WHY WOMEN PURSUING MEN DOES NOT WORK by RC Blakes

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@nikkiford8679 2 ай бұрын

I’ve had other single women tell me I’ll be single a long time if I refuse to approach a man. But the way I see it, I just need ONE. One man who has been sent by God who is not afraid to pursue me. And I’m willing to wait.

@liesascott5414 2 ай бұрын

It doesn't matter how many men there are. All you need is one match and he will be that no matter if he is the only one around or one out of 1000.

@HSBsoulsurfer 2 ай бұрын

This is the Winning Strategy ❤

@RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod 2 ай бұрын

Amen!🙏🏼💯

@jaywatson6261 2 ай бұрын

Amen!🙏🏾

@genxx2724 2 ай бұрын

It’s better to have nothing, than something that’s defective.

@april19123 2 ай бұрын

This channel transformed my life. I mean that! Listening daily going on 3 years. Now I can’t settle, am whole, aware of game, and slave conditioning. No more soul ties, broken consciousness and I learned forgiveness is self love. I’m letting my heart break so my soul can keep healing. I’m growing y’all. RCB, Jr = Mega level Leadership.

@knowyourworthtv 2 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@RCBlakesJr. 2 ай бұрын

WOW. Thank you ❤🙏🏽

@bestillandknow46101 2 ай бұрын

@@RCBlakesJr.🙌🏼🙏🥰

@bestillandknow46101 2 ай бұрын

@april19123 🥰🙏🥰🙏

@bestillandknow46101 2 ай бұрын

@@knowyourworthtv😅

@kimjaniga7517 2 ай бұрын

“THE EGG DON'T SWIM TO THE SPERM SIS, NEVER CHASE A MAN.” Thank you Pastor.

@Pacifica74 2 ай бұрын

Yes, and the mere fact that there's only 1 egg and billions of sperm shows they are racing for a prize!

@kimberly0717 2 ай бұрын

I quoted this over a year ago and this male tried to argue me down with biology. I told him I’m not going back and forth with you, talk to GOD. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@AnnDonley 2 ай бұрын

You can chase all you want a man is going to be with who he chooses to be with PERIOD.

@jessicascreenwritingservices 2 ай бұрын

I had to drop my old therapist a year ago because she tried to tell me that I was insecure because I refused to shoot my shot at men.

@HSBsoulsurfer 2 ай бұрын

Proud of you!

@jasonbiggs9261 2 ай бұрын

Congratulations!! That therapist violated God's natural order

@jaywatson6261 2 ай бұрын

Well done, you!🙏🏾

@reshmiesharma6692 2 ай бұрын

Ditto ditto!!

@TheWindingRoad1991 2 ай бұрын

You did the right thing. That therapist has it backwards.

@susanakaan810 2 ай бұрын

IF YOU DON'T HAVE ENOUGH TO ATTRACT HIM, YOU DON'T HAVE ENOUGH TO KEEP HIM. NOURISHING..

@ultimateoptimist5217 2 ай бұрын

If all the single women around the world stopped sleeping with men right now everything will be back to normal....God's word not mine....

@yourwhateverhomegirl 2 ай бұрын

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 THISSSSSSS

@HSBsoulsurfer 2 ай бұрын

FACTS.

@Raven.Tulips 2 ай бұрын

Yes! Dear ladies, I kindly urge you to prioritize love and honor for your temple by refraining from engaging in casual relations. Such actions cloud your judgment and result in broken trust and repeated heartaches. Always keep in mind: you are the cherished daughter of a King 🕊️✝️🌷.

@RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod 2 ай бұрын

Amen 😊

@Cupid_ 2 ай бұрын

💯💯💯💯

@J_Elle30 2 ай бұрын

Rusty, Dusty, Musty Man” has me screamingg😂😂😂😂👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@elizabethdumas4147 2 ай бұрын

Me too! He forgot Lusty. 🤣😂

@SheritaLee-er4sp 2 ай бұрын

My uncle told me the same thing. The mouse does not chase the cat. You look desperate when you do, and you don't know yourself as a woman.

@Raven.Tulips 2 ай бұрын

Do not chase! In regards to men when they chase, it feels aggressive and driven by selfish desires. However, when a man pursues, it reflects a respectful and committed approach, showing genuine interest.

