Tips for Better Sex at Any Stage

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2 жыл бұрын

#sponsored Watch for Safety Information. If you have 3+ UTIs in a year or other urinary tract problems, do not use Phexxi® (lactic acid, citric acid, and potassium bitartrate)
Sex at Any Stage. In this video, Shan Boodram will explore the various stages of sex throughout adulthood and provide helpful tips for women to get what they want and reclaim pleasure. Watch the full video sponsored by Phexxi® (lactic acid, citric acid, and potassium bitartrate) to learn more.
Single: Tips on how to increase your chances of orgasming with a new partner plus tips on how to discuss birth control
In a Relationship: Advice on how to get out of a sexual rut with your long-term partner
Married: How to manage marriage expectations as it relates to your sex life
New Mom: The three things that new moms can do to awaken their sexual potential after baby
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@lisasiawild5816 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for talking about being nearly naked during sex. I feel like there’s so much pressure to arrive at being comfortable enough to be fully naked or you don’t love yourself, or it’s a bad sign that you don’t trust your partner. Being comfortable is a valid in between space, where forcing it can be so stressful.

@abdullahhassan9282 2 жыл бұрын

Same me

@micheallawson6280 2 жыл бұрын

Super excited I followed #Doctorojie herbal medicine protocols that cured my herpes

@toritacoo1338 2 жыл бұрын

I love learning from you! I grew up in a household where we didn’t discuss sex, let alone pleasure of what it means to share intimacy with someone (or myself!). So, I want to thank you for holding this space and being someone I can learn from. I appreciate you.

@tommac21 3 ай бұрын

You've never had sex yet. No one can teach it. The only one you can learn from are you and your partner ask each other what you like and dislike. If you listen to people like this your only doing what makes them happy. You don't want to be somebody's clone

@nla5307 2 жыл бұрын

Single and all about the self pleasure! Really enjoying being alone and exploring myself right now.

@femafull 2 жыл бұрын

Same🥰

@abdullahhassan9282 2 жыл бұрын

@leonorpereira548 2 жыл бұрын

Loved the open talk about reinventing passion within marriage

@mimistar1427 2 жыл бұрын

It would be good if you did a video focusing on sexual intimacy with non-neurotypical people. For example I have a partner who's on the autistic spectrum and there's many things I didn't know about concerning dating or intimacy with someone on the spectrum.

@ddmound 2 жыл бұрын

And you choose him out of all men you could be attracted to? If you are not training to be a nurse you should find someone normal to screw you. And then you should know how to execute the three principles which if you had 'courting' a special needs person can help you be more attentive to what the need is he has to fulfill in you sexually and you are not about to do now. A man is supposed to get you to your libido which not only gives you control over your libido that controls your orgasm system (clit, G-spot, pc muscle, A-spot and line) but serves you both better in strengthening your emotional and sexual bond. But this chick don't know anymore than you can by googlin' it!

@SonsOfLorgar 2 жыл бұрын

@@ddmound gtfo with that ableist hate speech.

@tinymegazell6060 2 жыл бұрын

I think that would be out of her speciality range

@lx9414 2 жыл бұрын

Loveeeee this video idea hope she researches and looks into it

@mimistar1427 2 жыл бұрын

@@ddmoundSo for clarification I'm referring to people on the autistic spectrum that are "high functioning"(outdated term) like those with Asperger's. There are plenty of people on the autistic spectrum that you wouldn't know unless they tell you e.g. Elon Musk... lots of autistic people are not the stereotypical example you see in the media, they often mask themselves as neuro-typical people.

@DoNuTsIeAt 2 жыл бұрын

Yessss Shan. Lots of gems in this video!

@Lulonutrition 2 жыл бұрын

Love this ! Thank you for sharing all the tips for someone almost 10 years married , with a preschooler, and pregnant !

@ishunbryant7743 2 жыл бұрын

This is really dope. I really didn’t know as much as I thought I did about my partner and this lead to some great conversations and trying new things on my part

@tobconnected 2 жыл бұрын

You are a Wonderful Mother ♡

@Jess-xl1wd 2 жыл бұрын

This is so incredibly amazing thank you so so much for all of this

@Vivien_Ekong 2 жыл бұрын

Great video

@amandarotger2304 2 жыл бұрын

In a relationship with a new baby. 💨 quick and to the point

@MiVidaBellisima 2 жыл бұрын

Hey Shan, what do you use along with phexxi or do you use it on its own?

@gebronthomasson6960 8 ай бұрын

Amazing how you have worked in the birth control that sponsors you

@msscorpio14 2 жыл бұрын

Single and solo play. This was good info

@lamardenton1811 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@suleabubakar8623 Жыл бұрын

Thanks

@AshleyAGlass 2 жыл бұрын

your last aha point really hit me! It made me realize that I should do the same thing. Trying to get all the pieces to align is one thing but making small exchanges during the day sensual will help with that. Thanks for this video!!

