Justine_Choo More like lustful sex

More like low level inspirational quotes on the net.

The music is pretty chipper.

It’s the music

Sean Yeah , I don't know how people could even get inspired from women like her ...

well becoz.. "'A key that can open many locks is called a master key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!'”

This is the Beginning well, the guy probably slept with his other girlfriends and non-girlfriends. the thing is guys don’t get pregnant, they get girls pregnant. calling her a whore... what about that guy? i get that there is no right answer unless both party agrees on a decision, but it’s unfair to place the blame on the girl. it takes both a sperm n an egg to make a baby, it wasn’t just her doing. and for the other two, she did get married to them before having their kids, it was just sad that the second choice was a bad choice but we all make mistakes with our life partners somewhere and it’s good that she left. and about that lock and key comment, if in the future you people have daughters and they start to have sex, will you call them that? everybody has their own way of living their lives, and although many people make bad choices, it’s still their choice. if men were the ones to show such signs of being whores, the opinions would be different, because men would be degraded while women would be the accusers. but that’s my opinion and unless we are backed up by facts, we can’t announce that what we say is true.

Lol

@@poppypoppop3231 hello whoever u are WELL said!

@Seth Tegler EXACTLY!

Jia Lee 3:51

YEA

yes, they look very alike

Yeah

They looks so happy

J15 Usually this rare specimen will have a fcuk*up dude Hope she will live her life to the best of her kids

only people who have been through so much could have smile this genuine and babies ofcourse

genuine smile??what a stupid comment

S S, pls don't push the responsibility to bad boys, u mean the bad boys push a knife or a gun to her head for sex? Only bad boys knows how to fuck? Good guys dont? Pls don't be naive. Which cat regardless of black or white, won't eat any fish? Proverbs says, a cow don't drink water, u can't push a cow head's down.

biltzforce, whose property is that? Hers or her husband?

@David David perhaps it's one of their parents? does it matter?

biltzforce yeah! exactly how i really really wish that ALL guys in this world regardless of race or religions can sincerely accept woman like joyce and me without being judgemental! as women we jolly well know the IMPACT of being an unwed single mother especially when u are a muslim like ME! for goodness sake no woman in her right mind especially if she is a MUSLIM wants to have a child and not marry cause we know is really embarrassing! but for my situation my ex was really IRRESPONSIBLE like joyce's ex! so as a woman when u see the guy is irresponsible how can u marry him right?. so i really hope now with joyce's video will stop guys from being judgemental asking the woman's past like her virginity! i do really hope that more and more guys have the same attitudes and mentalities like joyce's new husband who don't give a damn shit about what people will say or think about him.

Noor Imelda Elle The way I see it. Both you and your ex are irresponsible. You should have self respect and knows the value of your own body and action. Any respectful (Muslim) woman should know that. You were too easily blinded by love and empty promises. And when a "mistake" has been done. Do not cry wolf and expect all the men out there to be non judgemental of women in your situation. Remember that, if you do not know how to respect and value your self worth. How are we, men going to respect and value you?

halifi sarif ok so u expect us to keep our VIRGINITY right?. If we muslim women do keep our virginity for men and what about men?! Men fuck around and expect us to keep our virginity! Please don't be a fucking double standard! I think u do understood my previous comment but because u are the ego type so that was why u replied in such manner. If we women can truly accept the guy i don't see any reason why men cannot accept the women being who she is! I am very sorry to say this out loud i met MANY malay guys who questioned me about my personal past and when i asked them they refused to talked about it! Is this FAIR?! Can u give me a good explanation to this?! Yeah! I know is all about IMAGE! Yes we can carry on having ENDLESS argument about this! If u don't want to waste your precious times then in the first place u should not started the argument!

Ys Chiam which aspect of her did you find brave? Her fear of being single, or her inability of using contraceptives?

Lim Xiu Chen how do you “run away” from making a mistake? I’m confused. Please explain?

Master Debater "Running away" could be abandoning the children she had which she obviously didn't do. This makes her brave because she actually learned from her mistakes and her children are happy too.

Lim Xiu Chen hello xiu chen i totally agree with u liked 1 of this chinese girl her name is sharon khoo she said in her comment "No point arguing with people who don't wish to understand! Just let them be with their attitudes and mentalities. Don't waste our beautiful precious times arguing with people who don't want to understand!"

Noor Imelda Elle, well ever heard of this expression, BIRDS OF THE SAME FEATHER FLOCKS TOGETHER?