@RiseUpTheKingdomOfGod 2 ай бұрын

Amen powerfully true!

@yahwehpreciousstone5765 2 ай бұрын

he will never respect you if u pursue him

@roxanahutchcroft1236 2 ай бұрын

Pursuing a man takes a lot of energy

@drchontay8129 2 ай бұрын

A men is a gift. A woman is the prize ( earned)

@jamilajohnson4468 2 ай бұрын

“Where a woman projects herself as a lead a masculine man is unnecessary. “ Wow!!! This entire message is necessary and contrary to what toxic masculinity teaches! Thank you Bishop ❤

@PScott-yh2cs 2 ай бұрын

I love this for single women. Also, its okay to be alone and living in your purpose. You dont need a man to be whole as a woman.

@Didi-fr5ic 2 ай бұрын

This man is saving woman!! I always show interest in a man that I see,.smile and eye contact, if I see the same man I will wave but he doesnt move towards me there is a reason, I see so many young woman go up to a man and ask his number, its shocking. I have healed so im more feminine now and I just lean back and don't find men attractive that wants me to do the chasing. I am so happy we put in the time for.ourselves because we live in a world where men don't want to protect but they want to hurt and use. Not al men of course.

@meli7315 2 ай бұрын

💯

@ziesha.marie11 2 ай бұрын

I seen that too an I noticed men don’t approach me at all an I noticed when a man is not interested in u they will give u a silent treatment! Its insane!

@wendyhuntsman176 2 ай бұрын

He is one of the only men I trust to talk about traditional gender roles. I know he's trustworthy because he never once has given me the "ick."

@7mariposas775 2 ай бұрын

Same. I haven’t heard an offensive word out of him

@tarrasashurst6788 2 ай бұрын

I know the feeling I got tired of being head of the house. It's like he won't think for himself

@missstarrynight7736 2 ай бұрын

My grandparent and parents all have/had this unhealthy dynamics. What's worse, I was taught it's how it's normal. No, it's not. Luckily, I have a sort of personality which has no tolerance for men who want to be led/ babysit / "saved" etc... It's not too late for you to change the dynamics , because you co-create it, actually. Let the guy wash his own clothes and iron them. Create a set of duties for him. Dusting, hoovering carpets, whatever. Lazy men get lazy, because women enable it. I'm not saying them to judge you or something, no no. I bet you saw same dynamics among your own parents or grandparents.

@anncharles210 2 ай бұрын

It's 3am in the morning and my daughter and I have enjoyed this podcast. Last weekend was her graduation and she tells her dad and I she wants to continue to get her master's. We say press on baby, keep your head up because God has a plan for you. She and I enjoy listening to your podcasts and we share them with friends and family. Be blessed and keep pressing on.

@tarrasashurst6788 2 ай бұрын

Never chase a man

@l.christinejones8164 2 ай бұрын

No. Never.

@Raven.Tulips 2 ай бұрын

I've noticed a few times in KZfaq comments where men claim they are the "prize." Whenever I come across that, I can't help but cringe internally.

@Ayoutubeview12 2 ай бұрын

Pookie is not a prize but a god fearing, upstanding man is a prize. He is an asset.

@Raven.Tulips 2 ай бұрын

@@Ayoutubeview12 Personally, I don't believe in viewing people as "prizes," and I find it particularly strange to apply that label to men. As Pastor RC Blakes pointed out in the video, it feminizes men.

@Cynister262 2 ай бұрын

That is true. Spent my late 20's in "empowered" mindset and my husband told me,It happened that I knew you would be special in my life. But I bet you were tired and needed to unwind in the arms of a man. I cried because he was so right. Anytime I approached a man,I felt less of myself. I am Glad God saw fit for him to be my now husband. Cause I was TIED😂

@Cupid_ 2 ай бұрын

I am 37 yr old single mum, I have never initiated contact, pursued a man or slide in his DM. I am so glad I never did and don’t plan to!

@RepentImmediately 2 ай бұрын

And yet you're still a single mom.....

@Cupid_ 2 ай бұрын

@@RepentImmediatelyyes and feminine too. No one died from being single mum.