@vannesacolin2565 Жыл бұрын

Your videos have 💯 % made my marriage and our sex life so much better!!!! Thank u Shan and Jared for putting yourselves out there like this ! OMG Shan u are amazing, I don't think u understand how much of a change you can make. Keep pushing and creating and I will keep sharing cuz your wisdom is 🏆!!!!!

@ifyogbo 2 жыл бұрын

Hey Shan. 😊 How are you and your fam? Please send my greetings. I recently got engaged to be married and my fiance and I don't have sex as frequently. I feel as though there are a few factors:1. He lives in a whole different country than I do and probably 2. religious (Catholic and Angilican)guilt.⬅️ future topic😉 Eventhough we have sex, obviously when I visit and virtually, it's not as frequent. Thank you for these tips! These tips will go a long way!!!

@SEAofMARINA 2 жыл бұрын

Aye these editing skills thoooo⚠️⚠️

@KatlynMoss 2 жыл бұрын

I like your outfit

@bethanne6349 2 жыл бұрын

In a relationship and 🌊🤸🏼‍♀️🔥

@gebronthomasson6960 8 ай бұрын

Got your sponsor in for yet another time..

@amandabelony3055 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Shan!!! 🥴

@PfEMP 2 жыл бұрын

2:13 PREACH IT SHAN

@gue2382 2 жыл бұрын

Sis I m confused, that’s too many spots 😭.

@talkinwithtati 2 жыл бұрын

Engaged and 💥

@berrylishysglam149 Жыл бұрын

Quality over quantity

@ChrisTheAspergerGuy 2 жыл бұрын

Jesus, I had no idea there was a U spot and an O spot. I knew about the G and A ones, but this is the first time I'm hearing of the others. Granted, I'm too much of a loser to ever be in a situation where I could try to stimulate those spots on a woman, but it's good information to have anyway.

@how2lifespacedecisions753 2 жыл бұрын

Your NOT a loser!!!!

@ChrisTheAspergerGuy 2 жыл бұрын

@@how2lifespacedecisions753 Yes I am.

@MycahEquette 2 жыл бұрын

I am married 🌪

@miesharay485 2 жыл бұрын

Very informative as usual. . I enjoyed this one cuz I learned things that appoint me (as the women in a heterosexual marriage) to take some control and put emphasis in what I like.

@WASABINIQABII 2 жыл бұрын

🌈😎😜 exploring with partner .. 🤓

@khesaro2584 2 жыл бұрын

struggling

@graciecastorena6863 2 жыл бұрын

Singleeeee & 🤸🏼‍♀️🤸🏼‍♀️🤸🏼‍♀️🤸🏼‍♀️

@chiloveisintheair 2 жыл бұрын

In a relationship and about to have a baby. 🙈🙈

@linleylawless2942 2 жыл бұрын

I wont put an emoji because I am not getting any and havnt in 2 years :(

@BrookeDestiny11 2 жыл бұрын

Hey giiirl ! I’m in a relationship and sex be like 🥇 cuz we have amazing sex! I think there’s always room for improvement and growing so we gon keep getting the W every time bc we always strive for better. Love you! Ty for your work!

@MycahEquette 2 жыл бұрын

You always come with the fire tips Shan! Thank you so much. Just sent my husband this video 🤎

@jennifertaylor-wright7694 2 жыл бұрын

MARRIED 6 years together 11 …3 kids… Sex Life 😱👅💦💦…. Legit keeps surprising me and getting better each time. Finding those moments throughout the day to incite sexuality even when we as the woman May not look up to par , or be thinking of ourselves as sexy but more or so making each other a PRIORITY and that involves our sexual needs. Marriage, however you define it, is the shit ppl don’t let society fuck it up for you.

@martastaruch7952 2 жыл бұрын

Actually hearing the safety message at the end reminded me of something: could you maybe elaborate in one of your videos on recurrent UTIs caused by sex? it was my biggest nightmare for a year and a half and a) it could have been prevented if I had gone to urinate after my first time b) what helped me was actually urinating after sex, then drinking a LOT and going to the bathroom again (I haven't seen anyone giving this advice online. I saw many many women who have the same problem - not being able to get rid of the freaking UTIs and I would love to spare them some suffering!

@yomanyomandx5609 2 жыл бұрын

What did you do after?

@HenryLee666 2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes the problem is the bacteria transmitted by your partner. I had this problem for a year with my last partner and the gynecologist gave us both an antibiotic treatment. He never really took it as he should have, so I don't really know how it would have worked.