Seattle Blaze that's a bummer

Seattle Blaze awww ❤️❤️

Thank you for being there for them. (Coming from an only child with a single Mum)

You’re amazing not a lot of men will do that

poker108 I was waiting for this comment 😂

yes, i do think so also!

richard kanna wow so much negativity and burning desire to force your righteous opinion out in the world. so sad for u to let that anger and bitterness stay inside as a toxic in soul n mind , peace out

@Jesslyn Elvina i dont wanna be weird but you look so beautiful btw im a girl im not a pervert lol

Akmal Ahmed yes she is doing what Mum’s are supposed to do. But what makes her different is in the way she is playing the role of a Mum: 1. Firstly she didn’t expect to be one but decided to go through with and commit fully 2. She’s protecting her kids and juggling her love for them all amazingly (despite the delicate matter of them coming from different dads)

barely human hahahah thank you! Shout out to you too gurll

Akmal Ahmed exactly my point! There are inspirational single mothers that work two different jobs just to stay afloat. Sacrificing 'want' for 'need'. And yet many still find this inspiring as she managed to live through obstacles in which she herself has created and have a default ground to fall herself into - her parents. They own two F&B establishments. She went through hardship indeed. Very inspirational!

Sebby Kira her baby girl looks pretty young so she must have had her not long ago...

Making the same mistake 3 times doesn’t sound right, just saying. Yes, she probably been through a lot and respect her for keeping the children :)

Lol true making the same mistake 3 times shows a character error and a incapability to learn from ones own mistakes. These aren't smaller mistakes but life changing mistakes. Once yes, but 3 times going through the same vicious cycle shows a lack of values, inability to control ones passions and a poor judgment of serious relationships have brought the person to this state. You can feel sorry but sometimes to engage the problem directly by saying what needs to be said will bring clarity to the situation

You are part of the problem. ‘At least she didn’t throw the baby in the dumpster or something’... raising a baby that is YOURS doesn’t make you a decent human being it’s the absolute norm to do so and the minimum.

She is still married with the youngest' dad.. So she did two mistakes not three

Deb Clato What's wrong with you? She left the first guy because he died! She left the next guy because he wasn't the one for her, but they're still friends, and she married my dad//the last guy, she's happy and everyone else is happy. Our family is happy and stable, I don't know what you've been threw, but all my siblings and myself are really happy living here in the US.

is there gonna be a different future dad?

Funny how you’re blaming the woman, when she’s the one who stood up and did everything. You know it takes a penis to make a baby.

Precious Gracie so are we glorifying children born out of wedlock now? Having babies from all different fathers. What kind of a society are we going to have? I admire Singapore policy towards single moms, no welfare and no support whatsoever. That’s why society is so messed up nowadays. People are having all these mental illnesses, value degradation etc.

Dididadum Tadaa you know what,my point is I don't blame those people who's unlucky enough to experience this kind of situation, were not the one to tell,they are the one who made their life miserable but still,those single mom or single parent who raise their children without hesitation is quite relevant for me,your opinion is a bit bold about our society! But this is the reality we have...,we didn't control the things that might happen,she have that guts to have a children's with different father,then its her choice not ours.

RainbowOtaku13 What is there to frown when money is no longer an issue. She herself may even have come from a wealthy background

Sean Even if she did come from a good background, money doesn’t solve every problem! Emotional strength is what she would need and that is what she has :)

RainbowOtaku13 But money will solve most of the problems at least. :)

Emotional strength does not matter. Logic does, why does she keep picking bad men?

Wandering rillo She likes alpha men. With lotsa scary looking tattoos. And men with questionable background dealing with illegal stuffs. A bit like gangster characters like Ekin Cheng

carrotmint agree I think she's smart

carrotmint, how do u judge a person is gd or bad? If life is so easy to figure it out, why are there divoured?

carrotmint, u hv answered for me. And who is she to judge her second hubby not a good guy material! She is obviously something wrong with her brain!! Do u think she is in a position to say that? Even her child don't like her. Pot calling a kettle BLACK isn't it?

David David Please dont’t try to use idioms to make yourself seem smart because from the way you talk you’re pretty much uneducated. “She is obviously something wrong with her brain!!!” Hmmmm

Lebron James, dont u try hard to impress the lady's here too. It's seems to me u hv problems understanding Wat I meant. But it's ok, I know guys like u will do anything for a women. She already had mention when she saw her first hubby the first time. The first impression wasn't a good one. Don't u think this video is release a bit too early for her own gd? In her position, do u think it's logical for her to comment her hubby like that?

Vicki Dewi Don’t bother with the sexist bastards here lol. I’m pretty sure they are guilty and hence trying to defend their own kind. Conveniently forgetting the fact that they also came out from a vagina.