@sweetiet602 2 ай бұрын

A prayer for the Ladies: Dear Heavenly Father, Forgive me for chasing unavailable Men. Men who didn't treat me right, Men in whom I seen the red flags and still pursued. Even when I knew I deserved More, Even when I knew better; I continued to desire and entertain what I knew was unrighteous and knew the outcome would not be in favor of my better Good. God I am admitting to my foolish, immoral, disgraceful ways and Godless strategies. I am admitting to chasing Men and dishonoring My Self Worth. I am asking for forgiveness for not practicing patience or cherishing and honoring my femininity. Remove the negativity of self-doubt and Worldly stigmatism, ideologies, and trends. I was wrong in the ways I thought, behaved and words I uttered. Wash me clean as snow and renew me in your perfect image inside and out to attract my husband. Amen. 🙏

@yourentrepreneurjourney 2 ай бұрын

👏🏾💄💋♥️

@drchontay8129 2 ай бұрын

Greatest attraction is your mindset

@PatriciaOIsaac 2 ай бұрын

I really don't know what type of woman i would be with out you Pastor Blakes. You have changed my core for the better....you are truly God sent and i mean that literally

@Didi-fr5ic 2 ай бұрын

Yes girl, same ❤

@GreenRoses07 2 ай бұрын

I tried pursuing a man and he chilled put saying he has arrived. As a woman, I was thinking he will reciprocate, but after 1 year, I opted out after losing time, money, my heart, my mind. NEVER AGAIN. ITS NOT WHAT A WOMAN IS BUILT FOR

@PatriciaOIsaac 2 ай бұрын

@@GreenRoses07 good for you girl...

@tarrasashurst6788 2 ай бұрын

I view myself as a wife and I am not going to pursue a man

@Pacifica74 2 ай бұрын

Now why don't young girls know that they are the prize? ➡ Abusive, neglectful fathers

@nzingahoney 2 ай бұрын

❤ 💯

@annettehightower8741 2 ай бұрын

A man who gets me earns favor! 💜

@cherieking2870 2 ай бұрын

Doing it my way all my life never worked. I was a broken woman. Now knowing God's way is the only way even at this late stage in my life, I'm going to wait. Whether having someone is for me or not. I'll wait on God.

@kimtaylor5277 2 ай бұрын

Pastor is very clear a 8 year old can understand this TEACH thank you so much!

@perfumelover777 2 ай бұрын

Happy mother’s day to all the beautiful mothers out there. Hope you have a wonderful mother’s day. 🙏🏼💕💐 Pastor Blakes you are changing the lives of so many women, thank you Sir for all your lessons I truly appreciate you. God bless you and your family always. 🙏🏼❤

@Marebear-bt4rp 2 ай бұрын

Pastor Blakes... where were you 30 yrs ago !!!! I would have learned this back then !!!.... 😂😅😂😅

@Mrs.Neves3523 2 ай бұрын

So glad my husband picked me. Before I knew better I only went for boys. So refreshing to have a man

@gloriawalket1163 2 ай бұрын

I cant even begin to thank you enough. You have helped me so much with your wisdom, I send you and lady Lisa , much love and God bless. Thank you

@drchontay8129 2 ай бұрын

The woman is the glory of the man

@joeyjo7553 2 ай бұрын

I think the different camera angles style is awesome 👏🏻 give us the side eye pastor! We need to learn 😂

@StacyBalcombe 2 ай бұрын

I love that he’s adding a little spice to production so proud of him. May God continue blessing him and his family with good health, continued success and joy

@joeyjo7553 2 ай бұрын

@@StacyBalcombeyes amen 💖✨

@elizabethdumas4147 2 ай бұрын

"The flowers do the Beeing, and the Bees do the finding" is a wonderful analogy.

@tonitaquetaparks3304 2 ай бұрын

If a man is allowing you to do the all the pursuing he doesn’t like you or see you as his wife.

@Michyhauser 2 ай бұрын

hahahahahah CRUSTY, RUSTY, DUSTY man!!!!!

@Raven.Tulips 2 ай бұрын

I was tidying up the kitchen, giggling away while he said all that. 😂

@Michyhauser 2 ай бұрын

@@Raven.Tulips that was too funny I literally laughed out loud.