@bailaescanito 2 жыл бұрын

This was a major problem for me last year, UTI after UTI. I have made a routine to avoid them after sex. I always peed after sex but I didn't drink tons of water which now I do and I pee multiple times after. I wash up and my partner washes up before sex, I don't let him cum inside me because I think I am allergic to semen. I make sure that I'm feeling well before I am intimate, not going to have sex while dehydrated after a long day of work ya know. Cranberry pills 💊 or probiotics help when it's reoccurring. Stay off antibiotics as much as possible, they make things better then worse. I hate when I would go to the doctors for a uti and they're like "do you wipe from front to back? Are you peeing after sex?" Like yes. I told you I get them frequently, realized it's dehydration and stayed off antibiotics they're such a killer!

@allamericanrevert7755 2 жыл бұрын

In a relationship and have a new baby. 🥲 this is the emoji LMAO

@ddmound 2 жыл бұрын

may I ask, are you married and how old are you both?

@allamericanrevert7755 2 жыл бұрын

@@ddmound yes I’m married and I’m 26.

@gaylebarton 2 жыл бұрын

🔥

@Patricia-uz2xx 2 жыл бұрын

I have noticed you in mean girls Shannon :)

@prister9684 2 жыл бұрын

Married 😛

@jasperblack4648 2 жыл бұрын

😑 yup.

@justj3280 2 жыл бұрын

😔🥶 that’s how it’s going

@AliciaRodriguez_ 2 жыл бұрын

12:10 Watching the birth control part now, knowing you actually got pregnant around that time, is hilarious 🤣

@_kimmikim_ 2 жыл бұрын

I'm single and my emojis are ⏸🚫 meaning I'm on a break and in a celibate space because I'm focused on me and sex is tide to energy and that is not for everyone. When my person comes along its gonna be on an poppin' but learning some new thangs while I wait! 🤗

@jeseniaboombam9388 2 жыл бұрын

😻

@Lafilledlapluie 2 жыл бұрын

💐

@tequilahstewart7545 2 жыл бұрын

Married 😜

@irenkavanderstar3741 2 жыл бұрын

In a relashionship : 🥉

@alytheamccoy305 2 жыл бұрын

Married 😉

@preciousgugzikgomo7060 2 жыл бұрын

💥

@haddyjats 2 жыл бұрын

In a relationship and sadly 😴

@itsmymy_xo 2 жыл бұрын

✨✨✨

@KinkyTantrikTemptress 2 жыл бұрын

Single 🤞🏾

@curlsincourt592 2 жыл бұрын

Married ! 😶‍🌫️

@LilKStarr 2 жыл бұрын

I am single & ☹️

@willfarrior622 2 жыл бұрын

In a relationship

@Atiana97 2 жыл бұрын

🤩

@nvsty.n 2 жыл бұрын

🏆🏆🏆

@infinite_energy369 2 жыл бұрын

🌊

@fudiabangura6410 2 жыл бұрын

😊

@janielsmith7313 2 жыл бұрын

In a relationship and 🗑😴….how can I get my partner to last longer or just slow down!?

@ebonyqueen86 2 жыл бұрын

Communicate?

@nicolepolett6890 2 жыл бұрын

Have you tried sitting down and telling them about it ?

@janielsmith7313 2 жыл бұрын

@@nicolepolett6890 I did, still tryna figure it out cause right now sex is just not it and it’s frustrating.

@thewindsinger7687 2 жыл бұрын

@@janielsmith7313 look into orgasm denial, if you’re open minded play into soft domination, you can tell him what to do and play around with rewarding him for holding back etc

@allisonmalaki685 2 жыл бұрын

Single! 😌

@astridobando2357 2 жыл бұрын

Married with a 4 year old... And we're in a 🥴🤠🙄 phase

@SonyaMayaPsychology 2 жыл бұрын

Single. And 🥰

@purepsyc 2 жыл бұрын

I’m single and have a new baby! It’s more like a🌵 🏜 🐪

@ddmound 2 жыл бұрын

congrads! your baby is a blessing from the Lord. how old are you?

@SonsOfLorgar 2 жыл бұрын

@@ddmound keep your religious beliefs out of other people's faces.

@Sasha-hr8jw 2 жыл бұрын

🤝

@nahnah4102 2 жыл бұрын

Sry please I dont get which kind of undies she means :) can somebody help out?

@ccsilv 2 жыл бұрын

In a relationship 6 years 🪢👅👌🏼👈🏻👏🏼🙏🏼🤣

@kobasohan 2 жыл бұрын

👄

@marinafeenix 2 жыл бұрын

🕸️🕸️🕸️

@PfEMP 2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha that's good. I put a desert 😆

@Gillian12326 2 жыл бұрын

👌👌👌👌👌

@ddmound 2 жыл бұрын

owww you lie! he three questions never lie! 1) Is he the one? 2) do you love him? (that should be 2 'yes' rite) 3) does he last as long as you like in bed? (wait for it)

@SonsOfLorgar 2 жыл бұрын

@@ddmound quit harassing people