Contraception ftw!

Noor Imelda Elle making mistakes continuously and talking about it doesn’t make you brave nor courageous, it just makes you an inept simpleton.

Noor Imelda Elle - I agree with Master Debater to a certain degree. I do admire her resolve and her courage. That she decided not to abort her children. However, I think we as viewers can also take another lesson from here (not judging her but something to discern), we need to learn from our mistakes and stop making them. In her situation, the children may have grown up in a broken family. A sound family structure is important and we should try to our best to form it (sometimes it cannot be helped like when a parent passed away or something). By the way, she is staying in a semi-terrace right? At least I don't think she needs to worry about a roof over her head. Anyway, all the best to her. Hope her current husband will cherish her.

Nicholas Lim hello nicholas no worries. i do understand what u mean. liked i said everybody is totally different in terms of attitudes and thinking. i am really glad that u do respect my comment and also joyce's decisions. i also do respect your comment and opinion. yes of course nobody in the right mind want to keep on repeating the same old mistakes again and again! but in joyce situation like she said she married her first husband cause she was scared that she will never be able to meet any guy! so i think she do learnt from her first mistake not to rush when making decision like rushing to get marry.

Thanks Imelda Elle - as I said, I do admire her courage and resolve. It shapes her outlook of life. I'm also glad she finally understood the intentions of her mother as she is now one. It also took me years to finally understand my father...alas, such realization at times are always too late. Anyway, thumbs up to both you and Joyce :)

Nicholas Lim no problem. by the way i am a muslim and an unwed single mother myself. my son is 18 years old.

Caramel LatTAE thank you, I Will tell my mum

Caramel LatTAE ARMY

Caramel LatTAE Yass NCT MARK as your profile even though Im a #LUWOO stan lol

Fion, cos she has money.

The kindred Soul it’s not the woman’s fault the child won’t know the father, it is the fathers fault, lmao, what dumbassery. So a father for example is in a relationship, leaves the mother pregnant but decides he actually can’t take care of the child he gave a hand to bring into the world, leaves them, but it is the mother‘s fault that the child won’t ever know the father... sure... talking about real idiocy here, congrats. Maybe hold fathers responsible for once too. If women make the mistake of getting into relationships with the wrong men which leads to sad children, then men make the mistake of not using condoms when they know they are shitty to begin with. It would be nice seeing those fathers owning up to their shit, instead of leaving the children behind, so mothers don’t end up trying to raise them without them, and for people like you to stop blaming women for decisions that were purely made by fathers that are an entire mess, irresponsible in a way bigger sense and cowards. Sometimes when you meet people, you won’t know their real self until very late, you might never even learn them at all, not every person is an open window and not every person discloses everything about themselves, same goes for men that end up with women that treat them horribly.

... No . The first one can be understandable ... But she's still stupid for that . The second she got pregnant to keep a man . She said it out her own mouth ! Are you dumb ? The idiot was still going to stay with him until she decided to then wake up and be like he shouldn't touch our kid money ! He shouldn't touch her money either ! She shouldn't even be by his shady self ! That in general was endangering the kids and involving them ! Then she got pregnant AGAIN on PURPOSE for a FANTASY FAMILY with ANOTHER guy . The chick is retarded . Crap .. The furst was probably a crappy guy that gave signs for the first child yet she's just dumb and pathetic .

Kent Leong ok lah. Husband can afford a landed property, rich enough to fool around. And time to settle down. Maybe a divorced man himself. So cannot ask too much. No background info.

True.... nevertheless...respect her determine of moving on...Happy Mother Day and nice aspiring story

Kent Leong in real life no such man exists. Maybe 1 in a 100. Probably some ulterior motive. Anyway just my 2 cents opinion. People don't change. If she finds happiness or true dedication from this 3rd guy then I w say congrats to her as she will b the lucky 1 percent

Her current husband is probably crazy in love with her. With her past and all the negative things she have done, it would be really hard for any guy to accept it. Not a wife material at all.. Thats the reality.. I dont mean to be rude, but yes.