@rachelraquel1525 2 ай бұрын

You forgot musty 😅😂😂😂

@trishapoirier8440 2 ай бұрын

Hahaha , I was so dead

@gerijohnson3850 2 ай бұрын

I think there needs to be a clear definition of what "chasing" is. There is varied misconceptions regarding expressing interest and pursuing.

@anitaroloti9845 2 ай бұрын

Help me Lord to stay in my lane and never initiate a relationship even if I like . If he is for me , shall be mine in Jesus Christ

@zinajohnson3565 2 ай бұрын

This is great teaching. Praise God for your gift of teaching.

@Blessed75463 2 ай бұрын

Bishop , not are you only correct but awesome . This is so true . I had someone that initially wanted to court me. I was not ready . Then I was told by friends I messed up and go after him. This was not something I was comfortable with.. and guess what, the second time around he disrespected me and treated me different, all because I reached back out to him first. Now I understand why he changed with me and treated me completely different than when he initially wanted to court me… I confused my role by reaching back out to him professing my love and mistakes🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️, of letting him go. Thank The Lord I never slept with him. I should have never listened to my friends, going after him was a big mistake. I sent the wrong message😳🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️!!. Never again , ladies follow the road map of life The Lord has set in scripture ,we will never go wrong. Bishop, we love you , for your great teaching and insight !! Continue to let The Lord use you. Thank you 🙏🏾❤️

@genxx2724 2 ай бұрын

They play games after you reject them. They want revenge. It’s not because you reached out first.

@j-tenn226 2 ай бұрын

What did he do to you?

@tarrasashurst6788 2 ай бұрын

My ex was a good man but wasn't mature enough for our relationship

@tynaangelici3023 2 ай бұрын

I’m disgusted by this culture.

@elfgirl415 2 ай бұрын

PREACH it, Preach! This IRON is sharpening my soul...THANK YOU, Pastor Blakes! 🙌✝️🕊👑👸🏻❤

@cherieking2870 2 ай бұрын

I never chased a man, but did other things that were not appropriate.

@Pacifica74 2 ай бұрын

I realized even when he expresses interest, it's still not a green light to do all the things that fall into the chase category (calling & showing up often, etc)

@pamelastribling6640 2 ай бұрын

Thanks great message

@carlawilliams9078 2 ай бұрын

Wooo hooo. I’ve made it to the premiere!!! So excited.

@lesliegordon1472 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for speaking on tonight.

@tifipaul5686 2 ай бұрын

Excellent advice as always!

@kitaevans8686 2 ай бұрын

I'm here for it all, Pastor 🙌❤

@shanellraquel 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for such an amazing word !

@rhondaedwards664 2 ай бұрын

Amen! Thank you Pastor for delivering this important lesson!!!

@thechristinemarieshow Ай бұрын

Love you Bishop! We appreciate the word!!!

@CaliforniaGirl1 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this.

@mablem.9094 2 ай бұрын

Confirmation as always. Thank you 🌹.

@Mrivera0312 2 ай бұрын

Always so great listening to your messages … thank you. From Yonkers, NY.

@legendy.psyhologii 2 ай бұрын

Thank you, dear Pastor!!!❤❤❤ You are amazing!

@healwithmusic93 2 ай бұрын

Amen. Thank you for the teaching ❤ God bless you Mister R.C Blake's.

@lindamolyneux3536 2 ай бұрын

This was great.. thank you! I totally agree! I really like the flower and the bee and analogy. that really will help a person.

@judithstevens4323 2 ай бұрын

Excellent teaching. Thank you pastor❤

@MysticButterfly22 2 ай бұрын

Wow, what a powerful message tonight! I needed this one Bishop.☝🏽❤

@elfgirl415 2 ай бұрын

LOVE your flower and bees mataphor. SO true and just BEAUTIFUL! 🐝🌺

@HSBsoulsurfer 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this, Pastor!

@pcnair9868 2 ай бұрын

always setting me on the straight path

@esthermaloney1108 2 ай бұрын

Happy mothers Day to you Sis. Blake and all mothers out there

@dancewfaith 2 ай бұрын

This was so good. Thanks Pastor RC Blakes.

@jennymichellelewis2982 2 ай бұрын

Amen to that 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾Amazing message thank you Pastor

@dlegrand81 2 ай бұрын

This message blessed me tonight.

