын

I love your program Queenology because you are doing what Hod has directed you to do assisting and helping spiritual broke women as I once was, your teaching brought me thru sir! Because Jesus Christ & yourself my healing is far beyond what it was 6 years ago! I have been fully clothed in the love our savior, engulf with his peace & serving him even more than befor consistently! In addition to this you and your beautiful wife teachings thru the Holy Spirit I am fully vested, more than you know! Let the scriptural teachings continue!

@latonyajohnson4239 3 ай бұрын

Needed to hear this, just ordered queenology

@Auntie_Rei 3 ай бұрын

God is good, thank you for this reassurance that I’ve done the right steps to overcome and heal from an abuser I AM 🆓 🙌🏾

@natural3362 2 ай бұрын

Ask God for God is the right answer. If God says yes you'll feel peace if you feel anxious, uncomfortable , bad feelings like there's something wrong with it then you're with a viper. Don't do it. What God has rejected or removed out of your life is very bad for you. You'll miss abuse and that's a blessing that God gave you

@danilaroche1156 3 ай бұрын

I was in 2 very abusive relationships. One was my ex spouse. How did I even end up there? Witchcraft. They were both into it. Ephesians 6:12.

@aliciawoods8925 3 ай бұрын

People are strange. I was up under witchcraft for nine years. I didn't understand what was going on. I was gangstalked, watched, controlled against my will

@JustJohnice 2 ай бұрын

I just started reading 'The Father-Daughter Talk' book today and WOW...I just finished the introduction and shed a few tears. I realized that I have never had a male figure in my life who Provides, protects, empowers or who guides me...I am 36 and have made mistakes dating and have struggled with not being worthy...It hurts that I've never been exposed to what a MAN is in the aspect of having a father to guide me in life but I pray that with the guidance of this book and prayer, that I will be able to maneuver and learn what I never knew. Thank you so much RC Blake's for all you do to assist women who need guidance and direction!

@arnethasanderselmire4143 2 ай бұрын

Amen Bishop I listened 3 times in a row.

@erickarhodes6068 2 ай бұрын

My late husband told me he was going to harm himself if I left our relationship at the time, I didn't heed the warning enough. I did leave, but git back with him and married him. Lived most of my days of marriage in misery, no physical abuse on his part, but definitely emotional and mental.

@valeriegreen6386 3 ай бұрын

Good Monday evening Bishop Blake's and First Lady Lisa. Blessings to all attendees on this informative web inarticulate. 🙏

@DoctorCarrieHall 2 ай бұрын

Been there, I truly understand that when I see red flags I'm gone. A controlling man is an abusive man. Ladies, please get out of these dangerous relationships. I'm in counseling now getting healthy from years of abuse. Thank you pastor RC.

@QIKWIA 3 ай бұрын

🙏🏿Our handsome bishop looks so healthy, vibrant and strong!🔥 Stay blessed and highly favored my good brother!🏆

@LolitaStClair 3 ай бұрын

Hello Pastor and First Lady Blakes Jr! Hello New Life Church! Hello Everyone! Thank You for sharing this information! May God Bless You and your Family In Jesus name Amen Amen Amen Amen!

@jadacruz5284 3 ай бұрын

Good evening everyone greetings from NY!

@kjbkjhkjhjk7775 2 күн бұрын

Thank you Mr Blakes

@deborahsteele7427 3 ай бұрын

"BLESSINGS, PASTOR RC BLAKES!" ... "WHAT ANOTHER POWERFUL & PROFOUND & HEALING MESSAGE, FOR BOTH WOMEN & MEN ALIKE, AND MAY MANY OF YOUR LISTENERS "TAKE FULL HEED" AT TO WHAT YOU WERE SAYING, AND MAY THOSE WHO ARE CURRENTLY, IN "BONDAGE", MAY THEY TOO, BE "SET-FREE COMPLETELY", FROM THOSE "UNHEALTHLY RELATIONSHIPS", AND MAY THEY ALSO "SEEK THE LORD, WITH ALL OF THEIR HEARTS & MINDS", FOR THE "COMPLETE DELIVERANCE" THAT CAN ONLY COME FROM HIM - (JESUS CHRIST), WHO IS OUR "TRUE HEALER & DELIVER", FROM "ALL SATANIC & DEMONIC" SITUATIONS, IN JESUS'S MIGHTY NAME, AMEN & AMEN" ... "MANY CHEERFUL THANKS" AGAIN, FOR "SPEAKING LIFE & HEALING", INTO THE LIVES OF ALL OF YOUR APPOINTED LISTENERS, AROUND THE WORLD, AS THE LORD GOD ABOVE, CONTINUE TO "BLESS YOU", IN THE FOLLOWING DAYS TO COME!!" ... BLESSINGS ALWAYS, YOUR SISTER-IN-CHRIST, AND LIFETIME LISTENER & FAN, MS. DEBORAH J. STEELE, ATLANTA, GA. - 5/20/24 @: 10:12 PM.

@LeonardCampbell-yu4ei 3 ай бұрын

I truly love your answers Yes of course it's our natural impulse as a healthy man to protect women Let them mainstay that

@davinareed3983 3 ай бұрын

Good evening beloved RC Blake's and Queens tuning in and the ones to come. Blessed be.