Adit Jonathan what about determining wife material by if they can make a good wife? Not their past, women like so are often uneducated, do they not deserve a second chance and having the right to be in love with someone just because they aren't pure little sheltered fairies and that somehow determines if shes wife material or not, not even single man is going to shun every woman away for not being a cookie cutter

Ibrahim Bin Mahfuz hello ibrahim u are so kind for giving such comment. how i really wish that ALL malay guys can have the same attitudes and mentalities like yours. semoga allah selalu berkati orang yang baik hati macam u amin

the fuck triggered mcnugget, i wasn't condoning or glorifying her "slutty behaviour" at all lolol i dont think her actions in the past were the best, but its her life and her choices, and i'm just expressing my respect for her being so strong and raising her kids? how did whatever i typed make me a feminist LOL ok you are dumb as fuck

+richard kanna what a hypocrite you are. so the girls are deemed as “slutty” but the guys are not man sluts as well? Lmao enlighten me

+Aurora lmao this guy is sure dumb as fuck I’d love to see him say all this unsupported crap in real life

lilacwaters ikr his stupidity is actually damn entertaining now LOL keep talking shit pls richard kannasai!!! Bc I bet you’re a lonely guy who doesn’t have friends hence goes on KZfaq to spew nonsense aw

richard kanna maybe next time when you wna rant you can consider working on your grammar to at least make yourself look credible :)

redattractattention true words. And she did actually the right decision with her second husband.

+Chigozirim Ifebi because she got over them, and fixed them. -.-

Ani Nur Mariam same goes for me babe 😀 i was 17 when i gave birth to my son without any financial support from my ex! now i am 35 coming 36 my son is 18 today. i think is BEST that way we didn't ask for any financial support from our exes so that we are not TIED with OBLIGATIONS! there are some people that i know like my colleague and friends who said that i am STUPID letting him getting away so easily! is ok people can assume or think whatever shit they want as long as we are not hardup for mens' money! and by the way those PEOPLE out there they really don't know anything about our exes so IF really your ex and my ex are really nice guys WHY we girls CHOSE not to marry them?! WHY?! Why did we CHOSE to go through this BURDEN?! But unfortunately SOME or MOSTLY people they don't and will never think like what i just mentioned.

Congrats, you denied your kids a father! Stupid

Deb Clato my ex also denied his kid! he left me when i was pregnant! please for fucking goodness sake u don't know anything don't anyhow accuse! why u GUYS only know how to pinpoint your finger only at us WOMEN?! u said we are STUPID for denying our kids father! and what about my ex who left me when i was pregnant?! THINK before u want to say something! yes it takes 2 hands to clap but why is it guys like to leave the girl when she is PREGNANT?!

It's not an easy job to raise a kid. Seriously it's easier to work than raise one.

Christina Yu Exactly, people here expect a “perfect family” but yet the perfect family is the loving and caring one. Doesn’t matter if you have two fathers or half-siblings, they are still family. People just enjoy pointing out the flaws of other people because they want to feel better about themselves. Very selfish.

Strong & gold digger.

@@felixchandra8493 I dont care if she is a gold digger or not. And how would you know? Love is mysterious... she might have had fallen in love with that man and was reckless. Besides the point I am trying to mention is her attitude is inspiring and not whether she is a gold digger or not.

got meh, i never see anyone bash her ar

@@randomperson5826 that's how karma works ... in the past he often cheated and hurt men, until there was no such thing as love .. this kind of woman usually demands a lot of material & always cheats when her desires are not fulfilled ... no wonder a man will leave her. I have met women like this very often ☺️.. So, stop talking bulshit now

Did her husband gave birth when he is 18? Don't think so...

giving birth at 18 deserves being a hero? Must be a forced decision with a gun to her head. boy you singaporeans must love paying taxes

Jeez dude, do I have to explain every minute thing to you? Take into context that she got pregnant at 18 and look at her now. Despite everything she got married to a good guy and became a good mother. That is what we should be proud at.

jeez dude thats nice that she finally got her life and shits together now, I hope it doesnt take a 4th baby to do so. What is there to be proud of and inspirational about again? it is her responsibility to take care of the lives she chose to bring alive, well that and your tax money. Now if this video is about raising awareness on family planning and birth control...

i never called her that, you did. I too think it's great that she didnt give up but that's what she's supposed to do to be responsible and take care of the lives she chose to brought to this world. On the other hand, this video is misleading to the irresponsible youths without ever mentioning about birth control or rational decision making. Not everyone can be that lucky like her ended up marrying a rich guy and live in a nice big house.

Heck That when there is a will there is a way. My mum had little education and lost almost all her saving to an ahole and my bfather but she took on job and took care of me and my sister. Landed property... You know it might had been her husband. Not having money is a bad excuse to have abortion. Just saying.

To each his own :) Just my thoughts on a point to consider when deciding.

Heck That, this is Wat I was thinking, I don't understand why they use her as an example!.

Ukiringo Freeze, wether the landed property is hers or not, I still don't see the point of this video. But I strongly believe it's hers, I hv know a lot of women with kids, not as lucky as her.

if dun wan kids... dun simply make loves. i knw its hard to b rational. bt simple logic la