@tleshettematthews 2 ай бұрын

Teach RC Blakes ! we are the favor not the finder....lord help us❤

@mcr670 2 ай бұрын

Magnificent. Thank you ❤ God bless you

@brittanifields5794 2 ай бұрын

It’s hard to find those kind of men these days pastor

@tamara-vm2mb 2 ай бұрын

A man Fines a Woman ❤❤❤

@HSBsoulsurfer 2 ай бұрын

There is no selection seemingly, but alas, we have to just wait it out

@tamara-vm2mb 2 ай бұрын

(We ) are the Prize as Pastor says 😇 He who finds a wife fines a good thing and obtains favorite from the LORD. Proverbs 18:22 He the man will come from the LORD if we wait and Trust Him who created him.🙏✌️♥️

@brittanifields5794 2 ай бұрын

@@tamara-vm2mb Yes and I believe it!

@brittanifields5794 2 ай бұрын

@@HSBsoulsurfer Yes and I don’t mind waiting on the one that God has for me!

@dr.christinaND 2 ай бұрын

Great talk! Thank you for the loving fatherly wisdom ❤

@aprilthomas9718 2 ай бұрын

Amen Amen! Have a blessed day.

@tarrasashurst6788 2 ай бұрын

Thanks for the information I will follow it. I learn so much now from you, pastor RC Blakes

@Jada_s 2 ай бұрын

Thank God for RC Blakes ! Enjoy your day Bishop !

@teresabrown174 2 ай бұрын

I receive your message Bishop in Faith, this was most definitely a mike drop conversation, and I loved it! Thank you❤️🙏🏾

@restored1574 Ай бұрын

Pastor Blakes, you give us this information straight. Thank you!

@deannalong4443 2 ай бұрын

This is transformative, thank you sir!!!

@patriciamitchell1924 2 ай бұрын

Good evening Pastor and First lady Blakes, I hope that you had a wonderful weekend and I hope that my First lady had a wonderful Mother's day and my Spiritual Queens enjoyed their Mother's day with their family...I'm ready for another up buildings sermon.God bless u and your family always 🙏🙏🙏

@KatieStevens-nr8qv 2 ай бұрын

Good teaching. I was taught that at an early age to know my worth and values.

@StrawberryLeo1 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for educating us spiritually. I have been tuning in since 2021, and your teachings are appreciated.

@susanma3483 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video. Pure godly insight and wisdom dropped in this video. I am a new viewer first time. Alot of confirmation in this video.

@drchontay8129 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for your candid TRUTH

@queenconscious2989 2 ай бұрын

Soooo good!!!!❤

@jan854 2 ай бұрын

Thank you Pastor! There are so many good women that just have been led astray due to life circumstances.

@mobe494 2 ай бұрын

Preach in pastor!! Loved the entire presentation but esp. the flower/bee analogy!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

@nzingahoney 2 ай бұрын

Yul Brynner's character said that same thing in the King and I and I never understood it until i kept listening to RC and TG.

@scottieearl7819 2 ай бұрын

You helping all the women, thank you pastor Blake 👏

@msc908 2 ай бұрын

So on point! ❤

@marisawillis853 2 ай бұрын

I hated this has to end. Glad you’re gonna cover more. I’m truly grateful you keep it authentic on your channel. You are truly my spiritual father. Keep speaking and I will keep sharing your message. See you in August!!!!

@nazarinewangari9133 2 ай бұрын

I started listening to this channel in 2021....l have introduced so many of my girlfriends to listen to your teachings as l believe your teachings will transform their mindset All l can say is, my life transformed... God bless you Pastor R.C.. Sending you love from Nairobi,Kenya

@carohndz6059 2 ай бұрын

Thank you, Pastor!

@evapreston924 2 ай бұрын

You have transformed my expectations of myself for myself that I truly deserve!! All in Gods timing 💕 thank you for being that father that I never had. I feel ready to share all this with my children so they never end up in the situation that I’m in.

@esthermaloney1108 2 ай бұрын

Thank you Pastor just found you on utube 1 month now and loving it. Will definitely try next year to come. Have to travel a few times this year sad I didn't know before now looking forward to grow in the word u give out to us ladies.