Its simple. If she flakes,just go ghost on her. Dont try to communicate with her anymore. Move on.

The first time a woman cancels or gives an excuse not to see you then you need to drop her on the spot. Its already not looking good. If a woman likes a guy, she will find a way to see him 7 days a week if she can. If a woman says "no i got cooking class tonite maybe next week" that is her telling you yo buzz off. If that same girl liked you, she will say "yes, come over tonite, my cooking class ends at 730". If a woman says no to hanging out even once then it means youre very low on her radar. So low that you need to back off asap. By backing off and dissapearing, you hold your dignity. You will eventually become an object of obsession in her mind....you have now put a woman in your pocket. Your radio silence is putting her in YOUR pocket. So now youre talking to 3 new women for a few days and BOOM, that other girl texts you. Shes still in your back pocket. Dont even bother asking her out. YOU have all tge power now. Let her ask you out. Respond hours late. This is how you create attraction.

Almost 3 months NC. Flaking is disrespect to me. Cut contact immediately and talk to other women. How can a chick respect you if she knows she’s the only option you got. Great vid Chris.

Instead of chasing the same woman. Approach new women.

If she cuts contact she IS not coming back. You have to be emotionnaly strong and go to see another woman

That’s true. When girl is flaky, go away.

After watching all these videos I'm starting to think that women are a lot more afraid of relationships than men.

12 years no contact. She'll be back soon...

so the number one rule is to never double text send one message and leave it

Basically not caring is the key to attraction??

In my case they never reply back, ever. Some I see again but I never talk to them. Then I just lose interest.

These women do this to their friends too

Perfect timing this video thanks Chris

Follow up messages is like begging

She initiated a date on Saturday 630. I asked if it was still a go. An hour later I gave up. I’m in day 2 of radio silence

love this channel

Without you I am lost 😎

Great videos always on point, but I have suggestion. How about you talk about a relationship that's been going on for five years? Like how to keep the flame lit or helpful tips.

Your video help I lot thanks 🙏🏽 god bless

Well said

Exactly!✨💫

In principle, I agree. In online dating however, especially for a new match that you haven't met yet, you need to follow up otherwise you'll never have success. That's just the fickle nature of dating apps. Once you have met, I agree that you should not send follow up messages for subsequent dates. If she doesn't reply, she's not interested. Move on.

Good afternoon coach!

This happened to me. How do i get her back??? She is not responding to my messages. I did let her know that the door for future contact is open and that she can message me when she can.

Thanks chris

great ❤️

I think it's good to also PREpare yourself just incase it doesn't happen. Even if you say to yourself, if we don't go out today, I'm happy to chill at home, treat yourself to a takeaway or something. It's what I did the other day with a girl, I told her to meet me after I finish work. When it got to the day, I said yo myself, would be nice to see her, but if not I'm heading home and getting some food . So after I finished, I saw a msg she had sent saying" Damn it" " you should've reminded me to meet you after work" I just responded saying , I've just finished work, and we can do it another day. I actually wasn't too fussed bc I was fine going home and chilling out, had been a long day. She responded " yeah maybe another day xxx" i didn't day anything after that. The day after I ended up going to see Crystal Palace play, and posted it. Also, cos I see this girl at my work place, I just didn't go out of my way to see her, when I was leaving, I just said see you later as I was going. If they actually forgot or not, don't suggest another day on the spot, just be close ended, and allow her to reach back out, either suggesting another day, or asking you what day you would like to do it. Let her reach out in some sort of way.

Here's the deal. If she likes you, she's not going to test you or make you wait . In fact, she might even call you to set up a date . I've experienced this many times . If she doesn't say yes and actually meet up with you right away then move on .

Does this advice work for your wife as well?

The problem is you can't study these videos or have strategies. Typically I've watched these videos and it's been too late. I've waited on one woman for 5.5 yrs now. 5 1/2. Keep waiting? No it's been over and I've got 8 other examples. If you don't hear from them in a week you will NEVER EVER hear from them again. You'll think they are the one and want to die. Find a way not to. Once you are watching this video it's TOO LATE. You've lost her For-ev-ER.

I met this girl at a course, she flirted with me there and seemed into me. I asked for her FB and said I'd add her so that I can send her the details about this thing a group of us are doing next week, and she hasn't accepted my friend request yet. It's been 2 days. I'm not gonna try to message or add her to our gc or anything till she accepts. You guys reckon she will accept eventually or nah?

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so she flaked me once and asked me if we can tomorrow, and I flaked her the next day ( i was busy), what do I do now?

We used to talk daily at night but from last three days she is making excuses,what should I do stop responding to her text for a day is gonna work?

I feel like I'm chasing her. I'm gonna try this and I'll keep you updated. She takes a long time to read my text and she didn't even reply yesterday so. I'm just gonna cut contact

I am from India where you have to get married if you are committed to someone. I was committed since 8 years and now my gf left me. She said we can't get married. What should I do

What if she flaked but reached out the next day ? should I ignore her ?

when a girl flakes! get an ice cream instead!

She was good to me. She flakes cuz of her grandma. In last msg she flakes. N I said( ok no problem ) now 2 month had. Should I send d her anything ?

Hey Chris me and my girlfriend have been broken up for about 2 weeks and I've been watching your videos ever since then about how to get her back and stuff like that my question is how do I get my girlfriend back because I've seen your videos about the no contact thing but it's kind of hard because me and her have a kid and we switch back and forth with our child so how do I get her back and how do I make her miss me

Forget about these altogether. 9 times out of 10 these are a complete waste of your time. Save your time and attention for the ones that are motivated to meet from the start

Always move on, my own experience! a mother of a long time friend of my parents, she even took care of me when I was 2 years old, wanted me to meet her daughter to talk about my experience as an educator. I'm a special ed teacher, been an educator for 5 years now. Anyways, I graduated from the university of southern California and so happened that her daughter was graduating from that same university as well. Her mother pretty much gave her daughter my number to meet up, she even said to my mom that she hopes I'll get to meet her daughter and possible date. Well! I initiated contact and set up a coffee meeting, pre COVID19, she canceled. Fine, we were about to set up a future meetup, but COVID19 lockdown occurred. Well, we've been communicating on and off, I even suggested to meet via cam. No replies to my suggestions, all while I was trying to meet this "flake," I was trying my luck with online dating. Met a wonderful intelligent woman on it, she's very pretty too. The flake was a gorgeous woman, but I'm not putting up with a woman with flakiness. As for the current lady, We've gone out and gotten to know each other the last month, even with COVID-19 going on! See, if a woman is into you, not even a pandemic will stop them from meeting you. Don't get me wrong, I'm still using dating sites just in case. LoL! For now, I'm having fun getting to know the current interested lady. :)

Im not waiting 3 weeks. dafuq lol. middle of week two of excuses, NEXT.

Its not about women. Its about some people. I am not like this. I like when man gives much attention. I dont like a man who does nothing and just waits me to contact him. This is really unattractive. I feel like he is afraid, or he is not so attracted by me. So please dont put everyone to the same place. People are different. On the other hand a lot of anxiety also pushes me away. These is always a golden mean to pursue.

Its so annoying I've been talking to this kerry for the last 3 years on and off and we have so much in common and banter on fb messenger and always talk about meeting up, Yet when the time comes or we set a date she goes quiter as that date gets closer or will be offline all day so frustrating because I just know if we had a 10 min coffee at Starbucks we would end up seeing each other all the time. Life goes fast so annoying 😂🙏