@reneedotson3704 3 ай бұрын

Good evening Pastor and Mrs. First Lady Blakes thank you for this powerful message this evening

@queenvero157 3 ай бұрын

I thought my husband loved me but after we got married he got abusive and started selling drugs . No respect for me

@Arlene_DOTK 3 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry you endured this. May God keep, bless and protect you 🙏

@user-io4ut5gn5b 3 ай бұрын

Part of the issue is you...most don't see the red flags before the marriage....a real man don't do that mostly lame with Money...

@natural3362 2 ай бұрын

He never loved you. He trapped you with the illusion and put a fantasy in your head so he can have you and transfer all the pain and suffering to you so he can feel better. See people don't change to fit the box of your fantasy. They will always in alignment with themselves. Nobody is special enough to change the nature of the viper. Nobody

@Arlene_DOTK 2 ай бұрын

@@natural3362 💯 Truth, you nailed it 👏

@SashasView 3 ай бұрын

Good Evening church fam

@ChrisTina-ib5ec 3 ай бұрын

You are spot on Bishop. Thank you and Bless you.❤

@icildamurray4583 3 ай бұрын

Pastor I thank God for your information and obedience. Our Heavenly Father showed me a few years ago that I attracted the demonic spirit of abuse. Ladies please pay attention when you meet men . The spirit of abuse is an insidious spirit. Heal from trauma that you experienced as a child. That’s how the spirit of abuse entered my life. I was an abused little girl. But God being the loving father he is not only healed me , he showed me how to heal and how to deal. Be blessed ladies ❤

@cherlettejohnson4118 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Pastor Blakes. Some of this was hard to hear but I needed every word! Thank God for deliverance.

@lala5061 2 ай бұрын

Patience, Kindness and Trust...Mutual Respect! Amen yes Pastor Blakes exactly that's what I always believed in....

@Kaypoo3947 3 ай бұрын

Yes Lord I agree with this prayer 🙏🏽 Amen!!

@zanmeredith7418 3 ай бұрын

Teach Bishop. This is an amazing lesson you taught. Thank you ❤

@Godsgrace1988 3 ай бұрын

Thank you, so deeply from the top to the bottom of my heart

@yemedemure414 3 ай бұрын

Princesses ask questions. Only Kings 🤴🏾can answer Princesses 👸🏽 questions. ❤❤❤❤

@everett552 3 ай бұрын

Thanks Bishop Blakes for not sugar coating this! Bless you 🙏

@MzBrOdUs18 3 ай бұрын

Yes pastor 👏🏾💯💯 all of these. I’m saving these points. If anyone is looking for the scripture about the acts of the flesh it’s Galatians 5: 19-21. I had to highlight this because I constantly talk about the daily battle of flesh vs spirit.

@RobetteRodgers-dq2vl 3 ай бұрын

HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH AMEN ❤❤❤

@Softsoul. 3 ай бұрын

Thank you for your wisdome Sir RC Blackes. Im not a Christian anymore but your wisdome and message is universal and I still enjoy following you

@stacygreen9861 3 ай бұрын

So happy you touched on this Bishop. 🙏🏽

@patriciamitchell1924 3 ай бұрын

Good evening family and Pastor and First lady Blakes..Thank u for speaking on this sermon...❤

@maryhasnolambasmr 2 ай бұрын

Amazing video for all women out there! It is a serious matter , your life can be threatened by such men, women who have survived such individuals can testify that this is serious ! Protect your life! Heal and pray to God to be well!

@JoannA-sweetly Ай бұрын

Listen, Bishop, I learn to spot the abusers (male at church). They ingratiate themselves to EVERYONE! People speak highly of them, BUT LOOK CLOSELY AT THEIR WIVES. Is she thriving, or sick a lot? Is she still advancing in whatever ministry calling she has or becoming invisible? I don’t want to say specifics but you can spot it. So one lady, I fast and pray for her. One time at an altar call, I was lead to say, “God sees you and He is for you.” She cried & cried….but I fast & pray, there is power in prayer. He is well connected so absolutely no seeking help, unless she is ready to fight for her life. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

@debbiefoucha2679 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for the message Thank God for wisdom knowledge and discernment

@tarrasashurst6788 3 ай бұрын

Good evening Pastor RC Blakes and Mrs. Blakes

@user-zb8pd7ry7f 3 ай бұрын

Excellent Content & Topic - May GOD continue to Bless You, Lisa & your Family!

@luwilson1525 3 ай бұрын

Blessings… 💪🏽

@LolitaStClair 3 ай бұрын

This Message is Very Powerful! Thank You for letting God Lead you to Guide and talk to us about Relationships In Jesus name Amen Amen Amen Amen!

@fenty4140 3 ай бұрын

And only women whom have been through narcissistic abuse knows quite well that it is difficult to break free from that emotional and psychological abuse because no matter how much times you try to leave, you always find yourself back in the same narcissistic cycle. Until one day you develop enough strength, courage and willpower to walk away for good, but as a broken man and a broken woman. And when I say broken I mean: emotionally, psychologically and financially.

@fenty4140 3 ай бұрын

I am speak from the male perspective as a man who was abused for five long years by a narcissistic woman, so I can in some respects understand what some women are going through. And though I may not have been physically abused as women in these abusive relationships are, the verbal, emotional and psychological scars are no more different than the physical scars.